Sheila Walsh: Become the Godly Friend That You Are Looking For | Better Together on TBN
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- This week on Better Together, Sheila Walsh helps us navigate through what it takes to both find and be a godly friend. Join the conversation as DeeDee Freeman, Nicole C, Debra Fileta, Jennie Lusko, and Lisa Harper join Sheila Walsh to navigate the world of godly sisterhood.
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00:00 How Negative Female Friendship Experiences Affect Future You
04:29 Friendships Take Work As Do All Relationships
07:42 The Bus Analogy of Friends in Different Seasons
09:38 Unrealistic Expectations With Friendships
12:55 Putting Our Trust in God First Over Relationships
16:18 Jealousy in Our Friendships
21:46 Thinking of Our Friendships as "One"
28:39 The Good Side of Jealousy
31:25 Seeking Wisdom From the Lord Over Your Friendships - Zábava
I’m 14 and I have handed my life to Christ during quarantine. Best decision ever. Broke me from the early depression, sadness, guilt, insecurities, bad friend groups, idols, obsession, worries, stress, etc. I love my God so much. I pray for everyone to find Him.
Wow. It was almost 30 years ago when I started to really diligently walk with The LORD.. keep HIM first place and close. Never under any circumstances think HE doesn't love you. The enemy wants believers to lose hope in Him and His Word and just knowing He is our Father, and He's always there/here. The journey may get bumpy, and you won't see everything afar off or that's coming ahead, but keep your eyes and affections on JESUS CHRIST, THE ONE WHO is able to keep you from falling. God bless you and big hugs from an older sister in Christ Jesus. Shalom Shalom beloved child of God.
Already carrying the gift of wisdom 😊 welcome to the family of Christ ; where you'll always be safe read Deut 33 : 12 😊
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Beautiful testimony! May God continue to bless You Always ❤❤
I desire to have a Godly sisterhood. It is my prayer. It's a blessing to have.
I’m with you sister! I’m believing 2024 will be the year we will find Godly friendships!!
Me too. I am a lonely 30 year old who doesn't have any one i can call a friend. But this message came at the right now. I believe God wants me to pray over that area of my life. So am starting today to pray about being a good friend and also Finding Godly friends
Same hun I'm 38 this month 23rd and I dont have any Christian friends I find it hard to make friends with some Christian women. But Godnis able to bring the right people so hoping for a change 2024 @@bintssembajja9298
Me too am praying over that
I pray for healthy and Godly friendships for this new year🎉😇
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I’ve had a similar experience where I found out the first person who invited me to church and I credited a lot of my journey to salvation as a sister in Christ wasn’t a good friend to me behind my back. I had to learn to trust God revealed this to me for my good and accept where our friendship is today without reconciliation. It’s been a huge learning curve for me on forgiveness and rejection but I am so much better for allowing God to heal me. Hurt people hurt people and I pray the root of bitterness doesn’t spread in the church body. Gossip only breeds hatred and division.🙏
Having a great friend,is amazing,who u could cry with, laugh until you are weak😂,but we have to become our sisters keeper,and be kind.❤
I pray for good sisterhood dear God please guide me as a young Christian
This discussion was so good and so needed for me right now! As I get older my circle is getting smaller and smaller and I beat myself about it but I realize that God is removing certain people from my life to put the right ones I need in this season.
I've always had a hard time making female friends and maintaining relationships as it was not something modeled in my two parent home. Mom was always about her husband due to being raised that you don't allow other women in your home around your husband. Fast forward into my adulthood and I struggled with how those relationships were supposed to be. At the church I currently attend I remember two years in , going to the altar and praying for Godly female friends , fast forward 8 years later and I am so blown away how God has answered that simple and earnest prayer. These women God has blessed me with are the most amazing group of women that are not only friends but I can call them family.❤️
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Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers, because they will be called sons of God” (Matt. 5:9). Into a world that is ugly with violence and hate, Jesus sends us as peacemakers.
