10 HARD Life Lessons Most Men Learn TOO Late in Life
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One of my biggest pet peeves is when someone says that somebody else got 'lucky' or is 'blessed.' These terms take all of the ownership away from the person
One of my favorite sayings is, "The harder I work, the luckier I get." The truth is that luck is something in fairy tales. It's not luck.
Money will not make you happy. I've been broke, and I have been not broke. I can tell you from this experience that being broke is a lot better, but it will not make you happy. One of the biggest mistakes we see online is people obsessing about material things. Stuff doesn't make you happy. Success is not about stuff. Success is about relationships.
You can't run from your past. Eventually, it will catch up with you. I dealt with this from a young age and struggled with feeling good about myself. I felt insecure as a kid, which impacted my ability to stand up for myself. I decided I deserved to be happy and went into therapy, which made my life better. You can't speed up the healing process, but you can certainly slow it down by avoiding it, self-medicating, sleeping around, and numbing the pain. Go to Better Help for 10% off your first month of therapy and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help you.
Your health is your number one asset. I talk about this all the time because I'm passionate about people taking care of themselves. If you neglect yourself by smoking, doing drugs, drinking and excess, not exercising, and eating like crap, you'll pay for it at some point. You need to make sure you're drinking your water, living a clean lifestyle, and taking care of yourself. A lot of times, younger people have a hard time thinking long-term, and, unfortunately, this will catch up to them and potentially be too late.
You need to make you happy. Do not live for somebody else. You need to decide what really makes you happy and love the life you lead. Make sure you leave a legacy, and there is always time to change. Take action ASAP because you're not guaranteed tomorrow.
You need to test yourself and your limits. If you try to stay safe, you'll stay stuck. You live an average and boring life that is basic. It won't be inspiring. So you need to take the jump and do something scary.
Authenticity is better than popularity. Be authentic and allow people to see who you are. Your life will be better because you will feel better about yourself. It can be scary to be authentic and genuine about who you are, but if you're not accepted for who you are, you don't need to be around those people.
Social media revolves around appearance, and there are a lot of very ugly 'beautiful people' out there. They are physically attractive but hollow inside. They are ugly. Good people are better than pretty people. Find a person you're physically attracted to, but at the core, they're good people. They need to have integrity and honor. They need to treat you with respect and uplift you. They must care for and love you even when things aren't good.
When things aren't going well, remember that this, too, shall pass. Even though you may be going through a hard time right now, keep moving forward because whatever's happening will pass.
The world does not revolve around you or me. Many times, we do or don't do things because we think everybody is thinking something about us. We believe that people are judging us.
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I appreciate you bud, but you gotta stop yelling.
Thanks again alpham....best one was been authentic....I don't need to be like others! Thanks
Long Story Short....
Lesson 1: People are Not Lucky
Lesson 2: Money Doesn't Bring You Happiness.
Lesson 3: Success Is about Relationships
Lesson 4: You Cant Outrun Your Past
Lesson 5: You Cant Speed Up the Healing process but you can slow it down.
Lesson 6: Health Is the Number 1 Asset
Lesson 7: Time Is Finite.
Lesson 8: Failure Is not Bad
Lesson 9: Authenticity is better than Popularity
Lesson 10: Good People is Better than Pretty People
Lesson 11: This Too shall Pass
Lesson 12: The World Revolves around me
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The sad reality is that alpha m is lucky, it’s an extremely small percentage of businesses that turn into multi million dollar businesses or to even be successful. Alpha m started his channel at the right time being one of if not the first men’s style CZcamsrs, plus with his high energy, he had a bigger chance. Telling people to work hard is just being humble but it’s not reality.
@@mark222-px9lj bro, I think you missed the point entirely. 99.99% of Alpha Male and other tubers are the result of hard work and dedication. Luck is when you put money down on a numbers game and win. No thought, no hard work, no talent. Just plunk your money down and hope for the best. That's luck
Just went through a rough divorce at age 51. (After being married for 24 years) I needed to hear this message today. Thanks for the encouragement. If I would have heard this message a few years ago, things may be different today. To reiterate what you said…Family Relationships are the most important in this life not money! Take heed all you men! Thanks Alpha M!
