MY RANT WITH PEOPLE TALKING TRASH ABOUT DUMAGUETE

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  • What Kind of Expat are You Going to Be. Lets Stop Judging others Living in the Philippines. Lets Stop Judging Dumaguete And the People who have Decided to retire to Dumaguete. CZcamsrs who talk trash to get views ‪@mikesphilippineretirement‬ ‪@DumagueteRentals‬ Quitting You Tube. Retirement. Living on a $800 Budget in the Philippines. Paying to much for Rent
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  • @billyjohnson9166
    @billyjohnson9166 Před 5 měsíci +65

    Mark Thornton hitting another man. That was wrong and he should be punished. Maybe black listed from the Philippines for his actions.

    • @RCFSULAW
      @RCFSULAW Před 5 měsíci +13

      Really. What would be your response if two men were spreading lied that your wife and sister are 304s sold by their parents for a price. What should happen to these two men.

    • @billyjohnson9166
      @billyjohnson9166 Před 5 měsíci +18

      @@RCFSULAW physical violence is always wrong unless your hit first.

    • @RetiredArmy2012
      @RetiredArmy2012 Před 5 měsíci +10

      your right we just cant act like that anymore im guessing i would only protect myself in self defence not for mouth running

    • @RCFSULAW
      @RCFSULAW Před 5 měsíci +11

      @@billyjohnson9166 Really. When they went outside he had Dexter in front of him and Justin right behind him. They went outside to fight and it was two on 1. Someone tried to stop Justin inside the Coffee shop by grabbing his shirt but he pulled away. The words were Let's take it outside and it was 2 on 1 walking out that door. Moreover the video shows Justin turned around in his seat instigating the altercation. All I know is if I have one person who wants to fight in front of me and another right behind me I am not going to let either of them hit me first. Maybe you think it's okay to call one man's wife a 304 and her sister engaged to another foreign man a 304. Then refers to the parents as selling their daughters in return for major improvements to their house. This was the chismis spread by Justin and Dexter. Personally I would have just told the father and men in the two daughter's Barangay.

    • @tinmanrobby
      @tinmanrobby Před 5 měsíci +8

      @@billyjohnson9166 So don't defend yourself against violence towards yourself? How do you defend yourself from aggressive violence? Run? Get hurt? What reality do you live in?

  • @stannmcb3
    @stannmcb3 Před 5 měsíci +35

    I have three goals.
    1. To live my remaining days without posting a video 🤣.
    2. To cultivate what ever it takes to remain a welcome guest in the country.
    3. To find lasting peace.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +2

      enjoy and I hope you reach your goals

    • @danielhackney7806
      @danielhackney7806 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Anyone that puts their life on video pays a price. Plenty of trolls out there so you need a THICK skin. The good news there is some real money to be made on CZcams. If it ever gets to the point that I can't live in the Phil's on $3,000 a month I'll give CZcams a shot. Otherwise my plan is to live a low key retirement to avoid trolls. I was glad to retire early from my $9K dollars a month HIGH pressure job! But I do miss the monthly $9K. I had no need to budget until I retired! LOL

  • @jimc3672
    @jimc3672 Před 5 měsíci +34

    Mike, when I first started watching you I actually was not a fan. But you won me over! You are a thoughtful man. I like your factual calm and straight forward talks. Keep up the good work.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +4

      Thank you Jim

    • @rickstahl2066
      @rickstahl2066 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Mike, I found your videos a few months ago, you won me over right away with your reasoning and logic. I will arrive there in Cebu in May, looking for a good place to settle down for retirement. I am a widower for 9 years now. Hopefully I will meet a good lady after settling in.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +2

      best of luck Rick

    • @rickstahl2066
      @rickstahl2066 Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks, I have a quick question, can I fly in and get a tourist VISA, or do I have to get pre-approval before I get there?

    • @Gurkha9
      @Gurkha9 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@rickstahl2066 There's visa on arrival for 30 days, renewable

  • @christopherbradley5575
    @christopherbradley5575 Před 5 měsíci +18

    The message is "Mind your own business, live and let live" Anyone who has a problem with that, isn't worth your time.

  • @jimscholz2997
    @jimscholz2997 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Your honesty and calmness shows at every opportunity. You are a wonderful Ambassador to the US...

  • @flyingauditor
    @flyingauditor Před 5 měsíci +22

    I'll be moving to the PI and am a veteran. My attitude about the youtubers criticizing and condemning the actions of others, shows the "true lack of character the people have." Proverbial crabs in a basket, trying to make themselves look better than others!

