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  • čas přidán 3. 03. 2019
  • Majority of our videos are about travel and adventure, but not every day is like that. Our days are filled with cooking, doing chores in around our little home in Tokyo, and editing. So much editing!
    In this video, Martina will give you a mini-tutorial on how she edits our CZcams videos, you'll get a slow cooker recipe from Simon, and despite Martina's struggles with her EDS (Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome) getting in the way of her day, she works to #buildaladder and overcome her sadness. HECK YES!
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Komentáře • 4,7K

  • @strictlydumpling
    @strictlydumpling Před 5 lety +3298

    You’re a good man Simon! Both of you are awesome.

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  Před 5 lety +142

      Thanks homie. I hope you’re doing well :)

    • @jackie8357
      @jackie8357 Před 5 lety +28

      Whaaaat Mikey!! I just drooled over your noodle video - loved when you guys collabed hope you get to just eat and talk with the adorable Simon and Martina - I’m still scared 😱 of that lady bringing endless 🍲

    • @wmfwoodworking
      @wmfwoodworking Před 5 lety +41

      I love to see CZcamsrs supporting each other. Mike you are also one of my favorites.

    • @DreamerXX
      @DreamerXX Před 5 lety +3

      Literally just watched your LA dry aged Korean BBQ video, and this was in the recommend list. First video I've seen, but they are so darn cute. XD

    • @beanmueller9604
      @beanmueller9604 Před 5 lety +2

      Mike Chen! Your videos cheer me up too!

  • @SeanTran
    @SeanTran Před 5 lety +4909

    *VOTE SIMON FOR THE MOST SUPPORTIVE HUSBAND OF THE CENTURY!*

    • @trueLOVE1254
      @trueLOVE1254 Před 5 lety +7

      I second this vote!!

    • @whitneykaye
      @whitneykaye Před 5 lety +18

      Aww. I got emotional watching Simon take care of Martine because it reminds me of how my fiancee takes care of me :,D

    • @gaseki
      @gaseki Před 5 lety +19

      Have to say, whenever my wife says at work that I cook, or made her breakfast, or even coffee, the girls at work go "wow, my guy doesn't do things like that". And I don't get it. She has her own issues and I don't think these things are big, but the bewilderment on some people's faces... Why is that?

    • @DarlingPikaQueen
      @DarlingPikaQueen Před 5 lety +5

      i completely agree

    • @inkfoxes4941
      @inkfoxes4941 Před 5 lety +11

      "I love everything about you! ...except your taste in music and sometimes your clothing!"
      *GLASS SHATTERING FX INTENSIFIES*
      Still dying, 5th time thru XD (This is a good Ladder video for really bad mobility days, which I've had far too many of lately.)

  • @SushiPineapple
    @SushiPineapple Před 5 lety +475

    I stopped watching the channel around the time you moved to Japan, because somehow the vibe didn't gel with me anymore. But I had this in my recommendations and I'm glad I clicked on it. You are such nice, positive people even when things are tough - I just genuinely wish you all the best!

    • @knightabraxas
      @knightabraxas Před 5 lety +14

      I'm in the same boat! It's been forever since I watched them, but this is so lovely. I thoroughly love this.

    • @juss2cute
      @juss2cute Před 5 lety +2

      Absolutely same. I really love them, this is a good one to come back to

  • @lizd.2343
    @lizd.2343 Před 5 lety +309

    Simon's like 30sec rant mocking those who measure their herbs is gold.

    • @lady00303
      @lady00303 Před 5 lety +8

      I'm like Simon.. I put shit tons of herbs in all my cooking.. :D

    • @ohyeagirl1111
      @ohyeagirl1111 Před 4 lety +8

      This pops into my head all the time when cooking. I’m like... how much should I put in...? And all of of a sudden I hear “hold-up Simon, you’re gunna over-herb it!” And I’m like “nah... I can’t over herb it...”😂

  • @MariannaVlogs
    @MariannaVlogs Před 5 lety +854

    The way Simon made coffee for Martina just so she can start her day right was so caring. Also discount food is the best! It helps cut down on waste and tastes just a good!

  • @00NessaBoo
    @00NessaBoo Před 5 lety +463

    How Simon calls Martina "my sweet girl " I almost died that's so stinking cute

  • @wendylin3391
    @wendylin3391 Před 5 lety +647

    I'm not gonna lie, I stopped watching for a while because the travel vlogs just wasn't what I was usually into, but the dynamic and Simon's bright positivity really reminds me of why I watched this channel to begin with. When Simon assured Martina that she was having an active recovery day I literally started crying. The support and drive to be the best person you can be is really inspiring. Gives me hope in the world honestly.
    Looking forward to more content from you guys. Cheers.

    • @theadoptedtenenbaum
      @theadoptedtenenbaum Před 5 lety +7

      I also literally started crying. It was a really beautiful moment I feel so honored we got to share with you guys.

    • @deevermont4293
      @deevermont4293 Před 2 lety +5

      This comment did not age well

    • @susuaeri
      @susuaeri Před rokem

      they're literally divorced now i'm sorry wendy

  • @MirrorNothingFunny
    @MirrorNothingFunny Před 5 lety +829

    I appreciate the HECK out of your editing, Martina!

    • @octopu5ie
      @octopu5ie Před 4 lety

      Meeee tooooo!

    • @aPokemonNerd
      @aPokemonNerd Před 3 lety

      Joo o9o9o9o9o9o9mmo9lmo9o9mo9pp9) perustetun lppl9=/lomilla 00920 pl=happy ll9lllmmmmmll9lll

    • @aPokemonNerd
      @aPokemonNerd Před 3 lety

      @@octopu5ie on pl99999pp099

    • @aPokemonNerd
      @aPokemonNerd Před 3 lety

      @@nemosenpai pppppp9pp) 00920 on o{ei ooo) ilmaisee ilmaisee ilmaisee on on poppoo 89 oot mun oot oot oot oot oöo

  • @CaptainCatch
    @CaptainCatch Před 5 lety +674

    I actually ran into Martina recently here in Tokyo and I gotta say I was nervous walking up and saying *hi* to her but she was extremely genuine and super down to earth and even tho I haven't ran into Simon yet I can tell he's just as genuine and awesome as Martina. Honestly, these are great people and through this video you can see how great their relationship is. I wish them nothing but the best for all their future endeavors :D

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  Před 5 lety +51

      Martina’s a lot better of a talker than I am. She’s very affable.

