100 percent with Sir. I respect my late mother for making us work in the kitchen. Now I am 53 yrs old and actively participate in the kitchen work with my wife. I don't care who says what behind me.
Still now in 2022 I'm facing same problem... When some guest comes home I'm anxious that i will be judged as a lady ... All the work you told will be done by me only.. Lott of stress and anxiety i will go through once we call some family to our house as a housewife
You forgot one important aspect... Humans tend to remember only the good times...A classic example is childhood..we say it was so much fun... but the reality is the opposite...we forget so many painful aspects of childhood..eg. depending on everyone else for the smallest thing... you want an ice cream.. you will get it after a week.. but you feel like ice cream now... fingers getting jammed in the door.. falling down and getting hurt... studying for hours when you actually feel like playing...
I'm 27 years old woman. I'm unmarried. Living with my parents. Me and my sister are both earning good money. But both my parents are suffering from illness. So most of our earnings go to their medicine and others. But somehow I feel like my parents don't understand what I am going through. For silly things they tell me cruel things, making me feel I'm not enough. Please make a video on this. I'm suffering internally.
Please try to get medical insurance for family. If you are into a corporate job then please take parental medical insurance as well. It will cover already existing diseases as well.
You are right sir. Sabko maze karwane ke liye humne apna kya kya khoya hai, No one can even imagine. Thank you sir only you touched our ( dukti rag ). Chalna firna bhi almost impossible
Ur a genious. U understand the stress of women of both generations so well. Whatever u explained was overcome by my mother and today she is suffering from health issues. Thank u sir. I watch almost all of yr videos and like the content and the way u explain.
Im 33 years old and started watching ur videos..liked your content....Nowdays peopl are watching kaccha badam (including me)bcos not awaire about the content like ur videos......People will watch,what they have been served.........This has to be stopped somewhere...Government should do somthing so the audience will see the productive content
When we say today's girls won't do this or won't cook, one has to understand back in the day women had household work as their main responsibility and today we have to compete with men at workplace, travel as much as them, be equally competent while raising children with very little or no help from husband's cz they haven't been taught to do any household work.. if men also start taking pride in helping their wives in front of their friends and relatives women will also be happy to host people and have a good time cz then she won't be alone in the kitchen while the husband is chiling with friends...
i liked n relate to this video..on sundays i stopped my mother n wife to go to kitchen on sundays..bcz i have also holiday on sunday.. i feel on sundays all ladies should be given relax..
Your examples are very realistic and you explain very well and clearly. Please make some video on 80s kids who is confused generation. After your videos there is so much understanding and compassion is creating towards previous generation what actually they have gone through and why they are behaving in such way. Thank you for making such videos. 🙏
Sir, your words resonate in my mind for a long time. I sincerely hope that our better halves understand what you are trying to say and empathize with women's plight rather than becoming bitter and depressed.
पहले टेलीफोन लाइन खराब हो जाती थी तो 2 घंटे लाइन में खड़े होने का पास बनवा के खड़े रहने में कितना आनंद आता था।सिलेंडर बुक करने में भी धक्का मुक्की में अनुपम आनंद आता था
Sirjee ek correction hai, un dino sirf matayein hi nahi behene bhi full time assistant hua karti thi. Padahai ya phir kitchen, tab ladkiyon ki upbringing bhi different thi. Hamne bhi aas paas mein dekha tha, badi beti hi pura ghar sambhalti thi
Sir, pls make a video on siblings, where 3 or 4 bro r there n all come from very lower middle class family n one of them worked very hard n his financial condition quite good then in this case all the other brothers asking for money , because I am facing the same situation, built a house for them and bought a scorpio n gave them to work still they ask for money and my husband still give them money. Every time they call and unka rona dhona, kapde nhi h bimar hai paise nhi hai ye I tried many time to make understand my husband k dont give money unhe adat lag gyi h nhi kmane ki to my husband reply k unhe bhuka chor du kya.
Help ek bar yar 2 bar ki jaati h, or bhi ek hi banda sirf deta hi jaaye or saamne wala sirf lena hi janta h to sambhal kar rahiye jab wo apki di hui chijo par apna hakk smjhne lagega or apka ehsan nhi maanega. Mere papa k sath aisa hi kiya unke real brother ne. N my daddy is in stress since many year when we saw their real face and they ditched us.
