Why Women Find Most Single Guys Unattractive
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They won't a date a man who lives with his mother but they will date a man who lives with his wife and kids
100% true they called home wreckers.
What about his father? 🤔
Of course they can, there is a variety of mentalities and personalities that women have that you can see. I’ve seen one that didn’t mind I lived at home, since she also lived at home too haha. Women are human too, I’ve seen many mentalities from them being comfortable with anything you do to the asshole kind in where you’re talking about
Does living with a cat increase my chances?
LMAO
Eh. Older, long-divorced male here. I won't be getting married again. My choice. See no point in dating. See women as a liability. I have no problem attracting them. Women want what they can't have. I am the one disgusted by needy older women, and immature younger women. I have no problem being alone. I like my own company. I may be alone, but I am never lonely.
Amazing
Same here I don’t even want to be around them.
Bravo. Same here.
47, no kids, never married. I never really saw the appeal. I'm a natural introvert and find spending extended periods of time around others to be exhausting. Women as a whole are usually a colossal waste of time.
Their choice
So that's why women come from all directions when you're married and when you're single it's the freaking Sahara 😂
It's very strange, I mean, since I got married a year ago, women all over are calling me handsome whatever, and trying to flirt or get with me even though they Know I'm married. It's not cool.
@@blockaderunnerthey’re creatures of destruction.
@@blockaderunner careful. these jezebels dont really like u. they just checking if their seduction skills are capable of steal u from ur wife or not. they are more satisfied by breaking ur marriage than getting u
It's pathetic, I would not look at them!!
@@greatbuilder100Yes I agree!!! Single miserable women hate seeing other married happy women and they want to destroy that marriage.
I cold approached 2 girls today, got instantly and rudely rejected. Dating coaches always say it's fun, well I don't see the fun of it.
It's a numbers game
It is fun if you see it as a social experiment.
Just do it until you develop thick skin and don't care anymore
Stop doing it, you have a dignity and it's worthless.
@@dickfeynman7484 You are right. I think it's better to build your value as a person/man, and with good social status the cold approaches will turn more into "warm" approaches
Ironically, I'm disgusted by women that aren't dating me. 😎
😂😂👆💯✅️
GOOD ONE!
I agree 🖕 em
Be happy that they reject you. You won't get an STD.
I guess even I should start doing that now💪💯
So this is why I feel so invisible when i go out by myself
Don't be fooled about seeing couples out. Most of them are miserable.
@@js5189facts
Very true them couples might seem to be happy and in love in public !!! But who knows what goes down behind those closed doors…😂😂😂
Yes, if you're average. Ryan Gosling wouldn't be invisible if he was single.
@@A.S_Muncher exactly the other day I was at the restaurant and this hot chick was with her man and her little girl. And she kept gazing and staring at me over her mans shoulder. The eyes don’t lie she held that gaze and stare for a lot longer then just 5 seconds
Being single is the newest “ick” 😂
Being a man is the biggest
I'm single and happy.
I'm single 3 years now...trick is not to be needy or chasing women..do you're own stuff.
Every day of the week or what?
6yrs and voluntarily
Yeah. I've been growing an e-commerce business & doing marketing everyday.
Got to a point that nothing else was important and every conversation was me speaking strength into others and others wanting to match it.
Woman find it magnetic.
Yup. Then when they're 35 and have a body count 3 miles high they'll come knocking. 😂
@@Insight-music get in gym a bit .... Don't have to be strong shoot for a swimmers physique
Being single is amazing if your on your purpose and love your own company. Woman are attracted to a man who has boundaries and puts his purpose before them. Even if a man is not married, woman can sense a man who gets woman because of how he speaks and carries himself.
Its crazy but if your treat them like whores and put them in their place they love that shit. Woman like to test boundaries
I was married for 10 years, and I personally never noticed any different responses from women while wearing a wedding ring.
Me either I was married 11. The only time I got extra attention from women was when I started retention.
I did
I don't even wear my wedding ring but they somehow know I'm married intuitively and so they want me more than before.
You either were oblivious or you didn't carry yourself with any extra confidence. Did you consider your ex to be hot? Was she really into you sexually?
@scottverge938 my wife was hot, I wouldn't say I carried myself in any extra confidence, the sex was good but it was once a month with her.
We should appreciate Women as men. Its when you put them on a Pedestal before even knowing who they are that. Get you into trouble.
What's up brother's!
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Id rather just date someone when it feels natural and flows smoothly. I dont believe every man should be dating. Some people have different life paths and have other lessons to learn. Sometimes women can get in the way of things and block what we came here to do. And a lot of women are toxic. Im not saying all but a lot of em. And with facebook and instagram being a big part of their lives, they is a much higher chance of breaking up today than in the past.
