@@Buildingexcellence11 not angry, just afraid tbh haha afraid that this might be causing more problems. Just from my own experience. But I understand it’s different for everyone
Lol. I've never seen that before but 100% spot on suggestion. Makes no sense to us guys because a lot of times the things we hear about are as simple as "the nail", but we got to try to keep it in mind that a lot of times they don't want solutions....they just want to vent... Even though it's what needs to be done, haven't mastered that yet because it makes no sense. I'll either barely listen so solutions don't start appearing in my head (then it's a problem cuz I'm not listening), or I'll fake compassion even though the answer is right there (so then I'm not being honest).
I completely took over the chores and randomly brought flowers, brought coffee to bed. 3 holidays abroad + 4 domestic / year. . . She wants a divorce.😂
Then few things are possibly happend. 1. You did something really bad that you are not telling us that she has figured out. 2. Maintianing a relationship is WAY more than simply doing things for someone or buying things, how do you treat other people, whats your attitude, how do you treat her as a person etc?? 3. She never really like you and though doing thing you thought it would get her too. 4. She just sucks
Thank you for that tip Aaron because I can’t count how many times I’ve had that problem with women who have come up to me with a problem and I’ve immediately wanted to fix it and then got yelled at because all they wanted me to do was just listen. Then I quietly have walked away fuming lol
Hello alpha thank you for your advices over the years. thanks to that I was able to find a girl (she was a bit more of a club girl, she liked to go out a lot, I tried not to make a big deal out of it, but of course she met someone else there). I know I was naive. I'm a really big introvert and would really appreciate a video on introverts and how to find someone. some tricks. thank you
Is there a way I could give this video three thumbs up? You were really on point this time! A lot of guys, when they get the woman to say "I do" , in their mind they say "I'm done". Wrong!
Alpha, would you mind please making a video on why being married is good? A lot of us single guys have been single for a long time and I have no desire to get back in the saddle because we don't see the benefit anymore. We don't believe that even if we could get a woman tomorrow that she would be worth the effort. Please teach us and help us remember why a good relationship is a good thing
You will gain your sanity by just being able to stay in your frame instead of having to feel you need to fix/control shit. The price for not listening to Alpha’s advice is anxiety and powerlessness. You gain power by letting go of many things you can’t control. Learn to get in touch with your emotions making them and learning to mirror to make your loved one feel understood. Otherwise take good care of yourself. It’s a total win win ;)
When does the woman actually try? Because it seems like the only one responsible for putting an effort is the dude. Maybe I'm wrong but I've never dated a woman who actually put an effort
Awe. Do you find being a multifaceted human being a challenge? There there. You go ahead and stay in first gear while the rest of us enjoy intricately multilayered relationships with other fascinating individuals. It's okay. 👍
Well appreciated content although I think there are different types for almost any of the given traits. Some people match very poorly if the partners are solution based vs emotional based.
These points were correct until year 2000 or even better the eighties or before , nowadays relationships are more shallow, beauty, money, big echo , arrogance this is what attract modern women 😐
When it comes to how you look not every woman is into the man who spends hours primping himself and working out in the gym. Not saying you shouldn't take care of yourself but to a lot of women, their man having a dad bod isn't seen as a bad thing.
my friend. let me give you some heartfelt, unsolicited advise. 1. lose the earrings. earrings are for women and boys. they make you look like an old man thats trying to look young. embrace the sexy old man look. 2. dont wear dress shoes with jeans (i know youre guilty i seen you do it in another video). dress shoes are for suits. get a nice pair of boots (round toes) or something. even worse is the other way around btw, wearing a blazer or suit with sneakers seems to be very common. i even see it in shop windows. it looks lazy. please dont do that.
that dude has no idea what girls look for into a man, please don't listen to this guy there are way better dating coaches etc on youtube, but don't take advice from this old fella
I have been engaged for a while. When I get married, there is NO WAY my wife will clean anything in the house. I designed the interiors of all rooms on both floors, know every inch of space and how to clean everything properly. Cleaning anything in my house is something she is permanently exempt from
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You literally made a video a few weeks ago saying not to take sex pills
Yep she has already replaced you with a dude who demands she gets off her ass and work for it
She needs to do these things as well. Guys want to feel respected and appreciated too.