    • @noneedtoknowme
      @noneedtoknowme Před 5 lety +13

      Omg!! I met both of them at Studio Ghibli and Martina was crouching in the bushes idk why. LOLOLOL. I totally agree with you tho!!

    • @estherjava40
      @estherjava40 Před 5 lety +7

      A wild Martina appears!!!

  • @zarieyoung4789
    @zarieyoung4789 Před 5 lety +502

    “I do know she likes to wake up to the smell of coffee so I leave it right by her” AWEEEE MY HEART. 🥵🥰

  • @Kearyious
    @Kearyious Před 5 lety +137

    Honestly, I have such profound respect for husbands, boyfriends, just men in general who are supportive to their partners and are surprisingly so caring. People like my uncle who give such unconditional support to their wives. I’ve met so many abusive/toxic relationships and partners who were plain disgusting so thank you Simon for being such a great husband to Martina❤️Take care ✨

  • @typical_snowflake
    @typical_snowflake Před 3 lety +85

    When he says " to impress the love of your life" my heart sank a bit... Simon and Martina were sort of a proof to me that you can have rough condition ( like Martina's) and have whatever happens a partner who loves you and that you can grow old with. I'm really sad to see I was wrong... it affects me more that it should

    • @sproutpuppy8216
      @sproutpuppy8216 Před 3 lety +13

      It hurts me too, as someone who feels like my mental conditions would be too much for any partner to deal with. Watching them as a younger person gave me a lot of hope for my own potential future with another. But, I also realize their life on camera wasn’t always the full picture. There are many things that could’ve gone in behind closed doors, for who knows how long. I believe they know they are doing what is best for them, and that they thrive in their new lives.

    • @sproutpuppy8216
      @sproutpuppy8216 Před 3 lety

      @@skylaralexis7699 May I ask where you got this information from? I had never heard of this! I only ask because I’ve tried to keep a neutral view on the both of them, not wanting to blame either for anything (that would be incredibly rude), and I still don’t want to. But I am curious as to what could’ve potentially caused it all.

    • @annilassila898
      @annilassila898 Před 3 lety +5

      @@sproutpuppy8216 also martinas insta king.kogi. you can clearly see what she follows :( makes very very sad how things turned out in the end

    • @kirstenminges9080
      @kirstenminges9080 Před 3 lety +10

      Their separation stung for me too as I often see their silliness as a reflection of myself and my significant other. But don't give up. If you want love you can have it. Be your true self, don't settle for anything or anyone that doesn't make you happy. Communicate your needs with each other, support each other and you will be fine!

  • @eatyourkimchi
    @eatyourkimchi  Před 5 lety +190

    Hello everyone! We've done three big travel videos lately. We wanted to show what a more chill day is like in our lives, just so you don't get the wrong impression :D

    • @stephkim00
      @stephkim00 Před 5 lety +7

      Simon and Martina thank you guys for all the content you put out. We know you guys put a lot of effort into creating it and despite how much I love your videos remember you guys need to take break sometimes. I think you guys talked about it already but there’s a huge issue with CZcamsrs becoming burnt out, and I’d hate for it to happen to you guys. Anyways thanks for the content as always.

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  Před 5 lety +10

      Burnout is something we heard about as well, and even attended talks about with other Creators. We felt burnout in Korea. Our last year was rough. But we decided it's better to sell everything and start anew rather than give up altogether, and so we did. And, you know, we're feeling better than ever, both professional, and - more importantly - mentally :D

    • @paigeluvswolves1992
      @paigeluvswolves1992 Před 5 lety

      Yaaaay. Also note Simon if you hate finding bayleaves in your food they make little seasoning packets where you can shove all the seasonings in tie it up and then when the food is done, all ya gotta do is take the packet out. :) I think Amazon has them.

    • @Alxpapa
      @Alxpapa Před 5 lety

      Wrong impression ? Sorry but can I say :I never get the wrong impression.Who said this to you ?

    • @douglascampbell9809
      @douglascampbell9809 Před 5 lety

      Very cool.
      I also know the crap of chronic disease. (degenerative joint disease)
      Simon you always rinse rice because it's not washed during packaging. It gets removes any debris (real reason) and broken up rice starch that will make you rice sticky (maybe).
      My weekend involves watching old horror host shows like Ned the Dead, (posting old shows on You Tube. caution dad jokes) or Midnight Mausoleum.
      Keep doing what you are doing I live vicariously through your adventures.
      Thanks.

  • @the_social_hermit8506
    @the_social_hermit8506 Před 5 lety +226

    Can we all just take a moment to appreciate how strong Martina is? Instead of getting down on herself she changes her goals to make them more accessible instead of focusing on the negative sadness?
    Simon is such a warm and caring spouse but Martina’s spirit is second to none 💖

  • @mezofsteel7558
    @mezofsteel7558 Před 5 lety +384

    I love Simon more than ever after this. Huge inspiration to me, as my wife has recently gotten so bad I've had to come out of work to look after her. You guys are our idols!

  • @Mommy2ablex
    @Mommy2ablex Před 4 lety +70

    My daughter was born in 2009, and while I was going through one of toughest times with postpartum depression, which didn’t seem to get better through the years I stumbled across your channel. I watched you guys religiously and....laughed...smiled...and felt joy. I even sent you guys a care package (it had some ranch Doritos, ranch, pac-man shirt, and a variety of other items) that I actually saw you open in one of your videos...I cried. At the time I didn’t know why I was crying, but in retrospect I think it made me feel truly appreciated and I was so happy I could bring some joy to someone’s life. 10 years later...I’m doing great and being busy raising 2 kids distracted me from YT, until today. I searched for you guys and it made me so happy to see that you’re still making amazing and fun videos! Thank you for everything you do and for the joy you brought into my life during a very difficult time. Please always know that you truly being so much joy to people’s lives...it may not always seem like it, but there are others
    Out there that need your honesty, positivity and creativity.