That’s how dating works. If it feels like work from your end it’s not worth it. It takes 2 not 1
No.. it's all of them. 😂😂
My experience is reverse. From what I've seen most People in relationships get slopy and comfortable. They dress worse and become out of shape etc. While if you're single you are taking care of yourself.
This is true
Totally agree
What if a guy gets jacked while he’s in a relationship. Would your argument still hold true?
Fkg true, all women will leave at some point.. but when they are with you they don’t want competition. All of sudden, they want you to go to the gym less, not dress or look as sexy, just a whole lot of shit they bring… live your own life and never commit.
@@user-lf5yl1to5f It's not an argument. Is my experience both for myself (Yup I did get slopy and out of shape) and observing other people. And as far as your question, I would say Idk. Most people are not jacked relationship or not.
I think you either are attractive or not. If I was in a relationship, do I get more women than a young Brad Pitt who's single? and I'm excluding his fame and only basing this on looks
Weird I got married and lost all my money and got a bit fat. No woman wanted me to. Then I got divorced , lost the weight, could focus on work easier and made a lot of money. All these women wanted to hang out to get their share of my cash and prizes. They didn’t care that I was single . Not sure about this video.
This affirms my comment. It is a mindset thing. You honestly did not care about women and put some work in yourself and the magic happens. I think LFAs advice is only suitable on men who are lonely, rathen than being alone by choice. This is a huge difference he totally missed.
Society wants men to believe that they will be viewed as more "attractive" in order to promote marriages which obviously results in having children and generates future tax payers. It's an economical equation. If Chad is single he is even more desired by women than if he were in a relationship or married because it's a bigger challenge for women to make single Chad commit to one of them, when he can still freely choose than as if he were married. So in the end it all comes down to how attractive you are viewed to begin with. When an average guy has been single for years he will be viewed as if something is wrong with him or undesirable but if Chad has been single for years he will be viewed as picky, mysterious and noncommittal aka. a big challenge. When both men get married Chad will still be desired but he is not that much of a big challenge anymore. Women who chase after married Chads do it for egoistical reasons since they actually like being the side chick and don't want to change that. But the married average guy is barely anymore attractive to women after all every woman knows that most women settle and will marry someone they aren't that into, so they won't think there is something special about him.
@@walterforgern2211your'e right. Though basic average women think they settle when they are in balance with their partner.
I just thought of it as social proof. Having a woman or women in your life means you have been validated. It kinda sucks, but a lot of women will think there has to be something good about you if you have some form of relationship
Yes. You must be older. You're just getting all the fresh drop outs who finally feel they need to get married.
Just coming out of a 15 year relationship I decided to be single for the foreseeable future. I've noticed women checking me out nearly every place I go. Problem is I'm not interested in dating any of them. The system is stacked against men so I'll just grab my toys and opt out altogether. 😊
No women check you out dude, stop saying non sense
Facts
@@frblaze2😂
@@Joshualibbyy I mean the cap these dudes spew is crazy, can't stand it
you are a 🔔end !
LFA, I am an older single gentleman by choice & I noticed when I out by myself shopping if I strike up a very positive conversation with a woman, man! It turns a lot of a heads of other women towards me.
He is what we call a BS artist.
you have smashed exactly zero of them, we don't car how many girls you striked up conversations with
@@random19911004....have you never noticed this? Most men are complete Andrew Tate wannabees. As soon as you actually get a good heart and head on your shoulders and are thinking properly, y'know becoming someone a good woman would actually desire in a marriage, even complete whores want that, it means you offer and aren't a stingy sleazeball, not saying they won't cheat on you but they'll still be attracted to you.
They assume your like the rest but if they see evidence you can string a sentence together and are not desperate...that's like head and shoulders above the average guy, they will compete or not even just have actual desire.
Just become a good man and you may have a chance.
Ultimately they're hard to find like 1%.
It has been a few good years of not caring what women want they are no longer the focus at all,its time for me only !
Good choice 👌 your best companion is you
I couldn't care less if they don't find me unattractive if I'm single,better for me and my own sanity 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 what do they bring, nothing but misery that's why misery loves company 😂😂😂😂
True, for like 95% they only bring negativity, you have to be very lucky to find one normal, odds are against us
"The ones who say they don't care, usually do"
Sounds like a catch 22 that a woman would be disgusted by a single man when he needs to be single in order to look for a relationship. I have yet to meet one woman who doesn't immediately assume that a friendship doesn't imply a FWB. That's why I use the terms "genuine friendship." I don't even care about sex. I would value a friendship more than anything. If that turned into a relationship, that would be even better.
Thank you for your insight
Marriage isn't for everybody. Look for women who want to have a family.
me too. I have accepted that I am invisible and after a while it becomes painless
I'm addicted to your videos. Great background noise while I work.
