My Husband Is So Jealous, He Checks My Phone Calls
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- čas přidán 15. 02. 2018
- Steve Harvey, Diann Valentine, Keri Hilson, Carrie Ann Inaba & Kimberly Caldwell give advice to a fan in the audience whose husband of 25 years doesn't want her talking to any other man.
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Steve Harvey's emotional intelligence is on another level.
He's awesome.
He nailed it.
Rafael Testai EXTREME
Jordan Brendmoen ummm. yes EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE IS VERY REAL PSYCHOLOGIST USE IT IN ACCREDITED TESTING THIS IS A VERY REAL THING AND IT IS SCORED On a number scale.....not to mentioned my score was 365 😌😌😌😌😌😘 hope i taught ur ass something
Bro he's a beast 😂
High school sweetheart and still in love???? Unheard of so magical they are goals
Man putting goals is so cliche now. It's not goals it's just hard work to get respect for your love. But I can understand cause usually people just play around with people love life till that partner sees how wrong she or he is.
I like program Steve carry on
I’ll be 30 in December and I’ve been with my husband 14 years. He just turned 31. My high school sweetheart. Married 7 years with a 2 y/o son we adopted. Still in love 😍
@@ericabeth1354 if both of you still have that, that's amazing, and I hope it lasts. He just meant it's a rare occurrence for a couple that met in hs, to stay in love
It's not unheard of, it's just really rare
LOVE this!!!!! Married all those years. The way they look at each other...wow....
beautyfrmwithin Word! I don't think he's jealous, I think he's just admiring his jewel!😍😍😍
Vonda Miller Right!!!!!
Indeed! They look like a newlywed couple! 😍 I envy them so much...
I would kill for the love they have lol
That's not love. He's controlling her.
I’m a female and I completely understand where he’s coming from. On top of all the new changes, he knows he has the perfect woman and he’s just terrified of the possibility of losing his best friend, lover, wife, soulmate, and basically his life.
But they’re so sweet that I can tell they’re guna get over this hump
You MUST understand.. seeing as you simply repeated what was said by Steve lol
He's terrified
He's needs to love his self
He needs to have more faith in himself and trust his life partner. Steve nailed it
Kenzita v beurden
i mean he insecure and they are in la😂😂
that man needs a hobby and more friends. been there done that. he hasn't much going on in his life so that new found energy is overwhelming him
Nonya Bizwax he just love her so much that's all. And wants you find that perfect girl and want to get married your barely have time to be with your friends or have a hobbies.
Nonya Bizwax he can't stop it. No way
This is so true. As soon as i got older and busier all those insecurities melted away
You just repeating what they said😅
Wow this really well said and put!
4 women took so long to answer.
Steve just nails it with his real talk!
Well technically it's more of a man issue so these women women wouldn't necessarily get it unless they've experienced it. But yes Steve nailed it. 👏
Disagree
The 4 women ask the right questions for steve to figure out
@@shreyanshsamal9923 No. You are generalizing and that's sexiest
Jealousy and insecurity can wreck havoc on a relationship
Akia LaNae in a heart beat!!!
Wreak**
Hence why I couldn't continue my last relationship, I could do or say no more for him
Akia LaNae ...communication without egos is really their problem...just not explaining what each one is feeling.
Gee thanks, we had no idea.
You already know he’s a loving husband just to go on the show and allow her to talk about problems to an open audience. I watch this show all the time and this is one of the cutest couples I’ve ever seen they put a smile on my face.
I feel bad for the husband. He looks like he doesn’t want to be there. If that wife really loved him she wouldn’t have brought him out and humiliated him in front of television like that
@@eminem2996 yep its kinda humiliating for him to know that alot of ppls knowing he's kinda insecure n jealous but theese woman's don't understand it, maybe he doesn't want her to go at the gym alone because we all know how some of these guys thirsty even if she rejects them they will still try to force them self😂but as they are older the don't really have to worry about breaking up its the younger generation guys mostly have to worry because some of these girls will cheat if the see big cucumber 😂😂#prank
They are really cute❤
The way she looks at him with some much love & happiness!! And the way he looks at her OMG!!! Loved it!
Steve a damn pro.
Yasmine right, he got right to the point!
