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Komentáře • 356

  • @Johnjackjack
    @Johnjackjack Před 3 lety +197

    Honestly break ups are the craziest, most trajic, but growing experience of my life

  • @timelesswords6826
    @timelesswords6826 Před 11 měsíci +19

    Bad times don't last forever, always remember that. Do the things that makes you happy. Enjoy your life! Smile and stay happy😃

    • @aiden_zae
      @aiden_zae Před 9 měsíci

      i love this words. thanks for writing it. i needed this.

  • @zebokamalova3724
    @zebokamalova3724 Před 4 lety +44

    Thank you Alex! Your advice about no contact worked with my ex!
    I did everything what you suggest...I stopped thinking about him, concentrate on my personal growth. As a result, he suddenly called , said he missed me so much but I changed my mind totally that I won't him back with me.
    I don't know how to express my gratitude!😄

  • @karlashmeedavlasta6365
    @karlashmeedavlasta6365 Před 3 lety +16

    My ex doesnt want to lose walking my dog. Crazy but true.

  • @RoopaDudleyPaintings
    @RoopaDudleyPaintings Před 4 lety +102

    Putting all the focus on bettering myself. Beautiful Advice.

  • @annama2680
    @annama2680 Před 4 lety +15

    Nice advice. But we also be honest about why we want our ex back and be honest with our true feelings instead of just keeping him around. Otherwise, we would be like them and try to keep them while we might not see a future with them as well.

  • @staceymariethomson
    @staceymariethomson Před 4 lety +33

    I found this video really helpful. I'm like Jessica losing hope but I'm going to do what Alex said and have a better life for me and my kids 😁 thanks Alex xx

  • @imwatching2960
    @imwatching2960 Před 3 lety +32

    Great advice, Alex! I like how you break down almost any situation like this to the importance of investing in ourselves and not the other person!

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Před 3 lety +3

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  • @natce.s.87
    @natce.s.87 Před 4 lety +14

    My baby daddy says he won’t be in a relationship with me yet he sleeps over a few times a week and comes to me whenever he needs someone to be there for him. He knows I love him and that’s probably why he does it. I want a family for my children but that doesn’t seem to be a priority to him. I keep having hope because he’s around and I think if I can show him how much I care he will want to be with me but that doesn’t work. I have forgiven so much but never seems anything is good enough and I can’t figure out why

  • @gvillepoet
    @gvillepoet Před 3 lety +36

    Or if they feel like they aren't worthy of a great person like you you can't win it over no matter what. If their self love and confidence isn't high as yours and go through their own struggles,, they have to work on that, you can't fix them no matter what or understanding you are.

  • @rebeccajeffery274
    @rebeccajeffery274 Před 4 lety +27

    Have u considered that one of the partners may be on the narcissist spectrum, and u they want to keep their exes as a friends for control? Btw it’s not a power game, a healthy relationship is balanced give and take. If it’s a power struggle for control, it’s not the right relationship for u and not true love. Someone can only love u as much as they love themselves and vice versa.

  • @susantmejaritomejarito2826

    LDR need patience, and keep trust each other,
    And take care your relationship. I hope some day i have LDR.

  • @reneever729
    @reneever729 Před rokem +3

    They do that to check on you and if you are doing bad your ex confirm she made right decisions if you do well your ex will regret to see you thrive!!!💯👌🏻

  • @Vivi-jc4br
    @Vivi-jc4br Před 3 lety +3

    Hello Alex thanks for the advice

  • @droflivelife
    @droflivelife Před rokem +2

    My ex just left me. I was very needy and she is pushing me away and saying definitely no chance of getting back. I'm hurting and can't discipline myself with no contact. She is happy to see me or talk to me but as long as I don't try get back with her.

  • @wordscanchangetheworld9335

    He says he doesn't want to lose me, or see another man love me but he doesn't want to be in A relationship with me bc he is confused and going through personal things, I seen that he made a dating profile looking for a relationship and we haven't even been going through this trouble not even 2 months and we have been together 10 years. He says he wants to be with me and can't see himself settling with anyone and that he knows he is messing up the best thing yet he is still out there talking to other ppl while wanting to still see me and my son that he raised since 6 months, I feel like I'm holding on to a hope for him to change his mind and I'm scared to completely leave and he'll forget me and meet someone else and I hate the thought that I was so easily replaceable and like our beautiful years together were so Easy for him to forget and start a whole new relationship. He just says the word confused all the time. And I find myself trying to change his mind or trying to show him my worth and It just makes me feel incredibly dumb afterwards 😞how did he just change his mind overnight

  • @ednasharma4497
    @ednasharma4497 Před 3 lety +2

    Love you mentor wish to see more of your videos in the near future,lovelots Jed from hongkong

  • @tajninfatama7487
    @tajninfatama7487 Před 3 lety +5

    He chased me but not doing anything. He wants to talk with me that's it.

