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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024

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  • @traveldreamer4616
    @traveldreamer4616 Před 6 měsíci +34

    I just love the grizzly bear at the end. They had no solution or was the solution beyond affordability? You are already thinking of a solution to their “no” to an issue. When you want to thrive, walls are always there that must be removed. The old idea is that people with disabilities are to just sit back and watch the world go by. Continue to show them that you at grabbing the bull by the horns and living an active life-thriving. Every obstacle you overcome gives someone else an easier path to follow. Continue to inspire. Six more days to begin the next phase. You got this. It’s hard, but it is worth it. ❤

  • @SwanSong1234
    @SwanSong1234 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Hi Jeff, I think a good innovative seamstress or tailor could help you with your under garment & stable knee pads.
    They just need to be functional right.
    I've worked in private health care 23 yrs.
    I feel for you.
    It takes a lot of inner & outer strength to keep moving forward.
    You're a great example for many people who are struggling also.
    You hit a wall & keep trying.
    So many give up.
    I have a friend with 1 amputation leg like you.
    Caused from diabetes.
    She was the head of a physical therapy department in a hospital.
    She knew what & to do. But never tried to become self-sufficient and is pretty much housebound.
    That to me is sad.
    For all the extra energy and stuggling you go through just to do simple actions alone, you are a courageous brave man.
    You have & are accomplishing a life for yourself.
    Your driving & continuing to enjoy going places.
    Making video's that people like. Also, making them aware that there is a need for better handicap accessibility for individuals that could make life easier.
    You Rock🌟 Jeff. 🙏💜🕊

  • @CatBalou38
    @CatBalou38 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Jeff I think that's a great idea! It's going to work for sure. You don't need anything fancy, just functional. Wonderful video. Thanks

  • @insanity6829
    @insanity6829 Před 6 měsíci +12

    I think your idea is a good one. You have shown there is a great need out there for folks in your position. Hang tough, it will work out. "love yous"

  • @rickilee961
    @rickilee961 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I've worked with those lifts for 40 years at my job. There should be a little valve near the pump. Try opening that a little bit and then reclosing it back up. Sometimes they'll get air in them and it'll cause them to move slow like that too and the weather does affect them also

  • @jacquelinejohnson7927
    @jacquelinejohnson7927 Před 6 měsíci +6

    The long underwear could work , they have a flap in the back, buttons in the front, legs can be shortened and those knee pads workers use could be put in the bottom of the legs ( in a pocket for removals to laundry. The pads should fit your stumps nicely. Another thought for the knee pads , if they already have straps, possibly lengthen the straps to attach to say a pair of suspenders??
    Mull these ideas over, I am sure you will figure how to adapt .
    I have followed you and Chrome, etc for a few years now. Take care. ❤❤

  • @ruthanderson1758
    @ruthanderson1758 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Don't beat yourself up over what Diabetes did to you. My brother has Type 2 and when he was first diagnosed as pre-diabetic his doctor told him he could be the "poster child" for how to keep his sugar levels down as he was crazy-regimented on what he ate but in the end it didn't stop him from becoming full-fledged diabetic. He was so discouraged but the doctor told him that for some people it doesn't matter what you do in an attempt to control it, you will end up moving up the line to actual diabetes. He came to terms with it once he accepted the fact that he'd done everything he could and it wasn't his fault.

    • @rudfil
      @rudfil Před 6 měsíci +1

      1 in 3 Americans are living with pre diabetes. Almost 100 million people!

    • @MichaelWilliams-ro9bm
      @MichaelWilliams-ro9bm Před 6 měsíci

      End up moving to actual diabetes??? You’re kidding right? His pancreas no longer makes insulin. Nothing leads up to type 1. It either makes insulin or it doesn’t. What a knucklehead comment. Type one is nothing like type 2. Educate yourself.

  • @paulbauswellsr3296
    @paulbauswellsr3296 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Jeff, you know what you need and how it should work. Just like everything else, you have figured out how to do it. You will come up with a solution for this also. I mean, dang, Jeff, you rode up an escalator. Don't get down on it. You will figure it out in time and practice.

  • @tinnaz1
    @tinnaz1 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Good idea. Maybe sweatpants would be softer than Long Johns or try a tuc for each one for short jaunts? Use pads inside and strap on with Velcro straps? Spandex is stretchy and thinner material for summer. Just tossing some things up in the air.
    Much love! 🤗🥰

  • @KetoCarnivoreDoug
    @KetoCarnivoreDoug Před 6 měsíci +4

    Brother. Aint that the truth. One needs $$$ in this world. Im struggling like so many are. The ones that are doing well are couples with 2 in comes over time.

