The Six Ways You'll Try to Get Out of the Friend Zone
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I miss this guy. he was one of my fav cast members
what happened?
Dekish I dont know. I assume he just moved on.
+Dekish he graduated college lol
Galen Aguilar
Lmao.
Yah
That actually ended on a bright note.
Old college humour was the best.
Jake De La Cuesta yup
Just stop at where it says the end.
I want to die
It ended up like smosh, was funny for a while, then went to trash
It made me cry
This literally got me out of the friend zone after 2 years of being in it.
We are engaged now getting married Next year. :)
Do. Nothing. If it happens it happens.
Thanks for the inspiration
Don't give me hope, please!!
Same, man
can you tell us a little bit ?
@@gentasepriandi999 me?
The lesson here is: You can't force someone to love you. All you can do is aspire to be someone worth loving.
I found a way to beat the friend zone,
I have no friends
Are you Katie?
+greenghost2008 Ha-ha! Good one.
Hey.... me too! Thats why I spend Friday and Saturday nights at home on youtube instead of at the bars. LOL
GENUIS
I went to the friend zone but all I found were enemies.
That ending is great.
That shit was relief as fuck bro.
Ignorance is trully bliss
+111paolo2 truly*
Young Ize I've been writing truly wrong for my entire life. I don't even know how I got past high school
111paolo2 lmao i apologize on behalf of my inner douche grammar nazi
*Six Ways To Get Out:*
1. You Can't
2. You Can't
3. You Can't
4. You Can't
5. You Can't
6. You Can't
ʀᴀɴᴊɪᴛʜ no f u u can’t hate the truth
That's because the friendzone doesn't really exist. It's a mental state we put ourselves into because we don't have the balls to say "do you want to go out with me"? That simple question makes the friendzone cease to exist. Now you either have a girlfriend or a friend who will support you when you find another girl you share a mutual attraction with and can date. Stop being afraid to ask a girl out, and you'll never be stuck in the friendzone.
@@Ouja What about when you go on one or two dates and when you go in for a kiss she says she just wants to be friends? Boom, friendzoned. Also, asking "do you want to go out with me" does not solve anything either. If she says no you are friendzoned.
@@Ouja I’ve asked a girl that before. She immediately put me in the friendzone.
You get out of the friendzone by ceasing being her friend. Don't be rude about it. Simply become less available (like 90% less available).
Try to find interest in other girl(s). She'll only come around when she sees other women value you as a possible romantic interest. Women (naturally) compete with other women. Which means; she may decide she wants romance with you after all, when she sees you potentially getting involved with someone else. Keep in mind she may not pursue you and simply wish you well on your romantic pursuits. But hey at least you know she never wanted to you.
If she does come around. Make sure you try to seal the deal within a few dates (with mutual consent). Taking it slow could cause you to be placed right back in the friendzone.
Lastly don't use other women to get the girl you like. Let the girls you're dating know (up front) you're not looking for anything serious, at least not right away.
It's actually kind of crazy, I used to watch these when I was like 10 because I found them funny, now I'm 18, in my first year of University, looking back it's really crazy just how accurate and insightful some of these actually are. Too few of these unfortunately, but quality over quantity I suppose.
How do you even get into a friendzone? Cause I don't have any friends.
Such a simple solution! I wish I'd thought of it! Oh, wait. I did. :'( *Continues petting dead cat*
You have no friends? Convince a girl to go out with you, let her push you around, do EVERYTHING that she suggest, fail to make romantic compliments or so anything that can create sexual tension. keep this up for at least 3 dates. You'll have a new friend soon...trust me.
I'm with ya man....
User5973 You're right. I used to do that when I was a kid and I had plenty of girl friends and no love interest.
Friends? Where can I download some of those?
"You want to call yourself Ace, but you won't, because that's awful"
"....Logan"
"So is Logan"
Yeah Fuck where my Logan's at?
You're all awful!
What're you try'na say, Bub?
Biggus Dickus that the name logan is fucking terrible which it is.
Ace and jocelyn ....
I know a Logan who thinks he soo cool lol
"I really value our friendship" is exactly what I said... after being friendzoned. I just don't see why some people get so upset about it, maybe it's because I'm fine with being single, but I value friendship, even the ones I have with people I'm attracted to and have romantic feelings for. If they don't like me back I get it, and at least the situation is clear, I don't have false hope anymore and our friendship is even more honest than before.
there's no way I'd be fine knowing the woman I'm infatuated with is getting fucked by other men. That shit is depressing
@@tomgibson2049 fr
The problem is that it gets awkward, you stop seeing each other during hangouts, and then you stop seeing each other at all
@@tomgibson2049 you're acting like someone stole from u or something. people are autonomous; if you can't handle that, you need some introspection
@@venipunkture how do you have an issue with me not wanting to be friends with my crush knowing she'll never feel the same way. It's literally my preference
Girl: “We can still be friends, right?”
Me: “Friends? I have a friend?”
it's not the friendzone, it's the oh god not this guy again zone.
Shining Cat my worst nightmare
Obviously you're entitled and self centered.
Dickin a case?
Shining Cat it is also the "I will keep you around for your resources zone, don't expect any returned favors though"
i think if the girl told the guy exactly what she thought, like saying "sorry not interested" instead of "i value our friendship too much", these situations would likely be avoided
As a girl, I can confirm that doing nothing really is the Best way to go on...
