What is Wrong Sabr (Patience)? ----Yasmin Mogahed
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- What is Wrong Sabr (Patience)?----Yasmin Mogahed.
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"Saber is that you do not complain against the decree of Allah". True ❤I also want to say from my own experiences , Saber is that you do not turned others life in to hell.
At times.. even the bearing of zulm becomes sabr dear ...as there is no other way out......like the helpless Muslim women in india etc....may Allah reward them ..
Quite similarly it happens in Pakistan..
That is why it is very important to be educated & independent 🙂
Thank you for this comment. I hate these modern pathbreaking Muslim women who talk so positive like they don’t know that sometimes you have no option but to watch your house burn down. If you don’t have to bear something terrible then how is it even a test? That way no one ever gives a test.
@@domesticdiva708 unless law system is enforced in 3rd world countries nothing can be done... unfortunately till doomsday woman becomes the grinding mill stone 😭
@@rabiaa941 Dear it does not have to do with government. As humans we are giving a test in every sphere of our life. Sometimes bearing oppression is also sabr. It is immature to think we can fight against everything. And Allah greatly rewards when we rely on him Insha Allah.
So beautifully explained , that’s exactly what I keep telling the people around me who preaches others to do sabar when they don’t even know the definition of sabar
Exactly.. That's why i keep on trying but i don't get good results and sabr doesn't mean i don't try..
Same with me😢
People who do sabr don’t go around talking and preaching. Sometimes they are in a position where no one even want to listen to them except Allah.
@@domesticdiva708 💯 agree
Yasmine has been my role model since day one, there’s no single day i don’t post her speech on my WhatsApp status🙏I can’t wait to meet her one day 😢I would be very glad
I pray for a closer relationship with my daughter!!! I lost my mom four years ago and I was just getting to know my mom again as an adult. My mom made me promise to fix my relationship with my daughter which requires prayer and patience ❤🙏❤
The eyes shed tears and the heart is grieving but the tongue is not telling except what is pleasant to Allah. Love this beautiful words of Prophet Muhammad SAW. ❤
Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam said this statement when his son passed away. SubhanAllah!
Most humbly, sabaar is not patience per se. It is dealing with loss or a problem with a hope that later is going to be better. Those who do not do sabar, consider end has come when a loss hits him. In Quran, Allah says after the problem is respite. Next life will be better then this life. In short, sabaar allows us to see light at the end of tunnel.
in that case i am going top of world trade center & jump, to get my trophy,are you OK with it ?
It is patience, it is about waiting for the problem to go away.
@@jawwadjawwad-ys8un
Go ahead
Second part of sabr definition i knew but the first part was truly an eye opener,jazak Allah khair,Alhamdulillah
For some people zulm is even the smallest correction is made, that's not zulm rather it's their ego.
Sometimes learning Deen from the wrong people can hurt you.
If you want to learn sabr, learn from Rasulullah sallallao alaihe wa Salam.
Patience is important if we want to receive reward from Allah
There's difference between patience and misinterpreting patience due to ignorance
I just love this soul Ya Rabbi 🥰🥰Dear Allah please love her and be pleased with her Ya Rabbana 🤲😍😍😍😍
Explained really well especially the end, there is alot of muslims giving the wrong definition of patience, it takes alot of time to practice and become what was explained
Maasya Allahu Rabbi Subhana Allah Subhana Allah
Masha Allah thank you
May Allah bless her and all of her work, she is honestly a beautiful soul
Mashallah 👏👏👏👏👌👌👌👍👍🙏. May Allah bless you with lots of happiness and love....
جزاكم الله خيرا
Masha Allah thabarakallah excellent explanation
Masha Allah very nice explain
Jazakallahu khairen kaseera sister
May Allah bless you, my respected sister.....
