Trying to overcome depression

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 8. 06. 2024
  • Hi guys! In today's video, I just showed you how I've been doing and how I've been dealing with depression. Sorry about complaining a lot in this video, and let me know if you feel the same!
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    About me:
    Hi! My name is Jina Kim, and I was born and raised in Korea. I'd like to introduce some locations to visit to you guys along with some tips about Korean culture. I hope you can enjoy traveling to Korea with my videos!

Komentáƙe • 257

  • @slavvalb3933
    @slavvalb3933 Pƙed rokem +87

    Dear Jina, I understand 💗 . Depression will pass. You shall overcome . Everything is going to be fine Jina ! You have us , and you are not lonely. You have people who love and support you !

    • @itsjinakim
      @itsjinakim  Pƙed rokem +27

      You made me almost cry!! Thanks a lot for your support ❀

    • @mosheb8300
      @mosheb8300 Pƙed rokem +6

      Please don't hesitate to contact a psychiatrist and use medication. It's nothing to be ashamed of ❀

    • @slavvalb3933
      @slavvalb3933 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@mosheb8300 I think it is up to the author of this video to decide what is best for her . The option you are referring to is a well known , may or may not be feasible .

    • @slavvalb3933
      @slavvalb3933 Pƙed rokem

      @@itsjinakim you are welcome , Jina â€ïžđŸ‘

    • @damirmujkic3270
      @damirmujkic3270 Pƙed rokem

      Allah says those who turn away from his remembrance submission will have a depressed restricted life . Ur hearts r dead black hard without light and tranquility. Follow Muhamed and his companions and will see the difference in ur heart . Heart will be alive with light soft tranquil

  • @AriaLovesU
    @AriaLovesU Pƙed rokem +37

    I have days where I feel alone and I just cry because I think things won't get better. I totally understand what you're saying. I've lost a lot of "friends" as well. It's important that we take care of ourselves physically and mentally. I know everything will happen when its supposed to, just don't give up. We're here with you even if we're far away. We share the same struggles. I'm sending all my love and hugs to you. We all can learn from this and move on to better things. You are strong my friend ❀

  • @gleeree
    @gleeree Pƙed rokem +20

    Hi Jina, just wanted to thank you for sharing what's going on with you so authentically. I have been going through a mental slump in my life too - it's important to remember how much the pandemic changed our lives and made us see things differently. There is so much uncertainty going on in this world, and it can be hard to know what the next steps are after experiencing something so hard. Jina, fighting!! 🎉 I'm rooting for you ❀

  • @ONCEbittenTWICEshyshyshy
    @ONCEbittenTWICEshyshyshy Pƙed rokem +24

    The first step is always the hardest, and you have done that. So you will get stronger and stronger now in every moment.
    Make sure that you always spend time with your family and friends, that will help a lot, also exercise helps lots too so go hiking with someone!.
    I believe in you, jina fighting! đŸ’Ș❀

    • @itsjinakim
      @itsjinakim  Pƙed rokem +10

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment ❀ I guess I should exercise and hang out with friends more :) thank you!!

  • @is_shee1107
    @is_shee1107 Pƙed rokem +13

    You can do it girl! You will overcome that sadness/darkness within you for sure! You're a strong woman! Fighting!

  • @toki7edited
    @toki7edited Pƙed rokem +20

    I can totally relate with you, Adulting makes us so independent that we became unable to talk about such personal things because we think we can handle it by ourselves. It is very brave of you to talk about it openly and I'm inspired 💜please just know we all are here for you, for anything 💜

  • @inotv5904
    @inotv5904 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +2

    We are still both single and I m in my 40s . Just enjoy your self create wonderful moments for your self

  • @ChristopherCPearce
    @ChristopherCPearce Pƙed rokem +50

    Hey Jina, just in case you forgot, you’re an amazing person 😊. I believe in you, and you should too!

