Finding Out I Was Pregnant After IUI (ends in ectopic) | Let's Talk IBD
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- čas přidán 5. 04. 2024
- While we now know this ends in an ectopic pregnancy requiring surgery, I still wanted to share the rollercoaster ride it was figuring out if the Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) worked or not. I wanted to share the early symptoms I had of pregnancy and what my tests looked like. The clips in this video were taken weeks ago, so please keep that in mind while watching!
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PLEASE READ BEFORE COMMENTING: This occurred weeks ago as part of the IUI that led to an ectopic pregnancy. I still wanted to share this experience going through fertility treatments as an IBD and ostomy patient.
So sorry you had to go through this ❤❤
So very sorry. You have every right to be sad! Hugs!
I’m sorry you have to go through this to get pregnant. We will always be here for you in your journey. Love you guys ❤❤
I’m so sorry for your loss! I’m sure you are heartbroken! I know I would be! You’ve got every right to be upset, hurt, sad, disappointed & depressed over your loss! This only shows how much you loved being pregnant & were looking forward to being a Momma! I can’t say that I know how you feel but I do know how I’d feel!
You’ve had more than your fair share of health problems! You deserve so much love & happiness! You also deserve to be a Mom! Try to hang in there & be strong! Keep the faith! Prayers for both you and your husband!🙏🏼✝️🙏🏼
I’ll be praying for your health, your heartbreak & your wellbeing! I have faith that when ya’ll are ready to try again, you’ll be able to conceive again! Take all the time you need to heal inside & out! And don’t let anyone tell you how to grieve or how long you should grieve! You’ve just suffered a great loss so take all the time you need to grieve!💕💕💕
Prayers you feel better soon! You’ll be in my thoughts & prayers always! Please take care of yourself & believe that miracles do happen!❤️
Much love from this Okie follower who’s struggling with my colostomy!❤❤❤
Big Prayers Up!🙏🏼✝️🙏🏼
It's sad it was ectopic but like you mentioned in the video you weren't sure you could get pregnant and at least now you know you can! I hope the next time comes easier for you and without complications like this.
You are so brave to share this, given the fact it ended in an etopic pregnancy (RIP).
I hope you and Zac get your dreams to come true in the future
Thank you for sharing ❤ I had a miscarriage last year too. I know it’s not the same, but it helped me when others related to me to feel less alone. It’s a very hard thing to go through and I wish you well 🫶
What a rollercoaster. I’m so sorry, Maggie. I wish you both the best and I believe you’ll have your child. It’s so unfair that it’s gotta be like this. ❤❤❤ I’m sending out positive vibes for you guys.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had 4 miscarriages and have had much of the same rollarcoaster as you've gone through. The shock and happiness that doctors were wrong and I could get pregnant followed by getting excited. Then ultimately those pregnancies were not meant to be for me. Don't give up hope! I just gave birth to my miracle rainbow baby.
This video hits home for me. I remember seeing that line on the pregnancy test, 2 weeks after the date of my missed period. It was a faint line but I was so happy! I called my family and told them right away. This was in the morning, but at midday I went to the bathroom and noticed that I was bleeding. I immediately knew something was wrong. My pregnancy was ectopic and ended in surgery as well. I think you are incredibly brave for sharing your story. I could not talk about my experience for a long while after. It was just too traumatic.
I've had two miscarriages and it still messes with me years later. Everybody copes differently. Always sending prayers and good energy your way 💕
Thank you for sharing. I’ve been having a colitis flare since for the last couple years, and I’ve been shocked at how completely isolating IBD can be. I know how embarrassing and stressful it is to share your symptoms, and it takes a whole other level of vulnerability to share your fertility journey as well. I’m an IVF baby and my mom spent years trying to get pregnant. She did it once without IVF, but it turned out to be ectopic and she had to take a chemotherapy pill to stop the blastocyst from growing and rupturing her fallopian tube. She told me how lonely and heartbroken she felt during that time, and I can’t begin to imagine how triggering all the doctor’s appointments and testing can be after all the medical trauma IBD puts us through. I wanted to say thank you on her behalf. As horrible as fertility complications can be, this is a reality people have to cope with. I think she would have found comfort in knowing she wasn’t the only one who’s world was shattered, and life just kept going on around them, and it encourages me to know that when I come across fertility concerns in the future, there are people out there who get it. I hope this next shot sticks the landing. Sending all the good vibes your way. You’re awesome.
