How to Be a Proverbs 31 Woman with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • čas přidán 25. 10. 2023
  • Get ready to journey with us as we unpack the virtues of the Proverbs 31 woman and illuminate the principles that transcend gender. Promising empowerment, our episode is a must-listen for anyone striving for growth in their spiritual journey, and a deeper understanding of the women in their lives. This is not just for the ladies, gents - this is your chance to glean deep insights into the driving forces of your mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters.
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Komentáře • 331

  • @briancoleman489
    @briancoleman489 Před 7 měsíci +375

    I'm a single Christian man and I want a family to advance God's kingdom here on earth. Hearing your testimony on marriage inspires me to be a great man for my future family

    • @syliviasylivita5023
      @syliviasylivita5023 Před 7 měsíci +2

      This reminds me of a video thy have on “lists” it’s always about the other person in the relationship and never about how one aspires to be in the relationship.
      This is a good one

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Před 7 měsíci +14

      Praying that you will find your spouse! Thanks for watching!

    • @user-ho6xz4td3i
      @user-ho6xz4td3i Před 6 měsíci +5

      Actually I didn’t know this until I was so broken and was my day of fasting then run into this channel and found my self renewing my life and having thirst for the change to be happy by understanding the man and myself as a woman God created me to be

    • @CharCharJars
      @CharCharJars Před 6 měsíci +2

      So refreshing to hear from a Christian man ❤ thank you for sharing

    • @dainapelham6780
      @dainapelham6780 Před 6 měsíci

  • @ThisMamasJourneyAt40
    @ThisMamasJourneyAt40 Před 4 měsíci +132

    Tabatha…can we (the ladies) get maybe a separate podcast that focuses on being a godly woman/wife/homemaker/business woman etc.? Just food for thought. Blessings to y’all! ❤

  • @corinthiaslaughter6148
    @corinthiaslaughter6148 Před 7 měsíci +251

    “How do you know God is real?” “Have you seen my wife?”
    WOW. This whole conversation was wonderful, but that part struck me. Hopefully my future husband will be able to share Ken’s sentiment. God bless y’all! 💓

    • @lifewithmahalia
      @lifewithmahalia Před 4 měsíci

      I kinda screamed 😂

    • @checkmae
      @checkmae Před 2 měsíci

      I have to be the kind of wife that my husband would be so proud to have. Working on myself first... That's the first step.

    • @alieahengs8697
      @alieahengs8697 Před 2 měsíci

      I teared up on that. Wow.

  • @fariwiththefacts7143
    @fariwiththefacts7143 Před 4 měsíci +58

    When the student is ready to learn, the teacher will appear. Thank you for appearing for me today ❤️

  • @ShaiAzariahsMOM2223
    @ShaiAzariahsMOM2223 Před 7 měsíci +71

    I view that proverbs 31 woman as the bride of Christ herself, getting up early in the morning providing food for her household( early prayer, reading of the word) all in her house are clothed in scarlet ( the blood of Jesus) the heart of her husband (Christ ) safely trusts in her, she sells linen in the market places( evangelism, witnessing , going after the loss) I see it more from a spiritual perspective. Not saying a woman can’t aspire to be this , I believe like she said we are different things according to the season of life , so don’t feel bad if it’s not who you are all around, we as women have different calls , backgrounds, and strengths. 🙏🏽😁 anywho be blessed

  • @desotohealth
    @desotohealth Před 7 měsíci +86

    I'm so glad to have found a real Christian, non celebrity married couple.

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Před 7 měsíci +2

      We're glad to have you here!

    • @righteousmasculine
      @righteousmasculine Před 5 měsíci +1

      But they are celebrities in GOD’s eyes they are helping many people with GODLY wisdom. Thank you both I pray your marriage is fruitful and long lasting

    • @royalkelley4585
      @royalkelley4585 Před 28 dny

      No fr and they speak on what goes on in day to day life not just what the media puts out

  • @patricedates8809
    @patricedates8809 Před 5 měsíci +13

    This just gave me life. Yesterday I was reading Proverbs 31 and then the enemy had me questioning if I at 46 with no husband or kids could be that Proverbs 31 woman. It shook me but oh today, I opened You tube to listen to someone else and this was the first video I seen. My God My God!! Oh how he cares for me!!

  • @shernacunningham8541
    @shernacunningham8541 Před 4 měsíci +10

    A Proverbs 31 woman is balanced and knows that the Sovereign God is her source.

