How to Romanticize Your Ordinary Life
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- čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
- Hi Everyone! happy Tuesday. I'm a bit late on this trend on "How to Romanticize Your Life" and "How to Become the Main Character," but I think this is a really important topic and I wanted to create my own video. I hope you enjoy!
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Also a part of romanticizing/being the main character is knowing that whatever comes is temporary. Like in a movie, you know the lows WILL be overcome -- and that's really awesome if you ask me!
I love that mindset!
Very well said
I started to romanticize my life a couple of years ago, literally feeling like the main character of a series or a web novel etc. And it was literally the best thing ever. I normally hate lifestyle trends because they often contain some toxicity but this has helped me overcome my depression (which was years long and very severe). I turned from someone who wanted to die pretty much everyday to someone who looks at a flower and feels all the luck in the world. I never would have imagined I would say I love life so so much. Altough the daily life and routine (especially work) make it sometimes really hard - I still try to appreciate it whenever it goes - like picturing how my fav collueges and I are in a soap and dealing with our work problems. But life is sometimes hard and not everything can and should be romanticized. Being sad sometimes is necessary as well :) Gread advise in the video nontheless, I love it!
Good for you. Honouring the ordinary is so underated. You might say you swept the floor today and the other person might wonder why you said it but you know why, you are honouring the ordinary. We are programmed to seek and extol only the extraordinary.
Same :) Its so much fun and even though it doesnt solve all your problems, it definitely makes life feel lighter
I am SO happy for you!! So here are some flowers for you 💐🌸🌷🌹🌻🌺
I'm proud of you :) here, have a cookie --> 🍪
*I try my best to live every day and not only to exist, but to enjoy the simple things. I find that living life through the good and the bad times helps us to grow and create memories that we can look back on and cherish because they made us who we are. One day we will be grandparents and our lives will be a novel worth telling our grandchildren because we chose to live.* 😊💕
🥰 yes!!! let's make beautiful stories to enjoy and to pass down
@@MalamaLife As always your videos are inspiring as a man I learn a learn a lot from you `!! Priceless
..’we chose to live’ 💕 love this
@@keepingthefaith1368 Thank you 😊💕 hope you're having a beautiful day
You written so beautifully😍☺❤
*"Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines." - Robert H. Schuller*
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Hey I saw your comment in Rachel's video too
"Perception shapes reality, so why not make it a beautiful one?" 🙏 couldn't agree more. Wonderfully said. I love how your vids are like a journal entry that you share with us.
Andy! how did you know? This was a journal entry that I wanted to make into a video :D I hope you are doing well!
I am at a crossroads in my life. Not feeling satisfied with an "introverted" lifestyle yet challenged to get out into the real world again. Trying to stay present and allow my journey to unfold gracefully. I am grateful the CZcams algorithm lead me to you. I look forward to Tuesdays and watching your videos each week. You are the peaceful space I need with my hectic work environment. Sending you blessings ❤
😍 Sending you big hugs! thanks for watching and supporting me
I don't think I've ever thought about "romanticizing" my life! I certainly try to enjoy and to appreciate the small things in life but this video gives me a completely new perspective! Thanks for another wonderful and thoughtful video!
Happy to hear that :)
Thank you for reminding me that I’m “in the driver’s seat of my own life”. I often forget that.
I have to remind myself constantly :)
My favorite author Stuart Wilde wrote "Once you do not have to accommodate people, you can begin to act in a measured way. This means weighing events and decision in the light of your own needs, your own nurturing, your own growth. Then if you wish to help someone, you do so from your own volition, not from a feeling of having to or from their manipulation. By being forthright and act in a measured way you move gently through the consciousness of the day. You do not run, you do not hurry and you set up time frames that are comfortable for you." book (Affirmations )
thank you so much for sharing this 🥰
Wow! Love that!!! Thank you for sharing!
Wow, I love this.
