6 Things "Nice Guys" Do WRONG!
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You can be a nice guy without being a nice guy. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM iamalpham.com/ AaronMarino aaronmarino.com/ Pete & Pedro peteandpedro.com/ Tiege Hanley www.tiege.com/and ENEMY enemy.com/ says, “no more Mr. Nice Guy” but you have to be willing to be honest with yourself.
What Nice Guys Do Wrong and How to Change Them
Letting things slide when someone is disrespecting you - you must stand up for yourself by letting them know it’s not okay even if it rocks the boat. In turn you’ll be taken seriously and respected.
Investing more into your relationships than others invest in you - are you the one who is always calling, texting, and doing for them? Are you always putting in all the wok? Healthy relationships are built on a mutual investment in developing and cultivating the relationship. If you are always the one putting in the effort, chances are it’s time to move on.
Apologizing for things that are not your fault- it’s a knee-jerk reaction to say you’re sorry when you’ve done nothing wrong. Stop smoothing things over.
Not having an edge - no attitude, nothing ‘dangerous’, nothing different. You look bland, vanilla, and safe. Goatees, soul patches, and slanted sideburns add a bit of edge.
Always being available - you shouldn’t always be available, dropping whatever you’re doing.
Compromising your dignity - you need your pride, self respect, and honor. Stand up for what you want. - Jak na to + styl
Alpha: stop saying sorry!
Me: sorry.
Sign of beta male is "sorry"
Pratik Jaiswal sign of beta male is calling everyone else beta male
Haha, that's great!
Ants In My Pants yup
Subconsciouslockdown it’s a tough habit to break 😂
Stop apologize
Girl: My dad died yesterday
Me: ok noice
You can show sympathy without apologising
Perfect response. That's rough buddy
@@broomer2798 i know i know
He was a dick anyway🤷🏽♂️
@@haruyanto8085 well yes but actually no
This guy is YELLING at me the whole time lol
Then stand up to him and tell him how that makes you feel. Lol
Boy your profile pic says why😂
😂😂
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@@theraygunactivist6925 LMAO😂😂
Crush:*blocks me on all social media*
Me:*blocks them in real life*
“Thanks Alpha”😂
Ju4nm_24 good for u don’t let ppl treat u like shit bro
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Thanks saved my time
00:41 They let things slide
1:34 They invest in relationships more than the other person
2:36 They apologize for things that aren’t their fault
3:23 They don’t have an edge to them / No attitude
5:53 They are always available
6:21 They compromise their dignity
Thankyou brother
👏🏼
Thanks so much 🙏
Thank you 🤠
I was looking for a comment like this and I found it. Thank you kind sir.
If she catch me cheating I will never tell her ''sorry'' - Future
St. Hndrxx fedora has spoken
cus its not ur fault🤣
Im the one beingcheated but im the one saying sorry, because she said it's my fault that she cheated with the same guy again
Alpha: "Don't always be available"
Girlfriend: My dad passed away and you're invited to the funeral.
me: That sounds cool but I'm busy (;
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
As soon as you start *putting yourself first,* before anybody else, you'll stop being a nice guy.
Thanos I hate this guy
Exactly. It is not a sin to be more selfish.
being selfish and cutting people off is addicting though. You need to find a balance or you will think you're "too good for everyone". we're all human
cyan0xide Sometimes people aren’t worth your time though. I get what you mean but I don’t feel I’m better than anyone, I just don’t see any benefit in investing my time into others rather than myself.
cyan0xide I guess the balance is different for everyone. Maybe some people naturally need to spend more time on themselves
U know ur early when the add skip guy hasn’t commented
Caleb Neal everybody says that when they’re early
But that’s true tho
Hahaha
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you're right
Caleb Neal it’s in the description anyway
Thanks bro for the advice......and am a big fan
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Guys ithadichupoyi guys... 😂😂😂😂bro ningal poliyaan
Itharu
Probably needed to hear this. Thanks Alpha M your the big bro I never had but need in my life.
Alpha: Don't always be available
Me: * Having no plans whatsoever * ._.
Same shit boi
I never have plans
Salman Raza maybe you don’t need plans. Just entertain yourself for the time being. I’m with this girl now. Honestly sometimes I don’t wanna go out with her I’ll make up some bullshit excuse.
Fake it until you make it!!
Funny but also true for me
1. Letting everything slide
2. Invest more in relationships than others invest in you
3. Apologizing for things that aren’t your fault
4. Not having an edge (Grooming Ad) ends 5:52
5. Always available for everyone
6. Compromise their dignity
Omar Sanchez your a legend bro
Love your channel man..You're like a dad/uncle/bigger brother to everyone
Best advice for every men : don’t chase women.