जीवन की उन बातों को आप सभी के सामने ला रहे हैं जिनको देखने का नजरिया बदलना जरूरी है। ताकि जो छुपे हुए टॉपिक है उनको टच किया जाए। आपकी विडियोज से बहुत कुछ नया सीखने , समझने को मिल रहा है। Thank you 🙏🙏👍🙏
Meri mummy ki shaadi 1972 m bahut bdi joint family m hui thi.. 3 dada,3 dadiyan or unke pta nhi kitne bachhe(12+6+5=23)...mummy bichari hath chakki se aataa pisti thi subah 3 bje uthke..Aaj 2022 m mummy ki body m har jagah dard rhta h,bahut bimar rhti h or hmesha us waqt ko kosti rhti h.. Anyways learnt a lot from my mother and now I'm 30,in a govt. Job ,having a baby boy living saparately with my husband..not at all interested in joint families and being all time kaam wali bai..
Thank you for making this kind of video kyuki my thinking is like that n phle muje lgta tha ki mai koi alg duniya se hu is liye muje aise vichar aate hai. Now I'm feeling relax that ki duniya me or bhi log hai jo meri tarah sochte hai. Nice video. Keep it up.
We have amazing mothers , grandmothers who made sure we all were well fed and taken care of. Women always sourced best quality food, grains , home made healthy meals for their family members. I have immense respect for my mom grandma aunts also mom in law. Today we take very good care of their health and give time to them as they age into 60s & 70s. It’s our time to give back to them 🙌🏻
Totally agree with you Amit sir. There is no such thing in today's world which ladies cannot do. I am part of the happiness course and eagerly waiting for the next session on this Friday😊. Your way of conducting and expressing things are really impressive and i feel the positive vibes and energy by connecting with you in such live sessions😊🙏
Thank you for giving credit to women who made efforts to provide such beautiful memories to their near and dear ones ……don’t know about others but I did it willingly…I still try to continue the tradition but health doesn’t permit ….Daughter-in-law isn’t that enthusiastic but I keep pataoing her in different ways to atleast follow some traditions during festivals atleast .…I don’t want my grandkid’s to miss out
We recently had a collage time catch-up, we all unanimously decided to hold meet-up at a restaurant, where we split the bills. Everything voted out option of meeting at someone’s home because it will be too much work for ladies of house. In new generation the mindset is changing.
Really you touched a very touching topic,in very few families worth of a good kind and efficient woman is realised , recognised and respected ,I am 40 years married, somewhere we were socially conditioned by our elder generation to do things that way ,yes feel like fool at times especially when we see new generation so surly doing things their way,but yes at the same time somewhere we feel happy and fulfilled and complete to see the family as well as extended family still interacting, Life is not bed of roses for anybody,today generation has their own challenges ,it depends how you look at life
I m 35yrs old & meri mother ne mujhe ghr ka sab kam sikhaya aur ye mera pasion ban gya aur aaj home decor & cleaning sab mai karta hu jis wajah se meri married life 👍🏻chal rahi h
It's true that those time ladies had to work a lot and sacrifice their comfort at the cost of party or birthday celebration or family get together at home. May be old times we can say it was better in terms of more personal interaction with friends families or relatives which has become nowadays more virtual and mostly everyone are involved in their smartphone for social networking and hectic professional life. We are not trying to say those were good days or nowadays are good. It's just our thoughts
Bilkul sahi sir. Jo log apne young times me bahut pissi thi. Vo uss samay mahan bahuo ki padavi se navaji gai aur ab kahti h ki mene to sabke liye itna kiya muje koi nhi karta. Ab ve nai valiyo se same chiz expect karti h. Unhe bhi pisna chahti h🤣🤣
ID: Fun is fun when it is for all. Otherwise, it’s a privilege. While growing up, we always saw the ladies of our families doing two jobs-one at the home and the other at office. The men continued to be the head of the families but women were reduced to be the maid of the family. When society doesn’t value selflessness then it will have to deal with selfishness.