I strongly agree.
hello lovely i love your comment
Nope
@@JJMRA just shows how lonely u are lol
im glad steve came in. cause the lady"s where talking for over 2 minutes and said really nothing.
to me thats dangerous. it happen al the time, woman who gave the wrong advice to people. this is not a hate mesage.
These 4 woman are such a waste of time.
thank you...experts!!!! my ass
They didn't say a damn thing.
I get so annoyed when the women panels are on cause even though they are concerned almost none of what they say makes any sense cause none of it’s logical thats why they keep arguing against each other.
A woman can explain a woman, but it takes a fellow man to explain and understand another man
I understand that he feels left behind, but he’s just gonna have to learn to keep up! She has found a new zest for life! It could be beautiful if they could find it together. ❤️
Christina can we get married?
With that attitude your probably gonna live a alone life for long !
@@yashashdave123 lol exactly
Yashash Dave lol. Do you mean my attitude? I’ve been married for almost 10 years...
1964sleepy I don’t know a single person that doesn’t change over the course of 25 years...or any amount of years at that! You can still support your spouse and find new interests and activities in life. She is interested in getting him involved and he should be interested in growing and changing as well. It’s not healthy to stay in one place forever.
BEAUTIFUL TO SEE COUPLES EQUALLY YOKED💕LOVE MAKE THE WORLD GO AROUND😇
Phillips Watson so agree.
I do respect this too
Don Corlione
"CHEERS"
🍹😇🍹
Rack pulls and trap bar deadlift
Steve nailed this one. I’m a guy, and I’ve been through almost the exact same situation. It really is a certain type of jealousy that only men experience. It really sucks, and no matter how hard you try to fix it, the jealousy always seems to creep back into your mind. I feel bad for the guy. Seems like a really nice man that is in a tough spot.
Women feel this kind of jealousy too. A jealous wife can drive her husband up the wall too Lots of divorces happen cos of jealousy
It sucks to be dealing with that, but if it helps in any way most women when they lose the weight aren't thinking about the opportunity to cheat. There is an exception to every rule, but if she is the cheating kind she is going to cheat when she's overweight, too. If she lost the weight because she was already cheating and she lost it for the other guy, that is a different situation. But most women when they lose the weight are primarily excited that they get to give that gift of their new hot body to the man they already love and trust. As long as her husband enthusiastically accepts her new body and tells her how sexy she is and how lucky he is to have her, that will be enough to satisfy her to the point that she doesn't need another man. Of course, if the man instead becomes controlling and tries to tear her down because of his insecurities he might lose her, but it's because of the way he is acting, not because she suddenly has options with her new body. I definitely feel bad for the guy because I'm sure the emotions are real, and these two clearly adore each other.
Maybe the reason most women have trouble understanding the insecurity is because a woman's desire to cheat isn't usually based on opportunity. Even the ugliest, most annoying woman in the world technically probably has opportunities to cheat if she really wants to. Most women choose to cheat because they don't feel their partner is fulfilling them emotionally. If you are fulfilling your woman emotionally before she lost the weight, then her losing the weight shouldn't change anything about how much you are fulfilling her emotionally. In fact, if anything a woman may feel even closer to you. You are the one who stood by her when she had more weight, and now that she has lost the weight she can't wait to celebrate her new body with you and pay you back for being there for her when she had the weight. If you let her know how proud you are of her and how much you love her and make her feel sexy, in most cases a woman loves her partner even more after she loses weight if for no other reason than it increases her confidence.
Once again, I'm only sharing the mindset to help. I'm sure the insecurity is very real and biologically based, and I feel sorry for any man having to deal with that. If a man thinks the lost weight is a sign of infidelity rather than a potential cause of future infidelity he shouldn't ignore that feeling. And if a man allows his insecurities to cause him to not treat his partner right those insecurities could become a self-fulling prophecy, but it's because of the insecurities, not the weight. I don't personally know of a single woman who decided to cheat because she had lost weight and now suddenly had more opportunities to cheat. She might enjoy the occasional comment from strangers because it is validation that she has done hard work and makes her feel sexy, but that usually doesn't suddenly escalate to a desire to cheat. In general, that's just not how women are wired. If anything, a woman losing weight is her way of showing you how much she loves you. There's an old saying that if you are invited to a feast the best thing you can do is show the host how much you enjoy the gift. And when it comes to a woman that loves you losing weight, it's the same principle.
