Controlling Girlfriend GETS DUMPED, What Happens Is Shocking | Dhar Mann

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    00:00 Controlling Girlfriend GETS DUMPED
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    CREDITS:
    Writer: Dhar
    Idea: Elisandro Gonzalez & Dhar
    Director / Cinematographer: Mario Rodriguez
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    Actors:
    John - Nathan Ing
    Raji - Madhulika Krishnan
    Arthur - Alexis Silvestre
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Komentáƙe • 17K

  • @DharMann
    @DharMann  Pƙed 2 lety +5718

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  • @isabelb9347
    @isabelb9347 Pƙed 2 lety +5163

    her acting is so good i was actually annoyed with her character for being so snobby and controlling. great acting!!

    • @wickmaani116
      @wickmaani116 Pƙed 2 lety +97

      no it isnt

    • @zethicalyt2406
      @zethicalyt2406 Pƙed 2 lety +124

      I agree, the actress is so great in playing the part!

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  Pƙed 2 lety +608

      Thank you for your feedback! I'm glad you love my videos.

    • @JaKingScomez
      @JaKingScomez Pƙed 2 lety +20

      @@isabelb9347 no it isnt

    • @Hei-BK201
      @Hei-BK201 Pƙed 2 lety +37

      @@JaKingScomez yo mom

  • @yashny
    @yashny Pƙed 2 lety +4649

    This is how abusive relationships start. He shouldn't have forgiven her so fast. Controlling people will usually go back to the way they were

    • @yashny
      @yashny Pƙed 2 lety +85

      @Byleth you are right! I'm actually a part of a support group and I have seen this more than I can count. The abusive partners keep app in their partners' phones and trackers in cars so they always know where they are.

    • @aerohoopsprod.4254
      @aerohoopsprod.4254 Pƙed 2 lety +86

      Any person can change, but we all know she won't lol

    • @prestonmcleod1726
      @prestonmcleod1726 Pƙed 2 lety +57

      @BylethThat woulda creeped me out! Goes to show she's also a stalker. Showing up to some random person's house just to look for him. He probably only forgave her just for those Lakers tickets.

    • @abdullahamr9941
      @abdullahamr9941 Pƙed 2 lety +28

      It's dhar man video it doesn't matter it will always end in forgiveness

    • @prestonmcleod1726
      @prestonmcleod1726 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      @Byleth Also true, after she admitted using a tracking app to find him, that definitely shoulda solidify that the relationship would be over! No one should have access to others locations & whereabouts unless they have the options of allowing it. Not only is it stalking, it's an invasion of privacy! He needs to get a restraining order against her.

  • @la_la5216
    @la_la5216 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +101

    Her: stop controlling him!
    Also her: **treats him like a slave**

  • @eveeysenen
    @eveeysenen Pƙed rokem +191

    The girlfriend was making me cringe, and lose my patience at the same time 😑

  • @aaryayt7747
    @aaryayt7747 Pƙed 2 lety +12322

    As an Indian I can confirm that impressing Indian dads is harder than a job interview

    • @sheekadaDahab
      @sheekadaDahab Pƙed 2 lety +258

      I am Somali and I can say same đŸ€ŠđŸŸâ€â™€ïž

    • @pranitparth4094
      @pranitparth4094 Pƙed 2 lety +98

      Same here bro

    • @dia7438
      @dia7438 Pƙed 2 lety +251

      Yep also yk my dad is so strict about me having a bf that when he meets my bf he would take a hammer and hit it on my bf's hand and if he screams he's bad for me and if he keeps quite he's a good man😭😭

    • @iki2743
      @iki2743 Pƙed 2 lety +94

      @@sheekadaDahab Exactly wallahi not only dads, moms are the most!

    • @vaishnavirnair3275
      @vaishnavirnair3275 Pƙed 2 lety +15

      Yesss

  • @kieranlinie1269
    @kieranlinie1269 Pƙed 2 lety +2541

    "This is why your friends are a bad influence"
    No girl, you are a bad influence. You have hypnotised that poor kid

  • @bernadettewashington1745
    @bernadettewashington1745 Pƙed rokem +360

    "You shouldn't have to change yourself just to make someone else happy" best quote ever

    • @Gavinking-su5xx
      @Gavinking-su5xx Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      In your opinion😐😐

    • @Someone-gq5mv
      @Someone-gq5mv Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

      ​@@Gavinking-su5xxwhat's your opinion then??

    • @entertainmentjunkie
      @entertainmentjunkie Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

      @@Gavinking-su5xxwhy are you glaring though? 😂

    • @mryuksiesta
      @mryuksiesta Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

      @@entertainmentjunkieglaring?😂can you feel it through the phone? đŸ˜­đŸ€Ł

  • @FREENINETYNINE
    @FREENINETYNINE Pƙed rokem +34

    "See? Guilt Tripping." "That's not a guilt trip!"
    You're right! *It's Gaslighting*

  • @kaleighsquires9699
    @kaleighsquires9699 Pƙed 2 lety +1503

    I love how his friends are supportive of a relationship, but still do their best to make sure he doesn’t lose himself.