True
What's the success rate for faking your own death?
+Huy Bii around 110%, always works.
Hell, it worked for me LOL. Another thing important is changing how she previously perceived the guy
totally agree. cant believe he got out of the friend zone..
This series always had that heartwarming happy ending, whoever narrated this was amazing like wtf. I love this series so much.
Right? Always ends on beautiful notes
As an experienced person, i can confirm that doing nothing and acting as friends is the best way
you could said being friends, now it just sounds like you're faking it
Best way to deal with the friendzone: acknowledge you're in it, accept it, embrace it, and just maybe you'll naturally find your way out of it.
iris starr Most mammals in nature rape. I'd say that's pretty natural.
I was friendzoned for 3yrs, now we are 11yrs together, getting married next month.
I have a dear friend that had a crush on me, said I didn't see him that way, we saw a bit less of each other for a while but he came around and I think we've been best friends since 8 yrs or so.I think here the main difference is a)how mature are the people involved mentally and b) how strong is the friendship before feelings kick in (in my case with my best friend we have an increddible mental connection being both INTP that i have with no one else, but that alone was not enough for me to want a relationship;BUT it was/is worth the hardship from his side to get over his feelings, and the pushing away awkwardness in the beginning from my end because some people are too important not to have in your life)
Better yet, stop hanging out with her and move on. Yes, she isn't obligated to reciprocate your feelings, however, you are also not obligated to be her buddy either. And, if there even is a chance of getting out of the friend zone, you have a better bet while you aren't hanging out. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
iris starr I think it depends on the people involved. If it's too painful to be around that person, or if you really aren't interested in just being friend with them, you shouldn't keep seeing them. But if they're already an important friend who you don't want to let go, you should hang onto them, not so they'll like you back (which may never happen) but just because you don't want to lose them.
Pretty sure that was what the last one was.
"All it took was hard work, dedication, and yeah that's not going to happen"
He knows whats up
“The one thing that works is doing nothing at all.”
My current boyfriend did this and it worked like a charm.
Just be yourself, don't try too hard, and be genuine. Making a girl laugh with a little joke or something wholesome and goofy also won't hurt. We aren't that complicated 😂
hahaha ymmv though. Sometimes a friendzone is a soft rejection move, meaning she isn't interested enough for you to be romantically involved with yo.
Or so you think
How many friend zoned guys does it take to screw in a lightbulb? None, they'll just compliment it and then complain when it doesn't screw.
genius
How many girls that friend zone guys does it take to screw in a light bulb? probably only one but they still have no souls
Lol
Currently hiring Russian in suit.
Apparently, in his country, the tube watches you....
I'm up for hire.
Лол, не ожидал русского
The friend zone is a maximum security prison that few can escape.
these videos have actually been super beneficial for me in my love life. i always try to give it my all so that, even if it doesn’t work out, i can still walk away happy, knowing that i did all i could, rather than constantly second guessing and wishing i had done more
The worst is when after a long relationship with a person and they lose feelings for you and would rather be friends.
It's one thing when you're friendzoned before you started.
It's another when you have a deep love for someone and they just... stop.
I have been in the FRIEND ZONE in one of the worst ways, but, WOAH. I have never had that happen!
That exact thing happened to me,and now i have to take anti-depressants...
Matthew Santiago I know that pain. I just started mine today.
i'd hate to say something that would make you more upset..but you honestly shouldn't date if you aren't prepared to get crushed...i learned that the hard way as well....sure, it'll take quite a bit of time to move on, but my suggestion is to just focus on friends and school/work..it's amazing how much just one friend can help you get through a really hard break up...and also, unless you have absolutely no other way of venting and calming your emotions, then i seriously suggest that you not take anti-depressants..my friend took anti-depressants and became to used so relying on them that he wasn't able to deal with even the simplest of issues without them....also, if it hurts too much to stay friends, then tell them that...but what i'm trying to say is just try to focus less on your break up and more on the little things in life that you would normally take for granted, and also rely on your friends for support in the moments when it becomes too much...but enough with my rant, i hope your depression doesn't last too long, because i know exactly what your pain feels like
DaBigMike27
For a while, I was prepared to get crushed. Until now, my relationships were short. With her, we were together for a really long time. We considered each other soulmates. We even lived together for a while. We were going to get engaged. I had never been as close to someone before as I was her.
I'm taking the antidepressants as directed by my doctor. Considering the mental health programs I'm involved in, I can't really afford not to.
And unfortunately, I can't really rely on my friends for undisclosed reasons, I'm out of school, and I'm presently too disabled for work. Again, don't really want to go into details.
I can't speak for Matthew's situation. It's up to him if he has something to say.
But anyway, thank you for your empathy. I know you mean well. But I can't use your advice at the moment.
