How to use the Aunt Jackie's Don't Shrink Gel | Flaxseed range | No flaking | Best results | 4C hair

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 3. 02. 2021
  • #4Chair #Styling #Auntjackies
    I had cancelled this gel after one use a long time ago and was not willing to give it another chance but I really wanted to try it again and it is a KEEPER! it has now become my favourite Aunt Jackie's product after the QUENCH Leave-in conditioner. Watch the video till the end for all the tips and tricks while using this gel, it is worth buying.
    🔮 Important Tips!
    1. Use water
    2. Use water
    3. Use water
    4. Sleeping with a plastic bag on
    5. Don’t use too much product/ you can reapply product on another day but use water again
    6. Use an aunt Jackies leave in conditioner other brands might aid flaking.
    7. Make sure your hair is clean
    8. Use oil on your scalp
    9. Wash your hair after a week and do any moisture treatment before doing this again.
    Find me on Instagram: / tisa_ntl
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Komentáƙe • 144

  • @thandiabuengtitisi2019
    @thandiabuengtitisi2019 Pƙed 2 lety +47

    It's the no flaking that made me come watch this 😭

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +11

      I still use this gel and I love it, it’s been over a year now. I’ll review the other variants I’ve used and my new techniques ☀

  • @jewelkchatman4865
    @jewelkchatman4865 Pƙed 3 lety +47

    I have been using aunt Jackie’s products for four and a half years. they work well on my hair.

  • @mercyh193
    @mercyh193 Pƙed 3 lety +33

    Luv seeing a fellow Southern African Natural hair CZcamsr! Your hair is beautiful!

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Thank you Mercy 😇😊✹

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 Pƙed rokem +2

    Thank you! I just started this one today on my hair. So I will see.😊

  • @sihlelukhele8600
    @sihlelukhele8600 Pƙed 3 lety +19

    Thank you for taking your time and taking us step by step, it came out beautiful ❀

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      You are welcome Sihle, thanks for watching and leaving a commentđŸ€— try and and let me know how it goes.

    • @sihlelukhele8600
      @sihlelukhele8600 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@chatwithtisa I will dear

  • @siphokazirammile5660
    @siphokazirammile5660 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    This is the second video I am watching yakho and I am already in love :) you are a vibe!

  • @valerienkuna4766
    @valerienkuna4766 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    I am most definitely going to buy this one ☝ wow love your hair

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      Thank you Valerie 😊✹ I hope you will love it as much as I love it đŸŒ»

  • @zammyzee8073
    @zammyzee8073 Pƙed 3 lety +22

    I’m gonna try this. I’m actually deep in thoughts about cutting it because I’m getting frustrated with it as it grows

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      This gel will make life so much easier. Try the plastic bag method as well😇

  • @mrsmariko316
    @mrsmariko316 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    Fell in love at 4:59...you are a beauty, sis.

  • @nomthazikalala6640
    @nomthazikalala6640 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Love your channel sis!

  • @meraldamakotanyane2134
    @meraldamakotanyane2134 Pƙed 3 lety

    Tisaaaaaaa you have such beautiful long curly hair, I loveeeee itâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžđŸ™đŸŸ

  • @yourfavoriteoompaloompa139
    @yourfavoriteoompaloompa139 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    YOUR HAIR IN THE TWO PONYTAIL BUN BUNS IS SOOOO CUTEEE 😍😍

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I should the look again one of these days 😊 Thank you 💕

  • @nkulemthembu9264
    @nkulemthembu9264 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Love your hair OMG beautiful healthy curly!! Love it!

  • @KINGKWESI
    @KINGKWESI Pƙed 3 lety +3

    your hair is so beautiful

  • @katgab
    @katgab Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    3b fine fragile and LOVE this stuff!

  • @Steffadwoa
    @Steffadwoa Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you! I’m watching your videos as I’m about to try your way.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      How did it go? I’m still loving the gel.

    • @Steffadwoa
      @Steffadwoa Pƙed 3 lety

      @@chatwithtisa super bad 😭😭😭

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      What happened? My works each time â˜č yes I walk out the house with damp hair that has some residue if I’m in a hurry but it dries up.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      Did you use too much? And remember water is key.