  • @MSMS-xi9vl
    @MSMS-xi9vl Před 18 hodinami

    I came across this video today and I was very inspiring that a beautiful married couple like yourselves and putting this out there I was married widowed then married again for the second time with an abusive spouse. Now I’ve been a single mom for almost 7 years and I’m just praying for Mr. Wright if there is still one out there for me, thank you for giving me hope. Have a blessed day.

  • @mercedesbenz220
    @mercedesbenz220 Před 5 měsíci +46

    First time hearing these two and WOW! I love the connection they have while being two separate people. By that I mean there’s so much respect for eachother.

  • @amandafewless
    @amandafewless Před 7 měsíci +51

    I am excited! I have been married almost 17 years I love hearing from fellow Christian couples!

  • @madelynwright6171
    @madelynwright6171 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I am a young Christian woman in college and I strive to be a Proverbs 31 woman who becomes what the Lord calls me to be.

  • @BiblicalAcumen
    @BiblicalAcumen Před 7 měsíci +70

    Me and boyfriend watch these podcast together and they have been such a blessing to us.
    Definitely help us grow in our relationship with the Lord, individually and as a team.
    God bless you guys always, may the Lord multiply what He pours onto you! We pray this ministry grows according to Gods will 🥰❤️

    • @nunii.
      @nunii. Před 6 měsíci +2

      Awe that’s so beautiful, I wish you guys much success!!

  • @andreag8416
    @andreag8416 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I absolutely love the idea of a men’s conference for women and a women’s conference for men. I would attend one of those.

  • @melliemel32
    @melliemel32 Před 7 měsíci +38

    I’m sorry I missed this live. You guys have blessed me so much. It’s not just for married people, but single people too! I’m 48 and still believe the LORD for a spouse. I just joke that I’ll be an “older” wife. 😮🙏🏽✝️

  • @coleenoteroceo
    @coleenoteroceo Před 7 měsíci +19

    23 years married and Tony and I have had our roles change based on the various seasons we were in. Now I travel more for work than he does and we have had to figure out what works for us. For ex: He does mornings with the kids, I do evenings. He shops and I cook or order👀. I clean and hire maid service to support, He washes clothes, I fold. Like we have a system that works. So I absolutely love Pastor Tab’s comment about how this could look different for every woman but at the core she’s a woman handling her business!

  • @EphesiansTwoEight
    @EphesiansTwoEight Před 4 měsíci +10

    I’m a young woman who strives to be like proverbs 31 woman! I was recently saved and this kind of content is so helpful for me. I love how Tabatha was trying to make it more realistic with the modern day culture and Ken kind of brought it back to the more traditional view. I don’t know how to cook but I’m learning! My favorite part of this podcast was when Ken started complaining about the milk 😂 The way Tabatha ultimately submitted to her husband and apologized for not providing or fulfilling her role, that was so powerful!!! I would love more content on this passage or a video on how to be a biblical wife and submit to your husband. 🤍

  • @SH-im2vw
    @SH-im2vw Před 2 měsíci +1

    I’ve been married 30 years. You are so correct brother, it takes partnership but we also should strive to be better for our household and others, God’s way.

  • @senorasalazar1462
    @senorasalazar1462 Před 7 měsíci +13

    So happy to have found you guys. Tabitha, I am such a better wife to my hubby after listening to you the first time weeks ago. I have even bumped up our intimacy. Thank you.

  • @plantbasedgirl5854
    @plantbasedgirl5854 Před měsícem +1

    Praise God I found your channel! When it was over, I was like, noooo, not already!! Really enjoyed this and I learned a lot. I always thought striving to be a Proverbs 31 woman was unattainable, but listening to you explain it so well, I now know that I can be like this woman and it is so encouraging! I am a 65 year old woman, and I reconnected with my HS boyfriend from 45 years ago over a year ago and now we are talking marriage!! I need to learn as much as I can about being the kind of wife God wants me to be. I lost my husband 5 years ago and even though I am a Christian, we had quite a rocky marriage and I was not submissive. I am working to change that with God's help. God bless you both and I look forward to watching more of your videos!

  • @noluthandomakhoba9853
    @noluthandomakhoba9853 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thank you to you both for this conversation. I believe God led me here, and it's what I needed to hear in this season.
    Side note: I felt Ken was trying to take over the conversation, and not allowing Tabitha to finish a point. Especially as a woman, he should of given her more platform considering the topic at hand.

