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  • čas přidán 16. 04. 2023
  • "Do you long for having your heart interlinked? Interlinked."
    Shut off the lights, watch in 1080p & use headphones.
    A collection of some of my favourite movies and series, portraying the feeling of loneliness. Special shoutout to Ryan Gosling's performance in Blade Runner 2049. Hope y'all enjoy this sad multifandom edit.
    Thanks for watching.
    🎵 Arn Andersson - Farewell Life
    #multifandom #fanvidfeed #fandom
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Komentáře • 269

  • @stopthecap1
    @stopthecap1  Před rokem +23

    I just released a new multifandom about SACRIFICE! Featuring Spider-Man, Batman, Iron-man etc
    Watch here: czcams.com/video/WRsJ3YLJPOE/video.html 💙

    • @RetroLodge
      @RetroLodge Před rokem

      I was howling and crying, three times today. I appreciate, and applaud. Your time and effort. 😢😕

    • @JAry-ew7hs
      @JAry-ew7hs Před rokem

      ​@@RetroLodgeje uvukccpvvu hhyuvvu un TGV yyyhbbyhhh bbbu gbhvvgvge je te hbu. Jjihj 😮

    • @Vashthestampedeo
      @Vashthestampedeo Před 10 měsíci

      Trust me, the Dark Knight knows about the void of nothingness all too well... Yet my shield (🛡️) remains an eternity later. That was a pretty decent attempt at getting through my endless webs though, kudos. Quite the exceptional Lady Death (☠️) if I do say so myself. You kind of remind me of a certain 🌠 I once knew.

  • @camchurilla2060
    @camchurilla2060 Před rokem +439

    I loved somebody but she doesn’t feel the same, and I still care about her a lot. It hurts that I can’t be with her because I can’t show her affection.

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před rokem +121

      What I've come to believe, is that if you have to chase a certain someone, that person was never meant to be in your life in the first place.
      I've been in the exact same position, couldn't focus or think about anything else. It'll eat away at you if you let it. Gotta keep movin'

    • @Tinyman.
      @Tinyman. Před rokem +32

      one day you will look back on this and smile Cam. If things are meant to be, they will be . Just know you are not alone.

    • @fernandezimmanuel1644
      @fernandezimmanuel1644 Před rokem +13

      It's hard to move on n let go

    • @nitrousneil
      @nitrousneil Před rokem +11

      Don’t move on. Be a hard charger. Hammer down every day. As best you can. When some ask if your good enough. Tell yourself your good enough for you.

    • @rubendacosta6732
      @rubendacosta6732 Před rokem +36

      If she doesn’t care then work on yourself and wait until someone better comes along

  • @CojocaruGeorgian
    @CojocaruGeorgian Před měsícem +5

    It's been years since I can not fill the hole that loneliness left inside my heart, even tho I have friends and family, being unwanted and unloved, unlucky in any romantic pursuit, being invisible to most women. It cuts deeper and deeper to know you're always the spare part, the 3rd wheel, the reserve, the unwanted man in every group. And its even worse to realise that no one cares. that you should deal with it like a man. I've had it up to my breaking point, I feel like I will descend into madness any day now.

  • @davidcook680
    @davidcook680 Před rokem +151

    The opening when she said without a soul. The look he gave. Broke my heart.

  • @drumnbassdan
    @drumnbassdan Před 5 měsíci +21

    Blade Runner 2049 gets better everytime you watch it, such an amazing movie, overlooked or misunderstood by so many.

  • @rileysgaming6860
    @rileysgaming6860 Před 6 měsíci +28

    I hate being alone but being alone is the only time I'm not hurt by anyone other than myself

  • @triumph_cv
    @triumph_cv Před 4 měsíci +14

    Poignant and beautiful. The burden we bear as men is shouldering this loneliness. You captured that.

  • @Alita_Kazami
    @Alita_Kazami Před 9 měsíci +28

    I've lived in four different states, two different countries, and have been to eight different schools. This is the one word I used to define my life throughout all of it.

    • @itsensu
      @itsensu Před 6 měsíci

      3 different countries and 3 different states here. No one around us understands. It’s a lonely life. Everyone around you, everywhere you go may even be nice or friendly, but you’ll never have what they have with the people around them. I’ve not had a friendship last more than 4 years, yet everyone around me seems to have friends for 20+. It’s never the same for us. No one loves us as much as they love their childhood friends, never have. I’m sure you’ve felt it too.

    • @Alita_Kazami
      @Alita_Kazami Před 6 měsíci

      @@itsensu it has been hard, there’s no question about that. People say it’s better to have a few friends over a lot of acquaintances, but I result in just the opposite. If I know I’m going to leave at some point, it makes it harder to want to make friends. I do understand that, but even so I still want to try. I may never have another friendship like I did with my first friend group many years ago, but I do want to have people to turn to whenever I can. I hope that whatever you choose to do, it goes well. Good luck in making some more friends, I’ll be cheering you on.

  • @lukasvanderwesthuizen7893
    @lukasvanderwesthuizen7893 Před 7 měsíci +25

    “Most men lead lives of quiet desperation,”

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Great quote. Perfectly used in the movie Dead Poets Society

    • @Doggypounder69
      @Doggypounder69 Před 3 měsíci

      Most men fuck eachother screw women

  • @aaronrobb1843
    @aaronrobb1843 Před 7 měsíci +14

    I can't put into words how accurate this is, how much I hate/love this. We as men are meant to be the shield, the sword, the everything. I relate to all of their expressions. And I'm man enough to say I cried.