The "Friendzone" is real VERY real, and the ONLY real way out of it is to cut and run. Trust me on this, been there so many times in college that its not even funny. I was a talented SOB in school in my field. Really Hot Girls wanted to be 'friends" because I was a "nice guy" and was always helpful and they wanted my help at project time but would keep me at an emotional arms length even if I wasn't really interested, but then expect me to stay up 3 nights in a row helping them finish their presentations or would use me a free therapist for working through their F'ed up relationship problems, (believe me when I say dealing with a couple of girls I seriously should have received a second major in psychoanalysis) After a while I got to the point where I was sick and tired of being taken advantage of so this is what I did. If they want to be friends then you have to ask yourself: How blue are your balls for her, and how much do you really "value" being friends -vs- dating (yes even guys value some girls more as friends and not so much as dating material). So when the ones I was truly interested in gave me the friends speech, my response was OK that's fine but I would also cut off all contact with them afterwords, when they pressed for me to help I would just say I'm already busy with my own project, or I'm already helping _____. If they got confrontational "Oh, this is because I just want to be friends isn't it, why can't you just be my friend but still help me pass my classes" (which is what it really boiled down to), I would simply say, look you want to be friends, I dont, I want more, I am sexually attracted to you and that IS NOT going to change, it will be a constant problem, period. I cannot simply turn off my hormones. If you dont have reciprocal feelings then this is the only solution because my position will NOT change. I cannot tell you how many of these "friends" TRUE nature revealed itself (anger at being denied free help mostly), but in the end it was a far better and less stressful place for me to be, so stay out of the Friendzone, its the Bermuda Triangle of relationships. Girls control sex, always have and always will. If your getting nowhere you probably never will because girls decide in a very very very short time who's in the "friend" box and who's in the "fuck" box. Just cut and run. Seriously.
Amen Brother! So true but not PC -Every girl/woman is trading something (your job is to discover her currency) for sex and even if you fancy the prettiest girl you know SOMEBODY SOMEWHERE is tired of her shit! Hedi Klum married a guy with acne scarred face,Pierce Brosnon (bond) married a 6 -go figure out what they want not what you THINK they want
Gospel right there.
I agree as well. However, men CAN control the sex aspect as well without it being all rape-y...
Just wondering but why does your comment say, "(edited)"? Did you cut out some stuff before this? Because I'm assuming the previous comment was like a first draft, or had a typo or 5.
UNSCAce yep, used the edit button for typo corrections.
3:20 wow, that hit kind of hard and deep. The beginning of the internet days seem so rich and full, new possibilities. Now it is depressing and seems like the world is dying...
The ending is just true. The only thing that might work, is if you just are yourself and maybe work on yourself. But if you do, do it for yourself. Don’t wait around for the other person to suddenly change their mind. Accept that they will never date you and if you can’t handle that, get out of there, at least for a while. Only if you’re truly fine with being just friends, you won’t just make yourself miserable.
In my case, for about a year we didn’t see each other much and I needed that. But after that time we actually became good friends again. And around three years after rejecting me, she suddenly made a move herself. I honestly didn’t expect it and that’s why it could happen.
The girlfriendzone. That stupid annoying shit when all the guy can do is see you as a potential partner, doesn't seem to take the hint, can't accept you don't feel the same and honestly thinks he still has a chance even when you're honest with him. And then when he doesn't' get what he wants, he guilts you. Bitching about nice guys finishing last. He cuts you off completely as if the friendship only meant something when he could get a relationship out of it.
+Counted Shadows Wait this... this is my current situation. WAIT A SECOND.
***** Guys do have feelings, but my comment wasn't about guys who are treated badly, but the guys that shit on the people they liked when their feelings aren't returned. What you're talking about now is not the same situation.
***** I don't need this to be explained to me, I've been the same situation on both sides. You know what? I stayed friends. The friendship meant more to me than my personal feelings. Yeah it hurt, but I chose to move on with my life instead of dwelling on something I'll never have. Easier said than done, but this whole "friendzone" bullshit is stupid as fuck and used as a way to make the other person feel guilty for NOT returning your feelings. Yes, it sucks ass but it's part of life. You just have to learn to live with it and leave yourself open to other opportunities. Whether or not the friendship is legit is another story. THAT's how life works.
***** I never stated that it did so please reread. I also never said I expected anyone to do anything. Reread. I think you need to reread and reread again and try not to take what I say so personally for yourself. I'm sure you've been in this situation and it sucks ass, but it does not mean it's the other person's fault. That's what my whole point was in my original post, that some people blame the other for not returning their feelings. And they get stuck in this cycle of feeling horrible they don't have who they want, and at the same time coming off as if it's the other persons "loss" for not feeling the same. That's what my whole point was. That the friendzone is absolute bullshit. Calm yourself.
+Counted Shadows Nevermind. We don't need women anymore.
Too much hassle and all it gets us is trouble, pain and heartbreak, because with women you can never do anything right.
And for what? Honestly? Some occasional pussy? Mèh.
I'm a happy, single MGTOW and only after i stopped chasing and impressing women and picked up martial arts, i found true happiness and gained some impressive life savings in the proces.
It's because of Hollywood propaganda movies men grew up to be feminized, pussy-whipped manginas who make you mix tapes, talk about their feelings and give two shits about your female orgasms.
Sometimes doing nothing does work because the girl is dealing with other things and either can't or isn't ready to be romantically involved, so she puts her romantic life on the backburner. When she's done with all of the other crap in her life, she's going to remember that you were there for her. I'm speaking from personal experience. However, it could also just be that she GENUINELY WANTS TO JUST BE FRIENDS, OH MY GODS.
Very much so. Too bad I have a boyfriend. Dang. Lol.
+Jason Meadows Probably for the best, yeah. XD
+Bard of the 90s am sorry to be the one to tell you this but your experience is really an exception
+Bard of the 90s When you're not trying so hard, that can actually work. People just need to relax! Also I'm agreeing with you.
