Can Men and Women Be Just Friends? | xQc Reacts
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Twitch users can't relate, they don't have friends at all.
me 😊
@@ta_________________________4_K Copege
True, but what is hilariously ironic is that your profile picture is a Twitch emote
@@Tecolote41 (Watches "Over The Hedge" for the first time)
"No way the Twitch emote!!1!!1!!!1!!1!"
@@_Yombousername is “just a turtle chad”😐
An open relationship is just not a relationship. You have a good friend with benefits, there's nothing more.
Open relationships are just people who want to hoe themselves and don’t care about the other person
you just described a relationship
@@feelsdankman211 Im pretty sure you never had a gf in your life
@@CensorMySkill looks like you and 38 other people are wrong.
Dont go into semantics , you know he meant a romantic one @@feelsdankman211
Obviously men and women can be friends, but the catch is in the "Just Friends" part. No one's view about someone they know can stay the same their whole lifetime and it will fluctuate so when it comes to opposite gender friends, obviously one can be friends as they can with any other human being as long as their interests align, but the "Just Friends" part is near impossible as one will eventually have a fluctuation when it comes to sexual desires if they are attracted to opposite gender at all. Now, the degree to which their feelings are strong is what determines the future of their friendship/relationship.
Pretty level headed take
absolute zero take
Men can't also have sisters as long as they have a desire in the opposite gender!
If you have ANY level of sexual desire every SINGLE time you have a female friend you genuinely need therapy. Or to just go outside more.
ice cold take
Ofc Xqc who cheated on his gf three times defended the cheaters.
he did what
I think this is the hardest I laughed at xQc reacts video lmao
Obviously any two people can be friends, the reason why it gets complicated is the possibility of a relationship. Same sex friendships amoung straight people dont have that issue. Its only when the possibility exist that it can become a concern. Its always a possibility, and the only way to keep that in check is through boundaries and clear communication. Now try having that, of course we are going to have people think men and woman cant be friends, its not easy, its possible though.
Honestly, most of the time it will develop into either one having feelings for the other. But there are exceptions such as those who have been friends since childhood or if the male/female friend is attracted to the same sex. Still, as a male getting together with someone like that imposes serious risks when it comes to arguments in the relationship, because at that moment there is always a high chance the male friend will take his chances.
i love these reacts lol wish i was there live
Hold up, can bisexual people have friends at all?
no
@FISH-tj3no go ahead be friends with the nonbinaries.
no
@@OpraissuuPeople who are bisexual nowadays literally are attracted to nonbinary people too, they changed the definition to mean you just have a preference but still like all identities or whatever
@AlzMarioWolfe They be changing the definitions of everything bro😭It's not like bi is a prefix for 2 or anything
people say ''yeah u can still be friend despite having some kind sexual attraction or lust towards them'' but then again u already pushing the relationship or thought about that relationship into something sexual which no kind of friend(best friend, close friend, peers friend, long-distance friend, etc) would do, meaning u not in friendship zone anymore(mentally or physically)
n to people who say ''i dont think all people feel like that'' which is understandable but i can assure u 90% or more will have those romantic feeling towards opposite-sex friend. its like saying ''theres always gonna be at least 1 psychopath within a big community'' like yeah, no shit.
- if you are attracted to someone and still choose to be friends, it fails 90% of the time at some point, true
- if you are not attracted to that person, then it's extremely low chance to fail (maybe out of desperation or comfort u develop some feelings)
mr editor you cut the video right at the eefoc lore....
Every time it’s Tik Tok, a video on CZcams, a funny meme about the relationship between a man and a woman, he will have a stunlock for half an hour.
yes they can be friends holy fuck😭
It's crazy that people are shaming others for uncontrollably getting feelings for their friend. Wild.
i mean if you and a girl establish that you are friends from the start and that it isnt more and wont get more then you shouldn't develop feelings and if you do keep them to yourself !
