5.30.24-Real Friends Hold You Accountable: Receive It!

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  • čas přidán 29. 05. 2024
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Komentáře • 12

  • @kimberlybeaumont6243
    @kimberlybeaumont6243 Před měsícem +1

    Awesome topic Camille, true friends should be able to hold each other accountable, and😊 it may hurt. You heal together, through calm, enlghtening communication. Helping each other grow. Stay blessed and encouraged!😊

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před měsícem +1

      Exactly, Kimberly! You learn to appreciate the hurt that brings about healing from an honest friend verses deepening a wound causing greater by being lied to by a so-called “friend.” Thank you for watching.

  • @kiatate1442
    @kiatate1442 Před měsícem +1

    Love this and fully agree. Friends don't let friends walk around with their slips hanging. 😉
    Continue to heal sis! Praising God everyday, and I can't wait for the world to hear your testimony.

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před měsícem

      LOL!! Kia, you took it back..."slip hanging." Love it and you're exactly right! Thank the Lord, I am healing and feeling more like myself every day.🙌🏾 Thank you for watching.

  • @bereciapitts1913
    @bereciapitts1913 Před měsícem +1

    This is a good topic. I would add that a friend will invite you into their life so you know what to hold them accountable for. This is something I am recognizing in my life. We have to give truth and not surfaced things to those who are a friend and those we love. So evaluate your friend circles and the people you love because people may think their holding a title or in a seat of your life but their really not. This is good. Thanks Camille.
    Praying you're healing well🙏🏽

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před měsícem

      Great point, Berecia. Providing partial information dilutes the ability to share accuracy in truth. That's misleading, which exposes a level of distrust and authenticity in the friendship. Makes you say, "Hmmm?" on the friendship. Thanks for watching

  • @deborahcasey2459
    @deborahcasey2459 Před měsícem +1

    Yes, true friendship should allow truth, resolution, forgiveness, process and move on. Receive as good as you can give. No unforgiveness or hating. Should be able to share honestly without fear of being alienated or ending friendship.

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před měsícem

      That alienation is a real thing, Debbie! A lot of people are not truth seekers for their own lives and will abandon the friendship when they’re being held accountable. Offense should be minimal in any friendship, but definitely addressed when it happens. Thanks for watching.

  • @maryfranciscajones3312
    @maryfranciscajones3312 Před měsícem +1

    Good morning Sweet Friend!
    Ohh Let me just Brag on Jesus for a moment.. I am in a situation that so desperately needed this message.
    I have been struggling with a friend's decisions in her activity with a new relationship. And I am so thankful to hear your message this morning that I have done everything right.. all in Love and for Godly accountability.. I will continue being the steady example of a true friend. I haven't been in this situation in a very long time so I've felt a little out of sorts. I am so very thankful to have Heard Your Timely message today 😊
    Blessings & Love to you.
    Sweetly,
    Mary

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před měsícem +1

      Praise the Lord, Ms. Mary! God gives us what we need just when we need it. Yes, you're doing the right thing, even if your friend doesn't like it. Again, when you're giving the truth in love, the decision to adhere is theirs. After I've giving truth to my friends, if they choose to go against it, I give way for them to make their own decision...but, they cannot continuously talk to me about that same situation if they're choosing not to adhere to the advice or area of accountability. Thank you for watching.

  • @sherriecooke4681
    @sherriecooke4681 Před měsícem +1

    Yes, the Bible says, "If someone is caught in sin, those who live by the Spirit should restore them gently." Galatians 1:6
    This doesn't mean to judge but offer correction in love.

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před měsícem

      You spoke a word, Sherrie! It's our obligation to speak truth in love, if we say we love them. Thank you for watching,