Full Episode: Ramsey vs Chandler
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- Adrianna wants to get married, but says all Antonio does is work and they have no sex life. Antonio says Adrianna needs to get her temper in check and marriage isn’t a priority right now. Plus, all they do is argue. Can Judge Lynn Toler help this couple communicate in and out of the bedroom?
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Her: "Your either going to marry me or I'm gonna leave..."👿
Him: " Do what you gotta do..." 😭😂😭😂😭
Code Of Ash 😂😂😂😂
I agree with him.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Lmfaooo he was cold for that...😂😂😂
Code Of Ash This nigga is something else 👀
Don’t ever beg a man to love you.
I wish I could give you two thumbs up for that comment!
YEAH girl friend dont beg a man to love you 🌻🌷
He just dont love you 🤔🤔
He will find the woman he love and marry her in six months time . As some one else said ..
Im just saying 🚴♀️
No, she's begging for a ring.
Everrrrrrr
@@saoricuzu5571 right it’s not the same thing.
I like him, he not selling her no pipe dream. He's not ready "Do what you gotta do" 😂😂😂😂
luvmifro1003 I don't understand some women you got a dude that has a job plus two more and he still ain't shit I don't get then you have dudes that don't work or do anything but leech off women whether it but they moms and girlfriend get the most respect I mean what do you want
Stephen Smith facts
I love that "Do what you gotta do" statement
@@stephensmith5724 The problem is he's investing so much into jobs without investing in the relationship. She wants a man who can be balanced. That's valid.
@@stephensmith5724 because they can control that boy is why.
She is a placeholder. Once he gets his money up, he's going to get the woman that he really wants and he'll probably marry her in 6 months lol
Arsinoe Benyamin yep
Arsinoe Benyamin yes indeed
Facts...indeed...
Christine A I disagree some what, because she has an opportunity to change her behavior and he is just not ready.
At least your honest and stating the facts
Wow! Okay, this man literally said in the first 5 seconds that he doesn't want to get married. To the woman: You can't make a man want to get married. It's pointless and a waste of time.
Marriage is not what they need. If she forces this marriage she'll be the one suffering.
No. More than likely he will especially if they have children and get divorced.
Malaan 7 agreed
"Antonio I need you to stop milking this cow for free". You're letting him sweetie. You're letting him milk the cow for free.🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Esther Jean no this young man got a gold in mind and don’t mind working that sign of a good husband
Esther Jean I agree! She's already doing the wifely duties. He has no reason to marry her at this point and obviously has no intentions to any time soon. I can't blame him.
Jessie Norvell Exactly. Living with someone to me before marriage is a bad idea. Wide duties are supposed to be saved for your husband not your boyfriend. You’re supposed to be doing those things when you’re married you can’t just be giving anybody those privileges before they put a ring on it. Cuz why would they put a ring on it if you’re already doing it
Folks gonna get enough of playing house together... Then wanna cry when the chickens come home to roost.
Not quite sure I follow the logic. Is he doing the husband duties by working the way he is? She's getting just as much out of him as he is out of her so I guess she's milking a cow as well.
I totally agree though, women shouldn't move in with guys before marriage and guys shouldn't allow them to. Unfortunately both sides want to trap/pressure the other into what they want all too often, she's only upset because her strategy failed.
She’s covering her insecurities and sadness with laughter, I hope she grows in herself
And also her embarrassment to be so ridiculous!
Never marry broke, get your finances together, WORD
worrdddd
Latty Brown very true statement. Put the horse before cart and not the cart before the horse. Hussle now and get make the money now. She gonna become a "bag" if he gives her a ring!
I think it's fine to marry broke b/c if you weren't born with money then there will always be something else you need to get b4 you get married. Marry broke but understand thoroughly your brokenness: We don't have much but we will make it if we're willing to work together.
But shes not wrong in that, after 3 years you should know if you want to marry. I may be old fashioned but dont torture the girl. If your not going to do it then let her go so she can find someone else. Time is one thing you can never get back.