    • @itsjinakim
      @itsjinakim  Pƙed rokem +8

      Thank you so much ❀

    • @ChristopherCPearce
      @ChristopherCPearce Pƙed rokem +3

      @@itsjinakim wishing you good health and good luck as always ❀

  • @lovelymoua7330
    @lovelymoua7330 Pƙed rokem +14

    I love this personal content more. You are growing

  • @phoodspot
    @phoodspot Pƙed rokem +9

    Hi Jina! As a longtime viewer of your channel I just wanted to share that you have been, and continue to be a major inspiration to so many, including myself. Rough times, no matter how difficult they can seem in the moment, will pass. I, and so many believe in you! đŸ€“ The cafe looks incredible by the way. 😎

  • @asor_airama
    @asor_airama Pƙed rokem +7

    so relatable to feel behind in comparision to other people, i hope you feel better soon

  • @MikailUBD
    @MikailUBD Pƙed rokem +5

    Your not alone. I felt that also. I prayed and kept on telling myself that i need to be positive. I also had one mentor to talk to. I lost my brother to marriage. He hardly ever includes me anymore in anything. He does not even bother to check up on me. Only looks for me when it is to his advantage.

  • @irenekatona7856
    @irenekatona7856 Pƙed rokem +5

    This came at the right time Jina! I became very depressed after not getting the grade i wanted in one of my college courses I felt so bad all this month all that hard work gone to waste so thank you! We can do it Jina!! đŸ˜€â€ïž

  • @Jollyslide
    @Jollyslide Pƙed rokem +6

    As a long-term subscriber, I've seen you go through all the stages, from full-time CZcamsr to part-time where you are today. I just turned 30 and am going through similar struggles that you are going through. I decided to quit my job as a web developer to go back to university to become a psychologist, also I'm still single (dating a very sweet girl but I'm unsure if we're compatible). The point is, I also feel like I'm behind in life and can relate to your situation. Based on your video you clearly seem to have developed mature insights that are going to help you going forward. You can get through this. Much love from Amsterdam

  • @vincentgraffeo9030
    @vincentgraffeo9030 Pƙed rokem +21

    Jina, we actually care very much about you. Get well soon.

  • @adelaidaguzman9152
    @adelaidaguzman9152 Pƙed rokem +6

    Jina i just wanted to say a few things. First, it is okay and super normal to feel down when big changes happen in our lives, and in the last years you had a lot of them. But you are a fighter and I'm sure that you will pass through this.
    Some friends have made me feel lonely too, mostly when they get new couples, i think some people don't really know how to manage their relationships well. A partner may help with the loneliness but the most important relationship we have in life is with ourselves. And each person has their own path in life, you are not behind your friends or the people around you (Social pressure is the worst). Romantic love will come to you in the right moment.
    I hope everything gets successful in your job. You can do this! đŸ’ȘđŸ’Ș

  • @ivanab77
    @ivanab77 Pƙed rokem +9

    I mean, it have to be really difficult to meet someone if there's no people in your area. It looks like such a gorgeous place. You are a beautiful sparkly person, I'm sure you're gonna meet someone special soon ❀

  • @ThizisDanny
    @ThizisDanny Pƙed rokem +6

    Here for you 🙏 Stay strong đŸ’ȘđŸ’Ș

  • @queenofsanity3004
    @queenofsanity3004 Pƙed rokem +6

    You are not alone. We all feel lost sometimes. Consider seeing a professional therapist. That helped me a lot when I went thru a similar low point in my 30’s when everyone around me seemed to be further ahead in life than me. Exercise. Practice healthy habits (don’t drink too much, etc.). Ask for wise counsel from a trusted counselor. Be well Jina.

  • @cheungdaisy355
    @cheungdaisy355 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience with us.
    That's very brave of you to open up because I know how private and vulnerable it is to let us know your deepest feeling.
    Not many people are willing to do that.
    I'm the same age of you and I am going through depression since last year. I've lost around 10 pounds in a really short amount of time. It's been difficult for me because my health condition is not good already. When you tell us your frustrations about your job, friendship and wanting to have a relationship/ marriage, I really feel you as I'm struggling on these issues too... I feel insecure about the future and sometimes fear got the best of me. However, during this journey I also go though things that I never thought I would have experience and It changed my view on life. I wanna say thank you to myself for not giving up.
    The best is yet to come. We are all here for you.
    Lots of love

  • @joey9646
    @joey9646 Pƙed rokem +5

    I can relate a lot to this. There’s always good days and bad days, so I hope you are able to find the happiness you need. Hopefully plenty of smiles and good times ahead shortly for you! ☀☀â˜ș

  • @debanjanaghosh1513
    @debanjanaghosh1513 Pƙed rokem +4

    Hi Jina, this is my first comment in your videos but I am a regular viewer of your channel. I just wanna share a quote which I find very useful that is, "You stay calm, the storm will calm by itself." You are a strong girl Jina. You will have all the joys of life. All the best for your future.

