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It's hard to practice Nofap when you deal with loneliness, and frustration bc of failed relationships and rejection. Not just the abstinence hits, but all those negative feelings makes it even harder. My hope is that it's going to get easier and better soon or later, someday...
I can definitely relate to this. I’m always alone and I don’t go out because I’m more worried about saving money. I’ve tried Nofap and in some cases it works but most times it’s hard. So don’t worry you’re not alone.
Jus stay strong after like 3-4 days you will start to feel the energy increase an will make you want to carry on 💪🏻 get in the gym
And stop the cravings 💪🏻❤️
You can do it bro! Keep your head up. I broke free from corn over a year ago. It definitely gets better trust the process. SR is a life saver as well! Ask God for help and He will🙏🏼
I have a hard time being directly with women because I have a mindset of being non-confrontational with relationships and females.
You can't never defeat lust by your own, we will always be limited by our own will only God can free you from it I tried multiple times I had some awesome streaks but I would always fall back into it.
Downloading instantly, I'm struggling with this rn
Subbed. Your eyes and voice alone convinced me that you retain your essence and speak from experience.
Keep going man! You help a lot of guys. I had been watching porn for years, but I quitted it. Now my streak is 35 days and I am not going back to this again! Good luck everyone! It's easier that it seems
I hope you still going bro
Loving these daily vids, helping me a lot.
I think this is probably your most important video. Every man in his 20s needs to hear these words.
also ive been doing semen retention, and also i know that i need to do semen retation to better my relationship with God.
Loving the daily uploads! Keep it up🔥
Very well said!!!
thanks man i really needed this
Love the passion you put in this video
Thank you Matt
Thank you, Matt amazing video
W video Matt 🫡🫵🏾🐐
Yo i appreciate you for being a genuine self improvement youtuber and giving good advice
it’s actually like talking to a best friend
I like how these videos feel like having a genuine convo with one of your homies,unlike what other self improvement youtubers.
Thank you Matt, I'm from Russia and I don't know English very well, but I'm learning it, because I want to understand your videos exactly. I see a lot of benefit in your words. 👍
We should make a shirt on that quote!
Purpose over 🐱
thx
Matt, you helped me so much man. This video helped me a lot too bro. Thanks
Of course bro! Appreciate your support and hope your music is going well!
@@MattSpear99anytime and thanks man
Yo thx for this tho. It’s rlly RLLY hard for me rn. My parents are so strict. I can’t get a gf until I’m an adult according to my parents, and it’s hard to not fap bc I need that release but I can’t do it the right way into a girl. Please help
In my own personal experience, for those who are also retaining: stop counting the days of your streak, just remember the date you started (or restarted) your journey, and do your life normally; time goes quicker (for good).
I never watch porn, however I consider "big booty b****es" and Instagram models who post a lot of sexy pictures as soft porn. I used to think it was normal and sane to lust over girls you knew and thought were attractive (especially in a bikini) and I used to follow a lot of girls whom I thought looked sexy and attractive in a bikini. It didn't keep me from having a girlfriend, but now I realize how much of my energy has been wasted on this and how it sexualized my brain in a way that's unhealthy, so I unfollowed most of these accounts and kept only the ones I'm still close to. I'm also trying NoFap. My longest streak so far is 4 days, and I can tell it's difficult. Anyway, thank you for this video Matt, I think it will help me refocus my sexual energy.
How old are you Matt?
Ik u have well intentions matt and i really enjoy ur videos, the info in the video though is likely to make the problem worse. This is going to be a long comment so if you see this, i’d ask if you could read it. This is not me bashing u, just giving u a new perspective from this book called “The freedom model”
Reason #1: u said triggers on instagram when in reality triggers don’t exist. The reason we believe in triggers is bc we believe there’s this separate entity called “addiction” or “lust” that takes us over and forces us against our will, when in reality it’s just US using for benefits we see in pron. Those benefits can be stress relief, super pleasurable, quitting is hard, i can’t be happier without it, relieves boredom. Btw all these beliefs ab pmo are false bc pron is just a harmless video, and masturbation and orgasm is simply a physical sensation that doesn’t compel you. Just in the same way u can think a cookie will taste good but not rlly want it. Saying that things can “trigger” is making the viewer try to live this perfect lifestyle when inevitably they will see someone hot outside and think “oh damn i’m gonna relapse!”
Reason #2: You said quitting is hard. When u believe it’s hard (pause) it is. NoFap and addiction idealogy has convinced ppl their brain is working against em via dopamine, brain changes, evolution, etc. This is simply not true because if ur evolution or dopamine was controlling you, you’d do it again, and again, and again, and never stop.
Reason #3: You said “transmute sexual energy” and all this does is reinforce the idea of u battling this monster called addiction, and “urges”. We don’t have this natrual NEED to bust or blow our load lol. All that simply happens when this “sexual energy rises” is you want to use porn and you see reason for doing so. Same way as you think ab normal things in life like “oh i wanna go on a walk, but it’s raining, i rlly wanna go on this walk, i’ll bring an umbrella, but it’s cold, i’ll wear a jacket i rlly like walks.” And then u go on the walk. Same way with pmo. You reason into using it, nothing special like “addiction” controlling you or “triggering” you and no “urges” to fight. Urges don’t exist, you actively crave things for reason. Just like u crave water when ur thirsty, “oh this will quench my thirst” so u have some water.
(BUT KEYPOINT) those reasons can be faulty and wrong. Pmo doesn’t relieve stress and do all these magical things nofap and addiction idealogy but u can’t just dogmatically believe me. U have to come to that conclusion yourself thru thinking differently about your choices “is pmo the happiest option rn” and truly believing there’s nothing compelling you to use. Then thru that you build preference and see if you enjoy the life of abstinence (which u will) and wallah! Boom.
Ur done, no triggers, no urges, simply just you changing what you want and happily crackin on with life
What does pmo help you with ? Stress relief is only for 5 min or less and then you feel like shit . Relying on videos is stupid . I assume you watch it yourself so ofc your trying to justify it just like drug addicts or people that vape . Does it give you long term benefits? No it fades away really fast so you’re basically getting little to no benefits and it’s stupid thing to do .and you say that your sexual energy rises so you feel like you should do it . Well that just means you can’t control yourself and you can do it without watching a video lol . If you do it every day then your def addicted or every week .
How many days through the streak should I feel more confident talking to girls?
It doesn't work like that, you won't be more confident on day 8 for example. It just all evolves trough time
I got a question, do women check you out in public f.e. on the street or in a club?
Bro that's not how it works , you first desexualize your brain ( can take from 2 weeks at least to 3 months at most ) then you slowly approaches girls little by little until it becomes natural. Simple
@@watchdog6619 no, the last time I beat my meat was two days ago
Youll definitely notice it after a few weeks. Maybe 3, 4 weeks? Thats individual
Purpose over p
Quitting watching porn didn't work for me, because I would get very anxious by seeing hot girls in the streets. You can only get rid of lust completely if you live in the woods.
Purpose over p.....
Pop☝🏻
Honestly after watching this video just thinking about porn makes me want to throw up
Hey matt do you believe in Jesus Christ as your lord and savior.
Purpuse over p
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Purpuse over 🔞
W bro keep that mentality
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