@@mraims2plez maybe maybe not..allot children who born into broke marriage and parents not secure their future becomes bitter. That marrying into broke is a no no. You can be broke alone. Look for better so once you have children you secure their future
Hey at least the man is honest lol 😂
Sade_Ashley yes
@@jabirbrown9953 ...and this is the reason why black men don't want to get married. Let the man get stack his money...she's too much of an uphill battle!!
@@totalmrmeanor7586 And why Black men can't do this while married like I've seen the men in my family do is beyond me.
@@AH2HYPE Different times. Why are some so desperate to married a man and hold him down and if it doesn't work out still bad mouth the man. That's a good thing hes not leading her on. Let life take it course if they are meant it will happen IF not they'll know that too...let thr young man achieve what he needs to..marriage is major responsibilities he's not ready to take on and I doubt she is too.
It's refreshing to see young people with good jobs.
W Mavunga yup and no babies
Why is she giggling about everything? She seems immature to me.
Her laughing at everything is so annoying 🙄
semetra keys I thought i was d only one...stupse
Umm yeh, is it necessary to laugh at everything?
semetra keys that laughter alone would make me not want to marry her.. Super annoying.. And not to mention her voice ( sounds like a cat clawing on a brick wall)
I wanted the judge to address it....ughhhhh
I think the judge tried to sorta address in her response as to why his family doesn’t like her. But yeh she needed to be told directly to stop the foolish laughter
He's about making money and he has no kids...at his age that's a plus!! She needs to slow down they are not ready to get married and he really doesn't want to get married!
Chenoa Watts I agree
Yes she needs to viibe
Her: we gotta grow money wise and Couple-ly wise...
Me:. BAH HAHAHAHAHA. 😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️
Ryan Foster I missed that 😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao.... I heard it too. I was like... whaaaaattttt!!!
I had to put my hand on my forehead like I know this heffa did not say couply wise!! Smh the stupidity!!!
Marsha Flowers right!?
Ryan Foster that alone is why she not ready to get married 😂😂
Honestly, I don't think this is a good match anyway so idk why she's so pressed to marry him. She's trying to force a triangle in the circle slot. She seems like a good girl and he seems like a good guy but together it just doesn't work. Her love language is quality time and he's career focused right now (as he should be). She should find a guy who can love her the way she needs to be loved. Not try to change a man into what she needs. He would benefit from a partner who's a motivator and supportive. A woman who can encourage him to meet and exceed his goals. She's not that woman. Nothing wrong with either of them. They just aren't meant for each other in my opinion so don't force it.
Jessie Norvell 💯💯💯💯
Jessie Norvell 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
I agree, though some people like him who are TOO focused on the chase lose something good while chasing it. I think she just wants a commitment even if its just an engagement, that doesnt mean it cant be a long engagement. But a lot of focused people can be married and chase the dream together as a team and build an empire TOGETHER but he don't want it so why force him? His mindset is a little off bc you can make some time for each other and still be on your grind. If you don't then you do lose connection and interesting with that person. She has a good job and wants one thing and hes got a good job wanting something else... this is more then case of growing up and moving in different directions. I hope they can find a middle ground and not focus so much on the chase and do it together...maybe idk lol
Kimberly Lozano I see what you're saying. He can grind and still find time for her. I agree. If she was that supportive, motivating woman maybe he would want to grind with her but she doesn't seem to give him the support he needs so he moves along without her. That's why I said they weren't a good fit... in my opinion.
She is pressed to get married because nobody else wants her
I whole heartedly agree with this young man and I am so darn HAPPY that he is not allowing her to force him into a marriage that they are NOT ready for...
he look like darryl from the office
Rachel Montana yep🤣
I love The Office
IM SO GLAD OTHER PEOPLE THOUGHT THIS TOO HE REALLY DOES. he even sounds like him quite a bit
It's a good thing to see young people with jobs and I'm glad they have no kids
Esther Jean 😳😳 did you run out of negative shit to say today?