I have been watching your content here. I enjoy it. Since you don’t follow a script, sometimes you mention you will talk about a certain thing but you forget to talk about it. Even with that, I keep coming back to your channel. I like the way you talk - not too serious - light hearted banter - releases stress 🙂
Waah ji. Kya baat kah di aapne… Dil ke taar jhanjhana gaye. Sab yad aa gaya… Chahe sardi ya garmi ho Saas nahi bahu ji haan, ghar ki beti bahu pisti thi rasoi me…. Piso piso or bas piso… Itna saral itna sateek… Apke efforts ko naman karti hu. 😊😊
Something I also have been talking about, family is run smoothly at what cost, perhaps the cost is given maximum by women still !! Because if she doesn't, she is made to feel guilty directly or indirectly, made to feel insufficient indirectly or directly.......usko uneasy feel karaya jata hai still......but I am sure 10-20 years down the line, it won't happen, there wid b much sahaj environment even for gals and de wud not have to undergo such level of social judgement.
Excellent Explanation of the old era sir. Please make some video on increasing number of Divorce. As in metro cities are marriages are not lasting long.
You are a social reformer of this time!
इस समाज को आप जैसे लोगो की बहुत ज़रुरत! लोगो को धार्मिक गुरुओं की जगह आप जैसे लोगो के पास आना चहिये
Bilkul sahi hai
dharmic apni jgh jaruri h, no need to replace to pursue a new thinng
100 percent with Sir. I respect my late mother for making us work in the kitchen. Now I am 53 yrs old and actively participate in the kitchen work with my wife. I don't care who says what behind me.
Still now in 2022 I'm facing same problem... When some guest comes home I'm anxious that i will be judged as a lady ... All the work you told will be done by me only.. Lott of stress and anxiety i will go through once we call some family to our house as a housewife
You forgot one important aspect... Humans tend to remember only the good times...A classic example is childhood..we say it was so much fun... but the reality is the opposite...we forget so many painful aspects of childhood..eg. depending on everyone else for the smallest thing... you want an ice cream.. you will get it after a week.. but you feel like ice cream now... fingers getting jammed in the door.. falling down and getting hurt... studying for hours when you actually feel like playing...
I'm 27 years old woman. I'm unmarried. Living with my parents. Me and my sister are both earning good money. But both my parents are suffering from illness. So most of our earnings go to their medicine and others. But somehow I feel like my parents don't understand what I am going through. For silly things they tell me cruel things, making me feel I'm not enough. Please make a video on this. I'm suffering internally.
Please try ignoring what they say, if you overthink, you will ruin your mental health
Don't work on their illness , let's work on their wellness. Reply me with ur email id to discuss about it.
parents care is our first responsibility
Please try to get medical insurance for family. If you are into a corporate job then please take parental medical insurance as well. It will cover already existing diseases as well.
Make them feel you are more than enough for them. As long as u keep quiet, they will keep hurting you.
You are right sir. Sabko maze karwane ke liye humne apna kya kya khoya hai, No one can even imagine. Thank you sir only you touched our ( dukti rag ). Chalna firna bhi almost impossible
Ur a genious. U understand the stress of women of both generations
so well. Whatever u explained was overcome by my mother and today she is suffering from health issues.
Thank u sir. I watch almost all of yr videos and like the content and the way u explain.
First time someone is mentioning the exact same thing that we want to hear
👍
Wonderful sir. Now please make a video for those sacrificing ladies, who are now 55+ to take care of their health which they ignored earlier🙏
Watch palak notes videos and reverse your health
Yes... Pl make such video on women 55+ ignoring their health
Im 33 years old and started watching ur videos..liked your content....Nowdays peopl are watching kaccha badam (including me)bcos not awaire about the content like ur videos......People will watch,what they have been served.........This has to be stopped somewhere...Government should do somthing so the audience will see the productive content
When we say today's girls won't do this or won't cook, one has to understand back in the day women had household work as their main responsibility and today we have to compete with men at workplace, travel as much as them, be equally competent while raising children with very little or no help from husband's cz they haven't been taught to do any household work.. if men also start taking pride in helping their wives in front of their friends and relatives women will also be happy to host people and have a good time cz then she won't be alone in the kitchen while the husband is chiling with friends...
i liked n relate to this video..on sundays i stopped my mother n wife to go to kitchen on sundays..bcz i have also holiday on sunday.. i feel on sundays all ladies should be given relax..