    • @rajreddy26
      @rajreddy26 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Helo I found Ur Awesom nam Kaleigh Squires randomly So I am Curious if I can ask You Questions about Frustrating Vague Events etc?(~~~~).

    • @actiontoons5422
      @actiontoons5422 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +4

      Yeah I can't stand girls like her she is so bossy

  • @GuardianofAges2023
    @GuardianofAges2023 Pƙed 2 lety +3117

    You know actors and actresses are really good when they actually made your blood boil with anger. I've lost friends to controlling girlfriends and it sickens me to the core. Another well done video Dhar Mann! Nice work!

  • @hashimhussain5566
    @hashimhussain5566 Pƙed rokem +58

    A controlling boyfriend or girlfriend is toxic as hell. No man or woman should be with someone like that.

    • @skanthavelu
      @skanthavelu Pƙed rokem +4

      I agree with you. I cannot stand bossy or controlling people. I can forgive someone being a bit cranky because they were tired or had a bad day. But constant bossy or controlling behavior? No way! I can forgive that too. But I won't put up with it.

    • @hashimhussain5566
      @hashimhussain5566 Pƙed rokem +2

      ​@skanthavelu You're right. We should be tolerant with our partners when they get a bit cranky or if they have a bad day but never put up with constant controlling and abuse.

    • @skanthavelu
      @skanthavelu Pƙed rokem +1

      @@hashimhussain5566 Agreed!

    • @lovegalaxyfn
      @lovegalaxyfn Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Toxic ahh hell

    • @timothyloayza6789
      @timothyloayza6789 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      ​@@hashimhussain5566yup if they had a mind control helmet to eviscerate my free will, or 20K per ridiculous demand or command. I ain't budging, there's a job call sypochant and that's what they are made for

  • @A_Proper_Model_Horse_And_More
    @A_Proper_Model_Horse_And_More Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +7

    I was rolling on the floor to: "You guys were eavsdropping?" "duh."đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

  • @michellehahalol
    @michellehahalol Pƙed 2 lety +1624

    the fact that she guilt trips him and says she’s not guilt tripping him boils my blood, I have friends who do the same thing to me and it’s honestly so annoying and toxic

    • @nigoat4545
      @nigoat4545 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      Dhar Mann's content is bad, mines better

    • @yourlocalbeancommenter2423
      @yourlocalbeancommenter2423 Pƙed 2 lety +57

      @@nigoat4545 nobody asked kid.

    • @TributesAndUnique
      @TributesAndUnique Pƙed 2 lety +23

      Then don't be friends with them anymore

    • @michellehahalol
      @michellehahalol Pƙed 2 lety +33

      @@TributesAndUnique nah im not anymore, one moved schools and i blocked some of them, also put some in their place so i have some good trustworthy friends

    • @akwala__
      @akwala__ Pƙed 2 lety +2

      dont be friends with them then

  • @lindsaybotz8713
    @lindsaybotz8713 Pƙed 2 lety +2265

    I love how even the dad is seeing how psychotic the daughter is being lmao

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround Pƙed 2 lety +91

      Instead of leaving that dinner I would have MILKED the situation if I was that boy. I would have ordered something REALLY FATTENING to go as far in the other direction of the "juice fast" as possible and I would just keep right on letting the father see how controlling she is, and I would have made a big show of how much I was enjoying the meal while she was enjoying her "green juice drink".

    • @thedragonbeast4623
      @thedragonbeast4623 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      SPOILER AHH

    • @lindsaybotz8713
      @lindsaybotz8713 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@thedragonbeast4623 sorry

    • @nyaarishx9570
      @nyaarishx9570 Pƙed 2 lety +63

      @@thedragonbeast4623 Guy enters comment section without finishing the video first, he lives to regret it

    • @lindsaybotz8713
      @lindsaybotz8713 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@nyaarishx9570 lmao

  • @january5971
    @january5971 Pƙed rokem +80

    This was the funniest girlfriend parents meeting ever 😂😂

  • @livmightspam
    @livmightspam Pƙed rokem +17

    This story relates to me so much. John is just like me and Raji is my ex-best friend. She controls me on what I wear, who I talk to, and what I do and always say I'm the one controlling her. My ex-best friend acts just like my mom and thinks she's the most perfect person in the world. She is jealous of other people but doesn't act that way. She pulls me away from my other friends but I still hang out with them. Eventually, I dropped my ex-best friend. This video relates to my life so much.

  • @megacarter3824
    @megacarter3824 Pƙed 2 lety +576

    John :breaths
    Raji: so you care more about breathing then me
    Edit : how did I get 540 likes thank you

  • @cassandramalfoy
    @cassandramalfoy Pƙed rokem +1304

    I don’t agree with him forgiving her that easily at the end. Never, ever stay with a toxic or controlling woman or man when there’s major red flags of abuse. They will not change their behavior or want to treat you different. Seriously, this video should show you red flags to see when dating anyone. Let it be a lesson.