    • @Steffadwoa
      @Steffadwoa Pƙed 3 lety

      @@chatwithtisa I think I didn’t have enough patient and my hair looked so short

  • @chengewasu193
    @chengewasu193 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    You're such a vibe!

  • @palesam8716
    @palesam8716 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    how did you achieve the pigtails hairstyle at the intro , tutorial please ?
    you look so beautiful đŸ„ș

  • @azolemaliwa617
    @azolemaliwa617 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Friend, I'm here for the hair growth...whaaa😍

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      Says Rapunzel herself 😅 this hair has been the same length for years babe and it’s okay 😇

  • @sphumelelembatha3533
    @sphumelelembatha3533 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    Your hair is Beautiful.😍

  • @SimplyRodah
    @SimplyRodah Pƙed 3 lety

    I have it, I used it once and I was like this is not for me, well I am gonna give it a try again after watching your video I will do a review on it soon.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      It really works and makes life so much easier for me especially because I hardly do protective styling, I mostly wear my hair out so this gel makes it all possible 😇

  • @christianaunderwood
    @christianaunderwood Pƙed 3 lety +3

    I usually detangle at my conditioner stage and then when I go to style it is still detangled(type 4, fine,low density). Do you think that may cut down on time? I bought this gel this week so excited to try this method.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      This week I applied the gel in a very lazy way, I detangled after application not while applying it, well I didn’t detangle much at all, it cut down on time a lot and I’ll be spraying hair with water and detangling and doing twist.

  • @StellaFranciss
    @StellaFranciss Pƙed 3 lety

    I love your videos

  • @marryshibamba1562
    @marryshibamba1562 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    The video I've been waiting for đŸ„° I still have the gel 😄 I'll try it this way and see how it goes. I know you're not a fan of heat but please consider recording your wash and go using a blow dryer for more volume? I know it will be on low heat 😄
    I love the way you do your makeup ❀

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Marry why are you encouraging me to use heat 🙈 I haven’t used heat on my hair in years and I think that what adds to its strength. Use the hairdryer and tell us how it goes😅 I still need some makeup lessons CZcams tutorials need too many products so I just do trial and error with what I’ve got 😁

    • @marryshibamba1562
      @marryshibamba1562 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@chatwithtisa ❀

  • @jewelkchatman4865
    @jewelkchatman4865 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    I use the don’t shrink flaxseed elongating gel and ice curls

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +3

      How’s the ice curls? How is it different to the ‘Don’t Shrink’ I’m not sure if I should try it.

  • @Shaunpeters105
    @Shaunpeters105 Pƙed 3 lety +11

    I usually do that..sleep with leave in conditioner over night then style my hair the next day

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +3

      It helps to absorb it better right? Then in the morning I do the rest of the process, oils, gel etc.

  • @iateyursandwiches
    @iateyursandwiches Pƙed 2 lety +16

    I've done similar technique before with leave in conditioner. You definitely don't have to leave the conditioner in overnight.
    Just a plastic cap over it for 10-30min before you style is fine.
    Also, not everyone needs to oil their scalp. Naturals with oily scalp like me can actually have scalp issues worsened like that.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +4

      I have actually come to realize that my hair doesn’t need that much oil, I oil it once every 3/4 weeks and it’s fine. I agree the leave in conditioner doesn’t have to stay over night, but do that when I’m tired from washing and it’s already late 🙈😅 I’m still loving this gel, it’s made my life so easy 💯

    • @iateyursandwiches
      @iateyursandwiches Pƙed 2 lety

      @@chatwithtisa that's fair. I'd do it as hot oil treatment maybe. Though of course, at that point I'm rinsing it out. Lol
      Honestly, i think the only people who need to oil their scalp often are those with eczema or something.
      I haven't tried this gel yet though I bought it. I heard people get just as much, if not more out of it when they use it alone. Will try next wash day.

    • @Antibeautyguru
      @Antibeautyguru Pƙed 2 lety

      There is a huge noticeable difference when I leave my conditioner in for 30 minutes and when I leave it in for the whole night. My hair is way better when I leave it in overnight.

  • @Hey_Its_Mikki
    @Hey_Its_Mikki Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Hey sis✹ off topic but can I please ask what camera/phone you use for your videos? I love the quality ❀

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I use an iPhone 11 😊 just 11 not pro or max, I usually record with my front camera.