ID & MAG.. Just amazing how you pick everyday topics sir, thank you so much. God bless you and family abundantly!
बिल्कुल सही है क्योंकि पढी लिखी और स्काॅलर होने के बावजूद मेराजीवन भी किचन मे ही बीता और सबने खूप मजे किए लेकिन क्रेडिट मेरे पती को मिलता रहा ....
Thankyou mom for everything u did for us. And thankyou sir for making us realised this.
Great 👍 keep it up sir Ji 🙏🙏💐
Yes, its sad that they will not be given padmabhushan and padmashri for all the hard work the ladies have done.
Your examples are very realistic and you explain very well and clearly. Please make some video on 80s kids who is confused generation. After your videos there is so much understanding and compassion is creating towards previous generation what actually they have gone through and why they are behaving in such way. Thank you for making such videos. 🙏
Sir your insights are phenomenal, evety sentence spoken by you has such a deep meaning
Sir, your words resonate in my mind for a long time. I sincerely hope that our better halves understand what you are trying to say and empathize with women's plight rather than becoming bitter and depressed.
Thank you for being sensitive and understanding the real issues in society inspite of being a male
Thanks alot sir for such an eye opening topics. I am getting matured by listening your videoes.
Salute to you..
Absolutely right sir even 20 years ago my mom used to work like hell in kitchen but now we live in nuclear families and this feels very much good now
*nuclear
ID..Aap sir sabki dukhti rag samjhte ho..aur apni skills se usko words mein samne rakhte ho..namaskaar hai aapke andar jo "guru tatva" jagrit hai..🙏
पहले टेलीफोन लाइन खराब हो जाती थी तो 2 घंटे लाइन में खड़े होने का पास बनवा के खड़े रहने में कितना आनंद आता था।सिलेंडर बुक करने में भी धक्का मुक्की में अनुपम आनंद आता था
Sirjee ek correction hai, un dino sirf matayein hi nahi behene bhi full time assistant hua karti thi. Padahai ya phir kitchen, tab ladkiyon ki upbringing bhi different thi. Hamne bhi aas paas mein dekha tha, badi beti hi pura ghar sambhalti thi
I told that also.
I celebrate happy teacher,s day daily with your videos....god bless you sir
Id , Salute to you Sir, really our parents did a lot. Every generation has a story, we understand it only when we age
We need video on intercaste marriage.
MAG MAG..infinite MAG..ek ek baat humare Dil ki krte ho ek ek baat..Thanks a lot sir🙏
Id
Sir aap bahut sahi baat karte ho connect hoti hai batein with solutions thank you. Aap naye jamane k guru ji ho
Claps for you. Shown the reality to middle aged men. Our moms deserved better and more appreciation
Sir, pls make a video on siblings, where 3 or 4 bro r there n all come from very lower middle class family n one of them worked very hard n his financial condition quite good then in this case all the other brothers asking for money , because I am facing the same situation, built a house for them and bought a scorpio n gave them to work still they ask for money and my husband still give them money. Every time they call and unka rona dhona, kapde nhi h bimar hai paise nhi hai ye
I tried many time to make understand my husband k dont give money unhe adat lag gyi h nhi kmane ki to my husband reply k unhe bhuka chor du kya.
Same situation mam, if u find the solution then pls let me know I'll be grateful to you
Please make a video on this 👆..i m suffering too because of this situation.
Help ek bar yar 2 bar ki jaati h, or bhi ek hi banda sirf deta hi jaaye or saamne wala sirf lena hi janta h to sambhal kar rahiye jab wo apki di hui chijo par apna hakk smjhne lagega or apka ehsan nhi maanega. Mere papa k sath aisa hi kiya unke real brother ne. N my daddy is in stress since many year when we saw their real face and they ditched us.