You're doing a great service for the younger generation bro, wish I had someone like you around when i was younger.
💀💀💀
This was one of your best videos man. Well done.
I’m 19 y/o black male with no father com frm a broken home recovering I appreciate you man I’m soaking up all the game
You got this brother, keep your head up and never give up. I was once in your same shoes. Life gets a lot better and there’s joys out there you haven’t seen yet if you put in the work to make yourself and the world better.
@@madefromstardust2250 yessir and most definitely I’m keep striving although sometimes I don’t want to cause I feel a lost of direction and but I know what I’m trying accomplish it’s just hard being confident and sustaining in all things for myself like spiritually mentally physically emotionally self esteem as well but I’m keep pushing
This channel is a gift to my life.
You have to understand that some people are blessed with opportunities that they can take advantage of them by working hard unlike others who have to work extra harder to even get those opportunities.
True
Bullshit...the opportunities are there for the taking for every person. Stop making excuses.
@@Giroux68 no there’s not no opportunities for everyone. The guys who become extremely wealthy aren’t self made, it’s all generation wealth my friend. What do you say about the people who are starving in poor countries, they are dying to get the opportunities we have but they couldn’t because of the weak education. Most people who are successful have the most opportunities and connections around, that’s just a fact of life.
@@Boe3those people are poor because of their governments who are either incompetent or looting (which most of them do). By your logic, nobody is self made not even somebody raised in a rural village who goes on to become a billionaire.
@@shivekaniruth5402 exactly so they have less opportunities thanks to their own governments still proves my point. And I’m talking about the extremely wealthy people, most of them aren’t really self made if you do your research.
These lessons hit hard when you learn them, but honestly it’s a good feeling once you learn them.
Thanks again Alpha M for the advice and video
Your video is a must-watch for everyone. It's filled with valuable insights and powerful messages that can change lives. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world.
Awesome video! My mistaken was not planning for retirement. Didn't save enough and didn't plan for additional medical needs such as dental, vision and hearing. Still working at 73 so WAKE UP young men and take action now.!!!!!!!
''Money will not make you happy'' without money you are not heathy and without health you are not happy
He’s talking about the ambitions we have with money. Those won’t make us happy
Money makes life easier but its not going to fix your unhappiness, I grew up broke and now I'm not. For years I was still unhappy despite what most people would consider "Finally making it". Until I fixed my issues money and the things I had did not make me happy.
Maybe you can use some of your money to buy a grammarly subscription.
Well said. May we all live long happy healthy caring and kind lives
Thank u for being the best dad Alpha.. Got a lot of real lessons & please continue to make more life advices. Iloveu man
It's also annoying when someone tells you, you have talent. No! It's a lot of work and thousands of hours invested in a skill. There is no talent, but motivation and dedication.
That's literally how you develop talent🤣 that's what they are implying.
@@shivekaniruth5402 I think you are delusional. Everyone is implying that talent is somehting you are born with, you have it in your blood, a substitute for the effort required to achieve an ability.
Talent means you didn't work on your skills, you just got it!
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My goodness that second one is so overlooked and not talked about. Great points and thanks for the vid !
I grew up so poor, worked hard, got all the money I needed and a surprus but I was never happy. I realized that cherishing the small things in life is what brings happiness. This explains why my grand parents are in their 90s, happy and healthy yet they do not have much money. When I visit them, they are always excited to see their grandkid around...
Being not broke is better than broke
Alpha awesome video cutting out the crap and working hard to be patient and positive about setting a goal and doing all that you can to achieving it
Wow! Those are the BEST nuggets of wisdom I've heard from you yet. Thanks for sharing the real value of life with us!
Love the tone, love the passion. Love the advice. Thanks for not being monotone.
Hi Alpha, I’ve been subscribed to the channel for a very long time & whilst I appreciate your fashion vids, these ones are the ones that have helped me in my past.
Currently, my last grandparent is alive (my Nonna) & atm she has kidney problems & is under constant stress at the hospital & idk what to do
The man speaks truth. I'm about to hit 40 myself, and throughout my 30's learned many of these things.