Masha Allah well said I understood now thank you❤
اللَّهُمَّ بَارِك عَلَيه
May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala keep our sister here in the Best of Health and Blessings Aameen Allaah
what an amazing lesson mashaAllah
Superb 👍👍👍 سبحان اللہ
Very simple and easy to understand.
thank you, you provide an explanation of patience that is easy to understand, may Allah bestow mercy and blessings on you
Excellent talk by Yasmin
Most needed vedio for Muslims it such a big confusion..
Fabulous... much needed 👍🏻❤️
Sabr does not mean that you should lack emotion in times of difficulty. Sabr means 'not to complain or question the decree of Allah'. SubhanAllah !!💐
Lioness of Islam❤❤❤❤
True words are like birds flying from heart to heart ❤
Too many families are over the place 😪 its really hurt and all things becoming normal , its reality 💔
ماشاءالله عليك
Wow masha'allah.
Exactly ✅
Masha Allah
Thanks for your da,wah
Allahu ta ala has made you represent ' He who is Al Sabr,' You are today for the Ummah of Muhammad Sallawhu alayhe wa Sallam. Ameen.
Perfect sis ❤
Mashallah nice
excellent bravo!!!
I once read a book of her which was really appealing and alhamdolillah feeling so happy to watch her and listen to this amazing lecture..May Allah bless her with greater rewards ameen ❤
What's the name please? Give me some suggestions about her books ? Because I didn't know that she is a lecture ❤ May ALLAH bless her and all of us . Ameen 🤲
@@naimaboufous1255 reclaim your heart, love and happiness, healing the emptiness, i lost my way, shattered glass And more
Thank you jzk so much!
We always forget the role the tongue plays in earning the pleasure of Allah SWT and we fall into these myths the sister mentioned, misunderstanding sabr...thanks to the sister I can now see how clearly we pursue path of error by acting like we are God (stoich and denying our emotion) we are human and should act human but control our speech.
And also the note of passivism, as Muslims Allah gave us conciousness so if we know of wrong happening we should not be silent and call that sabr, it may actually be kufr instead we should make action, speak up and Trust Allah.
So what are you waiting for,standup beside me ladies & demand justice.
Say we want justice,
we want justice.
Remove this barbara type barbaric govt.
Good speeches
Bravo sister. You are there in western world doing DAWAH.
اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا محمد عليه افضل الصلاه والسلام
Allahu allam..
Hola! Massive views you earned! I like! Feels good today. This enjoyable scenes!
nice ending, nice touch!
Sabar(Patience) is very important in Islam religion and speacial worth of in Islam sect.
Sabr is showing resilience in the face of adversity. Getting up when you fall down...
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh sabar going to nabi Muhammad Iman going to Allah subhanallah this gone into everything and answer of Kent syukur alhamdulillah
Powerful eaman lady like
Asslamualikum Madam Great Speech
Is this part of a longer lecture please if so would you give the link
Fabulous
I think there's value in what sister is sharing here, although for that quote from Surah Yaqub it's a little bit shaky. There's mention of Muumin not fearing or grieving in the quran, which I deduce is by function of Imaan and wish for the akhirah. While we certainly shouldn't tolerate "drinking poison" or letting our house burn down, I think Sabr is about the wisdom of possessing simultaneous contentment (awareness of Qadr) and absence of complacency.
The definition of sbr in my opinion . To pend happy life and live happy and accept God's distribution .
The Golden Rule in Islam ...
The Footnotes Leading to the Foothills to Sabr : ( صَبْرٌ ) with Patience is a 'Act of Worship' ! ..
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BUT the real sabr is having patience while following the SUNNAH
This also is right meaning of sabar but it's incomplete without telling to follow Islam and have sabr...
From India
Correct.
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Plse go through surah naml . Jazakkallahu Khayran
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Hello thanks
La patience c'est pas attendre.
La patience c'est des faire action.
The Footnotes Leading to the Foothills to Sabr : ( صَبْرٌ ) Patience ! ..
The 3 Level definition of 'Sabr' ...
