How to Beat a Narcissist in Court
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How to beat a narcissist In court
Are you getting ready to go to court against a narcissist and you want to know how to beat or destroy them? Whether you are dealing with a covert narcissist in court or a narcissistic rage in court, you will want to know what steps to take. In this video, I address how to deal with the deposition of a narcissist, how to expose the narcissist to others, and how to handle and deal with a narcissist successfully. If you want that narcissist to lose in court, so you can move on with your life and survive that narcissistic abuse, especially if you are dealing with a narcissist in a custody evaluation, but even if is just divorce or a business situation, make sure to check out this video first so that you are fully prepared to win.
đWhat youâll learn in the webinar:
The 3 empowering secrets you need to take back control when communicating with narcissists.
How to develop a winning, foolproof strategy to drive the outcome you want out of negotiations with narcissists.
How to be more powerful, persuasive and confident when negotiating with narcs.
What to say in negotiation and how to say it so that you can beat narcs at their own game!
How to anticipate what the narcissist will do and be two steps ahead of them at all times.
About Rebecca Zung:
â Rebecca Zung is one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a âBest Lawyer in Americaâ, as âLegal Eliteâ by Trend Magazine, and recognized by her peers and the judiciary as AV(c), preeminent rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubbell.
â But her journey wasnât always easy. She got married at 19, had 3 children and divorced at the age of 23. She was a divorced single mom when she decided to go back to law school. She went from being a single mom, college dropout, to becoming one the most powerful lawyers in the country at the helm of a multi-million dollar practice. She is now committed to sharing her secrets and empowering others to live their lives at their optimum level of success, professionally and personally.
â She is the author of the bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and is a sought after major media contributor.
â She has been featured in Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among others. She is the host of the popular show Negotiate Your Best Lifeâą which is available on CZcams and as a Top Podcast. She is also a frequent keynote speaker.
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What if I can afford a lawyer? I must represent myself
Learning about coparenting apps. Good tip.
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I think your ideology is more based on narcissism and it is functionality in the family courts
If you're going up against somebody with a mental disorder that has your kids why is it up to the citizen other than the quart to do due diligence and resolve whether that person is mentally fit to take care of a child
I WON MY CUSTODY YESTERDAY!!! Thank you, Ms. Zung! This is totally a worthy package of TACTICS.
You must feel amazing. What a weight to be lifted from you.
Congrats ! Going to court against my narcisstic in laws they believe theyre entitled to their son and i's child even after they physically assulted us and my sons terrified of them. I hope i get as lucky !
Halleluyah!!!!!! Pray for the same for me full custody no visitation
Congrats x
Proud of you:)
I'm a dad that battled a narcissist in court, and I got 90% of what I asked the court for. I was the petitioner, so I went first. When my lawyer asked me the routine questions, I gave detailed compelling answers. When her lawyer started asking questions, her intent was to "lead" me into contradicting my answers and misrepresenting facts. I didn't fall for it. They would ask me a question that I answered, but then I attacked the other side to draw a contrast. This is how you control the narrative and the judges perception. When it was her turn to go, my answers caused the other side to have to defend against my attacks, without knowing the real story. That ended up being a disaster for them, as the judge on multiple accounts got pissed at them. Attacking the other side works, but be classy about it. If you are going to attack the other side, the proper method should be to give examples of things that they did that were not right.
The judge ended up giving me nearly everything I asked for; Proof that moms don't always win.
Awesome. Are you to give an example on how detailed compelling answers and how you attacked the other side to draw a contrast? Thanks mate
I am not mentally ready to think of questions my brain is jammed due to abuse
@@4dscdriver thank you for this message, i was feeling hopeless yesterday fearful of the world I was in and that I'd lose my daughter to her abuser. I needed this message
@@gemz2jewlez355 just be careful. These lawyers like trying to twist things.
My ex came undone in court. He pointed his finger at the magistrate and told him how to do his job. He told the magistrate that Im just a woman who has no rights. I didnât have to do or say anything, he dug his own self righteous grave.
I hope it all worked out well for you
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If he said that youâre a woman who has NO rights, heâs a CHAUVINISTâïž
I'm in Canada; I just won my case doing exactly what you are saying, took a long time but towards the end, I got them off my back..the hardest part, I am not a Narc and I had to act as a cold stone b**
Ive been going back and forth to court for almost a year and he keeps bs'ing. Switching lawyers and what not. Im so over this. I dont even wanna go to court anymore.
