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I aint gonna mess with a taken girl even when she shows interest. That's just bad Karma and inviting misery to myself.
Huh ? All women have multiple men n their 'arena'.. attractive females have several hundred from 16-26
@@jacobthompson1288 you need to stop watching manosphere stuff. look at you lol
respect
@@jacobthompson1288"Multiple" MEANS the discussion of ANYTHING that entails "faithfulness" WHILE throwing her net out for ALL of them.... Understand that YOU are 🚫NOT🚫 "the ONE". 👈🏻One must get that right.✅
@@jacobthompson1288physically yeah but that’s such a turn off. Literally so disgusting. She’s for the streets. Ain’t ever gonna be happily married forever after, and they gonna be riding third wave feminism till the day they die.
Yeah I get nervous when cops are around even when doing nothing wrong
You get anxious for a potential threat. That's normal.
Only entertain women who are only choosing you
Exactly it's that simple
Had to learn that the hard way! Faxx
On the rare occurrence you happen to meet a good woman who is holding out on you because she legitimately respects her body, this advice is solid and actionable. Unfortunately in my experience, the women who were choosing me for a good while but ultimately decided to hold back on intimacy, we’re doing so as a manipulation tactic. Balance is key, as long as she doesn’t throw it at you immediately, and doesn’t make you work for it for weeks on end, you’re in a good place.
Maybe we should discuss manipulation tactics in a future video!
Lol.absurd.
Great point, James!
I would like the key takeaway from this video to be the phrase "If she's not choosing you, she's using you."
@@LFA That's a good one!
Haha. Normal , down to earth people advice 😂 That’s why LFA is so awesome 🤩 where you at? 🪼🪼
The slowed voice part was hilarious
My problem is that I never met women that I would deeply choose, I hung out with a girl, she seemed nice at first and I liked that she wanted me, she texted me to meet up and stuff, it was obvious. The more I got to know her the less interest I felt, and the red flags started coming in. She really looked up to me and said that she will catch up in the future she just doesnt have time for these thing right know (she is 18 still in high school), my hobbies, my knowledge she was curious about them. Later it turned out that she uses instagram and tiktok mainly 8-10 hours a day. No wonder she doesnt have time for actually interesting things that make you grow as a person. And the concerts the festivals, the things she did that were bad but didnt regret because she had to "live through" those to learn. I completely lost interest after that, I must not fall for the "I can change her" bs.
If she's hesitant,to get with you,it's because she doesn't want you.
Not exactly.
@@LFA telling dudes to wait around for a chicks who's "hesitant",is going to get him manipulated & is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY DANGEROUS.
Exactly. Wouldn't waste any time with people who play games.
@@Presidentharanguatang if a wamen is attracted to u,&u her,there is NO hestensy.If she is NOT attracted u may perceive it as her being hesitant,but that's just naive.&EXTREMELY DANGEROUS.
I hear your concerns.... This is my genuine response... If you don't have the social IQ to understand the difference between a woman who doesn't want you, and a woman who's choosing you, but hesitant due to butterflies, fear of rejection, or just strong boundaries, then you need to work on that before this will make sense.
No guys would take Serious on a women with a high notch count.that is fact and cannot be denied
Thank's LFA. Hope you doing well out there, brother
Much love and respect lfa , we appreciate your videos
Love that you dropped some honest gem besides the main point.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is *Victoria Lee hess*, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Hey man I'm a bit late but how are you holding up?
LFA honestly you must be the realest in this sphere,say as it is,no bs😊
This is by far your best video! Thanks brother!
LFA has objective/rational perspectives. Very helpful
The new style of your videos is definitely the future of your channel, keep it up I’ve been a subscriber since 2019💯
There are so many variables in this video I hardly know where to begin. She could be hesitant because she needs to build more trust first. She could feel as if her friends are judging her if they are around. She could be afraid to get hurt. She could be putting you on the bench hoping for an even more attractive guy to show interest. Maybe her life situation isnt right for a relationship even if she wants one. Maybe she thinks your hot, but what you stand for really goes against her political beliefs. Maybe you check all her boxes except physical attraction. If you are good looking or she is in love she will look past a lot of flaws, temporarely at least. I could go on and on for hours.