My heart breaks for you and Zach. The wait is so difficult. Trying to keep hope but knowing maybe you shouldn't. I hope your heart is healing and your rainbow baby will follow very soon.
Watching you go through this, knowing how much you want it, has broken my heart for you two. Loosing a pregnancy, it's one of the harder things women and their partners go through.
I'm so very sorry for your loss and for all that you've been through. My daughter had fertility issues. PCOS. She was on Clomid. She found out at 16 weeks pregnant that the baby's head nrver grew. This was at the height of Covid. She had to find out the news without her husband with her. She had to terminate because the baby would never have lived. Thankfully, a year later, and on Letrozole, she got pregnant, had complications, but thankfully she had a healthy boy. Sending you hugs and prayers. You are so amazing. ❤🫂🙏
We pray for you; thanks for sharing❤edit: you will make it! God is with decent wonderful people like you ❤️
The strength you have shown is incredible. It’s really unfair the way things are playing out, but you will get through it, no doubt❤
Thank you for such authentic heartfelt vlogs. It must be so hard for you. Don’t give up on your dream of being a mom and dad. ❤❤
God bless you and Zack. Prayers, hugs, and love. 🙏💕
You are wonderful and brave and strong! Thank you for sharing! You are helping so many people.
Sorry for the loss, you are stronger than you know.
I'm so sorry things didn't work out well for you this time ❤ you're amazing and I hope you're doing okay 💛
❤ I can’t say anything that would help. You are a brave young woman and I appreciate you sharing your experience. Much love and prayers to you.
Oh Maggie, so much love for you and Zach. Good luck and love as you go through this tough time. You will feel this joy again! I feel it in my soul!! I have been where you are … it will happen 🙏❤️
Maggie you are one of the bravest people I know for all you’ve been through and how you share the stories with other people ( me being one of them) who have been through some or all that you have been through in order to give them info and to see the courage you have.
You have been an inspiration to me. I’m in my 70’s and life has been a lot of surgeries and a lot of sickness. So glad you have Zac you two are great together. He reminds me of my husband who passed on last year. My husband helped me with everything every operation we went through everything together. He was always there for me.
My prayers are with you. I pray you’ll get the wish you want. Thank you for being there for me now. 💕🌺🙏🏻
It was very brave of you to share your most intimate highs and lows. I lost a baby in the 2 nd trimester, it was really tough. Someday this is gonna happen for you and you’ll be the greatest mom
❤❤❤❤ You’re one of the strongest people I know. I’ve shared your channel with my surgeon. You bring out a lot of hope to share with people. Sending a 🤗 from Calgary
I felt every single emotion with you in this video. Sending all my love ❤
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The shots are scary. My husband did mine, thank goodness. Wishing you both the best.
I tell you again take your time maggie were all praying for you and zak we ain't going nowhere we will be here whenever your ready God Bless.
I’m really sorry. You are a strong woman. All the stuff you have been though . You are fantastic ❤
Thank you for being brave enough to share your journey with us. ❤ You’re so incredibly strong! You’ve gone through so much.. I can’t imagine having gone through all that you’ve gone through and still be so positive. You’re amazing! I’m so sorry about what happened! I want this so badly for you and Zak 🤍 it will happen! Been thinking about you 💜💜
This breaks my heart for you so many ups and downs i know you are a strong woman but it still takes time to griev so we are here to support you god bless
You are in my thoughts, wishing a speedy recovery physically; I know emotional recovery will take as long as it needs to, and it’s okay to not be okay. You are a brave warrior woman. And as others have said, incredibly generous to share this journey with us. You have such a rich wellspring of support and love from people who haven’t even met you, and that is a testament to your extraordinary character, grace, resolve, and warmth.