Steve got it 100% right, even all the girls on the panel were surprised, "This is a male problem"
Yo it is really difficult to make male friends man. You do not want to come across weird. Some of these dudes think you are hitting on them when it is so not like that. Dudes are weird, myself included. Steve is 1,000% correct
Edward Greene Hmmm, I always thought males had it easier making new friends bc of sports (even just discussing it) and athletics etc. Like joining an amateur sport or working out at gym or going to a sports bar to watch games etc. Learned something new.
Edward Greene I don't want to creep you out, but you're handsome 😃
Leah B Thank you, not creepy at all.
Leah B Yes. Very very handsome. :)
Edward Greene Hheeyy. ;)
Steve advice only is so much better!!!
tina:D 8
Also find other like couples and go out together! This segment made me smile!
sharaya goss good answer. Hanging out with other couples would be great for them.
That's a great idea
Now they are relationship goals, after 30 some years of being together they still have sparks in their eyes when looking at each other. I want this one day.
me too but i gave up
@@lovleymoon7430 sorry
The women babble on with nonsens for 4 min then the man wraps up the problem in 20 sec...
Yes, so True.
That's the way of life
She’s pretty I like her complexion. I know how she feels.
She has a huge forhead that you can land a plane on it.
TheIzzidor Shut the hell up and go be negative somewhere else.
..sexy and sweet too..bless her
Aaaawwwww,,, they don't look like they've been married 25years AT ALL👏👏
They are so adorable! You can see that they really love each other. May God continue to keep them in a healthy relationship full of mutual respect, realistic boundaries, effective communication, and unconditional love.
Steve is a one-man panel who can solve any problem. He made the other panelists look like furniture. 🤣🤣
You're a cruel person😅
@@meilina3475 I'm so sorry 🤣🤣🤣
😲🤣 FUNNIEST COMMENT EVER🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥
@@INFORMATIVESITUATIONS sorry for being so blunt.🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't get why they wouldn't just got to a marriage counselor instead national tv. Jmo
Perhaps they got paid by steve.
And the marriage counsellor would've charged them?
IT'S FREE 🤷🏽♂️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
One pays whilst the other is free with better advice that can be solved within 20 seconds
Well it might help others who can't afford counselors
Hats off to Steve for analysing the problem in a way that's understandable.
When the segment began I knew Steve would save the day...
when she said we have been married for 25 years she waited expecting people to clap first before she continued. Unfortunately no one clapped lol.
Thabang Kabo nete fela🤣
Wow O stout Thabang🤣🤣
wow how many tswana are gonn see this?
Thabang Kabo 😂😂😂 i just did,leha kele lata
The cure to jealousy and insecurity is creating your own self worth based on fulfillment of different things to occupy your life.
Tell 'em Steve .. he was like .. ya'll keep talking, i got this :)
On a side note . . he needs to just get over it quickly!
your profile pic is melanin beauty personified
Rosa thanks so much
this really made me smile. they seemed so relieved after this segment. kudos to Steve!!!
Chris, she loves you. This was so sweet to watch, hopefully he will take Steve's advice and give her some "me" time because they are in love.
This couple has what everyone else dreams about! Beautiful couple on all levels! Protect what you got!
Yu could see the satisfaction in Chris eyes when Steve talked 😂💪
Keri is a goddess. So beautiful.
Yessss 😍😍
Word up
Omg 😍😍
Yup facts Miss Keri baby ❤️❤️❤️✌🏾
Steve is sharp and has a high level of emotional intelligence. Big Up
I got so emotional with this episode. Steve is the real deal and hits the nail on point so many times. His mind is indeed sharp as Marjorie stated and his words are so genuine. Kudos.... Alllllll the way
He's going to loose her if he doesn't stop his insecure behavior I live with for 23 yrs I had to leave for my sanity. JEALOUSLY and prosessiveness is a sickness of the mind.