Informative!
If you are single and out alone, and are truly content, it will come off of you. People will sense it. Thanks again for making time to shoot the sh*t with us brothers. Happy Resurrection!
Thank you!!
When you're in a relationship, you're no longer anxious about sex and walk with more confidence, so you notice more women checking you out. That's all it is. If you're single and confident, you'll get the same reactions.
This is your best video to date.
Sir, I humbly believe your "take" or "assessment" here is spot-on in every way. Those who are emotionally secure exude it and can spot those who aren't. Those who've been "readied" for a long-term healthy relationship can spot those are aren't ready. Getting to know yourself is the most crucial first step. Most of us don't "find ourselves" until we take that solid personal and relational inventory first. Otherwise, we just jump from "warm body" to "warm body" and never get any further in life or in the intimate relationships we instinctually desire.
Happy Easter🐰
Go away this channel is for men
thanks for the talk, uncle LFA, peace
Another big reason why men quit dating is that we’re systematically undervalued and not rewarded at all.
Thank you for the video LFA. Oh yes they are! 😂
This is just a wonderful place for us fellows!
was married one time she passed away I have never been lonely in my life I am a sigma male and an introvert
Same here bro
Gang
This is great advice my brother. It’s always good to hang out with women and I think we can learn from each other
Your theory may hold true even for confirmed bachelors like myself. Women show some level of interest in me regularly, more so as I get older. Perhaps it is that 'stink' of desperation that drives women away.
Desperation is repulsive. I’ve cutoff longtime male friends of years for being desperate little puppies for women
As a man we’ve to become our own heroes. Embrace then crush the brutal reality. 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
Best video of advice I’ve seen on men so far in this space. Great video mate and I honestly believe this advice is special.
Really good advice , I will try it!
Im 35 yr old single male. Nowadays, it seems women are the ones in the weaker position always. Everytime I talk to one (real conversation, not shitty apps), it seems they freak out trying to impress me, and they even hit on me. This is not braging its real, and this didnt happened before the pandemics. Looking thought the other comments here, it really seems to be the effect of man going their own way and not giving a dam about women.
Bruh, MGTOW is a cope...
I agree with you, have absolutely noticed this shift as well. It used to only be single mothers who'd behave that way. But now it seems to be many of them.
What changed after the Plandemic?
how many of them did you sleep with
@@frblaze2 All of them
There are a lot of women around you. Just pick a puppy who wants you. If you have the mindset that you don't settle for less, then so be it and stay single. Nothing wrong with that. It's your choice. And this is true for women as well.
Very smart brother
If you're attractive, they want you immediately. If you have personality, you can make it work. That's as simple as it is.
Great advice 👍
For me this video is numero UNO !! Thank you very much! Good advice at the end....
Thanks a lot!
love the channel.
Great video very true thanks😂🎉
great stuff
Very great points! Thank you, i needed that. Whats the outro music?
For other things it's never too late, for this life doesn't give infinite opportunities.
Interesting,Never thought of it like that but Yeah I think you hit the nail on the head.
I think in my case women know I see right through them so they will rather avoid me. They know I'm not the type of guy to be jumping around them and entertain them.
Hell yeah brother 😎
Well said
You got a new subscriber my dude
I haven’t been on a date in 5 years!
Smart man!!
I think it is a mindset thing. If you choose by yourself to be alone, I think this is a whole different thing. There is a difference between being alone and being lonely! As you genuinely choose to be alone, and not for bitterness and frustration reasons, you have by default high expectations on women, just in case you contemplate a relationship; or more realistic: you just do not care! And this radiates, because this by default means you are not treating women in other ways like you would with a dude. This is the game changer, because most single guys are desperate and have not genuinely chosen to be alone, and therefore put women on pedestals, which you should not do, at all.
great content............ true content too
This has been true in my experience. In a 4 year relationship with my gf and when I'm walking down the street with her, I see many women smile or check me out. Even at the gym which I go to solo and they have no clue of my relationship status, I get smiles and stares from random women. I am 6'2" and fit which helps but when I was single, I was in even better shape and got way less attention. I think confidence and a lack of desperatation helps. I know I have nothing to lose and not trying to pick any of them up so they sense that.
Wow this pretty much described me.
Notification gang
Nice one brother. Lookin big too.
no gym = no options
Shitter options
Where can I get that shirt brother?
Very true, but very revealing about women, too. They are not that pure, as they think of themselves. If you look objectively, it is highly unmoral to hit on a guy who is married or taken.
Perhaps I'm missing the message, but I've had ZERO luck setting up any dates when they find out I'm already in a relationship!! 🤷♂️
You doing it wrong 😂
why are you setting up dates if you are in a relationship? let the woman do it, you are the prize
It's not rocket science -- It's also why they say the best time to interview for a new job is when you already have a job.
