My Thoughts on Aging (Chit Chat) | BorderHammer
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- My thoughts on aging. Getting older is not for the weak but if you tilt your head a little you can see that what we thought was beauty had nothing at all to do with appearances. This was off the cuff and requested by a subscriber/viewer (thank you). I hope you enjoy! See you as soon as I can.
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Aging is truly a blessing, it's corny but my goal is to live long enough to be a Great Grandmother. I lost my mother young, my child don't have a grandmother, so I am in it for the long haul. And I'm going to do it gracefully.
Same!!!! When I turned 40…I claimed 94 years on this earth!! Somebody gotta hang around long enough to leave the stories, the traditions, the legacies….THE LOVE!!!
Same
Not corny at all. I want to see my generations.
That’s not corny at all! My mother is a great grandmother and it’s truly been a blessings watching her experience all of those generations. She is a blessing to our family.
Love this. I wish more women would think like this.
Yes girl. I'm 50 and have found so much more piece. The body changes, the energy changes, but the heart grows. I'm so happy with myself at this stage. 25 yr old me had no idea! ❤️
I’m 25 and it going by so fast, but I’m thank ful you make me happier to see that milestone :)
Yeees...I did not know it was going to be the wonderful.. I think it is the state of mind for me.
@@mimib1515 as you said, it the unbotheredness that frees us up from other people's stresses
Not a "whole new face!" 😂I totally understand. (I'm 46 also and WEIGHT LIFTING has been the solution to keeping my face [and body] in check). Love this vid.
It may"suck", but it beats dying young ✌🏾💖
This is the part young folks fail to see today. There's nothing cute nor flattering about seeing healthy young people laying in a coffin. Aging and having aged is GOD telling me that I've lived through some things, came out of some things and that I still have a lot of living left to do.
Speak for yourself
@@RoseRose-cf3qd I Am
Aging gracefully Queen and getting finer and wiser with time! 👸🏾🙌🏾😍
Thank you Kathryn! 🥰
I think you’re aging gracefully. I totally get what you’re saying about waking up and looking in the mirror… It’s like you’re still holding it together, but you see a new imperfection here/there… You make peace with it, but then there is something else. I’m 43 and it was the chubby elbows/chubby arms for me😩 I just try to point out the thing I love scout myself physically and internally 😍
I am 46 too and my goodness aging has been a whole thing. I have gotten a tummy tire or whatever they call it and I used to be curvy and cute. I didn't realize it would be such a transition. I went through a bit of a depression. I recently joined a boxing gym for group fitness and am trying to get back to eating well. I agree with all you said, lotion, oils, moisturizers.
Try fasting.
Keep going !!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@May13Tiffanyyy YES! Fasting is absolutely amazing! I'm going into my second week of 3x/week 24-hour fasts and it's been sooo amazing!
Hey sis! 👋🏾 I found this topic to be refreshing. Thank you for sharing. You look so beautiful to me. I also love your realness. ❤️
She is very beautiful, always has been, always will be 💕💕💕💕
@@natukundamarian5330 I agree with you, she's beautiful. I love the honesty. No one really talks about these things, or maybe before our time they didn't have the means to, but I have enjoyed this for sure. Just so that when I experience something similar I'll know that I'm not crazy.
Aging is a blessing especially if it's graceful. You are beautiful and don't look 40.
She does look 40. And 40 is still young.
I'm 55 ,and I'm dyeing laughing. my mother in law didn't leave her bedroom without putting her make up on, I thought that was crazy!
NOW AT 55,I GET IT!!!
Girl wait till menopause hit😂😂
NOOOOO! I'm not ready!!😂
@@borderhammer my best advice is exercise, low carb,intermittent fasting
Do your research before you reach menopause. Awesome video.
That’s when we start realizing it really is about looking good for yourself and not other people.
Girl yes.. I'll be 54 this year but my focus is preserving and GREAT HEALTH!
I am having to get use to the new face. It looks so different. I am so happy to be alive at 57. I have had so many friends passing. I was trying to get them to be healthy 😪 I just got my knee ache 3 months ago. I haven't been sick in years
What do you mean new face? She had something done?
