HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH MY HIGH SCHOOL SELF🎓 (4 years later as a COLLEGE GRAD)

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  • @urmomashley
    @urmomashley Před 11 měsíci +402

    First

  • @heyimolivia
    @heyimolivia Před 11 měsíci +321

    damn- as someone going into college this is making me imagine myself in 4 yrs being soooo calm n cool n collected. this is so comforting like all my lil anxieties are just silly

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander  Před 11 měsíci +24

      Awe!!! U got this😎❤️

    • @HannahTran1
      @HannahTran1 Před 11 měsíci +2

      lol I wish I was like her I’m gonna be a senior in college and have no clue what I’m doing cause I kept jumping around😭:( hopefully it gets better and good luck!

  • @kellyreyes7409
    @kellyreyes7409 Před 11 měsíci +139

    omg you’ve grown so much 🤍

  • @EW-ln4ql
    @EW-ln4ql Před 11 měsíci +44

    as someone who relates with 17 year old amber esp the fear, social anxiety etc. i’m excited for the rest of my uni journey to figure it out like she did :” thanks amber for such a lovely video

  • @saratoninpls
    @saratoninpls Před 11 měsíci +65

    I remember when you moved in 4 years ago and now I’m 17 😀 It’s crazy how fast time has gone. This makes me even more excited to go to college next year

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander  Před 11 měsíci +8

      AWE omg I hope u have the best time at college!! :D

  • @myraconcepcion
    @myraconcepcion Před 11 měsíci +53

    this was such a nice video. your past 17 year old self is definitely how i feel right now. and with my mom worrying so much abt sending me off to college (i’m the first child to go off to college), it’s not really been helping. but this video of you talking abt how things turned out differently and a lot better than you expected, it makes me feel more at ease. i hope you’re able to continue to thrive and find your path after college! i’m so excited to see what’s to come and congrats again on graduating, amber! ❤️

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander  Před 11 měsíci +3

      Awe thank you!!! And I hope u have the best time at college!!🥹❤️❤️

  • @gabrysius
    @gabrysius Před 11 měsíci +68

    congrats on all of your accomplishments, amber! it's been such a pleasure watching your transition from hs to college to now a college graduate! absolutely inspiring!

  • @jasminecitlalli
    @jasminecitlalli Před 10 měsíci +5

    Holy crap! You totally made me realize how much time has passed as a subscriber because I remember watching your videos during your senior year when I was going through my first year at college and now you’ve already been through it and it just blew my mind. Thank you for all fun videos and helping me see how much I’ve grown as well.

  • @neiha
    @neiha Před 11 měsíci +23

    as someone who just finished my first year of uni (I study in the UK!) this was really reassuring to hear! your growth is apparent and your mindset towards things is something I hope to adapt myself in the next 3 years before I graduate. so excited to see what the future holds for you 🫶

  • @______________chhoii
    @______________chhoii Před 11 měsíci +3

    Congratulations on your well- deserved success! 🎉

  • @juliachng
    @juliachng Před 11 měsíci

    CONGRAST AMBER!! amber you literally make college look so fun! can't wait for post grad life, you're the best!!

  • @junounooxenfree
    @junounooxenfree Před 11 měsíci

    Congratulations 🥺✨ so proud ‼️

  • @simplecityfarm8913
    @simplecityfarm8913 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hey Amber! I'm so happy for you, congratulations on graduating❤

  • @elisalin8954
    @elisalin8954 Před 11 měsíci

    Woah crazy to realize that 4 years passed by so quick! Been following the evolution since 2019! Congrats on your growth and achievements!! Cheers to going into new stages with no fear!! 💖

  • @xesaxee
    @xesaxee Před 11 měsíci +1

    THIS IS FIRE AMBER LOVED IT

  • @EN_KATT
    @EN_KATT Před 11 měsíci +6

    I'm envious and proud of Amber! College hasn't been smooth for me and I'm currently lost in the middle of nowhere, but seeing Amber's past self and bloomed form is heartwarming! I also found that not taking myself too seriously helps. Congrats on your Graduation!🎉

  • @marcelaubillus2907
    @marcelaubillus2907 Před 11 měsíci

    so happy for you Amber!! keep going!