@@mahino420 At that point, the guy would either pull away or tell the girl his feelings. There is no such "limbo" in reality, like you are talking about,
Yeah lol similar bonds people make can fall further into a relationship, god help someone develop feelings for someone that's in their life, its more a matter of being in control of your feelings in which is judged by the reciprocation on the other person
@@bdog2200 sure, if you have no control over yourself then what do you do when your sister is hot, or is that morally different and it's fine to fantasize about your friends but your sister is a big no no, and let me guess ur reply will be this is different from that but is it really if you make a girl trust your not into her sexually and already have established boundaries?
@@mahino420Why are sisters "big no nos"? It's quite common actually and ain't nothing wrong with that.
Damn he really reacted!!
It amazes me how chat thinks its a necessity to get married
Yes. Even if you find said friend attractive you can still be friends with them. I feel like the people who say no have zero self-control.
Exactly. I find my friend pretty but I won't make moves because I enjoy being friends
imagine being bi and having no self control. huge red flag.
@@Alberto_FacebookGamingBeliever✊
That's exactly the point tho, disregarding self-control, there's an innate feeling for lust and hence doesn't make it a real friendship.
Self control is a whole different topic here tbh, that doesn’t even make sense. If you find said friend attractive and are “attracted” to them, your already broken the friendship pact. Finding attractiveness in a friend automatically deems them as something more than a friend. Whether you take the step to take action or not, they are already not “just a friend” to you lol. Also your basically saying to be close to this person whom you love but never take action and just suffer until they eventually find a partner and continue to be friends and suffer? Lmfao
I actually know the guy with black long hair, I studied with him
he was in my capping class, he was the best by far, never seen him since
Yes obviously
I was attracted to a girl once and after rejection I became her friend. Then after about a year she gave me strong hints I didn’t pick up on and I was dropped like a rock. Unless both the man and woman are not attracted to each other, no they will never just be friends to each other
is that not obvious
i loved the part when he skipped most of the video and didnt finish it
Easiest self report/projection of all time.
*I can't imagine ever not being attracted to a girl I'm friends with, that means all other dudes are also like that*
All straight man for sure. Im sorry but if you say "i wouldnt have sex with my hot female friend if she offered" you prolly geh
You could be just friends, if the other person isn't attractive to you. To think you can just be "friends" in all cases is just not true. You may force yourself to believe that, but as a heterosexual being, it objectively cannot be true.
@@sportonjob6110 No, I disagree.
I've found plenty people who are not in relationships be friends with attractive people who are also not in any relationships.
There are s lot of weirdly nice people that don't have romantic relationships as their first thought when it comes to relationships.
@@A_3000 Not being in a relationship doesn't mean they're not attracted to each other.
There is no way for you or anyone else to tell whether someone finds someone else attractive.
@@sportonjob6110 Yeah, but their interactions do. Friendly interactions are very easy to notice from even subtle romantic ones.
And I'm not talking about them being blind to their looks, objectively they might realise the person is good looking, but that doesn't mean any feelings arise from that. I'm not saying the average virgin can do this, but people who have been in enough relationships can.
This energy stuff is real great discussion we have to have a distinction between a female friend and significant other
This is currently a problem I’m facing, I’d say kinda not but sometimes
isnt that long haired dude the guy from the other vid that thought he had the highest body count and he had like 20 at the end?
5:43 what did he say?
This isn't a complicated question is just simple biology. My partner doesn't have any male "close" friends other than myself. Not because I'm controlling just because she sees me as her best friend - friendships are literally about attraction, not physical but through personality - you can't pretend there isn't some form of attraction there lmao. Problem is too and every guy here knows it, the moment there's a crack showing in a relationship any single guy is going to dive in deep the moment he gets the chance. Happened in school, happens in work. Its pretty sad tbh how poisonous some people's interactions can be. My mother had a friend who was unbelievably sweet and nice for years and years and then suddenly professed his love to her. When she rejected him he stalked her until my dad confronted him. Men can be absolute dogs when they want some lmao. From my perspective and my partner's too, it just seems inappropriate to be close to someone of the opposite gender that isn't either of us.