@@btfields323 I just read your note. I encourage you to fight.
Good job! I am going after my child support. I was wondering how you found your lawyer to be? Were they honest with fees?
@@btfields323 I'm on my 4th year with my x narcissist in court....
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Itâs easy to get caught up in shining the light on the other personâs misdeeds but stay focused on your business
You know its actually worth studying how they fight. Most will not acknowledge your accusations against them before immediately charging you with something first. I have seen several immediately manipulate their way out of criminal charges that were supported by video and picture evidence. When asked how they plead they immediately went on the attack of the other party. Never addressing the charges against them. Judges sometimes get sucked in early when this happens. I think its more important nowadays to learn about mental health issues and behaviors and present the behaviors to the Judge in court. Motion for psych. evals early on and support the motion with lists of behaviors. Also of extreme importance is using language that calls into question the Narcissists " Lack of Insight". This makes Judges aware of this issue and more or less asks them to scrutinze for it during the hearing. This" Lack of insight" argument can not be taken lightly and It is extremely powerful.
@@nonarcsense manipulation is their game
Scale how do you do with an attorny that sees no need for evaluation even when I filed for epo!??emergency protective order and now he has some so much damage to the kids. Iâll see you Tommorow and doesnât show up. We live in a 50/50 state and he wants them last time I checked (as you know they flip
Flop!!!) he only wanted them on weekend for 4 days a month.
Rebecca Zung, Do you have any tips for going to court where the narc is fighting a protection order?
HOMEFIX-Youâve obviously never dealt with a narcissist and are clueless about the craziness they bring
How does my sociopathic narcissist always get away with looking like a victim where she is the one doing all the horrible things she is trying to assign to me.
mybestideas1,You look cute đ·,Hope you are not with a narcissist!
I am in the same situation :( my ex always poses as a victim, i'm the villain...and so far he is getting away with it...
She is getting away and will continue to get away with it because she plays âvictimâ in front of everyone and is the aggressor behind closed doors.
Unfortunately you will âlooseâ in the beginning but you will win in the end because society doesnât believe that women can be that cunning. You just have wait patiently for them to see for the mask to fall off.
The narcissist is proned to video tape though. Their tactic? Create drama off camera, then record the re-active state of its victim. Please, do educate yourself on re-active abuse. The narcissist always turns tables.
Yes...totally on point....mine used multiple phone numbers and emails ....he would send provocative text msgs from multiple phone numbers during an argument...or he used emails to start an argument and when I engage he change to text msgs....I felt like I was dealing with the Joker character....
My soon to be ex-husband , has been doing this for 13years
Yes! He has done this to me so many times!
Exactly
Very true as this just happened to me. My sons grandma showed up to my house and blocked me in so i couldnt leave my own property to avoid a fight so grandma started yanking my car door handles trying to take my son so i started yelling at her bc i dont play games about my son and she had a neighbor record from across the street but only after i reacted to her trying to legit snatch my son and shes an alcoholic so idk if she had been drinking either way grandma is deff a narcisstic and she did exactly what you just said . Flip that mf script .
$32,000 in legal fees, Been to court just one time. Multiple contempt filled against me to run my legal bill. Have 5 children all by myself with monthly child support of less than $450 which comes in late and has not paid since last month. My Attorney dropped me because I can't afford paying him anymore. I have mediation in May. I just have to go pro se. It is very exhausting but family court is blind to see this high conflict people.
Oh wow, that is just terrible!
@warrior woman look up the Proper Person on CZcams. Alex went pro se, against someone with a personality disorder, and has a LOT of self help free information for how to fight yourself. Very good. Best of luck!
Perhaps you should consider changing your online name. Warrior Woman comes off as combative, and the opposition will often look up your online activities.
Dear Ma'am, I am so very sorry that this has happened to you. I live in Grand Junction CO and my attorney was Sharon Sturgis; she now lives in Denver CO. I was only charged $4K and she was worth every penny of what she charged me. $32K, How on earth can/did you pay for this, no wonder people run off with children!
How are you doing?
Using video is so smart. Narcissists try to get away with everything...but if caught on video...they canât deny it! đ
@@RebeccaZungEsq in. My experience, actually, they can and do!
They'll deny it, but who cares? It's the rest of the sane room vs. one mental person in their own little world who makes up their own facts even in the face of damning and solid facts. I don't give a single gosh darn if a literally brain damaged jerk can't see it or won't own up to it, I'm just worried about what's going on in the real world.