    • @kross2659
      @kross2659 Pƙed rokem +63

      True but some toxic people can be redeemed, and she has a long way to go, her race to redemption starts now. I think she can win. And everybody will be happy in the end.

    • @Valdemar-Perez-III
      @Valdemar-Perez-III Pƙed rokem +4

      Way ahead of the game.

    • @alexsandercolon5347
      @alexsandercolon5347 Pƙed rokem +11

      Agree I been there done that

    • @kyrokura
      @kyrokura Pƙed rokem +24

      @@kross2659 I don't think that she'll change after that. Especially when she basically backed him into the corner. She forced him into a choice that would impact his relationship with his best friends depending on which option he picked. She also used the friend's desire to go to the Lakers game to basically force him to chose to forgive her. And if he didn't forgive her, then his relationship with his friends and raji have been destroyed

    • @kross2659
      @kross2659 Pƙed rokem +10

      @@kyrokura well as I said some can be redeemed and she has a long way to go only time will tell if she is truly worthy of redemption, as well as worthy of the guy’s love. There’s no harm in giving her another chance, especially after she apologized for her behavior, and wants to make a difference.

  • @unknownguy7676
    @unknownguy7676 Pƙed rokem +76

    She really got on my nerves
    Great acting đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚â€ïž

    • @babiwah1604
      @babiwah1604 Pƙed rokem +1

      I know right! Almost threw my phone 😭

    • @t.j.8518
      @t.j.8518 Pƙed rokem

      Omg me personally

  • @jonathanfalkowsky672
    @jonathanfalkowsky672 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +8

    Im amazed with how much production goes into these 5-20 minute short films.

  • @DontNoahLot
    @DontNoahLot Pƙed 2 lety +3277

    "When you're married, you wont have time for friends anyway."
    Almost every single parent would like to disagree.
    edit: As I said... ALMOST

  • @benmoore4529
    @benmoore4529 Pƙed 2 lety +1420

    He's your boyfriend not some character you can control.Respect goes both ways

    • @Scorpy175
      @Scorpy175 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      Yup
      Edit: sorry if this sounds cringy but how did I get 16 likes

    • @therealwuffo
      @therealwuffo Pƙed 2 lety +8

      @MarReatz making him wear stuff he doesnt want to wear? i don’t think so

    • @dreamsmp1560
      @dreamsmp1560 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @MarReatz no

    • @therealwuffo
      @therealwuffo Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @MarReatz bruh no

    • @therealwuffo
      @therealwuffo Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @MarReatz men are the ones that decide

  • @ranjithkm-it6wz
    @ranjithkm-it6wz Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +9

    As an indian all indian fathers are not strict but they only are strict of the people we love they use their father sences to see thanks for reaching here YOUR BEAUTIFUL ❀

  • @TFM6969
    @TFM6969 Pƙed rokem +10

    This proves that you can still have friends even through you are in a relationship! My dad thinks my mom is talking to random guys but they are they friends and my dad acuses her of talking to other guys and thinks its cheating! Friends are friends and relationships are relationships!

  • @a.a.l.i.y.a.h
    @a.a.l.i.y.a.h Pƙed 2 lety +701

    “You forced me to agree to that agreement”
    Her: *still guilt tripping*

    • @Lillybilly1andonly
      @Lillybilly1andonly Pƙed 2 lety +1

      So true lol my friend ellawease does that all the time to her bfđŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ„žđŸ„žđŸ„žâ˜čâ˜čâ˜č

    • @austinhowells20
      @austinhowells20 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      My girlfriend do that to me all the time

    • @jasonimogen2457
      @jasonimogen2457 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      DHAR MANN IS DHAR-BAGE
      I MAKE BETTER VIDEOS

    • @ivansnonsense7702
      @ivansnonsense7702 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@jasonimogen2457 you only have one garbage video, don’t even talk, “I mAkE bEttEr vIdEoS” YEA RIGHT, Get a living child.

    • @maureenprice7857
      @maureenprice7857 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      What's guilt tripping guys

  • @itsmariyahduh
    @itsmariyahduh Pƙed 2 lety +611

    “You Shouldn’t Have To Change Yourself To Make Someone Happy”

  • @sherisawyer6597
    @sherisawyer6597 Pƙed rokem +4

    The girl playing Raji is so good even though her character is meant to be rude and stuck up I feel like she be so nice in real life!

  • @TravellerZasha
    @TravellerZasha Pƙed rokem +50

    I'd like to point out how interesting the desi family's strict theme is here. I myself am Sri Lankan and grew up with alot of Indian friends so I can relate to this. Alot of Desi dads are actually pretty chill and it's usually the mothers who are super traditional and strict. Daughters would get it from mothers like Raji here. This stems from how in Indian culture we like to compare families and sometimes compare within the family. Mothers and Aunts usually do this and they hold high nearly impossible standards that it feels like they'll never be happy with your choice. In fact it's the wedding they hold the highest regard to. The more expensive the better. Alot of this controlling behaviour also goes unchecked because therapy is sooo embarrassing to alot of families. This is mainly through my experience plus personally i've been outcasted from my own sri lankan community and family so feel free to correct me.

