MY MISCARRIAGE STORY AT 7 WEEKS | MISCARRIAGE #2 | NATURAL PROCESS

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  • čas přidán 22. 12. 2020
  • Trigger warning: This video is about my my miscarriage story at 7 week +3 days, which was a natural process at home. I'll explain exactly what happened, how I felt/feel, and next steps, which include a whole bunch of lab tests and trying again!
    This is always a tough thing to go through, but I'm doing okay and we're still so hopeful for the future...just a little more patience.
    xx jana hope
    IG: @janadhope

Komentáře • 32

  • @lisamckay5718
    @lisamckay5718 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I just came across this because I just went through a miscarriage and our timeline/order of events was nearly identical. Though this was my first miscarriage (I have a 2 yr old son), I felt weird knowing I haven’t been too emotional regarding this. It doesn’t mean I didn’t want this baby but like you, I had my guard up a little during pregnancy and knew something wasn’t right the moment I started spotting, it was noticed at my ultrasound that I was also measuring 5-6 weeks when I should have been 7w4d. I haven’t seen your other videos yet but wanted to thank you for your transparency, especially with the pain because the pain was worse than I could have imagined. Wishing you the best of luck! 💛

  • @sabrinaczerwinski518
    @sabrinaczerwinski518 Před 2 lety +5

    Just found your video bc I am also going through a miscarriage. I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @BrittKatSlat
    @BrittKatSlat Před 3 lety

    My gosh, hun. Im so sorry. Much love to you. You’re not alone

  • @everydayhaley
    @everydayhaley Před 6 měsíci

    You are such a strong person. I appreciate the help you have given me on Instagram. I am in a similar place as you but praying for a positive future.

  • @KatieJoMikell
    @KatieJoMikell Před 3 lety +2

    That is exactly what happened to me I was like eight weeks but I was showing six weeks there was no heartbeat. I ended up having the surgery but what they found was my thyroid was like yours just a little off they would prefer it to be less they put me on medication I’ve been on it ever since and I stopped having miscarriages once they put me on thyroid medicine and added progesterone shots and baby aspirin.
    Just sharing that with you. Prayers and hope for a healthy pregnancy for you ♥️

  • @grethen123
    @grethen123 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing! Really helps to get in touch with my feelings

  • @lailaevans4847
    @lailaevans4847 Před rokem +1

    Sorry to hear about your miscarriage , It's like I'm feeling your pain . My first pregnancy was ok not spotting during it and no pain when I was pushing out my daughter but the stitches made me cry because it was painful than pushing out my daughter, the reason why is because they stitch me the other day after I had her. But my second pregnancy I had a miscarriage .first I miss my period so I went to the clinic to check up on my health because I was getting some itching down there you know what I mean , so when I was in the doctor office I told her about my miss period and she let mi do a pregnancy test and it was positive . So she told me to don't have any sex and prescribed a cream to rub on the outside of the area I'm feeling itchy because she didn't see any infection in my urine that the nurse test . So about a week pass and I still feels the itching before it finally go away. But one day when I was 8w&5d pregnant I was washing some clothes and after I finished wash and pin out and then come back in the house to rest . I went to use the bathroom and after I finished pee and wash my self with some water ,I then wipe myself with tissue and saw a very light pinkish discharge on the tissue. So I wipe again and see a little bit more. So I put on a pad then start to Google about my condition and the same thing that I was thinking about it's the same thing I read about first which is miscarriage .so I call my husband told him then I call my mom and she was telling me what to look out for because she go through the same thing once then a stillbirth after the miscarriage. So it was until the evening before the blood started to flow little , so the next day I went to the hospital and see a doctor , she sent me to pee so she could have it to do a pregnancy test but when I went to pee I felt some falling in the toilet and at that time I thought it was the baby because of how it looks . So I go back into the office and tell her what I just go through and she test the urine and say it is positive but I had to do a ultrasound to know if the baby is ok . So I did the ultrasound a vaginal one and as soon as that thing go up inside of mi I started to feel pain it's like it helps to lift the dead fetus off the wall of my uterus. I ask the lady if there is a heart beat she didn't want to tell mi I tell her that she could tell me because I already know that I am having a miscarriage because this is not like me to bleed during my pregnancy. So she tell me she did not hear any but the doctor will confirm with mi what's going on. So as soon as I go the result I read it and then go to the hospital and the doctor take it and look at it and let mi know that I was having a miscarriage. Then he give me the ultrasound results to give the people at the front desk to put it on my file . While I was there waiting the pain started to get more intense and mi pad could over flow any time and I didn't have anymore on me . About six hours past and evening come and I don't hear anyone called my name to see a doctor so I get up and go around a&e area where the doctors are and I see the doctor that assisted me before , so I ask him what's up even tho it wasn't my time so he tell mi the about the d&c procedure and I never like the sound of it plus who I going to take care of my daughter . So after him explain him ago tell mi to go and sit down till them called my name to see a doctor. Mi fi go sit down again and wait how much more hours , after them nah treat mi like a patient that needed emergency . So I went home and feel the pain. About 7-8pm I went to the bathroom to pee and I also bring my phone to take pics of what I am seeing .so while I was peeing I feel like something was coming out of my vagina so I pushed and I feel pain when I push and it fell in the toilet. So I use something to take it out and when I look at it I realized that it was the baby cause I saw the feet and arms. I measured it in my hand beside my middle finger and it was 3incehs long . On the ultrasound results it say that the baby is 5w&5d but for me I was at 8w&5d pregnant when I started to miscarry the baby. I feel pain for 2-3 days after and bleed about two weeks straight. For me I would say having a miscarriage I More painful than childbirth. One thing i thank God for is that I never got a infection after , but for three months straight after having the miscarriage I feel similar pain ever time I had my period.