  • @kgaugelolebea4055
    @kgaugelolebea4055 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Your hairđŸ˜đŸ”„đŸ‡żđŸ‡Šâ€

  • @progressuhuru8652
    @progressuhuru8652 Pƙed rokem

    For how long will your hair stay curly?

  • @callmek5
    @callmek5 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    heyyy love this gel. i’ve been using it for a while but i noticed it’s a different color? idk if i’m tripping but i thought it was clear and the recent one i just bought is like, a slight yellow color lol

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +3

      I noticed the same a few months ago and I thought maybe it’s because it had been on the shelve for a while that’s what happens, or maybe some oxygen got in I don’t know but when I got the next one it also wasn’t clear so I just used it and it seemed to be fine, maybe we should inquire about this with customer care.

    • @callmek5
      @callmek5 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@chatwithtisa yes definitely!! i’m glad it seemed fine for you! i haven’t tried the one i bought yet so we’ll see lol. thank u so much for the response by the way!

  • @nompilosibiya8373
    @nompilosibiya8373 Pƙed rokem

    Aybo bazalwane the curl đŸ„°đŸ”„đŸ„ș

  • @thandiabuengtitisi2019
    @thandiabuengtitisi2019 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Is the leave in conditioner from auntie jackie's a must in order for the gel to work properly

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety

      Still using them both, haven’t changed that order, I just add oil before the gel though, the aunt Jackie’s oils are amazing ☀ Thank you for your comments Thandi, all the best with your hair.

  • @monicahwafula2120
    @monicahwafula2120 Pƙed 3 lety

    Beautiful â€ïžđŸ„°

  • @andiswaradebe4698
    @andiswaradebe4698 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    Omg I love your hair❀❀
    I just want to know though, do you have to wash your hair after using the gel?

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      Thank you 😊 I usually keep the gel in my hair for weeks and even a month without washing my hair again but to avoid flaking I spray water and apply a bit of oil at least every 2/3day, sometimes if I need to style it in the front I’ll add little more gel and set it with a duku.

  • @whitneyrichards3506
    @whitneyrichards3506 Pƙed rokem +1

    I’ve been struggling with my hair for a while. It’s healthy but I have to constantly cut it because some of my curls are loose and it makes me have a weird shape (the back and sides are 3c, the front left part is 4a and the rest is 4b) and also I get single strands a lot. I noticed that my hair loves water but it also likes to be tucked away (this reduces my knots significantly). However, it’s hard for me to find a routine that works to keep my hair moisturised and knot free at the same time. Also, I get bored with my hair easily. I tried twists but after two days, I was ready to take them out. Gonna try this method for the upcoming week and see how my hair responds to it.
    Do u wet your hair at nights before putting on the plastic bag? What is the state of your hair before you put on the bag nightly?
    Thanks so much for this video!💕

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed rokem +1

      Hi Whitney 😇
      Figuring out our hair is a process that we have to embrace and be patient with, my hair has frustrated me to points where I had even started just cutting the knots instead of detangling🙃 but I have become more patient, every time I look at myself in the mirror when I wear my hair out, I just admire how gorgeous it looks and makes me feel, so that’s my motivation to remain patient. My routine keeps changing every year and a half or so. I don’t spray water before wearing the bag at night to avoid fungus, I only spray water when I’m restyling in the morning and apply some oils.
      Love your unique hair, you look beautiful in it 💕

    • @kerwinmanilal5071
      @kerwinmanilal5071 Pƙed rokem

      ⁰⁰

  • @theafricangirl._
    @theafricangirl._ Pƙed 2 lety

    i’ve been using this for months and i love it! however, i’m a little scared. is it safe for me to use every week (wash and go) even though it contains protein?

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I’m so glad to hear that 😇 I think go with how your hair feels, remember to take care of your scalp.