Jay King I don’t understand why you always under my comments. You be so pressed
@@estherjean183 🤣
You can say that again. Too many have kids..and don't know who the dude is...no job
No education. Some no where to live. It's just refreshing to see young people hustling and getting their education and money and then making wise decisions with someone who want same things. Grounded
They both chubby and cute ... remind me of two chocolate Easter eggs.
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BeardGBrotha That comment was adorable! 😄
You can tell she's thirsty for that ring. How'd that Ultimatum taste? 😂
So if a man come on the show and say she provoked my anger so I hit her because I didn’t know where she was and I was lied to. Should there be looked over with that much laughter 🤔🤔🤔. I don’t like that. The double standard of when women abuse men vs men abusing women. SMH
She getting on my nerves with all that giggling and laughing
Yesssss. Very annoying. Like a friend of mine,giggles incessantly and says hashtag when she's talking. Nice woman but that damn giggling.
Yes!
Right
That’s a disguise of her embarrassment of her situation. Don’t ever dream of marrying a man who don’t want to marry you in his dreams. He should let her grow to grow and she should let be let go to grow.
THIS.
she laughs a lot even when nothing is funny
Anita Zulu that's what retarded people do....
lol it all makes sense now lol
That stupid laughter is sooo annoying
@@natachadieudonne6101 she's probably nervous, idiot.
Yea I’m not even the type to get annoyed by that but girl look around ain’t nobody else laughing…
Why the hell is everyone in a rush to get married?
Cherokee Rose Rioux Mostly women. They look at the ring as validation in society and increase of self worth. Along with the title of wife.
Mr. Foxx Honestly. But I feel like there’s a timeline honestly cuz I think after 4-5 years it a guy doesn’t marry you then he’s probably not going to. You should know by that time if you want to marry someone.
Cherokee Rose Rioux at 23 I wonder if it's an issue with being out the nest. from home to college then graduate some ppl probably become afraid to get into life with a "consultant"/parent. It's interesting to me to see so many young ppl feel the need for that security.
Cherokee Rose Rioux
Some do know nothing about it other then what they seen on tv and letting the expectations of others. Not to mention for some women it is a sense of accomplishment 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
byron martin there you go. And it don’t matter how the marriage is in the eyes of others. It is more so looking for approval from OTHER WOMEN. As this being an achievable accomplishment of self worth in the eyes of other women.
Girl... stop and examine yourself.. there are reasons he will not marry you.. you are desperate and childish!!!
Who buys their own engagement ring??? you should be embarrassed.!!
Yup! She thinks being married is the highest accomplishment. She doesn't seem to have any other goals that's why she's so desperate. Judge hit it on the head "expand into a life of your own".
Adrianna needs to get more immersed in her own life and interests. She needs to get passionate and invested in something besides being a couple. She's giving him too space in her head.
He getting his money up to marry somebody else.
Judge: “do you clean and cook?”
Her: “ahhehehe”
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Does he?
He's not into her at all. When a man loves you, you don't even have to ask for a ring.
Don't be foolish, these days women only wanna get married for show. She's not logical at all
Get your money black man lol..
If you have to give someone ultimatum to marry you it not going to work
He works to get away from her period .
Responding to The Fat Jokes..
He Might b A Heavy Man, but at Least he's A Working Man!
#BMW
I'm a minute in, but he's 23 and alaready said he doesn't want to be married. Girl, go on somewhere. He don't want you. Be a better you.
Watching Divorce Court Like This He is not married to her because he is waiting for, in his opinion, a better and more suitable mate. To him, she is not good enough and she can’t see it....
Why you girls nowadays think that marriage is the best thing for a guy in his early 20's. Not everybody is fit to be married at an early age. Get overit
Nothing wrong with making money but if you’re in a relationship, you have to make some time for it. Otherwise stay single.
AJH 723 Exactly. I’m not saying leave everything to be with them but you need to make a little bit of time for them. That doesn’t have to stop you from making money. But if you can’t make any time for them at all then be single
Esther Jean 💯
I agree, he should at least spend the night with her. He’s treating her as his flat mate.