  • @Sweetcheeks168
    @Sweetcheeks168 Před 6 měsíci +1

    My sister,s daughter had to have both legs removed,she got shit for help no help at all,so it is good to be thankful to be alive,she died of massive heart attack,the medincal is all F up,so be thankful for what you have

  • @bessieoriotis5104
    @bessieoriotis5104 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Jeffie Bear This is the first time I've seen your eyes so sad. You have been to hell and back with utmost bravery. Don't allow this to get to you. You'll get through it. You are not only inspiring people with your health issue but people like me
    with mine. Some ailments are in the genes and are not seen until we get older. Doctors can't see it all even with such tech. Don't
    give up bro because your pain hurts and your wins make me smile. ❤❤❤GREECE

    • @jackieskaggs1767
      @jackieskaggs1767 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Noticed that you seemed a little off today too. Is your blood sugar level okay? Also remember, winter has an affect on our spirits. Not getting enough sunshine affects our vitamin D. Take care Bear. You are loved.

  • @sheilabartlett6044
    @sheilabartlett6044 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Oh the challenges in life. Your are certainly taking the bull by the horns, you got this Jeffie!

  • @saracaldwell1738
    @saracaldwell1738 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Sending love and hugs to you. As Bob Marley said every little thing is gonna be alright. Yay I'm so happy your van is working for you. I just got mine back. It's fine now. ❤❤😊😊

  • @NoRegrets.
    @NoRegrets. Před 6 měsíci +5

    Maybe Joseph can engineer something for you if you get to visit near him. I am afraid underwear will pull down or pull backwards as you try to walk. You may need something that goes all the way over your shoulders and snaps together. In the meantime maybe some suspenders to insure the stay on.

  • @kaytoka717
    @kaytoka717 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Sorry it was frustrating, but if anyone can come up with a solution, it's you. Sounds like you already have a great idea - I mean it's just you, and you will know what is working for you or not when you try it. If not, at least you will have an idea of what needs to be improved or tried differently. ❤😊

  • @invasive_labyrinth
    @invasive_labyrinth Před 6 měsíci +4

    Keep it up Jeffie, greetings from Europe, Sweden at the moment. ❤

  • @fatmonet
    @fatmonet Před 6 měsíci +4

    Gel shoe inserts that you can cut to fit? Wrap in some memory foam? If you get leggings to sew up the bottom, have a seamstress sew on some of those nonskid socks. Just throwing out some ideas. They sell sheep skin too that you can cut to fit.

    • @CatBalou38
      @CatBalou38 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Absolutely great ideas 💡

  • @barbarawheeler6897
    @barbarawheeler6897 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I. Sorry Jeffrey love you k please keep on fighting k don't give up I won't Esther k

  • @nh_nomad
    @nh_nomad Před 6 měsíci +5

    Hang in there Jeff, you are resourceful and will figure it out.

  • @barbaraburke1676
    @barbaraburke1676 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Hi Big Bro Jeffie Bear 🐻 ❤️ hang in there, you'll get through as you have been, always in my prayers too. Sending lots of love hugs and prayers daily Bro🤗❤️🙏

  • @soulexplorer3399
    @soulexplorer3399 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I am sorry for your frustration. Keep your chin up. We love Bear

  • @rachadventuresinliv
    @rachadventuresinliv Před 6 měsíci +5

    Dang it's cold, can see it from your breath. Sorry to hear 🥺 I'm sure you will figure something as you do. 🤗🤗

  • @user-auntnellie
    @user-auntnellie Před 6 měsíci +4

    Praying for creative solutions!

  • @finallyawakened3350
    @finallyawakened3350 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I know you'll come up with something but I'm going to pray to God to help you come up with the best solution Jeffie.
    I know He will help 🙏
    Lots of love going your way ❤️

  • @jacquelinejohnson7927
    @jacquelinejohnson7927 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Hi Jeffie,, it's me again with another thought in regards to your standing and stumps. Have you given thought to a pair of leather pants with a sole insertion such as I earlier mentioned. I am thinking of a shoe maker, leather worker, surely , surely someone can help. Personally I like the leather pants idea and adapted. I know a guy in Saskatchewan who Might be able.
    Come on people, let's help Jeffie. ❤

  • @curious1366
    @curious1366 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You have amazing inner strength! It's understandable to feel disappointment! But you keep on going. And to be so creative to come up with another way. You deserve a lot of respect for how fast and how well you are progressing -- overcoming so many obstacles! Respect!