  • @lily_2654
    @lily_2654 Před 11 měsíci

    You did it , I am so proud of you , I hope in future you still with us , Love ya so much 💙

  • @vivian.d.lee.
    @vivian.d.lee. Před 11 měsíci

    this is so cool! congrats amber😎

  • @teresamov
    @teresamov Před 11 měsíci

    congrats amber!! I’ve been watching you since covid and it’s crazy to see you grow as a person :)) this video gave me comfort for uni since I’ll be studying media production ♥︎♥︎

  • @meepmoop250
    @meepmoop250 Před 11 měsíci

    Aw this was so cute. I’m so happy everything worked out well for you. Good luck for da future, u deserve the best forreals

  • @moonsplaylist
    @moonsplaylist Před 11 měsíci +3

    “little amber you got in!” 🥹🤧🤍

  • @jenniferms3605
    @jenniferms3605 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Amber’s fr one of my favorite people in the CZcams community ❤ Proud of you for reaching the milestone that is graduating from college! 🙌🏽🎉

  • @ssaammm_
    @ssaammm_ Před 11 měsíci

    Congrats amber

  • @Wrryaboutgfriend
    @Wrryaboutgfriend Před 11 měsíci +19

    Nah I just graduated HS and the “leave your anxieties in the past” and other parts of the VIDEO IS SUCH GOOD ADVICE 😭😭 WE NEED MORE ADVICE TBH 🙏

  • @amyrobson503
    @amyrobson503 Před 11 měsíci +1

    congrats bae!!! excited for the next chapter :)

  • @angie3473
    @angie3473 Před 11 měsíci +2

    this was somehow so healing and reassuring to watch 😭 congratulations amber!!! for graduating and for growth muahhh

  • @kash2422
    @kash2422 Před 11 měsíci

    you seem to have really grown into yourself and it was just so nice to see that in the end it did turn out alright :)

  • @happymi3l
    @happymi3l Před 11 měsíci

    omg i think i remember watching this video when you posted it and it’s so crazy cuz i didn’t realize you’ve become that much more confident and mature over the years and it’s so cool to see that! Makes me kinda want to continue with school
    And also i didn’t realize i have been watching your videos for over 4 years that is crazy

  • @itscristaaa
    @itscristaaa Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hi Ambeeeer❤❤ congrats on everything you've achieved!

  • @yatzn02
    @yatzn02 Před 11 měsíci

    im so emotional at this amberrrr !!! im so proud of you and i hope watching your younger self reminded you that you are capable and always have been

  • @donnabulaoro6651
    @donnabulaoro6651 Před 10 měsíci

    aww watching this made me emotional 🥺🥺 so proud of you and your growth!

  • @s.k.henkle
    @s.k.henkle Před 11 měsíci

    I just graduated too!! Thanks for the encouragement, we got this!! Next chapter here we come

  • @kimjiraven
    @kimjiraven Před 11 měsíci

    alex !!!! you have no idea how much i needed this advice right now 😭 like you in the past, im full of fears for the next journey because im gonna move for college too. thank you for the video as always, alex. I've been a subscriber ever since, and im happy with how much youve grown! goodluck luck in your future endeavors! we, your subscribers, are always here for you, cheering you on!

  • @Junefalemaka
    @Junefalemaka Před 11 měsíci

    Every time when I do a self care routine I always love watching Amber videos. ❤❤❤

  • @coolazn1997
    @coolazn1997 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Here’s to growing up and doing the damn thing! So proud of the growth and I hope you’re happy you’ve experienced so many great moments ❤

  • @yana6639
    @yana6639 Před 10 měsíci

    as someone going into senior year and planning to move for college this is so comforting and inspiring omg so proud of you amber!

  • @jennycheng1183
    @jennycheng1183 Před 11 měsíci +1

    YAYYYYy congrats Amber!!!

  • @kristinasabad7890
    @kristinasabad7890 Před 11 měsíci +3

    i remember watching this 4 years ago and now i’m going into my first year of college and it really is a full circle moment. makes me feel like i don’t have to worry as much. i feel like i’ve grown up beside you so thank you for making me realize everything will be okay

  • @101lilnikkie
    @101lilnikkie Před 11 měsíci

    I'm from the UK and we're the same age so watching your equivalent of my experience over the years has literally been wild. I didn't have a great experience overall because life, yet I feel like I've grown in the exact same ways!
    I can't wait to see your perspective on everything post-Uni while I literally do the exact same thing again.