But i do believe it can work. just not generally
I'm a girl and I have this really lovely guy friend who used to like me. Confessed and everything. But I like girls, so it would never work. He took some time to himself and told me he decided he wanted to remain friends with me. Since then (which was like 4 years ago) we've been really close and chill. He's completely respectful and moved on and we are perfectly fine as friends. It definitely can work
i would say agree not strongly because if they are attractive then just, no. it just wont work unless your already with someone and love them 100%. if they are ugly though then yes but there will always be, feelings..... lurking...
He cant even watch the whole video,skipped 2/3 of it.
I’m fine with just friends but I have to know them and can’t hangout with them alone
Blue shirt hasn’t came out yet
the fact that this is even a discussion, including a room full of adults is fucking sad
i say yes, i feel like majority of people will say no tho that women and men can’t be just friends without any attraction.
5:45 can I get a translation on this please I’ve legit watched it back 10 times idk WTF HE SAYING this guys not speaking english
“Ok gaylord”
The ok gaylord guy made this video as funny as it is
xqc, help... i feel hopeless... what should id o
I’m not friends with guys, harsh reality is most guys take the least bit of affection from a girl and fall in “love”. I just won’t take that risk especially since I have a bf.
Yeah because every guy is the same
@@_Yombodid I say every guy?
I was in a room in college. I did 0 to flirt or attract the girls in the class. The 1 guy friend they had kept trying to dominate me like threatening me, saying he is better than me, staring at me with bad intentions, etc. All i did was did my classwork payed attention in class and kept my eyes on teacher unless i was pressed by the guy.
@@blank4535 Misread, my bad
Nah you're right. Good on ya
How many tabs😂😂
Question should be changed to “can you be friends with a bad bitch”
Destiny also said that monogamy is overrated, look at him now
I dont really get why people think physical attraction means friendships aren't possible. Is there some rule to friendship where physical attraction just means you can not be friends, hell even if you had sex with them I dont really get why that would invalidate friendship forever unless you truly believed only people with feelings with one another were down to do something like that
You're like 70 years ahead of these people who think we are still living in the 50's
literally this
I guess people just lack self control or don't even know what their own intentions are
Yooo
This entire comment section is a lost cause It was nice while it lasted guys we had a good run
Kinda weird how the skinny girl in red and black is Sam Altmans sister…. Lmfao quite random
Thats so weird 3:15, are people just beating it to their memories of their friends In the darkest hour tf
:HUH:
1:50 What 💀
WHO IN THE NORMAN BATES MOTEL WutFace 5:00
Heheheha
Redhead girl is always so close to the one guy? Anyone else notice it 4:53
Lol, all of your videos are so funny!
Hello
No they cant, and we see living proof of this in everyday life yet some people still want to act clever and be smart
5:08
I'm not sure what he's laughing about. Lmao,but its great seeing him crack up.
I think he said something about unbanning someone? I tried to rewind and see who said what and if it says they were banned,but I'm not seeing it.
Bravo to the person eho said whatever they said. Bringing good vibes (ノ^_^)ノ
someone said 'ok gaylord'
5:43 x literally said what it was
@@paalzolder Lmao. Got banned for that? >.
@@twowolveshighfiving yeah it's 2024 blud you can't say anything bad to this community otherwise you will get banned even if it's true lol,
it's like protecting children from harsh reality beacuse it's hard to accept it and censor people who dare to speak , just stupid😭
Answer: yes if they are both mature enough
Yes it is possible for men and women being friends instead romantic relationship or couples , agree?
This guys dual spec 😂😂 poly relationship only works if I’m the only poly one
Easy answer
Yes.
My BEST FRIEND is a girl who's been in my life for 10 years now, helping me through my dark times.
I can't imagine dating her. She's essentially my sister at this point. She's not my type. Is she attractive? Yeah. And I'm friends with her boyfriend. Because when they eventually get married, I expect to get invited, at which point, I get free cake.