  • @shadowette1950
    @shadowette1950 Před 6 měsíci +3

    We all have our down days don't we... but you are extremely resourceful and you will find a solution 😊... poor family jewels gonna get chilly!! Hang in there you got this!!

  • @aprilbaxter2578
    @aprilbaxter2578 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You look really tired today. I'm sorry things are not going well for you. I hope it gets better. It's hard to be without funds, and without good insurance. It's always a struggle. I know you'll think of something. I'm praying for you. Be safe.

  • @pchts1
    @pchts1 Před 6 měsíci

    Down here in the states, we hear Canadians tell us how great their health care is up in Canada. They wonder why we don’t have the same kind of healthcare here in the States. This maybe the reason why!
    We wish you well and hope that you get some help in resolving this issue!

  • @Yvonneb_
    @Yvonneb_ Před 6 měsíci +1

    You got this Jeffie Bear. I know Jared Crocker off youtube has a stump, his doesnt fall off. However his accident happened when he was 2 with a lawnmower. Really hope things get sorted for you. xx

  • @martykong3592
    @martykong3592 Před 6 měsíci +5

    :) GO Jeffie! THANKS MUCH for sharing! :) Hang in there :) ALL the BEST and Cheers from left Coast!! ! ! :)

  • @freedomdove
    @freedomdove Před 6 měsíci +2

    At least you have some direction now. That's good. 👍

  • @ladydebrablessedbe3121
    @ladydebrablessedbe3121 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Hey Jeffie.. Sorry I missed this.. You look good.. WTG.. Blessings.

  • @martna1
    @martna1 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Praying something works for you Jeffie.

  • @TeriDuncan8049
    @TeriDuncan8049 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You have to be very careful to not damage skin on stumps. Just thoughts.... hard bottom to the stump pads so they don't wear out (wood, plastic) then a dense material for stability (probably up and around stumps) finally a gel layer for cushion.??? Well that's a starting point 😃 ?

  • @DebraDockler-os2sb
    @DebraDockler-os2sb Před 6 měsíci +1

    Good to see you again looks like your van is going well I'm sure Jeff that there is salutation for you and knowing you and your intelligence you will figure it out I will be praying 🙏 for you take care 🐻 hugs to you ❤😊

  • @studio1954thereflections
    @studio1954thereflections Před 6 měsíci +2

    Keep your spirits up Jeffie you have come a long way...❤ and summer is coming 😊

  • @bonnienklyde918
    @bonnienklyde918 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey, 👋
    You mentioned long johns to hold them on but Im wondering if those tight socks you wear for swollen legs but cut the feet off would work. Thigh highs and I do believe they make them to come over the waist as well. They fit pretty snug so they wont slip much. You could also make a flap for the front kind of like how they used to make the butt flap on mens long johns years ago, but do it for the front.
    Anyway just a thought. Whatever you do come up with I myself would be glad to donate to you. When you have a plan, we/I will help.
    Great video ❤

  • @denisemckiver69
    @denisemckiver69 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Jeff, if you invent something that works well for you perhaps you can patent it to help others in your position. Perhaps using semi inflated plastic balls in the upper part of the legs of those longjohns would give your stumps some cushioning and lesson the friction and pressure on your stumps. Just brainstorming.

  • @user-wf6sb7vh9y
    @user-wf6sb7vh9y Před 6 měsíci +2

    You just have to do what you have to do for you. Circumstances change in life. Sometimes we have to learn how to adapt to a different way of living life.

    • @juliehoot3916
      @juliehoot3916 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Hi Jeffie Bear, I think we in the States get the wrong impression about free medical in Canada. Your videos are great. No apologies needed. 🤎

  • @carolinefealofai7307
    @carolinefealofai7307 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I feel you, if it not money it’s something else. See if you can get info on disability groups to help you I’m sure there are many reach out to them see what they can help with. Stay positive don’t give up move forward ❤

  • @karenkazjefreys2913
    @karenkazjefreys2913 Před 6 měsíci +1

    hey jeff sounds like a great plan and as time goes on you will figuer it out, but yes who wouln`nt feel fustrated, big hugs, kaz

  • @MikeGradyPDX
    @MikeGradyPDX Před 6 měsíci +1

    Jeff, have you thought of getting stubbies? I’m a bilateral above knee amputee as well, and I’m getting stubbies in a couple of weeks. I’m looking so forward to it!