  • @kelseylelei
    @kelseylelei Před 11 měsíci

    it's actually so crazy watching this and remembering the whollle moving vlog back in 2019

  • @ruhanimariam6404
    @ruhanimariam6404 Před 11 měsíci

    Amber girl you're always on time 😭 I love you so much!!!

  • @wadita_
    @wadita_ Před 11 měsíci

    Have been watching your videos for like two and a half years and I am Soo proud of you amberrrrrr♥️♥️♥️

  • @jimenezangelli8566
    @jimenezangelli8566 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I remember watching your college videos when I was a freshman in high school. Now I'm starting uni in the fall and you've graduated. We've come a long way. Congratulations

  • @yellowchild33
    @yellowchild33 Před 11 měsíci

    wooooaaaah. that's so crazy. it's also reassuring to hear this as someone who's also socially anxious- or just anxious in general lol. you were scared before, i was scared before, but we always just keep being okay.

  • @hyunyoungmo1662
    @hyunyoungmo1662 Před 11 měsíci

    Seeing this as I go to college across the country :))) this video is inspiring me to make my own, glad I got to see your journey

  • @user-yo5se
    @user-yo5se Před 11 měsíci +4

    the confidence you built in just 4 years is insane, you really grew into your personality

  • @monxmon
    @monxmon Před 11 měsíci

    fellow 23’ college grad! we did it! 🎉 love the video and ur short film!

  • @MySweetThing17
    @MySweetThing17 Před 11 měsíci

    I love seeing the growth u had! ♡ Im also rlly socially anxious until now, I hope I have growth like this too some day ♡

  • @lexithach3983
    @lexithach3983 Před 11 měsíci +1

    so proud of u amber! i’ve been watching u since high school and i just graduated college as well. such a full circle moment and i loved watching u grow

  • @kendallmilo
    @kendallmilo Před 11 měsíci

    watching this 2 months before i move across the country to california for college 😭 this was so comforting to watch though thank u amber you’re the coolest

  • @cin409
    @cin409 Před 11 měsíci

    your social life from your past self definitely seems like me right now. hopefully I could work on myself and become less shy like you did!

  • @rohitchetri1077
    @rohitchetri1077 Před 9 měsíci

    Many Congratulations on getting graduated, keep working hard. Always remember there are no shortcut to success 👩‍🎓

  • @aasuello
    @aasuello Před 11 měsíci

    You’re a genius! ❤ Proud of you!

  • @WhatAlex
    @WhatAlex Před 11 měsíci +3

    19:14 "it seems like we just got it figured out" I TOTALLY FEEL. I also graduated in May and I feel like our class especially *just* figured it out because we lost like a year and a half of college to covid

  • @hannahgn
    @hannahgn Před 11 měsíci +2

    amber, congrats on graduating n keeping us up to date w everything! this year flewwww by but i’m so proud of u :’) i’m only half way thru my major but ur vlogs have been so comforting n i love the lil life advice u’ve sprinkled in them thru out the years. best of luck w ur future endeavours 💓

  • @minjang9064
    @minjang9064 Před 11 měsíci +2

    thanks for sharing this video and being so vulnerable! We started and ended college together which makes this video even more meaningful. Part of me wishes that I did this too!

  • @BoolilyT
    @BoolilyT Před 11 měsíci

    This is kind of comforting as I’m starting university in September ❤

  • @pietradeister767
    @pietradeister767 Před 11 měsíci

    its so crazy how we can change in a few years lol i'm really sooo happy for you, congratulations again 🤧💘💘

  • @leilaniarellano7660
    @leilaniarellano7660 Před 11 měsíci

    im so proud of you amber🥹

  • @junehill1784
    @junehill1784 Před 11 měsíci +1

    amberrrr!! aw I loved this video. I am transferring colleges to major in film and tv. I hope I have as much fun at my new school as you did at Chapman. Excited to see what you do next. Best of luck.

  • @niyart
    @niyart Před 11 měsíci +45

    Crazy how time goes by so fast!! Congratulations Amber!! I’m glad I was part of this journey since the beginning ❤ can’t wait what the future holds in for you!!