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Very true. Crab mentality, or utak talangka or talakang pag-iisip in Tagalog

    • @WoodysPhilippines
      @WoodysPhilippines Před 5 měsíci +3

      Agreed! We should be respectful of other's life decisions. Any low life can be critical. It only displays the ignorance and depravity of such a person.

    • @WoodysPhilippines
      @WoodysPhilippines Před 5 měsíci +1

      Agreed!!!

    • @frankkie3849
      @frankkie3849 Před 5 měsíci +1

      If you’re coming here and you’re a veteran especially retired military, please check in with the RAO office. In Angeles city near Clark international airport..old Air Force Base..😊

  • @dukeman7595
    @dukeman7595 Před 5 měsíci +8

    Mike, don't let those bums bother you. You run a nice clean channel with usesul information, those that need to use drama to receive views are a flash in the pan. They will be found out for what they are sooner than laterand and be gone. You have the best channel as far as I'm concerned.

  • @michael_Jon7
    @michael_Jon7 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Hey Mike, I agree with you 100% brother ✌🏽
    We all do not have to agree on anything, to be kind to one another 🐸🙌

  • @kennethaustin7718
    @kennethaustin7718 Před 5 měsíci +16

    There is drama everywhere in the world. People will be people. It seems like some people are not happy unless they are stirring the pot. If you mind your own business and ignore the people who love drama and live your best life you'll be successful and enjoy your life. Life is what you make it... so just live your best life.

  • @Lawrencerice
    @Lawrencerice Před 5 měsíci +26

    Excellent point about Steve. His whole CZcams channel is focused on being helpful to random strangers. Takes a pretty small person to attack a man like that.

  • @marcofluff
    @marcofluff Před 5 měsíci +7

    I was born and raised in NYC .The lesson I learned over my lifetime when moving is that visit the location your planning to move too. I made the mistake of moving to a city to soon and it took me 12 miserable years to figure out I did not like it there. Then when I moved again after that i promised myself a shorter time line . Folks listen to this man he knows what he is talking about.

  • @themalejodietaylor2599
    @themalejodietaylor2599 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Great commentary Mike. You're a good man.
    Janet stole your thunder there at the end.

  • @markbergman4667
    @markbergman4667 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Mike, I'm like the others. Getting to know you is growing to respect you. I lived in the Phils from 2010 to 2021. I lived it the hard way, finding work and getting by. I was really lucky. I wish that I had advice like yours to guide me when I was there. I'm thinking about returning now. The USA is such a sad mess now. Same problems as you point out between expats there. People judging each other and hating each other. Plus mental health is horror story here. I hope we don't contaminate the Filipino culture.

  • @johnclark1469
    @johnclark1469 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Thanks Mike. Being fair levelheaded and positive -putting things in the correct perspective is why your channel is successful.
    After having met both Justin and Mike of Mikes Dauin Beach Resort in person I found Mike to be another choice for Dive training and certification. I would recommend interviewing him as well. I found him a professional, respectful and mature dive shop owner. He is a successful family man from the US as-well w 3 kids. His Padi Dive training is more flexible and accommodating to many needs. His shop even offers Padi training courses partly on-line for those w limited schedules. it’s good to investigate the various dive shop options.

    • @napoleonmdusa8877
      @napoleonmdusa8877 Před 5 měsíci +2

      thanks for the info about Mikes Dauin Beach Resort. When I get out there I want to check out several dive resorts and maybe review or update my certification and do some dives.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci

      See John you could have talked highly of Mikes Dive Shop with out putting down Justin. What's the point John

    • @johnclark1469
      @johnclark1469 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Okay Mike. Thanks for the discussion.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      not really John I have the freedom to delated any comment that I find is making personnel attacks on others This is not the first time you have done this but it will be the last on my channel. If you have nothing good to say about a person and the business they have, you should not say anything. You can promote your friends business but not at the cost of putting others in a bad light

    • @johnclark1469
      @johnclark1469 Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement I understand and agree. Appreciate the correction.

  • @BarakTheWonderer
    @BarakTheWonderer Před 5 měsíci +4

    Wonderful message of no judging, and just enjoying people for who they are. Just be you! Thank's Mike!

  • @jan27291
    @jan27291 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I really respect your calm, common sense. Thank you for giving us your way of seeing things. I am married with a Filipino wife Berlita and we have a beautiful young daughter, here in Canada. We will be permanently moving and living in Philippine in the next few years. I personally have always found that if I treat Filipino's as brothers and sisters (equals) , then I get what I give .