1. Patience in obeying Allah (swt) (Sabr 'Ala Al-Ta'a) ...
2. Patience in abstaining from the forbidden (Sabr 'An Al-Ma'siyyah) ...
3. Patience in the face of adversity (Sabr 'Ala Al-Ibtila)
The Heart to Attain what it Desires needs both 'Patience and Perseverance' ... given it comes with many Benefits and Rewards !
For 1st Instance :
The Prophet Muhammad RAS (pbuh) had tears in His eyes when Ibrahim (as) son passed away.
He also got tired of the afflictions and even cried out especially to the "divine responsiveness".
“When will the help of Allah be near?” and Allah (swt) replied to them “help is near”.
For 2nd Instance :
The Prophet Muhammad RAS (pbuh) : said that the "Patience is illumination".
The one who's beloved ones or relatives die and endures patiently,
Allah will also admit him to Paradise as a recompense of his patience.
“As-Sabr (the patience) is illumination.”
[Muslim 223].
Happy Endings for those who trust Allah (swt) and His Angles (as) will say :
"Peace be upon you for what you patiently endured. And excellent is the final home".
This "divine response" was given because of the level of 'Sabr' which made Him content and satisfied and never questioned.
Teaching us to be content with whatever Allah (swt) has Decreed for us.
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Learn skills to cope with crisis. Don’t just wait for miracles. When one take steps to change their lives, then miracles happen too. Be financially independent always. Be strong physically, emotionally, mentally. Have hobbies
What are you out of your mind you said have babies,how on earth i have babies all alone,if i am not wrong you mean cloning but in my country the facility still not available,someone told me back in america they do the trick but i don't have lodging facility there,will you host me for the time being.
Very sorry I just read you said 'have hobbies'
what i do with husband stingy n had no feelings , my family always saying make sabr?
Better do it,my flight is confirm,coming sweet heart my Palestinian beauty.
Sabr karo Allah says inAam pao
Can someone tell me if it is allowed to preach non mahram men in the way she is preaching on social media?
A cry of the haina.
Patienter c'est agir en attendant
Sister,
Salam! My husband is a gambler n we own a business together . He keeps gambling crazy , loaning from the credit card processing company ( square) , from our daily sale, I know he takes revenge of my past mistakes that I did while I was married to him. He was never truthful to me though he pays the bills n rent. Though he owns the business 75percent n me 25 percent, I m not in the bank account bn he does whatever I can't say nothing . I m trying to break my relationship with him completely but can't do it n again n again doing the same thing.
Please tell me what I do?
hajra r.a did not take action against ibrahim a.s , she accepted the situation that it is Allah's will that she be left in that desert alone with the infant, now she's supposed to make her life better accepting Allah's will, so alot of time when injustice happen the best bet is to make your life better with that injustice in stead of taking action against the ine who did it, because a lot of time taking action against injustice leads to severing of ties anger, and more fights and traumas, so ( And not equal are the good deed and the bad. Repel [evil] by that [deed] which is better; and thereupon, the one whom between you and him is enmity [will become] as though he was a devoted friend.
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Wrong ! She did ask father Abraham why He was leaving them . To it , father Abraham didn't reply until the same question was asked for the third time with some additional words :" Is it Allah that commanded you to leave us here ?" To it , father Abraham turned around , and acknowledged that it was the order of God to leave them in the middle of the desert . Then mother Hagar ( Hajirah ) said ," Then go ! Allah won't abandon us ."
Maashallah....yes it's true ...we cannot fight always
@@sakibmanzoor7830 yes but she did not resist the difficulty. So what is your point?
How do we explain sabr, when your husband takes another wife
It's hypocrisy in my opinion
According to the speech you should protest and take action rather than watching your house burn down.
For the sake of Allah
The message is loud & clear,the cutie is waiting for me over candles light dinner,honey the world is not worthy living.
Long live Palestine!!!