  • @jaesjournal1497
    @jaesjournal1497 Před 4 měsíci +12

    I absolutely love this video. As a 22 year old and a young mom I’ve struggled so much maintaining an image that’s acceptable to society but also to God and watching this had made me realize that a virtuous/ Proverbs 21 woman is so much more inspiring and worthwhile. ❤ its gives me something to teach myself and my daughter!

    • @Beautybyqueenb
      @Beautybyqueenb Před 4 měsíci +1

      That’s great to share😊. It proverbs 31:10 going. Not 21😊

    • @shenikacook6928
      @shenikacook6928 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Surrender to his will and watch your life change!

  • @nma78112
    @nma78112 Před 7 měsíci +20

    I loved this content💐....I am not married yet but I am soon to be in Jesus Name!
    I am with you Tabitha on sourcing outside help to cater to my family if I am not abe to.
    As long as I am making sure my family is taken care of.
    I used to be intimidated by Proverbs 31 but not anyome as I believe we are graced by Our God in many different ways and are constantly being worked on by His hand to just do good. Amen.

  • @itumelengshiburi4091
    @itumelengshiburi4091 Před měsícem +1

    Wow thank you so much for clearifying the scripture in Morden terms. As much as this podcast can be very beneficial to us women I also think men ( particularly men who are married or wanna be married) should watch this podcast. Thank you so much for the wisdom and knowledge.
    Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @Shelenamarie
    @Shelenamarie Před 7 měsíci +15

    You all speak so well .I desire to speak the same way in my relationships ❤ I’m a Proverbs 31:10 Woman

  • @ShienaLene
    @ShienaLene Před 7 měsíci +17

    I think Proverbs 31 should be a bigger conversation in circles of men…even moreso mother’s speaking to their sons and even women speaking at men’s meetings, because Proverbs 31 was written by a mother to her son. We just have a cheat code ☺️

  • @tiffanypickett8797
    @tiffanypickett8797 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Even as a single woman, this is so inspiring! You both have incredible God-given wisdom, Im thankful to you guys for sharing! I’ve been praying and fasting to be prepared for marriage and motherhood, this will be kept close to my heart. Now i wanna write almost every verse of this passage around my house as reminders and encouragement!!😆❤️✨

  • @michelletaylorsmotivation3171
    @michelletaylorsmotivation3171 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Praise the Lord I’m thankful that I ran across this live or teaching or this replay but I really like what first lady said about how if you don’t know how to cook or you don’t like going to the grocery store that you can get on the app and order some groceries or you can hire somebody to cook even thinking about myself and my busy lifestyle I do clean sometimes but it’s OK if you got a higher somebody to come in and do your general cleaning It’s OK if you have to hire somebody or get somebody to help you with some things even with the kids I believe that it takes a village to raise a child. It’s OK grandma can come in and watch the kids while you get some things done or you know if your kids are small if you gotta get a nap or you gotta study or whatever the case maybe so I think that’s awesome that she said that because at one point time in my life I was feeling lack because I can cook, but I don’t like to Cook and clean all the time that is not the focal point of who I am so what I’ve learned with striving to be proverbs 31 woman is that being a mom being a wife being a entrepreneur being a minister being a teacher all of that you have to find balance and it’s OK to reach out for help to help you do these thingsso thank you Lady for mentioning that

  • @nono.1921
    @nono.1921 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I just found you guys today after watching your fasting video and it’s blessed me tremendously. I am back for a second video today and it’s this. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and may God bless you and keep you near his heart.

  • @AJ-cy1mm
    @AJ-cy1mm Před 5 měsíci +4

    I NEEDED THIS! Seriously! I love when she mentioned this chapter is like a highlight reel like Instagram and the Proverbs 31 woman still goes through the motions of daily life!! Truly a word.

  • @amymcintosh7378
    @amymcintosh7378 Před 5 měsíci +12

    God Bless you both. You have inspired me to be a virtuous woman. My daughter shared this with me and told me I am a virtuous woman. What a way for me to ring in the New Year 2024!

  • @denisehouston7805
    @denisehouston7805 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Doing it God's way we can avoid alot 😢. He created us & he knows what's best for his children Liisten to Father.