AJH 723 are you serious?they're young
Damien Kirksey Being young is no excuse to neglect your relationship. If you’re never home, never intimate, never go out, then what’s the point of being together? If that’s the case, let’s just be cool.
I don't see Mr. Orange 👕 and brown jacket today. Making the faces.
Author Janae Marie i call him Redd. I miss him too 😁
Author Janae Marie . We need to spot another one and see if they attent regularly😎😎
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Double BK there is a girl with big beautiful hair and a guy who wears a vest that are regular. I call the brown suit man "facial expression dude "
He was on yesterday's episode, but hiding behind the plaintiff. He showed up only from an angle between both litigants.
This is why I don't think people should seriously date until after 25, or get married before 28/29. Being together five years in your early twenties is very different than 5 years as an established adult. Your early 20 is play time.
Nique Franklin i think every situation is different for every person. I met my husband at 17 and married him at 21 years old. And we have been together for 23 years. It all depends on mind set and mentality not age necessarily.
Nique Franklin Zip Time to be on your grind and establish your career. By the time this man is in his mid 30s, he can be more established and have more dating options (21 and up)
Sasha Lo Congratulations, but this is far from the norm.
Im 21 and happily married. It's different for everyone.
@@bonniegomez5333 I was married at 19 and thought the same way. I wish you the best of luck
Life hit them hard because they look like auntie Ella and uncle Curtis age wise
Jazmine Graves 💀😂
😂😂
Jazmine Graves that was harsh dear
shelter purity I wasn’t trying to be harsh but they look 36-39 not 23 and 24
Girl you said it not me!! I heard those ages, I immediately looked in the mirror like wtf!! I'm 22. And my youth is still hanging in there. If they lost some weight they'd look better
The problem is that he shouldn't be in a relationship because he's married to the hustle. You can't force someone to want what you want. This is just incompatibility. He can't expect to maintain a relationship without putting in any time towards it.
Bobby Womack - "If You Think You're Lonely Now (Wait Until Tonight)".
Candace Tyndall exactly 😂
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This entire episode was about she wanting to get married, she was angry because the man wasn't ready, maybe if she stop focusing on being married and start to focus on bettering herself then everything will fall into place. She laughing all the time was so annoying!
He seems a lil sassy 😂. Baby he ain't the 1!!!!!
Just Ty I’m glad you caught it
Jazmine Graves lol I pray they both wakeup
Lmao. Glad somebody said it
Especially if he didn't have a job, ya'll would be dogging him out to no end....go on and make that money 💵 young man...and if you do marry her, fine or if you marry someone else, well let that be the reason
@@d820m If he's sassy, he's sassy that's the topic I spoke on. Move forward to someone else's comment that wants to discuss finances!
If he don't wanna get married you can't forced him
Am happy to see a young man working hard.
What do I suppose to think... No sah. English class my girl not marriage. 🤐
Dii Dii dwl tell har again
Dii Dii bah hahahaha! True that!
If he doesn’t remind me of Craig Robinson LOL!!!!
“I wanna go home now"
The fact that she laughs for every little thing is kinda annoying though
Plus she fake laughing. 🤦🏼
Ha😂😂😂😂Judge Toler just wanted to go home
They seem like nice people. The young lady should move on because as soon as he collects his money, he'll be on the path to upgrading.
lavinder11 8
After hearing her, he shouldn’t wait lol. DUECES!
Seconds in and he already says he doesn't want to get married, either she accepts that and wait or move on...makes no sense trying to force this child down the aisle smh
glenann modeste He has a plan and she is not a part of it
So it's starts with her complaining that he works too much to achieve his goals.....ok then
About ten minutes in and I like them. For their ages they both have good heads. However, if that was her goal at this point I don't think she should have lived with him. I hope they grow together even if they have to separate for a while.
So no kids, man is working.... This is a good man here. She's just a fool trying to rush.