  • @angela3017
    @angela3017 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Hi Jina, I never comment on your vids, but I've been following your channel for years here and there, so watching your vids feels like hanging out with a long-time friend while I'm cooking or doing whatever. I jut wanted to say that a lot of what you said resonated with me on so many levels, even though I'm in very different circumstances. Hang in there, things will get better!

  • @monayunita6163
    @monayunita6163 Pƙed rokem +4

    Hello, Jina, it must be hard for you right now. Many of us also go through this quarter life crisis and especially in Korea, peoples might have more pressure to be seen as “successful” in the society eyes. I feel that’s how competitive Korea is. But just remember you have tried your best all along, you never really stop working and it’s not your fault even if the result didn’t come out as what you wanted. We can never control the result or how our surroundings reacted to our works but I’m always amazed at your courage to take a new step and challenges. You are 34 but you have done so many things & careers that many in their 30s haven’t. I hope when you look back, you realize how much you have been working and appreciate yourself more.
    Honestly we all changed as we grow, but I think one thing that never change about you is you always brave enough to be vulnerable in front of your audience. Not everyone admitted they have a problem, many will ignore it until it got really bad. So I think you already in the first step of healing by admitting that you are not okay. You always try to be genuine in your videos and I enjoy watching that. Wish you all the best :)

  • @rajeshkumar-vl6qw
    @rajeshkumar-vl6qw Pƙed rokem +5

    Don't worry. Everything will be alright. God bless you with peace of mind and serenity.

  • @norr8729
    @norr8729 Pƙed rokem +5

    Don't wanna say much but u r a very strong woman & whatever will happen next hopefully will be great!! God bless u & tnx for existing, there's definitely people's who don't likes u bt there's also people's who loves u for who u r please stay strong always with! & last but surely not the least , we're proud of u & we're proud that u r trying to overcome all the negativity & filmed this minnie vlog for us u truly a kind person indeed.

  • @jasminedahir9645
    @jasminedahir9645 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +1

    I don’t have friends as well and it does feel lonely.

  • @anilr7473
    @anilr7473 Pƙed rokem +3

    After a tough phase , you will be blessed with a lot of good, be positive jina. All is well.

  • @kikineki
    @kikineki Pƙed rokem +3

    It's difficult not to compare your life to other people your age. Hoping for a better tomorrow💖

  • @tsietsiramakatsa7429
    @tsietsiramakatsa7429 Pƙed rokem +2

    Every step counts, and I would say it was a big step you took. New subscriber, but been loving your videos over the past few days, definitely a fan! And rooting for you, as one that has experienced depression, I would say continue taking it a step at a time, soon the clouds will part and only sunshine and joy will be felt.

  • @RussellH318
    @RussellH318 Pƙed rokem +2

    Jina, you are such an amazing and wonderful person. I'm so sorry to hear about your depression.
    You are a blessing to the world. I hope things improve for you.

  • @jaxi177
    @jaxi177 Pƙed rokem +4

    We can't do these things by ourselves. I HIGHLY recommend going to see a therapist. It sucks to be overwhelmed and lost! Just keep making small steps and try not to look too far ahead. Just make steps towards your goals, if they don't work continue to make small steps.

  • @virginiealohaa8163
    @virginiealohaa8163 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    Hidden Gems in Korea is a great video idea, and I REALLY hope you will continue to make more videos about these places!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @1991LSY
    @1991LSY Pƙed rokem +1

    Take care Jina!
    I've been having depression for so long
    I just hope people with mental illnesses aren't shunned by regular people and that awareness can be raised but it's gonna take time..

  • @lbvg1013
    @lbvg1013 Pƙed rokem +7

    I'm here for you JinađŸ€ please get the help that you need and know that things will work out đŸ€ž it might not look like it now, but it will❀

  • @AxionSmurf
    @AxionSmurf Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Love your voice and your accent ... feel better SO MUCH BETTER

  • @RagingHotQueenMachine
    @RagingHotQueenMachine Pƙed rokem +3

    Sounds like you know what might help deal with this. Maybe moving to a new area, or trying to make new friends where you are. Good luck ❀

  • @estleti
    @estleti Pƙed rokem +2

    Jina, it is ok, My 2 closest friends got married and now have children, I felt lonely for so long , then kind of isolated myself because I didn't want to bother them in their relationships. I got over that took the courage to visit them. Then I realized that our relationship didn't change. It is just life. You moment will eventually come. Go and visit your friends and family even if there are in a different neighborhoods. Try to do something different from time to time.