Does you husband treat both of you equally? Does he still love you?
I want to become like you pl guid
Sister it is prohibited to talk as a women on deen with your face exposed.
So when Yousuf A. S was abandoned by his brother did he go back to take his position? Or did he go back to protest against his brother’s actions for wronging him? I pity some of these Modern Muslim preachers. Sometimes you don’t even get the option to save your house from burning even though judgemental little Muslims might think so.
What a talented lady..I salute you..if 1 lack lady would be like you then the world can be change ..Muslim doesn't permit their lady to do preaching because of beparda..what a sabr my brother you are in hell but you don't change yourself you don't read Quran with translation
Isn’t sabr when we are compelled to wait it out making dua and having full trust in Allah when we have no control or power over the situation until Allah swt changes the situation, needless to say we keep making dua and keep doing whatever is possible within our limited capabilities
the speaker has given an overly-simplistic definition of sabr, what if someone has mental illness / depression / anxiety etc and he/she can’t take practical steps to better their situation, would that person be guilty of not making sabr? What if a parent has one sibling who is off the rails, on drink/drugs etc despite the parents continuous duas and advising and guiding the sibling and the situation still goes from bad to worse, is the parent guilty of not making sabr?
Sometimes people exaggerate their grief, crying and wailing loudly so naturally people tell them to ‘make sabr’ to subdue them a little bit… nobody is saying it’s haram to express grief by crying
Wish I could see the audience, from the style of speaking one would think the speaker is addressing a kindergarten group
How can you exaggerate grief.? Person either feels grief or not ..How can you judge and measure emotions of people by saying sometimes people exaggerate them ?
@@rosannatimars8 please educate yourself on when our Nabi ﷺ advised on those who wail, scream and pull their hair at times of grief
@darattaqwa Now you went very far in another direction .Yasmin didn't talk about these extremes like pulling hair out ,but merely crying versus having stone face.Even then, there could be people who process their emotions differently like people mental health issues. .And you learn to humble yourself and learn basic rules of politeness which are essence of Islam ..You insulted audience which came to listen to this beautiful lecture as those of kindergarten level .That's displays you as highly arrogant person
@@rosannatimars8 first of all I replied to YOUR comment directed to ME, asking how grief could be exaggerated, I wast referring to anything the speaker said so my reply was exclusively for you, Second of all you show your true intentions for posting the comment to me which is you were upset about my comments to the speaker (i.e. you were upset I ‘insulted’ the speaker), I would respect you more if you were honest and sincere and had simply said that in your initial comment instead of trying to argue about something you don’t have knowledge about (exaggerated grief - crying loudly, screaming, wailing, pulling hair and clothes, you get the idea)
And to clarify I wasn’t insulting the speaker nor the assembly, I was just stating the fact it’s a very simplistic definition of sabr, and the style of speech is patronising, condescending, I don’t know, maybe the audience was predominantly reverts / new Muslims
I apologise if I was rude or arrogant, and I respect you for defending your teacher whom you clearly have great love for 🙏
Now to show there’s no hard feelings, may I humbly request you make special duas for your sinful, cocky, arrogant British brother in Islam that Allah changes his ways
I completely agree with your comment. This indeed is a very simplistic and shallow speech completely disregarding that Allah always put some of us in a situation where the only one who can help our situation is Allah alone. Let us all follow Islam according to what we learn about it. Islam is not dependent on any scholars interpretation to live our life. We don’t know who can misguide us and take us toward the wrong path. As Muslims we should be really careful.
Smoke 💨 after fire 🔥
The Footnotes Leading to the Foothills to Sabr : ( صَبْرٌ ) Patience ! ..
'Sabr ( صَبْرٌ ) is an admirable quality.
This is because it helps us connect with Allah (swt) in the face of all unexpected and unwanted outcomes.
It is with 'patience' with should speak and act upon the truth and to ensure and endure with strength through hardships.
