I think this is a good example of boundary setting, especially for those of us who grew up without any, it can be difficult to even know what that looks like, so thank you.
This is so true, I grew up with no boundaries, and am anxious attached, my first relationship we spend every Single minute together even tho it was to much for either him and me and we didn't respected or really set a boundary about that in particular.
It’s good she didn’t take it personally or get offended or defensive. It would have been very easy to see that as a rejection. She’s secure in herself. So is he to be able to set a boundary like that.
If the other person gets mad, you should stand firm. Don't falter just to please them or feel guilty. Boundaries are vital sometimes the need of solitude abd self time is important. If it's constantly together it can be a lot too
If I said this to my partner, he would instantly think I don't want to spend time with him... I really miss doing my own thing.. How do you make a man see the importance of personal space?
Yeah, recently I had been in an online relationship. Apparently i needed to completely focus ly time on so many other things in between which means i had to talk less and less by a lot with the person involved. It's harder for them that we're not talking as often or as much. But their anxiety and such energies has really been affecting le in ways i never realized. And i keed time to focus on my foundation and the whole thing. And recently i have been focusing on supporting those close to me in my community helping out and all of that. So it's been a lot of investment and energy where i need to put it. But all in all i feel i can breathe. Doing our own thing is important. Some periods we are also required to spend in our own solitude to look at our relations with a different pair of eyes, different perspective and such. Reflecting about the relation of circumstances of things is vital so we know if it's good for all or not or for ourselves
If he can’t give you a half a day, or a few hrs to yourself, your man isn’t healthy emotionally! I mean, 3 hrs to play a game isn’t bad! Go do something else lol now if you ask for a week alone.. nah!
This is not how they react they then see an opportunity to cause an argument about it so now your giving attention to her while your friends are waiting
This is the fakest shit I’ve ever seen. In reality she gets all mad, has zero understanding and then goes in the other room and starts flirting with guys on Snapchat.
right but that just means she isnt ready for a healthy relationship. gotta find a healthy one! also gotta make sure you yourself are healthy because it's totally possible to relay a healthy boundary poorly/rudely.
It’s a longer perspective of things, you should already have your girl trained to not disrespect you, no snapping and follow instructions when I speak. It’s a masculine process that starts with yourself, zero tolerance for toxicity, I’m the male rock figure, that provides your income, what I say goes or I have options.
@@frankv7068 :/ trained???? Like a dog. This is why most men are single n can’t get a date. Why can’t you just express how you feel and what u need and allow the person to understand u. A simple “ babe this is my time for me n the bro the play video games, when I’m done we can do something you like.” Simple compromise. Dating is a process if she’s not understanding then drop her. But this business with “ training” ppl … that’s gross. U can’t control anyone but ur self.
Okay, no. Mabey if he didn't sound like he was so damn annoyed at just her existance and shit and she didn't actualy move his head to shove his face in a picture then this video wouldn't have pissed me off so much. Honestly relationships shouldn't need these boundaries, your partner should know that people sometimes need time for themselves. It just sounds really pathetic to say to someone you love: "stay away from me from specificaly 2:30 to 4:00" as an example. Its just kinda weird and robotic, it sounds like they're just tolerating each other instead of being in love.
Only if women could actually respond like this lol. It’s usually “oh. So you like don’t want to be around me? So you like don’t miss me? So like do you even love me?”
why would he never asked for space in 5 years and all of sudden its like he needs space, we don't live together. It is solely long distance, he drives truck and we meet in a month..he said he loves me but need time...even in long distance huuh??
I think this is a good example of boundary setting, especially for those of us who grew up without any, it can be difficult to even know what that looks like, so thank you.
same I grew up without any boundaries, and now I'm finally learning
This is so true, I grew up with no boundaries, and am anxious attached, my first relationship we spend every Single minute together even tho it was to much for either him and me and we didn't respected or really set a boundary about that in particular.
Woow, I honestly was expecting her to get mad! I really love the understanding and the great example this is!!
Protect that woman at all costs
It’s good she didn’t take it personally or get offended or defensive. It would have been very easy to see that as a rejection. She’s secure in herself. So is he to be able to set a boundary like that.
Yeah no conversation goes like that haha but I’m glad they can show us how to do it!
Ik. If only it was this easy
Excellent example of boundary setting. I know its importance
Understanding women don't exi-
She is a replica of Kim Kardashian
But the better version
YES YES YES, and also if she's anxious please tell her the hours you'll be busy. If she's codependent I just know she'll be counting the minutes
Skin care routine 🤣🤣🤣
My boundary is all the time everyday except nighttime and a few midday breaks xD
Most people get offended when someone tells them this smh. I love my space...alot of people dont understand the need for this 😢
Can you make a video similar to this but show what to do if the other person gets mad or offended?