  • @leavinforadream
    @leavinforadream Pƙed rokem +2

    Good Morning and it was great to see you and your channel again! I am a long time subscriber but haven't seen you come up in my feed for a while..! Anyway, thank you for being transparent and uploading and sharing this video. It's OKAY to not be okay! Mental Health IS important! Just tap into whatever resources you have available to you and take care of yourself. I have been there too and it's hard. The last thing anyone needs is toxic people and/or those that lie to your face and gaslight things....keep them out of you r life..! You are a Beautiful, Brave, and Talented Young Woman and I am sure there is someone out there just for you! They will appear when the time is right! Don't just settle for anyone though because you can do bad all by yourself. When I was in the U.S. Navy I went to Inchon, Korea after our Battlegroup did exercises with the Korean Navy in Exercise Team Spirit 1984. I can remember going to downtown San Diego or the beaches there and getting depressed because I was alone. But I was able to overcome it....and if I can do it so can you..! P.S. When I retire in Cebu, Philippines and start uploading videos, I hope to have as many subscribers as you do when I start uploading videos! Having an extra $300 would go a long way there. Please take care of yourself and I won't leave you and this channel. That is all I ask. thanks again!

  • @DearStephanieX
    @DearStephanieX Pƙed rokem +1

    Thank you for making this video Jina, you always make us feel like we’re not alone 💕

  • @emilyzugel1621
    @emilyzugel1621 Pƙed rokem +1

    Cheer up Jina! Just try do something new to cheer yourself up, dont forget bad times comes but it also goes away and make us stronger!! I love watching to your videos, love your vibe

  • @seijejanelzinga8309
    @seijejanelzinga8309 Pƙed rokem +2

    Dear Jina, you are such a beautiful person. From inside and outside. let me put it another way: your beauty is just the ribbon around the gift that comes with your whole Being. I am sure you will become much stronger after this depression. I am very proud of you for acknowledging and accepting it and yet being strong enough to seek life outside. I know how difficult that is. For me that was the beginning of healing, just like continuing to exercise even if it doesn't make you feel better right away. I was depressed nonstop for about four years. Add to that several years of depressive feelings related to my migraines and the feeling of being behind. Now, despite still not having a partner and children, I feel happy for the first time in a long time. I am a communications consultant for the government, surrounded by fantastic colleagues who have also become friends. And suddenly notice that women are interested in me after all. All the pain of that time had a function: it was the way to self-acceptance. And the belief that all good things in life such as love and friendship also deserve. Sometimes, no matter how painful, we first need the dark. But believe me, the light will come back on. And you will notice that everything suddenly seems to accelerate towards a better life. Dear Jina, beautiful woman, beautiful person: if I could hug you, I wouldn't let go for the first hour. Only until you feel the love inside. Because you deserve that blanket for the soul. Digital hug and a respectful kiss

  • @estleti
    @estleti Pƙed rokem +3

    I hope you feel better, I was depressed for a week, now I feel better.

  • @madarasamanta2494
    @madarasamanta2494 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Dear Jina, it is understandable ❀ I have the same issue or let’s say concerning thoughts. Like all and I mean all my friends or people I know have already partners, kids and they are married. Sometime I think yeah I’m a “bit” behind of this part of life. But sometimes I also think that for me it’s easier to be alone. I really like that everything is quiet and no unnecessary troubles that comes together with being in a relationship, but then on other hand yes I miss people. But also don’t want to be too often with people. 😕 Ahhhhh that sometimes make me crazy and then I want to just live on a isolated island or something like that 😅 I think this happens a lot with people of our age, I would say it is outcome of our childhood, teenage years.. everything that happened before. So now we have to reflect on that part of our live and find solutions how to deal with them so it doesn’t affect our present and the future that much. Of course there’s no way to delete the past but we can learn how to deal with it in a better way.
    Stay strong đŸ’Ș

  • @kmn3367
    @kmn3367 Pƙed rokem +3

    Don‘t worry we are here with you i also have days like this you are Not alone we love youuuu

  • @aliciaforgie
    @aliciaforgie Pƙed rokem +1

    We all have that time when you zoom into urself and really look around you and that's when you realise how you have been living and that can be depressing. Keep your chin up hun it's just a phase all things will work out in time just keep fighting and believe in yourself and manifest what you want in life, speak to the universe you are the holder of your destiny. Love u from a fan who wishes and pray nothing but the best for you❀

  • @cherylschaeffer7832
    @cherylschaeffer7832 Pƙed rokem +3

    Just know that your fans love you and will be there for you.