That said, one thing is learning, another is applying. Even if you know, it can still be hard to live by these truths. Even though I would say I agree with pretty much 100% of what he's saying, it's not always easy.
One thing I learned recently, which I miss here is the following, let me name it the Nr. 11:
Don't take life too serious.
We all try to survive, we all try to get enough money but we forget about the small things in life which really matter, i.e. dancing with your wife or your kid in the rain in front of your house or just drinking a beer with a friend and just talking shit.
Try to have fun, because at the end, that it's what it is all about, if you had a great life for yourself
the flip side is: having a nice watch, driving a nice car, having disposable income, etc is not an issue because you have them. living in Vancouver, Canada where rent for a 1 bedroom jail cell apartment cost an average of $2000 per month changes the conditions for victory somewhat. I'm not disparaging on the message... just highlighting that conditions for personal success are somewhat vague when using personal acquisitions (or a lack thereof) as a metric. "memento mori".
Thanks man. I really needed to hear this right now. You nailed my current situation. ❤️
You've made many videos..This is probably your best one.
Much good advice
im a fan of this channel. well needed videos 💪🏾
This bro make my self fit and self loving person then I got married got fucked getting divorced and being fucking fat I need to go back to be myself I have to thank you bro I remember watching your videos every day until I reach my fitness goal and actually dress better I’m out of the rails hopefully I can get back
Thanks !
Damn Aaron, best video!! This came at the perfect time for me.
I'm 40 and these are all really starting to sink in. The more goals I achieve the less 'hollow', dishonest and shady people I talk to. It's been painful, scary and challenging, but I'm finally someone I respect, someone I'm proud of.
“We only have so much time on this earth.” How true! Thank you Lord for the blessed gift of our lives! May we cherish each day and always be grateful.
Alpha, it's been a long time since I've seen one of your videos, but I have to say this one hit hard. There was something in your eyes that was filled with sincerity and a passion that moves me and makes get into deep, dark forms of profound thinking that makes me question, "What am I doing with my life?" The answer is quite a bit, actually, but nevertheless, this fills me with a sort of motivation. I know this sounds cringey, but it sparks a roaring fire that makes me want to fight the whole world just to conquer it. Thanks for the video, it really moved me.
Always great advice from Alpha M . Thanks bro 💪🏽👍🔥💯
Well said Alpha, well said!
I was just thinking about this the other day and now I know that I was right. Well done 👍 and well said sir. I really appreciate your support and kindness in caring about others the way you do and I love ❤️ that it was taught by experienced professionals like yourself. I wish you all the best and I appreciate you. Chris Villano
Great video
On point bro! 🙏
I would rather be rich and sad than broke and unhappy
I think that many people are scared of taking risks and afraid of failure. Successful people are able to overcome and deal with fear, which sets them apart from failures. If you want to be successful, identify your fears, confront them, and conquer them. Succeed!
The greatest gift you can ever give yourself is to realize that it’s okay to to like you. You have your warts, so do we all, but that’s okay. You ALSO have your worth. Peace always.
This was the best video by you I’ve ever seen Aaron. Amazingly inspirational. 7:49 went so hard. Keep up the great work man
This is why I follow him. He is deeply personal and teaches. Through his videos I was able to learn skills to skillshare when I didn't even know about skillshare that skilled 50 grand a year to 1.2 a year net and I am so appreciative of this guy and a couple of other channels that got me from feeling not so good about myself to making sure my family is taking care of if anything happens to me you really do have to work on your mental health first you have to get yourself to a point where you can see a future for any of this to be tangible and to be able to work towards something you have to be in a mature state of mind to think like this and I find so many people these days or not and some people are it's definitely a a working progress everything is but you do really get paid by the skills you have not the job that you provide Go forward with love and for the religious people everything's possible and then blood of Jesus
Damn! alpha m well said love when you preach!
Thankyou...I'mma implement this
damn keep spreading wisdom brotha 🫡
Thank you
You can really feel what he saying comes from pure wisdom
Love this message bro thanks
Respect to this Legend
I felt a lot of what you said. Great video man!
I have always hated the term "lucky" I always use "Fortunate" as a replacement.
People who are "Fortunate" are the ones who are mentally prepared and ready to pounce on opportunities.