  • @brucealmighty7288
    @brucealmighty7288 Před 11 měsíci +58

    I love these..
    As I move into my 50's I realize that my time here is coming to an end. My family will not be around and as I take my last breath the demons I fight will be gone. We come into this world alone and die alone..

    • @baron9847
      @baron9847 Před 11 měsíci +6

      You could die tomorrow or live to be 100. 50 is just an age and you should enjoy your life day to day and not worry about when the end will come. You should be happy you’ve made it this far. There are many that haven’t. To cast a long shadow over your life at an arbitrary time seems so unnecessary. A mindset that sucks the air not just out of the room you are in but out of life itself so no matter your age, life is what you make it.

    • @smokingbeetles5793
      @smokingbeetles5793 Před 11 měsíci +6

      50s is when many start assuming position of leadership. That is not the end. Live righteously, enjoy the journey not knowing when that end is.

    • @Cryzark
      @Cryzark Před 10 měsíci +4

      sure everyone dies alone. But if you meant something to someone, if you helped someone, or loved someone, if even a single person remembers you, then maybe you never really die

    • @mitsuninkhiangte5771
      @mitsuninkhiangte5771 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@baron9847easy for a kid to say so if you don't have anything useful to say just stfu

  • @hugoccc1852
    @hugoccc1852 Před 10 měsíci +9

    23 years alone i fk up everything no girlfriends no friends im lost i hate shit life i dont want to suffer anymore i aint damn rock

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Hey man, there's no manual to life. Everyone moves at their own pace. So what you don't have a girlfriend yet? You will run into that person when the time is right. Until then, work on yourself and keep busy with hobbies. Get real good at a craft like cooking or drawing or playing an instrument or sports etc. You will find purpose in trying to become good at something. As far as friends go, do you still know people from highschool? Hit em up. If not, were you ever any good at sports? Sign up at the local club. There's always something to do in this life. We're here to pass the time.

    • @GenericName0
      @GenericName0 Před 10 měsíci

      @@stopthecap1 This is similar to another comment I saw on this video. I get that you're just trying to help, but the "work on yourself" bit is really destructive and so is the "when the time is right" bit.
      Everyone can always work on themselves forever, this is a given, but here it comes off as incredibly condescending and generic. I also know you're NOT condescending and generic because you made the video and obviously anyone whose made this video understands loneliness.
      I also get that there is an incredibly limited number of things you could say in the CZcams comments section that could actually help, but I can't stand the idea of someone seeing this comment and feeling more isolated than ever.
      The only advice we should be giving people who feel isolated are ones that get them not isolated. I would never tell someone with cancer to just "work on themselves". I would never tell someone whose homeless to just "focus on your hobbies". I love you as a person because you made a video that I love, but the internet absolutely needs to stop with this advice.

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@GenericName0 ​ I get what you're saying, but doesn't the advice HAVE to be generic since I don't know the writers' story (eg homeless, severely ill)? Maybe the person doesn't have a father figure, doesn't hear words of encouragement or generally has no idea how to spend their days.
      I see a lot of people in today's society skipping things like working out, keeping busy with hobbies, reaching out,... while these are vital components of the blueprint of a healthy life. I share these things, as generic as they are, because they worked for me and made me feel less isolated. You have to start somewhere, and that starting point almost always lies in the basic and generic things. Things you can control. I want to remind people of that, tell them that it's okay, and that things can get better.

    • @GenericName0
      @GenericName0 Před 10 měsíci

      @@stopthecap1 Those are all good things, but no, those things cannot make you feel less lonely.
      By definition they can only make you more ok with being alone, and eventually that feeling runs out.
      You cannot meet a person working out in your house. You can at the gym. So if your advice is to go to the gym, that's sound, but that's not what you made it sound like.
      You cannot meet someone reading a book at your house. You can meet someone reading a book at the library or a coffee shop.
      I stand by what I said. The better yourself advice is NOT valid if your problem is isolation. You NEED to get out into the world and make connections. This is the only valid advice to the problem even if there is a million ways to get there.
      The second bit of advice you gave is better, but yes, generic. He clearly said he had no friends, so saying "if you have highschool friends reach out to them" doesn't really help. I will agree with the sports club, but at 23 it can be hard to find a league if you're not totally atheltic.

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 10 měsíci

      @@GenericName0 I appreciate you writing this down, and while I do agree with you, I still believe that working on yourself is solid stand alone advice. If you meet someone, be it on the street, in the grocery store or at the coffee shop, whilst feeling like you're not enough, inadequate or not worthy (as the original comment points out by the ''i'm lost and hate life'' bit), that converstation will not go well. You need a bit of confidence. You need to feel somewhat proud of yourself. You need to feel like you're worthy. How do you start loving life? Feeling worthy? By having a purpose. This can happen when you're trying to become really good at something (making progress, achieving things), and usually, during the process of becoming good at something, you meet people along the way. This is what happened to me, how I met new people, and ultimately what I meant by picking up a hobby. Getting good at something usually means signing up for classes, finding an online forum to discuss things, going to seminars or events, signing up for workshops or local clubs.
      This is what I mean by working on yourself, which I thought was self explanatory, but I guess everyone interprets it differently. I just don't feel like writing a bible underneath every comment. It comes down to entertaining the thought, and not just writing it off because it comes across as generic.