  • @nathalie5238
    @nathalie5238 Před 4 lety +68

    Ooo I had the same... he really likes me he said. We should remain friends, then he said we should have been friends from the beginning instead of lovers... yeah right but he was chasing me to start with...
    I cutted all contact, telling him a friendship is not an option for me.
    Bye bye... it has been a week now... curious of what will happen... I am moving on and fucussing on my own.
    I have amazing time now and healing, miss him less and less every day 🥰

    • @enrobotics
      @enrobotics Před 2 lety +2

      What happened next? Any update?

    • @kristenfuller9168
      @kristenfuller9168 Před 9 měsíci

      I healed as well he hasn't though. I don't think cuz he keeps messaging me saying hi can we please chat he keeps sending me friend request on Facebook and I don't trust adding him back cuz he hurt me in the past he blocked me while he was in a relationship with me and I'm scared he'll do it again I'm scared he's going to hurt me again all over again. Can't trust him yet my trust is broken still from his actions he did to me my trust hasn't healed

  • @paulinalewismcmurray4434

    Hi I am Irma from Florida,love this message it's just what I am going through

  • @isidroaumada4945
    @isidroaumada4945 Před 3 lety +4

    Bro you are awesome perfect motivation right on point

  • @mashiandlovu4519
    @mashiandlovu4519 Před rokem +1

    U're so experience in this issue this man uses your happiness to make him happy to love the person he love

  • @elizabethlake4665
    @elizabethlake4665 Před 3 lety +1

    Hello Coach Alex!! 😍😍😍

  • @evelynsantos8206
    @evelynsantos8206 Před 4 lety +16

    My ex sometimes calls me and says he misses me but he doesn't want to comeback . He cheated on me after 4 years relationship and he's on a relationship now with that girl.

  • @620annika
    @620annika Před 4 lety +9

    I was in a relationship with for 5 years. I broke up with him 9 months ago to learn to be alone/autonomous/healthy. I haven't dated and tried reconciling after 6 months of separation - the past 3 months have been a wave of mixed messages from him (e.g. wanting to try again, then not wanting to and only friends, then not wanting to be friends, to time and space, to wanting to be friendly and in contact). He said he sees that I've changed, am attractive and shining - and that it's inspired him to now grow himself. But he wants to do it for him, not us. I respect this. I have rebuilt my life and he sees my growth - he wants to stay in contact on the phone but not dating. It seems friendly. No flirting. Where do I go from here? How do I rebuild without pursuing him? As of now, all he knows it that I want him in my life but I don't want to be in a relationship because I'm learning how to be emotionally resilient. I was very emotionally dependent on him and scared of that happening again.

  • @waleedantulay3419
    @waleedantulay3419 Před 2 lety

    Awesome stuff .....Waleed from South Africa

  • @srinu687
    @srinu687 Před 4 lety +4

    On that time I have hope but now I don't have any hope.... just blocked again and again

  • @29PalmsPublish
    @29PalmsPublish Před 3 lety +60

    You have hit the nail on the head. Stop being co-defendant. Reinvent yourself. Step your game up!
    Great channel!!!

  • @dgnl4324
    @dgnl4324 Před 4 lety +6

    Alex, my ex still talks to me and I feel she wants to come back but as you stated I don’t want her to be in control which I understand your point. What if she seems to be flirting more with others in front of me? These others I’m speaking of are somewhat mutual friends of ours. Is what she’s doing to see how I would react? I’m sure she wouldn’t seriously do anything but how should I react? I don’t want her to feel like that I don’t care or that it didn’t bother me. Please advise...