  • @bunnylove8989
    @bunnylove8989 Před 5 lety +465

    When I was a teenager, I commented on a post of yours on Facebook saying that I wish I had a relationship like yours and you guys responded with positive feedback. Since then, I've found that guy, big and tall boi who cares about me a lot. He reminds me of Simon a whole lot, especially since he's the only guy who's ever been able to handle my mental illness.
    Thank you guys for setting a really positive and healthy example of a relationship for me.

    • @bunnylove8989
      @bunnylove8989 Před 5 lety +7

      @@bewattayy5813 I have depression and anxiety, I've been diagnosed since I was a teen. Most guys I've dated didn't understand it and found it annoying.

    • @nonesoul
      @nonesoul Před 5 lety +1

      Bunny Love yeah i see how thatd happen, i thought this girl was just really annoying and found out she has anxiety.
      still an asshat, but hey out of her control

    • @bewattayy5813
      @bewattayy5813 Před 5 lety

      Bunny Love thanks for replying back 💗 I was just curious that’s all, I meant no harm.

    • @bunnylove8989
      @bunnylove8989 Před 5 lety

      @@bewattayy5813 You're totally fine!

    • @ILoveSoonkyu
      @ILoveSoonkyu Před 5 lety +1

      I'm so happy for you!!!

  • @elshaynez
    @elshaynez Před 5 lety +646

    Hi Simon and Martina! Several years ago I was on a flight back to Canada from South Korea. I was flying business class for the first time ever and I couldn’t believe my eyes when you two had the seats next to me and behind me. I awkwardly introduced myself as a fan of your content and you two were just as kind and genuine as you come across in your videos. I still remember that encounter each time I watch you guys and after such an honest look into your daily lives, I can’t help but post a comment telling you how much I enjoyed it. You are one of the few channels that remind me of why I fell in love with CZcams so many years ago and, for me, what this platform has always been about. Throughout your journey on here, thank you for always being such incredible role models and remaining such great, caring people. I will now be using my slow cooker more often :)

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  Před 5 lety +60

      Ah! I remember that! It was quite a while ago :)

    • @sliceofjoy3589
      @sliceofjoy3589 Před 5 lety +2

      So well said, and what a great encounter you had! I would love to meet Simon and Martina, and this just further proves how awesome they are. So cool you have that memory :)

  • @Floraiji30
    @Floraiji30 Před rokem +9

    No matter what they will always forever be my favorite couple here on CZcams. 😢

  • @KrissyMeow
    @KrissyMeow Před 2 lety +54

    This is depressing with the turn of events. ☹

  • @bluejbird410989
    @bluejbird410989 Před 5 lety +296

    Can everyone agree this is THE MOST WHOLESOME "Day in my life" video in the entirety of the internet??

  • @enemigaaa_
    @enemigaaa_ Před 5 lety +155

    Simon, you made me tear up. The way you care for Martina is absolutely amazing. You’re such a great husband.

  • @BAKAoLOVE
    @BAKAoLOVE Před 5 lety +309

    Holy shit. Can I just say??? Simon, you beautiful man??? Honestly, that big reassurance talk that it's ok for Martina to take a break struck such a chord with me, I was speechless. The support was just amazing. It's something similar to what I tell myself when Uni gets stressful but actually hearing it come out of someone's mouth to their SO was just so different and beautiful.

  • @kotomiichinose2929
    @kotomiichinose2929 Před 3 lety +72

    Watching this now that they made it official that they separated just breaks my heart in half 😞

    • @peachiiriri
      @peachiiriri Před 3 lety +23

      Im honestly going thru their old videos and just crying

    • @Gmrgrl-mb5np
      @Gmrgrl-mb5np Před 3 lety +5

      @@peachiiriri is it just me but I think some videos are missing.

    • @peachiiriri
      @peachiiriri Před 3 lety +2

      @@Gmrgrl-mb5np hmm i'm not sure.. I don't notice it but maybe beacuse only a few are missing?

    • @reenaasmr8451
      @reenaasmr8451 Před 2 lety +1

      @@peachiiriri Simon talking abt his tattoo abt Martina is unlisted

  • @HudaSukor
    @HudaSukor Před 5 lety +1062

    Simon is the perfect depiction of a man who is in love. Like love love. I respect that.

    • @RubyDynamite
      @RubyDynamite Před 5 lety +16

      Simon is best duck.

    • @birdie5631
      @birdie5631 Před 5 lety +7

      This world needs more duckies

    • @kamaji21
      @kamaji21 Před 3 lety

      He's no duck, he's a straight dothraki

  • @alannahllama
    @alannahllama Před 5 lety +307

    I'm only 14 mins in but I felt the need to stop and tell you.. when Simon put the coffee at the side of the bed because Martina likes to wake up to the smell of coffee well that just got me 😢 how wonderful is Simon!!! Everone needs a Simon in their life to love them ❤

    • @nataliawineland34
      @nataliawineland34 Před 5 lety +10

      Yuki Llama also everyone needs a Martina to edit in fart noises

    • @kineokami
      @kineokami Před 5 lety

      Relationship goals アリ*:・(*-ω人)・:*ガト

    • @sayrag.5513
      @sayrag.5513 Před 5 lety

      My thought exactly

    • @victoriazwergmaus9813
      @victoriazwergmaus9813 Před 5 lety

      Maybe a thermo mug? So smell and warm coffee for wake up?! 😘

  • @jjae7075
    @jjae7075 Před 3 lety +25

    I miss this 😢 I miss them together and I miss them in Japan😭😭 ..I never comment alot on yt but I had to the feelings are so strong😭 ...