Please take care. We are rooting for you and Zak 💕
I'm so sorry for you both ❤❤ I love you xx ❤❤
My heart hurts to watch the whiplash of hope and disappointment as you went through this experience, especially after your subsequent hospitalization and surgery. Editing and publishing this video must have been one of the toughest things to do. I'm so sorry, Maggie. You and Zak are deserving of so very much better from the universe than what you've gotten. Please take care of yourself as you heal, physically, mentally and emotionally. You'll be in my heart and my prayers. Hugs to you and Zak. 💞
Maggie, I have such admiration for your courage to share with all of us this difficult journey. Your emotions are real and raw and I know that this is going to help someone else who is experiencing the same thing. You are so open and brave to share with all of us such intimate moments of your life. You have so much love and support coming your way from all of us. I think many of us who are older look at you as we would our own daughters and we hurt when you hurt. I’ve commented before about my own experience with infertility and a miscarriage during that period of time. I’m well aware and familiar with the roller coaster of emotions you have right now. Lean on Zak as I did on my husband when we were going through this and don’t forget his emotions as well. I believe this will happen for you soon and you will see your dreams come true. Stay strong and remember how much you mean to all your viewers who have come to love you so much. You have an army of people praying and standing beside you. Better days are coming. ❤🙏🏼
Hey Guys ,
You both are such champions.
So many women &their partners share the issues your dealing with. But also for us men who can relate because of dealing with the difficulties of living with a stoma .
So many of us look up to you both for sharing the ups n downs of your lives.
Personally, I think your a champion,
You guys will get there .
Respect....!
Beautiful Maggie ❤ it will happen for you❤ sending you so much love, I feel you are destined to be a mama it’s just a bumpy road but it will happen.
Hugs 🤗
Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Feel for you as you continue to work through your loss. Praying for you and Zak. I had a progesterone shot once and it made me climb the walls. I lost a baby, and that on top of an almost life-long, chronic illness was very devastating. I understand wanting things to be easy or at least less difficult. Blessings sweet Maggie.
It breaks my heart for you each video you post. As others have said you are brave and while this is "raw" it's also "real". Not everything ends in rainbows.....but there is always hope. Have faith, many are praying for you....
thank you for sharing, I hope it’s cathartic. prayers and love ❤
It's been quite helpful to remember everything that happened and process it. Also, even just editing the videos makes me feel a bit back to normal which has been nice!
It’s ok to get excited even early on. It’s an exciting thing and even though you know things may not turn out how you hope they will, it will always be ok to get excited and even worried. I’m so sorry this time didn’t turn out how you wanted, I know for you nothing really has ever been easy but you’re doing amazing and you’re so strong! You’ve got this and it will all happen in Gods timing which I know isn’t easy. But so worth it
Yeah I'm currently 27 weeks and I regret not being so excited when I was super early on I stressed myself out with all the misscarriage stories and ectopic stories like it was something i could control
I’m so sorry to hear that you had to go through that.
So so sad 😢 I’m so sorry you lost your baby ❤ the worst ever. Praying for you guys!
Love to you and Zak ❤❤
Dear maggie your a strong lovely girl and best wishes to you and zac for the futur with getting pregnant .❤
Having an ectopic pregnancy is hard because the baby is perfect but cant grow in the tube.i had three ectopic pregnancies. Sending healing love and light sweet girl
Maggie, although I have a touch screen, I can not touch you, but know that I am sending you a big hug full of love and best wishes. ❤
So so brave sharing uploading
I cannot thank you enough for sharing. We have similar health stories and are sharing similar fertility issues. I just experienced a loss aswell. Thank you for making me feel less alone
Please keep faith ❤❤❤ I will too
I want to give you a hug and support!