The guy could move on since he spent so much time trying to make you happy and see this wasted time and then you get sad about this I don't know how and a new guy comes around and the cycle runs its course again so the guy will find a new and better girl eventually
I like how it ended on a good note, I didn't want just another joke.
Thank you college humor, that was wholesome
All of these old videos holds some truths about life. They’re really great
That ending was actually kind of helpful. I feel weird.
Out of this whole video, the last part is actually good advice
Still to this day I wonder what it was that he did in his friends room at age 14 😂😂😂
He came.
WAIT, is this Emily from GMM?
No even Bear Grylls can survive this extreme hostile zone.....
At least there's beer to drink, instead of your own piss.
HipHopOtaku Drinking your own piss is probably less torture than being in this very scary zone
"The one thing that works, is doing nothing at all."
SIGH. While it's true that being relaxed and uncreepy about your relationship is more likely to get someone to actually like you, there is no guaranteed way to get your crush to reciprocate. None. Accept it and grow as a human being.
Exactly
Cropcircledesigner life sucks that's what it means
exactly! all you need to do is just be yourself and don't push really hard and enjoy the moment!
What I love about College Humor is that its funny and just messing around until the end where it gives a really good message.
Ironically, acting like a TRUE friend often works. If you just love the person (guy or girl) and you're here for him, without second motives, chances are he or she are eventually gonna feel something for you.
Case in point: once I met a girl on the internet... and I was 100% sure that it was actually a guy pretending to be a girl. But anyway, it was a nice person and we became good friends, chatting over the internet and playing together. Long story short, she really was a girl (and a really cute girl to boot) and after we met in person... welll.... let's say it we've been a couple for 4 years.
ValeTheHowl that's really nice dude glad to hear it
shark daddy thank you! ^^
ValeTheHowl What happen to the girl or her
She's still my girlfriend and I try my best everyday to make her the happiest girl on the planet. ^^
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
So, this exact same situation happened to me, and things ended well for her.
...Not so much for me, though.
Theres a pretty simple solution. Dont be friends with someone you only desire a romantic relationship with. Dont pretend to care when you dont. If you like a girl, skip all the friend stuff, be confident, flirt, and ask her out. Its not very hard. But being friends with someone you want to date knowing full well you dont want to be their friend is just messed up
It's also a good way to torture yourself. Yeah if you truly can let it go and be friends then fine, who doesn't want more friends. But if you are being their friend hoping in time they are going to change their mind and feel the same, don't be taken in by the tales of when someone did that and it worked, those are the exception not the rule. And most of the times it worked is because the guy actually did get over it and didn't live for her to change her mind. It's tempting to want to be around someone you have feelings for even if they don't return them. But you can waste months... or even years of your life on that, and just end up torturing yourself for a long time until it eventually boils over and you stop being friends anyway. If you like someone and they don't feel the same... walk away. End the friendship if you have to, because you are both better off without that crap in your life.
DanTheMan Exactly. Sometimes just being a good and true friend is the first key to opening the gates of a romantic relationship.
What if you two were already friends and then developed attraction?
@@judgingyou3145 i started out like that and escaped. Though I did break up with her i think i can go on a limb and genetalize my tactic: just tell the other person the truth. "I dont think i can stay friends with you so go out on a date with me and see what its like." Most likely youll get a chance; if they say no to the date and friendzones you from the start just tell them alright please dont contact me. Just go your separate ways and you shouldnt contact them either. Its harder to escape the friendzone after youve been there a while than trying to break free as soon as you get in.
If the answer was yes and the date goes fine then congrats; if its still a no even after the date just move on and dont contact them. Its their loss.
Also the best timing is about 2-4 weeks after they break up from a relationship.
I think they started as friends but he developed feelings for her
It's 2021 and seven years later this still rocks
That was surprisingly super cute in the end with the best advice
I beat the friend zone guys!
It's called moving on.
Se7en nice five finger death punch icon
I actually got out of the freindzone with that last method
I Don't Fucking Believe You
thαt íѕ ѕuch crєαtívє nαmє I'd believe it, there was this one girl I knew who I considered a bro, NEVER tried to flirt with her, or anything the sort, eventually find out she had a huge crush on me. Honestly yeah, girl's really seem to like it when you don't try.
+trolldragon98 Sooo... you weren't in the friendzone, she was.
+twoflouers Yup, she sure was, but my point is, girls really do like it when you don't try.
Elijah Mcdaniels because laziness always works
Best advice video EVER, it really does work
The end of this video had really good advice so thank you for that
Even staying in the friendzone is hard when you tell her new boyfriend you will murder him and dump his body in the Everglades if you see him again. It's not like they would catch me or anything. No body, no crime.
Hey FBI, it was jut a joke. I live on a different continent the furthest away from the Everglades.
And no, there are no swamps here, honest. Trust me, you don't need to look into it or anything.
Wlarius So hypothetically though would you dig a hole or dump it in water? ya know hypothetically.
@@bindair_dundat FBI doesn't operate outside the US. It's the CIA you want to watch out for ;)
Best advice guys... if you've been friends zoned... let it go... You can not convince someone to change how they feel. If it happens, it happens... but like the video showed... trying too hard or being too presumptuous is disastrous.
Aww man!
This guy is still the best. Truly a
college humor Legend
What an awesome video. Sad I came across it so late but glad to have found it.
Doing nothing at all didn't work too well for me back then ...
you're confusing it with trying hard or you actually did do nothing lol
theres 2 reasons why your being friend zoned 1. shes doesnt want to be with you just yet 2. she doesnt want to be with you.