Chase. But if she doesn't chase back. Then, there's alot more tail out there....
Speak to her, be interested to her, to what she does but do not put the vagina at the center of your life
Yeah, if she's really interested, you don't need to be putting so much more effort in than the (potential) partner.
Nobody Unknown you can lay women without chasing them : just be in touch with one or two and be barely available and work on your projets because you are a fucking alpha chasing money
@@LetsBoogieLetsDance Well don't chase money either, pursue happiness.
I love how every video from Alpha feels like a pep talk every day, cheers dude, keep it up!
Matt Salisbury at least he’s taking you in the right direction 💙🤝
Yo you should do a recap of the most important things you should do from this year for a video.
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It’s really nice to have you tell me I’m awesome and worthy of respect. Thanks Alpha
Basically, you have to put her second. There is a reason why so many women fall for psychopaths and criminals (not even joking)
100%.. girls like narcissists :) .. scientifically proven. Women like these types of guys for short term relationships or one night stand
Studies have a lotta factors in it.
An opinion on a comment section doesnt make it flawed. You hate a narcissist but you're most likely not to understand who is a narcissist when it comes to real life. You may find him/her appealing or fabuFUCKINGlous without even knowing what a piece of selfish little pisky he/she is
110% true
Makes sense.
Narcissist here probably why I got dumped but oh well its life man cant help it that I dont give a beep about someone's feelings its easy to play women when you dont have feelings I mean I dont want to be one but cant help it
Literally I’m dealing with this, couldn’t have landed on this video at a best time
Same that’s where I’m at rn
Perfect timing stg
“Yo Alpha, I can handle a bit of brutal honesty”
This was a wake up call, thank you Alpha!!!
Bro you are so consistent. I love it I’ll be honest haven’t been watching your videos as much but I get a notification every morning man. It shows you’re a hard worker and i just had to come in here and comment. Keep it up!
Saiyan’s Mentality you’re a dope person man
Austin Rode thank you!
He is the only person that I can listen to yell at me lol
Aaron is truly like a father figure or a big brother for all of us. Always telling us wats wrong n wat v must do to be successful. I actually did forget some of these things for some time. Thats aaron for reminding me the things i m doing wrong. Love u man❤
This vid speaks to me on all levels. Dealing with a recent breakup btw. Thanks for the vid man.
Being Needy and Creepy. For a example, Complimenting a girl that doesn't find you attractive is Needy and Creepy trust me... I Coach guys all the time on this. Great video. Keep it up.
Primal King Dating Well that is kinda true, if you are attractive you can do *almost* anything. Like me and my friend complimented the same girl, she reacted differently when I gave her one and when my friend did.
What if it's a complete stranger and I make an approach opening with a compliment? Is that needy and creepy or good for game?
@@user-dc4yr2ev5h I understand were you are coming from. You can compliment a girl but there is a skill to it. I usually advice beginners to not compliment girls they are trying to sleep with because it can come off as trying to hard if not executed properly.
@@jeremyfoot8996 For beginners, I say do not compliment a girl because if not executed properly it will come off as Creepy and try hard.
But how do you know if she finds you attractive or not?
Everything but the edge is me. Aaron you just made me realise something, thank you.
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Ever since my deviated septum surgery I felt like my nose ruined my whole face and I lost a lot of confidence and almost gave up with taking care of myself, but watching ur videos really helped me so thank u Alpha M. I take all ur words to heart
Whenever i feel broke u came just like a saviour... Thanks man for boosting us.. and giving a helping hand to stand up again🕺 lots of love from India
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Makes my day.
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I really appreciate your content and always seems to be posted when I need it.
You're very inspiring to me and you make me feel like I can do things that I don't normally believe I can. thank you!
2nd point just hit me hard😣 ive recently went into college and i feel the same way aplha explained
after watching the video
I realized I needed this video
Thanks Alpha I actually needed that speech. Keep up the good work.
I wish I have been here earlier! I learned all these facts the hard way, but yes the good thing is it just proves how authentic alpha contents are! Now I surely believe in you big brother!
Alpha: stop saying sorry
Canadians: sorry
Sorry ehhh
FOXTROT 22 sorry
Apologizing for things that aren’t your fault? You’ve passed the Canadian citizenship exam:)
Wow! Thanks for this Alpha 🔥
Thanks for subtitles ❤️
Take some pride in your heritage
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I waited for this in my entire life 😍💥
That's the one thing a Saiyan always keeps ;)
jesus christ...
Shouldn’t you be training with Goku and Whis rn?