  • @aidaortiz7219
    @aidaortiz7219 Před 7 měsíci +6

    “There’s going to be Grace upon me to help me get there.” Beautifully expressed! Thank you for your insight. 🙏🏼

  • @misskissy17
    @misskissy17 Před 4 měsíci +1

    As women, we often feel criticized in all we do. When you read the Bible and are new to the faith, it can be overwhelming. Sometimes we have history that makes us feel like we will never amount. But through time and growing it can be inspirational. Sometimes we take the Bible so literal when we need to consider it spiritually. As a single mother with now grown children, seek God on who and how He wants you to be. Especially, if you’re feeling overwhelmed.

  • @iBvtterfly
    @iBvtterfly Před 7 měsíci +10

    Love this video thank you. Just thrown off on the 4-5 days without milk, he can’t go get milk? Can he not meet her in an area as simple as going to the store and getting the milk? Yet she’s so classy still apologizes and also works like he does. I work a full shift day, provide for everyone in all aspects and would still be expected to do everything? No he can help and get some milk instead of say it’s going on a week.. love the rest of the video, love their patience with each other and gems dropped thank you for the video 🫶🏼

    • @CJC-ec6sk
      @CJC-ec6sk Před 2 měsíci

      I was confused too but why he couldn’t just get milk this one time if she always has it locked down.

  • @paigealexaandra
    @paigealexaandra Před 5 měsíci +3

    I love this. I’m a single 30 y/o woman with a desire for family and I feel like God is really showing me the areas that are in need of development for me to be the woman He’s created a vision of me being. My priorities are shifting and I see my habits need to shift with them. This message is right on time and is really fueling that desire to grow into true womanhood. Thank you. ❤

  • @user-gc2ht5ol6f
    @user-gc2ht5ol6f Před měsícem

    You just hit The nail on the head. ❤ I do a lot of counseling and a lot of times people don't even understand themselves and it's easier to go ahead and start learning about the opposite sex that we are and that helps us to discover more about them. And then it helps us to open up to learn about us. You guys do amazing job. Thank you so much. I just found you a couple days ago. Many prayers. Continue blessings🎉

  • @DeQuana
    @DeQuana Před měsícem

    If I’m gonna be honest with myself, when I first read the verse, there’s a bit of metaphors and stuff that I didn’t understand. Until your wife clarified it I feel more secure and much more better. 🙏🏼

  • @aaliyahtia2496
    @aaliyahtia2496 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Hi, before 2021 I didn’t know how to cook. And then one day I was like I want a family one day. I want to learn so I can cook for my family. So since 2021 I have been cooking. I watched CZcams video and Pinterest food videos. And keep in mind before hand I was eating out all the time. I didn’t mind eating out. Then one day boom.

  • @Amy-yb4ne
    @Amy-yb4ne Před 5 měsíci +2

    I'm only 15 mins in and I love this. This is something I aspire to be. Recently our lives got flipped around. We have suffered a lot of trauma (house fire in 2023) and my husband got PTSD and is now unable to work. I am working and doing housework and he cooks every night and takes my son to his therapies, our littlest to daycare etc. We are a team and share it but I feel bad that I'm not the one cooking at night but he says it's on him coz I'm working so I'm grateful but I was feeling like I wasnt being a Christian wife coz I'm not the SAHM now. Id love some wisdom on this.

    • @___Wendy___
      @___Wendy___ Před 5 měsíci +2

      Hi Amy,
      It's not a law for the wife to cook every night, so don't worry about it. You're doing what your family needs you to do the most for this period of time. So I think your doing a great job. Don't be ashamed that your husband helps out at home. You're team

  • @Keonahawk24
    @Keonahawk24 Před 7 měsíci +21

    I truly love this couple. I’m not even married yet but they’ve helped me so much as an individual and preparing me for marriage. So thank you both for your support and diligence ❤

  • @bridgeyb
    @bridgeyb Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am a single woman of God and I have always had that want in my heart to have the qualities of a Prov. 31 woman. Yet I did feel somewhat condemned because it felt like so much work and that when I would try to for example wake up before dawn it would last for a week then I would cave and sleep in. But this has truly blessed me so much because I believe that I have the heart of a servant and long to make meals for my hard working future husband, to take care of my home and to strive to be a Prov. 31 woman! After this I no longer feel condemned but I feel encouraged that in this season of my life is the perfect time to work on myself and to become a Prov. 31 woman! God bless you both thank you so much for this! ❤️😊🙏

  • @deborahsteele7389
    @deborahsteele7389 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I am proud to say that I am a pioneer woman and finally a Proverbs 31 Wife.