  • @Eszra
    @Eszra Před 5 lety +34

    I forgot to mention last time how adorable Martina was saying I'VE DONE NOTHING! Then Meemers on her. So cute. I have had those days. Only with out the cat.

  • @KS-ck8ht
    @KS-ck8ht Před 5 lety +460

    I just can't believe Simon. How can a person be that selfless. He is so supportive and loving, I've never met anyone like that in my entire life. Not even close. Made in Canada, yall.

    • @rinav64
      @rinav64 Před 5 lety +7

      Makes me cry to see how sweet and loving he is 😭😭

    • @KS-ck8ht
      @KS-ck8ht Před 5 lety +8

      @@rinav64 Me too. He cheered her up so well when she was feeling depressed about not finishing her editing. He is a sweetheart.

    • @DorisAlienAFK
      @DorisAlienAFK Před 5 lety

      Simon is also Polish - from wonderful Polish parents living in Canada😎😍😎😍🇵🇱

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  Před 5 lety +38

      I wasn't always like this. I just met a woman who inspires me to no end :D

    • @KS-ck8ht
      @KS-ck8ht Před 5 lety +4

      @@eatyourkimchi Wow, that makes you even more admirable. Both you and Martina are very lucky to have each other. You guys really give hope to us all.

  • @hungry_bug
    @hungry_bug Před 5 lety +1533

    What an intimate look into your daily lives. I can't believe how much pain Martina goes through everyday. She is such a strong woman, and even though things are hard for her she still keeps trying to push through it, that's a quality I admire.

    • @klwilliams6
      @klwilliams6 Před 5 lety

      Lydia Wilson I

    • @morganmyers3346
      @morganmyers3346 Před 5 lety +2

      I completely agree with you! My partner supports me as well and it makes my life so much better 💕 He's the absolute best!

  • @gianinapelin4378
    @gianinapelin4378 Před 5 lety +82

    I will say it short: finally some REAL stuff! So so so refreshing seeing a NORMAL life! CZcams needs more "Simon and Martina" channels! I don't know you guys but for me is enough of "perfection" .....enough of that "aesthetic"! Just enjoy the "normality"! Take care

  • @maggielikescookies
    @maggielikescookies Před 5 lety +57

    I always tear up when I see how supportive and encouraging Simon is to Martina. Just warms up my heart. You two are the best and I hope to develop the type of selfless, generous, giving, supportive, positive, overflowing love you have for one another with my significant other as well. Thanks for spreading the love! You‘re both amazing.

  • @demoiselledelamontagne
    @demoiselledelamontagne Před 5 lety +453

    Simon, you are a fine example of a man, a gentleman.

    • @nocta66
      @nocta66 Před 5 lety +17

      He's a fine example of a human being.

    • @mssin2976
      @mssin2976 Před 5 lety +1

      7:50 fine example of a can opener

  • @jirahsarmiento2554
    @jirahsarmiento2554 Před 5 lety +689

    WHEN SIMON WAS ENCOURAGING MARTINA I STARTED BALLING MY EYES OUT OMG

  • @ninalu6035
    @ninalu6035 Před 5 lety +179

    Simon is actually the most amazing husband i've ever seen wtf

    • @icynok
      @icynok Před 5 lety +1

      @@miipmiipmiip it is sad because I am just like him (although quite shorter at 5 feet 8 inches) but people act like guys like us are like unicorns... I just do the stuff he does without even thinking and did for my wife even after a long shift... but she wouldn't a much younger guy it seems.. :P

  • @jordanbush7605
    @jordanbush7605 Před 5 lety +52

    Man, Simon just inspired the hell out of me. I'm usually so bent out of shape when other people slow me down, but seeing him so positive and supportive made me realize that attitude can give a better sense of accomplishment than just rushing around.

  • @abluemug
    @abluemug Před 5 lety +200

    😭😭😭😭 the part where Simon cheers Martina up because she thinks she did nothing all day...ABSOLUTELY PRECIOUS. you guys are everything and more. Much love!!!

    • @kineokami
      @kineokami Před 5 lety +3

      I know! ( ˘• ₃ • )ブウ so sweet

    • @aelixanderson5036
      @aelixanderson5036 Před 5 lety +1

      Truth. I want to capture that and play it to myself whenever I'm feeling that negative thought spiral start.

  • @seil_oldaccount
    @seil_oldaccount Před 5 lety +271

    Is it weird I cried in this video? From the years I've watched yall this is just aJHBFKAKSJGN Simon is such a good husband and despite Martina's chronic illness she stays so strong and ggoD IM CRYING I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH I WASTED A WHOLE BOX OF TISSUES, DAMMIT jhakanKAEFJKNA best yt couple i'm cry

  • @simply_geri
    @simply_geri Před 2 lety +17

    just watching back old videos. i will surely treasure you guys' wonderful & loving moments 🤧

  • @emicat717
    @emicat717 Před 5 lety +69

    I forgot how much I like watching you guys, you guys are amazing

  • @luvevrybodybeautiful
    @luvevrybodybeautiful Před 5 lety +336

    Y’all relationship is unbeatable. I know I’ve heard we only see what y’all want us to since it’s CZcams but like the foundation and mutual respect in this relationship is astounding! Thanks for showing us what it’s like to have some messed up shizz going on but being a true supporter of your significant other! It’s a beautiful thing to see!

  • @pickleeevee6934
    @pickleeevee6934 Před 5 lety +128

    Simon should have a book on how to support someone with chronic illness. as someone who suffers like Martina I would love if my significant other knew how to do what Simon does. WINNER. SIMON.

    • @Just_Gil
      @Just_Gil Před 5 lety +2

      Trainer Deni Southern That would actually be amazing! Or maybe make videos about it... I think being the healthy partner must be as hard as being ill. I would make my husband watch them 😊

    • @lazerapes
      @lazerapes Před 5 lety +5

      Split the book in half, two perspectives? Seeing how Simon handles one situation and then flip over to Martina to see how she feels about the same situation.

    • @IzzieHayashi
      @IzzieHayashi Před 5 lety +1

      Yes omg

    • @jojoco120
      @jojoco120 Před 5 lety +1

      YESSSS!