  • @ednasharma4497
    @ednasharma4497 Před 3 lety +1

    Just like my bf we dont have closure but because i found out his cheating im pulling away with silence , he already tired keep calling me , we sometimes talk normslly and he said he will set time for us to meet and talk out things , and im doing myself to be busy at work , fitness now ive been healed into desperation of him and i decided to just move on , i told him that i cant go bk anymore as far as im concern i dont wish things keep repeating again .. and now he stop calling , messeging and im ok for it ..this the time im learning to focus on myself , my career and to do discover more things i want to enjoy more

  • @michellebrown3107
    @michellebrown3107 Před 4 lety +9

    can you give a clearer clarification in words on what to do if like you said, your ex just wants control. Like how/what to change, create tempo, create balance of power. By no contact? Or like how what to do to reverse to reattach. I’ve been needing this, thanks

    • @GoLiveJeez
      @GoLiveJeez Před 2 lety +1

      Tell clear your wants and what you're goin'tolerate if she behave like that. Casually. Not violently nor bitter.

  • @mushkamishka
    @mushkamishka Před 4 lety +8

    I love your accent.

  • @cyndemaegentapa467
    @cyndemaegentapa467 Před 4 lety +6

    My Ex Is Also doing this, He's giving me Hot and Cold behavior. One day, He's Very happy to Hear from me, and suggest that we should Meet Up. Then days Go by and I don't hear a Single word from him. We were together for a Year and a Half, broken up for A Month now... I Guess I should just move on with my Life :(

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Před 10 měsíci +1

    he talks to me on a friendly level only and despite him initiating the last 2 times we've contacted he still acts distant.

  • @monicat.2342
    @monicat.2342 Před 4 lety +7

    I have completely gone silent on him- zero calls, zero texts.... but we work together so unfortunately I can’t completely disappear as much as I would like to. We broke up and 2 weeks later he was dating someone else. We never had a big fight or big blow up and when we did break up, I never chased him. My problem is, not knowing if I am doing the right thing at work when i do interact with him. I don’t go out of my way to look for him, but when he does initiate communication or interaction, I’ve always been very nice, polite and never show him how upset I am. I just don’t know if by me doing that, gives him the impression I never really cared and instead, reassures him of his decision to be with the new girl.

    • @mzaragoza014
      @mzaragoza014 Před 4 lety

      I'm on the same position, but I think it's better your way. If my ex tries to talk to me, I end up crying and walking away!!! I can't help it!!! It driving crazy. I'm trying to transfer I can't stand this situation anymore.

    • @monicat.2342
      @monicat.2342 Před 4 lety

      mzaragoza014 I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I honestly just try to get into a specific energy when I’m around him. I tell myself “I got this. I’m okay. I’m strong” and I even sometimes snap my fingers- as crazzzzzyyyyy as that sounds. It helps me get out of that negative energy and what I have found, is that instead of his energy affecting me, my energy is felt by him. I get the power back. It’s a matter of energy- literally- what you put out into the situation is what you will get back. If you start crying and thinking “I hate this situation”, guess what? The situation will continue to stay the same so you can keep hating it because it’s what you keep calling into your space.
      Snap your little fingers away. Talk positively to yourself. You define the situation, the situation does NOT define you, darling. Chin up.

    • @mzaragoza014
      @mzaragoza014 Před 4 lety

      Thank you . I'll start doing that from now on . Sometimes it's harder though.... he is dating a coworker too. She is 14 years older then him and it's even getting a divorce because of him. To make it even worst he was my fiance 🤣. I guess life is funny that way.... . Thank you for your reply, I'll do that from now on, I hate feeling weak around him.

    • @monicat.2342
      @monicat.2342 Před 4 lety

      mzaragoza014 dont communicate with him, give him space, but ALWAYS remain nice, polite and FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT!!!!! Be as happy as you can be around him.... he went with someone completely opposite to you. That says a lot. Give him that space he is requiring, but also so he can see you’re still your great self and he didn’t break you. Again, fake it till you make it. My SO divorced someone 17 yrs his senior and he flat out says that marriage was the worst mistake of his life because the age difference became very apparent very early on but he never wanted to see the signs. Let your man see them. Feel them. And miss you all at the same time.

    • @mzaragoza014
      @mzaragoza014 Před 4 lety

      @@monicat.2342 thank you

  • @jacklynenimo
    @jacklynenimo Před 10 měsíci

    Following you from Kenya he's talking but the spark is not the same

  • @jaf__7513
    @jaf__7513 Před 3 lety +3

    She told me she still loves me but she doesn’t wanna come back together

  • @georginaw.2055
    @georginaw.2055 Před 4 lety +8

    My ex of two years just left after we moved from Florida to Nevada a year ago. We've had many ups and downs. He's more of an introvert and I am an extrovert. Will going out and doing more things, having fun and becoming more dependent intimidate him or push him away further?