    • @lol-ie1kt
      @lol-ie1kt Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +2

      I'm sri Lankan and this is true.

    • @Great_WesternTVFan
      @Great_WesternTVFan Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      Not all the time mothers are conservative. I am Bangladeshi here. My mother is calm and doesn't mind, though I will have to eat cultural Bangladeshi food all the time. My dad is slightly stricter and wants me to study alot and gets angry or disappointed if im with white gal pals, as well as beating me with the large stick.

    • @gabrielkounga7182
      @gabrielkounga7182 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      I'm not from India but I agree. Dads are usually pretty chill in my family my dad's the chill one. It's usually moms who are strict that is if Indian culture and African culture are not too different. feel free to correct me though.

    • @ronniselvan6243
      @ronniselvan6243 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      My dad's super strict.

  • @sahanakannan_
    @sahanakannan_ Pƙed 2 lety +143

    John: "You guys were eavesdropping"
    His friends: *"Duh"*

  • @ChelseyIsATotal5SOSFan
    @ChelseyIsATotal5SOSFan Pƙed 2 lety +1376

    His friends are awesome for telling him that he doesn’t need to change to make her happy. I agree with that, you shouldn’t have to change to make your partner happy, the only person you should change for is yourself. I’ve learned that doing things to make another person happy is only going to result in making yourself miserable. Do things that make YOU happy. Don’t change for anyone.

    • @avatar5811
      @avatar5811 Pƙed 2 lety +13

      “I am not a horse. I am a person. “ -Gi Hun from Squid Game

    • @danaabel1049
      @danaabel1049 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Exactly, & if that other person can't accept what you are or even what you want, then it's not worth it.

    • @marcross.
      @marcross. Pƙed 2 lety +6

      those same "friends" changed their tune when bribed with those tickets smh

    • @bobbysochocki4521
      @bobbysochocki4521 Pƙed rokem +1

      Yeah definitely

    • @nicholasemjohnson47
      @nicholasemjohnson47 Pƙed rokem +1

      Well, if by changing, you become a better version of yourself, then that is great. But it means changing your religion, beliefs, likes or dislikes, then no, you shouldn't change.

  • @user-dt4zs8bu6t
    @user-dt4zs8bu6t Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    I don't want to change myself just to make someone else happy.

  • @rockman_a.x.
    @rockman_a.x. Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +1

    That dad is the homiest guy I’ve ever seen. Great video!

  • @mikehannigan6143
    @mikehannigan6143 Pƙed 2 lety +740

    Raji: You're peer pressuring him into doing something he doesn't want to do!
    Also Raji: *You have to choose*

  • @ShannonMLong
    @ShannonMLong Pƙed 2 lety +1427

    Relationships are not about controlling, or changing the other person. YOU NEVER PUT ANYONE in a 'You better choose' situation, unacceptable.
    Love is Built, not found, and Control is not okay. A relationship is 100/100 and friends are not excluded - this was EXCELLENT!
    Makes you wonder how many kid's are in this situation today.. đŸ€”

    • @navyakishore9697
      @navyakishore9697 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      Now that's why I broke up 🙃

    • @G-MONEY1996
      @G-MONEY1996 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      As I always say, no relationship is a relationship at all, if run by a dictator.

    • @G-MONEY1996
      @G-MONEY1996 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @MarReatz but in the end, the man should decide for him self, not her. (Unless he asks for it)

    • @G-MONEY1996
      @G-MONEY1996 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @MarReatz so you're saying that a woman is always a man's superior in a relationship, tell me something is that what u r in?

    • @G-MONEY1996
      @G-MONEY1996 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @MarReatz well I'm against that, I will not be in a relationship where the woman is my boss and my freedom is taken away from me. But if that's the life u want, fine by me.

  • @wadegreenidge9431
    @wadegreenidge9431 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +3

    Raji is always spenting things that she wants to do. But she forgot John that he wants to do. He stand up for himself to his girlfriend 😠

  • @AlexisBraun-zv1pm
    @AlexisBraun-zv1pm Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +2

    You shouldn’t have to change your just to make someone else happy” best quote ever

  • @deveshjha4728
    @deveshjha4728 Pƙed 2 lety +371

    "YOU SHOULDN'T CHANGE URSELF TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY"
    best line!!

    • @brycelipman3995
      @brycelipman3995 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Have u ever even been in a relationship I haven’t but what I do know is if she’s being controlling just use the comeback ok Karen

    • @atalie6633
      @atalie6633 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@realinstagramuser. no it isn’t

    • @atalie6633
      @atalie6633 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@realinstagramuser. you have one four second video

    • @rosesland7357
      @rosesland7357 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@brycelipman3995 why u calling him Karen???? Uhm what does that have to do with anything

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  Pƙed 2 lety +36

      Thank you for watching, Devesh. Stay in the loop for more.