  • @amyfriess7960
    @amyfriess7960 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I love the Proverbs 31 woman and have tried to follow that example my whole adult life and continue even though I am alone. it is only just in the last year that I actually studied this verse. You really need to go to the beginning of Proverbs 31 to understand it completely. It talks about King Lemuel and his mother's instruction to him. First of all, there is really no record of a King Lemuel. The word Lemuel means: Man of God" It is believed that the king is actually King Solomon, and this is his mother Beshea giving him instruction and King Lemuel is his nickname for her son meaning he is a "Man of God". she is explaining to him how important it is he chooses the right woman wisely or he could be ruined.
    I used to feel unworthy as I felt I could not be this virtuous of a woman, especially in the failed relationship I had in divorce. What I realized when I studied Proverbs 31:10 the woman part cannot start without the first parts of Proverbs 31, It starts with King Lemuel, a "Man of God." I kept picking men who were maybe not a "Man of God", and Proverbs 31 can never work without a King Lemuel. You have to choose a mate that is a "Man of God" It really is a guide for women, but too many women think they can change a man. We must be obedient to the Lord and stay away from the unequally yoked. However, his mother was telling him he also cannot just pick any woman, it must be a virtuous woman, a woman of God, one of high moral character. There is so much more to this, but it starts with two people who need to be equally yoked in the Lord.

    • @voltrondefender1174
      @voltrondefender1174 Před 29 dny

      You are on the right path! Big question for you, if this is Bathsheba speaking over Solomon, (big if! but also very probable) do you think she is describing and Solomon is later recording a type of ideal woman, or an actual ideal woman? For instance, there is a woman described in scripture that closely fits the description in Prov 31. Hint: In the Masoretic text her book immediately follows Proverbs 31. She also has a special relationship to Solomon, and is the only other woman in scripture described as "Eishet Chayil" translated as woman of noble character but more accurately as a woman of valor... happy studying!

  • @ashleymonay9676
    @ashleymonay9676 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I was studying proverbs 31 this week so this episode was sooo timely and very helpful!

  • @ayannagriffin1136
    @ayannagriffin1136 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Listening to this today gives me hopes that at any stage of our life is never too late to get better. Learning to trust and allow God to move me through the process of growth. I am willing to work on a few steps in Proverbs 31 to help me develop and become a better woman mentally and spiritually. Thank you and God bless you.

  • @Iammidly
    @Iammidly Před 29 dny

    I feel very blessed, i was about to start my personal bible study and devotional and came across this video ! I really appreciate having the perspective and insight of a married Christian couple. ❤ As a young woman, about to turn 26, i started to put myself into perspective ( how to be a woman in the image of God and also which standards should i hold myself to) the 31 woman was definitely needed. I really loved your video and will definitely be watching more ! You guys are really lovely. I can feel the love you have for each other. May God bless you and your family. See you soon ! ❤

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Před 27 dny +1

      Thank you so much. We are glad our podcast can be a blessing to you! Tune in every Thursday and don't forget to share it with your friends and family :)

  • @espybeltran9679
    @espybeltran9679 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Hi you guys so I just found your podcast. This is actually the first one I’m watching and it truly found me because I recently started to church religiously as I say. I’m currently doing prayer and fasting with my church and it’s a real challenge that I’m facing. But I’m 24 years old with no kids I have gave birth to but I have a boyfriend/husband and 4 kids who are his bio nephews and nieces but we both took legal guardianship. To be so young and having to take care of a household which was once just two and in the past 6 months is now 6 is very challenging but I know it’s possible. As I’m hearing what you guys are saying and reading this chapter with you I truly feel I am a proverbs 31 woman but there is a couple things that I can work on to become even more powerful,loving,kind for my spouse and our children. I love what you guys are doing.Im excited to see start from the beginning and hear all of your podcast

  • @roselynvillareal4816
    @roselynvillareal4816 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Such a blessing to me ❤ Thank you so much. I will definitely be a Proverbs 31 wife.. Praise the Lord 🙏

  • @ivymwiwa4558
    @ivymwiwa4558 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have been looking for content on proverbs 31 woman and I am so glad this is the first one that I stumbled upon on CZcams....this is my first little miracle today❤