I have seen a narcissist lie about being identified on camera. Believe me, I thought long and hard only to realize my ex-husband was psychopath.
My narcissistic ex is trying to avoid videotaping and judge is always helping him, because narcissist is showing himself to the judge as a victim, so the judge ordered - no videotaping
@@mvladalenav Just keep it cool.
Thank you for sharing this information. Most of us nice sweet empaths that find ourselves in these traumatic situations would have absolutely no idea what to do, or how to do it. Thank you!
Great advice! Thanks. The narcissist is very dangerous and sly. Fight back!
I've been filled with despair, feeling deeply depressed and alone, and on the verge of insanity. My trust in everyone and everything (even my own thoughts and reality) has been smashed. Your videos have restored my hope and help bring me back from falling off the edge into insanity. Thank you so much †You're my hero
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Thank Goodness u didnât fall off.. because thatâs what they want you to do.. u still need to stay on your toes!!
The narcissist doesn't want to look bad,.... kinda like how they say " i don't believe in therapy" wonder why that could be
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Tomorrow morning at 815 am in California, this have a custody hearing! My ex of 11 years is a prime example of a narcissist! These videos and the ones done by De. ramani have helped me tremendously in my own mind body and soul! I just hope that tomorrow I remember how to stay calm and control myself and not let my ex gaslight the situation at hand!! đ
Hope everything went good đđżđŠ
I'll pray for you but please be prepared for the worst I'm sorry as it happened to me I really thought cause I was the mother that he wouldn't get temporary custody and I have my son Friday Saturday Sunday and Wednesday 5050 custody.. but he won't let me see my son as I won't get back with him....
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I do appreciate you and the others who detail/ talk about/ give pointers on how to handle narcs. Iâ ve experienced both (male & a female). Fortunately I had surrounding evidence (workplace full of people who saw thru them, or experienced their bs first hand). These people alerted me. So when the narc (the female, she taught me everything I know about narcs - unintentionally on her part) saddled up to me. I knew that they like drama, scenes, arguments (done publicly if possible to make the actual attacked party look crazy, while making themselves look sane). So whenever she did something to get a rise out of me. I would act as though I never got her message(s), or actions. I would act as if she hadnât performed any action at all to rile me up. Messed with her big time, not intentional on my part. She would do things to me and them come to work and watch me for a reaction. She would always be around others in a fake normal conversation hoping I would come up to her all hopping mad while she looks all innocent (like Iâm just attacking her out of the blue). I just remembered she liked causing scenes and just avoided them. Also I alerted some of my co-workers as to what was going on between us and they were able to keep us apart (work in different areas). Also from the problems she where she painted herself as the victim I was able to put two and two together to figure out to hold onto stuff/ things that she sent me and to bring them up nonchalantly in conversation....hmmmmm, just like she would. Iâm not a narc but I definitely used their own playbook against them. Again whenever she lied I didnât confront her (she would know I was onto her). I just made a mental note and kept it in mind when dealing with her.
Thank you for your great information. Everything you have been talking about in this video and one of your other videos is so spot on.
Thanks for sharing. Keep everything in writing is key!
Great video Rebecca! I love your tough love approach!
Thank you very much for this video. Very informative.
Thank you for putting your expertise out there for us regular folks.
I followed all your guidelines preparing for almost a year and when we got to the court in front of the judge my lawyer totally chickened out. On top of that I finally realized that not only my ex is a narc but my lawyer as well. That made me sick from my stomach. Right on the spot I decided to settle for less that half of what we were aiming for just to get that scumbag out of my life, period!!!!
Be careful with male lawyers...a lot are narcissists...
This video is direct 𧚠dynamite! Amazing strategies on preparing for success! My biggest takeaway: document, document, document!!! đ„đ„đ„đ„
Fantastic video Rebecca
It's really awesome to get this type of advice from a legitimate top 1% thank you
This is really great information! Thank you for sharing this!
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Yes document everything!!!
This is Brian Kim Keenan. You are a real Gem! You are very professional and mature and factual. This video is essential to anyone facing off with a narcissist. Absolutely the Best. Thank you so very very much!
@@jackpetersen7545 first of all, you didn't read the comment.
Secondly. Are you crazy? Get off the stuff
These are very interesting videos. Great job!
I just purchased you latest book. Loved your first one!!
