Cold approach is stupid (OLDER GUY DATING ADVICE)

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024

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  • @RealTroyFrancis
    @RealTroyFrancis  Před rokem +1

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  • @ArtBurt
    @ArtBurt Před rokem +25

    that button is struggling 😂

  • @LordYanSpeaks
    @LordYanSpeaks Před rokem +12

    I agree with the video. When it comes to dating you should anything else but overcomplicate it.

    • @ifeelhalfnaked484
      @ifeelhalfnaked484 Před rokem +1

      getting rejected 20 secs and warming yourself up after that versus being miserable texting an online girl dont know where you stand in her mind, which one is more effective?

  • @Torgo1001
    @Torgo1001 Před rokem +6

    "Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated."
    -- Confucius

  • @robtam7529
    @robtam7529 Před rokem +10

    The older I get, I feel cold approach makes me seem creepy. So it’s best not to.

    • @manager4409
      @manager4409 Před rokem

      i wouldn't advise cold approach at all these days for any man. It's unwanted. People in general don't want a man they don't know to walk up to them and try talking to them, it's low value.

    • @JoeyEnn
      @JoeyEnn Před rokem +3

      Did you guys even watch the video? Like he said, starting a conversation with a stranger is natural. Its the way men have met women for years before PU. The way PU or "modern men" call it and look at it like a telemarketing technique is what is stupid. Maybe its creepy because you are creepy.

    • @mrog5481
      @mrog5481 Před rokem

      @@manager4409 what's the alternative? dating apps don't work. Online dating doesn't work. How can people meet people?

    • @Masculine-dating
      @Masculine-dating Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@JoeyEnnwell said bruz

  • @TheDarlowiak
    @TheDarlowiak Před měsícem

    Yes , I agree make it “ natural” - easy does it ..

  • @sluggo562
    @sluggo562 Před rokem +2

    It's funny how in other fields, developing and utilizing the technical terminology demonstrates expertise but in this area it does the opposite.

  • @Torgo1001
    @Torgo1001 Před rokem +2

    So much of life today is over-complicated -- dating and mating included.

  • @akifm6160
    @akifm6160 Před rokem

    Everytime he said “cold approach” 🤣🤣…But he’s authentic af!

  • @Anthony-dj4nd
    @Anthony-dj4nd Před měsícem

    When your cold approaching your trying to force an interaction

    • @RealTroyFrancis
      @RealTroyFrancis  Před měsícem

      Not really, You're for a positive response. If there is one then a positive interaction can ensue.

  • @poncholarpez6233
    @poncholarpez6233 Před rokem +3

    Cold approach is a sales term

  • @erics4127
    @erics4127 Před rokem +2

    its called talking to girls lol. Walk up to a girl and say hi. Literally, thats it. It will always be awkward. Girls actually like when its a bit awkward, makes it seem more natural. 300 lay count here. Lay count lol, that's laughable too.....

  • @mylor1066
    @mylor1066 Před rokem +1

    Sweet vid Troy.

  • @breathedeepnow1
    @breathedeepnow1 Před rokem

    Where are you walking. It looks like a beautiful city area. I follow a lot of CZcamsrs that talk about stuff like you and most of them just sit somewhere like in their car or in a little studio and i make comments to them saying it would be great if you would mix it up and also record while walking around outside in a city around like this guy Troy in England haha

  • @maggieznoodles
    @maggieznoodles Před rokem

    so true

  • @mariano772
    @mariano772 Před rokem +3

    Cold approach doesn’t work Troy, not that it’s “stupid”

    • @RealTroyFrancis
      @RealTroyFrancis  Před rokem +14

      You’re right. Talking to other human brings has NEVER worked as a seduction tool.

    • @LordYanSpeaks
      @LordYanSpeaks Před rokem

      😂

    • @Krelian4400
      @Krelian4400 Před rokem +2

      @@RealTroyFrancis It used to work. These days, at least in America, it's pretty worthless.

    • @36handy
      @36handy Před rokem

      @@RealTroyFrancis - sure it does. Don’t take it so serous.

    • @manager4409
      @manager4409 Před rokem +1

      @@Krelian4400 it's why he works in eastern europe, in the west, especially America, there's a huge air of hostility. People don't want a man they don't know to walk up to them and talk to them. It's unwanted.

  • @citychap888
    @citychap888 Před 7 měsíci

    This guy is so cringe. Bring back Tusk!!

    • @RealTroyFrancis
      @RealTroyFrancis  Před 7 měsíci

      You’re an anon CZcams dork

    • @citychap888
      @citychap888 Před 6 měsíci

      @@RealTroyFrancis They always say the brutal truth hits the right nerve!... haha!

  • @mba2ceo
    @mba2ceo Před rokem +7

    we need to start a Gofund me for some buttons for him ?

  • @ifeelhalfnaked484
    @ifeelhalfnaked484 Před rokem +12

    cold approach is not stupid, its the act of complicating the act makes it stupid. You can just small talk a female to bed if her window is extremely open, by the fact you're willing to take a risk just subconsciously shown her you can be a successful male in life, it's an attractive quality.

    • @Menstral
      @Menstral Před rokem +1

      Uh.... No

    • @knuclestheechidna5406
      @knuclestheechidna5406 Před rokem

      Not every man wants to look like a creep.

    • @ifeelhalfnaked484
      @ifeelhalfnaked484 Před rokem

      @@knuclestheechidna5406 you manifest what you believe of yourself

    • @manager4409
      @manager4409 Před rokem

      bullshit, people in general don't want a man they don't know to walk up to them and talk to them. It's unwanted. Young women get hit on all the time, they're not going to be impressed you're the 100th guy trying to interact with her that week. It's low-value behavior. Like a salesman. Ignore them you'll get better results.

    • @MS-xn9rf
      @MS-xn9rf Před rokem +2

      Your not doing it right if you think you’ll look like a creep bro.
      Being a genuine person and approaching another person you find interest in to see if you can create some type of relationship is literally being human.