Asap Gamer l Anti-Bandit Maybe he got friend zoned because his name is "Rog the Pirate" haha
mikaere mccarthy and 3 what he ^^^^ said
RogThePirate Pillage and burn? You're confusing Pirate with Viking. I mean I know they both liked boats, beards, booze and rape. But they shouldn't be confused. Besides pirates believed bringing a woman on a boat was terribly bad luck. So they did what the Scottish do. Brought a sheep for the voyage. Also doing nothing only works if you actually stop caring. They have a weird six sense and can tell when you "I don't care cause I think you want me to not care" and when it's "Well I can't have you so I don't care I'll just keep my eye out for someone new."
To get out of the black hole known as the Friend Zone, you will need:
Ninjas
Lasers
Sharks
Laser Sharks
Robot Dinosaurs
Books
Research
The Internet
and a LOT of will power and determination.
Also, you will need Bruce Willis, Steve Bushemi, and Aerosmith.
Don't forget about Kirvo. From Red alert .
don't ferget!!!!! Chick flicks you feel like you HAVE to pretend to not like that you pretend to pretend you like! or not, if you really don't like them...... XDD but no, you need nothing but yourself ^-^
Where am I gonna get those at this hour?
MrIronWar
well, search your mom's house XDD but you really just need nothing but yourself :P
I LOVE this series, why don't you guys make more of these?
You are a legendary person dude!
From my experience in high school with girls
If your hot, there a little interested.
If your nice, they stay interested.
And then when you ask them out they have a chance of saying yes.
If your not hot, there not interested
If your nice, your friend zoned
If your not nice, your screwed
And when you ask them out they will say no.
And if your friend zoned, attempt to exercise to look nice, handsome, and maybe, just maybe they will be interested. Of course i doubt thats ever happening but it could.
But anyways if you do get friend zoned, stay friends cause your probably not getting out of it and if you ask her out its going to ruin your friendship forever. Find another girl and ik this might hurt but........just get over it.
working on your grammar could help..?
i suck at english only thing i failed in middle school. Too many things to remember.
i see. i was just pointing out that most girls like intelligence.. :p
lol yeah some do. I also found they don't like it when you know everything and are good at everything it makes them feel less confident and inferior. Of course they don't like idiots who don't know anything either.
You're = You are
Please, help me spread this mysteriously unknown information throughout the internet.
Every time you replace it for 'your' a kitten dies somewhere.
At least add a space in there so it's 'you r'. The world is running out of kittens.
that "hire a russian to ask questions about you" is a really good idea!
I actually love when these end in a positive way
the ending was really so sweet!
You know, I made the best move getting out of the friendzone. I kept saving myself for her, always being there for her - I was the best brother any girl could ask for. She fucking loved me for it. But date me? Nah, she kept going after jerks who dumped her. And she'd cry over and over again about it to me, and I kept telling her "you know, sometimes what you want isn't very far away" but she just didn't get the hint.
So I told her. I'm like "look, do you like me? Because I like you and I'm sick of being friends" but noooooo I'm too much like a brother to her.
nek minit, tell her to fuck off, and get my own damn girlfriend who appreciates me. Hell yeah, best move I ever made. Been over 2 years now with my girl, and I'm so glad that "sister" taught me the lesson to never let anyone walk all over me. I'm my own man now, no one fucks with me, and I love it.
Laika Lamarr I'm sorry, I think you misjudged me. I have been friends with her for many years, and we have both had partners in that time. I just brought my feelings out in the open, hoping she would welcome to relief to actually let her feelings out too. She didn't feel the same way I did.
You have no idea how she treated my girlfriend before I ended my friendship with her. She insulted her, didn't support me, even tried to take me away from her. She had no respect for my girlfriend and I lost her respect with her. I gave her an ultimatum, to be with me once and for all, or to let me be with my girlfriend, because it was torture to try and stay friends with her while still trying to move on with my life. She chose to keep being a bitch, so I told her to fuck off and let me live. I couldn't go another day thinking she liked me when deep down I liked her, yet trying to be happy with my current girlfriend at the same time. I needed everything to come clean, and she refused to back down.
She was never my property. She dated guys who hurt her repeatedly. She called them jerks, not me. She cried about them, and I gave her advice to make things work for her, and yet they didn't treat her well and she had to break up with them (or they dumped her).
Please don't judge me and insult me further. Your opinion is not welcome anymore. You don't know the full story, and you STILL don't know the full story because I don't have the composure to discuss it further.
PS: Please take note that I have not retaliated towards your insults, because they do hurt, and they are completely unfounded and uncalled for. Sure, I'm just a person on the internet with no face, no personality, no feelings, no soul, but I would like you to find the respect and humanity inside you to speak to me like a human being. I am doing you the same honor, I would appreciate it in return. If you are unable, please refrain from commenting further. Your insults are not welcome.
Laika Lamarr What's weirder is me getting put in the friend zone after _she_ gets in my pants. Such an odd topic to bring up while showering.
***** This is relevant.
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That's spot on, seg162 !