  • @xwritesamandcolbyx
    @xwritesamandcolbyx Pƙed 2 lety +667

    I LOVE THE FATHER! He's so nice to the boyfriend and the relationship they could have just - ITS PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Msdm7005
    @Msdm7005 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +1

    “You guys were eavesdropping?”
    “Duh.”
    True friends at heart

  • @ianshort2935
    @ianshort2935 Pƙed rokem +8

    Those laker tickets changed the whole ending

  • @alberteinstein3612
    @alberteinstein3612 Pƙed 2 lety +289

    THANK YOU for addressing this
    It’s SO important to recognize warning signs of an abusive relationship

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  Pƙed 2 lety +67

      You're very much welcome. I appreciate you watching this video.

    • @ctfadzlina
      @ctfadzlina Pƙed 2 lety +6

      yeess

    • @user-pinguu
      @user-pinguu Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@DharMann Yooo Dharman I love ur videos I watched them everyday it makes my day!

    • @Hannah.Visperas
      @Hannah.Visperas Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Dhar mann is the best. Favorite saying, we're not just telling stories, we're changing lives! 😇👍

    • @andreryujinchamoun
      @andreryujinchamoun Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Dhar Mann is so great even Einstein respects him lol

  • @BetterInsecure
    @BetterInsecure Pƙed 2 lety +311

    Raji: No, you're peer pressuring him into doing something he doesn't want to do. My mind: Uno reverse card

  • @streetspitzley5854
    @streetspitzley5854 Pƙed rokem +8

    This is exactly why I don’t ever wanna date. Demanding girlfriends are hard to deal with. You need to respect other people’s wishes. Plus, if someone offered me tickets to a Lakers game, I’d accept it in a heartbeat! You should never change who you are just to make someone else happy. Be your own person and only do what your heart tells you.

  • @christophertolmie6572
    @christophertolmie6572 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +2

    I like how Raji's dad Samir isn't really strict about marriage. Raji was controlling John way too much. Nobody should ever have to be controlled into doing something that they're not ready for!!!!! I'm glad she realized that at the end!!!! (7:23 - 7:28 - 7:46 - 7:59 - 8:02 - 8:18 - 8:24 - 8:27 - 8:39 - 8:43 - 9:13 - 9:36 - 11:12 - 11:15 - 11:39 - 11:42 - 11:50 - 11:55 - 11:59 - 12:09 - 12:17 - 12:33 - 12:35 - 12:39 - 12:57 - 13:24 - 13:45 - 14:22 - 14:52 - 14:55 - 15:08 - 15:53 - 15:56 - 16:32 - 16:37 - 16:44 - 16:48 - 17:00 - 17:06 - 17:11 - 17:13 - 17:23 - 17:27 - 17:34 - 17:37 - 17:55 - 18:09)

  • @nixxiien
    @nixxiien Pƙed 2 lety +211

    Indian dads are super strict, but not all are. I also love how she’s following her cutlture, but you cant force someone into doing something they don’t want.

  • @itsyaboidj07
    @itsyaboidj07 Pƙed 2 lety +106

    That was hilarious when she said she bought them tickets to the Lakers game. They was just like, "Hurry up and forgive her"đŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  Pƙed 2 lety +12

      I hope you enjoyed watching, DJ. Stay tuned for more videos to come.

    • @labturtle2978
      @labturtle2978 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@DharMann yeah! these videos are so inspiring to me, thanks Dhar!

    • @jasonimogen2457
      @jasonimogen2457 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      DHAR MANN IS DHAR-BAGE
      I MAKE BETTER VIDEOS

    • @sralyn
      @sralyn Pƙed 2 lety

      @gamerman Not even reporting and blocking stops Flamester.

  • @teencritik5512
    @teencritik5512 Pƙed rokem +12

    The guy : I want to be a lawyer
    The father : I’ ve been a lawyer my entire life and it’s a lot of stress, you should tried something else.
    Perfect words of encouragement

  • @marthaadior4597
    @marthaadior4597 Pƙed rokem +17

    We're not just telling stories, we're controlling lives

    • @SteveDecambre
      @SteveDecambre Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

      Damn😂😂😂😂

  • @Paradox_Prod1408
    @Paradox_Prod1408 Pƙed 2 lety +252

    "you guys were eavesdropping?"
    "duh"
    yep the best pair of friends you could ever have

    • @hadleyrae6086
      @hadleyrae6086 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      i’m that friend

    • @tafsibhuiyan8730
      @tafsibhuiyan8730 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      It’s normal for that. Besides, they were supporting him throughout the entire vid 😂

