autism tiktoks and memes that make me feel less alone

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  • čas přidán 5. 06. 2023
  • Hello!
    You can find the names of all creators in this video on this TikTok playlist:
    www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ehXskb/
    (note: some may have been taken down and are no longer available, so I unfortunately cannot provide these creator names. I apologize for any inconvenience)
    I see everyone is enjoying these compilations, so I decided to get together another short one! I'll try to push out at least one a week maybe, and see if I can get a few more noise videos up!
    I am autistic and I thought of this channel now back almost 6 months ago! Thanks to everyone who has subscribed and supported the channel. I created this channel to help other people with autism who benefit similarly to me from pink noise.
    I love TikTok and think it's an awesome resource as a learning tool about autism, as well as feeling community and laughter in the autism world. I think generations to come will talk about how evolutionary our global learning has been since the evolution of tiktok into modern use in media. Its exciting and I know at least for me, I've learned and healed so much.
    I hope you enjoy and tag your favorite or most relatable moments in the comments! can't wait to hear from you!
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  • @nottheredelilah3757
    @nottheredelilah3757 Před rokem +148

    i never realized that sounding "bitchy" was an autism symptom, i've been fired twice from retail because customers didn't like how i talked to them, my last manager said that something about me "just doesn't sit well with people over a certain age", and i got written up at my last job bc people said i yelled at them for not being on duty even though i never raised my voice and i ????????? add it to the list i guess

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 Před 11 měsíci +16

      My last manager had me written up and put a Do Not Rehire in my file because I was trying to help her. When I described our interactions to other coworkers they said it sounded like the manager was intimidated by me!???
      By me? I'm not scary at all. I went out of my way to be helpful and cooperate. Found work to do if it was slow that helped everyone.
      Nobody asked for my side of the story so this Write up, only had her opinion on it. One of the things she wrote was that I'm not allowed to TOUCH people. Ummm, I never go around touching people. What does that even mean?? But part of the job description was we HAD TO greet customers and shake their hands. The custom of shaking hands is to establish trust.
      I tried not to shake hands with the next customer, but it felt so awkward and weird. So I continued to shake hands after that.
      At the end of the season she went over my goals. She had previously set my goal to increase revenue by 20% over the prior year. Only SHE didn't think my prior year's revenue was enough. So she made up a fake number and added 20% to that fake number.
      Then during the season she barely scheduled me to work any hours. I told her I seemed to be working half the hours as the previous year and would she adjust my goal accordingly? She said no.
      On the last day she told me she didn't think I met the goal. Later the official numbers came in online. I could calculate my actual revenue. And see hours worked for both years. So I calculated using actual numbers, what my revenue generated per HOUR worked was. It's the ONLY way to compare apples to apples.
      I had increased revenue over the previous year by not the 20% requested, but by 84% !!
      Apparently that's such a massive failure that I shouldn't be rehired. Could I take them to court? Maybe. But the bigger question is do I even want to work for a company that allows one person to complain about me, never actually talks to me, or has the 2 of us sit down with a 3rd person to sort things out?

    • @JDMimeTHEFIRST
      @JDMimeTHEFIRST Před 11 měsíci

      Neurotypicals are f$&king insane. There are scientific studies showing that they automatically don’t like us even when we talk and act like them. They can sniff us out. They are such bullies.

    • @HappyHoney41
      @HappyHoney41 Před 8 měsíci +3

      My mother worked with me on tone, inflection, enunciation, politeness, etc. when speaking. Taught me how to properly answer the phone. (She was a British long distance operator.) Worked with me on posture, walking, etc. (I've got lots of physical issues, too.) I was pretty good at 'Monkey See, Monkey Do'; which is pretty much what masking is. Masking becomes more ingrained over time. But I can't hide my poor penmanship and less than stellar coordination. (aka, I'm like a bull in a china shop. I'm either going to hurt myself or break something on a daily basis. I just expect it now, and I have to just laugh at it. What else are you going to do?) I got written up at work on my annual review once for my poor penmanship when signing my name. I should have just started signing paperwork with an X. (I've got lots of other issues. It is what it is.)

    • @xo_mellyy
      @xo_mellyy Před 6 měsíci +2

      i'm autistic and i have a tumbling coach who's autistic, as much as i can relate to her, she's very rude to our whole team, and all of us have complained bc she's very snippy.

  • @Molly-iw1rc
    @Molly-iw1rc Před rokem +144

    I love all of the black autistic people talking about their experiences!!
    I'm black and *probably* autistic, and it's funny because when I think of it I'm not really masked with my family. I'm probably like 50 percent masked with family because all of the traits that are *probably* autism, they just attribute to my personality or me being funny (which I'm rarely actually trying to be funny but I'll take it). But other things like sensory issues, I hide because I learned to from a young age.
    I think for black people who are autistic, there is a high chance that their family members who might likely have autism weren't able to be diagnosed at all because they had to "mask" their blackness (code switch and such) and deal with racism in the mental health industry (aka mostly having research for white boys with autism). Like my mom, dad, grandparents, for example, wouldn't have any time or space to determine if they were assimilating into whiteness to survive, let alone if they had autism. My grandma was diagnosed with depression, but I live with her now and wonder if something else is actually the root of her depressive symptoms, but the psychiatrists never considered it because of who she was.
    So, I wonder if they were able to get tested today, how many family members would have adhd or autism or both. Anyways that's my little rant I guess.