  • @essentiallylau
    @essentiallylau Před 3 lety +6

    Hi, I'm so sorry for your loss. Here is my experience: In my preconception appointment my ob told me the same - that my TSH was 3.6. She explained, as you mentioned, that it is preferable that it is below 2.5. I researched about it and even thought it's in the normal range for non-pregnant people, it really is recommended that it's below 2.5. And after doing a bit more research, this slightly high level is linked to early miscarriage (I'm sorry I can't quote where I got it from). So I went ahead and started taking a low dose of levothyroxine as she recommended. I will be getting tested this week or next to see if my levels of TSH are lower.

    • @janahope
      @janahope  Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks for sharing your experience! I do know a lot of people that have chosen to go that route as well and I think it could potentially be beneficial or at the very least not harmful. I personally don’t want to start for now, but I might change my mind in the future! It’s something I’m definitely keeping a close eye on.
      I’m seeing a fertility specialist now and she recommended to leave it alone for now, as it’s looking more likely that my miscarriages are due to genetic abnormalities. We’ll see how it goes! 🤞😬

    • @essentiallylau
      @essentiallylau Před 3 lety

      @@janahope Yea, I totally understand. It's great that you're working with a specialist now!

  • @genesisgomez7336
    @genesisgomez7336 Před 3 lety +1

    Currently me going through all this Friday I get my second part of blood drawing . First time going through time going through this thanks for all the advice .

  • @HCPF123
    @HCPF123 Před 3 lety +8

    So sorry you hear of another miscarriage 😢 life is so unfair. Take care ❤️

    • @janahope
      @janahope  Před 3 lety

      Thanks so much, dear! Just doing my best to stay positive 💛✨

  • @nickiandnatty6420
    @nickiandnatty6420 Před 3 lety +11

    God is goin to allow ur baby to come... Ur miracle is coming.... Tust mi I know ur feeling had 3 miscarriage but I'm trying this month I'm in my two weeks wait..

    • @janahope
      @janahope  Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you, dear! I really appreciate it. I’m sorry for your losses, but crossing my fingers and toes for you!! ✨

    • @irmaebochs-homeloans6597
      @irmaebochs-homeloans6597 Před 3 lety

      Hi Nicki & Natty, were you pregnant?

    • @nickiandnatty6420
      @nickiandnatty6420 Před 3 lety

      @@irmaebochs-homeloans6597 yes I was but lost the baby at 9weeks and 5days

    • @irmaebochs-homeloans6597
      @irmaebochs-homeloans6597 Před 3 lety

      @@nickiandnatty6420 Oh NO!!!!!! 😢💔
      I had a d&c 4 weeks ago. We did try without waiting my first sycle. I'm now in my two weeks wait, but I don't think I am. It will be my 3rd pregnancy. I'm scare to lose it again.
      We have to keep trying and be strong, so we can eventually have our Rainbow babies. 🤞🤞👶