Thanks so much for your tips all of you guys, today was my appointment because of our daughter 1year 8 months old, My Narcissist ex husband really messed up with his behaviour that the judge told him that he needs counselling to learn how to control his anger, first of all he came late to this appointment, his lawyer had to call him, his excuse was he thought the appointment will be at 14:00 instead of 13:00 German time, he was so disorganized, etc....
I proved him wrong with so many evidences, I thanks the Almighty, am so relieved right now.
I think this is Rebecca's best video đ Thanks a lot
You explained this topic well!
Thanks for your wisdom and compassion,god bless you! Robert
Rebecca
You're amazing and so helpful! Thank youâ€
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This was very informative and easy to understand. As a victim of the Albany County Family Court in New York, specifically Judge Margaret Walsh and Judge Richard Rivera, who don't recognize, believe in or understand Parental Alienation, I haven't been able to have a meaningful relationship with my daughter for over 4 years. Jurists like these are why so many fathers take their lives each and every year due to family court decisions.
Thank you for the work you do.
Please take the names of the judges down. Only for your sake. That's so risky. Good luck and don't ever stop fighting for your daughter đ
Another awesome vid and tips! Keep everything in writing.....emails.... keep video of their behavior.... Love these tips!! Also to focus on keeping your cool since the narcissist will try to upset you. I definitely have to keep conscious of this when doing counseling with someone that has a personality disorder like narcissism. Thanks and take care! :-)
Christian Lamb Inspires these abusive people drop out of therapy or donât go typically because itâs ya not them. Mine would not even go to the shrink for our children as he doesnât belvie in it.
Christian Lamb Inspires oh and he needed up cheating on me with another psychology major! He loves us psych majors and she is in social work! đ€Ł
(Itâs only when you surround them from all angles they will try start conversation with you and probably a settlement) ... 100% true, Iâve seen it happening in front of my eyes, and thatâs when I started dictating my conditions which they had no room but to accept. Thumbs up đđŒ Dr.
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OMG that sounds AWESOME! So happy for you.
( they are so arrogant and won't give an inch right up until the end when they are surrounded. THEN they want to talk and make settlement. ) So annoying.
You give good advise. thank you. t
Thank you Rebecca, you are on pointâ€ïž
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Reb..I became a fan. Thank you.
Thank you for your videos
A woman on FB support group recommended your videos because theyâve helped her. Iâm so grateful for taking her advice and now for your guidance and encouragement. Thank you!
Sharon McLaren,You look gorgeous đč,Hope you are not with a narcissist!
@@jackpetersen7545 not anymore, thank goodness!
@@sharonmclaren6264 You are welcome.I am Jack from USA đșđž.You?
@@sharonmclaren6264 Which country are you from?
@@jackpetersen7545 United States.
Thanks for all of your advice. I appreciate it đ
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I did this in a hearing against and employer and PHRC..I answered the questions the proctor asked with short and simple answers...even when the former employer interrupted I use the opportunity to shut up and go silent. That put the proctor under pressure to take better control of the hearing. On the way out of the hearing my attorney said to me " I can't believe how professional you where in the hearing". I said that's easy when you are telling the truth ... I won with saying little and sitting still without figiting around ..
I agree this sounds good!!
God bless.keep up the good work.ive learned alot frm ur videos am advice
Thank you so much for this!
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Hi Rebecca this is what I really need, in two more days I will be going to court for the first time against my wife who is the abuser and I am a victim of domestic violence. I am seeking restraining order, I have a ton of documentation disposition but I don't know what they will ask me, so I will look at more of your material to prep. Thank you for the material you shared in this video.
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Thank you for your advice! My case is done! The key was, the actual truth. My team was organized and everything was well documented in chronological order. This included screenshots of texts and social media, copies of anything and everything possible such as financial statements, computer records, device search history, general data, bills, receipts, etc.
The narcissist could not fight the truth. In fact, in the end he actually gave in to all demands and looked physically defeated.
From my experience I would suggest anyone trying to divorce a narcissist (or any other) to gather as much information as possible prior to filing. Even if it looks like useless or unrelated information, youâll be surprised how it all fits together as a whole. The most insignificant looking receipt I found became quite important later on.
The narcissist will try to destroy/hide everything possible once you file. Beat them to it!
Thank you!!
Bullets are always the best way to fight a narcissist.