  • @xdlmao7880
    @xdlmao7880 Pƙed 2 lety +85

    Dhar mann starter pack:
    1. Be a bad guy
    2. Karma: exist
    3. Gets a life lessons
    4. *”SO YOU SEE”*

  • @danny_long_legs
    @danny_long_legs Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

    Poor guy he deserves so much better. He saying was hungry so heartbreaking đŸ„ș💔

  • @SmellyEli
    @SmellyEli Pƙed rokem +5

    She’s so annoying, dang I know it’s staged but jeez she’s so sassy, bossy, and rude. I’m really disappointed he stayed with her, “I wouldn’t take the much level of disrespect.”💀

  • @bebebill3878
    @bebebill3878 Pƙed 2 lety +42

    17:16 “ HURRY UP AND FORGIVE HER” LOL 😂

  • @stacyscott5338
    @stacyscott5338 Pƙed 2 lety +218

    Raji: don't even thing about eating those Doritos
    John: how does she know 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @silvestrea.rodriguez7035
    @silvestrea.rodriguez7035 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +4

    That girl is really taking advantage of him and if I were him I definitely go with no, and what’s truly important is for anyone having the right to make their own choices.

  • @CapricornEquestrian
    @CapricornEquestrian Pƙed rokem +3

    "we had an agreement. You said you'd stick to it"
    *You forced me into that agreement*

  • @spenic445
    @spenic445 Pƙed 2 lety +435

    "They're peer pressuring you to make a decision!"
    Proceeds to peer pressure him to make a decision.

  • @AndresJ80
    @AndresJ80 Pƙed 2 lety +157

    “You guys were eavesdropping?”
    “Duh.”
    “Come on! Box seats?”
    Bruh they literally just went from best friends to mediocre friends

    • @emilyadams9986
      @emilyadams9986 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Keep in mind, most apartment buildings have thin walls.

    • @tuhinaqueen6353
      @tuhinaqueen6353 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      And how does that make them bad friends?

    • @AndresJ80
      @AndresJ80 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@tuhinaqueen6353 It doesn’t make them bad friends, they just go down a step. Mediocre doesn’t mean bad

  • @IForgotHowToBreatheAir
    @IForgotHowToBreatheAir Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +3

    If that was my PS5 and my friend turn it off when I'm playing it they would get smacked with the controller or a pan😂

    • @skanthavelu
      @skanthavelu Pƙed 13 dny

      😂 I can see it now! 😂

  • @michaelaustin5411
    @michaelaustin5411 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    The actress that plays the girlfriend is incredibly beautiful.

  • @edmondparkins1861
    @edmondparkins1861 Pƙed 2 lety +181

    "You don't have to change yourself to make someone else happy." That's the lesson for this video.

    • @nigoat4545
      @nigoat4545 Pƙed 2 lety

      Dhar Mann's content is bad, mines better

    • @b7essing
      @b7essing Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@nigoat4545 stop the cap

    • @erykahchiweshe2634
      @erykahchiweshe2634 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@nigoat4545 please don’t spread hate

    • @dsloyal
      @dsloyal Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@nigoat4545 dont spread hate

    • @edmondparkins1861
      @edmondparkins1861 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@nigoat4545 What is wrong with you?? Dhar Mann gives you some of the best stories and life lessons that really inspire people! He's not just telling stories and competing, bro! He's teaching life lessons. You should learn something from his content because I can say that I have learned from him.

  • @phoenix5719
    @phoenix5719 Pƙed 2 lety +194

    Raji: We want to get married and have kids.
    Raji and her boyfriend both are kids themselves. They didn't even finish high school.

  • @5starCQ_
    @5starCQ_ Pƙed rokem +11

    1:12 pause it sigma face?

  • @HsubNedacGaming
    @HsubNedacGaming Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +2

    It would have been cool if they had a part where John fainted due to a lack of actual food.

  • @papagrizz6645
    @papagrizz6645 Pƙed 2 lety +1316

    Who else found his channel randomly and can’t stop watching.

  • @sheldon1536
    @sheldon1536 Pƙed 2 lety +351

    “2 green teas. Okay, that will be right out”
    Walks into the donut shop.

  • @Shadow66011
    @Shadow66011 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

    She is like a mom. If I was John I will break up in 5 seconds fr

  • @Mushroom_lover4life.
    @Mushroom_lover4life. Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

    I love how the dad was so cool with her bfs decisions

  • @nathan_ing
    @nathan_ing Pƙed 2 lety +191

    So glad to be a part of this project! Thanks for giving me the opportunity to work with you guys

  • @arundathisubramanian9856
    @arundathisubramanian9856 Pƙed 2 lety +326

    She got one thing right, Indian parents are strict AF

    • @samyb4566
      @samyb4566 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      They must be really strict when it comes to dating.