    • @wread1982
      @wread1982 Před 2 lety

      I’m an introvert, he doesn’t want to think of you out dancing and bar hopping, he wants you at home with him

  • @cuddle2451
    @cuddle2451 Před 4 lety +11

    It’s been over a year. I’m planning on reaching out possibly next month. He hasn’t reached out within that time, but I know when he’s hurt he throws himself into work and tries to avoid thinking about the painful thing. It was long distance and was going into the military after graduation college so there was a lot of uncertainty around what would happen to us and that’s why he ended it. I’d like to have him in my life, but I’m also afraid it might be very painful if I reach out. I believe he still has feelings for me, but wants to avoid feeling them because he feels he can’t do much about the situation. Should I just go ahead and send the accountability letter? Or should I wait for him to make the first move

    • @wread1982
      @wread1982 Před 2 lety

      He’s banging someone else, he’s a guy, testosterone and biology

  • @autumnself2713
    @autumnself2713 Před 3 lety +1

    I have been with my husband for a little over 8 years. We have Hitchhiked across the country together. I stayed with him even though I knew he had no home of his own except for an overhead camper in a friend's yard and no job. That didn't matter to me I Loved him for him. Over the eight plus years it has been off and on again seeing no one else he just needed and wanted space when he would get mad at me for one reason or, another. This last time he now has been gone for 4 weeks and finally reached out to me in the last two days but, still saying there isn't a "we" anymore and he wants a Divorce but, can't financially afford to pay the costs for one. If he really didn't want to be with me wouldn't he stop communicating altogether and do you think I can still Save Our Marriage

  • @harrymccarthy936
    @harrymccarthy936 Před 4 lety +14

    I always think I make progress but it’s so up and down my ex I’m so confused , I’m trying to get better in myself and I made some progress but I have to relax I want her so much that’s problem

    • @emanuelmercado2893
      @emanuelmercado2893 Před 3 lety +1

      It’s okay man remember getting her back is a marathon not a sprint! Plus if she’s initiating contact that’s a great sign

  • @vccarter2003
    @vccarter2003 Před 4 lety +3

    Hi Coach, me and my gf broke up a week ago and she wants to chill we me as friends. She said "we can't go back together because if we do we need to be very serious and probably get married but we can't go there anymore. So as friends ok?" and I said yes at the time.
    I want to get back with her but it doesn't seem like she's on the same page. Would it be a mistake if I meet her this week and I am afraid I will be friend-zoned and emotion support until she find another boyfriend which I cannot accept this.
    Please advise!

  • @sammcloughlin2639
    @sammcloughlin2639 Před rokem +1

    Hi, I would like to book a private coaching session can you send me the link?

  • @heathersantos260
    @heathersantos260 Před 3 lety +1

    Heather from Connecticut

  • @mantoasephiri4792
    @mantoasephiri4792 Před 4 lety +2

    At the same time. He put my thing's at her place but he doesn't want to see me

  • @girlydavid1746
    @girlydavid1746 Před 3 lety +6

    My ex still chatting with me but he doesn't want to come back he still calling me my love but he cannot say the words I love you. He cheated on me but he never admit his mistakes

    • @kristenfuller9168
      @kristenfuller9168 Před 9 měsíci

      Mine doing the same thing still trying to chat with me saying he wants to talk can we please chat he saying. Every time I make a new Facebook account he keeps adding. I don't know how he noticed my new accounts that fast. If I feel let him back in my life I'm afraid he'll hurt me again he blocked me while I was dating him he broke my trust I'm too scared to add him back too scared to talk to him I heal from being hurt by his actions but I never forgot what he did to me 💔

    • @kristenfuller9168
      @kristenfuller9168 Před 9 měsíci

      Everytime I see messages from my ex gives me me bad memories

    • @kristenfuller9168
      @kristenfuller9168 Před 9 měsíci +1

      My trust was broken so many times it come to the point where I can't trust anyone anymore I only trust me and my family

  • @Sahdemir94
    @Sahdemir94 Před 5 měsíci

    You guys know what you talking about. And unfortunately I don’t have the money to buy a coach session. It is a really hard time for almost 1.5 years and the last 5 or 6 months some times i wish that god take my soul. She is so hard mens and is in charge I really don’t know what to do.