Wow, if you’ve been on here for 13 years that means I’ve been watching you since I was 15. I’m 28 now and asking myself those same questions about “getting older.”
I think you are aging gracefully! You are beautiful!
“And you wake up with a whole new f**k**g face”….I felt that. Except I keep waking up with whole new pains 😩😩😩
Hey sis so good to see your beautiful face. Aging is something else sis I will be 48 in June and sometimes I can feel it in my body. I will be honest and say this I am truly grateful to be the age I am a grand mother of five and still here. It’s also a beautiful thing to see women like yourself age gracefully and beautifully with me. I’ve been on here for almost 15 years and Girl time flies it seems just like yesterday. You look beautiful sis and always have love you girl
LMBO at naps!!!! Ain’t that the truth! 😂😂😂
YES! It's not persnickety, it's protecting your peace! My forties ushered me into intentional choices, despite what or who is on the chopping block, and I'm grateful for the freedom. You, Rachelle, are aging like a very fine wine!
Girl you are so on point with the "whole new face"😂 I'm 8 years older than you so I've woken up with SEVERAL new faces. 😂 You're too funny. We have to take it in stride and take the extra time needed to be our best selves. Love your videos.❤
Lol
Hey Girl Hey!!! I'm 48 and chile - men-o-pause is the devil... , well - the hot flashes, mood changes, insomnia, and night sweat part at least.
I Laughed So So So Hard. I was actually screaming when you said, 'A whole New fkn Face. I think that happened to me when I was in nursing school. I even forgot my birthday. I blamed it on stress not letting me pay close attention to subtle small changes until one day, after the stress had subsided, I looked closely at myself and didn't look like me. 🤣. This was so funny. No one talks about it, but you know that's how really big people, get that way.
I just turned 40 in March and it’s been hard to accept the fact that youth is slipping away. Getting older is a blessing and all that, it sounds good and is true to an extent, but it’s still hard to let go of what was.
This video is everything I am feeling. I am 47 and I will be 48 July 1st. I noticed the gray hairs coming in and the dark circles under my eyes. I woke up one day and it just appeared. I am just falling apart. I will tell you one thing though, after seeing this I now don't feel so alone anymore. I tried to stop cussing and hell that didn't work. I have two grown son's 23 and 18 oh yeah and my oldest is 62 (husband). My patients is literally gone. I just don't take bull crap anymore. I love your channel. Keep the videos coming!!
“You go to sleep and wake up with a whole new face!” 😂😂😂 You have not lied! You don’t see it coming. You just don’t!
That was probably the best line.
Girl, yes …. Getting older is interesting. But- I DO NOT want to go back! I’m a little older than you… and the mindset changes at every stage. Amazing how much you think you know until you reach the next stage… BTW, you are beautiful & you have lovely personality. You are a complete package.
At 63, looking back at 46, wow...The changes come seems like everyday, something new, but you will manage.
I would love to here the advice that no one wants to hear 💛 I enjoy watching your videos and you still look beautiful and vibrant, you are aging so gratefully.
I second that!! Please give US the advice others aren’t trying to hear. 🙏🏾♥️
I’ve been here since the Rugged Wearhouse days lol. It’s been a long time. You are still just as beautiful as you were 12-13 years ago❤️
I used to spring up and get right out of bed lol. At 48 I have to allow my mind and body to synergize before I dare hop out of that bed lol. I also have to allow my bones and joints the opportunity to warm up.
Ditto!!!
Lol me too I’ll be 48 in August and each morning lol I literally sit on side of my bed before getting going it’s crazy
Thank you, my love, for this video. It’s good to see similarities. No one wants to feel like the Lone Ranger. I am 8 years older than you so you can imagine all that I’m going through. I have physical pain(knees and back), emotional pain (more comrades are older so more people are dying), forgetfulness(my granddaughter always says that I forget everything 😂), a ton of gray which I chase with dye, a short tolerance for bull and my heel game is weak(nonexistent). There’s even more too. Luckily, I can laugh at some of this. I must say that I love the wisdom and clarity. All-in-all, I know that aging is a blessing; look at the alternative. I want to see my grandkids go through some of their life, too. Please Lord give me lots of time.🙏🏾
Get it together luv🤣🤣
You are still super pretty and youthful! 🤗
OMG! You still just as drop dead gorgeous as I remember you, way back in those early days of the natural hair movement. So good to have stumbled back on to your channel. Won't be losing touch again. I've subscribed!