***** Sounds about right.
When I get put in the friend zone, I stop talking to the woman. I realize that she isn't obligated to reciprocate my feelings for her, however, the friendship really doesn't work. Why? While you, the guy in the friend zone, are hanging out with her you're really going to spending the entire time fantasizing about her suddenly loving you back. This makes hanging out really awkward for you. Therefore, the best thing to do is stop talking to the woman. Don't return her calls, don't text her back, don't go hangout. Instead, focus on moving on. Hey, perhaps she'll grow interested in you in the time you are apart. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder. However, if she isn't interested, you can move on anyway.
locutus94 I agree, If you couldn't get out of the "Friendzone" by asking her out, then just drift away. But have the balls to say that you are taking a break, don't just block the person completely from your life, be a man about it.
Netanel That seems fair enough.
locutus94 You talk about this as if it's a frequent occurance :)
SkuLLetjaH It happens to me every now and again.
***** Worked with me. Lol but she asked for me back and said she was originally scared to lose the friendship we had. I declined the offer and she harassed me for months. Finally got her to leave me alone after blocking her number lol
These old "6 ways" are so heartwhelming, i fricking love it
I watched this when I was a teen. Thought it was funny. Now i'm watching it as an adult... MIND- BLOWN
Man, it's nice to hear once, ONCE that friend-zone isn't a bad thing...
And before someone's gonna say "words from a guy who got friend-zoned" joke's on you, I never had a girl to begin with.
...
*[bursts into tears]*
Sorry to break your dream, they don't say that friend zone isn't a bad thing. They're saying that you can get out off it by not doing anything which is totally different :P
Jajweeable
which does basically say the friendzone isn't a bad thing though doesn't it? 'cause like, if a girl knows you, anbd who you are, and then you get friendzoned, but then you get out of it by doing nothing..... she'll like you TONS more, trust me dude, words from a girl
sadly no, friendzone is still a bad thing according to this, but you don't have to put any effort in it to get out, what happens after that is entirely unrelated to the friendzone
...... you're words are mind blowing.... and logical... and a bit depressing, but laugh inducing at the same time....... MIND BLOWING
Welcome to my world, a mind blowing, logical, slightly depressing and laugh inducing reality where i live, also, sources; life experience
Ever been friendzoned when you know she has the physical attraction? I have. Its much better when a girl just says "hey i don't like you" as opposed to "hey I like you but can't be with you..... ever"
How can you know she has the physical attraction? If she's attracted to you but doesn't want a relationship wouldn't you just be friends with benefits?
just sayin'...
Karrie Dreammind Because we almost had sex. I am certain a girl wouldn't let that happen if she considered the guy ugly. Also other factors come into play... thats how
*****
Ok, fair enough. So the friends with benefits thing is not an option for you?
***** Pretty much
Karrie Dreammind Nope and I fucked it up by asking her to.... she didn't like that too much lol
This had a surprisingly wholesome end. I didn’t expect that.
Honestly its so true though. I've realized that when I stop trying so hard things were more natural and so much easier/better
I wonder if the person who came up with the whole friendzone thing ever realized that no one has the ability to control whom they're attracted to?
It isn't about controlling it. I'm a guy, and I've put females in the friend zone. They're attracted to me and I'm not attracted to them means friend zone. They're in the zone that holds all my friends that are attracted to me with non-mutual feelings.
Just like a f*** buddy would not be in my friend zone, nor in the "dating pool." Someone in the "dating pool" may not be a friend of mine, and they may not have slept with me.
Make sense? Friend zone is a means of saying that "one of the two like the other, and the other does not like them back." Just like "dating pool" means potential dates, but not someone that is currently being dated.
It's not an obligation to like someone, but it doesn't mean the friend zone doesn't exist. It most certainly exists, and it most certainly disproves the old belief that women "just want a nice guy." We know that is false because the friend zone exists! Women want an attractive guy, which includes physically, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, financially, and character. Just like the friend zone proves that not all guys will have sex with just anyone, and that they also want a woman with a certain degree of personal qualifications as listed above.
Wasn't it from Friends?
MadameTamma Uhhh I do.
I actually put three different girls in the friendzone way back when. One of them never left and unfortunately I had to hurt her feelings to get the point across, second one I actually ended up dating a couple years later and we're still friends today, last one I actually ended up banging, lol
Don't talk to her for a couple of days come back with a wheelchair, thats how I did it
ha ha, thats what I'm talking about, going the distance.
hhahahahhaha
That is what friends and a sledgehammer are for.
are you the guy in your profile pic?
I like your name.
i really want this series back.
These og college humor vids are priceless
I was laughing up until the end. The end sends a bad message. She isn't telling you that she wants friendship because she isn't sure about whether she likes you or not. You aren't going to change her mind by being a 'good friend' like the video suggests. You either accept that she wants to be friends and hold no ulterior motives or you bounce. You don't hang around hoping that your friendship turns into something more. If you're only friends with her because you're hoping for more, then you aren't really her friend -- you are one of those douchebag guys you love to complain about. A woman knows whether she likes a man or not. If she says she wants to be friends, chances are she DOES just want to be friends. And she doesn't owe you a romantic relationship just because you're a 'nice guy.'
Your problem attracting women can't have anything to do with your vulgarity, misogyny and obvious anger/entitlement issues. It must be the women that are the problem... Stay single, dude.
*****... Wait! How did I miss it? You actually assumed that I am a guy?! LOL! You really are a moron! NOTHING in my comment indicates that I'm a man. Stop, dude. Just stop. You're embarrassing yourself. And by the way, just as empty tins make the most noise, guys who don't get laid talk about getting laid the most. Rattle on, empty tin, rattle on. But I sure as hell won't be listening.