  • @delfitampubolon3366
    @delfitampubolon3366 Před 3 lety +6

    Im doing a no contact and then suddenly he contact me, but he just ask me how iam doing,, it confuse me and didn't know what he want from me, when I ask,,, he said 'he just trying to be nice and be friend with me" :) thanks now I don't know how to move on.. I can't be friend with someone I still in love.

    • @Morthwyl
      @Morthwyl Před 3 lety +3

      Block him on everything and don’t look at his social media and move on. He’s just not the right person for you and will dump you again if you get back together.

  • @youthnando
    @youthnando Před 3 lety +18

    I just broke up with my ex.
    It wasn't a bad breakup. We just kind of grew out of each others.
    She started studying in another city and I was focusing on my job a lot. So we didn't see each others a whole before she went and study.
    I told her if she wants to break up we will talk about it in person when we meet at the end of the this month.
    But she decided to write it instead.
    Which is the most cowardly thing she has ever done to me. I just lost all respect for her.
    My guess is that her new friends have been a bad influence on her. Because the decision to break up kind of came out of nowhere from her side.
    She tells me that she still loves me and that she still wants to be my friend like before.
    But she isn't even writing anything to keep this "friendship" going.
    I feel like I'm the one starting our conversations and she isn't.
    I'm going to meet her this week, like a month after the break up.
    I'm honestly not sure what to say and what to do.
    I'm just going to give her stuff back to her. After that I guess im moving on.
    Edit.
    The meeting went better than I expected.
    She still says she wants to be friends.
    But I kind of doubt that.
    I feel like a huge weight has been lifted of me.

  • @nancynavarro4537
    @nancynavarro4537 Před 4 lety

    No contact & My ex is telling his family he’s sad and doesn’t know what he’s done and he’s very bummed out but hasn’t contacted me ??? Why..

  • @LeeBoyt1
    @LeeBoyt1 Před 4 lety +11

    Could you do a video about girlfriends being in love with there ex still my story is that after being with my girlfriend for 5 months we broke up and she told me she still had feelings for him once he said he didn’t want her back 2 weeks later she contacted me saying she wanted me back after no contact I’ve spoke to her and she said she was confused and needed closure but now she knows she really loves me and I’m the one she wants I’m confused how’s she could say she loved me greatly the whole relationship but I find it hard to believe please help was I the back up plan cause she got rejected

    • @ssawan23
      @ssawan23 Před 4 lety +3

      You’re backup plan my friend.. and when situation will change she will leave you again. Don’t trust and don’t go for it again no matter how hard it is. I have stucked in this game from past 10 years. I beg you don’t give her a chance. You’ll be stuck. Just accept she’s gone.

  • @breanna7292
    @breanna7292 Před 4 lety +9

    Hi Coaches, can you make a video on fostering trust with an ex?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Před 4 lety +1

      Hi Breanna Oliveros, have you looked through our video library to see if already have one? :) - Adrian

  • @h3arty
    @h3arty Před 3 lety +4

    Omg you're absolutely fantastic in your advice and experience. I love it! Cool accent too. Omg this is what I'm going through.

  • @kristinewashington4242
    @kristinewashington4242 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you coach Alex for all your advice. What happen my boyfriend has a woman on the side. But don’t have the face to tell the truth. I just love him so much. What can i do?

  • @DorisAgholor-hk9yl
    @DorisAgholor-hk9yl Před 9 měsíci +1

    Alex thanks

  • @ravirajsingh500
    @ravirajsingh500 Před 4 lety +1

    Hey Alex! Really need your advice.
    So we were best friends from school days and then we entered into relationship it was like very filmy and romantic and fights started frequently but we were very close. After 2 years when my higher studies started I couldnt give her time and fighting became very regular.
    Suddenly after one months break she said I dont feel the same for you and now she is completely disinterested in me. What should I do to impress her again. Please help

  • @blackhorse1374
    @blackhorse1374 Před 3 lety +4

    It's almost months we are going through problems in our relationship and my gf is not ready to come back again.
    Pls Help Me😥

  • @graciefox9135
    @graciefox9135 Před 3 lety +2

    after 2 1/2 months my ex reach out to me just to tell he will work abroad and thats it. but after a sort of conversation he said he love me but not the same as before, and he doesnt want to get back together, i think he fall in love with someone new

  • @melaniehamilton5001
    @melaniehamilton5001 Před 3 lety +2

    After a month of no contact. I went to my ex’s to pick up some things. He told me he really missed me, hugged and kissed me. I told him to reach out anytime he wants to talk and that I care about him. And I left…. Sooooo confused? He dumped me. Does he want me back?