I love that "Live, Don't Just Exist" 🥰😍🤩
❤️😍 yes!! thanks Sani
In my mind lately I have had these same thoughts. I wonder if I am a fool or a simpleton when I can take a few steps into the woods and take such full joy in seeing some leaves sprout at the end of a stem, or a tiny insect making their way across a branch. Nothing needs fixing. And then I look back at the house filled with scores of items that had to be purchased and fixed and maintained. If only I could tell my young daughter to not toil too much in life searching for happiness when it already abounds all around us.
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I've been working on doing this too! There's is so much beauty in making a cup of coffee, taking a walk, etc. It's made me fall in love with my life so much more.
"We have the power to make an incredibly interesting story with the plot that's been handed to us because perception is what shapes reality so why not make it a beautiful one"
Me: ... "Why not make it a beautiful one." I just got more motivated and inspired deep within. Thanks!
I'm feeling so VERY isolated, I'm not coping too well but am not near people really....overwhelmed from the last 2 years and just want to feel safe...thank you for your beautiful video....your voice is very soothing...
I can relate. Lots of love to you 💜
I absolutely loved it 😍 Thank you so much Sophie. The way you put difficult chores as challenging tasks and learning from past mistakes I wish I had heard it earlier.
You are a gift! We truly are the heroes in our lives. Thanks for the reminder and inspiration
Yes! Sometimes it’s good to close your eyes and see yourself from outside- snuggled up safely with your delicious snack, for example. How that would be described in a book, and we‘re living it, such comfort. It’s so important to notice our beautiful lucky moments.
we are living it ❤️ yes! love how you phrased it
4:55 Being culturally raised to meet the needs of others, we can at times lose our way. Listening to your wise reflections have helped me to regain balance; to re visit priorities & to savor the beauty along our path. Sending love & gratitude your way Sophie 💝 Aloha
much aloha ❤️
I have been struggling with savoring each moment in life lately. Really needed this video to help put things in perspective for me. Thank you so much!
I have been searching for a comfort video just like this. The way you talk, the message you convey and of course the video itself is totally soothing. Thank you so much. Looking forward for more videos from you ❤️
I am really living in the moment,enjoying what’s around me.Love your videos it’s helping a lot of people to see the simple life,you are one of a kind.❤️
I love how peaceful these 8minutes were to me! Its always productive to come to this channel and also a start to open the new subtitle to my life. I find it motivating and giving new energy, thank you so much dear!
We love you so much! 💕🤗
Such a beautiful, gentle soul you are. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️
I love how you bring this idea from concept into examples from your own life. I've been considering this in my own videos as well, how we write the story of our life, preferably with greater awareness. You definitely inspired me, thanks!
As always your wisdom is a reminder of how much power we have of our lifes... you seem to find the words and advice I need at the right moment for me... thanks😊❤🙏
Thanks marie❤
It's just a first time that I heard the term ''romantisizing the life'' and you gave me a chance to think how much romantic my life is! Your peaceful videos inspiring me a lot! Thank you ❤️
such a beautiful perspective. I have really found it to be a practice as well, and it's one of those things you come back to.
Thank you for reminding me to "live my life and not just exist"! It's something to strive for every day! 😊🥰
Yes!! ❤️ we always need to be reminded
I love this video. Thanks for the reminder that our life is a reflection of what we choose to make it. 💕
Every time I feel down, your videos make me look at my life from different perspective and be so thankful for what I have.
❤️ thanks Anna
All of your blogs are very informative and inspiring! Your blogs save lives!♡
Your voice is so calming and your video made me realize that it's ok to fall in love with even the smallest simplest parts of your day💛
You perfectly put words to what I'm creating in my own life. Falling in love with it again, with the mundane, the usual, the now.
❤🥰 best wishes
This is the reason why I'm hooked on your channel. You give positivity and realizations in life. Thank you for this. May God bless you always
So much love from Philippines 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
Your channel has changed me in so many great ways
Sophie 🌺 We absolutely loved this video, the scenery/ cinematography is just stunning! We have found such a peaceful calm in your voice and advice. Mahalo.