@Giroux68 By your logic, "fortunate kids" & trust fund babies must be so busy preparing their life from inside their mothers' womb, eh? Lucky & Unlucky people exist all the time, and it's one cold-hard reality approved by math. Believe in inequality of luck help you to be a humble SOB in your success & not being a suicidal-bitter in your failures. Life is a chaotic mess of uncertainty. As soon as you're able to see that.. easier for you to get along with everything happen in your life.
All of those "motivational mumbo-jumbos" about how luck is out there waiting for everyone with "preparation/whatever-etc-etc" is just how "lucky people" being polite about their wealth/success (OR, ironically, cheap trick of a broke conmen would say to litmus-test their easy-to-manipulate marks).
Take the leap and stop bieng complacent! It took me 20 years of bieng complacent before I took the leap of faith. It was scary, but worth it. Don't wait - do it!
Alpha - everything you said in this video is true. 👍
Jesus fucking Christ it's being
Excellent video at Nischa: Why Looking Poor Is Important - Last part of the video is really good
This video is gold, great motivation. :) Jon
We will protect this man at all cost
I love the fact you’re wearing the grey! Own it. Make yourself the master of aging!
Truly inspiring...Amen!
This guy literally helped me change my life🙏😊
Bro relax with super energy
Thanks!
Alpha M, this is a great video. If I stick by these, I should be fine. Peace out!!
Awesome! Thanks!
Money actually can make you happy if you know how to use it. I mean if you are not an idiot who constantly needs external validation and have a constant need to feed own ego. That is the main reason why many rich people are nervous and unhappy...
Thanks Alpha
You know you're a long time Alpha subscriber... when you can guess the sponsor by the title of the video. I nailed it again...
Thank you once again homie
good vid alpha fr 💯💯
Great video but at 2:38 - need to have a word with your editor Alpha. Typos in the text: 'You can't outrun yopur past'
Learn to live alone and you'll enjoy your Life.
Every relationship doesn't works in a long term and you'll exit destroyed .
100% true.
Yes so true
Learning to live alone matters. But also, learning that everything that matters will pass is important. This way you can absolutely enjoy good relationships, but you don't depend on them to be happy, so you only enter the ones that add to your life.
Exiting life destroyed is the goal. Go to the coffin dirty, tired, muddy and saying "what a ride!" Peace alone is not the secret for a good life.
Thank you for your wise advises❤. From the bottom of my heart i wish you reacted to this comment. Its been 5 years I've started watching your content when i was 17 . Now i am 22 .
It's good to have both.
It's been awhile since you released a video that I can wholeheartedly agree with 💯!
2:41 HEADS UP : You have a typo.. I'm sure someone said it, but "YOPUR".... Great vid, holmes!
Luck is the word people use to describe the circumstances of someone they don’t like.
Agreed
Excellent job
You are awesome bro and humane🙏🏻
do ppl commenting the summary of the videos not realise that alpha always puts it in the description lol
I'm 32 and injuries are starting to become more frequent.
Does anyone deal with the same problem?
Start stretching daily and make it a lifestyle. You will get better.
@@zablonkerima4568 appreciate ya
I'm 36 and have nothing but pain every single day. I'm practically on makeshift life support (copious amounts of pills a day and excessive caffeine use just to get through the work day that I can't sleep at night so I drink alcohol to help sleep)
@@Dekkard5 why, mate?
Hard work creates your luck.
Definitely don’t avoid your past you will be miserable just stand up and face your problems
More of this! And less of the superficial stuff you often do to sell stuff.
I don't want to diminish people's hard work. I can't deny a lot of what they have. Is luck of just being born on the right family with the right connections. A lot of them work really hard at their job. Let's be honest. Luck gave them the chance. A lot of hard-working people are overlooked everyday.
W Alpha M 💯🐐💪
Well what if you have no one to turn to all you have is yourself the only thing you can do is chase wealth, I can say from my experience money is more than just buying fancy stuff it's tool to create wealth also helps to you to have a better healthy life.
My favorite is “if you don’t make time for your health, you will be making time for your illness.”
When it comes to money it's not all about the relationships. Money is a means to an end. Some people want to spend a lot to go out, nice car, huge house, etc............... but not of that will make a person happy.