🚨🚨 Nurse, we have a Code Trevor! 🚨🚨
big cap buddy
Its actually crazy how many people are projecting in this comment section, Its insane to me how they can't even comprehend just being friends without any underlying intentions
@@glitchin2547 They don't understand that not everyone is like them
free cake
don't you guys have sisters, why don' you just consider your female friends like a sister, same way you consider your male friend a bro and treat him as such, the only way a friendship between a man and a woman fails or gets weird is because the man joined in already attracted and just wanted to be around her , it is simple, if you like a person who happens to be a female you just consider her like a sister or a cousin and if you are attracted to her you put a red line there and not further the friendship, you never develop feelings for your sister so why would you for a friend unless if the idea in your head is not that bad
i guess bisexual people can't have any friends at all then lmao
You can still bang without feelings.
most based comment
its almost like humans are not capable of being perfect. Most people find it weird to think about having sex with their sister because they have grown up with them and also incest is frowned upon. These are just two aspects along with many others that completely change the dynamic of the relationship, ultimately extinguishing any sexual desires between eachother. Even then, people still indulge in incest despite its legality, morality, and numerous other damning consequences. And you think people won't give in to the temptation when they find themselves attracted to their "friend" who they just think of as their sister? Do you really think that will power and a psuedo relationship dynamic of a sibling is enough to stop people from pursuing their friend sexually? Its only a matter of time before that conversation comes up between the two "friends" unless of course there are rare circumstances( for example the woman is like a cancer patient or her face is melted like an ice cream, idk what else) but your thinking is very idealistic and not very practical. I hope ur a woman because if you are a guy thinking like this, you will learn the hard way.
But what if the female is attracted to the male? Are you saying that's impossible?
imo being "Just friends" implies not being in any relationship besides a planotic one. And thats... easy to do? Just don't confess your love. If you have romantic feelings, thats fine for a friendship as long as you dont act them out
"JUST DON'T CONFESS 4Head"
"JUST STAY IN THE FRIENDZONE FOREVER 4Head"
"JUST STAY SUFFERING NEAR SOMEONE BECAUSE FRIENDSHIP 4Head"
This type of mentality is not healthy. You just have to be honest with yourself and your friend. If it's someone who truly cares about you, they'll see the best course of action is to make distance until you get over them/get a partner, so long as that's what they want. Of course the relationship is going to get weird, but that's just how it is. Way better than people who torture themselves on a 1-way-friendship jealously seeing the person they love being passed around from person to person. Ultimately, you have to find your own happiness. Being someone's orbiter for the sake of not ruining a friendship is not that.
you do not get to decide whats healthy or not for other poeple, just say you can't control yourself@@m8onethousand
all hail xqc KING OF THE INCELS
is that fucking Maren Altman??
True 3:55
14:32 xqc loves tiktok 😅
Nope, at some point of this "frienship" someone was attracted to other and then it just ended (or not, i knew guys and girls who were in love with "friends" for years).
Not to mention that there is other things like someone might be very unattractive, but a good person and there is 0 chance of realationships, but it's just luck stuff.
It's a very complex topic, but short answer is mostly no, that few people who really just "friends" are just exceptions and if we dig their friendship - there will be some underwater rocks, probably.
You can't deny biology.
L take
Okay Mr biologist go ahead explain it in scientific terms
@@Versace_sheets it's called reproductive system, "versace", you can learn it in school, go ahead
Are you basically saying biologically we are bi and fancied our friends at one point?
@@redwiltshire1816 don't turn around my words, you know what i meant
Men and Women CAN be friends but only if both are not interested in each other at all
Then there's no reason to be friends, straight men won't hang around women they wouldn't fuck if given the opportunity.
Yes🗿
How could they know,? Those people don't even know what the woman/man are
heads up inverse everything janelle says ty
wasnt that the guy who slept with like 1000 women?
I recently met a girl i didn’t find attractive right out the gate, but I genuinely find her a 9-10/10 now. I didn’t think of her sexually whatsoever at first, but as I’ve got to know her my feelings have changed A LOT.
I find truth to men and women can’t be friends, I think as long as they aren’t ugly af, and have a terrible personality, your outlook can morph to an extent as you grow closer to whoever.