  • @ssvman100
    @ssvman100 Pƙed rokem +3

    Wishing you well Jina and hope you get through this:)

  • @AyeshaKhan-yz9ze
    @AyeshaKhan-yz9ze Pƙed rokem +6

    I can relate with the feeling. I'm going through the same thing

  • @PatBTheOwlcaptain
    @PatBTheOwlcaptain Pƙed rokem

    It took me a while to finally watch all of this video. You don't need to apologize about complaining in this video. It's brave of you to acknowledge and be open about your struggles. Life really can be a struggle at times even if things seem fine on the surface. I totally get the whole "I'm lonely" thing. Yeah, you do have friends, even if you lost some this year, and a family, but sometimes you just want someone who can be with you and on your side every day, especially when you're going through struggles. Life is hard. Life is busy. Life sucks a lot sometimes. And you're an amazing person for doing as well as you have. Just have to acknowledge that. Someday, hopefully soon, you'll find the connection or inspiration to boost you up. I truly hope and wish the best for you.

  • @luluh2644
    @luluh2644 Pƙed rokem

    Jina thank you so much for being so honest! I wish all the best for you ❀

  • @valentinaechavarriazuluaga9963

    Jina you are a great person ❀ you're videos help me so much when I was depress, thank you so so much! I hope you feel better soon 💕 *one thing that help me so much was accepting that in life the dark is needed to see the light â˜Żïž* ❀

  • @anujimliet2203
    @anujimliet2203 Pƙed rokem +2

    We are always with you ❀ don't be sad. You look awesome

  • @kristycullen546
    @kristycullen546 Pƙed rokem

    I totally understand you, it's the same for me.
    Don't ever feel behind in your life, the right things will come to you at the right time.
    Never compare yourself to others, this is gonna make you feel worse.
    And for your channel, I'm actually surprised that you have a lot of subscribers but so little views... I think it's the algorithm the problem, cause your contents are really interesting.
    Try to use the other socials to promote it, if you don't have a tiktok account, consider the option to open it and use it to promote your yt channel.
    I've seen many people increasing their subscribers and views in this way.
    I love you Jina, I feel you, I suffer from depression too, so I understand, don't give up đŸ’Ș
    Sending you hugs ❀
    You're not alone ❀

  • @Betterdanyou
    @Betterdanyou Pƙed rokem

    Thanks Gina for making this video and being so honest. Hard moments shall pass and let’s hope for the best

  • @tratotrail
    @tratotrail Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Hi jina, dont take anything seriously. Life is simple, don't think anything

  • @mlisuisme
    @mlisuisme Pƙed rokem +1

    I been feel down lately this month but things hopefully will start be better thank you for posting this video ❀

  • @USSJ2Otaku3084
    @USSJ2Otaku3084 Pƙed rokem +5

    You haven't lost your community, Jina. You've got me, James, Archie and a few others 🙂💙. If you need a friend to talk to, we're all ears. Yes, your community is all spread out, but you have a few long distant friends here as well. I also understand what you're going through 🙂. You'll overcome this; this too shall pass. Maybe a few upbeat, comical long term friends will be of help? I also thank you for making the 1st step...

    • @slavvalb3933
      @slavvalb3933 Pƙed rokem

      Comic ?! đŸ€Ą That is me . I make people laugh . So, one comic is here ! 😂

    • @USSJ2Otaku3084
      @USSJ2Otaku3084 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@slavvalb3933 That makes two of us...

    • @slavvalb3933
      @slavvalb3933 Pƙed rokem

      @@USSJ2Otaku3084 😂 đŸ€Ą+đŸ€Ą= endless 😂😆

    • @joey9646
      @joey9646 Pƙed rokem

      You’re absolutely right Elijah!

    • @slavvalb3933
      @slavvalb3933 Pƙed rokem

      Count me in !