    • @theafricangirl._
      @theafricangirl._ Pƙed 2 lety

      @@chatwithtisa sorry again, but how to take care of my scalp exactly? lol i wash my hair once a week because water brings moisture. i don’t use oils

  • @jewelkchatman4865
    @jewelkchatman4865 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    I love your accent

  • @Tubi_P
    @Tubi_P Pƙed 3 lety +5

    The product junkie in me wants to go & buy this gel right away because the one I'm currently using leaves a bit of white residueđŸ„Ž But I won't because I'm tryna be more financially savvy😅
    Your hair is super beautiful 😍

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      Which one are you using? Try and wet your hair more the white residue goes away when you wet your hair, even with this gel when you apply too much or as more on another day before washing the first add it might get white but all I do is make sure I spray warm it after and then peace on earth 😅
      I love this gel this is month two of just using it with some oil here and there, it’s made my life so much easier, has actually made me lazy 🙃
      Thank you Tubi ❀

    • @Tubi_P
      @Tubi_P Pƙed 3 lety

      @@chatwithtisa I was using the L'oreal Xtreme hold indestructible gel. I cut my hair now😅

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety

      How was that gel?

  • @mmathapelodakada1524
    @mmathapelodakada1524 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    I've also had this gel since forever đŸ˜…đŸ€ŠđŸŸâ€â™€ïž... My only worry with just using the leave in Conditioner, oil and gel for moisture is that my hair would just get extremely dry after like day 2.
    I've also got low porosity hair and doing the LCO once a week is the only way I can retain moisture for like a week and a bit.
    I'll give it a try though. Hopefully this method works out for my hair as well.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      We have similar hair issues, I realised after doing this the second time that it’s actually not a good idea to do it consecutively without doing some form of moisture treatment. Sleeping with a plastic bag on helps my hair a lot with moisture retention, I hardly have to remoisturize after the moisturising I do on a wash day because of the plastics ability to keep it all in. I think a good variation would be LCO once a month and Gel for the other half of the month with the plastic magic ✹

    • @mmathapelodakada1524
      @mmathapelodakada1524 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@chatwithtisa yeah I agree, I think a balance of the 2 would work best. Thanks for the tip đŸ€—

  • @Itu310
    @Itu310 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    LOCG liquid (from freshly washed hair), leave in conditioner, penetrating oil to base your scalp, gel through praying handing

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety

      I love this routine ✹ how do you spray the gel? And doesn’t the cream and gel combined cause flaking?

  • @bree1689
    @bree1689 Pƙed 2 lety

    Look real good

  • @BohoChicSA
    @BohoChicSA Pƙed 3 lety

    Are there any taobao stores that sell it? I am only finding eco styler

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      Yes there is, you can use the image to search.

  • @leratoselebe1574
    @leratoselebe1574 Pƙed 3 lety +11

    I’ve never understood gels I thought it’s only for edges and must be washed the next day. But wow I’m going to try your tips thanks Tisa.

  • @angiescookingspree7073
    @angiescookingspree7073 Pƙed 11 dny

    I love it, but when I use it, my Blood pressure gets high. Maybe something in it that does not go well with me.
    But I love it

  • @kayl11688
    @kayl11688 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    I have tried this twice one with leave in that was cream based and by itself and still had flaking really bad

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Have you tried it with the Aunt Jackie’s leave in conditioner? And when you use it are you applying it on wet hair or dry hair? How much are you applying?

  • @bree1689
    @bree1689 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    If your hair is soaking wet it works better
    Try it in the shower after your gel is on and worked wet it more and shake to the left and right wala
    Anthony Dickey way

  • @thandiabuengtitisi2019
    @thandiabuengtitisi2019 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    So long how did you have to let your hair set so that the white residue isn't there?

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety

      It depends, because I don’t use heat I just style my hair, wear a head scarf for a few minutes before leaving the house, then the rest of the inner drying happens while I’m outside, but I won’t have an residue on the dry outer parts.

  • @phatjuicymilk7317
    @phatjuicymilk7317 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    Heyy am 15 and i am trying to learn how to maintain my hair (i always have it in box braids and barely moisturize it) I have 4C high porosity hair. I recently bought Aunt jackies leave in conditoner, curl la la defining, co-wash and oil. In which order do i need to use them?? Please help❀

    • @phatjuicymilk7317
      @phatjuicymilk7317 Pƙed 3 lety

      And how many times do i need to use it in a week??