  • @IsabelGarcia-wl8rm
    @IsabelGarcia-wl8rm Před 13 dny

    What pain medication did you get 🙏🏻please let me know I’m trying to prepare

  • @KristiShaver
    @KristiShaver Před 2 lety

    I'm 10 weeks and having a miscarriage now

  • @irmaebochs-homeloans6597
    @irmaebochs-homeloans6597 Před 3 lety +2

    I have Hypothyroidism. I've been doing a lot of research. TSH has to be under 2.5, preferably under 2.
    I also had 2 miscarriages, one chemical pregnancy at 5 weeks, thyroid was at 4.65. Second pregnancy I had a D&C at 9 weeks, baby stopped growing at 7 weeks 3 days. When baby stopped growing my TSH was 2.58, 5 days before then.
    My fiance, my family and I, think thyroid could have been the problem. Baby stopped growing 5 days after that day when they did the blood test.
    Btw, today been three weeks since the D&C, we are already trying again. I got ovulation pick today, with the clearblue digital test. Hopefully this time we can have our healthy baby Rainbow.
    One more thing about the thyroid. When we are pregnant, TSH goes even higher because we are using more hormones to provide for our baby too. Just you can have an idea. My levels were last time at 2.58, now after the HCG went down because no longer pregnant, my levels of TSH with the same dose of medication, went down to 0.34. My dr lower my medication a tiny bit now. Only a tiny bit because I'm still trying getting pregnant, so it needs to be low, so it will be balanced for the pregnancy.
    I hope my experience helps. 🙏🥰😘 🌈

    • @yasminxo9955
      @yasminxo9955 Před 2 lety

      Omg I had a miscarriage and my TSH was 4.110 do you think that’s high? And you think that caused my miscarriage

    • @irmaebochs-homeloans6597
      @irmaebochs-homeloans6597 Před 2 lety

      @@yasminxo9955 It is recommended to have it under 2.5, preferably under 2, but not necessarily been on 4 will cause the miscarriage. Some women have a normal pregnancy with a little elevated tsh.
      There are other thing that can be happening. A fertility doctor can send those test to you if you have multiple losses. I did all those tests after my second miscarriage and everything was good. I got pregnant again for 3rd time and I also lost it. This time we send the baby to the laboratory. The result was Triploidy from mother side. You can search online for a better understanding what is it. It is that my egg didn't divide as supposed to. Baby forms with 23 chromosomes from mother plus 23 from father, 46 total. My egg didn't divide so it sends all 46 and baby had 69 total. It is not a generic problem or the age. Doctor says it is just something that can happen to anyone.
      Just try to keep your TSH checked, but again, there are some other things that can happen.
      I'm currently trying again. I lost my 3rd pregnancy a little over two months ago. I'm not giving up; it will happen eventually.
      Baby dust to you. 🤞🙏👶❤

    • @yasminxo9955
      @yasminxo9955 Před 2 lety +1

      @@irmaebochs-homeloans6597 ok so maybe my tsh wasn’t the cause I read your comment and I thought mine was high and maybe that’s why I miscarried 😓 I wish you the best and I hope you get ur baby soon baby dust to us 🥰

  • @BrittKatSlat
    @BrittKatSlat Před 3 lety +1

    Do you know how old your baby was when you miscarried at 7 weeks? Much love

    • @irmaebochs-homeloans6597
      @irmaebochs-homeloans6597 Před 3 lety

      I think she mentioned baby was around 5 weeks. Dr told her that at the ultrasound.

    • @BrittKatSlat
      @BrittKatSlat Před 3 lety

      @@irmaebochs-homeloans6597 thanks Irma. My gosh miscarriages are so upsetting. I just had a d&c today. Bless you

    • @irmaebochs-homeloans6597
      @irmaebochs-homeloans6597 Před 3 lety +1

      @@BrittKatSlat Yes, it is. I had a d&c 3 weeks ago. I found out at 9 weeks that my baby stopped growing at 7 weeks 3 days, and no heartbit. :(
      I was devastated first day. Watching CZcams other female experiences and seeing how common is to have miscarriages, it makes me feel better, so I recovered pretty well and quickly, still, I cry for that baby sometimes, but I understand it happens.
      My fiance and I just started trying again. My dr told us is preferably to wait one sycle, but I think it can be okay to just try right away knowing that women have healthy pregnancies from getting pregnant 3 weeks after having a baby, why not with a d&c. Also a fertility doctor in CZcams said it is okay to try right away before that first sycle. I hope we can have our healthy Rainbow baby this time. 🙏🍀👶
      I am so sorry for all us having to go through this. I am so sorry for you! 😞 How far were you?

  • @KaitlinChristel
    @KaitlinChristel Před 10 měsíci

    I’m so sorry…my prayers are with you and know you will get your rainbow baby soon 🥹❤️‍🩹🌈