  • @TheBrownSatchel
    @TheBrownSatchel Pƙed rokem

    Hi Jina! I love when you share your life with us, thank you for your honesty. ❀

  • @danielarosa670
    @danielarosa670 Pƙed rokem +1

    I feel exactly the same as you Jina. I’m in my early 30s and I feel I have been left behind as everyone else have gotten married and having kids. I even lost touch with friends. But at the same time I can’t be bothered with meeting new people, dating etc. Its just not me. It’s a weird feeling this. I also suffer from depression and anxiety and it’s so hard. I’ve been a subscriber for many years and this is the first time I left a comment (I’m so sorry, I’m just one of those silent subscribers). But I wanted to tell you this and that you aren’t alone. And I truly wish you all the best and to take care. I enjoy watching your videos. Not just for the Kpop inspired videos but your personal vlogs! Keep doing what you are doing, so many of us enjoy it. You are a lovely person and I really hope you feel better soon 💜 take care, Daniela.

    • @dollyvuitton
      @dollyvuitton Pƙed rokem +1

      Hi Daniela, how I relate to you soo well it's not funny! I am in the same boat I haven't married for personal reasons and feel hurt I'm behind others in my age group already married with children and I've never dated. I have no friends and feel hurt and lonely it makes me depressed and sad. I just wish the best of luck in life and find some happiness the future is always bright and can give us endless opportunities just keep being you and would hope things get better hugs😊

    • @danielarosa670
      @danielarosa670 Pƙed rokem

      @@dollyvuitton Hey Liz, thank you so much for your sweet comment 💜 it is really hard, I too have never dated. I have always preferred my own company and like to be alone. But seeing how literally everyone around me are either getting married, married and or having kids. Just the other day someone shared they are having a second baby. And whilst I’m happy for them it’s just another reminder I feel I’m being left behind. It’s really a strange feeling this! It’s made worse when your friends start to drift away from you as they have a family which is their priority and often get forgotten. Maybe it’s my fault too for not making the effort to stay in touch. My only close friend I really have is like us too.
      I wish you all the happiness too and let’s try not to feel like this all time and try to see the positives in our lives. Whilst we aren’t living like how society expects us to, we have a lot of freedom to do what we want, when we want. Not another person to consider or kids. Although like Jina mentioned it would be nice do things and share a life with someone 😓. Try to stay positive and keep doing you 💜 take care, Daniela

  • @AzzamLah
    @AzzamLah Pƙed rokem +1

    One tip I've learnt is whenever you start feeling like you're about to spiral down the hole, you have to romanticise your daily mundane life, like imagining you're the protagonist in a movie or TV series. It has helped me a lot since I first got depression back in 2019. And I'm so proud of you for taking the small steps by actually dressing up, putting your makeup and going out. Dealing with depression isn't a linear progression; there's always ups and downs. The most important thing is acknowledging the challenge and seeking necessary treatment (either from someone or just by taking a walk by yourself). Keep holding on, Jina!

  • @jamesbateman2686
    @jamesbateman2686 Pƙed rokem +2

    First let me just say, you look beautiful as always Jina, I think you just need to force yourself to get out and about to snap yourself out of the depression, getting out and about helps me get over mine maybe it will help you to. And as for no mans in your life I think you will find Mr right you just have to keep looking he is out there Jina. 😊

  • @instagamrr
    @instagamrr Pƙed rokem +1

    When I was a youtuber I was really depressed as well. It’s a hard way to make a living, and even without money, it’s hard not to judge yourself if the numbers aren’t going well. I’ve also been wanting to really settle down (I’m 37), but just haven’t met the right person yet either. Wish I was still in Korea and we could be friends!

  • @lovelymoua7330
    @lovelymoua7330 Pƙed rokem +7

    Would love more content about Korea, places to visit and foods.

  • @ViTaLTSR
    @ViTaLTSR Pƙed rokem +3

    I know it's tough. Good luck and keep hope đŸ‘đŸ»

  • @caitlinstark9321
    @caitlinstark9321 Pƙed rokem

    Sorry you are going through this. Big change in life stages are really hard but change can be beautiful once you get through the growing pains.

  • @VHShologram
    @VHShologram Pƙed rokem

    Hey Jina, just a message that it was nice to see you again after a long time!! I enjoy watching what you have to say and find your content fun and relatable, I guess because we're same age, so we have similar life experiences.. Big hug from your viewer from Spain! Stay strong and never give up! đŸ€—â™„

  • @slavvalb3933
    @slavvalb3933 Pƙed rokem +3

    Jina, you will find your soulmate . You just have to be more confident ! U need to socialize more 😊. Just overcome your introvert self ! Go party Jina! 🎉 As far as your CZcams channel, when u run out of ideas , you know we are here for you and we are full of ideas to make interesting topics for your channel 💕