  • @logankavanaugh5125
    @logankavanaugh5125 Před 11 měsíci +25

    The character you see in the beginning The loneliness that character had to endure throughout the movie was only bearable because he had someone but even that person left his Life.

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 11 měsíci +2

      Truly a well written movie with beautiful shots to go with it.

  • @stopthecap1
    @stopthecap1  Před rokem +31

    Complete list of movies & shows used in this video:
    Blade Runner 2049
    The Punisher
    Hostiles
    The Nice Guys
    The Dark Knight
    Avatar: The Last Airbender
    The Amazing Spiderman
    The Fallout
    Peaky Blinders
    Avengers: Infinity War
    Star Wars - Revenge of the Sith
    Star Wars- A new Hope
    Star Wars - The Phantom Menance
    Star Wars- Attack of the Clones
    Gifted
    Only God Forgives
    Batman Begins
    Outer Banks
    Mommy
    Avengers: Endgame

  • @marquiswashington9123
    @marquiswashington9123 Před 8 měsíci +6

    The Interlinked scene is just …. ❤

  • @eugenekrabs3837
    @eugenekrabs3837 Před 10 měsíci +6

    "Interlinked" to be joined together or connected I like that word interlinked it's an accurate description of what we seek

  • @nocturnalsingularity3138
    @nocturnalsingularity3138 Před 11 měsíci +10

    My wife, who is from Ukraine arrived in lviv Ukraine 3days ago. She went there to join a volunteer group of medics. She's leaving right now to go to the front lines. We just hung up as she went out the door. I waited up for her because she won't have internet to call from where she is going and we don't know exactly for how long.
    I don't know how to feel right now. She needed to do this. I could tell that she was going to hate her decision forever if she didn't go. She is so beautiful and such a loving sweet woman. If you met her you would never imagine she saw war. That she is strong and brave enough to volunteer to leave the safty of her warm bed to go to her home land and do whatever she can to help her family and people. You would never know. She is this tiny thing, long dark hair. Her voice is very sweet and high pitched she talks almost nervous around new people because she is nervous lol she is always doing her own thing. She is an artist too, but hasn't done that for awhile. She loves dogs, and i can't imagine what she feels seeing all the strays walking around all over the streets over there. I think ive gotten 200 pictures of random dogs in two days haha she loves to take pictures, i got literally 100 videos and pictures from her today. Lol all of different things. And i will have to of watched every single video by the time i see her next, and by then she will have a thousand more to send me!! If i don't watch them she will get hurt though. And she can be vicious when i dont watch her videos or look at every single picture lol but i am going to HATE not having my phone ring all day with some new images or a ton of mesgs. I think thats going to be the strangest part.
    She has always been my stability. She has been there for me and here with me since we first met. We have gone thru so much together but with her its like having the perfect person who knows right away exsactly what you aren't good at anf she jumps in to pick up your slack, or she knows when its me who needs to pick up the slack lol i miss her terribly right now. And although i feel drained and numb, i can feel the fear bubbling underneath the surface. I'm okay just wanted to anonymously be able to share the current situation in my life.
    Earlier tonight when she was asleep and I was waiting for her call to come through id left a similar comment on a different video and it made me feel somewhat better to write this out, so i did it again here. I think im losing it a little. She seemed so excited on the video chat, she told me that a building near by in her current location had been struck by a missile, and she gave out a nervous laugh which i know meant that it scared her and she didn't want me to know it lol i think i will hear from her in the next few days and she will have a whole new world of stories to tell me and come November she will be home again. If anyone reads this and wants to give some prayers for her, although im not at all religious my wife IS and i want every bit of defense she can get. K im exhausted, i think this not sleepingwellis getting to me lol. Thank you for reading, have a great night / morning / day!!!

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 11 měsíci +1

      It’s kind of her to volunteer, but how would you handle the guilt of allowing her to go to one of the worst war zones on the planet and something happened to her?
      War does not spare anyone, not the rich nor the poor.
      If I were ya, I’ll hopefully convince her to get out of Europe before, the red line is crossed.

    • @nocturnalsingularity3138
      @nocturnalsingularity3138 Před 11 měsíci

      @bratking4400 hmmm... in truth, I did not have a say in the matter. I do not see her as mine to make her decisions for her. She has always been free to be who she wants and does as she likes. She is very loyal to me because i do not hold her back from being herself. She has always been respectful of me in what I choose to do with my life and day to day activities. So, I would have only felt guilty if my fear of losing her created a system of resentment somewhere in the future. She is there to help, not to hurt. And if she is harmed in the process, then honestly, that being the worst-case scenario, I would be very devastated, but her and I both understand the potential consequences to her going there. Don't get me wrong, I am very afraid and talking to her last night was quite difficult. But although I am afraid, I'm not a coward i wont let my fear stop her from livingher life her way. Because a coward would put their wife down or hinder them from something they wanted badly, god especially if that cowardice was going to be one big controlling fight that bleeds into the future of a relationship.. fuk all that man

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@nocturnalsingularity3138 there are no angels in war.
      You are right, you don’t control her, and vice versa. However, you still can share your feelings, your thoughts to her. It is perfectly within your rights in this case to try to talk someone you love out of going to one of the worst spots to be currently, especially with the possibility of a nuclear disaster.
      How would you be able to handle if something happens to her and you had a choice to do something about it?