But remember this: Women dont want to choose, they want to be chosen by a man who is in a position to choose her. And if you overthink it, you will never be that guy.
Some things you can control, some you can not. Improve whatever you can, and interract with a lot of women, show respect, dont measure your self worth by how they respond. Dating is unpredictable and has its good and bad periods by its very nature.
If you focus on what you can give and not what you can get (i dont mean emptying your wallet) it will shine through.
Thanks for the time on the bench / worth it 🎩
Seriously! this is one of the best maybe even the best CZcams channel for men of all ages. you learn a lot from his body language alone.
LFA thank you always for your refreshing vids!
Great to see you LFA
Pump UP the JAM, the LFA way! That cop car was the demons trying to mess up this god mode video. One love big brother and to the LFA family♥️
I love you bro! The big brother we all need
LFA Always brings it
thanks man. wise words. keep walking.
No man this length was good. Some of the things you alborated on really opened my eyes and gave me different perspectives something I am horrible at seeing on my own.
I am so happy I started watching your channel again. You keep it real and call out these dating gurus that talk about hypergamy and female nature every other sentence. Life is too random to turn stuff into systems.
Facts 🎉
Please keep shooting the shit with me LFA, love your message and tone. I think more men need to be told straight up what women are really a dangerous investment of time and energy if you make a poor judgement
That’s some solid normal people advice 💯.
LFA.. I gots to get out there to OK country big dawg. I swear u my brother from another mother bro!
On point every episode, every time. Keep doing what you’re doing my man 😂👍✊
From South Africa love this bother thanks 😊
Great video, brotha! 😆
Great message, 🔥ambiance
Yeah bro I got nervous too when I was visiting San Diego from London, I was at the train station and these group of police officers were laughing at me at the other side so I trusted my instincts and left. It’s crazy there man
Lfa, i like that you alwayd buck the talking points of the manosphere and even the game guys. Says you think for yourself. My experience tends to also match what you're saying
Regarding "flaws". One has to understand that the love is in the "flaws". If you don't understand this and you start to fix the "flaws" you will end up in a situation of fixed "flaws" without love.
We love each others "flaws" more than the strenghts.
Im in Atlanta LFA ,a couple of ytube guys live here now..Love ya'll 🙏🏾
Needed this.
Thanks great job😂🎉
Dude you are hilarious, best red pill coach on CZcams. 💪
Riiiiiiight???
thanks for the wisdom
I'm 61 years old still going strong. I already had my family so I speak from experience this guy's right really everything that you needed to learn about women you learned in high school there are the good girls and 304 if a good girl makes you wait she's going to bring out the best of you. She's a 304 and can't see the flags, she will ruin your life. You get what you earn. Peace out
It’s not Good for a man to be alone true true
15:56 LMAO!! LFA you BAD boiii!!! Love it homie!
😂😂😂
😭😭😭😭
16:12
I’ve traveled the world and Charleston South Carolina still my favorite.
Hey I live in Myrtle Beach... Holler at me when you get here!!
Bro you’re hilarious man ❤😂
U young
Very experienced
U learned a lot
A little cocky
A bit of an ego
But
U doing a great job educating on a real level for any age group that is listening to u
Keep up your good work
And be good to yourself also
Agree with everything you said here based off my experience
Best advice about women summed up 8:13 love your channel
the only time i really get nervous around cops is when im driving myself and the cops are behind me. i could be driving normally, no guilty conscience, etc....they still make me nervous.
When that happens , your transmitting thoughts of guilt, they pick up on it.. stop it!
Great video! lol
You are awesome dude, like a unknown brother. I agree with what you said about manosphere these days. Redpill community has turned away from real life. In 2023 and bayond there's no time to look for cheap and fast hookups with bunch of women. Real flex is to find one good woman and stick with that. There are lot of rich people out there, how many of them have quality woman and people by their side?