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +7

      I love this! Seriously, hit the nail on the head.

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Part of me realizing I might be autistic was looking at the symptoms and seeing my mother and sisters and a nephew as having traits. And my children too.
      Finally one sister confirmed that everyone I suspected was autistic . BUT she doesn't think I am, and asked "Why would you want to be called that?". Like it's a bad thing. OMG because it explains EVERYTHING!! And she hasn't lived with me since I was 16 so how would she know? Plus I'm the only family member with epilepsy which can be comorbid with autism.

    • @DJ5780
      @DJ5780 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@recoveringsoul755epilepsy can be co morbid with autism? I was suspecting that a cousin of mine was autistic and he has epilepsy as well. Interesting.

  • @flexibrain7018
    @flexibrain7018 Před rokem +72

    I HAD SO MANY ANGER ISSUES AS A KID 15:00
    then I stopped masking and now I'm chill af (most of the time)

    • @30000beesinatrenchcoat
      @30000beesinatrenchcoat Před rokem +8

      I feel like my anger issues are a result of my autism, although I am still a tiny human who naturally masks (but not very well lol). Also I probably have a myriad of other mental problems which means I’m either the most overstimmed person alive or a complete nihilist.

  • @kaylanek1
    @kaylanek1 Před rokem +39

    Me crying because I feel understood by these strangers but not by my family but also crying because I don’t feel like I am aloud to relate.

  • @ErutaniaRose
    @ErutaniaRose Před rokem +119

    Love this. Really felt the one at 36:05, especially with the feeling of saying something nuanced...then allistics interpreting it as an extreme--then saying that YOU have black-and-white thinking...even though they got rid of the nuance and not you. Or the idea that you can state an objective fact and not agree with it or like it. Like, I don't like it but it's true--and somehow that makes you the bad guy??
    Idk, just really felt it.

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +20

      I totally understand!! Its just crazy how eye opening it is to hear it from someone else and finally kind of understand it

    • @kenzij
      @kenzij Před rokem +12

      Ooh. That one reminded me about how I tried to explain to my NT dad one time that I feel bad for the people who *_just_* have an attraction to children (as in have never acted on it) because they can't help that their brains are deviant. This turned into a whole discussion about how I wish nothing but the worst for people that hurt children, but I'm not ready to imprison those that haven't.

    • @jenniferliggett6385
      @jenniferliggett6385 Před 9 měsíci +1

      You are not alone in really feeliing that one, and I am just realiziing that I probably fall somewhere on the spectrum. I just lost almost a decade-long friendship because of this, and along with what the preceding person said, "I hate everybody at this point who has treated me like sh*t over the years."

    • @KittoChan9
      @KittoChan9 Před 6 měsíci +2

      "Or the idea that you can state an objective fact and not agree with it or like it" YES. some times I give up talking because I know i will need to tie myself into knots disclaiming the things that I say, because I know somebody will take it the wrong way. i feel as if nobody just automatically senses nuance like me and its frustrating.

  • @ZantePrayer
    @ZantePrayer Před rokem +39

    Oh my goodness 8:27 is so relatable. I struggle with conversation and don't know how to carry it without relating to someone by using a lot of 'me's, 'I's, etc. and talking about myself. I'm constantly trying to find a balance with people I'm not close to about how much I make it 'about me' without meaning to. Even just writing a comment like this makes me think about it 'cause I'm making it about my experience! I know I'm not self-centered but it can be a struggle to not come across as such, I just have a lot of empathy.

    • @oOLiveInWonderlandOo
      @oOLiveInWonderlandOo Před 8 měsíci +5

      What I try for a while now: ive read that people enjoy conversations most wehn they have a slightly larger speakingtime (like 60:40, but ofcause depends on the person) so i try to relate with a story of my own, that is shorter than theires (which is easy for me) and then encourage them to speak again by asking a related question.
      And then max two questions in a row before telling an owne anekdote again. Ive been told more questions feel like being interviewt and not like a conversation.
      Had to train that for a while XD

    • @kaizey
      @kaizey Před 4 měsíci +1

      I’m so confused by that clip, actually! To me the concert example sounds like a perfectly nice way to respond. Is it really considered rude?? Crap…

    • @ZantePrayer
      @ZantePrayer Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@kaizey I know right! I suppose that just means people like you or I wouldn't think anything of it, but I keep hearing about how NTs don't like that sort of thing...? >_< Makes me so conscious when I do it.