  • @sarahcarter7274
    @sarahcarter7274 Před 5 měsíci +1

    A thought crossed my mind to share this because maybe you both were meant to hear or see this. But a quick thought crossed my mind and it was “these are people of this world, how can I know they are speaking truth of God and I’m not being mislead” (which btw I wasn’t thinking this was misleading by any means but some people nowadays are more worldly teaching than in the word teaching) so I say that to say this. I immediately after thinking that thought felt a sense of peace and I found comfort in video this right off the back meaning I know God was telling me it was right, but also I am “the one that just stumbled upon the video” so I believe God put it on my heart to tell you this to hopefully encourage you more bc the thought kept rumbling over and over in my mind!

  • @chrissyejenkins808
    @chrissyejenkins808 Před 2 měsíci

    I needed to hear this! Around 13 minutes in, Ken talks about being encouraged to become the proverbs 31 woman. For so long, I have been the opposite, the one who sees everything in Proverbs 31 and feels lacking. I’m excited to strive toward my new goals of becoming a proverbs 31 woman! Tabitha talked about a woman at all different stages of life before that. I love the concept that becoming a proverbs 31 woman is a lifetime goal. This woman in Proverbs 31 is my roadmap to a happy and successful life as a woman! Thank you for sharing your perspective, I feel a burden lifted, and I am light!

  • @missygodschild836
    @missygodschild836 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I am a woman who happens to be single but I look forward to being married and I want to thank you for helping us understand Prov 31. I work on operating in the same spirit she did (selfless, responsible considerate, kind, etc.)

  • @Cathryndechow
    @Cathryndechow Před 2 měsíci

    Representing ORU 🙌🏼

  • @koladorsey968
    @koladorsey968 Před 10 dny

    I need the self care one, but I loved this , so beautiful

  • @gracechitauro8380
    @gracechitauro8380 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Good topic!

  • @baileycagle601
    @baileycagle601 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I aspire to be a Proverbs 21 woman and it is something I’ve struggled in becoming for years now allowing temptations and outside factors get in my way. This podcast gave me the motivation I needed and have been looking for. Thank you guys!❤

  • @michole3380
    @michole3380 Před 7 měsíci +2

    So glad my pastor shared your page during one of our marriage ministry meetings.

  • @shanitalee30sl
    @shanitalee30sl Před 6 měsíci +3

    This teaching was awesome ❤️. I taught a Bible study earlier in the year on Proverbs 31 and when tasked with this I felt unworthy 😅 because I’m a single mother but my Bishop was able to change my perspective as you all have as well. I’m definitely subscribing, God Bless you all 🥰

  • @PattyDeVille
    @PattyDeVille Před 4 měsíci

    I can’t thank yall enough for taking the time to break down this chapter. I have been to a service where a husband read the chapter and the wife acted out Proverbs 31. I left the service feeling so horrible about myself. I felt like I could never measure up to be the woman God intended me to be. Thank you.

  • @jenmedulian
    @jenmedulian Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this podcast. I am excited to be transformed as a Proverbs 31 woman throught the Holy Spirit. GOD bless your show and praying that all women will bentouched by thw Holy Spirit and be transformed to be the woman who pleases God alone in who they are and in everything thwy do and say. In Jesus name. Amen🙏🙏🙏

  • @Ehipopo
    @Ehipopo Před 7 měsíci +2

    ready for this one!