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci

      we all should earn the respect we want

    • @jan27291
      @jan27291 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Always heard from my mother , Respect is earned

  • @MikeSmith-frog
    @MikeSmith-frog Před 5 měsíci +9

    Mike, You said it well today! As you, my wife of 30 years and I are coming to Dumaguete soon to join the local community. I am fast approaching 74 but still have that adventure for traveling. All we want to do is blend in and meet all of the good people there. After working overseas for 48 years in 60 countries all we want is a peaceful, simple, stress free life. We are looking forward to meeting you two. All the best!

  • @dave_in_florida
    @dave_in_florida Před 5 měsíci +5

    Mike, you are 100% correct. I enjoy your channel. I’ve been watching it for a month now. Hope to make my first trip there Philippines this fall.

  • @JoshuaReigns
    @JoshuaReigns Před 5 měsíci +6

    I agree with you, Mike.
    Our family's primary purpose for coming to the Philippines is mostly economical. We've never lived affluently, nor do we want to. I think things are going to get even more expensive as time goes on, so we just feel that we should live as frugally as possible and the Philippines seems like a very good place to try and do that. Secondly, our family embraces a peaceful life, and we'd like to continue that as well as make good close friends, lifelong friends, and to be left alone to live that peaceful life among friends for the rest of our lives.

  • @jimmyB52
    @jimmyB52 Před 5 měsíci +9

    😝 Janet’s photo bomb had me cracking up! I hope you guys enjoyed your day.

  • @marksweeney3265
    @marksweeney3265 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Good Video! Everything I have heard about Dumaguete is that it is a laid back, peaceful place, with friendly people. To me it looks like the people who are talking about the drama are making the drama. May you and Janet have a Happy Easter!

  • @billyjohnson9166
    @billyjohnson9166 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I’m living my best life here in the Philippines. I try to enjoy everyday. Tomorrow isn’t promised. Great video mike.

  • @user-cc3fi4cb9u
    @user-cc3fi4cb9u Před 5 měsíci +3

    Excellent video ! Love your calm and peaceful way of expressing your negative feelings about some CZcamsrs. Keep your vibrant energy and nonjudgmental videos coming. Love them.

  • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
    @marriedtoafilipinachannel Před 5 měsíci +4

    Always live your videos Mike and Janet!!! Good people giving sound advise. Let the haters hate and live life to your fullest!!! Be joining you one day my friend

  • @markfreiling2910
    @markfreiling2910 Před 4 měsíci

    Me and my wife arrived in the Philippines on May 2nd. We are living here for peace of mind, enjoy the rest of our life- travel- new period in our life’s.
    We don’t like bad vibes- drama . I have watched many of your videos and enjoy your vibes. I am a friend of Steve.

  • @leroypope6602
    @leroypope6602 Před 5 měsíci +11

    I once heard " that if you mind your own biscuits, you won't have time to mind mine" Like your videos!!! Keep up the great work. I'm going to Cebu in Oct.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thank you! Will do! you going on Vacation or to live?

    • @leroypope6602
      @leroypope6602 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@mikesphilippineretirement I'm coming for a month to get a feel for the area. Travel around some , hopefully to a few islands.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      enjoy your travel

    • @leroypope6602
      @leroypope6602 Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Thank sir, I'm planning on it.

  • @4abetteru
    @4abetteru Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this message, Mike. I'm here looking for that peaceful "soft landing" over the next 10 to 15 years or more hopefully. I know I can live a comfortable life here and be respectful because I am the guest here.

  • @hanglee5586
    @hanglee5586 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Being raised in Boston Massachusetts, I enjoy the city life in the Philippines.🇵🇭

  • @donaldmoore9895
    @donaldmoore9895 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you Mike, I enjoyed your message and it’s at a perfect time. I agree no one should judge anyone, we have only one judge!

  • @brent2438
    @brent2438 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I faithfully support a small circle of quality CZcamsrs. I stay away from the trash talking drama channels.
    I think that Dumaguete recieved that nickname because there are so many vloggers there, that any drama with expats is instantly known.
    I'm sure that any of the popular expat location in the Philippines sees it's share of drama.