I had a shift in my life which also changed the type of friendship I need. Out of all the friends I have ever had, I am the only one who is married with children. I didn’t think it would be a struggle to remain in close friendship once my family life started. I used to feel isolated and believe I had no one to talk to. The reality is, the way I could be a friend to them is more on life wisdom. I can provide support if they ever needed it: babysitting, marriage advise and raising children. I pray that I be the glue that keeps my friends encouraged in the Lord through my actions and life.
I would love it if Better Together did friendship conferences! Image being a hand to connect women of faith!! BETTER TOGETHER! Wink wink just make sure they have one in Oklahoma City! 😂
I truly appreciate this message because I asked for God-fearing women I can inspire and they inspire me. We all have specific talents to offer each person. Thankful for my Kingdom sisters who are obedient to our Father GOD. I am truly blessed. Thank you JESUS for answering my prayers.
We can love HOWEVER, we must be wise. We must NOT allow narcissists or very hurtful people to bring destruction to our lives!!!! We must be observant and watch for the fruits that people produce. Read the Word of God and obey Him. Our obedience to Him will keep us from a lot of heartbreak ---not all but most.
I have seen so many Christian sisters over the years who were desperate to be married that it even made them mean and competitive toward other sisters. I can't imagine that that type of woman would be a good wife,sister or mother. Instead of obsessing over being a Mrs., a godly woman should concentrate on being a content and faithful daughter instead.😊Desperation is not beautiful but a contented, calm woman is.👑💐💐💐💝
Truth!
Women have been conditioned to prefer and value marriage over all else. So friendships are ignored and disregarded.
This is so true I know so many who have been through this and ended up making wrong decisions which finally hurt them
So beautiful I so admire Sheila Walsh, I love her spirit and her testimony 🙏 but this was a beautiful discussion on sisterhood for it is so needed in this time in which we 💕 live
Men are learning from this too thanks 💝🙋🏾♂️🙏
This is good conversation I struggle with. Pinned Dr. Dee Dee sowing into friendship but not necessary want received from that same friendship will look at it that way so i want be disappointed all the time. Shelia on point too. And the lady with the tan blazer( still trying to figure it out as well). Love these circles. They help so much. Its like wow im not alone ❤
This blessed me so much. Thank you ladies!! I sent it to a few of my sisters in Christ. I think this topic was so necessary
Oh, the joy of seeing the good/Godliness in others and seeing that flourish enriches our own lives (ultimately, eternally) for the better.
I used to hold my girl friendships higher than my marriage. Now God has me as best friends with my husband, & all other relationships at a distance ❤
Amen sisters! I am not married but I’m a bride of Christ. I seek Godly Friendships always. We have something in common, and that is Jesus Christ.
The women that are sisters in the body of Christ seem to be healthier. We like to talk about the rapture, the Bible and Godly things. I love your show. Thank you for your input and insight on so many topics.
Speaking Honestly is a sign of true friendship (TPT).
An honest answer is like a kiss of friendship (NLT). Finding or receiving that honesty is God sent and a blessing. Because honesty really takes Holy Ghost and maturity no doubt.
?I have asked myself can I really handle pure honesty? I pray that by grace I can and I could✝️🙏🏿☮️
I pray to have godly friends
I need Godly friends
Its the most painful thing ever. Thank God for his comfort, healing and making us confident! thank you jesus
I struggle with jealousy, but I’m not the one feeling it I’m the one receiving it from my sister and my mother which is very painful. I pray for them and their salvation, I love them harder, and don’t blame them, but it’s still painful.
Blessed ❤by this fellowship,Jo’s my all in all,born again trusting God in all .
I have limited myself with letting people in, it rooted from high school where my best friend pushed me away and there was no reason as to why. Since then I haven’t let anyone in to my life, I don’t want to be a burden to those around me I don’t want people to feel sorry for me or be judged by them. Lord let it be you who take this and destroy it because that is not what you want for me. I need community and need that phone call or coming over to speak about anything and release those valves of pressure or concerns. God send me some Godly women and let me learn from them on how to be a Godly friend. Thank you.