  • @pedrovega358
    @pedrovega358 Před 4 lety +2

    Philadelphia.
    My ex left me and not really talking to me and want to be friends. What should i do.

  • @tamekaallen7023
    @tamekaallen7023 Před 4 lety +4

    My ex and I were together six years. We broke up five months ago. I’ve improved my appearance and tried to take interest in things that he likes. However, he maintains that there’s a possibility for us in the future but he still wants to date and see what else is out there for him. I met a great guy a couple weeks ago that I’m seeing but I’m not yet ready to move on from him because he’s a great guy and my kids are attached to him too.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Před 4 lety +3

      Hey Crystal Clear, just because you're not ready to move on doesn't mean you can't continue to "entertain" yourself with the platonic, gentlemanly company of other men. The WORST thing you can is wait around and keep yourself open as an option for your ex-boyfriend. He won't value you if you do so - Adrian

    • @tamekaallen7023
      @tamekaallen7023 Před 4 lety

      Love Advice TV Thanks

    • @artcloudd
      @artcloudd Před 7 měsíci

      you know what’s funny lol looking at your picture you look beautiful and like a nice person as someone on the outside looking in my thoughts are why would this beautiful be wasting her time with a guy that doesn’t want her.. it’s just so weird to me the way other people think of us and the way we think of ourselves and our situations lol

  • @karolkozak64
    @karolkozak64 Před rokem

    Jesus.. i just looked at the comments. So many of us are in such similar situations. My ex is moving out this weekend. I am ready to stop all contact. Can't be the one who had been trying for 4 months (3.5 relationship). I am ready to focus on myself. You cannot pull someone into loving you, don't ever let them make you their safe haven second option. We're all worth more than that. I keep asking myself - why would I want to be with someone who isnt equally invested? I cant. I would not want to stay with me if she would keep acting distant for a day longer. Also try to perceive them as a stranger because thats what they are. Their character, nature, feelings, posture, words - all changed. Is it the same person you are convincing yourself you love so much or a memory of good old times?

  • @gilliansanderson4830
    @gilliansanderson4830 Před 4 lety +13

    Alex could you please warn others about covert ( fragile) narcissists. Your advice is brilliant but could be ambiguous to some as they may not be aware of such cluster B types. Thank you Alex.
    I truly hope you & yours are safe healthy and happy :)

  • @hereonlyculturally6334
    @hereonlyculturally6334 Před 3 lety +1

    @Love advice Tv or anyone who can answer me,when a guy after a misunderstanding after we offended him deeply for a misunderstanding turn cruel to us it can mean he is still very hurt by us and he needs time?

  • @Bissie_10
    @Bissie_10 Před 4 lety +3

    Hello choach,My ex of 3 am half cheated and left me dated that person and now he is saying they broke up and he wants me back. I thinks he only wants me as rebound or for power. Please help me with this actions .what does it mean

  • @noragomez2421
    @noragomez2421 Před 3 lety +4

    Hi m ex divorced me but he still around we were together for 21 years but I don't understand what is going on.

  • @ChromeFusion
    @ChromeFusion Před 3 lety +1

    My ex still talks to me but doesn't seem interested in making a convo. She will message me good morning and goodnight and sometimes debts voicenotes telling me how her day is but then other times she'll not speak for hours. I'm so confused

  • @PraveenKumar-ne1wt
    @PraveenKumar-ne1wt Před 3 lety +1

    I’ve been going through no contact ..My ex reaching out to me ..I’ve been not at all responding to her calls and texts ,One day she texted me that -She got hurt by my unanswered calls and texts..She says that the decision which she took to get seperated is good on our relationship and she doesn’t want to come back to me but approaching me ??This is haunting me daily😢Does she never come back,Did I made anything wrong without answering her call and text 😣..?