Thanks Keoki and Kate 😍 I hope you're well!
Thank you for taking the time to curate such thoughtful and meaningful videos. Sending good vibes your way. ☀️
sending much love your way ❤️ thanks for watching
Your videos are really therapeutic to watch. Your perception creates your reality" hitt me hardest. Thanks for all you efforts!!!!💜✨
❤️ thank you!! I'm so happy to hear that
Yay!! Mahalo for another great video! I’m learning so much about slow living from you.
🥰 so happy to hear that! big mahalo for watching Lydia
The calm voice help so much, in a time that I’m feeling overwhelmed
Happy to hear that! Thank you for watching
Love this video so much. Your calming voice is refreshing and helps you focus to listen to this beautiful message you have left us to ponder
😊 thank you so much
I heard that quote of Oscar Wilde as well, and it stuck with me forever! I really love it! i also love to romanticize my life, I didn't use to do that, but I've changed my mind. I want to live not only to exist, and I can do that only by enjoying small things in my daily life and by being grateful for what I already have. That doesn't mean that I won't fight for my dreams, but I will enjoy the process as well, and not only focus on the final result. I adore this topic and your ideas are spot on as always Sophie! Hope that you are well! Hello from UK :)
Yes! I know exactly what you mean. wow you're back in the UK now :) take care Mihaela 🥰
What a truly beautiful video - thank you, I really needed to hear this, especially with what is going in the World. Where you look is where you go. Love your content 😊💕
Thank you ❤️
thank you so much for sharing this video- really needed this, much love xx
Every time I watch you videos I immediately come back to the present moment. Thank you for these beautiful reminders!
yay! happy to hear that ❤️ we all need these reminders :)
An exquisite voice.
I find your videos incredible calm. I love them.
This video was such a great start to my day. It's so easy to get stuck going through the motions of a busy week, especially if it feels like we have a lot of responsibilities. Taking care of yourself doesn't always mean shutting the world out, but most often it is really by inviting it in, in some way. Finding small pockets of time throughout the day to bring us back to ourselves and the world - because we aren't just living, breathing "To-do" lists.
Thank you for this.
Yes!! love your comment so much 😍
"Taking care of yourself doesn't always mean shutting the world out, but most often it is really inviting it in." SO accurate. Thank you!!
I was in a funk for a while and your words are helping me regain control over my perspective, thanks Sophie
I'm so glad! Thanks Angela 😍
I really enjoyed this video and how you balance realism and romanticism. To become the main character of your story, yet not becoming a selfish, self-centered person. This is one of the best videos on the topic. Well done. I would love to continue watching this topic in future videos. Thank you!
this video is as beautiful as the meaning behind it! you're really inspirational, thank you
🥰 thank you so much for watching.
I am so calm and kinda able to make an upcoming decision for myself, thanks hun
i cant stop watching your videos , i love ur voice once again and i love your positive energy , thanku so much girl ❤❤💫
Your videos are like wall arts, so inspirational and always make someone stop and watch and think. Tks for taking the time to create them. Keep them coming 💕💕💕
❤️ thank you Yenny
Always happy to see your videos and bask in your tranquility.
🥰 appreciate it! thanks Matt
THANK YOU for this wonderful video!! it releases my anxiety so much
Your hair is SO beautiful!
For me it's about your voice and atmosphere, it's calming and making me feel comfortable and relaxed
Its been a difficult couple of months for me and I have ended up in a rut and stressed. So I've taken a step back, taken stock of my life and slowed down. I have left some of my chores so I can enjoy some me time and enjoy my hobbies. Your video today has reminded me to live and enjoy every moment. Thankyou :)
Glad you are making time for yourself. Thanks for watching :)
Very deep and balanced perspective. Thanks for your insight. 🧡
Thank you so much 😊
This is deeply calming and inspiring 💕
This is seriously The best video I’ve ever seen. Thank you for that!