***** *Rattle rattle rattle rattle*
Wait! OMG! And you're assuming that I'm black! This just keeps getting better and better! I can't ignore you because your stupidity is just too entertaining! Hahahahaa!
P.S. Nice avatar, stud.
(a) LOL! If I were using that in the way YOU are thinking, it would be spelled "smarty" and not "smartie." Look up what a SMARTIE is and then you will see who the dumb fuck truly is. Black isn't just a reference to black people. It is also a colour, a mood, etc. Get an education.
(b) Your comments are being reported because they are offensive. Hairless Cat is correct if you truly think that what you said is okay. You are a hillbilly -- and maybe even one with some mental issues too.
(c) Considering the fact that I am a woman, calling me a pussy is hardly an insult, now is it? Wow. You are truly terrible at this. But it's fun watching you make a fool of yourself nonetheless. And aren't you supposed to be getting it all the time? Why is it a bad thing? I am sensing some repressed homosexual panic...
Kawaii as Fuck Translation: WAAAAAHHH! That girl isn't getting upset by my childish comments! And she's reporting me so that I'll actually be held accountable for what I say as an adult! I'm gonna block her because I'm not as intelligent or eloquent as she is! No fair!
I guess we both know who the real 'pussy' is. And it isn't the gal with a real one. Good riddance to bad rubbish. :)
"WHAT IS HER FAVOURITE FRUIT?!" I'm dying.
Man College Humour has really changed these past years. Something like this would never fly on their channel, now!
This is actually good advice . Im impressed
Let me make this simple. If she isn't interested in you end of story. Credits roll. GAME OVER
Majority of girls don't want a douche bag. Its just that you either see him as a douche bag because you can't deal with the fact that she has a preference that you don't fall under. Sure there are girls that do but most women want somebody who treats them well. Also if you are being nice to somebody just to get in their pants you are not a nice guy, you are a deceiver and a liar. That's all there is to it. People aren't vending machines where if you insert enough kindness love or sex pops out. You can go to the moon and back for him/her and he/she could STILL not be interested in you. You know why? because they are PEOPLE with REAL emotions. Sure gratitude will probably exist but gratitude doesn't equal desire.
In short he/she doesn't owe you anything and I'm sorry if that persons friendship is a crappy consolation prize... At least that's what I would say if I were actually sorry.
What if you are generally a nice person? What then?
Well then you're not a deceiver It's just when you do stuff like that with the motive of getting something you want out of them that you become one.
Izaya Orihara I don't do that. I genuinely want to be nice people. Even the people I hate... at times. These girls fail to see that. Even when they...friendzone me, I'm still nice. I don't know... I just don't know.
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There's no way to put it gently, girls will only "friendzone" somebody if they either 1- are not looking for a relationship at that given point and time or 2- are simply not interested in dating you. It's not your fault or theirs it's just how it is.
Izaya Orihara Yeah, I've come to realise that. It just sucks when you keep striking out. I'm not forcing it anymore but it just keeps happening. Must be the broken mirror I stepped on. Who knew?
Vampire Spy Wolverine.
Classic
One thing that actually worked for me was trying a bit, like be smooth about it, small things. Find something she finds attractive, something easy. My now girlfriend and a couple of my other girl friends really like cologne so when we got together with a couple of my my other friends and her I put some on. I also got into photography so I took some pics of her at the same gathering and she really liked them. The next day she asked me to come over for another "photoshoot" and that's when she made the move.
That ending.. it was so relieving.. :3 I’m happy now
1:25 'You'll hire a Russian in a suit to ask questions about you' xD
I identify as a Harry Potter book, and this has offended me.
I agree
I identify as a proper speller and your comment offends me.
oh look 9gagers +gaaraxnaru
I will now do the right thing
ANIME WORLD What the hell is a 9gagger?
That’s the kind of relationship I want, someone who I feel comfortable being myself around
I like how these things actually help
The only thing you should do when being friendzoned is to go away and NOT hang around with her for her entertainment or doing favors for her.
She friendzoned you, because you was not good enough but she still want you around, since you are useful idiot anyway.
You say that but It's wrong, by this definition I was "friendzoned" twice. Both times I eventually told the girl I liked her more than just a friend. Both said they liked me as well.
RoyalGaming
Good on you haha
RoyalGaming
Dude, you weren't in the "friendzone" yet. You're in it AFTER you tell them you like them. I went into it once, I made the mistake of hanging around. Just when you think she was about to cave in, just when you've surmounted a bar she has set, just when you think she's warmed up to you, she'll find some other reason, or interest, or ruthlessly tell you that she's seeing another guy.
If she's 'not really into you', just walk away, before you get into the creepy mode.
logon235 The thing is, that's not the friendzone, the friendzone is when you're told that you're their "best friend" which happened both times.
RoyalGaming
Okay, so they told you they like you more than just a friend. And then? That's it? No intimate moments? That's fine, at least for them.
I don't know if you like this but some guys want a girl they can have some feelings for. A girl for doing things they can't do with their buddies. Touching, affinity, some tending loving care, maybe some sex. All those things that a human being needs in a relationship.
I hope that both girls are as entertaining as your buddies are and that you enjoy their company, their serenity and all the things they like to do. If this is all you ever wanted from them you were not friendzoned. They just happened to be your buddies.
"I like you more than just a friend" are empty words if there is no action behind them.