Tria Maxwell - True. He is a good guy. You can tell God is the guiding force in his life.
No, you can tell he has common sense, which is the OPPOSITE of having an imaginary friend and bad work of fiction.
Tria Maxwell - Tria, don’t make me come find you!!!!!!
I agree with the judge completely. 8:52-9:13. Nothing but the truth. You can't be giving him wife advantages when you're not his wife or even his fiance. You living with that man y'all laid up in bed together having sex all the time and you cooking and cleaning for him. Why would he wanna get married when you're already acting like a married couple. He'll have no interest in getting married cuz to him you guys are already married. Those things should be saved for your husband only not your boyfriend
Esther Jean Bottom line
Preach!! 👏🏻🙏🏼🙌🏻
Esther Jean - Ummmmmmmmm, except she complains about a lack of sex because he works too much, and they both agree that she was awful in the cleaning department. And if she wasn’t with him, maybe she would just starve instead of cooking for herself.
Hang Tyme The point I’m trying to make is not just about her In general but about females who want marriage but are giving guys wife privileges before they are married and wonder why the guy won’t marry them
smile cute What does that have to do with anything?
They need to wait until they are older. There is a such thing as work/life balance and neither one of them have an understanding of that. No man will be pressured into marriage and if he is it will not last! Trust me men do not like ultimatums, you have to do what’s right for you girl because he is doing what’s right for him!!!
I love this guy... he know he ain’t ready so he ain’t forcing it! Girl move along he ain’t gonna marry u!
Grind baby stay on ur grind...she comes off as needy😒
Dude, run! She isn’t supportive, has anger issues and keeps trying to trap you into marriage.
Laura Jayy fuck around and get her pregnant it is over for him. At least that is what she will be thinking. A baby is leverage. And any time you feel you can make a man do what you want him to do because you have his kids. Your wayyyyy off base
I'm surprised at Judge Lynn Toler had this outlook on their relationship I truly feel that he is hiding behind money as a reason to not get married to her I truly believe he just doesn't like her. He can save $100,000 and still not feel that he's ready to be married he can save a million dollars and still not feel that that's enough for a marriage he's hiding behind money because he doesn't want to face his true commitment issues.
She was focusing on her because, ultimately, she has to come to that conclusion herself. SHE would chase him to the ends of the earth if he asked to break up first.
Once a man gets free milk why should he pay for it. He will never marry her, he is married to the hustle
Waooh. This guy is very mature. The judge really made my day. More grace ma.
The young dude is honest
Right. He doesn’t love her.
Yoooo said he scared of roaches... Lol... He's not ready to get married and she's trying to force him to do so. She's selective in how she supports him and she has anger problems And she wonders why he won't marry her
She better be glad he works . He COULD be a lazy bum. She annoys me .
He is funny. He driven and young. It's great
He said, “she’s trifling”
oh baby girl, that’s why u don’t have a ring! 🤦🏽♀️🤢
She doesn’t have a ring because he doesn’t like her like that.
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
That “not being scared of roaches” comment took me OUTTTTT 🤣😩
She's a place holder..... once he gets where he wants to, he'll meet and marry someone in 2 months.... watch
Well let that be the reason.....
He doesn’t want to marry her at all
One word I hear in just about every divorce court session is "appreciate". When we appreciate and love ourselves first, there will be no room to accept anything less than that. Often times but not in every case, how we feel about ourselves can be demonstrated through the people in our circle.
they laughing too much for me, i can’t deal. 🤦🏽♀️
Judge Lynn told her! That's what happens when folks treat marriage like it's a damn car... Test driving by moving in together.
All you end up with is a roommate with benefits...TF outta here with that noise. That ain't an asset, that's a LIABILITY!
What Judge Toler failed to address is that he does find time to recreate after working his "millions of jobs" and all the lady is asking is that he spend some of that time with her. A relationship needs quality time to flourish and he's not providing that.
He's all about himself at this time, and rightfully so. At twenty three you're really starting to bask in your adult independence and freedom. Ole girl really needs to just do her for a while and when he realizes that she doesn't have him to study then he'll want to make himself an issue in her life.