Thank you bro
Thanks man
95% of the women that give me attention & choosing signals are married. I am always hesitant about moving forward to establish a good relationship.
That’s good, usually u don’t date married people.
Women tend to do this NOT because they like YOU, but to FEEL powerful. The fact that you or they are taken is only a buffer/safeguard that no risk of sex will be involved. Therefore they are aggressive and choosing most of the time but not always of course. Try wearing a ring next time you go out- you'll see
@@Was_los_Brudaunles you wanna die
I've had the exact same experience. Makes you wonder about the quality of the marriage.
Thanks!
Welcome!
19:59, i needed to hear this because sometimes when a girl is hesitant that was flirty before. I always end up giving my self every reason to give up on it even though deep down i know i shouldn't.
Ya always gotta be aware of a narcissist doing their love bombing to start out things…been there done that……just be aware fellas
It's similar to a game of chess. Not checkers. Gotta be doing the long game when she matters. Be cool LFA. You are killing it, brother.
New subscriber here, I'm Brazilian man and I like your videos, here in Brazil the situation is not good too
Your women are hot but they don't like me lol 😁
Great video brother!! Kept up with your channel like a distant friend over the years. 28 year old career, fit typically attractive exterior marine infantry combat vet now working in healthcare here! BPD is one of the better cluster B personality traits out of all em for having self awareness. Down to earth over here too man. I feel the same way about everything and your a comedian bro 🤣agreed Romance is secretly for us 💪♠️I'm in dallas. Hope I cross paths with you.
I can't help but notice that the guys arguing against this concept are all dependent on one PUA playbook or another. Here's the thing: women are people and you need to deal with them on a personal basis. Different women respond to different men in different ways. If a man has a problem with manipulative women gravitating to him and visa versa, that reflects on his character and psychological state.
To be blunt, a man who truly needs game strategies is a man who women were never selecting in the first place.
Is your camera new ?damn the quality is spot on.
Myrtle beach like Kenny mfing Powers !!! Haha, love your content LFA, been a fan for a long time. Divorce helped me discover you.
When a man is confident (not arrogant) you will exude something that attracts. Be yourself and let things happen naturally.
Dollar Bill Ken - Mess with the girl that likes you not the gurl you like. You Dig. Makes your world a lot easier.
Myrtle Beach would be a good time.
Describing your sisters are true. I agree. Ive dated girls growing up who had high body counts from high school to college and work places and finally settled down with a virgin girl. She is perfect for me and complete peace of mind. A girl who is a virgin and she is attracted to you like she wants to eat you from head to toe is the one you need to marry.
No fucking shit dude...water is also wet. Any other gems of wisdom? There aren't many virgin girls in the West, bro. Thanks for the hot tip though, big dog.
Where did you find her? 😂 i'm curious
Eat you from head to who? 😟….
@@LilXancheX huh?
Virgin girl is not always good. You never know how she gonna react to sex and may turn out to be one of those lusty nymphos and boom you lost her . Its a wake up for some.
You actually, get it. A lot of people be selling a dreams or what they want reality to be
8:15 exactly what happened. she initiat4ed 99% of our contact & meet ups. I invited her to dinner date, I said those words deliberately and she accepted, went well. In leaving again I said, when I am back we do more dates (was me literally testing), she then did the pull back, went what dates, we just friends etc etc. So I played it cool, made no big deal, she went quiet FOR A BIT, then when I am gone here she comes all over again with the same script! JUST LIKE A CAT, and btw the way, she loves cats so no surprise there.
many such cases xD like a chinese finger trap the harder you struggle the more impossible it gets
I feel the same way when a cop drives by, I always think in the back of my head that the cop will pull over and book me.
"sir wtf is this are you recording an illegal mens advice podcast on this street corner? "
No brother your not the only one that gets nervous,everybody gets the creeps when they see cops,
Ahhhh jejejejejeje,Tks for the information,
made me think of a girl I was seeing when I was about 14--15 in highschool, never got that kinda love again 😒
High school girls are nice. They get worse and worse when they leave high school and grow up into adults.