  • @Senfree
    @Senfree Před rokem +38

    The last one, when I realized how much trouble someone of color would get into trouble for autistic behavior, I got so mad, and had to have a angry stimming session.
    I know I had a hard time growing up, but the thought of what Autistics of color (is that a weird thing to say) have to go through growing up breaks my heart and enrages me.

  • @flexibrain7018
    @flexibrain7018 Před rokem +64

    proprioception is definitely a mood for me xD I'm always running into things gah

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +12

      Same here!!

    • @kaylanek1
      @kaylanek1 Před rokem +5

      Literally reading this is hit myself with my water bottle

    • @dry_strawberries
      @dry_strawberries Před rokem +2

      I hit my leg to a desk really hard just this morning lol. I'm so undiagnosed help lol

    • @dry_strawberries
      @dry_strawberries Před rokem +1

      I'm having a breakdown rn sorry if I sounded weird

    • @flexibrain7018
      @flexibrain7018 Před rokem +2

      @@dry_strawberries nah i didn't notice anything. sorry you're doing bad *sending support lasers*

  • @Lillyluvsanime
    @Lillyluvsanime Před rokem +17

    18:21
    Me, being AuDHD: my brain is constantly doing thinking, even if it's just incoherent humming, my brain doesn't shut up. Or, I'm thinking about the concept of thinking and thinking about me thinking and what my voice feels like in my own head. My thinking is mostly dialog paired with faint, sometimes blurry, sometimes clear but cartoony images but not ever vivid to the point where it's like I'm seeing it physically in front of me unless I'm reading.

    • @Chaos_WolfAC
      @Chaos_WolfAC Před rokem +3

      Yes! Especially at night when you're trying to sleep

    • @datravelthetraveller9156
      @datravelthetraveller9156 Před 11 měsíci +1

      It doesn’t help that I used to be into typology, which tend to center around thought patterns lmao

    • @Bu.T.F.I
      @Bu.T.F.I Před 9 měsíci +1

      Sooo trueeee

  • @jayabee
    @jayabee Před rokem +11

    Definitely the people telling me I'm intimidating and I have no idea why. Also the being shocked at anyone's dishonesty. And the jumping into conversations if they are about something I'm interested in.

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +3

      Yeah I do those things as well. I feel like I'm trying so hard to relate esp when I'm jumping into conversations. Like I'm not trying to be nosy I just overheard you and I thought we could have a conversation together about it.. Idk neurotypicals are difficult to navigate with all of their rules and such hahaha

    • @jayabee
      @jayabee Před rokem +1

      I'm 56 years old and social stuff is still a mystery sometimes. Lol

  • @teddyjlockwood
    @teddyjlockwood Před rokem +42

    Random thing, but at 22:50, I love the smell of the air conditioning. The house I grew up in had the best smell I would literally just sit with my nose pressed against the vent because it smelled so good. Thinking back, I guess my parents must have just explained that away as them having a weird son

    • @Exhausted905
      @Exhausted905 Před rokem +8

      Honestly me with a winter blanket I used to have as a child. I loved the smell n texture sm that even in the warmer weather I’d want it. I liked it so much that even if I’d sweat becuz it wasn’t made for warmer weather, I still cried when my mom took it away and switched it with a seasonally appropriate blanket

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +5

      the tism at work for sure haha

    • @nooneasked6379
      @nooneasked6379 Před rokem +5

      same! the fridge too

    • @garretswag5475
      @garretswag5475 Před rokem +5

      for me i love the smell of heaters and irons

    • @Chaos_WolfAC
      @Chaos_WolfAC Před rokem +4

      I still do this! And it's such specific smells too

  • @_makiei
    @_makiei Před rokem +17

    3:55 you don’t know how much I cried when I realized this is what I’m struggle with for so long.

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +6

      😞😞 a healing cry maybe! A less lonely cry

    • @_makiei
      @_makiei Před rokem +6

      @@noiseforautism It's more like a release cry. Because I finally have the answer for what I'm dealing with my whole life other than just "I'm not normal"

  • @TheLocalArtist
    @TheLocalArtist Před rokem +28

    OML THE VOICE THING IS SOMETHING I CAN DO ALOT 💀
    (Also hello y'all look amazing today ^^ and yes I'm autistic-)

    • @TheLocalArtist
      @TheLocalArtist Před rokem +4

      /pos/srs btw 👍

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +5

      All the time same here it's rough haha

    • @moonbowcraze1632
      @moonbowcraze1632 Před 3 měsíci +1

      its hard for me to sing a song with my own normal voice because im always imitating their voice lol

  • @danycracks4490
    @danycracks4490 Před rokem +18

    Idk if this is the tism but I've always struggled understanding school things and directions. It's why I did badly in highschool. I didn't know what my resources were and felt scared to ask. So teacher's probably thought I didn't care about school but I just felt so lost and was suffering in silence. And now after 2 years I'm trying to go to college but even the enrollment process is confusing me. I'm probably gonna have to call to confirm I'm understanding it right. 🤢

  • @cowsonzambonis6
    @cowsonzambonis6 Před rokem +12

    Please don’t cut off the channel name- it’s better to give the creator credit, and it took me 10-15 mins to track down a creator I wanted to share.