  • @paulk8444
    @paulk8444 Před 5 měsíci +4

    One of your Best as I came to see if I could live there and traveled some of the islands and then I actually came to Dumaguete to meet some CZcamsrs and got turned off by them at Ground Zero. Then I met some Filipinos and really clicked; then I met my Girlfriend and all of a sudden my focus changed as All I wanted was PEACE and NO STRESS.. So all of a sudden Sleepy Quiet Duma completely won me over and I'm now moving there in July and while my best friend from the States lives in Cebu, and other friends are up there or elsewhere that is the Life they want. I just want to keep my head down, and be a piece of sand on the beach and just be kind and good to those around me and those i encounter as I AM a reflection of how i treat those I see and meet everyday and just want to greet them with a smile and leave them with a positive note. Your a Good Man Mike and Jan is a doll who has truly blossomed and I avoid the whole Mark & Dexter incident and those gossiping as it so high school and beneath 99% of expats. Let's lift each other up and not compare or tear each other down as there will always be someone Bigger, richer, smarter taller etc. just Be Happy with yourself and who you are is my motto and this is exactly what i believe this video also shows. Thanks and look forward to someday having a coffee with you and Janet.

  • @dongras7135
    @dongras7135 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Well said as always. Vent all you want. You made valid points. Thanks for sharing.

  • @tessmencidor9590
    @tessmencidor9590 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Great video Mike, there’s also a relatively new name: WHORAGUETE. This had to do with the new batch of Filipina CZcamsrs behaving badly. We have the wife of a well know expat youtuber who mainly does bikini videos in a very despicable way. They could be done with certain class, but this lady doesn’t have any shame showcasing young, teenager Filipinas shaking their “assets”. Shame.
    Then we have another young Filipina, single mother, who I believe is in the process of getting her K1 visa to USA, but is resourcing to 2 and 3 live streams daily, showing lots of skin or doing work outs wearing almost nothing or very short garments.
    Some female locals are certainly contributing towards Dumaguete notoriety. Best to you and Janet.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      thank you never heard of that term

    • @raylopez8148
      @raylopez8148 Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement I guess Tess is referring to Mae and Jessel.... Jessel's behavior has changed drastically.., yes, she's engaged to an American fellow but it seems she's trying to attract the wrong type of attention with those semi-sexy videos.

  • @ed5308
    @ed5308 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I think you are a source of information for people that would like to relocate. No matter where you move you cannot avoid people that have their own issues to deal with. Its seems people that would have a tough time being able to afford living in America under today's inflation are trying to make it in the Philippines. I have prepared myself for a Western retirement and will just stay put until my time is up. Thanks for your perspective of life where you are living.

  • @johnfeit6916
    @johnfeit6916 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Getting away from drama is why I want to move to the Philippines.

    • @paulk8444
      @paulk8444 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Absolutely as to go there in "NO Stress, and NO Worries" so when i walked into Ground Zero and it was like a bunch of high school catty girls i just sat quietly and kept my mouth shut drank my coffee and left. Not the place for me But fell in love with the town and met a Great Lady so now i will lead a Quiet life in Dumaguete in July and hang out with mostly Great Filipnos

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci

      Go for it John

  • @CharlesFuh5pt4nd7z
    @CharlesFuh5pt4nd7z Před 5 měsíci +5

    HAPPY EASTER MIKE JANET & PJ! GOD BLESS!

  • @user-bf9sk5wl5z
    @user-bf9sk5wl5z Před 5 měsíci +4

    Lived in Thailand for 16 yrs ..I avoided most Ex-pats due to too many bring their hostility & confrontation attitudes with them. I love Asian culture, food, respect and kindness ...I also love a quiet peaceful respectful life. Finally did find teachers, aid workers and a few retired professionals who were "like-minded" ..I can't understand WHY those who seem to love confrontation back in the states seem hang together here and make life difficult for others.

  • @venussandiego8425
    @venussandiego8425 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for representing my people and educating expats.

  • @FilipinaUnfiltered
    @FilipinaUnfiltered Před 5 měsíci +4

    I found out early in my itty bitty channel that it doesn’t matter what we say or do, some viewers will react negatively. Great video, Mike. Love the view!😊

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Very true! Wish you could join us in the mountains of Negros. Watch all your content from your vacation. EVERYONE CHECK OUT HER GROWING CHANNEL

    • @FilipinaUnfiltered
      @FilipinaUnfiltered Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement I am ready to come back there now! 😂 thank you so much Mike and Janet!

  • @keenwood571
    @keenwood571 Před 5 měsíci +2

    You are spot on about all of this Mike , thank you, we love you and Janet. God bless!