Maggie, I'm so sorry ❤
I'm sorry Maggie, I always watch your videos but these one lately hit too close. I'm also 30 and trying to get pregnant too while having IBD. Knowing what you went through is hard. I can just sent my love and hope that you get better. xx
Please don’t lose hope just yet. At least you know you can get pregnant now so 🤞🏻the next one will take in the right spot! And I’m not saying this to try and downplay your loss. It’s heartbreaking and it’s ok to feel all the things! But hopefully you can hold on to hope too!
I hope you don't mind me saying. Some people have a fantastic life, no pain or illness. Other's like us, all we do is suffer. God give us challenges 🙏 to make us stronger.
We have been praying 🙏 for you 🙏 ❤️ ❤.
Know your loved by many and stronger than you know. ✨️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Dear Maggie, I am so sorry.. but feel don’t give up and trust God and his mercy!❤
hi Maggie I cant tell you how so sorry I am hearing you are going throgh this so painful process and believe me I undertand you pefectly whrn you say nothing works normal for youas it soes with other peope. i has been my life too, always! I know how devasteted you are, but I want to asl how is Zac doing? I imagine he is so sad too!
So. We know your hormone treatment is doing its thing. Condolences for what happened. A friend of mine framed it in her mind as this little spirit friend just coming by to say hi and wish you their best and that helped her.
Maybe it helps you too. If not, just ignore.
thanks for sharing sis😰
I'm so sorry. Once you start trying to get pregnant it becomes obsession. Ectopic pregnancy is usually caused by a fallopian tube with scar tissue, you may need it checked. But I have had several friends that went thru it and went on to have a healthy pregnancy. And fyi I always used the tests that says pregnant/not pregnant. So much easier than reading those lines. Good luck!
My heart breaks for you, this sucks so bad.
May god bless you with healthy pregnancy and a healthy child ❤ in future
read the pinned comment
Wishing u & ur husband much luck.
I'm so sorry. I know this pain. I went through 2 x rounds of IVF and none resulted in a live birth. Sending love.
I'm sorry for you.
IVF will now most likely be recommended. Even though you'll need time to grieve and process, to give you a bit of uplift: The injections can be from a pen, no horrible needles to deal with.
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This will happen for you and your husband and you are gonna be amazing parents ❤
So many ((hugs))
Hello chào bạn ngày mới cuối tuần vui vẻ 🥰
❤ Full suport!!
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Hi Maggie you are so brave but IUI has risks and personally you need to take time to heal your mind and body this is a really scary and traumatic experience. I wish you all the best in the future and hope you achieve your goals.
Saw pic u ended up in Hospital but u can get pregnant so if wanted to u can try again ?
Yes - once I heal I would be able to try again.
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This was so sad to watch, first with you saying it never works, why does it always have to be so hard or something wrong and then see you get your hopes up and then everything trash with the ectopic pregnancy, heartbreaking and so unfair, you have fought so much in your life.
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If at first you don’t succeed, try, try, try, again. Don’t give up. I don’t mean to discount what you are going through but, don’t give up after 1 try.
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God bless your heart im so excited for you honey
did you even read the pinned comment?
@@Sabouma28dude chill out
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Ectopic pregnancy is a loss. I'm sorry
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Don’t you dare giving up hope Maggie, one failure doesn’t mean you failed in the future. Determination is what defines you. The day that you and Zak post a photo of you both holding your child is inevitable. 💖 🐨 🦘🦘
Firstly I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️🩹 I know too many women who have been through this and I’ve experienced miscarriage 💔 Did you try a digital test? I might have missed if you did but I usually use those as confirmation. Maybe it’ll give you less anxiety if you try again ❤️ Leaving the urine on the counter might have been a good hack actually! More concentrated, sort of like how they say to use the first or second morning pee, before you get particularly hydrated.
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