Your topics are so good that a habit is formed to like and thank every videos of yours
जीवन की उन बातों को आप सभी के सामने ला रहे हैं जिनको देखने का नजरिया बदलना जरूरी है। ताकि जो छुपे हुए टॉपिक है उनको टच किया जाए। आपकी विडियोज से बहुत कुछ नया सीखने , समझने को मिल रहा है। Thank you 🙏🙏👍🙏
Meri mummy ki shaadi 1972 m bahut bdi joint family m hui thi.. 3 dada,3 dadiyan or unke pta nhi kitne bachhe(12+6+5=23)...mummy bichari hath chakki se aataa pisti thi subah 3 bje uthke..Aaj 2022 m mummy ki body m har jagah dard rhta h,bahut bimar rhti h or hmesha us waqt ko kosti rhti h..
Anyways learnt a lot from my mother and now I'm 30,in a govt. Job ,having a baby boy living saparately with my husband..not at all interested in joint families and being all time kaam wali bai..
Thank you for making this kind of video kyuki my thinking is like that n phle muje lgta tha ki mai koi alg duniya se hu is liye muje aise vichar aate hai. Now I'm feeling relax that ki duniya me or bhi log hai jo meri tarah sochte hai. Nice video. Keep it up.
We have amazing mothers , grandmothers who made sure we all were well fed and taken care of.
Women always sourced best quality food, grains , home made healthy meals for their family members.
I have immense respect for my mom grandma aunts also mom in law.
Today we take very good care of their health and give time to them as they age into 60s & 70s.
It’s our time to give back to them 🙌🏻
Bitter truth, Sir. Absolutely right analysis.
Totally agree with you Amit sir. There is no such thing in today's world which ladies cannot do. I am part of the happiness course and eagerly waiting for the next session on this Friday😊. Your way of conducting and expressing things are really impressive and i feel the positive vibes and energy by connecting with you in such live sessions😊🙏
Yes sir.. I'm in my mind 40s.. i have seen my mother sufferi g like hell those days but never complained
aapka jawab nahin....aap lajawab hain.
आपके वीडियो ने तो मेरे दिल को छू लिया । बस पुराने दर्द फिर से दुखने लगे। कहना ना हो सकेगा ।
80’s Mothers ❤
Thank you so much sir for making such videos, keep making these kind of videos
Thank you for giving credit to women who made efforts to provide such beautiful memories to their near and dear ones ……don’t know about others but I did it willingly…I still try to continue the tradition but health doesn’t permit ….Daughter-in-law isn’t that enthusiastic but I keep pataoing her in different ways to atleast follow some traditions during festivals atleast .…I don’t want my grandkid’s to miss out
I am 51 years lady , I feel comfortable to see your videos ,your videos give us more clarity
Thankyou Sir for Reminding me that old dedicated days And No Complaints
Great great content channel 👍👍👍👍... golden days not come back...no mobile,no what's app no Facebook no internet....
Very very very great days
Sir mja aata h aapke videos dekh ke.. Hamesa kuch new hota h
We recently had a collage time catch-up, we all unanimously decided to hold meet-up at a restaurant, where we split the bills. Everything voted out option of meeting at someone’s home because it will be too much work for ladies of house. In new generation the mindset is changing.
Really appreciated 🙏❤
Really you touched a very touching topic,in very few families worth of a good kind and efficient woman is realised , recognised and respected ,I am 40 years married, somewhere we were socially conditioned by our elder generation to do things that way ,yes feel like fool at times especially when we see new generation so surly doing things their way,but yes at the same time somewhere we feel happy and fulfilled and complete to see the family as well as extended family still interacting,
Life is not bed of roses for anybody,today generation has their own challenges ,it depends how you look at life
Uncle ap ke videos bohot achhe lagte hain,kash har koi ye sun aur samajh pata
Governor General Gold Standard of clarity 👑
Sir ap bahut acha kaam kar rahe hai gharelu samasyaon ki counseling kar k
True. Salute to our mothers, grandmothers and aunts.
बहुत सही कहा आपने👍🏻 रोज़ सुनते हैं ऐसी बातें
This is first time someone point out this topic which is very important but ignored so far.
Absolutely correct reflection of situation
I m 35yrs old & meri mother ne mujhe ghr ka sab kam sikhaya aur ye mera pasion ban gya aur aaj home decor & cleaning sab mai karta hu jis wajah se meri married life 👍🏻chal rahi h
No time is perfect or best ,har time me kuch achi cheze ar buri chize hoti hai
Thank you Guru ji for sharing your views! 🙏😊
Now men should share the responsibility together with women and enjoy life.