  • @mistermcluvin2425
    @mistermcluvin2425 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Good video Mike and I totally agree with your views and approach to life. I don't think anyone can stop others from judging another expat or from complaining about what's happening in Duma. To make matters worse, drama garners views and views=money on YT. So there is monetary incentive to keep stirring the pot. There are underfunded expats who make their living by being a provocateur. With the expolosion of new PI channels, you can only make so many budget, apt or dating videos before you blend into the background.

  • @barryalderson3081
    @barryalderson3081 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Mike, as always, you are on point. I love how down to earth you are. Keep up with good work. You may never be a "big" channel, but you will always be one of the top 3 reasons I have married a Filipina and will retire over there. Thank you. And, as I tell my Filipina, and as Janet should also be recognized as, both are the treasure of the Philippines.

  • @lavonyoung2366
    @lavonyoung2366 Před 5 měsíci +3

    There are so many CZcamsrs. Many of them can't create interesting content on their own, so they jump on the bandwagon. Mike your channel is one of the interesting ones. I live here in Dumaguete and I like it here. No place is perfect.

  • @timothydarling646
    @timothydarling646 Před 5 měsíci

    Hey Bud I am the person who labelled it DRAMAUGETTE, I am permanent resident of Philoland and lived in Asia since 1997, I currently reside in Hong Kong and also a permanent resident here so pretty lucky guy. We have a place in Manila and a house an hour out side of Duma and we going back in couple of months. There are a couple of you guys I would like to meet but a few other's I would not piss on if they were on fire.

  • @edwinholcombe2741
    @edwinholcombe2741 Před 5 měsíci +1

    He described my life to a T here in Puerto Princesa, Palawa. I don't run around the Philippines visiting every tourist spot although I do travel to Manila a few times each year for shopping and enjoy what a big city can provide. I do not hang out in the bars - I've never been much of a drinker. Not so much of a womaniser, chasing every skirt in town but I do have some relationships. I do not strive to climb the social ladder in the expat community, but I do have a few expat friends I meet 2 to 4 times a month. I have plenty of local friends I meet with weekly.
    My life is built on a routine. I feel secure in maintaining my routine. I have a nice house that I fixed up to my liking - very comfortable. I have househelp that has been with me for 4 years. We have a trusting relationship.I keep up my garden. I stay within my budget and able to set aside some for savings every month. I do my cooking. I go for morning walks and do the gym. I live in peace. I thank God for all he has given me. I am blessed.

  • @momentousjourney5998
    @momentousjourney5998 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Good video Mike. I watch videos for information purposes and not drama. I avoid drama and try to stay out of everyone else’s business unless they ask for my help. Everyone should have the right to live their lives the way they want to unless it negatively impacts the lives of others. Even then it may not justify my involvement. As for me, I think your video was right on target. Thank you!

  • @fernandolapitan197
    @fernandolapitan197 Před 5 měsíci +6

    POLITICS is a big NO NO if you are not a filipino. NEVER EVER MEDDLE IN OUR JNTERNAL AFFAIRS.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      talking about US politics

    • @rustynail3630
      @rustynail3630 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Why not? A lot of things wrong in your country. Foreigners have made it better and are free to voice their opinion.

  • @Alexinthephilippines
    @Alexinthephilippines Před 5 měsíci +2

    Youre one of a few vloggers that I continue to watch.Even when you rant you put a positive spin on it. I delete CZcamsrs that get critical and negative and I certainly dont want to be around that type of person during my visits there. The Philippines and Dumaguete have a lot of great things going on and the good ex pats outnumber the negative ones by thousands to one. Keep promoting the good things.

  • @alexajero8523
    @alexajero8523 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Mike, well said. Negative people will be around and do their talk. They’ll get their karma & will regret it. Like the song say, “Don’t worry be Happy!” Good luck to everybody out there and enjoy life to the fullest and treat everybody with respect.

  • @johnwakefield9378
    @johnwakefield9378 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are wise articulate man who shares good sense to us all. Thanks

  • @wil4596
    @wil4596 Před 5 měsíci +2

    i agree totally with you Mike, im the same as you, older, retired, just want to enjoy my time with wife & Daughter, i dont judge anyone, but expect no one to judge me. i watch you, and paul, goldfinger, i dont drink , but love coffee and chatting, i rarely talk with other expats because alot are in philippines for different reasons.