    • @hiddenmutant
      @hiddenmutant Před rokem +7

      THIS!!! I don't have tiktok and I don't want to use it, but I wanted to know more about these creators; specifically the guy who talks about "am i faking my autism" in the therapy sketch, and the girl who explains her experience as a non-traumatized autistic. Neither were included in the "list" in the description :C

    • @cowsonzambonis6
      @cowsonzambonis6 Před rokem +4

      @@hiddenmutant if we’re thinking about the same therapy sketch, that’s the one I was hunting down- it’s by generic art dad.

  • @Astr0_Man
    @Astr0_Man Před rokem +16

    me literally JUS NOW connectin my anger issues to possibly bein a 'meltdown'(i hate that word so much bc it infantilizes autistic ppl): *surprise pikachu face*
    me realizin that maybe i wasnt gettin so burnt put from constantly maskin my whole life bc i let some stuff slip when around friends or by myself or by stimmin in less obvouis ways(ie chewin on my tongue/lips/cheeks, doodlin, hummin, singin, etc) or by actively avoidin things that would set me off as much as possible or even jus bein in theatre bc i can act as 'wild' and 'dramatic' as i wanted: *surpise pikachu face*

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +1

      it's crazy how much we can learn from other people!! I'm so glad this helped you understand yourself a little more!!

    • @Astr0_Man
      @Astr0_Man Před rokem

      @@noiseforautism yea, tho honestly that was like the uh 5th??? video/tiktok about them before i fully realized wut they actually were

    • @Chaos_WolfAC
      @Chaos_WolfAC Před rokem

      When i was a kid I used to have "tantrums" which were actually autistic meltdowns and would get punished for them

  • @recoveringsoul755
    @recoveringsoul755 Před 11 měsíci +6

    I just want to thank everyone in the comments who considerately included timestamps in their replies. I guess i should add that to traits because regular video comments threads barely have anyone do that. And clearly the comment is regarding a specific part of the video not the entire thing.
    But they expect us to guess what they're referring to?

  • @panasado7886
    @panasado7886 Před rokem +5

    Got my first diagnostic session today and I wish I had seen the 25:15 video earlier! I tried to describe my "meltdowns" but was nervous and couldn't. I relate so much to how he's explaining that I wanna cry lol

  • @budgetforsuccess835
    @budgetforsuccess835 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I got in trouble working at Best Buy because I “offended” a customer by relating to him through a past experience involving technology which apparently he took as me saying his son is a spoiled brat. My manager took me to her office and told me all of that information that I just mentioned and she asked if I noticed the change in tone…..I’m autistic no I did not.

  • @windler763
    @windler763 Před 10 měsíci +2

    im always so worried that the way i try to connect with people by relating my experiences to theirs comes off as self centred, but at least its forced me to think about different avenues the conversation could go down. usually theres a lot more to talk about when i do that, so i dont see it as a huge bother - but at the same time i burn with the need to let people know "oh my god yeah i completely get that etc etc"

    • @xfreja
      @xfreja Před 4 měsíci +1

      fr i’m always scared about that but i don’t know how else people continue conversations

  • @Bear_the_shepherd
    @Bear_the_shepherd Před rokem +27

    I think I'm a section B autistic, I'm gonna use that and (politely) confuse people :)

  • @piiinkDeluxe
    @piiinkDeluxe Před rokem +2

    1:55 where it's way more useful: acting and learning languages!
    It has always been easy for me to pronounce foreign language sounds. 😊

  • @BlairMountainNetwork
    @BlairMountainNetwork Před 11 měsíci +2

    ❤ @2:14 Cause I'm ADHD as hell & was misdiagnosed 3x as Bipolar until friends & family finally wrote why they KNOW I'm ADHD to take to a DR for my 1st accurate diagnosis @ age 35.

  • @jasonturl6548
    @jasonturl6548 Před 6 měsíci

    "Where are your pants?" 🤣🤣🤣 feel seen Brilliant! Needed a laugh this morning, thank you.

  • @antoinettefuller5519
    @antoinettefuller5519 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I really appreciate you having black peoples experiences of autism and adhd cause I rarely see people like me. Thank you 😊

  • @littlewyzard
    @littlewyzard Před rokem +6

    sometimes i wish that people saw me as intimidating because i never get taken seriously or respected by anyone besides my very close friends :(
    grass is always greener on the other side i guess

    • @piroshk1968
      @piroshk1968 Před rokem +1

      its the same when people find you intimidating.. it sucks but stay strong and stay close to those who do respect and take you seriously ❤

  • @Bu.T.F.I
    @Bu.T.F.I Před 9 měsíci +1

    I really love the one with the three boiler tanks 😂😂 so me!