Thank you đđŒ
Unfortunately I am going for this at the moment. I am the UK the court system different! But a narcissist isn't.! Thanks đ
For those who might be a bit skeptical, don't be. She hit the nail right on the head with all she said. When I documented every encounter that I either suspected would be brought up in court or something I needed to bring up, I immediately sent them to my attorney. The encounters I documented were also in-person, so I was able to record audio due to us living in a single-party consent state. I had over two years of recordings she knew nothing about until discovery.
As a detective, I had to learn how to anticipate what the defense may bring up. That also helped a lot. As she said, PREPARE FOR BOTH SIDES. You can't focus just on the bad on the other side. You need to focus on the good on your side as well.
Mrs. Zung, keep up the great work and keep the videos coming.
Appreciated. Thanks you!
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đ Narcissists are such boundary stompers. Great tips for stopping them in their tracks!
Valentine Lister,You got a lovely smile đ
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wow! I wish you can be my divorce attorney! I love your drive and your knowledge. I am going trough bad times.- the judge set aside the judgment, he never wanted to talk about it and now that he lost he got an attorney.... then the judge said that he did the right thing and that he did care.... so we are setting aside the judgement.. Not fair at all.... so sad...
1. In writing, documents
2. Video and/or transcript
3. Focus on your own case.
4. Document document
5. Very thorough research
6. Keep emotions in check
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A very focused video with great strategies on being successful. I particularly like the idea of keeping everything in writing. This strategy doesn't just work for narcs, but also bosses! đ€Ł
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Perfect timing, again, Rebecca. Thank you. In an attempt to minimize attorney fees, today, I applied for paralegal positions at estate litigation firms. Any advice on how to negotiate lowered fees & representation as the firm's employee?
Thanks
Smartest thing i have heard get everything in writing i guarantee the narc won't wanna put anything in writing 100 percent so that's a huge red flag shows how dodgy they are đ
thank you
I have EVERYTHING MY Narc took 3 mortgages on our home. And now he lost his 130k year job. He is 13.000 in arrears for spousal support. And i have his credit history and he is running up credit cards and also he opened a Victoria secret credit card. That is for his girlfriend NOT ME!!! im so over his malignant behavior I've only wanted to communicate by email. He will not email me and wants me to text him. Well this is what he got (CRICKETS ) LOL I set boundaries and he ignored my request. I cannot wait until my contempt hearing. Im going to BURY HIM!!! Thanks Rebecca!!! You are AMAZING â€â€đŻ
Thank you Iâve been looking for videos like this for years Iâve been going through a separation with the narc for six years and itâs been hell. He blocked all my attempts at mediation because he doesnât want to give any kind of financial disclosure and finding a good lawyer is really hard And expensive
Here in the Uk the legal system works differently and so do the lawyers. Mine has not listened to what I have said he would do and now I find myself having to look for another one in the middle of a divorce for his abuse đź
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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Thank God there are many willing to help upon seeing how badly I was affected and the money spent on seeing professionals. We will watch what he will do or if he repeats his sharing. Many saw the videos. Will decide if this should be here or not later after consulting the legal advisers further.
They love to smile đ
Hey Rebecca, I thought of a possible topic that you might provide insight on. "Good faith". We know that a Narcissist wants to argue, manipulate and get their way. Where does the topic of "good faith" fall when co-parenting with this type of personality? When is it safe to discontinue a conversation when it becomes obvious that the Narc is not approaching it in good faith?
Can't thank you enough.
Moving on from drama, trauma and kaos
truly, on your "file it so it can be heard" I have done that, they set stuff over mine & I never get heard, also, I file Emergency motions, the Court deemed not an emergency, but he files something that wasn't an emergency, but the Court deemed it that way. I have everything, I have 12 plus inches of documents... can't afford help and they are railroading me...
I'm going thru this right now.
Can you make a video for teleconference court hearings please ?
I'm so scared of court after I saw how a group narcissistic individual's manipulated the whole court system... too late now, I don't think anything could put it right now .
My life would probably never be normal ...
God bless you friend
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I am in Sonoma County, CA. My Narcissistâs lawyer is pals with all the Judges in the Sonoma County Superior Court. In fact, they are BAND MATES in a band called âCourtâN Disasterâ. They all talk to each other about the case. I just asked for a TRO to stop the narc from TRAVELING OUT OF STATE multiple times with my son during Covid! By air! My TRO was denied but what do you know, all of a sudden he canceled his plans to travel with my son to Las Vegas for Thanksgiving. I told NO ONE I was asking for this restraining order, but that morning after the Judgeâs decision, the narc cancelled his travel plans AND THEN the next day quoted something verbatim I had written in my declaration. The only person who saw this declaration was the Judge.....