Agreed. There’s always more money to chase. If u kill all ur relationships and health in the process there’s nothing to work towards anyways. I think it’s okay to have steady and slow progress rather than trying to push for more more more all the time.
Bless her heart!! Listen to the judge...Match his drive!! Wish you two the best!
She did hear one thing the judge said.
Sylvan Francis I agree
If I was him, I wouldn’t rush it either. This guy is on point. And if he milking her cow then she should stop giving the milk up fro free.
Yeah she is lazy and if I was his family I’d say dump her as well, lazy, unsupportive, violent and basically clinging onto what seems to be a well rounded dude like dead weight. Go do something with yourself young lady.
This guy should run. If she’s like this now she would be an even worse wife. She wants a ring and a wedding as a show off without doing the work. Giving up that cat isn’t work at all.
Akstylez _ak - ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!
Yes!
"Never do wife duties under a girlfriend prices."
Craig Robinson? Lmaooooooooo
Luca Brasi my thoughts exactly 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yoooooo! That's the actor I was trying to figure out this dude resembled 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️☠️
Self-esteem ladies.... No need to buy your own wedding rings..LOL Why? Why? Why? If he says he doesn't want to get MARRIED ever and period, believe that. If he says, he doesn't want to get MARRIED NOW and you give an ultimatum and he says do what you got to do...lol HEAR that and plan accordingly.
Live your life at 23...work, grind,hustle. Don't cancel your dreams to live someone else's dream
She annoying with all that laughing stupse do..
If a man tells me he doesn't want to marry me, what's the point in me staying with him? Especially if I know I want to be a wife and not a girlfriend forever.
they are too young to get married ...
La Hja That what I was think 🤔
exactly
They are adults though. You don't have to be 50. They need counseling.
I think if you watch the episode it is clear that the guy isn't ready to get married due to his given reasons. They both need to be emotionally and financially ready for marriage.
La Hja they’re too immature to get married
Given a certain time for marriage is a way to see how that relationship fills those cups with the trust, honesty, faith, loyal is earned to make that build up in that relationship.
I don't see my favorite guy in the audience making his infamous expressions lol
Don't move in prior to marriage number 1, number two don't try to change what he already told you up front. You either take it or leave it but don't expect something different
They are not ready for marriage. Funny seemingly cool individuals but together i don't think it is going to work. He on his grind and seems to be trying to get away from her. They want different things. She wants a ring. There is nothing wrong with what they want, just not on the same path.
Theses two are on different paths. Either way, in the UK the average age for marriage is 30 and children around 31/35. By then you have secured your career, bought a house and seen the world. I honestly don’t know why she’s in such a rush. She’s so immature she can’t find anything real to complain about.
I Love When Judge Toler Says You Know What I'm Saying!!!!!!
They are such a adorable couple, I believe their make it work..
Thats the first ad I Actually liked. Good ad. Good video
He did not just say “not being scared of the roaches” 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
I was curious to know how him putting a ring on it was gonna increase their time together as a couple. I'm guessing he'll still be outta the house wkn all the time.
I actually think living with the person first is better for you to see whether you can spend the rest of your life with this person.
Theres something off with this couple ,I cant put my finger on it ,but i dont sense no chemistry or nothing from these too
They both seem a little slow, but functioning. Maybe like a slight learning disability or something
@@brishaberries0101 wtf 🤬 that’s not appropriate at all
Wow..why struggle/wait for a ring? Work on yourself like the judge stated.#becomebusy #stopcaring😂
This young man is focused and telling her the truth. He's not selling her a dream or manipulating the situation. Also, she is smart and young but was sold a dream on marriage only probably by her upbringing. She has to have other goals besides being his wife.
“ I’m gonna go home now..”
lmao 😂
Girl just break-up. He don't even want to marry you. Move on to someone who is going to adore you... and MARRY you without hesitation... I see past all her insecurities... he ain't it sweetie.