One point.. never say I’m sorry if you didn’t do something wrong. Instead say that sucks.
This has gotta be the worst advice I’ve ever seen
@@dennisdeez123 not really, if you haven't done anything wrong, dont apologise
@@dennisdeez123 stay angry Dennis
@@Buildingexcellence11 not angry, just afraid tbh haha afraid that this might be causing more problems. Just from my own experience. But I understand it’s different for everyone
@@dennisdeez123Not really, apologising for nothing just boosts a female's ego giving them an upper hand in the relationship
It's Noble, not NOBEL
No one caaaaares
@@InfiniteSoulsUnited5458Not true
@@MrRLP402 geek
I was expecting this to be really sleazy after the perfume ad, but this is actually some pretty good stuff. Well done. 👍
Bonus tip: when you hear her talking about something she likes or wants, write that down. It’ll make birthday and Christmas gift buying way easier.
It took Alpha all the way to #6 before the infomercial, which is the whole point of his videos.
Aaron! You make me a better human being. Thanks for your content. Your videos guided me all the way through my teenage years.
Search for a video entitled “it’s not the nail “
Lol. I've never seen that before but 100% spot on suggestion. Makes no sense to us guys because a lot of times the things we hear about are as simple as "the nail", but we got to try to keep it in mind that a lot of times they don't want solutions....they just want to vent...
Even though it's what needs to be done, haven't mastered that yet because it makes no sense. I'll either barely listen so solutions don't start appearing in my head (then it's a problem cuz I'm not listening), or I'll fake compassion even though the answer is right there (so then I'm not being honest).
@@3styFekt
Yup, that’s the male brain
@@3styFekt LMAO! HAHA! Us and "them" are just wired differently. Literally!
I completely took over the chores and randomly brought flowers, brought coffee to bed.
3 holidays abroad + 4 domestic / year.
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She wants a divorce.😂
Then few things are possibly happend.
1. You did something really bad that you are not telling us that she has figured out.
2. Maintianing a relationship is WAY more than simply doing things for someone or buying things, how do you treat other people, whats your attitude, how do you treat her as a person etc??
3. She never really like you and though doing thing you thought it would get her too.
4. She just sucks
Where is the comment with 10 things without need to see the video….
Thank you for that tip Aaron because I can’t count how many times I’ve had that problem with women who have come up to me with a problem and I’ve immediately wanted to fix it and then got yelled at because all they wanted me to do was just listen. Then I quietly have walked away fuming lol
Too early for the list guy
They want us to do that AND make our money and handle life's challenges.
That's a lot of work. Bring on the Fembots!
0:20 success plan- fix the leaky faucet, listen to the complaints
Hello alpha thank you for your advices over the years. thanks to that I was able to find a girl (she was a bit more of a club girl, she liked to go out a lot, I tried not to make a big deal out of it, but of course she met someone else there). I know I was naive. I'm a really big introvert and would really appreciate a video on introverts and how to find someone. some tricks. thank you
Is there a way I could give this video three thumbs up? You were really on point this time! A lot of guys, when they get the woman to say "I do" , in their mind they say "I'm done". Wrong!
All the Brians here feeling personally attacked.
I love how Alpha M puts it in my mind of how does a woman brain works. and how to treat them ❤️
When we help around the house they come around and complain that we didn't do it her way. Did it our way which for some reason is wrong.
#11. Treat women with respect.
That already added in #3
That's the one thing you don't do, simp
@@U_never_know_who_iam... I added the comment before he said it.
It should go without saying, but that works BOTH ways, otherwise you’re a supplicating simp.
Thank you!!! I really like you already!! I hope you have a fabulous wife and married life!
Alpha, would you mind please making a video on why being married is good? A lot of us single guys have been single for a long time and I have no desire to get back in the saddle because we don't see the benefit anymore. We don't believe that even if we could get a woman tomorrow that she would be worth the effort. Please teach us and help us remember why a good relationship is a good thing
I'll give you one tip. Would you rather be with a woman who is loyal to you or someone who is open for business.