No lies detected in this video. I woke up the day after my 46th birthday and suddenly needed glasses. And this right knee was like, nah sis....not today. P. S. I can attest to this Sista has been youthful in Her appearance since middle school LOL.
The glasses. I can’t see a thing anymore on a screen. Now I sound like my mother…constantly asking if anyone has seen my glasses cause I keep losing them.
I’ll be 55 this year and sure, my hair is thinner. There are a few more wrinkles but overall I’m pretty good. I don’t have any major health issues and I try to take care of myself. I’m thankful to see each new day because there are so many people my age who are dying every day. Thank you for keeping it real.
I'll be 40 this year and so far so good, lol I feel like 35 and up was a rough time of acceptance so I'm happy to be over that!
So glad to see you again! Definitely timely.
I'm 35 and listening INTENTLY. You're already the picture of grace. Def worth it to listen.
So glad to see you're back. Thabks for the wisdom.
Been riding with you for at least ten of those years! Thank you for this honest take - you are a beautiful!
46 going on 20. You look so young. If I didn't see the gray strands, I would have thought you were 19.
I love it! It sounds like you're really good at setting boundaries!
Love you Rachelle!!! This was sooo true about aging and your delivery was hilarious! I can relate completely!
It's always a pleasure watching your videos! Thank you for the content
Loved you for years, and you're still beautiful and glowing sis. Thanks for the tips
Hey lady gals to see you back ALWAYS love your energy. Glad you are doing well.
You are still just as gorgeous as you were the first time I ran across your page. Now these cracking bones can get in somewhere
I’ve always loved and adored your personality!! Also, I think you’re aging gracefully!
16:30, “but yea do that” 😂😂😂😂
love catching your vids, good to see your face and you look stunning as always!!!
You truly nailed this!
Hey girl. I been here for years! I love when you check in!
Been following her for a long time. She’s a whole vibe🥰💕
Wow the time has flown, we are aging together. You are doing it ever so gracefully.
Love it! Hilarious as usual! 😂🤣😂😂 you look beautiful as always! Keep’em coming!
When I first got on CZcams to learn about my hair I saw you and I loved your personality. I'm so happy to see you!
Aging is a blessing...the opposite is dying young...I'm happy you're still here that we get to see your beautiful face :)
You were one of the first CZcamsrs I ever subscribed too. Yearsss ago! You still look Fantastic! 😊
I’ve been following you for yearssss and you will always be beautiful and youthful to me! Thank you so much for making this video. The naps! You made me feel so much better. I was questioning if something was wrong with me.
Glad to see you! I haven’t seen ur videos in a while! You are aging well like most of us do!
You’re aging gracefully & beyond measure :-) It's a beauty & a blessing to grow older.
Wow, Rochelle you are something else and I love it! Always keeping it real and that is exactly what we need in the world today!!!! Thank you and God Bless!
Great video! I feel great getting older so far. My friend group and I are all 45 - 48. I can say is that there is a clear line between those of us who are taking care of ourselves with eating mostly healthy and working out and those of us who are not. Not just speaking of just the outside, but how we feel, move, our outlook on life, having a better journey etc. I have gotten more outspoken as I've gotten older. Def. can relate to that! Thank you for sharing.
I never heard you curse before. I like this lol mmmmk.
Hey there! I’m one of the OG subscribers! Loved this vid!! You look PHENOMENAL!! I’m 53 and I started noticing the face change situation this year! Lol Had to get on the collagen powder and hyaluronic acid serum bandwagon! Gotta also amp up the weight training!
We're the same age and all of this has been on my mind daily whilegoingthroughthesechanges. Right on time sis! ✔️
Yes! The wake up to a new face! Been rockin with you a while on yt. This video made my day..lol
Honey you were spot on with this video lol. So glad your back,once I turned 45 I had that moment of waking up with a whole other face 😂🤣🥲and you ain’t never lied, it’s so real. Thank you for being so transparent and honest and entertaining looking forward to more videos. Blessings to you and the fam from Cali.