If the other person gets mad, you should stand firm. Don't falter just to please them or feel guilty. Boundaries are vital sometimes the need of solitude abd self time is important. If it's constantly together it can be a lot too
That was a beautiful example. I hope it was real.
I hv seen women give the same response and she later reveals the sarcastic intent behind those words. It's disgustingly immature.
Yes the skirt over the leggings Omgggg 😂😂😂
No matter how perfectly you explain she's still gonna get mad😂
If I said this to my partner, he would instantly think I don't want to spend time with him... I really miss doing my own thing.. How do you make a man see the importance of personal space?
Yeah, recently I had been in an online relationship. Apparently i needed to completely focus ly time on so many other things in between which means i had to talk less and less by a lot with the person involved. It's harder for them that we're not talking as often or as much. But their anxiety and such energies has really been affecting le in ways i never realized. And i keed time to focus on my foundation and the whole thing. And recently i have been focusing on supporting those close to me in my community helping out and all of that. So it's been a lot of investment and energy where i need to put it. But all in all i feel i can breathe. Doing our own thing is important. Some periods we are also required to spend in our own solitude to look at our relations with a different pair of eyes, different perspective and such. Reflecting about the relation of circumstances of things is vital so we know if it's good for all or not or for ourselves
If he can’t give you a half a day, or a few hrs to yourself, your man isn’t healthy emotionally! I mean, 3 hrs to play a game isn’t bad! Go do something else lol now if you ask for a week alone.. nah!
Thank u my bf and i were at a party and he stepped into my pace and we were face to face
😂😂😂yeah, that’s not how that conversation goes in real life…. That is the beginning of a 3 day argument in the real world🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️😔😔😔😔
4 hours later…why’d he miss that ball!! Oh honey I can’t talk now too tired 😢
An immature woman will see this as rejection and will try to debate you
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I Think this is an excellent example ..Now let’s reverse the roles.. 😅
Then she’ll go text her side dudes lol
This is not how they react they then see an opportunity to cause an argument about it so now your giving attention to her while your friends are waiting
Her reaction is very unrealistic
Lol. Fairy tale land.
This is the fakest shit I’ve ever seen. In reality she gets all mad, has zero understanding and then goes in the other room and starts flirting with guys on Snapchat.
right but that just means she isnt ready for a healthy relationship. gotta find a healthy one! also gotta make sure you yourself are healthy because it's totally possible to relay a healthy boundary poorly/rudely.
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it's normal to feel sad and defensive still, doing this to yes understanding that's important
It’s a longer perspective of things, you should already have your girl trained to not disrespect you, no snapping and follow instructions when I speak. It’s a masculine process that starts with yourself, zero tolerance for toxicity, I’m the male rock figure, that provides your income, what I say goes or I have options.
@@frankv7068 :/ trained???? Like a dog. This is why most men are single n can’t get a date. Why can’t you just express how you feel and what u need and allow the person to understand u. A simple “ babe this is my time for me n the bro the play video games, when I’m done we can do something you like.” Simple compromise. Dating is a process if she’s not understanding then drop her. But this business with “ training” ppl … that’s gross. U can’t control anyone but ur self.
Okay, no. Mabey if he didn't sound like he was so damn annoyed at just her existance and shit and she didn't actualy move his head to shove his face in a picture then this video wouldn't have pissed
me off so much.
Honestly relationships shouldn't need these boundaries, your partner should know that people sometimes need time for themselves.
It just sounds really pathetic to say to someone you love: "stay away from me from specificaly 2:30 to 4:00" as an example.
Its just kinda weird and robotic, it sounds like they're just tolerating each other instead of being in love.
But how do you not feel guilty after?
She should already know that😂.. We need our own space everybody does
Script but real life she'll be mad
so scripted and unrealistic
It’s a skit
thats not gon work fam
She is way out of your league.
Nobody is out of anyone's league!!! No one's even out of your league because you're amazing in your own way!!!
she’s pimping him
@@joshuamac6302Exactly. I keep on telling people this. There is nothing like being out of ones league
@@stactionsmedia3318 People will always believe what they want I guess!!!
how?
Only if women could actually respond like this lol. It’s usually “oh. So you like don’t want to be around me? So you like don’t miss me? So like do you even love me?”
why would he never asked for space in 5 years and all of sudden its like he needs space, we don't live together. It is solely long distance, he drives truck and we meet in a month..he said he loves me but need time...even in long distance huuh??
Kim k wannabe
nah just signs your man hates you
Awful example it never plays out like that