Maria Boyce She ain't going no where. They been married 25 years. That means something. I believe they will figure it out
Maria Boyce I 100% agree. Someone constantly needing reassuring becomes a full time job. It is draining. It takes an emotional toll on you. Over time it builds up and it inhibits your ability to live a full life, and that's no way to live. You have to make a choice your sanity or theirs.
giveagoodsong bc his ass out there looking that’s why
I feel like they really underplayed the issues she explained. Like this is borderline abusive behaviour. Not letting her walk down an isle because of a man? Contacting her cell phone provider that is not just being protective or insecure it is unhealthy and sounds controlling. Idc how many yrs they have been married she should really reconsider her future with this guy because this is not normal behavior at all.
Tianna Miller if it was like that from the start I’ll understand but it’s only been happening since they lost the weight. Given the time together and the short time of this issue, I would just try to fix it. Plus they seem to love each other very much. Fix it if things don’t change in a year or two then prepare to end it.
This is so rare nowadays, I had to watch it again. I’m a 33 year old hairy man who looks like King Kong but the love between those two people got me tearing up.
Ooh ohh ooh
That really warmed my heart. You can tell they are BEST FRIENDS who happen to be married. #BlackLove
Love is not a possession.
Right !!! He has and DANGEROUS issue..and I've been with a man like him...who ended up... beating me..😡😤
This type of MAN is Paranoid 😡 and needs cancelling...I bet she can't go to the grocery store by herself....and since he ask her NOT to go down certain grocery store isles...he's calling her a "slut" and he is probably CHEATING himself... because he doesn't TRUST her...no TRUST...you have NOTHING...This is CONTROL...This type of MAN...demands that you stand NEXT to your phone when he calls...run Sista run ...
Nawww cuties... great to see positive stuff .. much love to this beautiful couple xox
Ya'll got my 30 weeks pregnant, married for just 4 years self bawling! 😭 Their love is so obvious and serious GOALS!!!
How could they be married for 25 years and he still doesn't trust her enough with social media, phone calls, etc??? 🤔😒🙄
Andy Saenz
She's losing weight and females don't suddenly do that for no reason unless they are looking to get another person. Females have been known to do this all the time. He knows what is likely going to happen and is not blind to it. After all this time to be suddenly losing weight is enough to trigger suspicions about what her motives are.
She could just be losing weight for her health dude; it doesn't mean she is looking to get another person. Also, did you catch the part where they said they lost weight together?
@@johnreed9050 guess that means he has intentions too since he said they lost weight together huh 😒
@@Mzmissy215
It's possible that might be in the works.one can never be sure.
@@johnreed9050 so women only loose weight to go on the hunt for men? Are you serious rn??
They are sooo adorable!
I agree 💫
I don't understand how anyone can think this is goals. He is deeply insecure and controlling. He's contacting the phone company and telling her to not go down an aisle because there is another man there?! That is insane and abusive behavior. Nothing "goals" about this at all!
misskingstonjamcutie yeah they overlooked the things she was saying when she first started due to the fact they've been together 25+ years
Exactly! This is not a sweet story at all!
You may be right but I honestly believe that this is just boredom on his part. I fully fully believe that if he has something to do with his time, he wouldn’t be so jealous. Idleness can cause people to do some really strange things 😅
She’s been married to him for 25 years and it appears that it’s only really been an issue in the last 4 years or so. That tells me that this isn’t a character-based flaw but is likely more situational. I say he need to take Steve’s advice: get more friends and get some hobbies. If he’s still jealous *then* we can call him malicious and abusive.
My thoughts exactly!
Relax
I've realized dudes who come together with their partners on Steve's show with their confrontational issues putting away shyness and forgetting they are on TV alone shows how committed they are willing to make their relationship work together for good just like the dude right there with his babe. Bless up ✊
Uncle Steve's advice is amazing! Those four guests on the show combined had nothing intelligent to add 😂😂
yep - that panel is worthless
Wow it's so obvious they love each other so much. Got a little misty eyed watching this. So very sweet.
If u man asks to check ur phone there is insecurities there or he knows he is doing wrong so he wants to flip the script on u to throw u off . So if he asks for ur phone than u ask for his. If he has a problem with that than he definitely is got something to hide point blank.
Amber Bell yep. He is possessive and controlling. This is scary behaviour if this was a younger couple they would have come from a more empathetic approach. Just because they have been together a long period of time doesnt mean they are in a healthy relationship
Another great idea
That why people like you guys should stay single.
Am in tears just seeing how this couple is! So sweet n touching!