    • @nocturnalsingularity3138
      @nocturnalsingularity3138 Před 10 měsíci

      @bratking4400 she knows my feelings and my thoughts. I said my thoughts and feelings in my original comment. I would be devastated over the lose, but I had no say in the matter. Even if I did I would have NEVER stopped her from doing what she felt is right
      I don't understand your intentions in disputing this with me? We're clearly two different people who clearly have two different points of view on this topic.
      You seem to feel it necessary to point out your perceived faults in my "allowing" her to go. I find that strange because that is what YOU think is a mistake I've made. it is not a mistake by my standards.
      You aren't going to alter how I view this situation. I'm proud of her. She intentionally put herself into a war zone in order to help save her people's lives. To protect the country she was born in.
      I see her decision as brave, and i'm impressed with her more now than yesterday, more yesterday than the day before, and so on and so forth.
      So, I mean, idk. You think I've done something wrong by not talking her into staying, but I don't feel that way, and you're suggesting that if she is harmed over there, it would be my fault, but I think that is absolutely ludicrous. I'm sure you're not aware of your intentions with attempting to make me feel as though I've made a mistake, but I don't believe they're rational. And I think you should be aware that this wasn't a decision made up overnight. This was thought about and discussed on repeat for a very long time. There really is no sense to what you say to me because I simply don't see it that way. I'm not saying you're wrong, just saying we aren't on the same field of understanding.
      Also, there are no angels in war? She is there to feed the soldiers and care for the wounded. No one said she was an angel, but she did not start this fight. This fight is something that will be taking place with or without her. This means that soldiers would die or become injured, whether she was home or over there. And I feel as though your comments suggest that you would recommend everyone turn their backs on their people because you find war evil. Whereas my wife did not want to do nothing, she wanted to do something. That doesn't make her special it just makes her a medic in a war zone wanting to care for the injured. I mean it is simple as that. If she wasn't there someone else would help that wounded person. But she is so it will be her, and to me that is good.
      Well it just so happens that my wife sees war as horrible too, but she is a different person than you and her feelings told her that she needed to do something to be a part of the aid and rescue of her people.
      I guess what I'm attempting to say is that we seem to have two massively different personalities that disagree on this topic. Oh, and I think you're very self centered and completely blind to it. But it is very evident in what you say. You're attempting to convince me that my "allowing" my wife to do what she wants is something I should be ashamed of and if she is hurt then you want me to say I would feel guilty and I would blame myself but I won't be saying anything like that because that is not at all how I feel.

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@nocturnalsingularity3138 lol. It’s not you, or her.
      It’s what going on.
      All I can say is this- get out before it happens.
      My responses has not once shared anything about me, I made sure of that. My intentions are to stop people from going into Ukraine-Southern Russia on both sides of the war.
      The clock is ticking, tick tock fella.

  • @spiced_berry
    @spiced_berry Před 4 měsíci +2

    Honestly, this video speaks to me on a level I can't put into words

  • @DaxterSnickers
    @DaxterSnickers Před 6 měsíci +6

    Keep your head up. There is always something worse than loneliness.
    It's betrayal and the loneliness after. Loneliness can be cured, but betrayal stays.

  • @xlCritical
    @xlCritical Před 11 měsíci +7

    This has been the most real video I've come across. Thank you so much

  • @howard116
    @howard116 Před rokem +31

    Nicely done. It captures the emotion.

  • @thomasipkiss8793
    @thomasipkiss8793 Před měsícem

    Loneliness consumes me. Has become my new friend it seems.

  • @jph2856
    @jph2856 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I just hope people understand their lives better tomorrow than today

  • @tomasmadaj1385
    @tomasmadaj1385 Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks ... Its one of the best Videos i saw on the internet.... In a few months i Will die.... Thank you for makin IT easier... 🖤

  • @John.Skelton
    @John.Skelton Před rokem +27

    THIS WAS ONE OF THE BEST FAN MADE VIDEOS I'VE SEEN!🤘 WELL DONE! 👏

  • @davisfulton3487
    @davisfulton3487 Před rokem +4

    The love of my life doesnt love me back. My absolute soulmate and best friend of 5 years and its painful and scary and i feel alone but im not and neither are you brother. This hard battle will end and a beautiful life awaits us if we just keep trying. Keep moving forward even when everything is dragging you back. Your a king Cam dont let anyone trick you into thinking otherwise

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Either move on or sink.
      Reality is often harsh, but we do what we must do.

  • @coelgosling9944
    @coelgosling9944 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I’m not good enough , it’s that simple , but sometimes I feel like I never will be.

    • @Venomized-studios56
      @Venomized-studios56 Před 9 měsíci

      Hi I’m sorry for you feeling like this but you know if you want you can talk to someone you love about it I hope your ok and feeling ok

    • @Aras483
      @Aras483 Před 2 měsíci

      Doesnt matter friend, you have to keep trying. It's the only way you know, good luck.

  • @josephkitchens1644
    @josephkitchens1644 Před 7 měsíci

    Great edit!! One of the most underrated films in recent years!!

  • @russelicely3670
    @russelicely3670 Před 7 měsíci +2

    So lonely without her but the pain to stay with her, will eventually kill me

    • @michaelkarns1572
      @michaelkarns1572 Před 4 dny

      Have been looking for what I feel. This is it............