Set your standards
I'm sorry, I'm not having a pity party with anyone, I'm the type of person listen to the problem, what are my options, deal with it!!
what is the price for all this things
Your immortal soul!
You will gain your sanity by just being able to stay in your frame instead of having to feel you need to fix/control shit. The price for not listening to Alpha’s advice is anxiety and powerlessness. You gain power by letting go of many things you can’t control. Learn to get in touch with your emotions making them and learning to mirror to make your loved one feel understood. Otherwise take good care of yourself. It’s a total win win ;)
Hey Alpha, can you include the girls in salon Posta more in your videos like before ?
Thanks to the ultimate ALPHA 🤘
When does the woman actually try? Because it seems like the only one responsible for putting an effort is the dude. Maybe I'm wrong but I've never dated a woman who actually put an effort
Can we also turn these onto women as well?
A guy most probably single and with 0 game teaching men how to attract women. Welcome to the internet
He ain't single tho.
This video is great, thanks alpha. :) Jon
Basically what you are telling us is be goofy best friends and masculine at the same time?? Thats it, I'm out😐
Easy
Awe. Do you find being a multifaceted human being a challenge? There there. You go ahead and stay in first gear while the rest of us enjoy intricately multilayered relationships with other fascinating individuals. It's okay. 👍
@SeanHayesParleys not really multifaced, just capable of doing alot without being fake
Well appreciated content although I think there are different types for almost any of the given traits. Some people match very poorly if the partners are solution based vs emotional based.
Yessir been watching u since I was 6 years old at 6 I knew what I wanted to be and what I was a man 😂 u helped along the way brother
Gifting--- will open a can of worms --- small gift down the road will become an LV Channel Gucci Prada
Gentleman is attendance; listen and take notes.
20 years of marriage 🫡👏🎊
just realized that Alpha Forgot to age after 30
Amazing 👍🏻
Bro I don’t care about how long you’ve been married for. I care about the social dynamic that’s in place. ✍🏻
You’re doing the right things but with the wrong motives, you’re talking about it like a chore, do it out of love.
Women ask for so much. Wtf. They want a God then?
Women don’t have to do shit they expect us to do everything for them
These points were correct until year 2000 or even better the eighties or before , nowadays relationships are more shallow, beauty, money, big echo , arrogance this is what attract modern women 😐
Shouldve seen this sooner 😢
next time my man..there is always time
When it comes to how you look not every woman is into the man who spends hours primping himself and working out in the gym. Not saying you shouldn't take care of yourself but to a lot of women, their man having a dad bod isn't seen as a bad thing.
You dont need a rock. Most gals i knew like sitting on the beard. Until one told me its only because my nose is bigger 😂😂
Thats just a joke 😂
Does this medicine is available in india as well alpha?
Or let women speak what they want instead of "reading minds"😂
💯
hi
Anyone care to post a list?
7:10 most overrated topic 😂
Just learn to play guitar and sing. You won't have to play all these little games, hoping to "win" her over.
my friend. let me give you some heartfelt, unsolicited advise.
1. lose the earrings. earrings are for women and boys. they make you look like an old man thats trying to look young. embrace the sexy old man look.
2. dont wear dress shoes with jeans (i know youre guilty i seen you do it in another video). dress shoes are for suits. get a nice pair of boots (round toes) or something. even worse is the other way around btw, wearing a blazer or suit with sneakers seems to be very common. i even see it in shop windows. it looks lazy. please dont do that.
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Why? What’s it given us?
Thank you Alpha. Dudes are lazy.
This is how to be a lapdog. What a joke lol
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that dude has no idea what girls look for into a man, please don't listen to this guy
there are way better dating coaches etc on youtube, but don't take advice from this old fella
Your thumbnail is the reason i dont watch your videos anymore
Your thumbnails can compete with an vulgur site .
Improve them please
first
Bro why
Because that's how your mom likes it
I have been engaged for a while. When I get married, there is NO WAY my wife will clean anything in the house. I designed the interiors of all rooms on both floors, know every inch of space and how to clean everything properly. Cleaning anything in my house is something she is permanently exempt from
Simp
Gentleman is attendance; listen and take notes.