  • @travelwithxavier
    @travelwithxavier Před 5 měsíci +2

    exactly everyone live they own life they own way , no one can judge someone else way of life well said Mike ✌

  • @EricvanDorp007
    @EricvanDorp007 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Watched in a few day some uploads from this channel and feeling thankful for the information you give me… Greetzzz from the Netherlands... End of this year, I am on my way to finding the love of my life. I already know the LUZON area is the place to be for me because of the lower temperatures...

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 4 měsíci +1

      how much lower did you think it is in Luzon compared to Cebu or Negros

    • @EricvanDorp007
      @EricvanDorp007 Před 4 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement I am watching uploads about Baguio. It seems like an interesting area. Seeking places where the temperatures are a little lower than constant 30+/86+ I will do my research. Planning to come for a long time. I can retire at the age of 56 and take lots of advice from your uploads..Thx 4 that...

  • @offthecuffadventureswithjamie
    @offthecuffadventureswithjamie Před 5 měsíci +2

    Very well said Mike. The bottom line is go enjoy your lives as you see fit people. Don’t be a follower. Lead your pack and don’t look back…
    People bottom feeding on other channels shows a great lack of integrity. It’s as simple as that!
    Happy Easter Mike and Janet!
    J

  • @nepachess4909
    @nepachess4909 Před 5 měsíci

    I really enjoy your videos, this one in particular. You are very grounded and have a healthy perspective on what truly matters in life. Im seriously considering retiring there and like you, I am a homebody. Dont want to see it all but just settle down and take it easy. If I meet someone to share that with, even better. Thanks.

  • @wcanterbury55
    @wcanterbury55 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Love your video's Mike, they are very informative and entertaining, thanks for making them. Keep up the great work.

  • @maplesyrupphilosopher6886
    @maplesyrupphilosopher6886 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Very well said, too much ground to add to everything but I'll speak to this point you made: living within your means is honourable. If you know what your limits are no matter how much or little that is and you're responsible enough to colour inside the lines, I respect that.
    Live your best life and if you're happy with it and you're not hurting anyone else for it - what's the issue?

  • @trueve
    @trueve Před 5 měsíci +2

    Great video Mike! I think you did a wonderful job explaining. Thank you Sir.

  • @HuyenJones
    @HuyenJones Před 4 měsíci

    Mike you are very good at what you say. I am pleased that you have a young wife and you are happy because you are a honest guy. I also notice how good Janets English is since being with you she has grown in confidence. Well done to you both.

  • @georgetinant9486
    @georgetinant9486 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I’ve been to Dummagette last year and it’s a decent place. I thought it was Philippino normal , it’s great that you lol it , Drama- that was when World Zoom got exposed, it was a laugh and still it ,
    Thanks

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      yes but that is more Mark vs World Zoom

    • @Frank_Nemo
      @Frank_Nemo Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Well, not really, Mike, I recall you also being pretty upset when Paul Cardwell (World Zoom) did his 'child brides of Duma' vid. Point is, we can all be laid back and cool about drama....until it affects us.

  • @JamesEwart-td9dr
    @JamesEwart-td9dr Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks for all of your info. I have been watching your videos and enjoy them.

  • @michaelpalosaari9460
    @michaelpalosaari9460 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for yet another easy to listen to video. I have yet to get to the PI - I’m planning September/ October of this year for boots on the ground / 60-90 days discovery trip. Thanks to you and all the other, sound sane vloggers, I’ve learned so much!! Keep up the great work! Peace !☮️

  • @bookemdanopinay7427
    @bookemdanopinay7427 Před 5 měsíci +1

    LOVE WATCHING YOU GUYS ATTACK AND REACT VIDEOS ABOUT EACH OTHER.

  • @cadizwilmo9687
    @cadizwilmo9687 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Good message here. Bottomline; be nice, be who you really are and don't create dramas in DUMA.

  • @peterpoulter1420
    @peterpoulter1420 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Good video Mike. I spent a week in Duma didn’t like the place the beaches were crap traffic was bad I found Bohol a lot better just my opinion cheers 🍻

  • @EasternDreamer615
    @EasternDreamer615 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great video Mike, I have lived off and on in a boarding house in California. It’s certainly not for everyone. Better for me than living on the street though.

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      hope everything works out in your life

    • @EasternDreamer615
      @EasternDreamer615 Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Oh yeah, it was a choice, I managed to save about 70% of my income and have spent the last year in Thailand.