1 problem she has a longtime bf, who she never talks to me about, but talks to me about everything (EVERYTHING) else. What do I do boys? I don’t wanna blow it.
Don't be a jerk and ruin someone's life maybe?
@@symbolitical4158i’m not and I wouldn’t, the ball is in her court, from everything I can gather, her bf isn’t that great, she doesn’t seem very happy with her current relationship.
Fully up to her. I’d never cross a boundary. We just click very well and we kinda already do bf gf type of stuff a decent amount, which I’m almost positive she doesn’t tell him about. A few weeks ago her bf was brought up in conv by someone else and she said “idek if you could call him that atm”. (bf)
I truly do want what’s best for her.
Yeah bro if she's taken she's taken
@@sick8542has it occurred to you that the problems they are having could very well be you and her and then another dude trying to bag her lmao? You're proving the point that people cannot be platonically friends so well tbh
If she got a man then get over her bro.
I’m sure I "could" be friends with a woman. But why would I want to? Guy friends for other males are just better.
Idk some guys are really fucking annoying. Lots of the guys in my area are brain dead hicks.
It depends on the person but most of the time yeah, you're right
Idk I prefer girl friends. Whenever i've had guy friends it's always just sport talk and everyone trying to one up eachothers masculinity and fighting you over stuff you dont even want to fight over. I've lost half of my guy friends because they competed with me over a girl I wasn't even into and had a friend of 11 years start getting pissy because a girl he was into started liking me. With girls I can just be myself and chill. Girls and guys pretty much have the same conversations just guys make everything tense and annoying to try protect their fragile egos.
@@MiLa-xi6qj Generalizing
You can be friends until youre alone and theres alcohol involved
doesn't matter what you think, having sex doesn't make you not a friend anymore and suddently you're in a relashionship. You just had casual sex, that's it, if you're into that you're still at least friends after it's done
you dont have sex with a friend @@IgorJCorrea
@@IgorJCorreaif the woman i just fucked feels nothing and acts like we are still just normal friends , that probably means she had a lot of these experiences. Basically you need your dopamine receptors fried to act like fucking friends is ok and casual
@@widhehwjab1678 doesn't matter what YOU do, you don't speak for everyone, having sex doesn't make you instantly start a relashionship, it's not that deep
even if u just have sex and hang out without being together ur still not friends there is a word for it lmao@@IgorJCorrea
That girl in the thumbnail scammed 6 figs in crypto and then released an OnlyFans.
You mean the one talking all high and mighty about "dedication" or whatever her rant was about not wanting to date someone who doesn't hit the gym every day. Cope queen
I can't be friends with women that are attractive to me lol, I just catch up feelings very quick 😭 I rather just avoid attractive women, not like I have any women friends, although, there is one that has a bf, and I wanted her ever since seeing her for the first time...why God 😭
What are the comments in yhe comment section, wtf?
I saw xQc at a grocery store in Quebec yesterday. I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything.
He said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?”
I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but he kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw him trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen Milky Ways in his hands without paying.
The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Sir, you need to pay for those first.” At first he kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter.
When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, he stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical infetterence’” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, he kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.
Good one
chat is this real?
@@olivecbayt nah, daily schizo posting LULE
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HOLY TRUE STORY
no
Short answer no
If two straight people of opposite sexes aren't attracted to each other they'll just be friends
@@_Yombo define a friend
@@Tutners bro got ignored 🤭
Yes
people justifying getting turned by their friend who they didnt at first because it is a bad time or such are weird bro, you guys would do the same to your family members probably
No
People in a mental judgemental prison in here sad to see fucking the world up thank you
The TikTok generation can take this mature woman's advice (she hit the wall hard 35-40 years old thus tells the truth). when they say that if you are friends with a lady, she will think of you as her girlfriend just like she does with her other female friends. It also doesn't mean she's into you just because you believe she's polite to you. A third alternative doesn't exist. Be it a sexual partner or her girlfriend, pick carefully which category you wish to fall into.