  • @Take.Me.Outside.YOULAZYBUM
    @Take.Me.Outside.YOULAZYBUM Před 4 měsíci +2

    Every second I draw breath is pure agony I want to end it all but I can't pull the trigger.
    If there is a god then I hope he gets a kick out of watching all of us suffer. At then it won't all be naught and we would have served our purpose as muses to a cruel sadistic deity. After all existence in this world is on big fat joke

  • @m3gan_iox
    @m3gan_iox Před rokem +8

    I just love these so much!❤

  • @b_f_d_d
    @b_f_d_d Před rokem +7

    Powerful edit Good job

  • @chef7543
    @chef7543 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I never had a women love me. I did love them, but it never worked out, they never loved me back. I'm 18 now, and I don't think I'll ever love . Many people told me no, you will find someone, your attractive. But frankly, I disagree. I've given up and it's fine. I won't chase after women. I know no one will read this and it's also okay. I'm just one guy in a million. I'm not depressed, or sad, I already take pills against that. I'm just hopeless.

    • @Aras483
      @Aras483 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Look son, you are too young to talk this way. Get up and do whatever it takes to get better. If you dont do it now, you will regret when you look back. You cant give up now, good luck.

    • @stephenpina3326
      @stephenpina3326 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I wish I could be you. You have amazing things ahead of you but YOU have to make them happen. You have to BE it. It doesn't just happen. Sometimes it does. And when it happens so much you have something real and genuine and u will let it slip thru your fingers. Maybe. Maybe not. But you are on your way. Don't forget to breathe

    • @donnellbrown5288
      @donnellbrown5288 Před 2 měsíci +1

      You have you priorities messed up being 18 and worrying about love... Improve upon yourself and get to a stage in life where you are completely self reliant and debit free or have lil to no debit. Then you can worry about courting... You're 18... There is plenty of life to live and better lot of women will be available as you get older and your value increase... Believe it or not love comes at a cost to men much differently than it does for women. Raise your stakes and you'll have your picks

    • @SachinKumar-dd3wv
      @SachinKumar-dd3wv Před měsícem +1

      You have a long way to go kid. New experiences on the way.

  • @mitalikshatriya
    @mitalikshatriya Před rokem +4

    i teared up. this is beautiful.

  • @marspooky13
    @marspooky13 Před měsícem

    Why.
    Only those of us know… how to pick up and keep pushing.
    I with you. .. let’s keep pushing.
    It’s all we got left.

  • @nicsta180
    @nicsta180 Před rokem +9

    Excellent edit! Keep it up!!

  • @alphatanvir3988
    @alphatanvir3988 Před 10 měsíci +2

    All the pain is nothing when you get something great
    That's why I like one piece

  • @sebastiankielak2828
    @sebastiankielak2828 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Great video, would love to see the speech of the characters aswell, and the quality is far from perfect. Overall 7/10
    Keep up the good work, world needs stuff like this, specially in our times. Greetings and wish you all the best

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks for the feedback! Adding subtitles in future videos might not be a bad idea

    • @Zackiwys
      @Zackiwys Před 10 měsíci

      It doesn't have to be perfect

  • @iamBlone
    @iamBlone Před 4 měsíci +1

    you will and can have a positive life.

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 4 měsíci

      You should get a pet. It's incredible how those lil animals impact your state of mind

  • @Idreff
    @Idreff Před rokem +1

    Good video, made me cry a lil bit

  • @Lucky.exe_
    @Lucky.exe_ Před rokem +6

    I love this keep it coming!

  • @carlosthemandalor3650
    @carlosthemandalor3650 Před 10 měsíci +2

    only gods and immortals can live alone in peace with out pity or regret

  • @startaurus13
    @startaurus13 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Beautiful 😢❤

  • @khanwaseed5385
    @khanwaseed5385 Před rokem +3

    i’m always amazed how captain america feel when he wake up after 70 years and find out none of his friends alive 😢😢

  • @ConnorO778877
    @ConnorO778877 Před 8 měsíci

    A man meets a purpose, a man of action takes it, only to meet himself. Those are the stories of heroic lonliness, however nessesary, end up never being heard

  • @Zara.sp06
    @Zara.sp06 Před rokem +3

    This is really good!

  • @joshuaosorio4825
    @joshuaosorio4825 Před rokem +1

    Astounding.

  • @UntitledUnlimitedCreations

    Sometimes I see your face in random people, when I’m reading a magazine or every time I hear eyes without a face, those memories come around. It’s your face i see. Now I create beautiful things with the hands that caused so much violence. I know you’d be proud and I miss you everyday.

  • @304Kid
    @304Kid Před 11 měsíci +7

    I just bury all the feelings of anger, sadness,and jealously with anything to keep my mind busy. A movie, a book, a video game, and when that fails drinking. Because those feelings never go away, and if I don’t think about them I don’t have to deal with them.

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 11 měsíci +1

      We bury them because if we allowed them to come out, it would destroy us.
      That why I embrace them, make them a part of me, I rather be in control than to fight this toxic part of me.

    • @aceventuradudexd2638
      @aceventuradudexd2638 Před 8 měsíci

      Until one day it all hits like a ton of bricks and that will be the day when you see your true self and a decision will be made I just hope you will have an ounce of strength left to keep moving GL my comrade GL

  • @EurynomeEclipse13
    @EurynomeEclipse13 Před rokem +6

    I can’t wait to die alone

  • @princeeverlove
    @princeeverlove Před 10 měsíci

    🥺my gawwwwwd this is so honest...and true❤🥀

  • @fatgirlboy9341
    @fatgirlboy9341 Před 6 měsíci +1

    loneliness vs betrayal

  • @noahbasara8529
    @noahbasara8529 Před 10 měsíci

    Arn Andersson for the music. Solid choice.