    • @chiraggera3160
      @chiraggera3160 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      but that was the only thing she got right! LoL

    • @rajgameryt2113
      @rajgameryt2113 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Yea very strict my dad don't even let me but any robux or dimoands from free fire they just don't want us to waste it on trash they think that but it is not really trash

    • @hiyasingh493
      @hiyasingh493 Pƙed 2 lety +13

      No, Actually this has become a mindset of people that Indian parents are super strict I mean I get it they can be strict at times but usually, they are like any other parent and before you say it, yes I am Indian so please for the sake of god stop believing in those stereotypes

    • @spajas8092
      @spajas8092 Pƙed 2 lety

      Yeah and she’s hot af. What’s her IG?

  • @Anila5890
    @Anila5890 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +1

    You shouldn’t have to change yourself to make someone else happy! Well said ❀

  • @agford7727
    @agford7727 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

    When people are in a relationship they got a learn to do stuff on their own once in a while, they can’t always be together to hold hands all the time

  • @cutieauthor2743
    @cutieauthor2743 Pƙed 2 lety +211

    I love how the dad is supporting towards his daughter and her boyfriend.

  • @Disney65Fan
    @Disney65Fan Pƙed 2 lety +114

    This is why certain relationships fail because of one spouse being controlling and the other being caught in the situation.

  • @BigMike_13
    @BigMike_13 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +1

    “You were eavesdropping?!” “Duh”

  • @Alvaro-hb4pd
    @Alvaro-hb4pd Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

    “ You guys were eavesdropping?”
    “ DUH”

  • @thinhduong8552
    @thinhduong8552 Pƙed 2 lety +120

    Raji: i will be less controlling, stop guild tripping, and let you be with your friend
    Also raji: bribes him and his friends

  • @Sclaraticx
    @Sclaraticx Pƙed 2 lety +121

    Controlling girlfriends be like:
    “IT’S ME OR THE PS5”

    • @Sclaraticx
      @Sclaraticx Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@Princess_Zelda_23 XD

    • @SHAFFAANKING
      @SHAFFAANKING Pƙed rokem +3

      PS5 Yeee

    • @swatiagrawal1138
      @swatiagrawal1138 Pƙed rokem +7

      not a boy but imma choose PS5 and food

    • @Auro0oo
      @Auro0oo Pƙed rokem +1

      fortnite battle pass i just sh-- out my ahh

    • @gigabinks4143
      @gigabinks4143 Pƙed rokem +4

      Why would I choose a low quality piece of plastic over a
      Ps5

  • @richiebitchie2006
    @richiebitchie2006 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +3

    It's not just woman, men can be this way too. My ex boyfriend was exactly like this 😒

  • @Loveroffood41
    @Loveroffood41 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

    I was in the marriage for 5 years , and my ex was very controlling and manipulative. I am so glad that i finally got out and now have an amazing sweet heart.

  • @fabricio4941
    @fabricio4941 Pƙed 2 lety +138

    "Yeah, man, hurry up and forgive her!"
    I laughed so hard at this part 😂

  • @tangzwire
    @tangzwire Pƙed 2 lety +65

    Did not know the dad was going to be this chill haha! Great video as always Dhar Mann!

    • @DharMann
      @DharMann  Pƙed 2 lety +9

      Thank you! I appreciate you watching.

  • @burntwater420
    @burntwater420 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +2

    honestly he was right to choose his friends over his girlfriend. if i had to choose between saving my lover and my best friend i would choose my friend without a doubt

  • @PrimeScoots69
    @PrimeScoots69 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +4

    16:04 great acting 😂

  • @icyblox8234
    @icyblox8234 Pƙed 2 lety +81

    Raji and John: Arguing
    Ladie Giving Drinks: Wth is happening

    • @vinaymulukutla358
      @vinaymulukutla358 Pƙed 2 lety

      She probably thought, ''What's he doing with her? He can do so much better, like me''

    • @nigoat4545
      @nigoat4545 Pƙed 2 lety

      Dhar Mann's content is bad, mines better

    • @vinaymulukutla358
      @vinaymulukutla358 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@nigoat4545 So let's see yours then.

  • @amberobaid6836
    @amberobaid6836 Pƙed 2 lety +80

    "Come on man
    Hurry n forgive her"
    That's wht called best frnds😂💜

    • @curabletoxin
      @curabletoxin Pƙed 2 lety +1

      True friends always know when to give you a hard time but still got your back when you need it

    • @yo848
      @yo848 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      foreallđŸ€Ł

    • @wolfierose7887
      @wolfierose7887 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      He shouldn’t have forgiven her. She’s way too toxic and he’d be better off without her. Controlling people rarely change. He should’ve broken up with her and gone as far away from her as possible

    • @wolfierose7887
      @wolfierose7887 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      And real friends wouldn’t let you go back to someone that incredibly toxic. She clearly didn’t love him for him at all hence why she tried to change him.