  • @xesaxee
    @xesaxee Před 11 měsíci +1

    best is yet to come

  • @okokok44
    @okokok44 Před 11 měsíci +19

    I'm honestly so fricking proud of you. I've been watching for a long ass time, and seeing you grown up is crazy. Love you lots Amber, hope you get to show your greatness and talent to the world 💌💞

  • @filipgurl
    @filipgurl Před 11 měsíci

    i'm so proud of you! I can't believe we got to watch you through the ups and downs, and thank you for sharing with us as you took us along your journey

  • @racergamer9215
    @racergamer9215 Před 11 měsíci

    Hello Amber, thank you for making my day a lot better 😀

  • @arunimaaa
    @arunimaaa Před 11 měsíci +1

    So cute Amber❤ You have glowed up and grown into a gorgeous lady. Congratulations Amber so happy for you.

  • @ku9008
    @ku9008 Před 11 měsíci

    I just realized that I've been watching you for 4 years now and that's so crazy to me am 18 now so I was 14 at the time and it feels like it's my turn to start the journey to college now haha , anyways I was already happy for you and looked up to you for making that cross back then and am even more happy that you finished college with all those happy memories 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @haydensfavgf
    @haydensfavgf Před 11 měsíci

    omg congrats amber!!! i’m so happy for you and i just know you’ll continue to reach your goals :) i’m a current high schooler rn and this actually does make me feel better and more comfortable about college!!

  • @daylontildawn
    @daylontildawn Před 11 měsíci

    this video concept idea is so creative!

  • @RARACORE11
    @RARACORE11 Před 11 měsíci

    congrats amber 🎉

  • @aneliseat7934
    @aneliseat7934 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Graduating uni in one year!!! I can relate to Amber sm and i defo still feel clueless when it comes to some certain parts. Congratulations on your milestone Amber!🎉 I still remember watching your cross country moving vlog in my senior year and now I'm also graduating... time flies ❤❤

  • @jay0113C
    @jay0113C Před 11 měsíci

    Love her so much!!

  • @youknowitsjackie
    @youknowitsjackie Před 10 měsíci

    you make me feel so much better about college!!! i’m starting this fall at florida state 🥺

  • @shawna4691
    @shawna4691 Před 11 měsíci +2

    i really needed this video :,) it gave me the reassurance that i needed because i have been so so scared of my future and what is coming up soon in my life.. u and ashley really are such an inspiration to me because u both work so hard and it really gives me the strength to keep going sometimes when i really need it! thank you thank you thank you!

  • @shaniiielx
    @shaniiielx Před 11 měsíci

    been a fan for so long, you've grown so much emotionally i should say! so proud of youuu amberrr

    • @shaniiielx
      @shaniiielx Před 11 měsíci

      that's a great way to look back omg this is something bruh

  • @patricialuize
    @patricialuize Před 11 měsíci

    this made me cry happy tears 🥹 congratulations, Amber!! Excited for new amazing things to come!!!

  • @shinsou9299
    @shinsou9299 Před 8 měsíci

    I'm starting college soon and I am VERY NERVOUS about it😞 and my mental health has hit rock bottom this past few months now But watching your vlogs and listening to your words really motivated me to be more open minded about the possibilities that the future might bring. OBVIOUSLY I'm still a bit worried but the things you said in this video gave me the pat on the back that I really needed so Thank you so much amber💓 I wish I could be as cool and confident as you someday

  • @faniamorais9203
    @faniamorais9203 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Go Amberrr🥳🎉

  • @mayyy6924
    @mayyy6924 Před 11 měsíci +1

    its so crazy watching how much youve grown 😭 i remember watching ur pre college/ freshman vids and now you've graduated and im on my 3rd of uni! thanks for providing entertainment and good laughs over the past 5-6 years. everyone get my girl to a milly

  • @sophiawhite2212
    @sophiawhite2212 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for posting this! I’ll be a freshman this fall:) congratulations!!!