Rachelle - GIRL! I MISS YOU - I'm sure WE ALL MISS YOU!!! Please stay active, you KNOW we love us some YOU!!!!
Omg you still looks the same. Absolutely stunning. Great video girl.
Missed your videos! My mother and I both like your videos. And you are aging gracefully. Thank you for the honest chit chat. Would you ever do a CZcams live? You are one of my favorite OG CZcamsrs. 😀
Thank you, for sharing your experience. This video was comforting for me as a woman in my early 30s who is starting to notice so many changes in my physical appearance. I have been watching your videos for years and I pray that I age as beautifully as you have.
Thank you so much for this video!!! I was just wondering the other day, "Am I the only one feeling like this?" and here you are answering my questions. You are stunning BTW!
Yeah girl, it's been 12 going on 13 years, I know this coz my daughter is now 12 ☺️. I'm still in awe at how you've kept it so together as I was back then when you first started. I love the wisdom that comes with the process of getting older.
Great video Rachelle! I am a couple years older than you and my experience is similar to yours. Sometimes my knees don’t cooperate. It has taken some getting used to. Self acceptance and patience has been key for me. Investing in my personal growth and development has also helped. I don’t have the same reservations that I had when I was younger as it relates to voicing my thoughts. If I don’t want to do a thing, I simply don’t do it and I now have *no problem* saying no! I can tell that I am growing and I love who I am becoming! Thanks for posting this video!
Omgggggg!!! I have watched you for yearsssssssss!!!
Hey Rochelle. Thank you for this video. I'm glad that you're still treating yourself with grace and patience. It really shows. And you still look beautiful as ever. On another tangent, I'm really dying to see your perfume collection. Because i think you have great taste. Of course this is up to your discretion. Have a great day. Thanks for the video again.
I posted your video on a group I started called Ageless Sistas.
I told them to give a listen eventhough you’re not exactly there yet (older), and very beautiful (so what are YOU complaining about), you make valid points. We love you. Keep doing what you’re doing.
Looking beautiful! I really felt you starting at 10:45. When you've been a nice person so long and constantly adjusting in all your relationships, it gets exhausting as you get older. I would constantly analyze myself and try not to be conflicting and holding my emotions in when someone says something disrespectful. But now, I'm slowly allowing myself stand up and it feels good. And you know what, in doing that I'm realizing a message is being sent and THEIR behavior is changing. I'm saddened that I have to do this because it's not how I want to deal with it, but unfortunately, it just seems to be how the world works. When you find someone you don't have to do this with those, that's when the friendship is golden.
Girrrrl!!! Imma need summo videos from you. I’m 45 and I’m all the way there with you😆❤️
Hey Girl! Im 51 and been watching you for probably since the beginning. You look good girl. I totally agree. It’s funny. It’s bittersweet. You look amazing. One thing is I’m comfortable about who I am and I guard my peace. It’s all about aging gracefully.
It is so good to see you! You’re aging beautifully. It’s not for the weak at heart. Last year in my 50s, I’m more confident and loving myself more and more. I thank God I’m healthy and wise. It’s nice to see you’re embracing your grey hair.
Yes... I have been here with you a long time... changed my name a couple times. You are still stunning. Just amazing.
Turning 46 and been watching you from the jump! EVERYTHING said was relatable!! I felt that knee/ high heel moment deeply 😫 We are still here tho! I know a few who can't say the same. I needed this one bc I damn sure feel the same!
Miss you so much!💜
I love seeing you again! thanks for this chit-chat video, cause I sure needed it. It is so good to read other's comments as well, and know I'm not the only one. I'm trying to live as long as I possibly can. I'm not at all concerned with my chronological age, for me it is all about the biological. I'm just trying to do this thang called aging gracefully
The surprises yes!! I turn 37 on the 14th and I got my first face surprise a few months ago! A pretty noticeable wrinkle area on my eyelid (just my right side) I’m like wtf?! Eyelid wrinkles?! Phew that one hit hard! You still look the same to me tho! I’m an OG been following you for 10 years I believe. And yes the wisdom is soo much of a blessing! I love it. More confident, more sure of myself, less concerned with other people, less likely to be influenced by what’s going on around me. I agree with all of this lol.