Aw thank you Isadora ❤
Thank you thank you thank you! Inspired and much needed at this moment. ❤️
Thanks for watching ❤
Just found your channel...came at the right time in my life...You make me feel to live in present...thx for inspiring
OMG the best topic on CZcams ♥️ thanks
❤😍 aw thank you!
Thank you so much for sharing this. I really needed to hear this. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your positive energy Sophie 💝
my pleasure ❤️ glad you enjoyed it!
Such amazing content every single time o watch your video. Honestly it's like living what you are showing. I feel like meditation. Wanted to take this time out to thank you for being there.
Thank you so much. what a kind comment ❤️ I'm happy to share and make these videos. Just grateful you're watching it
Thank You Malama for this video. I felt this primally. Thank You.
Hey Malama wish I could see u irl and tell u how much ur wisdom has changed me. Ur videos comforts me and change me for the better. Sending you love + light❤️
aw thank you 🥰 makes me so happy to hear that!
I really love your words of wisdom, thank you so much. This is amazing and all of your other videos❤
Thanks for watching Mary 🥰
Yes yes yes! You have shared so many wise thoughts and tips, thank you!
❤️ thank you so much
I love your videos and your mindset!! 🥺🥰
Cuteeee! i love this idea of being the main character! Thank you for such a BEAUTIFUL video 🥰🤲🏽
❤️ Brandon!! thank you
I just loved this video so much. Very well done. Thank you for sharing this with us all. I always enjoy clicking on your videos.
Thank you so much :)
I love your perspective❤
Beautiful video! I am waiting your new videos with joy, because they are so calming and can easily put me back in a present moment, no mater all things I have to do during a day. I try to have these conscious moments as many as I can, which is not easy, so your videos are such beautiful reminder to stop, breath and feel. Thank you for that!
Aw thank you so much 🥰
@@MalamaLife ❤️❤️❤️
This was so Beautiful
Thank You :)❤
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you
This touched my profoundly. Thank you.
i love this self love main character idea. so true ❤❤
😁 it puts everything into perspective
I love every single statement you said in this video. Thank you
I'm so happy to hear that ❤
This video was very pleasant to listen to and also had a lot of information that I agree with. If not everything in the video I agree with. Thank you, Sophie.
Thank you for watching ❤
Wow, what a beautiful video and message. Thank you so much for creating this 💕
Thanks for watching ❤
This was so poignant and beautiful and True. Thank you for sharing this.❤️❤️❤️
This is such a thoughtfully made video! Thank you!
Thanks for watching ❤
so beautifully said💗💗💗
I love your beautiful words, quote of inspiration.
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Living or just existing? It Is the center of all our lives. Thanks to make me ask myself this Question even today! 🌺 Have a wonderful week 😘💚
❤😍 thanks for watching
one of my fav videos , i rewatch again n again 🧡🧡💛💛🍂🍁🍂
:) yay!
Awesome video & words.💕
Lovely footage you took by your camera and really great words that are important and needed to be heard.
Thank you for this lovely video🥰🙏🏻
I am so greatful that this is something i have found at such a young age.
I just love everything that you do!! I love uuuu and your channel is just amazing! Thank you ❤️
aw thank you so much Esther 😍
your house is a beautiful place, neat arrangement, and comfortable for relaxation, I will try to imitate the arrangement of the room like that
❤️ thank you! I like to keep it simple and functional
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This was so helpful and inspiring. Thank you for this video love. Definitely giving a thumbs up and subscribing. 💙
I literally love your videos. I am a new subscriber and this channel brings me so much peace and good vibes. I am completely relaxed after watching your videos as well as enlightened. Thank you for your content❤️
Thank you so much for supporting and watching :) so happy you're loving it
Thank u so much for this video! I loved it! It encouraged me very much!
Thank u sofie...for d beautiful video which bought awareness to enjoy every simplest thing....in every moment of our gifted life😊
Aw thank you so much ❤
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