    • @kettyca666
      @kettyca666 Před 5 lety

      I wish I could read this book because sometimes I just need to hear (read) things like this

  • @chicanamarciana1442
    @chicanamarciana1442 Před 3 lety +25

    I’m so sad 😞 I’m going to miss them together so sad they separated. To my knowledge that’s what it seems .

  • @awkwardgrl
    @awkwardgrl Před 5 lety +52

    Watching this brings me hope that I’ll have a relationship like theirs one day. They both strive to bring each other joy or support each other when the other needs it. Thank you for letting us get a glimpse of your day. And thank you Martina for sharing your ups and downs along with how you pull yourself out of it. Truly a comfort even for those without a chronic illness but dealing with different obstacles. I’ve incorporated “building a ladder” in my thought process after seeing your first video talking about it. Keep up the amazing work! I love your videos, makes me want to travel to Japan!

  • @kyaraAthena
    @kyaraAthena Před 5 lety +284

    Toxic masculinity-what? What is that? You'll forget that is even a thing when you watch this video. Bless you Simon, no idea how you were able to escape de whole thing, great parenting, good environment, awesome personality and luck? I have no idea but wish it was contagious, not even my husband that i love is free of some very brainwashed macho ideas sadly, wish me luck but you keep spreading your awesomeness 😅

    • @eatyourkimchi
      @eatyourkimchi  Před 5 lety +57

      I don’t know how I got out of it, either, because I grew up in a VERRRRY toxic masculine environment. Super homophobic, very rude to women. But I just respect Martina so much in so many ways that I couldn’t imagine being rude to her. She’s my inspiration.

    • @jedigrandmaster1773
      @jedigrandmaster1773 Před 5 lety +5

      Toxic masculinity is something Femanazis came up with so they can have "equality", a.k.a the power and wealth of men, the privilege of women, but the responsibility of neither. Asian are generally family oriented, and they respect their women very much. U'll never hear things like "Gurl, make me a sandwich, or get me some beer", because with that attitude, u'll die alone if u can't even get ur own beer.

    • @yivmaiden
      @yivmaiden Před 5 lety +16

      @@jedigrandmaster1773 Asians have their version of patriarchal values at the expense of female empowerment. On the topic of toxic masculinity, one need to recognize and name the problem before rectification works can be made.

  • @pursuitofexcitement
    @pursuitofexcitement Před 5 lety +241

    Ain't nothing wrong with domestic bliss. Travel and adventure are fun, but you can't do it all the time. In fact, that's what makes it and home life sweeter.

  • @friedbolognasandwich
    @friedbolognasandwich Před 3 lety +15

    I came back to this because physically (of course we can never know mentally) was the healthiest Simon was. I hope he returns to this one day. Strength training is so important and now being 169lbs for a tall guy is devastating :( I also just really love this video so much

  • @tamara4557
    @tamara4557 Před 5 lety +18

    Dear Simon and Martina, I was directed to your channel by someone I know because I have EDS as well and they thought it would be nice to see how others cope with it since I don't know anyone else who goes to the daily struggles it comes with. Thank you so much for sharing things. I hope I can learn from you Martina although it is also a bit difficult to watch since it can be so confronting for me. I will keep watching your videos. These videos are also special for me since I lived in Tokyo and it makes me feel a little bit back at home.
    Simon, you said you still don't know why you have to wash the rice before cooking :) it's to wash off the extra starch. That way although Japanese rice is sticky it will also be fluffy.

  • @je5_mma794
    @je5_mma794 Před 5 lety +97

    SIMON IS THE DUDE! Honestly it is such an awesome encouragement that people can come here and see Simon just do what is his thing but its just such an incredible example of what a humble man and husband is! Thank you for sharing your content with the world! You guys are such a blessing!

  • @michelleespinoza2634
    @michelleespinoza2634 Před 5 lety +663

    Actual goals. I love how they went in and encouraged more of their male viewers to help out more in what is usually viewed as a female’s job. Down with toxic masculinity!

    • @MsSoulBlader
      @MsSoulBlader Před 5 lety +15

      @6 ! please don't.

    • @icynok
      @icynok Před 5 lety +3

      @6 ! your comment has been proven a farce time and time again, you need help... ffs

  • @wharrington8587
    @wharrington8587 Před 5 lety +32

    LMAO. I've said the same thing to my husband about the new body. He said the same thing Simon did. You guys are a slightly younger version of us. Thanks for the build a ladder thing I've never thought of my health issues in that way. It really helps.

  • @dokjr6898
    @dokjr6898 Před 5 lety +16

    Simon is the perfect boyfriend/husband. It's not just the woman's job to do the housework... A healthy relationship should at the very least be 50/50. But from time to time it needs to be 60/40. Wake up early and start dinner. It doesn't have to always be fancy, just throw some stuff in a pot. Maybe when your partner is exhausted or feeling too depressed to even get out of bed, then throw some caffeine at them or cook them breakfast or just lay there and hold them. Love the positive vibe, love you both and wish you all the happiness in the world...

  • @xbchng
    @xbchng Před 5 lety +269

    Simon, you are the SWEETEST! Martina is so, so, SOOOOOO lucky to have you! Not only that, I'd say that you two are so lucky to have found each other. I wish I can meet a Simon someday, too. Martina, give Simon loads of kisses (and braless hugs) from us! :P You go, girl!

  • @kelsiiandrews9942
    @kelsiiandrews9942 Před 5 lety +160

    I wish I had a Simon 😭😭😭 he’s so amazing to Martina. You two are couples goals 💕💕

  • @sunnyn9017
    @sunnyn9017 Před rokem +9

    I keep rewatching this 😢

  • @knotheadmacrame2517
    @knotheadmacrame2517 Před 5 lety +24

    I've been following you guys since 2012 or 2011, and I absolutely love your life. It's simple, real, loving, caring. You two are amazing

  • @kelseytaranicole
    @kelseytaranicole Před 5 lety +251

    I love that Simon is so happy to help out with chores and go against "gender norms". That's really sweet :) Also, Martina, I love your video editing!