  • @schuylerwednesday4679
    @schuylerwednesday4679 Před 4 lety +2

    My ldr ex still talk but I implemented radio silence so I'm not reaching out first.I'm currently going through a health problem and I don't know if it's coincidence but this started a day or two after he broke up with me.So I'm healing from this breakup and at the same time from this health issue.he's currently busy pursuing his studies in another continent and sends a how are message. At the beginning of the breakup I didn't have any form of negativity towards him.I still don't want..it's not a good way to heal.but I feel he's only checking up on me when it's convenient for him.so I'm starting to be angry at him.I really don't want to harbor any negative emotion towards him even if he hurt me.the last call we had he was starting to be like his usual sweet self..calling me by our petname and making plans for the future and yet never asked me if I want to get back with him.the freak...I didn't know he's capable of playing this mind games.I'm just focusing on getting my health back and healing all aspects of myself.I'm praying hard everyday for strength.

  • @katarina9168
    @katarina9168 Před 3 lety +1

    My position is the same with no contact then letter that touched him and he was texting with me but stopped answering after 3 weeks of texting and now it’s been almost a month since he didn’t open my message. We were in a long distance and after a break up when we talked on the phone he would talk to me about the things we’d do once I’m in his country which will be in 2022 bc that’s when I’m moving there. Before we thought we’ll stay long distance until then and meet when we travel to each other but corona ruined it and split us apart. Now he’s talking to others and I feel like he’s manipulating me specially bc he is ignoring me like I said. Idk what to do

  • @kobebig1
    @kobebig1 Před 3 lety +12

    💙Me and my ex have been texting after two months. I’ve been making her laugh but she hasn’t asked how I’ve been. Should I change the tempo?💙thx

  • @akirajahanna
    @akirajahanna Před rokem

    Alex your advise to Jessica was amazing my ex & I have a child together and he’s been hot and cold also

  • @shubhamgahlot
    @shubhamgahlot Před 4 lety +1

    Thankx

  • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115

    I have a question why does they don't have nothing going on with their life such they don't have no job no education going on with their life or nor they don't no hobbies in their life .. ?? Especially the ones are very codependent ?? They always think someone needs to take care of them ?? Why is this ??

  • @MYJESUS944
    @MYJESUS944 Před 3 lety +1

    It a good game plan for myself

  • @vgylsen
    @vgylsen Před 4 lety +4

    I wish I saw this one month ago

  • @chefjohn2117
    @chefjohn2117 Před 3 lety +2

    My ex divorced me we have a child and she contacts me daily some good messages some saying it was my fault .. which way do I go for happiness? Thanks

  • @venus_2023
    @venus_2023 Před 4 lety +1

    I sent him a package before we broke up I'm thinking what he gonna do after he received it? I told him to keep it he just said ok but at the back of my mind he might throw it I hope it's not

  • @sophiax7897
    @sophiax7897 Před 3 lety +2

    What if the reason of the break up is something as serious as ur different culture and faiths ???? What do u do?

  • @ashleyyy543
    @ashleyyy543 Před 3 lety

    Hi. Hope your still available. My ex and I broke up cuz it was slot of drama. I’ve been doing no contact he just mess me that it bothers him that I think he doesn’t want me and I’m worth but what happened between isn’t worth it. What does that mean???

  • @michellebrown3107
    @michellebrown3107 Před 3 lety +1

    What if it’s because of long distance? Can that be another reason or should I loose hope!

  • @richardgraden5082
    @richardgraden5082 Před 4 lety +1

    Hi I finished with my ex girlfriend as she whent off with my best mate but it’s now got to the point where she has ended it with my ex best m8 and we are talking and she has given her spare set of house keys and she wanting to be civil for the hour daughter Lilly it’s nice but I don’t know what to do now as she is saying sorry to me when he turns up and it stops us talking to each other what can I do to solve this problem many thanks rick

  • @richstwart2079
    @richstwart2079 Před 3 lety +1

    How do you set a tempo?

  • @nazdalaan
    @nazdalaan Před 7 měsíci

    Never ever go back to an ex, they will never value you, period

  • @angelbatlle3785
    @angelbatlle3785 Před 4 lety

    Nj What do u do if ur partner left but u have an event coming up and u already paid for it and cnt get refund and they want to be friends but want to work on their self and tellin u later on maybe things will change

  • @drmichaelpanthony9798
    @drmichaelpanthony9798 Před rokem +1

    Thank you

  • @doreenmusheke3755
    @doreenmusheke3755 Před rokem

    Hello Alex,, thanks so much you have really changed my life.... but I have one problem my Ex is complaining that have changed and that he will not calling me what should I do