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I pray for good friends and Good people but when they lie or hurt you. i forgive them and I let it go. I have good friends in my life. Amen
Please God give me friends that will be good friends and also be a good friend
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Oh my as Sheila speaks she’s speaking my story
This really blessed me. I can relate to Sheila Walsh's story
Great topic!
Thank you for this sharing. I needed this. I was finding good friendships, and I think I struggled a bit. Now, here I got an answer and wisdom from this. Right time, right place. Thank you, and God bless you all.
Such great perspective ❤
This was a beautiful and encouraging episode. I needed these reminders and gems! 😊❤
Amazing Amazing! I can't wait
Thank you for sharing.🙏❤️
This has blessed me alot.
Amen. Thank you. ❤😊
Amen praise God ❤,He is my all in all .
Thank you ❤
Wise ladies ❤
It’s my prayer 🙏🏾
This was and is so helpful ladies. Thank you so much❤
I love her for her honesty and integrity ❤ this woman is continuously changing my life with her beautiful and inspiring messages 🙏 I thank the Lord for her, God bless you Joyce Meyer 🙏🙏❤
Praise the Lord
I love this Lord help me
AMEN!!
🤲🏾🤍sisters with a heart for God, so so so important 🥹
I have difficulty with this; I say it is because I am an only child so I go hard and get used. Once I can’t take it any longer I leave that person instead of having a conversation but I feel why would a person use you.
Prayer over it God will connect you with a genuine friend ❤
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In prayer of agreement, Nicole C. thank you all much needed much desired in Jesus' name.
Wow that's good never looked at it that way it's a relationship you can sow into but not recieve back. Because I always wondered why I didn't recieve back the same treatment! Vs being taken advantage of and using wisdom. (Holy spirit).❤ And yes! I also thought that if i shared some joy or share about what God is doing period I'd be limited. Not true wow. This is so good.
Where is her pink blazer and outfit from? She needs to share that looks amazing ❤
I’ve always struggled with the desire to have friends. I don’t feel like hanging out or talking..especially after work lol. I’m too lazy for friends.
This is my hearts desire that God will send me a female friend who I can share things with besides my husband. It's so difficult to find.
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I was hoping to hear more about the role of honesty in friendship. When we see a friend slipping into falseness, do we just let go? Speaking up means that there will be anger and hurt and often a loss of friendship. Yet doesn't God call us to a place of honesty with our friends? I feel that honest words are not treasured in our churches, we hide behind masks to conceal our hurt and sin. How do we help each other to step into that place of honest words, honest emotion and speak truth?
I have a friend that I was somewhat always guarded for 12 years. Recently I have hit a low considering relocating ( in a position of renting a room) found one near her in another state...I asked her to visit the home ( a Christian husband n wife) and she said no.
She for her own reason said no. I offered gas money, it was only 10 miles. She does not work.
I am disappointed. Please advice
The saint must walk alone by W A Tozer has made me learn to accept that we're not all made for close friendships, i have acquaintances, not even people that would plan my baby shower or bridal shower if I were to have a baby or get married 😂at some point it bothered me but now I'm at peace with my lot
thats not even biblical. Jesus didnt walk alone. He chose 12 disciples so that we can use HIM as an example. not an author. I aam saying ths respectfully. Blessings
Who are my sisters and brothers? Those that do the will of God. What about the ones that don't do the will of God? What are they... ?
I love these, but can you try not to talk across each other as I can’t hear those parts?
ÀAaaaamen
Good evening women of God I greet you all in the name of our lord Jesus christ, I am kindly requesting prayers for me and family, I am the main bread winner at home and I am having financial difficulties and I also lost my hair 7 years ago, I really need toa miracle on my finance and hair, I am in debt of 700 thousand Rand, I have 4 kids and hubby lost employment 10 years ago, I have been taking care of my family all this years but now I'm in deep debt and I know that only God can help me because he said he will supply all of my financial needs according to his riches and glory Praise the lord oh my soul , I love you all woman of God Amen and may God continue to bless you all with divine favour and wisdom knowledge and understanding ❤❤
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Constant job rejections