There's another form of spending, and it's spending to DO things. While doing anything in particular isn't going to make you happy, if you enjoy doing that thing it's going to at least bring enjoyment into your life, and this is the kind of spending I focus on, to have things that allow me to do whatever it is I want to do. Doing things is the same as accomplishing things which means fulfillment.
Love from India ❤
THANK YOU Aaron for slapping the truth on the table. Your personality is just the right shit to get reminded and slapped in the face, that we all have IMMENSE potential, but not immense much time.
Awesome 👌 👏 ❤
Hero!
You had 5 polyps? Oh, my friend, you're still junior varsity. My first time I had 3. The next time, I had 16. Six months after that, I had 7. If they can find 5 more this next time, I get a free set of steak knives. 🔪
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But you're right. You have to take care of the "unpopular" things. Preach it. 👍
There are soooo many situations where it is lucky, hence the saying, " i would rather be lucky than good" . Some situations are exactly what you are describing but current day especially i can name what is lucky, easy and handed to people. I've never heard the saying, " the harder i work the luckier i get" . You know what, the happy thing is dependant on who and what you are. Money cant buy you happiness. Seriously? No, money cant buy you love. If there is even a thought of excusing out money or being broke in modern day, your kidding. I had it as well with being broke ( and you need to define BROKE) and having money. If you are responsible, based, organized then how can you NOT be happy? Money free's up your mind to think because you don't have debt, you don't have issues. You and give , help and create and contribute not only to yourself but to others, its the irresponsible people that lose it and have no idea how to manage money. Being broke, what i saw with people i tried to help or guide was no responsibility. What do they have honestly? Someone on the street? If you never had money , they you don't have much . Its like how do you know what happy is if you've never been sad? I know how it feels not to have a $1 in my pocket , even just $1 dollars and its not a good feeling and tell me how that makes someone feel? Happy? Sorry, its BALANCE and RESPONSIBILITY. You can create luck as a by product of your skill, hustle , work ethic but to shut it down and say being not broke is better but it wont make you happy??????? Unless someone is part of the millennial and gen z generation and everything is menta. You then used " what we see online" and " expectations". There are three things younger generations lack, " common sense (LOGIC)" , knowing right from wrong and lack of " DUE DILIGENCE". When i saw someone have things i wanted and or going places i wanted to go in life, i surrounded myself with like minded people. Its a choice and also building responsible habits as i said above about being responsible.
The whole MATERIAL explanation is true but actually lets check your house, car, jewelry you might not be wearing. Are you a Warren Buffet with your money or are you a Roman Abramovich lifestyle? Material things make you feel good and you enjoy them , its keeping it balanced and in check otherwise, WHY ARE YOU WORKING? WHY DO YOU HAVE 6M SUBS and doing CZcams if you arent working to make a lot of money ? What will you do with that money? Live in a shack and ride a bike? Maybe you're amazing and brilliant like Elon who is furthering humanity, lives on site in "small house" for $50k and took all his money (except $900k to get a McLaren F1) from selling PayPal and put it in his next company. He even said he had some LUCK along the way but as i said, his brilliance , work ethic and drive "created opportunities" and opened up different avenues, which could be lucky but create by what i just stated.
Sorry grammar and paragraphs are off, i dont have much time but to just type it out but to be full stop on " it doesnt buy you happiness" is horseshiot. Its what you do with it , how you do it, maturity , balance because there are some people, many people that got LUCKY but never had money and crapped it down the toilet because they didnt know how to handle it and now they HATE money when they need to look in the mirror.
Good video
I used to watch you when I was younger. I had hopes and goals, but as time went by I just almost gave up and now am living by inertia. There's nothing good future can bring, and the worst part is that I just dont wanna do anything to make it better. I just don't. I wish someday I fall asleep and never wake up. That's the way I'd like to go. I'm going to be 29 this month. So, yeah. These advices are cool but only work for those who intend to change something in their life. I am not one of those, unfortunately. Maybe I was, but not anymore.
People are not lucky, "Huak tuah" xD
Money BUYS FREEDOM 😊
But cussing is one of the most immature thing a person can do
why?