How To Improve Your Listening Skills

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  • čas přidán 18. 12. 2014
  • What was voted the most annoying workplace habit?
    People Interrupting You When You Are Speaking!*
    We all know who they are. We know how annoying it is when it happens to us so imagine how annoying it is when it happens to your customers and colleagues.
    Don’t let your co-workers carry on this terrible habit!
    www.learningheroes.com
    *according to a brand new poll taken in our office

Komentáře • 159

  • @joshuamendonca4201
    @joshuamendonca4201 Před 4 lety +147

    i had to listen to this for homework

  • @melanin7770
    @melanin7770 Před rokem +6

    As someone who's struggles to listen am very grateful for this video. My biggest issue for me is that I don't get to consume what someone is saying to me I tend to daydream while they talking, sometimes I interrupt them.

  • @theswcoaching
    @theswcoaching Před 3 lety +3

    Great video. Correlating verbal and nonverbal comms makes such a difference.

  • @UselessVoidBobo
    @UselessVoidBobo Před 6 lety +7

    I need this skill to pass the versant test for my job application. Memorizing is a key tool for it too.

  • @kantz7375
    @kantz7375 Před 8 lety +2

    I'am really thankful for that. Tanks so much again.

  • @DianaLuckysova
    @DianaLuckysova Před 7 lety +6

    what a great video. thank you!

  • @SyuanLin-oy9ql
    @SyuanLin-oy9ql Před 3 lety

    Thanks for suggestion.It help me a lot on listening.

  • @NancySolariLivingFullOut

    This is wonderful advice! It's such an important skill.

  • @naomiklijs5912
    @naomiklijs5912 Před 7 lety +2

    thank you this is really helpful

  • @poonamghorpade5828
    @poonamghorpade5828 Před 8 lety +3

    Excellent sir!

  • @amberleigh7772
    @amberleigh7772 Před 7 lety +176

    Sorry I wasn't listening what did you say

  • @aruntv9354
    @aruntv9354 Před 5 lety +2

    Best video on listening explained short and simple

  • @Princeunique4life
    @Princeunique4life Před 7 lety +33

    Or you could picture what they're saying. That's what I do

  • @user-rp9yf5sg1h
    @user-rp9yf5sg1h Před 3 lety

    This video helps me know how to listen to others intently. It is a great video!!!

  • @user-rh2br3nf6j
    @user-rh2br3nf6j Před 3 lety +3

    I think everyone should watch this video.
    In modern society most of people already lost their ability to listen.
    Interrupting is very rude and impolite,and I'm really really hate it.
    They need to break this horrible habit.

  • @0485rec1
    @0485rec1 Před 4 měsíci

    I had to watch this twice, because I was focused on how the pickle people looked like pickles and then I started thinking about pickles. I guess I needed this more than I thought.

  • @solarflutter3707
    @solarflutter3707 Před 3 lety +2

    1. 0:58
    2. 1:29
    3. 3:41
    4. 4:07

  • @durganireddy2507
    @durganireddy2507 Před 5 lety +2

    thank you☺️

  • @Afro-Saiyanology
    @Afro-Saiyanology Před 5 lety +4

    I try to focus in on what others say, like...i literally try to use my mind to listen.

  • @paulayim4964
    @paulayim4964 Před 7 lety +9

    Great video.

  • @bigpanda9684
    @bigpanda9684 Před 5 lety +2

    Thanks!

  • @alexscott4772
    @alexscott4772 Před 3 lety +1

    This is a very interesting video well done 👍

  • @user-vg6sl8jv6e
    @user-vg6sl8jv6e Před 3 lety

    It is very helpful to me.I will improve my listening skill more hard-working.

  • @find_peace
    @find_peace Před 3 lety

    so helpful !

  • @user-yt8dm3oq7s
    @user-yt8dm3oq7s Před 3 lety

    Listening to others really important.
    Italo Calvino once said "The meaning of words depends on ears instead of mouth."

  • @jayakumarg9471
    @jayakumarg9471 Před 4 lety +1

    Very good video.. With your permission shall I use this video for my presentation

  • @ragavia612
    @ragavia612 Před 8 lety +3

    thank u!

  • @user-uq9dx3gc9t
    @user-uq9dx3gc9t Před 3 lety

    It helps me a lot on listening.