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander  Před 11 měsíci +1

      YAY thank u!!! Hope u have a great freshman year!!❤️❤️

  • @SandraPerez-hd3tq
    @SandraPerez-hd3tq Před 11 měsíci

    SLAY AMBER!!!❤

  • @elledanika333
    @elledanika333 Před 10 měsíci

    omg the switch up in questions talking about life threatening situations and being kidnapped😭 and then past amber talking about how the universe gave her friends right when she needed it for confidence MY EMOTIONS WERE ALL OVER DURINT THIS VIDEO

  • @ChickenAbobo
    @ChickenAbobo Před 11 měsíci +9

    omg i thought younger you sounded like ashley for a second there... BUT HEY CONGRATS AMBER!!! you worked hard. hope life takes you places where you want to be, and places that would give you the utmost fulfillment ✨️

  • @jadziak6997
    @jadziak6997 Před 11 měsíci

    This was amazing! Something all CZcamsrs who want to recap their journey (or ANYONE for that matter lol). Very forward thinking! :-)))))

  • @greatawol
    @greatawol Před 10 měsíci

    I’ve been saving this video so the advice would b fresh in my brain😭 but I’m abt to start college in three weeks too and while I’m not moving as far as you, I will be on campus so I’m nervous but this vid lowkey assured me that I will b okay and I need to take care of myself too! Anyways I’ve been watching you since pandemic so I’m seriously proud of how much you’ve grown! Thank you amber😊

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander  Před 10 měsíci

      AWE u got this!!! I hope u have the best time at college!!🥹🩷

  • @Roseql5
    @Roseql5 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I love that u can see how much confidence u have developed and the comfortability u have w urself now. It’s so epic chungus slay😤 congrats on graduating!!🎊

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander  Před 11 měsíci +1

      HAHA omg thank u so much!!!

    • @Roseql5
      @Roseql5 Před 11 měsíci

      @@amberalexander of course!!!🥹🤎

  • @roseo333
    @roseo333 Před 11 měsíci

    ahh i just graduated high school this is so perfect thank you 🤍

  • @Des_Ontoy
    @Des_Ontoy Před 11 měsíci

    We love the character development😫🙌

  • @rickmiller7148
    @rickmiller7148 Před 11 měsíci

    Graduation Congratulations, Amber! And, Blessings upon you throughout your Continuing Journey. Also, Happy #CelebrationOfTheSensesDay, #GreatAmericanBackyardCampoutDay & #NationalPralinesDay! Then, tomorrow will be #GlobalBeatlesDay, #DayOfTheSeafarer, #NationalCatfishDay & #NationalStrawberryParfaitDay. Wonderful Weekend and Superb Summer to you and yours...

  • @aintsopx
    @aintsopx Před 11 měsíci +14

    this makes me feel better about college tbh 🙏🏽 congrats amber

  • @kaonashiie
    @kaonashiie Před 11 měsíci

    This is so beautiful! And I'm graduating college soon , scared of my future don't know what to do😩

  • @kookpage
    @kookpage Před 11 měsíci +2

    aw amber idk why watching this video is making me tear up ahhshdhhdfghfhf… so proud of you and how far you’ve come!! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @madisonbryan3111
    @madisonbryan3111 Před 11 měsíci +1

    i remember when this video came out 😭 i went to chapman bc of 17 y/o you!! i live in maryland and have never left the east coast until aug 2021 when i started my freshman year! i had a lot of the same fears as you (as a previously shy girl myself) but have changed a lot from the college experience 😎 amber’s right! nothing matters and everything is hilarious. i also made my main friend group that i have now during my freshman orientation! life’s crazy man… i’m almost a junior 😟

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander  Před 11 měsíci +1

      AWE omg I hope ur enjoying chapman!!!🥹❤️

  • @natalianavarrete3547
    @natalianavarrete3547 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow! you are so inspiring I love your videos

  • @janellereece2335
    @janellereece2335 Před 11 měsíci

    Its crazy how we do all of our schooling and then once you graduate college you realize its really up to you to decide what to do next with your life. In my experience it's a bit debilitating to have that many options and whole wide world in front of me...but we're starting small and forming our own lives little by little!

  • @Deli24knight
    @Deli24knight Před 11 měsíci

    This was such a cool video concept and you should do another video for post grad!

  • @kevinz-nv8pg
    @kevinz-nv8pg Před 11 měsíci

    The picture-in-picture technique makes a single picture have a beautiful background.

  • @steffi7190
    @steffi7190 Před 11 měsíci +4

    THE PICK ME VIBES HAHAHHA AMBER you're so real for this LMFAO

    • @steffi7190
      @steffi7190 Před 11 měsíci

      congrats again on being a boss and graduating while still posting on youtube

  • @evatang4429
    @evatang4429 Před 11 měsíci

    aww this is so cute !