Such a beautiful couple. Heartwarming to know u can still see stuff like this
Steve Harvey for 2020! This man speaks nothing but the truth!
LOVE this. Respectful love
I’m so glad she asked for his perspective too, even if he is wrong. I very much respect her
awww their soo cute u can see the real love they have for one another
Awwwwwwwwww Steve gives the best advice damn,says everyone else mind and the end problem becomes so light and freeing
Chris just tripping'! Perfect!
I was filled with tears to see these love birds.
They way they looked at each other 💘 oh my heart
It's awesome that they ask for the husband's side too.
I love Mr. Steve advices
Awesome. May positive energies bless you two always
Their embrace at the end made me cry 😢 💕💞💝
What a wife.. What a couple 😊!!!
Goals
I agree with Steve’s advice. Nothing to be worried about because it's all yours and she will be come home to you every night. In every relationship both of you need to have trust in your partner in order to make your relationship strong!
God bless this couple ! They look so good together !!
They are so beautiful it makes me cry!
They are not calling him on it. His behaviour is inacceptable. She can't walk down the grocery aisle
Sista...I was in a relationship like this once...and he started accusing me of cheating whenever I just needed to go to the grocery store...He evitually nutted up and tricked me over to visit...locked me in his bedroom and beat me all night long...I had to escape
"This isn't about infidelity, it's about Chris tripping", nicely said Mr. Harvey
This was so beautiful. I thought this would be a different show but this was so cute. Thank you!
Thank you steve i needed to hear that
AWE!!! That was SO CUTE! Yeah, he just needs to find a couple of guys friends, start doin an activity that he likes to do, like golfing and then he'll meet other golfers or any sport. LOVE this panel of women that u have questions answered by. 💜
Getting her cell phone records is a bit past "he needs friends" and "she lost 60 pounds." They're making assumptions about his personality and their relationship, and went easy on him.
This is the most adorable couple that I've seen in a very long time
Absolutely LOVE this couple. Super Sweet!! :)
I lost it when Steve raised his hand🤣🤣
Love Keri on this show, it suits her and she's so wise. Love the couple too. Man needs to go make some friends and pic up some new hobbies...let your wife shine
So beautiful yes Steve understands the mind of this gentlemem very well😄
This couple is so in love. God bless them.
That is so true, I lost my husband being jealousy and insecurity.
Omg I love them. ❤ such love .
Still looks like they just started dating
Wow, they are soooo beautiful. I got chills.
Steve is always on point 👌
My first thought was,Honey he is cheating on you! He is projecting!
I might be wrong but i still feel that.
Carrie Ann and her fiancé just broke up...what’s she doing on a relationship panel????
English Garden
For flip side perspective. She may keep failing the test but she sure knows where to find the classroom.
Good point!
They are so adorable!!!! I'm crying !!!!!!
I love them May God bless and keep them always
ugh I love love. ......love the world!!!!🏆🏆🏆
Steve you are the man, you are always on point.. God bless you man
I love this couple...beautiful...soo sweet
Steve Harvey is truly a national treasure!!
Forest whitaker?
Forest Whitaker is DANGEROUS and will BEAT her like in the movie "Jason's Lyric"😡😤
It's weird and scary how people think this is sweet and inspiring, and how much they all downplayed this. He won't let her walk down a grocery aisle if there is a man there. He calls the phone company to get her cell phone records. He can't control that behavior just because some people on a show told him to get a life and stop being insecure.
Because they’ve been married 30 years and they can tell by the body language he meant no harm
Because he clearly doesnt want to be doing that and they both want their marriage to work out. Hes just having a rough time at the moment and needs some help feeling secure. Theres nothing wrong with that as long as theyre trying to make it work and fix underlying issues.
She's GORGEOUS !!!! They look good together🥰
Hi Steve..so loving your show always tuning in,you always giving some good advices love you so bad and your family
this is better than the real. lol
hotjavascript #facts.... but Tamar needs to tone it down when she's on here, i used to like her but she's becoming so over bearing
Way better.
The real is getting really annoying will A talking loud
THAT MAN NEEDS TO CHILL. SHE AIN'T GOING NOWHERE
Do you say that when these crazy women do the same thing?
One of the best couples
I can see the pure love in there Heart