  • @DJ5780
    @DJ5780 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Wow I relate so hard to having to mask when receiving gifts. Thats why I've always hated secret santa or white elephant get togethers, I just didnt know why

  • @newbeginnings4933
    @newbeginnings4933 Před 10 měsíci

    All of this is gold, pure gold!!

  • @user-li8hm1ru2s
    @user-li8hm1ru2s Před rokem +5

    0:36 THATS ME! I can tell "how" someone is speaking and immediately imitate them after just hearing them say a view words. I also pick up accent very fast witch can get embarrassing because people tend to think I'm doing it to mock them.

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +1

      I do this and people get so annoyed its tough hahahah

    • @user-li8hm1ru2s
      @user-li8hm1ru2s Před rokem +1

      @@noiseforautism English is my second language, I watch a lot of interviews from my favourite band and the members all have a very strong British accent so whenever I speak English I sound exactly like them 🫣 Sometimes people think I come from England.

  • @tobyisaracoon
    @tobyisaracoon Před rokem +2

    3:30 this is a very importance factor. I am still waiting for my evaluation and non of my doctors have diagnosed me with bipolar, even the ones who have told me i have the disorder. They all want to wait for my evaluation to get done so they can rule more things out, like Major Depression which i have been misdiagnosed with.

    • @zombinary3138
      @zombinary3138 Před 11 měsíci

      I was one of the unlucky few to have been diagnosed with bipolar without any further testing. The didn’t officially start to diagnose me with autism until I was eleven , but they diagnosed me with bipolar disorder at nine.
      Edit: even then psychologists were flippant and dismissive of me until I was 14 and we had to fight tooth and nail to have it be officially diagnosed.
      They were so willing to ignore the symptoms of what I actually had because of the stigma of girls and afab people not even being considered to have the potential to be autistic, that they diagnosed me with not one but two incorrect disorders ( Bipolar and ADHD) both of which extremely stunted my progress in understanding myself and how to adapt properly. Being misdiagnosed was so damaging socially and emotionally and never had I felt more like I had been the problem than that time.
      I hope with this recent boom of people speaking out on their experiences and advocating for better treatment that it will become a thing of the past!

    • @tobyisaracoon
      @tobyisaracoon Před 11 měsíci +1

      @zombinary3138 I hope so too the only reason I got diagnosed with Bipolar before my evaluation is because I have type 1 and have obvious symptoms like hallucinations and mania. I finally got my evaluation finished but I won't get my results for a few weeks. Doctors are only just now finally agreeing with me after almost 2 years of me saying I may be on the spectrum. My parents ignored my symptoms along with their own neurodivergentsies.

  • @aidenschmitt6487
    @aidenschmitt6487 Před rokem +19

    When I was referred to get an autism diagnosis I found out my mom had been trying to get me tested ever since she had another neurotypical child and realized I wasn’t normal and my doctor just didn’t believe her

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +5

      Aww thats so sad! Im sorry your doctor wasn't will to at least investigate the possibility for so long.

  • @coleworldcole9438
    @coleworldcole9438 Před 11 měsíci

    Whoever made this thank you I laughed so hard. When you know you know

  • @unknownunicorn567
    @unknownunicorn567 Před 15 dny

    12:04 NOT ME THINKING SHE'S TALKING ABOUT GIFS AT FIRST🧍‍♂️

  • @idkwhatever9561
    @idkwhatever9561 Před rokem

    Thank you for these, they really make my day!

  • @redberriepi
    @redberriepi Před 8 měsíci

    The experience at 16:04 is so so awesome to experience personally, that breath of fresh air means a lot. The more I watch these videos the more suspicious I am that my “weird personality” isn’t actually all that unique 😭

  • @KL-zt6jx
    @KL-zt6jx Před rokem +2

    34:45
    Lol. Vibing indeed.

  • @Star_Rattler
    @Star_Rattler Před rokem +8

    very good compilation! thanks!

  • @hanabanana8127
    @hanabanana8127 Před rokem +3

    Oh my god
    Structural dissociation
    I have it
    *I totally have it*
    Immediately went and found all those images and saved them and I'm showing that shit to my therapist because I've been diagnosed with literally everything except what I should be diagnosed with
    It's very simple
    ASD with severe childhood and young adult trauma as a result of abuse because I was undiagnosed autistic and my mother was a monster
    Maybe if we as a society could come to the agreement that not everybody is the same, and maybe if the psychology community can come to the understanding that not just little white boys "get autism", and maybe if we can all agree that bearing a child does not make you a literal saint, it might not be such a goddamn nightmare of a world we find ourselves living in

  • @ma_lino5259
    @ma_lino5259 Před rokem +5

    Please can anyone help find the content creator at 13:15 & 22:00 ? I don't have a tiktok and can't search up his account name at the playlist. Does he have a CZcams channel or Instagram?