    • @phatjuicymilk7317
      @phatjuicymilk7317 Pƙed 3 lety

      Please respondđŸ„șđŸ‘‰đŸŸđŸ‘ˆđŸŸ

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      I wanted to take my time to take you through it step by step 😊

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +5

      Protective styles like box braids for long periods are not good for our hair because of the pulling and lack of daily care. Our hair loves water 💩 I keep a spray bottle and spray my hair everyday while taking a shower. When I go to bed I always wear a plastic bag under my bread wrap (duly) this helps to keep the hair moisturised, I’ve spoken about this in some of my hair videos. When using the aunt jackies Quench always apply it on cleanly washed hair while is wet, then apply oil, then use the butter to do twists or to style your hair. The back of the product usually has directions on how to use it as well. I love the co-wash it’s way better than using shampoo and you don’t need conditioner. So the order is cowash then rinse it off, apply the leave in conditioner and don’t rinse it off and you don’t have to wait for it to get dry, then oil, then the curl la la, make big or medium twists and allow your hair to air dry. Let me know if you need anymore tips😊

    • @phatjuicymilk7317
      @phatjuicymilk7317 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@chatwithtisa thank you for the help! i usually have box braids in for like 2-3 months and after that i wash my hair wait some days and braid my hair again😅

  • @StellaFranciss
    @StellaFranciss Pƙed 3 lety

    Pls recommend a good deep conditioner

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I usually mix my own, using Avocado, banana, mayonnaise, olive oil, and blend it all up. Just make sure you strain the mixture so that you don’t have banana seeds stuck in your hair.

  • @jspurs22
    @jspurs22 Pƙed 2 lety

    My sister put me on this gel I barely do to much add and keep it moving

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety

      It’s amazing right😊 I still use it and I’m probably not going to stop unless they change the formula.

  • @sinethembasithole3074
    @sinethembasithole3074 Pƙed 2 lety

    Yuhh I love you❀

  • @ladym6942
    @ladym6942 Pƙed 3 lety

    Where do u get that gel

  • @mahlatsilehlokwa1509
    @mahlatsilehlokwa1509 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    You are so beautiful đŸ„°

  • @dzunisilemajozi52
    @dzunisilemajozi52 Pƙed 3 lety

    I am not skipping the adds 😂

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 3 lety

      Thanks for not skipping the Ad breaks 😅

  • @niecybaby1960
    @niecybaby1960 Pƙed rokem

    Really!

  • @aberashsabure4113
    @aberashsabure4113 Pƙed rokem

    I used it but it shrinks my hair

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed rokem

      You can do twists or tie your hair after applying it.

  • @Queen_MN
    @Queen_MN Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Oh no the gel is just difficult to work with and isn't that cheap. I bought it yesterday and I can't stand the white flakes. Cancelled for me.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +4

      That’s unfortunate that your experience hasn’t been a pleasant one, I am still using the gel, I love it so much, it makes my life so much easier. I am enjoying my hair so much more now more than before, I hope you give it another try, I also didn’t like this gel at first.

  • @wendykash975
    @wendykash975 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Wish you went straight to the point,

  • @lindajenkinsthe4564
    @lindajenkinsthe4564 Pƙed 2 lety

    It did not do well...i ended up with clumps like boogers in my 4c hair...omg..

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      You need to work it into the hair and take of the access, don’t stack it on. Do it on wet hair. Then allow it to dry.

  • @essymo1100
    @essymo1100 Pƙed 2 lety

    Really?,,no flaking?,,,really curios

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed rokem

      I’ve noticed that certain oils and thing I do can cause flaking, I’ve been doing this for over two years now, I’ll share the updates 😊✹

  • @Browndigs69
    @Browndigs69 Pƙed 2 lety

    I cancled this gel the worst gel ever....I had white balls in my hair after using this every time. So I'm a listen up to avoid this situation.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I completely understand, but I urge you to try again, this gel really makes my life so easy. And those white balls desolve when you spray water and rub them in.

  • @zerotwothree
    @zerotwothree Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    Every product is flaking, idk why

  • @brandydavis583
    @brandydavis583 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    This video was unnecessarily long. Thanks for making it, but it could have been edited quite a bit more.

    • @chatwithtisa
      @chatwithtisa  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Thanks for your input Brandy, I hope the tips and the techniques will help you have a more desired gel outcome😊✹