  • @jessicarewerts3479
    @jessicarewerts3479 Před 5 lety +314

    Hello Simon and Martina! (LONG COMMENT COMING, YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!) I usually don't leave comments on your videos, not because I don't love you guys, but because I usually feel like nobody cares about what I have to say and it's a waste of time. However, I decided to comment on this video because I couldn't contain my happiness when I watched this video. You guys are so genuine and so real about Martinas EDS, your home (small but wonderful), and even Simon's stinky tuna/egg concoction that he despises! This is why I have been watching your videos for years and years. When I lived on my own for the first time, I had a TV but no DVD player or cable service....so I would steal my neighbor's wifi and plug my laptop into the tv via hdmi, and watch you guys everyday....all day. I cooked with Martina, watched anime recommendations, played Final Fantasy along with Simon and even bought many of the WTF items to try out myself. I hope this comment doesn't come across as creepy that I have basically had you in my life for longer than my current relationship, but you guys are a part of my own ladder. I suffer from depression, anxiety and a pain disorder. The pain is what really sends me into a dark place most days. Watching your videos has always brought me joy (even if the wonderful treasures were a bit weird or the treats I tried made me second guess my decision 🤢). I have come to a point in my life where so much is going well, but the pain makes me worry about losing it all. I own a home 🏠, have animals to look after🐾, a full time job and hobbies to occupy my free time. If I don't keep myself going, the pain makes me want to stay in bed all day.....everyday....and it sucks. Thank you guys for helping me build a ladder. Thank you for making me smile with any new uploads (youtube or otherwise). And thank you for being real about life! Not everything is sunshine and rainbows but finding joy in the little things is what makes life worth living :) Hugs from California! 🌎
    P.s The first video of yours I ever watched involved coffee and a salad spinner 😅

    • @momokun90
      @momokun90 Před 5 lety +8

      You are definitely not creepy in any sense, dear. I remember watching Simon and Martina at 16 years old, during my 2nd year of my high school life. It was the "How to Eat Ramen Like Pro" video where, admittedly, I cringed watching them (because I just did not understand their jokes! Rewatching it causes me to have lots of laughs now). But I got to thank CZcams's recommendation for bringing myself to know this wonderful channel. They managed to change how I view the world to a more positive side. I remember the one video in Eat Your Sushi where they talked about snowstorm and perspectives. That became one of my life principle that I hold dearly now. Not to say how I love Martina and her patience despite her looks (says a lot about don't judge the book based on the cover. Behind that smile is a body that hurts so much...) and how I truly respect the love and affection Simon shows with his actions towards Martina (despite me getting a lil annoyed with his Cheater McCheaterson ways...)
      I am glad that I managed to find these goofy guys. They are such inspirational human being.

    • @momokun90
      @momokun90 Před 5 lety +3

      Oh yeah, btw I am already going to graduate soon 😇

    • @jessicarewerts3479
      @jessicarewerts3479 Před 5 lety

      Thank you everyone for your likes on this comment! And thank you to Simon and Martina for making such a great community here :)

  • @-J.A.
    @-J.A. Před 3 lety +26

    To think they're separated now. Life is strange like that.

  • @rhiannonllewellynleigh3553
    @rhiannonllewellynleigh3553 Před 5 lety +31

    Love this video. Thankyou to Simon especially to introducing me to the lofi hip hop channel, such awesome chilled music. It also makes me think of your lovely videos

  • @GeoKuromi
    @GeoKuromi Před 5 lety +93

    martina is seriously SUCH a strong person! and simon is so understanding and supporting and that makes him such a good fit for her.

  • @TheFoolishHuman
    @TheFoolishHuman Před 5 lety +281

    You two are seriously the cutest people on youtube. I really love how you motivate and support each other. Martina is the brightest little sunshine, even if it's incredibly tough and Simon is always there for her being so sweet and caring 🦆

  • @ariella1454
    @ariella1454 Před 5 lety +70

    I literally aspire to have this life. Just a simple, beautiful life with a loving partner (granted I know everyone has their complications) but you guys are so happy together and you get to do what you love for a living. I can’t wait for this 😭 also I LOVE Martina’s outfit thoooo

  • @scorpio16x
    @scorpio16x Před 5 lety +4

    I just wanted to leave a comment thanking Martina for saying that it's acceptable to change daily goals. I've been diagnosed with depression for ten years now, and I've often been told that it's helpful to set little goals for yourself so you feel a sense of accomplishment. Which works - until I fail to meet my daily goal and become upset with my failure, and things spiral from there... But recently I've been trying to acknowledge that it's okay to change daily goals, it's a way to actively hunt for joy! And it's definitely been helping :D Thank you!

  • @ronjoy43
    @ronjoy43 Před 5 lety +126

    I love LOVE the way martina tells how she edits and potrays different emotions and moods. Editing and films are a huge passion to me personally, so seeing how she really thinks and puts effort into it is so inspirational!

  • @Totchi85
    @Totchi85 Před 5 lety +848

    Someone: "Perfect husbands don't exist!"
    Simon: "HOLD MY BEER"

    • @Kyon871
      @Kyon871 Před 5 lety +39

      Toshi Hakari Simon would do it while holding the beer he would never ask someone to hold it for him

    • @beeveearr
      @beeveearr Před 5 lety +26

      Hold my coffee, I gotta poop!

    • @AnanyaShetty_
      @AnanyaShetty_ Před 5 lety +8

      I KNOW RIGHT! With every video, he raises the bar for my future husband.

    • @winter4abunny
      @winter4abunny Před 5 lety +1

      For real! Like I'm happy by myself but seeing Simon's love for Martina makes me what someone like that for myself!