  • @Didi......
    @Didi...... Před 3 měsíci

    Seeing other black autisics talking about autism makes me so happy, especially black afab autistics, the person on 38:47 really articulated it so well, plus why is she just like me fr haha

  • @eternallyborn
    @eternallyborn Před rokem

    19:05 I wish I could cry the tears of joy I feel.😢

  • @Kytreeswerving
    @Kytreeswerving Před 10 měsíci +1

    I studied psychology in college. One issue with it is that it uses words, not numbers, to describe things, unlike other sciences. In medicine, we can measure exactly how a drug affects us. In psychology, we can't be that precise. We can't use brain scans to fully understand personalities yet. So, we use words and models. My issue is that we label certain behaviors as 'disorders' when we aren’t sure what 'normal' really is. Also, some early influences in psychology had prejudiced views, which affects how we see things today. Terms like 'neurotypical' and 'neurodivergent' imply we know what's 'normal,' but do we really?

  • @br4tb4by
    @br4tb4by Před 7 měsíci

    That Unofficial Autism List about having Innocent traits 100% applies to me and when I told about it to psychologists they could not explain why I behave and see the world like this. I am in the process of getting an autism diagnosis.

  • @LambOfIcarus
    @LambOfIcarus Před rokem +1

    25:08
    had to audibly breathe out that ending was so frustrating
    was like
    "bitch..."

  • @jackd.rifter3299
    @jackd.rifter3299 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm actually very good at at impressions. I personally think that I'm so good at it and even identifying every voice actor I like because I have facial Prosopagnosia (facial blindness) and rely on people's voices to tell people apart. I also would like diversity in friendships because I actually do love having diverse friendships and it can provide a lot of context and insight to things we don't understand or think about and we gain perspective from that diversity.

    • @YukiLuvsJesus
      @YukiLuvsJesus Před 6 měsíci +1

      I can easily recognize faces but I’m also amazing at voices

  • @SnailTrailJay
    @SnailTrailJay Před rokem +1

    I am so glad the corners of my walls are rounded and not sharp it would be so much worse bumping into walls if they were sharp

  • @Same_Local.Insomnic
    @Same_Local.Insomnic Před 11 měsíci

    2:03 I feel called out

  • @toukatouka3479
    @toukatouka3479 Před rokem +5

    0:36 Oh, god, that’s me. I tend to copy people’s accents (mostly because I don’t want to sound weird to anyone). Unfortunately, it has gotten me in pickles at school. Is that a tism thing?? (Also: could you add subtitles? It doesn’t have to be all typed out, autogenerated subtitles work fine, but for some reason I don’t seem to digest the words as well without subtitles. It’s fine if you don’t want to though!)

  • @debih70
    @debih70 Před 11 měsíci

    This explains a lot . My daughter had said she thought I might be autistic. I relate to it all ….. I never understood why I was the way I am …
    So people will either say I’m super friendly and outgoing and like amazing person or they just don’t understand me which makes me not understand myself……

  • @FRANKEN_BEL_555
    @FRANKEN_BEL_555 Před rokem +3

    0:08 ok now that explains a lot about me😅

  • @ProfessionalKaiju
    @ProfessionalKaiju Před 6 měsíci

    "I be known"

  • @thetova6232
    @thetova6232 Před rokem

    Omg I feel so harud and seen my god is this so nice to see I mean I only found out I am atistic this year at 19 but still this is so nice

  • @resourceress7
    @resourceress7 Před rokem +1

    These are all fantastic. Thanks for putting them together.
    Would you please credit each person and link back to each original video (or at least their channel) in the description box? Thanks.

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +2

      Hi! Thanks so much for your comment. I've just made a list of all of the creators which you can view on tiktok! This is a link to the playlist. You can also find it in the description now! Hope this helps!
      www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ehXskb/

    • @resourceress7
      @resourceress7 Před rokem

      @@noiseforautism much appreciated!
      I'm familiar with several autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD CZcamsrs, but I'm not on tiktok and a ton of these people were new to me. Thanks so much for sharing!

  • @kellyely9113
    @kellyely9113 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I think bipolar is an adaptation to the inability to regulate and process emotions, as is literally the issue that ADHD and ASD people face, but because these "disorders" need to be diagnosed to confirm the mood dysregulation as a result of neurodivergence. ASD and ADHD are vastly misunderstood because they are being studied from the outside and when people are actually neurodivergent, they are gaslight as unreliable resources for information regarding the neurodivegence that they live with. It's mind numbing to try to explain an internal experience of thought or emotional development to someone who literally cannot mentally have the same experience. I have internalized my entire mind to prevent myself from hurting other people with toxic behavior, words or interaction, yet people with ASD "lack empathy" 😂

  • @zowi197
    @zowi197 Před rokem

    Lemme check... Yes 😂

  • @Grace-ri1fo
    @Grace-ri1fo Před rokem

    Holy shit, the second one is literally me

  • @aka.roryyy
    @aka.roryyy Před rokem

    i also must sing & dance in order to not lose my shit. now that i'm relatively newly aware of my autism, i know it means i need to stim & i set aside stimmy time (every day if i can.) 💗

  • @GM_Flynx
    @GM_Flynx Před 8 měsíci

    I want the RBF pin. 😂

  • @tracik1277
    @tracik1277 Před rokem +5

    I like these video compilations but I find it extremely difficult reading text with other sound going on and the text is only there long enough for me to read the first two or three words so I miss a lot of stuff.