  • @Sparklynn69
    @Sparklynn69 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +2

    Honestly this just reminds me of a friend of mine in secondary school, whose name was also John. He had a controlling gf who’d always occupy his time and didnt let him have some time to meet me and our other friends once in a while. Eventually the gf insulted some of our mutual friends and John got angry and dumped her

  • @myrieshatika
    @myrieshatika Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +2

    God,I would have dumped her the moment she started getting too controlling, dramatic, and just plain annoying 🙄 😡

  • @charusu6624
    @charusu6624 Pƙed 2 lety +192

    It's actually terrifying how some aspects of these things are actually accurate

  • @Ima_besilly
    @Ima_besilly Pƙed 2 lety +442

    This is actually a good and accurate video
    Men can go through this type of thing too
    I've seen it happen in freaking middle school
    Just know that if your in this type of relationship, leave it
    Don't stick around, your just going to get hurt over and over
    Also, the ending is a bit unrealistic, in a situation like that, the person would not forgive them like that. They would also break up with them

    • @smellyeggrolls2146
      @smellyeggrolls2146 Pƙed 2 lety +26

      Middle school relationships are stupid because people only do it for attention

    • @microooo
      @microooo Pƙed 2 lety +16

      @@smellyeggrolls2146 or, they actually love the other person

    • @serhatsakarya3892
      @serhatsakarya3892 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      I think.it's an example of love bombing to.get control back. Of course she doesn't forgive him.

    • @lazegabriel9456
      @lazegabriel9456 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      @@smellyeggrolls2146 lmfao Fr I started dating my girl in 8th grade and we still together

    • @Laze_1028
      @Laze_1028 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      What if your ex becomes psycho and crazy

  • @wildchaser9892
    @wildchaser9892 Pƙed rokem +21

    Bottom line you shouldn’t have to change who you are for anyone and you should meet the right people who appreciate you for who you are

    • @skanthavelu
      @skanthavelu Pƙed rokem

      Exactly. We should not have to change ourselves, - unless it is for the better ‐ or make sacrifices just to make others happy and vice a versa.

  • @vampzara
    @vampzara Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

    nah but raji is so damn prettyyy, despite her being ugly on the inside in this act shes actually beautiful

  • @luciestorey506
    @luciestorey506 Pƙed 2 lety +405

    This is exactly what happened when I served a couple and they was with their family and the boys girlfriend answered for him when I asked if he would like any sauces and she was the only one talking and answering for people. People can’t control what someone wants or says. And this is a good video to show what happens in life

    • @zemi..i
      @zemi..i Pƙed 2 lety +6

      Feel bad for you. I hope your okay.

    • @AhmadSmith1140
      @AhmadSmith1140 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I agree with you on that

    • @AllThatAndMore
      @AllThatAndMore Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I've put alot in their places. Lmaoo

    • @AhmadSmith1140
      @AhmadSmith1140 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      If my girlfriend controls me I will be very pissed

    • @martinkalmus3761
      @martinkalmus3761 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      These people are sick who acts like that and there is no cure for that,only prison or six feet under helps

  • @alguienaleatorio7787
    @alguienaleatorio7787 Pƙed 2 lety +225

    “I wanted a burger”
    *They are literally on the donut shop*

  • @julioramirez9047
    @julioramirez9047 Pƙed rokem +2

    Raji is being very rude to John when she shouldn't do that, and she always force John to do stuff that he doesn't wanna do

  • @Shreyasiii101
    @Shreyasiii101 Pƙed 2 lety +498

    Alright so as an Indian girl, I can confirm that impressing Indian dads is harder than literally everything on this planet 'cause they're just so protective of their daughters. In her case, she had a really cool dad but these are definitely not the norms in India.

    • @aaryans5487
      @aaryans5487 Pƙed 2 lety +39

      India has a huge population and everyone has a different mindset, not everyone is strict and overprotective towards their kids..... So pls don't generalize
      Maybe most are concerned about their kids but not all

    • @triggr-boi2778
      @triggr-boi2778 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@aaryans5487 yeah that's true

    • @GroundedPlotProductions
      @GroundedPlotProductions Pƙed rokem

      african dads are the same

    • @johncena9179
      @johncena9179 Pƙed rokem +12

      Great your Indian so you speak for every Indian girl? no you don't just because your dad is abusive and controlling doesn't mean every other Indian parent is like that

    • @GroundedPlotProductions
      @GroundedPlotProductions Pƙed rokem +14

      @@johncena9179 that’s not what they meant there were simply just saying that most of them are like that. Calm down

  • @iniyap7
    @iniyap7 Pƙed 2 lety +168

    Though Indian dads are very strict they seek honesty more than anything else. My Indian father is very strict but there is nothing he hates more than people who aren't honest

  • @allennguyen8977
    @allennguyen8977 Pƙed rokem +11

    And that’s why I’m always single and never had a girlfriend before and also I would not like to have a controlling girlfriend

    • @allennguyen8977
      @allennguyen8977 Pƙed rokem

      @Ransom Slone that’s really good to hear man 😁

  • @cosmicjinx367
    @cosmicjinx367 Pƙed rokem

    This fr is part of the reason why I am terrified of relationships. They can be toxic and you don’t see eye to eye, making it miserable for both