  • @FilipinaRecordedLive
    @FilipinaRecordedLive Před 5 měsíci +2

    When we did a similar video telling everyone to be friendly I got The sarcastic comments of 'great advice I didn't know I should be that way ' etc. People are so nice 😁

  • @bookemdanopinay7427
    @bookemdanopinay7427 Před 5 měsíci +1

    AS A SRRV RESIDENT MY LIFE IS HAPPY JOYOUS AND FREE. LOVE WATCHING THIS DR PHILL GUYS TELLING EVERBODY WHAT TO DO AND WHAT TO THINK

  • @user-bh1se9hn9j
    @user-bh1se9hn9j Před 5 měsíci +2

    Simply affordable..and seems like nice to live and the people seem nice. Just simply enjoy. Love the culture.

  • @wj3123
    @wj3123 Před 5 měsíci +2

    For Mike:
    Outstanding job… keep doing what you’re doing.
    Thank you.
    Will

  • @happyhippyhaven
    @happyhippyhaven Před 4 měsíci

    Good job of presenting your .message

  • @free2roam674
    @free2roam674 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Just like everywhere, seek and ye shall find. I love the Dumaguete area. Initially I did travel quite a bit, but lately I am happy to be here, lets face it, a beach is a beach. I need a pool, other than that everything I want or need is within one hour. Like you, some days I just want to chill out at home. Cam

    • @mikesphilippineretirement
      @mikesphilippineretirement  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thanks for sharing Cam

    • @free2roam674
      @free2roam674 Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikesphilippineretirement Life is short, as well get older we need to become more gracious and generous. Never be a pushover, but always lead with kindness and a smile.

  • @jamesriser5305
    @jamesriser5305 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Mike, I have been around a long time and have lived in a variety of places in my many decades here on earth. Ages ago I came to the conclusion that I can choose to be happy no matter where I happen to be. I am certain that I could enjoy and be very happy in Dumaguete. It is all in one;s attitude. I do enjoy your many informal youtube chats.

  • @MMPlaneSpotting-su3ns
    @MMPlaneSpotting-su3ns Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great video Mike. As my LDR GF says, we will have a nice, peaceful life together. Couldn't ask for more than that. Really enjoying your content!

  • @RoscoeScott-vz1oc
    @RoscoeScott-vz1oc Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks Mike I really enjoyed that vidio excellent thinking

  • @danmcqueen5295
    @danmcqueen5295 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Another good positive vid, thanks!

  • @rodneil7732
    @rodneil7732 Před 5 měsíci

    Great advice, I'm back to the Philippines (from Australia) in July, my lady lives in Basey, out the back of Tacloban, every time I come over we try and visit and stay somewhere new, just trying to get an idea where we would eventually settle down. Dumaguete is certainly on our radar and we will visit soon. I love the ocean as a active fisherman and she comes from a farming background but also loves the ocean so I have seen some areas out of Dumaguete that look wonderful. The idea is to travel around and make a top five places we would like to live then maybe rent somewhere in those locations for a good 3 months and get a feel for the area. Is this something you would suggest or is there another way. I totally agree, I want to live there to relax and enjoy life and leave the stress behind. Just seeing the animals wondering around behind you made me homesick for the Philippines. Hope to catch up one day, all the best to you and your lovely smiling partner. Rod

  • @DR23184
    @DR23184 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Appreciation, Humility, Honor and Patients are things that westerners are losing or don't have at all.
    Thanks for keeping it real Mike.
    The gossip mill in any country is usually alive and well.

  • @bud11dy
    @bud11dy Před 5 měsíci +1

    I will be in cebu in september. I have been talking to my girl about eventully moving to Dumaguete after I retire. I still have 10 yrs to go. But Im going to try to retire earlly and maybe move there if I llike it, when Im 60 to 62.

  • @Alleycat_67
    @Alleycat_67 Před 5 měsíci

    Mike I can say that after becoming interested in the Philippines I'm happy I came across your channel as well as a couple other positive, informative and entertaining CZcams channels. To the channels that dissect and ridicule others all I can say is it must be a miserable life if that's the best way they can find to express themselves. This Canuck will buy you a coffee in appreciation of your channel. Cheers!!