  • @mohammedabdul2990
    @mohammedabdul2990 Před 7 lety +2

    awesome tips

  • @temesgenyifrashewa4928
    @temesgenyifrashewa4928 Před 8 lety +3

    thanks

  • @mradulkhale3632
    @mradulkhale3632 Před 6 lety

    thnxx 😊

  • @borisgarcia2852
    @borisgarcia2852 Před 8 lety +1

    gracias

  • @coolbrains9354
    @coolbrains9354 Před 4 lety

    Helpful video

  • @becomingdauntless8821
    @becomingdauntless8821 Před 5 lety +6

    4:45 mins - perfect for me with such a short attention span!

  • @yayyayyay9912
    @yayyayyay9912 Před 8 lety +5

    Thank you 😊

  • @user-kl9eq5hv8k
    @user-kl9eq5hv8k Před 3 lety +1

    I need to learn how to focus fully on the speakers because some speak is really boring making me distracted .As a result,I'll miss some important information.

  • @margaretkelberg4672
    @margaretkelberg4672 Před 5 lety +2

    I need this for cadet it is all listing I feel like stupid this helps thanks

  • @eaweir
    @eaweir Před 2 lety

    Would you enable captions for this video? Even auto-generated captions would help quite a lot. Thanks!

  • @helenahayes6150
    @helenahayes6150 Před 5 lety +3

    that was helpful for my assignment - thank you

  • @DarkHill43
    @DarkHill43 Před 7 lety +26

    for some reason when people talk to me either i don't hear them well or i can't focus on what they say
    the weird think when others are talking not to me i can hear them perfectly and understand them with ease
    could someone tell me what the hell is wrong with me ??

    • @iceberg3721
      @iceberg3721 Před 7 lety +1

      Well... it depends on the time of day, the person, and how many things you guys have in common.. so if you're bored or either nervous you tend to get ahead of yourself

    • @kiethkat773
      @kiethkat773 Před 7 lety +2

      Not me i think we have the same situation..

    • @yerasmus4025
      @yerasmus4025 Před 3 lety

      It may be a subcontious trigger of self protection. You may suspect you will be attacked and then you close up.

    • @nigelsanthosh4084
      @nigelsanthosh4084 Před 3 lety

      Anxiety

  • @iffishawal116
    @iffishawal116 Před 11 dny

    00:37 Listening is a powerful tool in the workplace
    01:14 Effective listening skills can help create a safe and productive environment.
    01:51 Stay focused and avoid interrupting during conversations
    02:28 People interrupt conversations because their minds are underutilized when listening.
    03:05 Interrupting others in a conversation can be avoided by keeping your mouth closed and making notes.
    03:42 To avoid interrupting others, write down your ideas and focus on listening more than talking.
    04:19 Effective communication requires setting aside judgment and showing interest
    04:55 Active listening involves showing interest and engaging with the speaker.

  • @divyagohil2050
    @divyagohil2050 Před 3 lety +1

    I had to listen to this for a training sessions

  • @DOERXSTREET
    @DOERXSTREET Před 3 lety +2

    My teacher sent me this link for costumer service class

  • @martareeger4013
    @martareeger4013 Před 4 lety +1

    Is there a way to add captions to this video? The content seems great but Deaf individuals are not able to follow along.

  • @twoking10
    @twoking10 Před 5 lety +7

    This is all fine except for one problem. I have always taken a lot of pride in my ability to be congenial and not interrupt people. The frustrating part is when someone ELSE is always interrupting. What do you do with them? It's great not to interrupt but that leaves you in a quandry. You end up being around total conversation hogs who have absolutely NO interest in including you in it. Or, you are in a group and they are all talking over each other and Mr. Congenial ends up being like a bump on a log all night just because I am trying not to be rude and interrupt anyone. Or, I wait patiently for several minutes while someone else is talking and FINALLY feel like I can say something and then the other person interrupts, of course, lol. It's all well and good to say don't interrupt but it seems to me a just as important people skill is to make sure others are included in the conversation. My observation is that very few people do that.