2:39 haha hell yeah alpha it hits me right there. Inside of my heart lol.
i can handle brutal honesty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
one of the most motivating videos out there
1. You let things slide
2. You invest more in a relationship than people invest in you
3. You apologize for things that aren’t your fault
4. Not having an edge. ( looking basic, looking like a nice guy basically )
5. Always availlable for everybody. It’s okay to say no
6. Compromise your dignity
Bro, Everything is exactly about my life :D thanks for those good advices
Yo Alpha, thanks for all your videos that shout out encouragement, advice, and build confidence. Keep up the good work man!
Uncle Aaron always with the best advice
Got an exam tomorrow but when alpha posts a video, I click!
@Coach Glen Byrne That's the only thing I'm counting on, luck!
Your name sounds like someone's pet tarantula...
3:42 "Grow a little facial hair"
Literally saw this video after I just finished shaving.
I genuinely needed this man, like seriously
Thank you Alpha! So needed this 🙌
Love how 3 minutes of this was plugging a set of clippers- ngl I did skip that whole part
Words to live by: "If you act like a beep, you're gonna get beep."
Edit: A heart from the Alpha himself. I consider myself worthy now.
Savage grandma
"If you act like a taco, you're going to get eaten?" That can go more than one way. 🤔
What's *beep :/*
Pussy and fucked. Words behind the beep
Beep?
This video hits me right in the core.....which is why at age 21 I've decided to give up on women for the time being(after many painful experiences),focus on myself and my job along with cutting ties with some people I once considered “good/best friends” however I still like to help people though so long as I’m capable of doing it....saying no just doesn’t feel right....
Thank you so much for the final speech! That’s what I needed👊🏼
Martin Kohoutek I think the majority of us needed 💙
0:15 that’s where Daddy’s ‘ALPHA’ came in.
I love how every time Alpha starts promoting something, he starts out without anything in his hand and then magically pulls up an item into view. 😂😂
The last one is what I’ve done for last three days ago! Especially today, when I realized it was too late before she’s gone! But It was a success as I stand up myself and tell her how I felt! -Diego Perez
You're an inspiration to us..!! Thank brother....love your videos....!! Keep sharing knowledge
Wow all this just happened to me last night
superlauch25 I’m sorry my dude 💙
Me after watching alpha's videos: I wish there were more like buttons
Alpha m has Great energy!! Very positive dude
Thank you for all of your inspiring and informative videos all year! Have a wonderful holiday season!
When people say I’m sorry for stupid reasons I tell them “What are you sorry about?”
Me: praying at night "God help me stop being a nice guy and stop getting hurt"
God: go see Alpha M latest video son
😅😅
Thank you Alpha M. For your videos it really help me a lot 😎
I respect this man
If we say no I’m busy, she can always turn around with the “why you never make time for me”
So tru
Or just find a new guy
Who gives a fuck a bad guy have many options and tons of women for back up! Nice guys rely on 1 woman to satisfy them*
im a busy man my time is not for wasting bitch
just kidding bruh dont say that shit 🤣
Alpha m saving my ass everyday thank you 😂❤️❤️
Our azzez 😁😜
Great video I definitely do apologize way to much and put it In more effort than my other. Something I gotta work on. You make great videos because you almost always give good advice.
Your words are simply awesome and motivating ....Thanks bro
Damn. Alpha knows how to activate my self-esteem
Guys SAY after me:
*I'm BAD ASS* .
repeat..
I repeated this so much, I went Super Saiyan!!
🤣🤣👍🏼👍🏼
No
@@NitinRNtini thats all it takes? When I was a kid I just flexed and yelled for 5-10 minutes with no luck
Instructions unclear... bombed a building..
The energy in the video🔥🔥
This video punched me in the face . Alpha speaking nothing but truth.
Dont always be available, you must ignore some calls & texts....
" bad guy😉
Bro you promoted like 5 grooming tools by now,and each of them was “the best”🤣🤣
It's good that Aaron Marino yells, it keeps me in check
God bless you man. I needed to hear those words.
6:10 he becomes a rapper now lol
"It's okay to say no, it's okay to be like 'yo" bars dude
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nice video alpha you have come far.. respect
Alpha always has the best advice
Alpha: Stop sayin' sorry
Me, a Canadian: ehhh what?!
Bruh when he said “you guys are amazing” and “you are incredible” I instantly smelled the devil on him
Man, I admire your energy! Really gets me pumped to live
Preciate you alpha. That hit home for me
NEVER be a people pleaser. Best way to start NOT being a pushover.
You speak your mind even if they don't like it that's their problem
Friends are like pen's , if they dont work, break them in half and bin them
I reread that three times
Like Pen 🖊 Pals
Much respect man ! You’re very helpful I appreciate what you do 🙏🏽
thank you man for those kind words
You: don’t apologize too much.
A Canadian: oh... I apologize too much... I’m sorry.
😂
I was just being a nice guy on reddit
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PREACH IT, ALPHA!
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