You have a sense of swagger, indifference, non-neediness, and that can attract ppl, out of sheer curiosity, if nothing else.
Gotta watch it tho. A little too much of an I-dont-give-a-sh1t attitude, and it can also push ppl away.
It is almost like women who see a single guy jump to the ridiculous conclusion that there must be something wrong with him if he is single, probably there is a reason, maybe nobody wants him, or if he was any good he would have been snapped up by now.
Social hierarchy is intoxicating, specially to women because of hypergamy.
Face the Reality women dont know what the hell they want
Because their minds are childlike. They want everything but at the same time that’s also boring, so they are perpetually dissatisfied.
They do, the just don't say it openly. All women want a hot guy who has some success if possible. Make no mistake about it
They want it all is the prob.
It s like how to get a job that requires experience, but you a beginner, simple character charisma and a positive attitude but the juice is not worth the squish .
I agree with you 110%
This is an underrated channel, and much better than the other "red pill gurus" online.
Unless you are chad
😂 Chad or Tyrone. 99% of me n are sexually obsolete in this day and age.
This is true to an extent. I’m in a relationship right now. I would notice it more in high school and old jobs when I was with a chick but even then sometimes when I was alone and not talking to any chicks at the time I think it just comes down to how you carry yourself and how your vibe separates you from other men tbh. Both men and women interact with you differently when you don’t really need anyone
I've always struggled with my self esteem, but it's funny how when i fake it and pretend like i'm the sh*t it works like magic and i notice a difference on how people react around me, like it's something i can turn on or off at will. I do enjoy my solitude tho, the less drama the better, and that usually means making your circle smaller, and sometimes a lot smaller.
I def got a lot more attention when single. Its just a different type of energy you set off to the world
I don’t wear my wedding ring in public. It was getting annoying. Idc how “hot” you are. I don’t feel like throwing my marriage away.
What’s up brothers
As long as I can just chill and have a cigar that’s all I care about. I don’t need friends I don’t need a girlfriend.
This is exactly why you must ENJOY YOUR TIME ALONE or spend time truly alone and with your own thoughts and feelings. So that you can choose your own company over toxicity
“ appreciate them for what they are “. No pedestals 👍
I got more attention from women when I became known on social media. I think it had nothing to do with whether I was with someone or not which they wouldn’t know anyway. I think it’s the mindset that matters. Guys with a girl feel more confident. If you are single, you can still be confident if you have things to be confident about.
I was married 20 years . Got more attention being married than single. It’s the craziest shit. I don’t wanna get married again though
Accurate
You have the exact same vocal cadence as Big John. Never noticed that until now.
Don't even go lookin for love ...that's a huge mistake ...just be so bad ass they come to you and then you can choose what you want 💪
To many women, a committed/married man is seen as a challenge. They feel if they can get that man, it's a major ego boost.
This is true, and sad as well.
Escorts will get you right. Just watch out for the opps
I feel for you gents in the USA with it’s crazy anti-pr0stitution laws.
Thank God I live in Australia where s€x work is legal, and that’s what I have been doing for the last 36 years (I’m too ugly for civilian women).
LFA is basically talking about preselection (women go for what other women want, or have) and the abundancementality (not beeing needy since you allready have a woman) that comes from it. There is some truth behind this, but the real underlying reason why women want you in the first place, is face, height, money and status.
Money/status is much higher up on their checklists than face/height, believe that. I've seen some ugly ass blokes with hot women because of their status
It sucks being single sometimes but man woman drain my energy and annoy me .
Having children or wearing a ring on the ring finger is like catnip to wahmenz .. hasn’t worked for me yet though 💪🏽
I don't have girl problems I just keep few in my circle & not tell them about each other so it works out great & honestly I recommend for most to do the same it will also filter what's real from what's not later on down the road & will help u see what's real or not later.
I guess I'm the exception to the rule. there is a major difference between being solo and being lonely. Being in a "Single" state has allowed me to achieve my goals and dreams in a way that i don't know if i could if i was bogged down and shackled to a woman that can't meet my level. but i do think the advice in this video is very useful for a lot of guys. but as far as myself, Heyy, im 6'2" with a lot going for myself and i turn down females quite often that a lot of other guys wouldn't pass on. i just won't spare any of my precious time if i have other goals to accomplish. hell, this even extends to a lot of my guy friends. when I'm on a mission, my time is extremely limited for others and i love it this way 😎 💪🏾❤️🤴🏾
I think its a combination of pre selection and what you said LFA.
Im single and honestly not really worried or needy . I'm doing for me I'm in a really good career that i love and doing well in every other aspect in life.