Imagine talking about "the tiktok generation" and then talking about a "wall" at 35-40 years like a complete fucking zoomer who thinks that's some old age, lol.
0:50 that guy is fucking scary, i'd stay away from him monka
AYOOOO
Yes. I have had and have some friends that are girls.
Secondary partnerrrrrrrr?????
not willingly
He actually defended cheating
Am I the only one that can't stand people who are in an open relationship? Like just say you want to sleep around and not be loyal to one person.
Lmfao true
I've never seen one where it didn't lead to drama, open relationships start because one of them wanted to be in one, and the other went along with it cos they didn't wanna lose that person. It's bound to fail every time.
Let’s also not confuse a polyamorous relationship with an open relationship. Both poly and mono people can be in open relationships.
Short answer :No
he said he wouldn’t date someone that isn’t attractive, yet, he dated the whale for years.
If your female “friend” offered you sex or some kind of thing. What’s the probability of men saying no no? If your boys asked the same thing, it’ll be totally different reaction. That’s why I don’t believe it.
Just because you are pussywhipped and horny does not mean that men will jump at every possible opportunity to get laid.
@@Corzappy delusional to biology - I'd swear on my mother's life 9/10 men would lmao
@@symbolitical4158 It’s not biology.
Again just because you’re completely enslaved to animalistic desires and can’t demonstrate the slightest bit of self control does not mean that all other men behave the same way.
I don't even accept when it's girls I think are attractive not to mention a friend... Believe it or not some men know how to keep their shit in their pants and don't turn into dogs whenever a girl asks them.
xQc talking about non monogamy being bound to fail like the vast majority of monogamous relationships don't fail.
I have lost brain cells in this video
The girl with red hair. omg she is beatiful😍😍😍😍😍😍
ForsenCD defend em X
this video is not for me Aware
Pfp checks out
People who say men and women can’t be friends are just hard coping, they should just be honest and say it’s a personal issue for them, they have an issue where they can’t treat people of the other gender as friends and not get romantically attached to them. Don’t speak for everyone else, most men and most women have friends of the other gender, it’s been fine for all of history, if you can’t do that then it’s a you problem
You would still be much deeper into the friendship if not for the underlying thoughts. I am not having those with male friends , so i can be more deeply connected with them as friends , with female friends , im always reminding myself that i shouldnt be too close , since it would seem strange for them , and for other people .
@@erxan4163That's the whole reason my two closest friends were women. It is a deeper connection. With my guy friends, we tell each other how dumb the other is and make fun of each other for telling their girlfriend they love them, and we're just a lot more aggressive, with the girls, there's definitely still plenty of the same kind of joking around but there's also a more emotional friendship where we talk about things I'd never talk about with the guys. One of them lived with me for months and slept on my bed with me and nothing happened even once. I obviously didn't have a girlfriend at that time, that wouldn't go over well lol, but I had other women that met those needs, my friends aren't part of that. It's absolutely possible to be friends with women and not have any sexual tension, you just have to know what you want in the relationship.
@@davidschmidt2081 your "other women" just were the better option than your female friend, that's why it was easy not to romanticize her
@@Roadrunner_KZSK I mean, I'm not sure what intimate parts of my life you think you know about but my friends are very attractive, we're extremely close, and tell each other everything, so from a logical standpoint they just would be the better partners. We just emotionally value each other as friends and have no intention of changing that. Your assumption that the chick's I've hooked up with are the better options just doesn't make sense.
@@davidschmidt2081 nope nope , for this relationship to work you need to be sure and SHE needs to be sure. Basically stars have to align for this to happen . You also cant know if one of them wasnt interested in you , even if you weren't. The example you give is also not that common , most men have better male friends, that also works with women. Most people wont just sleep on a bed together , for them it would be weird. Your example seems like an exception from the rule , which males the rule even truer , since every rule has an exception
Yes, I’m just friends with a girl
The answer is both yes and no
Or they friends with you😮
Youre friendzoned and not just her friend
Either she's ugly, or you're friendzoned.
Yeah, because she wont let you be more then friends lmaoooooo. THIS GUY XD