  • @JustDoingChelle
    @JustDoingChelle Před 6 měsíci +2

    It's a little different for me, my issues, but I can definitely relate to frustration. I'm laughing at myself. I must be doing okay! Love Ya Jeffie Bear!

  • @daneboro6847
    @daneboro6847 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Prayers for you my friend 🙏

  • @Pondsofpurple
    @Pondsofpurple Před 6 měsíci

    ❤🙏🏾 Love ya Jeffie bear..praying for you .

  • @burnemdown43235
    @burnemdown43235 Před 6 měsíci

    I LOVE YOUR SPIRIT JEFFIE BEAR 🐻 ❤❤❤❤

  • @angiemoses130
    @angiemoses130 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Sending ya lots of love

  • @thetwooldpeeps3528
    @thetwooldpeeps3528 Před 6 měsíci +2

    🤔 I wonder if an elastic head band would serve a temporary service till you get a better plan.

  • @valeriaproductions
    @valeriaproductions Před 6 měsíci +2

    Glad to hear that you are so honest with us - it makes people feel less alone and isolated knowing that there are other people dealing with this as well. Love ya!

  • @jenniferr6403
    @jenniferr6403 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey there Jennifer glad I could help ya. Yur tough I don't feel I could initiate lol like now though much for doing things other than stay home 😍👀🙄💝😻

  • @MichelleCouplandHairStudio
    @MichelleCouplandHairStudio Před 6 měsíci +1

    Have a fundraiser to get things done 🎉❤

  • @jalleman61
    @jalleman61 Před 6 měsíci

    Jeffy bear, after so many hurdles you have met adversity head on and have shown so much positive to others.Your thoughts of long johns is good but I would try a comfortable pair of gym trunks that would work and wouldnt be as hot.Stay positive with your insurance as their all becoming thrifty😊

  • @barbarawhittall2311
    @barbarawhittall2311 Před 6 měsíci

    The bathroom solution is very good years ago long underwear was made that way a flap that was buttoned so you could just unbutton and so there's nothing wrong with that! It will make it easy peasy for you! ❤ Looking forward seeing you back on the road again! God bless you ❤

  • @rajanikumari3672
    @rajanikumari3672 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Maybe look into wetsuit material as something to make a stump cover with some padding to it.

  • @K-9Gar
    @K-9Gar Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wooo 6 days and the bears going be on the road again 🎶 🎵

  • @401Adventures
    @401Adventures Před 6 měsíci +1

    Jeffie Bear......What about chaps ,like cowboys wear they stop around your waist and your legs

  • @robertaxyz
    @robertaxyz Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thanks for sharing your journey 🌞

  • @susanbradley2465
    @susanbradley2465 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Jeff,You will get it all figured out. I love watching your videos and can't wait for the next one ❤❤❤

  • @charlene5461
    @charlene5461 Před 6 měsíci +2

    🤜🤛🎉🎉🎉keep on vanning Jeffiebear🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @annzarate1157
    @annzarate1157 Před 6 měsíci

    Just think you might be the inventor of a new product to help other people like you..❤

  • @CarlJones14
    @CarlJones14 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I thought the US was bad, but I didn't think Canada was like this. Mind you, it's pretty bad in the UK, and that's the NHS, totally tax (debt) funded.

  • @benjigreystone
    @benjigreystone Před měsícem

    Use long socks sewn into your shorts at the belt loop so when pull pants up or down the socks come with the pants or socks with garter straps like they used back in 1800 for children

  • @jasonbrouse4635
    @jasonbrouse4635 Před 6 měsíci +1

    you think it out. way awesome vid. thank you

  • @suzanneethier1450
    @suzanneethier1450 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hi Jeffrey bear love seu sending strength

  • @debjukes5548
    @debjukes5548 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I hope you can find a seamstress,if I was there I would offer but fingers crossed for you!

  • @debvoz
    @debvoz Před 6 měsíci +3

    would garters like hockey players wear work to hold up covers?

  • @gailskidmore6407
    @gailskidmore6407 Před 6 měsíci

    Hey Jeff! If you were still out west I could have probably helped you out with making the garment you mentioned. Hope you’re doing well!

  • @PaulineXCX
    @PaulineXCX Před 6 měsíci +1

    Sending love and prayers to you Jeffie , I’m sure you could maybe Google ideas of what other people have done to resolve this underwear/bathroom issues tbh prob best from someone that has experienced it rather than doctors , there will be a solution ❤

  • @Jay-is2jy
    @Jay-is2jy Před 6 měsíci +1

    What was he hoping to get covered and taken care of this appointment for his stumps?... stump socks, neoprene covers,etc? ... My dad was an amputee and i always thought Canada had better health coverage than the US......