  • @samuelaragon3465
    @samuelaragon3465 Před 5 měsíci +1

    You er right on Mike I lived in California in the Bay area I paid 3;000 a month for rent that one reason why I didn't talk to a lot of people at work 757 Employees To much BS don't Buy in to it. Life is too short

  • @SpiritRobert-gq3pl
    @SpiritRobert-gq3pl Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great video Mike. Honesty is the best policy and you hit the nail on the head. People who cause problems with gossip are envious and bored with their own misery

  • @rainbowbill531
    @rainbowbill531 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Know a gal from Dinagat Island.Been conversing with her for over 4 years. Works in Manila, to support her family. She's owns 2 homes on Dinagat Island. She's 44, I'm 71. One in Basilisa, the other in Legaspi. Do you know anything about the Dinagat Islands, and these towns? Any input will be appreciated. Going to travel to Manila in the near future. Thanks, Mike I live in Traverse City, Michigan

  • @Maputi_na_Kalabaw
    @Maputi_na_Kalabaw Před 5 měsíci +1

    Good video Mike. People need to grow up and act right, especially being in a foreign country.

  • @ivannovotny4552
    @ivannovotny4552 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Mike, never disappointing and brutally honest as always. Thank you for sharing/posting.

  • @evelyndennis9199
    @evelyndennis9199 Před 5 měsíci

    Good advice. I love your show ❤. We are from California . I married American for 37 years. We are ready to go back to the Philippines for good.. we will see soon. God bless you both of you😊❤❤

  • @josephgrudza3873
    @josephgrudza3873 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Good morning from Lubbock, Texas. I appreciated your video today. As it is March 31st where you are it will be my birthday here on Sunday. I am so looking forward to coming there next year and relaxing. Y’all have a blessed week and please keep up the good work.

  • @robertreynolds580
    @robertreynolds580 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Be respectful...more so in a foreign country. As to the "baggage" others have...respectfully let them keep it.

  • @ernstwondering899
    @ernstwondering899 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I like that you are calling that out - a settled peaceful life - some are looking for it, many are not. It's about finding your troop and in how you want to live your life. Shared values and respect regardless of where one comes from, to me seems to be the ticket. Glad you, Janet and son are living a great life - thanks for the vlog! EW :)

  • @geraldstewart
    @geraldstewart Před 5 měsíci +1

    You are right on brother. Everyone should live their own life as well as they can. Trying to bring down others will never pick you up. Respect others as you would want them to respect you.

  • @XPATJACK
    @XPATJACK Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks Mike, for a different perspective, much appreciated 👍🇦🇺

  • @neilmalabuet5829
    @neilmalabuet5829 Před 3 měsíci

    sir your just a good human being God bless you enjoy life....

  • @glenn9057
    @glenn9057 Před 5 měsíci +1

    i enjoy hearing your thoughts about things there Mike. you are one of the good guys. some youtubers will sometimes say things to get things worked up. maybe it gets them some views and likes. people love drama. it makes for great daytime tv. dont let it bother you too much. opinions are like assholes. everybody has one. keep up the good work there😄

  • @tomhunter2623
    @tomhunter2623 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Mike this was one of your best videos. You can tell the way you talk you are proud to live in Dumaguete. I don’t miss Dumaguete yet and I am enjoying Roxas City. Mid April going to visit a friend in Cadiz maybe I will like it there. I wish you and Janet all the happiness in the world. You both are a wonderful couple. See you the next time I am in Dumaguete.

  • @KanoKanding
    @KanoKanding Před 5 měsíci +1

    I expect that people would try to project a positive image and be an ambassador of goodwill and kindness, especially knowing that so many are trying to escape a different culture or just start a new life. Hopefully more folks just enjoy. But I suspect some folks get too comfortable. They take things for granted. And then the change happens. I’ll remain idealistically hopeful but ever watchful.

  • @gowithin9451
    @gowithin9451 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Very positive video with common sense, thanks Mike. I travel a lot and no matter where you go there is drama. Originally, I was going to the Philippines this April to find a serious long-term relationship but every time I think I found a nice girl worth getting to know, I find out she has been heartbroken and because of this, I decided to stay single and just enjoy my retirement. One of my favorite CZcamsrs is Chad, he keeps his channel fun and positive without all the drama.

  • @teds8928
    @teds8928 Před 5 měsíci +1

    SRRV, relaxation and enjoyment of living a simple, peaceful life❤

  • @darkroast66
    @darkroast66 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I always enjoy the thoughtful, helpful vids.

  • @herbwitt7710
    @herbwitt7710 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hi Mike and Janet ❤️. Your right leave your garbage behind. So many good points you make in this video my friend. Thanks Mike.. Missing Dumagete and the great people.

  • @RetirePhilippines
    @RetirePhilippines Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks Mike. Your wisdom shows by the wife you chose.