    • @birdie5631
      @birdie5631 Před 5 lety +7

      Simon: "HOLD MY BEER!"
      Martina: *holds the beer*
      Simon: *holds Martina's face with both hands and kisses her whole face and shouts to someone* "MWAHAHA! What was that? I can't hear you over my perfect wife!"
      ( l o l)

  • @royroy428198
    @royroy428198 Před 5 lety +10

    I was like "OMG that purple onion looks so perfect... almost like a toy... is it because it's a Japanese onion?" and i found out that was just an onion-shaped container... Japanese so weird yet so cute😂

  • @sprightlyghoul
    @sprightlyghoul Před 4 lety +3

    Another quiet morning in Ireland and I'm rewatching this video *again*. It helps motivate me and keeps things in perspective on the days I need to build a ladder.

  • @magno5157
    @magno5157 Před 5 lety +48

    That purple onion container fooled me! I was thinking "that's the most beautiful onion I've ever seen!"

  • @laurenb9500
    @laurenb9500 Před 5 lety +671

    Oh Simon it was so cool to see you talk about men doing things around the home! I have a chronic pain/chronic illness and my husband does a lot around here. Cooking is therapeutic to me and I’ve adapted methods of ease with cooking (love a crock pot & instantpot dinners) but he does the laundry, cleans, and does a lot of extra stuff when I get overwhelmed! Thank you for encouraging this kind of support! 😍

  • @benlewis9759
    @benlewis9759 Před 5 lety +44

    I swear these two have the kind of relationship I want with my soon to be wife. Utterly in love, completely supportive, talk things through rather than fight. Empathetic of eachothers needs, screw Romeo and Juliet, I want a relationship like Simon and Martina any day.

  • @schmoollala678
    @schmoollala678 Před 5 lety +4

    How does a day in a life video make me cry so much???? The love you have for each other is so pure and inspiring.

  • @Catigizmo
    @Catigizmo Před 5 lety +136

    My husband has to commute to work an hour and a half one way. Every morning he lays on top of me and squooshes me and kisses me before he goes down stairs to do the rest of his morning because I don't have to wake up when he does. Just wanted to share the positivity of morning like y'all have.

  • @ladytyphon7261
    @ladytyphon7261 Před 5 lety +569

    PLEASE HIT LIKE, I NEED MARTINA TO REALLY SEE THIS.
    Oh i love you both, but jeez, Simon! Im so proud of you for helping Martina as much as you can, but mostly for helping her to not feel guilty about needing a recovery day. I once saw a little saying about Energy and output. Its hard to put into words. But basically, everybody is given 100 energy points per week, and if we have a big day, we are borrowing energy from another day and it needs to be paid back. And also something about the value of those energy points. Basically, it costs people with chronic illnesses twice (maybe more) of the energy points to do the same things. It really hit home with me as i was caring for my father who passed away from heart failure when he was 59. Never feel guilty for needing a recovery day. You are living your life with a condition that hurts, but you are still making the most of it despite the pain. 💪

  • @messier3126
    @messier3126 Před 4 lety +2

    Martinas advice to video editing got me an A- in my class . I love you Martina. You’re a big part of my heart
    ( you too Simon. You amazing strong man. You inspire me so much to keep on working out) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ximenabravo4121
    @ximenabravo4121 Před 5 lety +169

    I believe in love now

  • @RaquelS17
    @RaquelS17 Před 5 lety +106

    “I like to watch videos of houses I’ll never be able to afford” ME TOO, Simon! 🤣

  • @Slendergirl89
    @Slendergirl89 Před 5 lety +759

    Modern dating is so depressing. Sometimes it's easy to become cynical in this 'thank u next', swipe right disposable culture. It's actually so lovely (and needed) to see people really working at and loving each other so fully and working on improving each other and yourself (rather than shopping on apps for the next upgrade). You and Martina are so inspirational -- sounds cheesy but I mean it haha. You truly make each other's happiness your own 😊

    • @deedL3
      @deedL3 Před 5 lety +2

      totally agree

    • @abbyeom4307
      @abbyeom4307 Před 5 lety +2

      definitely agree😭😭

    • @gina2ful
      @gina2ful Před 5 lety +3

      I Agree!!

    • @noneedtoknowme
      @noneedtoknowme Před 5 lety +15

      bless your comment. I was like love like Simon's & Martina's has become so rare to see within the hook-up culture going on rn. This is why I love anime and manga because pure romance still exists in these stories. I do hope that there are people still out there looking for real love & human connection rather than in the sheets action 1-day into a relationship. The meaning of "love" is slowly fading away as people start with 'experimenting' only to end up more hurt than understanding what love is.

    • @LuckyLifeguard
      @LuckyLifeguard Před 5 lety +1

      +++++++

  • @GaiusGear
    @GaiusGear Před 4 lety +2

    This is honestly one of my favorite videos you guys have ever uploaded. My girlfriend has been suffering from chronic pain and watching Simon be there and supportive of Martina has been such an inspiration for how to help her. Then Martina explaining the concept of building a ladder and turning the night around. You guys are great and thank you for sharing this with us.

  • @peachiiriri
    @peachiiriri Před 3 lety +32

    I'm watching this with tears streaming down my face 😭😢 i still wish them well but it's so sad that they split up

    • @Gmrgrl-mb5np
      @Gmrgrl-mb5np Před 3 lety +4

      Same. Even though we were all suspecting, it’s such a shock to me that I can’t fully accept it yet.

  • @Tessa_Ru
    @Tessa_Ru Před 5 lety +139

    Would just like to say I appreciate your openness with your personal struggles with chronic illness, and the mental toll that takes. A close family member recently had a psychosis break due to stress, and I feel like seeing how you two support each other has helped me to understand the resulting depression and struggle they are going through to recover.