  • @lecomtedeneuch9994
    @lecomtedeneuch9994 Před 5 měsíci +1

    For me personally, I'm done. This world brought me nothing but pain. I wished someone would love me like I love them. It never happened. I'm 30. It's over. I failed my bloodline. I failed to find my purpose. I failed to build myself a life worth living. Finally, it ends today. I'll never suffer anymore. A life wasted in hatred, violence, bitterness and anger. A world that never wanted me there. That always treated me like a misfit. No longer. It will all finally be all over soon. I just wish I was able to love myself enough to keep going but there is no one else I hate more in this world than myself.
    So long people, take care of yourselves.

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 5 měsíci +1

      ''A life wasted in hatred, violence, bitterness and anger'' but you finish with ''take care of yourselves''. I would tell you to follow your own advice here my friend. You might've forgotten how to be happy or what that looks like, but that doesn't mean it's become this unattainable and esoteric concept. Life is full of unexpected twists and our reality and perception of the world is a direct reflection or our mental state. This quite literally means that life is trial and error. Some habits might cloud that perception while others lighten it up. We continuously run into brick walls trying to figure out what it is that fulfills us, makes us proud of ourselves, gives us enjoyement. Some people figure it out at 20, some at 30, some at 40, heck some people never find out. But I believe that the possibility of living a life worth living, of a 'colorful' reality, so to speak, isn't worth giving up on and outweighs the current struggles and adversities.

  • @naveenraj-wf5mp
    @naveenraj-wf5mp Před 2 měsíci +1

    I can't live with her,and also I can't live without her

  • @stephenfrost6801
    @stephenfrost6801 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Without God .. modern man has created his own Hell.

  • @thomasbeck8742
    @thomasbeck8742 Před rokem +4

    Your not lonely your just lost in life with no guide or no helping hand just look forward even if you can't see anything and keep going and self-improvement look boys this isn't the way we wanted things yes the world's more fked than anything but we're getting older the best thing to do is keep the head up and be better we are all strong but just forgot over time 💪

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I am not a lost person. It may look like it but I am a wander, someone who show up into others’ lives because I was sent to them. My purpose is to plant seeds, to guide others in their journey. I lost so much to get where I am, and I’ll do it again.

    • @thomasbeck8742
      @thomasbeck8742 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@bratking4400 wow another understanding in another point of view cool

    • @avengerslegosets7305
      @avengerslegosets7305 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Jesus will be your guide he loves you and knows you better than anyone

    • @thomasbeck8742
      @thomasbeck8742 Před 10 měsíci

      @avengerslegosets7305 very true my friend but I love the message even of this movie it represents how manny people are now days too there lost and that so they are this is why so many people can relate from there own points

  • @sen1882
    @sen1882 Před 10 měsíci

    You having 411 subs is a crime, this vid was beautiful

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Appreciate the support! I definitely could've enhanced the video & audio quality to make the experience a bit more pleasant. Unfortunately, I rushed it

  • @chloe.p144
    @chloe.p144 Před měsícem

    Iv replayed this so many times cuz I relate to much in the end we only have ourselves it’s the only way to be safe in this world that’s filled with nasty people

  • @Xano4765
    @Xano4765 Před rokem +24

    sometimes it’s ok to be lonely and feeling lost, i am right now myself, but being this way can allow us to be open to new changes and opportunities and really find ourselves and what our “purpose” is. i know a lot of us men being lonely is hard because we’re wanting to spend time with that someone but just know there’s plenty of ways to fill that void :)

    • @GenericName0
      @GenericName0 Před 10 měsíci

      I try not to get into CZcams debates, but honestly this is stupid af. Yes it's ok to be alone sometimes, but telling people who have been alone for years-and-years that they should just be "ok with it" is toxic and evil. Boo to you.

    • @Xano4765
      @Xano4765 Před 10 měsíci

      @@GenericName0 cornball ah nigga💀

    • @studyaccount4260
      @studyaccount4260 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@GenericName0yeah...reading this comment made me feel the same way(Ik the person who wrote it didn't had bad intentions), maybe not that mad but it made me somewhat uncomfortable getting told that "it's alright to be all alone" which I have been for a long time, and after this much time I can surely say that it's not "okay" to be this way, instead I would say that it sucks to be this way, and also, "tomorrow might be worse than today but you gonna have to keep moving forward until you reach the finishing line as no-one knows if there's a surprise or a turn waiting for you along the path to the end"

    • @GenericName0
      @GenericName0 Před 10 měsíci

      @@studyaccount4260 Thanks, I was having a very bad day when I made that comment and I agree that the original poster did not have bad intentions. I think the better advice to people who are truly lonely and isolated would be to simultaneously work on yourself AND get out and be social. You can always work on yourself, but you should never feel like you have to 'wait' to try and better your situation.
      There are so many different situations someone can be in so generic advice isn't really helpful, but if you are lonely reach out. Groups, therapy, even just online. If you like hiking go to a hiking group, if you like gaming find a gaming group. If you've fallen on hard economic times, if you're homeless, the best thing you could possibly do is reach out. There are people out there who want to help, people in the same situation, people who could understand and share empathy.
      So I do apologize to the OP for jumping the gun because of my own situation rather than their original intent. I hope anyone who is struggling finds those things that will make their lives better.