  • @calci2679
    @calci2679 Před 10 měsíci

    THE FIRST ONE

  • @JDMimeTHEFIRST
    @JDMimeTHEFIRST Před 11 měsíci

    0:29 yup. All of it

    • @JDMimeTHEFIRST
      @JDMimeTHEFIRST Před 11 měsíci

      When is it appropriate to talk about yourself?
      Apparently, only when you’re neurotypical. When you are autistic, people get upset about it and then interrupt you, give you a dirty look for no reason and talk about themselves more.

  • @KL-zt6jx
    @KL-zt6jx Před rokem

    23:30
    Lol. That's news to me.

  • @KL-zt6jx
    @KL-zt6jx Před rokem +1

    This is for my old peeps. Do y'all remember the tv show "The Pretender"? (I related so hard to the main character and feel like he might have been autistic.)

  • @JoJohXD
    @JoJohXD Před 9 měsíci

    Them my Therapist said "no I'm sure you are not autistic" his wife was an specialist in autism in kids.... I was brooo WTF!! I hate him!

  • @aspidoscelis
    @aspidoscelis Před 11 měsíci

    At 11:40 - Yeah, that sounds about like my experience. I figured it out. I told them. Yup.

  • @jess.singswithleaves6
    @jess.singswithleaves6 Před rokem +7

    It is really irritating that you don't leave the credits or names of people's on their videos. I want to be able to find and follow some of them to help with my journey but I can't. Second... you're stealing content without crediting them. Not cool man.

    • @annaparke414
      @annaparke414 Před rokem

      Yes! I want to find the person at 31.18 but theres nothing there! And usually theres at least the username on the video if its tiktok

  • @daisypage9394
    @daisypage9394 Před rokem

    5:21 once I full force ran into a door because of this it made a really loud noise :(

  • @KL-zt6jx
    @KL-zt6jx Před rokem +3

    9:00
    How the fuck is that not a normal reaction!!!!!
    NT's are a mystery to me. 😅😅😢

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem

      🤣🤣

    • @chilledjuice
      @chilledjuice Před 11 měsíci

      This is how I talk to people because I don’t know how to talk to people and carry or start a conversation

  • @Slipping_thru_the_Seams
    @Slipping_thru_the_Seams Před rokem +4

    where are the credits? did you cut them out?

  • @TheLocalArtist
    @TheLocalArtist Před rokem +2

    Also 191st sub!! ^^

  • @gothkurata
    @gothkurata Před rokem +1

    some of these videos are so quiet and it makes it difficult to follow especially without closed captions..

  • @NoisyBones
    @NoisyBones Před 9 měsíci +1

    I’m really interested in the experiences of autistic AFAB people and how that might relate to racist and sexist stereotypes. I feel like there is a stereotype of black women to be ‘aggressive’ and I wonder if this can lead to people dismissing a potentially autistic woman’s difficulty regulating her emotions because they think that she’s ‘supposed’ to be like that because of her race.
    I’m AFAB of European decent so I’ve personally never experienced that sort of prejudice but something about that double whammy of ablism and racism is infuriating.

  • @tashinaroberts8929
    @tashinaroberts8929 Před rokem +4

    whos the person who did the tiktok in 19:06 (the one with braids), they seem lovely!!

  • @sweetnsafi
    @sweetnsafi Před rokem

    not even 30 seconds in and boom 😵‍💫

    • @sweetnsafi
      @sweetnsafi Před rokem

      ok 3:10 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

  • @knrdvmmlbkkn
    @knrdvmmlbkkn Před 4 měsíci

    04:57-05:30 That's me! (No, not literally.)

  • @TeknuAddict
    @TeknuAddict Před rokem

    Damn the 18:54 tho, hits the nail on the head

  • @Blazzyistrying
    @Blazzyistrying Před 7 měsíci

    TW: trauma? Sensory overload- not having help for it
    Did any other undiagnosed autistic person as a child (keep in mind I might also be misophonic aswell as autistic and I also have ADHD so this could be a very specific experience not many people have) when they were having a sensory overload in class they got really angry because they weren’t getting the help they’d needed for their sensory overload and people saw this as ‘having trouble regulating anger’ so people tried to give you advice on anger regulation and how to regulate your emotions in general, and so you thought for your whole childhood you were just a bad kid because you just thought you got mad at ‘small things’?