  • @ruzicakotorac3555
    @ruzicakotorac3555 Pƙed rokem +2

    Dear Jina,
    I know exactly how you feel, because I felt the same last year. I was in a really bad and dark place. Even my own mother couldn’t recognize me, because usually I’m a bright and positive person.
    But let me tell you something, you will learn from this experience, you’ll get stronger und you’ll get back to be that bright and bubbly person.
    It may take you some time (for me it took almost an year) but you’ll get there and trust me when I say you will be happy again.
    One major thing that helped me overcome this depression was a line from a Korean song that I really like, and it goes like this ‚난 êŽœì°źìš”. 또 낮êȌ도 뎄읎 였êČ ìŁ â€˜
    My spring came to me (even tho it was still winter) and I’m sure your spring will come to you too. When it does, you’ll understand what I mean.
    So please never ever give up, because you are a young, beautiful and strong person. Don’t stress yourself out and enjoy life to the fullest.
    I love you and root for you and your happiness.
    xo

  • @msantiago8274
    @msantiago8274 Pƙed rokem

    Hi, Jina! Sending you a big virtual hug! Depression needs to be addressed; step by step everything will get better. Treating it is very important; talk about it with a special health specialist. You have our support; please take care!!! You matter; you are precious and important to us!

  • @robertjenkins2213
    @robertjenkins2213 Pƙed rokem

    Jina, you are in my prayers. Please know that people care for you and want you to pass through your difficult times.❀

  • @jindalre89
    @jindalre89 Pƙed rokem +1

    I think these honest stories are what make your channel more appealing. As a single woman in 30s, I would love to hear about your thoughts and the growth process of your current business. I believe you will do well but I support you! I've been searching for enjoyable vlogs to practice my English speaking skills, I found your channel. I'm going to use it as a study resource, because Your channel has the most relatable stories:)

  • @petronelaavictoriei3249
    @petronelaavictoriei3249 Pƙed rokem

    Jina, even though we can not help you from thousand km away, we do care about you! In my case, I feel like I’ve known you in real life just like when I watch your videos I hear my best friend talking. I don’t know but it’s so nicely strange the feeling you share with us 💕💕💕

  • @zanderC5953
    @zanderC5953 Pƙed rokem

    Jina, like each comment below has mentioned, you are amazing because you present your life as you know as honestly and clearly as you can. It's a life many can relate to and even admire. You overcame a lot and still there's more challenges to come. Loneliness is really hard. For me, it's a reminder to mix my daily routine up and try new things like this. I hope you continue to show us great content and your channel grows even bigger ❀ Good luck and meet some awesome friends this year^^

  • @saraswt13
    @saraswt13 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you for sharing and for your vulnerability, we love you Jina!

  • @thanhhongnguyen2698
    @thanhhongnguyen2698 Pƙed rokem +2

    Jina is beautiful and smart. You deserve the best in this life

  • @emmetee9675
    @emmetee9675 Pƙed rokem +2

    Jina, you’d be surprised to know that there are a lot of people with the same feelings. You’re not alone. đŸ€— Therapy, counseling, or support groups may help. I feel like when you were working at your last job at Nurihaus, you were busy and happier. Maybe you can find another office job where you can be around people. You’re such a strong/ambitious person, I know that you have great things to come!

  • @estudiaresmipasion2412
    @estudiaresmipasion2412 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

    You can find healing and restoration in God who loves you and wants you to see you happy and healthy in every aspect and situation you may be facing❀
    He is got you and everyone going through this as well

  • @javeriyahaly1689
    @javeriyahaly1689 Pƙed rokem +1

    Don't be depress it's just a matter of time everything is just temporary stay strong and keep going you are doing good and are looking good you have come so far keep up the good work❀

    • @itsjinakim
      @itsjinakim  Pƙed rokem +1

      I hope it passes. Thanks a lot ❀

  • @allenarust4152
    @allenarust4152 Pƙed rokem +1

    I hope you are feeling better. At least you have a plan to feel better. Take care💕

  • @AD-rl4jv
    @AD-rl4jv Pƙed rokem

    I hope you are feeling better. Everyone feels lost sometimes, it will get better.

  • @hughmorrison8931
    @hughmorrison8931 Pƙed rokem

    Hello Jina: I'm sorry that you feel down but these sad times don't last. You're young, smart and beautiful and I'm condidant that you will emerge from this trying time stronger than you were before. Your videos inspire so many people. Please don't stop making them. All the best to you.