  • @gettended
    @gettended Před 12 dny

    28:48 😂❤ it’s a good spoiled. It’s really lovely and sweet

  • @SB-ze9xs
    @SB-ze9xs Před 7 měsíci +6

    I just love hearing what God speaks through you two. ❤
    I am walking in my learning to be a true godly wife. I want to honor God in my marriage.
    My boyfriend and I have been officially courting since March of this year, and he has 2 daughters from a previous relationship that ended 7 years ago (I don't have children). The girls are 11 and 18.
    The 18 year old is away in college, and the 11 year old lives with their dad.
    Occasionally, when I come to the house and have a space of time alone, I pray as I walk through each room and I mark each door and window with oil.
    I speak love into the atmosphere, but it seems like whenever I speak to the youngest daughter, she simply answers my questions very dryly, or when she has something to say, she literally turns her whole body towards her dad as if I don't exist.
    I have a 17 year old niece in college, and we started a thread with the 18 year old daughter-just to send a funny meme or scripture or simple encouragement, knowing its both of their first year in college. I havent bombarded....Ive sent 4 texts since August, and my niece sent a really kind intro to open herself for conversation anytime. I have yet to hear anything from my future daughter (the 18yo). One thing I know is that you cant fight Love and nothing can stop a move of God, so I will be consistent in sending love.
    I know her mom has spoken harshly about there being someone in her dad's life whom he loves, but that I have been a constant of encouragement and support to both girls. I love them, and I love Jesus. My boyfriend is also saved.
    I said all this to say, sometimes the encourager needs to be encouraged.
    What do you recommend I do, study, pray about to go higher in my Proverbs 31 position as a wife and future bonus mom in training?
    I want Christ to have His mark in our home and for these attitudes and resistance to be broken, but I feel stuck. ❤

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 Před 7 měsíci +3

      You are a beautiful soul.
      Keep doing the righteous deeds with no regards towards the attitude of the one infront of you.
      Remember, God's Love is above all.
      Jesus' Sacrifice can save anyone❤

    • @SB-ze9xs
      @SB-ze9xs Před 7 měsíci

      Amen, I appreciate you so much for saying this. Thank-you.

    • @SB-ze9xs
      @SB-ze9xs Před 7 měsíci +4

      And I hope I'm not overstepping my current boundaries. I call it walking by faith, and I am definitely not trying to replace the girls mom. I feel like there is room for each of us to shine in the role that God has for us. I want to do this right. God has been so good to my boyfriend and I by sending us into each other's lives.

  • @Socydney
    @Socydney Před 4 měsíci

    My husband and I are both 24, we will be married for two years next month. I literally prayed for mentorship from a more seasoned Christian couple, and here I am stumbling on your podcast! This has blessed us, thank you!

  • @shaynemorgan
    @shaynemorgan Před 4 měsíci +1

    I strive to be a proverbs 31 woman!! Amen 🙏🏾

    • @ketubah857
      @ketubah857 Před 4 měsíci

      Really?? Please tell me ehat it means to be a proverbs 31 woman. What does one have to do to achieve all these things? Can you help me with this??

  • @ellenaarmstrong634
    @ellenaarmstrong634 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for the Godly encouragement.🥰

  • @christianbyers6292
    @christianbyers6292 Před 3 měsíci

    Tabathaaaa you are a great example of a proverbs 31 women! Truly inspiring, as a young lady who’s 21 yrs old your a role model for me and I thank you for your 🙏🏽 God bless your beautiful family!!

  • @beendlebe2155
    @beendlebe2155 Před 2 měsíci

    I can only thank God for leading my spirit to listen you guys❤
    I've always believed I'm a Proverbs 31 woman in my heart even though sometimes i felt I'm not worthy enough in certain seasons of my life. I loved how you broke it down and kept asking your beautiful wife what it means to her😍
    I have learnt a lot and I can't wait to watch more of your content👌🥰

  • @avabasler2902
    @avabasler2902 Před 2 měsíci

    thank you for this- this is helping go over the topic of the proverbs 31 woman for a mission trip that I am taking that is going to costa rica

  • @jacquelinenoel
    @jacquelinenoel Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for this message! I particularly loved the comments around proverbs 31 not being meant to condemn, but instead being a guideline from God for the women we want to be

  • @teenspirit9837
    @teenspirit9837 Před 7 měsíci

    Blessings for this word! 🙏🏾❤️

  • @user-kj4qt1in3h
    @user-kj4qt1in3h Před 4 měsíci

    charm and grace are deceptive, and beauty is vain. but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised.
    i enjoyed this episode so much. i love your advice.

  • @Teenelljb
    @Teenelljb Před 7 měsíci +1

    This truly blessed me today! 🙌

  • @lifewithmahalia
    @lifewithmahalia Před 4 měsíci

    New subbie❤I'm loving it here. I'm 25 and I've been so nervous to study the Proverbs 31 woman because she has her THINGS together and well.... that's quite.... wow😂you realize how it's not easy to be this woman everyday. But I'm slowly learning that it's a process and you learn while falling, making mistakes, and being an intentional woman of God who seeks guidance too.

  • @marycook1183
    @marycook1183 Před 5 měsíci

    Bless you🙏🏻 I needed this.