  • @sumankarki3959
    @sumankarki3959 Před 8 lety +2

    something help me from this chapter

  • @weifan7415
    @weifan7415 Před 7 lety +2

    i am Chinese student.when i listen to English,i always want to change they into chinese that i can understand.now my listening of English is so sort

  • @poojapeswani3594
    @poojapeswani3594 Před 3 lety

    I also for worksheet

  • @lohdiwei9778
    @lohdiwei9778 Před 5 lety +2

    This isn't the advice I want and need.
    What I want to know is, what do I have to do to stress out the bad people so that as soon as they get back to their offices they have a heart attack?

  • @sujayupadhyay9513
    @sujayupadhyay9513 Před 6 lety +3

    sometimes I think too much and almost forgot what my boss asked me to do it.
    And when he ask me about the work at the end of the day , I reply him SORRY SIR I FORGOT.
    seriously I can't control my thoughts.

  • @davidjames4267
    @davidjames4267 Před 2 lety

    I strongly suggest listening to all young men and women.
    You will achieve your goals so much faster if you will train yourself to hear and listen.
    Listening is a talent, it saves time, and it's profitable

  • @jama3335
    @jama3335 Před 5 lety +2

    sometimes I feel like a complete idiot, this is one of those times.

  • @miashen888
    @miashen888 Před 3 lety

    I usually seem judgemental when I'm listening. Maybe I should get rid of the habbit then I could be a
    better listener.

  • @isabellamota2799
    @isabellamota2799 Před 7 lety +1

    good video

  • @buskinglankans
    @buskinglankans Před 7 lety

    I am listening

  • @squeakywhiskers
    @squeakywhiskers Před 3 lety +1

    I still don't understand why does this channel has only 7.7k subs... lol rip for this channel

  • @Trietlikesicecream
    @Trietlikesicecream Před 2 měsíci

    Focus on the speaker: Give full attention, maintain eye contact, and minimize distractions.
    Avoid interruptions: Let the speaker finish before responding.
    Stay non-judgmental: Maintain neutral body language to avoid seeming critical.
    Show interest: Use verbal and non-verbal cues to convey curiosity and empathy.

  • @prachipeshkar3674
    @prachipeshkar3674 Před 4 lety

    It is difficult but most required skill to develop.

  • @MarkElMago
    @MarkElMago Před 6 lety +12

    I was search how improve my listening in english, don't listening people.

  • @gamercrazy890
    @gamercrazy890 Před 3 lety

    Same here dude

  • @gayatrid5531
    @gayatrid5531 Před 4 lety

    Manushree Devargaonkar

  • @or7626
    @or7626 Před 5 lety +2

    1:43

  • @underthesun65
    @underthesun65 Před rokem

    Interrupting...ugh I need to do better

  • @subswithoutvideoschallen-qf2wo

    Everyone i listen to is Boring for me. Especially school classes When i listen to teachers i just watch them without even listening. I don’t know how to listen, and i Can’t even listen to a video like this. But i remember that i could listen beter before. And the funny thing is that when i listen someone is speaking to me i just watch them and think about other stuffs in my head.

    • @healthmintraa4320
      @healthmintraa4320 Před 10 měsíci

      Need to develop interest in reading and listening by beginning with 5 minutes at a time...

  • @professordrabhijitsayamber2299

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  • @user-pl1km3of6s
    @user-pl1km3of6s Před 9 lety +9

    we use it for exam

  • @DevinSymone
    @DevinSymone Před 3 lety

    I think I am a good listener, my friends always cry on my shoulders

  • @kingme974
    @kingme974 Před 2 lety

    This video shows the fact that I'm a bad listener.

  • @neiveythasrri170
    @neiveythasrri170 Před 6 lety +1

    I cannot understanding sorry

  • @pencilonpaper1026
    @pencilonpaper1026 Před 6 lety +4

    I just need to practice listening for Russian...

  • @davidfarmer2049
    @davidfarmer2049 Před 5 lety

    The video was interrupted.