I love this video🥰 and your energy.
Hi Rochelle! Your aging gracefully, beautiful as ever! Great topic, I also thought knee pain and back pain was supposed to happen when you get older not now I've had back surgery and I'm in my forties, never in my life I would have thought that would happen to me. Thought I could do it all. Body ain't what it used to be nomore. Anyway so glad the family is good. Till next time.
Sis, thank you for this! I remember finding your channel years ago at the beginning of my career. You were speaking on navigating the office as an AA woman and I subscribed. You gave great advice and talking points then and here we are years later. You are still giving valuable feedback. I didn’t realize that you were in your 30s when I started following you. I’ve hit my 30’s now and I’m encountering things that no one warmed me about. 😂 I thought I was alone. I’m so glad you made this. We’re all in different stages of this aging process. I’m learning to embrace and enjoy the process.
We miss you!!! 💛
I miss you and your upbeat attitude, your realness, your character, your humor, I mean everything about you that I see. I was just going through all my subscriptions deleting a lot of them and seen yours and remember how you would have me dying laughing years ago and clicked on your most recent video to see what you're up to and sure enough you're talking about something I can relate to and dealing with right now. I will be 50 next month and everything you're talking about hitting home. I thought you was talking about me. I was like wait a minute, she don't know me When you said, you know how you can go to sleep and wake up with a whole new freaking face, I couldn't stop laughing, I'm still laughing typing. Sis, you made my day!
Please come on here with your wisdom/lessons ❤️ I be waiting on you to post , thanks for sharing
You have Given a Total WORD and are Looking WONDERFUL💐👍🏿
I hear ya with face changes or muscle strain surprises. The pandemic has been hard on us too, but as a cancer survivor, I’ll take it all to be with my family another day, week, month, year.
Really appreciate you sharing this! I’ve been watching you for years ❤️
Hon- whatever you’re doing is working! I’m the age whisperer and you fooled me. I pegged you at 36/37! You look awesome 👏🏽
I LOVED EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS VIDEO!!! I'll be turning 50 on the 19th of this month and couldn't be MORE HAPPY AND GRATEFUL IF GOD ALLOWS ME TO SEE IT!!! I don't think I've ever been too pressed about aging, but I have DEFINITELY noticed the difference in some things that I see about myself physically, mentally and emotionally.
The part about "stumbling" was something that I could DEFINITELY relate to. I've recently learned that I have plantar fasciitis in my feet but when I say it will NOT KEEP ME OUTTA MY HEELS, LISTEN.....IT WILL NOT!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
I also could relate to the need for "naps" and honey let me tell you, I will take them too because I be tired for real. Keep encouraging and sharing yourself and your stories, it's VERY REFRESHING TO SEE HERE ON CZcams 😊
girrrllll yes to all that you said about the changes! mental, emotional, physical. It is shocking at first then when you realize this what its going to be just take in stride. Tolerance gets low the older you get and it's easier to say NO NOT TODAY! You definitely have a better perspective on those older than us and why they acted the way the did lol. All in all I'm grateful to God to be here
I've watched you since I was in my early 20s now I'm in my 30s. You've always been my internet big sister and I was so sad when I no longer saw your videos. Sending ❤
Girl I was hollering laughing if u aren’t me in the post. 🤣🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🌺🌸😊 💯💯💯💯💯🙌🏽
Yes, it just sneaks up on You!! I thought it was further away and more gradual! But I'm on a mission to slow it down and minimize it! I have A LOT of anti-aging natural products & a whole regimen now!
Ra, when people ask me why I’m happy, one of the main reasons I give is that I stay away from people I don’t like. If I gotta be uncomfortable when I’m around you, I’m not doing it. I’m peaceful and preserving my peace is mandatory! I’ve felt guilty about separating myself from shifty people, even family. I realized that if I wouldn’t allow the bad behavior from anyone else, being related isn’t a good enough reason for me to put up with it either.
I LOVE you! I want more of your chit chats!
I’ve been here with you since I was 26 and prego with my son. He’s 13 now. 🥰 I feel everything you mentioned.