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913

    Watching from Ghana

  • @phyllisharris1206
    @phyllisharris1206 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Great topic!!!! So glad to see you all on CZcams!!!!

  • @cassiajackson8658
    @cassiajackson8658 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This truly blessed me I have a new perspective when I read the Bible now. I can study Proverbs 31 and aspire to be that woman and not be discouraged that I may not have it all together now

    • @_forevergrateful1
      @_forevergrateful1 Před 6 měsíci

      This! The book of Proverbs is a guidance book. It should help you aspire to be the best version of you.

  • @shernacunningham8541
    @shernacunningham8541 Před 4 měsíci

    This is a real Blessing! Thank you. Still work in progress as the Proverbs 31 woman after 32 years of marriage but God remains faithful and the love and bond between my Hubby and I is a tapestry that God continues to weave....beautifully. it's humbling.

  • @willarolen7581
    @willarolen7581 Před 5 měsíci

    Congratulations on 24 years! The content is valuable to me! What you're saying is helpful and life changing!

  • @laridari1201
    @laridari1201 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Amen!! Thank you both for your amazing work. This really spoke to me. God is so good!!!

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Před 7 měsíci

    Amen Brethren
    Thanks for sharing this godly content

  • @ChelseaWiese_
    @ChelseaWiese_ Před 3 měsíci

    I never get on CZcams and just scroll tonight was my first night and I was not even looking for this type of message and GOD SHOWED UO THROUGH YALL! Thank you so much for this I am the woman who feels condemned by the Bible as if I can’t ever live up to those standards but the line “I get to” and the whole battle I’ve had with our fast paced society doesn’t fit with the Bible just opens a whole different level of relationship with God for me. I’m looking up tickets to Orlando in august bc wow I’m awake. Things I’ve been asking my whole life no one has been able to answer for me.

  • @sipeilu1403
    @sipeilu1403 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for this program. Blessed so much from your videos.

  • @user-qc8hr1ui4n
    @user-qc8hr1ui4n Před 4 měsíci

    I feel like I ran upon this podcast at the right time, in right season, right day. I literally enjoyed y’all so much! The both of you spoke so much encouragement into my life. As a woman who’s trying to surrender to God’s will and NOT beat myself up so much about where I am or I am not in my life y’all have giving me so much HOPE. On this FAITH WALK I can be exactly what God called me to be.

  • @lenci9524
    @lenci9524 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Great video. Thank you! GOD Bless both of You!

  • @shanaeingram541
    @shanaeingram541 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I’m so excited to hear you two on this topic 🎉😊

  • @sthompson8873
    @sthompson8873 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for breaking this down and making it realistic!

  • @latrishagandy1831
    @latrishagandy1831 Před 4 měsíci

    GOD Bless you both, Thanks for sharing.

  • @Shanelle3309
    @Shanelle3309 Před 7 měsíci +1

    This was so wonderful, thank you 🙏🏾🫶🏾✨ God bless you all

  • @amariiallen
    @amariiallen Před 5 měsíci

    The way you speak of her is so beautiful! Loved this entire video, thank you ❤

  • @laurac9857
    @laurac9857 Před 7 měsíci

    Wow I really learned alot from this !❤ thanks so much 🙏 my pastors are the best! Miss yall in GNV

  • @latitiaezell334
    @latitiaezell334 Před 4 měsíci

    Love this Message! I’m a first time listener. Thanks y’all !

  • @reneruiz5871
    @reneruiz5871 Před 4 měsíci

    Life changing content from you guys. First time getting to hear these podcasts and was not part of my plans, my wife walks in and we were so blessed by a couple of the podcasts that we subscribed and going forward this is our go to for encouragement, wisdom, and growth tips in our spiritual life’s as leaders of our local church.

  • @veronicaphillips6602
    @veronicaphillips6602 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I love your information and encouragement it is a blessing. Keep on teaching it is needed. Thank you for my morning motivation ❤

  • @HadleyFaith
    @HadleyFaith Před 2 měsíci

    Glad I found this video!! Thank you for blessing us with these❤ subscribing now

  • @jenriquefilms1634
    @jenriquefilms1634 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Love listening to this podcast again 🙏🏽 so much wisdom ❤️

  • @audreygordon7941
    @audreygordon7941 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Beautiful encouragement!!

  • @faithtembo
    @faithtembo Před 7 měsíci

    Listening to this while cleaning , ❤
    The Gospel is so accurate 🙏