In my experience if the girl doesn't give it up on the first or second date, she's not that into me. And I don't even recall there being a third date after that. Waiting on weeks or months for end seems absurd. If you're naturally attracted to someone you're going to want to sleep with them and delaying the process actually has an opposite effect because you risk the tension sizzling out/one person getting disinterested or finding another potential partner. Things move so fast in today's market that if you don't escalate in time - the opportunity will go away.
If you are really that dude that she actually wants and desires then she will give it up within the first few dates, and all those ´´good women´´ LFA talks about turn into little wh00res real fast. You cannot be below 8 and expect any girl to give it up on the third date
Then you are attracting a certain kind of woman. I would never give it up on the first or second date, no matter how much I like a man.
Lol I've been flying right and still get nervous when I see 🚔🚓
We all want what we can’t have. Same goes for women
Happy hollidays dog!
mega point - she is either choosing u or using u., damn
Atlanta or Miami for sure bud. Lived in both
From 15:57 made me laugh out loud!!!!!!😂😂😂
I get nervous too lol
No your not the only one who gets nervous when they drive by lol. Just play it cool… play it cool 😎 lol
Haha you’re not the only one I get nervous too when I see a cop bro it’s “normal” lmao
Not been back here in a while. The cops must be thinking you're Sean Boswell from Tokyo Drift,I heard in Japan the movie is called 'Wild Speed'.
💯🔥
LFA is hilarious
I think that if she chooses you and makes it easy it doesn't mean automatically that she is a 304. She may be.. there is a posibility, but you need to watch her actions from that point on and see if she becomes available or not to other men while she's with you, that's how I see it.
That’s exactly what I’ve always said.
@@LFAYour content is next level, man! Thank you for everything!
100% a flag is a flag it isnt a label or the truth without a ton of context
@@CosminPerisanhe obviously doesn’t know what he’s talking about
If you come to Dallas Pedro offers his protection
good advice - if she isn't choosing you she is using you! 12:15
I have been seeing this girl twice in the last 5 weeks, based on the signs that she was giving me, I can absolutely say that she was interested. She leaned towards me when talking to me, maintaining strong eye-contact, she laughed at my jokes, and every time we saw and talked to each other, I could really see that her eyes really were glowing. And amongst many other women that I have met, this particular woman so far, has been giving me the most positive signals. But, when I asked for her phone number, she said "I don't give out my number" so I gave her mine, of course I'm not expecting anything. Any advice on this one?
honestly should have played hard ball and played it cool and not given out your number. Try to keep yourself on a higher regard than her to maintain any chance at all. Kind screwed yourself giving her your number you showed your hand and lost leverage. But also who cares dont worry about it. Its one of many dont put people on a pedestal is the most most important thing.
Yeah, agree with this guy. Should’ve just waited a little longer and maybe she would reconsider. Now she probably lost respect for you lol
Hesitate ? Become her real Boss !
9:40 I know what you mean brother. I'm the same way. lol
This woman has been giving me choosing signals for years and matter of fact just yesterday she messaged Merry Christmas and periodically messages me. I asked her out and she rejected my ass haha. I stopped messaging her and she still messages me periodically. I never experienced it before. She is wifey material. So beautiful. She knows exactly how i feel about her too.
Pretty much everything you explained. Never had a quality woman like her around or like her. She has made it known once she would date me but it didnt ever work out many years ago. Id marry her. Very high class woman.
That type of women who pulls back has another man she is dating
Do one on choosing signals...
eye contact, trying to get close, physical contact (innocent kind) , trying to impress, usually all light games. Trying to get number, and its all usually done in way where its JUST imperceptable again to keep an aura of innocence
Move to Dallas
Thank you from The Netherlands. Booking a hotel in a city, going out, bounce with a woman in the hotel, that is a good idea 🙂 But seriously, I learn a lot from your video's. Even at 59 of age....
The voice change hahahaahahah
11:00 if it repeats that's a red flag. You can't get into a relationship with someone who is a bad communicator. You will wake up one day with a cheater, with an excuse "you did not satisfy my needs". She has to know you are not a mind reader - the knowledge a 10 yo child have