I screen shot all my messages and save them to a secure folder on my phone along with videos and pictures of any evidence .
My narc just gave me a protective order against me. All lies.
Christine Jackson,You look beautiful đč,You donât need a narcissist in your life!
excellent
One very sharp woman!
It's,called testimony by Video!
Less likely for them to be a jackass :)) I love your videos Rebecca.
Would love to hear a bit about Judgements- how to get your money back from Defendantâs. Thank you
"Leverage." I found an arrest record where my ex was arrested for possession of marijuana. I'm not sure why the court doesn't run a background check before parents even walk in the room so that they know the basics of what they're dealing with but I think it really did help me when I whipped out the page that showed he was arrested.
Thats not a horrible crime. Violence, fraud and child abuse are bad ones
@@cliffordkelleher0142 I agree it's not a horrible crime, but it helped me against a horrible, narcissistic, manipulative, raging, lunatic in the moment when I needed it.
How were you able to obtain these records? I have a court hearing and need a report
Thanks for sharing. Do English laws recognise, accept and respect claims against narcissits?
Gosh I definitely have been in such a heightened emotional state. The reactive abuse has been incredible
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Great tips but hope I never have to go to court! haha
Melania might need this information!
$250k in legal fees In less than 4 years and Iâve lost all custody and time with my 4 yo
Mae, The family court actually changes some law maybe you can get partial child custody.
One of the first things I did when I divorced my ex was fire my divorce attorney. Eight months later I had my divorce. I lost a lot but Iâm getting it all back
Thank you for explaining this wish I had seen sooner.... đ my hunger for learning seems to attract a never ending supply of narcissists in my path.
All I can do is just laugh đ€Ł
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You can screenshot text messages, on iphone press both the lock button and the home button at the same time for anyone that may not know. On other phones I don't know how it works. You may want to wait a couple days so that the date and time stamp are on the text message.
Just recently went through mediation with a narcissist & wow did he flip when I asked that he not use any guns out of the safe, illegal drugs & drinking while our child visits him. I only brought it up bc one of the MANY reasons I left was bc of his immature/irresponsible lifestyle that did not change as we aged. Shortly after I requested that those safety boundaries not be crossed , he started going on about how his family is united & his parents have been married for so many yearsâŠ..ALL of which had nothing to do with the safety issues of what I brought up. The mediator noted that & said she will pass that request to the judge & then rushed us off the call soon after.
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In my case for like 3 yrs he's lied I want him to loose his shit in court and show his rage instead he's taking it out on the kids our son rather. There's other stuff going Minor they pay for nothing or take to doctor appointments I'm focusing on the kids despite all the other stuff he's done to me I'm documenting the kids behavior and the neglect on his part how can I box them in I think I need to go to trail no choice It's been 4 yrs ago. Your tips are amazing my ex has tried to have direct contact with me I won't agree to it. Only recently I had to for Thanksgiving family was away I only agreed to drop off at my driveway no contact I didn't talk to him I looked out the window to see if he arrived that was it documented he bought a new truck. How is it hes able to a sign a lease if i have to apply for a loan I'm told he has to sign for school loan I'm like abuse there's no way we need to apply a different way. If I get a house I have to disclose. A court reporting I'm hoping he'll loose it in court I won the assets in 2018 he's raking back over it again kids furniture other stuff petty things in spite. I haven't heard from my lawyer I don't understand hows hes gotten away with this. I'm focusing on my case I need to print up more messages there quite a bit how hasn't he not be held in contempt and perjury I don't understand? He's actually lied in court I was blindsided didn't have the evidence at the time. He was late with drop off the only time I had direct 3 hours late he's often late dropping off to my parents place this is how we estange I don't trust him. My ex said he wanted to sudtle, but that wasn't true or the co parenting he only wanted to sudtle if it was only fair on his side which was to take the assets that I bought before we were married. Emotions in check really tough very avoid contact a good idea. I need to be prepared my lawyer hasn't done that It's crazy I know know the route he'll do in trail lies unfortunately and manipulation my daughter we'll be 12 in March he won't get a say in where she decides she wants to go to school she's getting to be old enough she doesn't know the truth tho hes done the smear campaign I haven't told the kids the truth about him I'm not allowed to say anything about him and he has and continues his behavior I know he won't stop his behavior even when we're in trail.