  • @artandfiction4534
    @artandfiction4534 Před rokem

    34:49 💀
    Ok but this was like a lesson for me. Don't be offended, cuz they likely don't even know better in the 1st place

  • @jadetea6112
    @jadetea6112 Před 11 měsíci

    All these FYP autism tiktoks are making me question whether or not I may have actually AUDHD or am I just a normal woman. I felt every bit of every POC said very deeply and yet superficially all at the same time.
    I'll let yall know when I get back frok the doc.

  • @kaizey
    @kaizey Před 4 měsíci

    28:39 This is meeee! I don’t ask, I don’t want to seem nosy! I always assume they will tell me if they want to. And I love when people talk to me about stuff they want to talk about… But this is bad? 😢

  • @siregne4343
    @siregne4343 Před rokem

    why the heck I'm most probably neurotypical but still relate to some of the ADHD symptoms LIKE IM CONFUSED 99% PERXENT OF MY TIME BY THAT
    for example, this one 4:51 is so damn relatable, but like i don't have ADHD??? do i have just some light form of adhd or not
    ugghhhh why there are so few of psychiatrists in my country who could actually give me either a diagnosis or an absent of it

  • @Chucanelli
    @Chucanelli Před 6 měsíci

    Can someone tell me who the creator is at 36:03? The link in the description didn’t go anywhere for me. 😢

  • @vanillatwilight1701
    @vanillatwilight1701 Před rokem

    uh oh I have kinesthetic empathy

  • @garretswag5475
    @garretswag5475 Před rokem +3

    subtitles please 😩

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem

      Ill try to turn these on if I can! At least the auto generated. Ill see what I can do in the future about adding them to videos!

  • @artandfiction4534
    @artandfiction4534 Před rokem

    9:45 wait it was kinda like this for me. Confusion?

  • @Letautismbeautism
    @Letautismbeautism Před 6 měsíci

    Autism and childhood trauma don't have to go hand-to-hand. #letautismbeautism #letautismbeautism #earlydiagnosis #earlyintervention #depression #anxiety #trauma #bullying #disability #advocacy

  • @kstarkidd8968
    @kstarkidd8968 Před měsícem

    I love the inclusivity of black autistic people, I feel seeeeen

  • @Bu.T.F.I
    @Bu.T.F.I Před 9 měsíci

    OMGGG 32:04 ! Do People just lack curiosity then??

  • @sarahefarmer298
    @sarahefarmer298 Před rokem +1

    who is the asian girl at 37:34. i'd like to find her channel

  • @sophiaaltomare1649
    @sophiaaltomare1649 Před rokem +1

    Who is the lady at 3:18? I want to hear more of what she had to say about autism and bipolar disorder.

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +1

      Hi! Thanks so much for your comment. I've just made a list of all of the creators which you can view on tiktok! This is a link to the playlist. You can also find it in the description now! Hope this helps!
      www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ehXskb/

  • @suzannebrady6201
    @suzannebrady6201 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Gender affirming voice lessons”?! WTH? 😂

  • @mmmmmmmm9358
    @mmmmmmmm9358 Před 9 měsíci

    Dammm 32:10 that hit so hard

  • @queerantine69
    @queerantine69 Před rokem +2

    Maybe i am autistic
    Or not
    Oh well

  • @umamara7067
    @umamara7067 Před rokem

    Do you have the original link for 31:07 ?

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +1

      Hi! Thanks so much for your comment. I've just made a list of all of the creators which you can view on tiktok! This is a link to the playlist. You can also find it in the description now! Hope this helps!
      www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ehXskb/

    • @umamara7067
      @umamara7067 Před rokem

      @@noiseforautism thank you!

  • @shannonberp
    @shannonberp Před rokem

    Can you list the sources

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem

      Hi! Thanks so much for your comment. I've just made a list of all of the creators which you can view on tiktok! This is a link to the playlist. You can also find it in the description now! Hope this helps!
      www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ehXskb/

  • @blakebleeds
    @blakebleeds Před rokem

    25:08

  • @xsmileyfacedx
    @xsmileyfacedx Před rokem

    Who's the creator at 13:07?

    • @noiseforautism
      @noiseforautism  Před rokem +1

      Hi! Thanks so much for your comment. I've just made a list of all of the creators which you can view on tiktok! This is a link to the playlist. You can also find it in the description now! Hope this helps!
      www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ehXskb/

  • @FuzzyGecko
    @FuzzyGecko Před 11 měsíci

    I hate presents >.< i hate hate hate having to rearrange my whole space to make room for this stupid ceramic frog i never wanted but i have to because telling you i hate it pisses you off and then you snub me for a week cause im ingrateful. ARRRRRRRGGGGGGG

  • @justroyal
    @justroyal Před 3 měsíci

    What is an ACCi dont know btw i am on my dads account my name is star