  • @mitsuninkhiangte5771
    @mitsuninkhiangte5771 Před 8 měsíci +1

    it feels like i'm 50% dead, just living to.impress my family

  • @skuncky
    @skuncky Před rokem +1

    At this point i dont keep going for a reason, i have and had plenty of reasons to drop everything but im just living to piss the world of at this point to prove my point to this harsh world that i wont back down

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před rokem

      Reminds me a lot of the main character in Ricky Gervais' show Afterlife. A man who continuously takes a piss at everything and everyone to punish the world for the cruelties he's had to endure. Quite introspective to see the behavioural changes throughout the show. Definitely a recommended watch in my book.

  • @paulalanmorison5644
    @paulalanmorison5644 Před rokem +3

    Loneliness becomes me. 😑

  • @LeeAbraham-xs3tu
    @LeeAbraham-xs3tu Před 2 měsíci

    She excepted I didn't have a soul so she took her own only to be lost further away than my sinful self to never to hold

  • @jasserjadla9372
    @jasserjadla9372 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Is this all I will ever be alone in darkness in all this anger

  • @redpill9724
    @redpill9724 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Here again

  • @RetroLodge
    @RetroLodge Před rokem +2

    I was howling and crying, three times today. I appreciate, and applaud. Your time and effort. 😢😕

  • @introvertalphaman
    @introvertalphaman Před rokem +3

    I am studin but met a girl lot of trauma she had each and everytime I worked on her to make her out of that and we did come out ....I married that girl ....she went to study there we had fight on phone she did talked to me , for 3 months I cried and cried a lot to let her know what i feel for her but she forget each and everything we had together, 6 years of relationship......i never thought about any girl ever since ......she got dating rich guy .....
    Not happening again.

    • @vincenzoduraccio7297
      @vincenzoduraccio7297 Před rokem +2

      I really feel you brother, same situation, sometime we can’t find a reason for such a behaviour after everything we put in a relationship, after all we gave to that person…
      I want you to know you’re not alone, I had a terrible breakup after a 7 year relationship and I really understand the pain…
      Greetings from an Italian brother
      Forza e coraggio, sono sicuro che ce la farai!!!

  • @hikikomori7158
    @hikikomori7158 Před rokem +6

    Great video! Just a little heads up for the future that I've noticed and could be improved :):
    1. Try using better quality clips, especially the audio, for example in the very first clip bladerunner (and also other clips from bladerunner) the audio quality is really bad and it's noticable right away
    2. Try finding a better balance between the background audio and dialogies, in some cases it's so hard to hear the dialogue through the background music
    Other than that good stuff, keep it up :)

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před rokem +2

      Appreciate the feedback! I definitely fucked up the audio in this one, I use a high quality headset while editing so it kind of masked how bad it actually was, I noticed it right away when I watched post-publish. The video quality is also a bit lackluster, I think something went wrong during the rendering because all clips are HD and were much smoother in the editing software. Should be fixed in the next one!

  • @Nerdturd_songs
    @Nerdturd_songs Před 3 měsíci +1

    I have friends the problem is there not in my life at all except one friend but shes 2 years younger than me and honestly I feel like we are going to start growing apart from each other soon with the way things are going I have never had a relationship I don’t really want one to be honest but I feel very lonely I don’t get text messages in less if I text first I haven’t been able to make any friends ever since middle school it seems like no one really wants me in there life and it sucks I all get really sad during summer because all of my friends are hanging out with there other friends and going on vacation and it makes me realize how lonely I really am

  • @matthewnegron1465
    @matthewnegron1465 Před rokem

    Run home Jack... Home is where captain Hook says it is.

  • @Kasciukaitis
    @Kasciukaitis Před 5 měsíci

    Interlink - interlink!

  • @user-uz3zd7uw1c
    @user-uz3zd7uw1c Před měsícem

    If you are wondering if a nice loving girl will fill the blank space... It wont.

  • @thabisomakgalemele1648
    @thabisomakgalemele1648 Před rokem +4

    Nice work, what's the background music ?

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před rokem

      Thanks! The track is called Farewell Life by Arn Andersson

  • @High.devontion
    @High.devontion Před 7 měsíci

    We suffer in silence

  • @eleven3083
    @eleven3083 Před 11 měsíci

    Im hurting someone real bad...
    Someone who deserves all the love she can get..
    I can't express how i feel .
    It's like it's unexpressable
    I can feel it but not express it.
    Im becoming insane .
    Im just lost..i don't know where..im hopeless.
    Im

  • @jasoncoker1625
    @jasoncoker1625 Před 4 měsíci

    🤘💯

  • @nothingman7163
    @nothingman7163 Před 11 měsíci +9

    You really did a great job mate, I am a musician who does a lot of emotionally charged orchestral scores (not under this channel name, no self promo intended) if you wanted to use some of my work to make any in the future, feel free

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Appreciate that! Sounds interesting, where can I find some of your work?

    • @nothingman7163
      @nothingman7163 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@stopthecap1 a game productions channel

  • @TheCoffmans
    @TheCoffmans Před rokem +5

    I’m married with 3 kids and I feel lonelier now than I ever have.