  • @rheamag1805
    @rheamag1805 Před 4 lety +5

    Thanks for the video..
    My french ex dumped me, he ask me to not blocking him, to still keep n touch..
    But i did no contact for 2 weeks...
    After 2 week i reach out but still so early to reach out, my heart still hoping...
    So i called him and ask him if we can still hold the relationship..
    But he said no its impossible specially we live in different country...
    So i do go back to no contact again.. After 3 weeks he reach out to me..we talks now like a friends.....
    I can control now my emotions.....
    I will updates about my relationship to him.. .
    Thanks a lot

  • @lilyedwards5407
    @lilyedwards5407 Před 4 lety +27

    What if my ex started talking again but then momentum stopped and went back into no contact? Should I continue no contact again? Part of me thinks he does miss me but I don't really like being kept on the side. The other part of me thinks that maybe when we started communicating again, my responses were too short and he thought I wasn't interested

    • @katarina9168
      @katarina9168 Před 3 lety +3

      Did he reach out later??
      Because I’m in exactly the same problem rn. I feel like he lost interest when we talked for a few weeks after a no contact and then stopped responding.

  • @thandiwemamkele7583
    @thandiwemamkele7583 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for your advices, pls help me out it is a good idea to delete his contacts so that I don't see his posts? The problem again is that he has contact with my daughter they are chatting what must I do about this pls help

  • @lukestraw7482
    @lukestraw7482 Před rokem

    Finally letting go after 3 months, didn't do no contact but she kept reaching out hospital appointments, help in the house, meals etc. Just found out she's slept with 1 person and found a person who she has the best connection with after spending 2 days together she told me over text she's meeting him in my old house at the weekend 😂 even after getting me to do stuff for her
    Just let go guys focus on yourself

  • @gilliansanderson4830
    @gilliansanderson4830 Před 4 lety +6

    You are spot on Alex . Balance of power!!!
    Not only great coach but incredibly sexy !!!
    Sent from UK

  • @travelmanMN
    @travelmanMN Před 4 lety +1

    My ex gf and I dated about 30 years ago. We had a highly sexualize relationship. When we weren't having sex we were not getting along. After years of doing the on and off we had a daughter.
    My ex has been remarried, divorced, in a number of relationships and now remarried. We make contact with each other concering our daughter etc. At times when I think she is single, she will ask me if I want to sleep at her house, as i live quite a ways away, I always decline. Over the past months she gets friendly, then either drifts away to come back or gets angry and then doesn't talk. Rigjht now, she wants to be friends. I said something I shouldn't have as what she is asking, to be friends, just doesn't seem like there is not a catch. She blew up and now has gone silent. So any help?

  • @ingridaccount
    @ingridaccount Před 3 lety

    I don’t have a crazy better life! It’s a pandemic. What to do? I’m
    Housewife and I don’t have crazy friends?

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 Před 3 lety +2

    Ben from Australia, 12 year relationship ended 5 months ago, she’s seeing someone new, I’m dating, improving all aspects of my life,so I really have to thank her ✌️

  • @bethelbethlehem3001
    @bethelbethlehem3001 Před 4 lety +1

    He wants me to text and call him but he doesnt want to have me as a girlfriend anymore. he wants me to be a friend forever. what should i do?

  • @mantoasephiri4792
    @mantoasephiri4792 Před 4 lety +1

    Hi Alex..... The father of my child is angry with me. It's being a year now during no contact he wants me to phone her......., last time i did phone her, he was so surprised.... Then after he ask me to give him money........ So Alex what does that mean

  • @pakomodibele6222
    @pakomodibele6222 Před 4 lety

    Hello I did no contact in my 2nd week my mothers bf contacted me that he was sick and that I should call him. I fall for the trap and went back to no contact again, he reached out again this time and I fell for the trap and started being needy and desperate again and asking him to come back now it’s a month I don’t know whether to start no contact or what

  • @talentmoyo190
    @talentmoyo190 Před 4 lety +8

    Hie Alex my ex is taking to me but he doesn't talk about love he just ask things like hw are you, and I told him to stop talking to me if he doesn't want me so i that I can forget him but he still calls and text wat should i do coz i still loves him a lot

    • @asashim5669
      @asashim5669 Před 4 lety +1

      Same situation here, but don't know what can I do.

  • @kasbe72
    @kasbe72 Před 4 lety +2

    Hey sir ,she talks more to her friend and made him her best friend and she also call him and text me ,and even meet him , what should I do