  • @maddad4291
    @maddad4291 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    I understand fully,nothing is wrong but everything is wrong and you don’t know why.😐

  • @aelliseu.d
    @aelliseu.d Pƙed rokem

    Hi, Jina 👋
    Danny sent me to your channel so here I am and this video perfectly describes what I'm going through right now but I kinda keep having that hope that someday it'll be better.
    I can also feel you on the loneliness thing. I haven’t been dating since more than 2 years ago so being alone in a beautiful place makes you feel worse.
    Buuuut...keep your head up, queen, you took a first step into healing and that's a lot, it'll be a piece of cake from now on. Everything will be better when you least expect it.
    화읎팅đŸ’Ș
    Sending biiiig warm hugs and lots of happy thoughts đŸ€—

  • @TheRemoXII
    @TheRemoXII Pƙed rokem

    Jina, I know the feeling too well.. Especially cause I am suffering from bi-polar disorder. Things do get better, that younger Jina is still there and can comeback in time. I've been there and I know that loneliness all too well. We are still here for you. I wish that I personally knew you, so that you can have someone to talk to who knows that struggle. But you still have fans here that will a,ways uplift you whenever you have feelings of depression creeping back. We will always support you. 💗😊

  • @worldsedge4991
    @worldsedge4991 Pƙed rokem +2

    Be well, Jina.

  • @emilyzugel1621
    @emilyzugel1621 Pƙed rokem

    I love this kinda of video where you go to different places and chat hehe i can see the beautiful places from there and it feels like im there with you

  • @samchizoba2619
    @samchizoba2619 Pƙed rokem

    We are here for you dear. I really understand what you are going through ❀just stay strong okay❀

  • @mang282
    @mang282 Pƙed rokem

    i LOVE the white bows on your hair!!

  • @MaCherieMcAli
    @MaCherieMcAli Pƙed rokem

    Listen first I am proud of you for admitting you have been depressed but that also means that you are doing something to get out of it. You verbalize you feel lonely and you are seeking to fill your life with company. You have an amazing life, âŁïž keep living and if you really were to meet someone 💓 you will notice that person. in the mean time focus on you.

  • @swatichauhan7912
    @swatichauhan7912 Pƙed rokem +2

    I don't wanna talk about k-pop idols ,
    I am done with idol praising over every CZcams channel ....
    Their is more to you then just kpop fanship ....
    I was happy to hear your honest view about the changes that you feel regarding marriage thoughts .

  • @travellersparadise777
    @travellersparadise777 Pƙed rokem

    Jina just one thing fighting đŸ’Ș be strong we have you ❀ you have us 💞 this bond will forever 💖

  • @rainypath96
    @rainypath96 Pƙed rokem +2

    i think this is a worldwide issue, so many of us are feeling down

  • @choicelyon2131
    @choicelyon2131 Pƙed rokem

    It's so hard to start, build, and maintain any form of relationship in your 30s, whether it be with friends or something romantic...thanks for being honest with your content. You always produce great videos, regardless of how high or low the views are. I hope you have some restorative days ahead to just take care of yourself

  • @nyteacher7960
    @nyteacher7960 Pƙed rokem

    Be kind to yourself. Take it one day at a time. Since the weather has been so nice I encourage you to take a daily walk and even listen to some calming music. Sunshine is good for the soul. Don’t stress over CZcams and your job; things will work out. Cheering you on from New York! đŸ„°

  • @josephkendall9793
    @josephkendall9793 Pƙed rokem

    Some of the nicest and kindest and most talented people have anxiety or depression. Recognize you are not alone. Creating your own business is super stressful and can also lead to feelings of failure. A 9-5 job would help. Your honesty is so inspiring. Hope you feel better soon

  • @daudyounus137
    @daudyounus137 Pƙed rokem

    Jina I now how it feel to be lonely and depressed because I also gone through such feelings
    But I am very proud of u, and I now u will cope up with all such thoughts because u r really strong
    Don't feel lonely,we all r with u

  • @dalkis1717
    @dalkis1717 Pƙed rokem +2

    U can do it jina !

  • @mitsu.hadeishi
    @mitsu.hadeishi Pƙed rokem

    Jina I've been watching you for years since I lived in Korea during the pandemic. Your videos have always been inspirational and educational and funny and smart and impressive. Please hang in there and know we believe in you.

  • @JasmijnPP
    @JasmijnPP Pƙed rokem

    Stay strong 🌾 we love you!