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před 11 měsíci +6

      It's weird how a full house can make you feel the most lonely, right? All I can say is try and cherish those early moments, things like their first soccer match or the first time they create or say something profound, those character building moments to look back on. Be there for them, it will make everyone involved feel less lonely. Also keep in mind that life isn't a movie. There's tons of voids, gaps and empty moments which we just have to live through.. that's life. Remember.

  • @atefvladimir7415
    @atefvladimir7415 Před 9 měsíci

    Broken and broken Is that fair 😢

  • @VishnuPrasad-iu7ue
    @VishnuPrasad-iu7ue Před rokem +2

    You should have included logan scene when she cries calling him daddy when he was dying

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před rokem

      Got a few Logan scenes in my next video! Coming out in a day or so :)

  • @jackbarn8046
    @jackbarn8046 Před 5 měsíci

    Love this girl but i swear if she doesnt start communicating back im gonan have to figure out how to leave. Its unfair for both of us

  • @tkingsgaming5776
    @tkingsgaming5776 Před 9 měsíci

    So many memories of us and you aren't here due to your family making you this way you aren't here like you was a year ago I hate your family for doing this to you I hate everyone who made you go through this I can't even be by your side my love

  • @BrandonRoark
    @BrandonRoark Před 5 měsíci

    My crazy made me stop so i gotta ask what's all this for you trying to take out all the depressed makes sense you got them all in one spot except me im not sad just maybe crazy a little

  • @youngfrankmcclintock
    @youngfrankmcclintock Před 5 měsíci

    To all mofos feelin sad go watch Richard Pryor Live In Concert...im sending the Cavalry for ya. Its my go to after the Long Dark Night of the Soul - whoever you are Shine on

  • @laugheristhebestmedicine9009

    I have been thinking about self deleting ever since i was 8 years old i am 31 years old and i still think about it sometimes i have never and will never tell anyone this but i thought i would unburden myself for once in my life even if it’s in a comment section to people who don’t know who i am .

    • @yroced
      @yroced Před 9 měsíci

      i wish you can get over those feelings and see how beautiful life is

  • @jujutsuSorcerer02
    @jujutsuSorcerer02 Před rokem +2

    What movie is the scene from at 4:17?

    • @stopthecap1
      @stopthecap1  Před rokem

      It's from a show called "Outer Banks"! Current runtime is 3 seasons

  • @voidhound5170
    @voidhound5170 Před 6 měsíci +1

    And there are woman being lonely.We man bare front of everything.I don't say woman don't have feelings but on our backs is everything.I come home as E.R trauma surgeon and my fiance had bad day at office she is psychiatrist and she is first to complain how she had bad patient and I understand and I listen but when she asks me how was my day I just say you know blood and gore and we smile.But she doesn't know that in that day I had to tell mother of two 19 year old twins that are both gone and that her scream will hount me till I die.Why should I bother her with that when she screams about some agressive mental patient.And where we go to blow that from us.I have mandatory psychotherapy but it's all the same.But in the end I chose that job and every saved person tops that.And last night when she complained about my nightmares I wen't all in and told her everything.Her response was I am sorry and start to cry and again my issues were put down it was her that I comforting her

  • @Thomas-jv4xp
    @Thomas-jv4xp Před 5 měsíci

    I’ve wanted to experience dating and affection since s child I’m in my mid 20’s now and it’s lonelier thinking I’ll be the last pick

    • @meganrose5069
      @meganrose5069 Před 5 měsíci

      Shit same.....need someone to talk to?

  • @byplanet5625
    @byplanet5625 Před rokem +2

    I havent type a com for a long time it s just bcs i not even get a liked im to weird and broken 😂❤

    • @ashleynobody5281
      @ashleynobody5281 Před rokem

      We are all broken. If someone tells you that there not they are lying to themselves. Weird is a good thing weird is unique. Who wants to be a copy of a copy?

  • @apvenczel
    @apvenczel Před 8 měsíci

    The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.
    1 Thessalonians 5:24

  • @iSp1ke
    @iSp1ke Před 11 měsíci +3

    After 37 years of relationship loneliness, i dont care anymore. I go to gym and do other sports, meet my Homies at work and in privat, read every day and eat healthier. Of all dudes here, reading this. Do the same. Go the Sigma way and let the girls come to u. For my part, i dont care anymore dying alone some day…. I live my life NOW 💪

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Sigma, beta, pimp or simp it all end up the same, ashes.
      Live the life you want to mold, the clock is ticking, enjoy it while it last.
      We are judged by actions, our legacies is built by our own deeds.

  • @aaroncatlett402
    @aaroncatlett402 Před 8 dny

    Tooo dark. (Lightwise)

  • @user-yk6rm4pq9j
    @user-yk6rm4pq9j Před 4 měsíci

    What's the actual music called and performed by ??

  • @garybriddick6900
    @garybriddick6900 Před rokem +1

    The video somes me up. I want to move on but can't ffs

    • @bratking4400
      @bratking4400 Před 11 měsíci

      Then burn the thing that’s holding you back. Either sink or float.

  • @WhiteWolfRenji
    @WhiteWolfRenji Před 10 měsíci

    Quá đẹp!

  • @dutch2smoked927
    @dutch2smoked927 Před rokem +2

    the tommy shelby parts give me goosebumps

  • @KingSnake420
    @KingSnake420 Před 10 měsíci

    How do you keep going..

  • @smnvs7
    @smnvs7 Před 5 měsíci

    Whats that movie at the beginning?

  • @nathanrattray6898
    @nathanrattray6898 Před 8 měsíci

    What’s the backing music