It's true that those time ladies had to work a lot and sacrifice their comfort at the cost of party or birthday celebration or family get together at home. May be old times we can say it was better in terms of more personal interaction with friends families or relatives which has become nowadays more virtual and mostly everyone are involved in their smartphone for social networking and hectic professional life. We are not trying to say those were good days or nowadays are good. It's just our thoughts
Thank you. You share good insights. Please share content with respect to simple Vastu tips in today’s homes. 🙏🏻
Levels of Awareness distinguish humans from animals...every video of yours is " Bhodhi vriksh " Under which gradual enlightenment being achieved!!
I listen to your videos Very realistic n practical approach
Absolutely right sir
👏 for all ladies who made our lives so memorable in childhood 😊
Totally agree..in fact my mother was working and my father would expect lot from her
Bilkul sahi sir. Jo log apne young times me bahut pissi thi. Vo uss samay mahan bahuo ki padavi se navaji gai aur ab kahti h ki mene to sabke liye itna kiya muje koi nhi karta. Ab ve nai valiyo se same chiz expect karti h. Unhe bhi pisna chahti h🤣🤣
ID: Fun is fun when it is for all. Otherwise, it’s a privilege. While growing up, we always saw the ladies of our families doing two jobs-one at the home and the other at office. The men continued to be the head of the families but women were reduced to be the maid of the family. When society doesn’t value selflessness then it will have to deal with selfishness.
Video poora sunne se pehli hi comment kar rahi hu ki aapki video h to jhakkas hi hogi,or bahut bahut useful
I have been watching your content here. I enjoy it. Since you don’t follow a script, sometimes you mention you will talk about a certain thing but you forget to talk about it. Even with that, I keep coming back to your channel. I like the way you talk - not too serious - light hearted banter - releases stress 🙂
Sir m toh apke videos bhujia namkeen aur chai ke saath dekhta hun, sach m bada maza aata hai 👍😂🔥
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Clapping 🙏
Sahi baat🙏
Sir we were a ‘kunye wale mendank’
You extend our thoughts. Love ypur content
Waah ji. Kya baat kah di aapne… Dil ke taar jhanjhana gaye. Sab yad aa gaya… Chahe sardi ya garmi ho Saas nahi bahu ji haan, ghar ki beti bahu pisti thi rasoi me…. Piso piso or bas piso… Itna saral itna sateek…
Apke efforts ko naman karti hu. 😊😊
You are right Sir Ji
Beautifully described past times.
Very true kabhi socha hi nahi tha yeh baat bahot sachi aur sahi baat kahi aapne thts y we miss our mom n other elders in the family
WEll said. Really appreciate and identify with what you're saying here. Thank you.
Thank you for,
Very truthful message to all ages.. for self realisation.
So true but we are have so much stress nowadays
You are absolutely right
Bohot achi kahi hai sir
True ...badiya 99 percentage present me nahi jite hai🙏
So true 👍 👏👏👏👏
Something I also have been talking about, family is run smoothly at what cost, perhaps the cost is given maximum by women still !! Because if she doesn't, she is made to feel guilty directly or indirectly, made to feel insufficient indirectly or directly.......usko uneasy feel karaya jata hai still......but I am sure 10-20 years down the line, it won't happen, there wid b much sahaj environment even for gals and de wud not have to undergo such level of social judgement.
You have very keen observation, I too have seen it and enjoyed such events.
you have touched the real pain points Sangu sir.
Yes sir,🙏🙏
Very correct sir. Can relate very well.
Great 💯. Maje ki baat ye hai ke ,ladies logo ko isime khushi bhi milti thi.
Salute to sango sir
Excellent Explanation of the old era sir.
Please make some video on increasing number of Divorce.
As in metro cities are marriages are not lasting long.
Truly said. I appreciate your topic.
ID. Meri mother in law yahi sab jhel rahi hain aaj. Bitterness bhi hai. Bilkul sahi topic choose kiya hai. Thank You sir.
Very good sir.
Salute to you sir