  • @tntdunce6363
    @tntdunce6363 Před 3 lety +1

    Why

  • @bobsandvagene8461
    @bobsandvagene8461 Před 6 lety +3

    im deaf can u help me

  • @tanishqupreti7433
    @tanishqupreti7433 Před 2 lety

    Bad listeners won't ever ponder on this video

  • @ilycupid2261
    @ilycupid2261 Před 5 lety

    I just cant concentrate

  • @nguyenvanlong5410
    @nguyenvanlong5410 Před 7 lety

    I woun listen, no blabla

  • @gr4ystripe18
    @gr4ystripe18 Před 3 lety

    😴

  • @missycromonic2189
    @missycromonic2189 Před 6 lety

    That is my problem, too judgmental, trying my hardest not to be.

  • @MegamanZ9000
    @MegamanZ9000 Před 2 lety

    I thought this would be a boring explanation. but I was wrong.

  • @Madmax93898
    @Madmax93898 Před 6 lety

    It may Help me, but i feel like this is not for beginners !

  • @gabrielgouvea77
    @gabrielgouvea77 Před 7 lety +1

    Subtitles please!

  • @asd70100
    @asd70100 Před 8 lety +3

    I want chat with English to improve communication

  • @cautiondonotsubscribe.1199

    Great video choice! Bet 4/5 of the views are repeats lol

  • @noorahmed5448
    @noorahmed5448 Před 2 lety

    🥰

  • @starnyx3593
    @starnyx3593 Před 3 lety +2

    I’m a kid with ADHD, so listening and focusing is very hard for me. Can anyone else relate?

    • @laprimeramujer2486
      @laprimeramujer2486 Před 2 lety

      Different. Im a kid with autism and an anxiety disorder. And I still struggle with cutting people off , wanting to explain my point and still talking because I don’t like what’s going on or I don’t agree with what there saying. And then I get this icky feeling most of the time. I try following tips. But it’s not easy. And I don’t know if being a Sagittarius has to do with it

  • @wearenotsame24
    @wearenotsame24 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi anyone from SRM Trichy 🤣

  • @nicolas-zb2ie
    @nicolas-zb2ie Před 4 lety

    Que di sen jile ATR

  • @user-wd6ky9pw8w
    @user-wd6ky9pw8w Před 3 lety

    Crawford me nyasha

  • @Mu5icluver
    @Mu5icluver Před 5 lety +1

    I'm sorry but in my personal opinion other than the third rule, these all seem so mundane and obvious, closing your mouth when listening??? and making random expressions of acknowledgement, saying "yes", "really" or "uh huh", pretending to give the impression that you are engaged, this is shit I see so many fake bitches implement and it's all useless unless you are genuinely interested.
    How's about being honest to the point of telling someone that you are not engaged? It seems savage but Iv'e witnessed some people literally just talk because they feel like they are socially inclined to fill the silence with vague unimportant filler, if it's these kind of people your confronted with stop them, tell em to save their breath and ask why they feel the need to talk at all?

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 Před 2 lety

      Are you on the spectrum?
      It seems you have a very narrow view of communicating and its function.
      There are different reasons why different people communicate.
      Yours isn’t the “right” way, nor is it the wrong way. However, to be pejorative and judge the ways others communicate, misses a whole realm of opportunity to learn.
      Peoples wiring is different, not bad or good, just different. People want to be heard, understood and accepted. For some, who haven’t been heard or have been chronically invalidated, they sometimes go on and on. Or, some who go on and on, are external processors, and process by saying things out loud. Yet others, struggle with anxiety and their talking on and on can be a result of that.
      Sure, you can tell them you’re not interested, or to stop…but to zoom out, be curious, give them space (and not be self centered), can sometimes be powerful.
      It’s fair to be kind and direct (not rude and narcissistic) and state your needs and boundaries regarding communication…but that also requires being mindful of others.
      There are people who only take themselves into consideration. There are people who only take others into consideration. There are people who take themselves AND others equally into consideration…and those people are good communicators, and usually have high emotional intelligence.

  • @deathlord_
    @deathlord_ Před 4 lety

    Noice

  • @ww1germany
    @ww1germany Před 2 lety

    No

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    @PugTartz Před 3 lety

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      @rxbyrxd5534 Před 3 lety +1

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      @ddeaf Před 3 lety +2

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      @ddeaf Před 3 lety +2

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    @arifhakimi2671 Před 4 měsíci

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    @user-nz4mg9qd5d Před 7 lety +2

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    @sumankarki3959 Před 8 lety +2

    thanks

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    @samabhai2125 Před 7 lety +2

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