  • @BobWillisOutdoors
    @BobWillisOutdoors Před 6 měsíci +4

    Two words: garter belt.

    • @wolfc8755
      @wolfc8755 Před 6 měsíci

      That's what I was thinking!

  • @neilhenderson5307
    @neilhenderson5307 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks!

  • @OnthehookwithSandy
    @OnthehookwithSandy Před 6 měsíci +3

    Jeffie I know I sound crazy but it's true. Med beds are here. They regrow your limbs. Not kidding. They are being used at a Base in nova Scotia. Lots of good things are coming. 🥰💜🙏

  • @marianfrances4959
    @marianfrances4959 Před 6 měsíci +1

    6 days!!! 👍😎🇨🇦☕🐻

  • @TrinitysChoice
    @TrinitysChoice Před 6 měsíci

    A bead of silicone spread around the top of the socks will keep them up.

  • @4angelwhite
    @4angelwhite Před 6 měsíci +4

    Suspenders maybe 😊

  • @barbarac4138
    @barbarac4138 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Consult another orthotic group. Never seen someone not be able to get proper fitting

  • @terrynewell8968
    @terrynewell8968 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Don't worry, you'll fiqure this out.

  • @Mr3pete3
    @Mr3pete3 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Jeff have u thought of hockey socks and would they work

    • @NoRegrets.
      @NoRegrets. Před 6 měsíci +2

      I would think they would be too tight over the thigh . The last thing he wants to do is restriction of blood flow. But then i don’t know anything about hockey socks.

  • @dennisrutter1277
    @dennisrutter1277 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Could you use suspenders some how? Just a thought.

  • @whiplash_pants
    @whiplash_pants Před 6 měsíci +1

    Jeffie, are you still in a position where you can work? Like a customer service job, work from home ( van )
    You would havbe a steady , decent income..and be able to qualify for benefits.

  • @DUDE72341
    @DUDE72341 Před 6 měsíci

    Mr Jeffie bear...Hello..hope your well!

  • @regeniawilliams2965
    @regeniawilliams2965 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Jeffie u can use the padded parts of old bra's an put it in maybe some cut of spandex an sew the bottom.Just an idea,hang in there u will come up with something ❤

  • @TerriLynch
    @TerriLynch Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Tattiepoo1
    @Tattiepoo1 Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰

  • @2INTUATIVE
    @2INTUATIVE Před 6 měsíci

    Have you checked in with any Non Profit groups for help? Like Rotary Clubs, Salvation Army, etc... Even churches? Other quadrapedics? Frustrating but I have faith you will find more answer's. 🙏

  • @karenmays8889
    @karenmays8889 Před 6 měsíci +1

    🙏❤️

  • @widowprepper4292
    @widowprepper4292 Před 6 měsíci +1

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @denniswade4998
    @denniswade4998 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Here's a thought: maybe you could have underwear that has a long slit tin the crotch part with velcro to hold it closed. Then you could just pull it apart when doing your biz???? May not work, but might be worth a try.
    I'm sure you will find ways to make all of these little obstacles fall into place.
    . . . . especially when you have such a great bunch of followers sharing ideas with you!

  • @darlenemiller847
    @darlenemiller847 Před 6 měsíci +1

    🙏

  • @lynnnunezwhitlock1073
    @lynnnunezwhitlock1073 Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤🎉

  • @helene1779
    @helene1779 Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤️🙏🏼👍🏼👍🏼✌🏼

  • @susanstebila8707
    @susanstebila8707 Před 6 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @julestheagent3932
    @julestheagent3932 Před 6 měsíci

    Soon

  • @Craycray978
    @Craycray978 Před 6 měsíci +1

    🤟🏼

  • @karlagreen6310
    @karlagreen6310 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Do a go fund me Jeff.☺

    • @insanity6829
      @insanity6829 Před 6 měsíci +2

      problem is what he went to inquire about wouldnt stay on...

  • @lesleyhughes3174
    @lesleyhughes3174 Před 6 měsíci +1

    🙏 💌 🙋🏼‍♀️ 🚐 🌏

  • @thisiscookingwithmafia6730
    @thisiscookingwithmafia6730 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I did a quick search you might want to look into a three-piece compression suit has the shorts long pants and a top I think that might help if you also can cut the middle out for the private area and have the bottom sewn to your length with the pads for comfort🤝🫡🙏