  • @prettykitty345
    @prettykitty345 Před 5 lety +244

    This is the best relationship I have ever seen between 2 people EVER!!! Been subscribed for FOREVER and every video I always think about the the Greek mythology that humans used to have 2 heads and 4 arms and legs, and Zeus split them fearing them to be too powerful. I'm glad you two found each other. Stick it to Zeus!!! XD

  • @lizagrace3110
    @lizagrace3110 Před 4 lety +1

    Talking as someone who has hard days with EDS, Simon supporting Martina almost brought me to tears, He was so understanding and didn’t blame it on her but instead said “we did hard things, its ok” and then them going out made it even better because he supported her taking steps even when it was a slower day and she needed a little time to recover

  • @estefanidarkness
    @estefanidarkness Před 5 lety +1

    The love you have for each other really comfort my heart! You're such an inspiration 😘

  • @vincentiusjason3867
    @vincentiusjason3867 Před 5 lety +100

    Damnnn so happy this video’s a long one!!!!! Let’s go team not skip all the ads!!!!!

  • @lilfishi89
    @lilfishi89 Před 5 lety +195

    I just love the way that Simon loves and takes care of Martina. ❤️

  • @kaiandrea1368
    @kaiandrea1368 Před 5 lety

    Thanks simon. I think you’re amazing for loving Martina like you do and encouraging her. You both deserve the world.

  • @rustictexas2576
    @rustictexas2576 Před 5 lety +1

    I have Crohns and fibromyalgia and am in constant pain. My husband is just like Simon and so helpful and supportive! I have two boys under 10 and they also understand and help me out. I’m so blessed but I totally feel the same way every day. Watching you gives me hope and new ideas of turning my depression around!

  • @gina015pang
    @gina015pang Před 5 lety +150

    Absolutely love how u guys are supporting each other all these years and more than what we can see on the camera...❤️from a fan from Malaysia

    • @momokun90
      @momokun90 Před 5 lety +1

      Omg!! A fellow Nasty from Malaysia!! Hello!

    • @gina015pang
      @gina015pang Před 5 lety

      @@momokun90 Bello!🙋🙋

  • @SailorMoonicorn
    @SailorMoonicorn Před 5 lety +101

    My partner and I were introduced to y'all years ago because a friend said we reminded her of you two as a couple. I *swear* watching Simon is like watching my boo; down to browning the discount slow cooker beef so it's tastier for me, and making me coffee and leaving it on my nightstand because I'm so slow to get going in the mornings.
    I have several lifelong, chronic illnesses as well, and I feel so dang lucky to have found my own "Simon." I don't know how I'd manage without him.

  • @sproutpuppy8216
    @sproutpuppy8216 Před 3 lety

    I come back to this video so often. It gives such comforting vibes. I love you both so much.

  • @emilyweimer2720
    @emilyweimer2720 Před 5 lety +2

    Thanks guys for being so real. I appreciate the joy you can bring to even hard days. You're one of the few You-tubers I can watch with my sister and you always make us smile. Have a great day!

  • @dorriebanana4983
    @dorriebanana4983 Před 5 lety +62

    I find that People, especially since the rising popularity of social Media, only care to share the exciting events in their lifes. The word "mundane" has a bad connotation that I can't get behind. Personally, I am much more in awe when I See the little things People do, i.e. incorporate in their daily routines to make a big difference. Like Simon working out, teaching the Cat little tricks or Martina pouring her soul into editing the Videos we love and deciding to go out when she's been holed up inside all day. These things are more relatable to me than a two weeks Trip to Barcelona. I enjoy watching these travel-logs, they are exciting and entertaining for sure. But they won't tug at my heart strings like this video where you just Talk about your everyday struggles. Going on an adventure is an exciting and wonderful ecperience, But as J.R.R. Tolkien taught us in the Lord of the Rings: Nothing beats coming home after a long journey and laughing with friends and family to tell the story.

    • @danielliex31793
      @danielliex31793 Před 5 lety +1

      Hehe I think you mean J. R. R. Tolkien :) I often confuse the two.

    • @dorriebanana4983
      @dorriebanana4983 Před 5 lety

      @@danielliex31793 Thank you for pointing that out. I'm pretty sure I was the victim of my ever so clever Spelling Correction. It's hard to teach a German Smartphone English words.

  • @kazeneko1350
    @kazeneko1350 Před 5 lety +54

    I want to be a simon when I grow up

  • @duinsophie
    @duinsophie Před 3 lety +4

    I always find myself coming back to this video and rewatching it. There's something so normalising and calming about it. Thanks guys 😊

  • @electricmariposa
    @electricmariposa Před 5 lety +1

    I’ve been watching y’all for a long time. Your energy and love are very healing ❤️

  • @albertlie3597
    @albertlie3597 Před 5 lety +223

    How to be a good husband 101

  • @gabimic7022
    @gabimic7022 Před 5 lety +76

    I remember those obnoxious, custom green/blue shoes Simon has. And that hoodie in the last scene with the cat face that Martina bought on G-Marker. I didn't realise how much time has passed. And now I'm an adult... It's amazing go see how far you guys have come as well. Let's grow more together ❤

  • @TeaCupSimmer
    @TeaCupSimmer Před 5 lety

    Hey Simon and Martina,
    So I've been watching you guys off and on for two years now. I found you when I started seriously considering moving to Japan in my mid- to late twenties and I saw your Coco curry video and was instantly hooked. I grew up in Japan from four to eight years old and I always felt connected to the food more than anything else because you can't go many places as an eight year old but you remember the hole in the wall ramen shop you used to go to. I haven't commented before because I tend to listen to you guys like a podcast because you sound like people i'd get along with and have such positive personalities that listening to you guys makes me smile. I know you guys get a lot of comments and messages and I just wanted to say that I really appreciate your videos and content. I've been going back and watching old TLDRs and your other videos from when you were in Korea. It's fun to see how much you guys have changed and grown over the past 10 years. I'm currently planning and saving for moving to Japan for a few years when I turn 27 (Currently turning 25 in May) so I have more time. Listening to your podcast about mini villages made me feel so much better about feeling alone when I do eventually move to Japan, I have a survival level language proficiency but I want to at least be able to pass the N5 test before I go. This is a pretty long message lol but I guess I just wanted to say thank you for being yourselves and being role modes for people who want to be authentically themselves as well. I'll try and comment more often, because I'm sure I've watched more of your Japan videos at least three times each at this point. Happy Monday! Best, Tia