"Yeah.... sorry... Just friends isn't gonna work. I just can't see you that way." and walk away. If she cares, she will come to you.
Being honest is always the best policy. However, caring about somebody doesn't mean you'll necessarily have sex with them or be their romantic partner. If she truly cares, she will tell you how she feels - and if she's not interested, that's just the way it is. You can't create attraction to a friend just because they like you.
Exactly. It all depends on you. If you are honestly happy with her as just a friend (and don't mind seeing her with a boyfriend eventually) then just be her friend. At least you're talking to her and maybe someday...
But if you only want her in a relationship (sexual or not) and just being friends won't do, then be honest. Ask her out, if she's not interested and doesn't see you 'that way' tell you also don't see her 'as a friend' and just keep on steppin'. There are other girls out there, and honestly if she's just not interested and you don't want another friend, then she's not worth wasting time over.
Most people are also stuck in the friend zone cause no other girl talks to them so they crush on that one girl that actually does. Star talking to other girls. Get yourself out there.
I dunno, man, if she really cares then she wouldn't have said she just wanted to be friends, so she's not gonna come to you and change her mind. I have plenty of female friends who I'm nothing more than comrades with. In my eyes, friendship is a closer, stronger, and better relation than any sort of lover.
All of these have a heartwarming ending
The end of these videos hit so damn hard
I wonder where people got the notion that the concept of the "friend zone" was about the girl NEEDING to reciprocate the guy's feelings? It's just a "try" effort and a "fail" response. They guy tried to make a romantic connection, he failed to achieve it (or was denied it if you wanna put some agency on the woman). That's it.
+SkaiCyan Depends. The same guy can achieve a romance with a girl who was previously only interested in him as a friend. It all depends. Naturally something has to change / be different about the two "versions" of the same guy.
Baleur While true, that doesn't actually have anything to do with my comment.
+SkaiCyan it actually makes a ton of sense.. your just asexual or havent graduated high school thats why you dont understand +Baleur . nice guys exist. women dont validate them when they are right infront of their faces. Chicks want to be in a relationship with a guy "like you". ( a guy with all the qualities you want, cept there's no mystery of getting to know you)
Haris Bokhari ...Ok so first, I never said I didn't understand or that it didn't make sense, I said it didn't have anything to do with my comment. Second, I'm heterosexual. Third, I'm 26 years old. Don't make assumptions about me please.
+Haris Bokhari You're just being overly insulting. The thing about "like you" is usually just "You're not hot enough". Looking back at your comment, it sure reflects yourself.
What did he do when he was 14...?
Ur mum
+Fairy Tail how original and clever
+Fairy Tail top bants mate
Well you see, what he did was *Gets Tackled*
Its been 2 years and he still hasn't gotten an answer
I've never tried anything. Have not had sucess yet but I will never make a move on a friend I value!
Friend of me once rejected me. We're still close friends no point breaking of a friendship with a really likeable person. I've gotten into a better shape, changed some of my habits and moved on. I've had some great moments of friendship with them and it's just been fun. I'm not that invested in anyone at the moment, but I've gained a great friend, lost some stress and didn't lose a thing myself except for the illusion of a possible future relationship and even then, I don't know what the future brings.
The only way out of there is to never talk to her again imo
That's the more realistic way imo
Simon K. Honestly, if you have no interest in someone as a person unless there's a chance of the two of you boning, you're probably not a great friend to begin with.
+Dropthefishtank Think about it trying to get her out of the friend zone is done because you like her. You never tried to be friends when in the friendzone and then keeping her as a friend is the most painful torture you could do to yourself. Lay down the feminism goggles please.
Dropthefishtank
What an out-of-touch thing to say. What if you're interested in her as a person as well as wanting physical affection? If you try to show, it gets awkward for her. If you keep it to yourself, it gets awkward for you.
You can't just switch off the fallen-in-love part of your platonic relationship. Just because you decide against seeing her anymore doesn't mean you have no interest in her as a person. It just means you take the lesser of two evils and try to move on.
El Ciervo but you're not...hence the friendzone.
Tired of people saying there's no friendzone.
Just because it never happened to you doesn't mean it never happened to anyone else.
damn right!
Alex Jimenez sorry i don' fully understand what you mean? lol
ah right fair enough, cheers
happened to me too..but i just walked out and never looked back, thats all you can do, accept whats not meant for you, and just move on, rather than suffering over it :)
I love how they always manage to have a bright ending
Man this resonates with me and I love the ending.
I had a friend who liked me but I had zero idea. They confessed but I didn't like them back so I told them. The next day that person stopped being my close friend. It sucked
Then they weren't your friend from the start, they just found you as a +1, instead of an actual person.
Lol friendzone doesnt exist. Just a combination of men with entitlement issues and women who are too afraid to tell them truth when they reject them.
The friendzone does exist but not in the way that most guys make it out to be. The real friendzone is when the guy or girl is actually thinking about a relationship but decides not to risk ruining things. The fake friendzone is a bunch of guys/girls thinking that a girl not being interested in you is the friendzone
blboy129
Chris Smith
you're both right! Merry Christmas everybody!
***** I recently watched a video by karen straughan, and i retract my statement. I think it was this one. /watch?v=a9XDb0nxSO4
Did you learn that from tumblr? Actually rather than learn I should say brainwashed.
man these videos always make shure that its not always a bad endong
As funny as it is, the end of this video is actually very touching.