So, to be mindful and be patience when dealing with unexpected and unwanted results is an 'Act of Worship' .
In Islam the meaning of 'Sabr' ( صَبْرٌ ) is one of the two parts of Faith teaching us to remain spiritually steadfast !
'Sabr ' ( صَبْرٌ ) : reminds us to keep doing good actions in the personal and collective domain of our 'spiritual life'.
This specifically applies when faced with opposition or encountering problems and setbacks.
The second part 'Shukr' (شكر ) is a term is used when Allah (swt) is the subject.
Which means thankfulness or gratitude as s highly esteemed virtuous being and the "divine responsiveness" is from Allah (swt).
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No no no please don't, i am not going anywhere nor i'll dare yo knock your door,i am OK not feeling the chilling cold outside you warmed me enough with your burning emotions,i am sorry i'll not do it again believe me i am not thirsty & i am not hungry even.
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WHEN THERE IS EVIL.. UNJUST.. OPPRESSION.. DICTATION.. WRONG DOING..
THINK & TAKE APPROPRIATE ACTION TO OVER COME & ELIMINATE THE OPPOSED ACTION OR HAPPENING/INCIDENT.
ONE IS GIVENNTHE PERMISSION TO ACT & TAKE ACTION TO SAFEGUARD ONES RELIGION.. FAMILY.. ONESELF.. & ONE BELONGINGS/PROPERTY & WEALTH.
ONE CAN NOT CAUSE NOR TAKE NEGATIVE ACTION BY OVER STEPPING THE BORDERS TO BENEFIT ONES SELF TO SUCESS.
ONE SHOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER & BARE IN MIND THAT ALLAH (SAWT) IS WATCH ALL & EVERY ACTIONS OF HIS CREATIONS.
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Sad Saif
Sad bangla jamtola kobirhat noakhali
Mumtaz
Sweetie the lotus is down will you please open up the door now i am hungry too,please have mercy.
The Psychological Impacts : of Human Behaviour and People with Complex Issues ! ...
For instance : People who suffer 'abuse' at the hands of other peoples expense and get brain washed with negative feeling.
These people are those who use others as an escape from their own 'sexual desires' and temptation just to make money,
to call it family and not Religion.
The Man of the House !
The strong 'minded person' who does not take heed but is persistently 'painted' in a 'bad light'.
The insecurity she pushes on him in order for him to push back and for him to put him into attack mode.
When questioned about others who have 'attacked' his emotional begin and then he has to justify his role as a 'player'.
Question : The Man of the House or House of Man ?
This 'toxic women' aim seems to be that she thinks she represents all who are alien to her Religion & Politics,
also culture to alienate others who are not. And the motive for the others to 'attack' was the goal to make their money.
And write others off as having 'mental health' problems. (and not Religious Beliefs such as Islam ) because of the media.
Therefore some might believe this is because of 'racism' and envy' and secretly their plan and plot,
for their 'Warfare' tactics. As they have a bad reputation as nasty mindless 'alcoholics' making pocket money for,
their package holidays in their spare time. Bringing in their experts and trainees for a job and a career as Doctors,
and Psychologists even some people on 'Police pay'. To justify their 'plan of action' and paperwork,
also without understanding of another culture and language better still Islam.
Concluding these 'toxic people' use their professional pay to educate their family and play off other 'people' ,
for their so called family values. But deep inside their knowing of the other people who are making their money,
using them as a 'piggy backing' scheme.
So, maybe its him or his mind playing tricks on him ... as he finds himself praying on his knees,
they bring him closer to them only to leave him with those who they know have been bad to him.
Therefore He takes the 'Footnotes Leading to the Foothills' to Sabr : ( صَبْرٌ ) and with Patience as it is an Admirable Quality.
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Please be the voice of Ethiopian Muslim!!!!!!
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This is a last call for the boarding.
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I know there would be people contradicting but I have to say it to make Muslims aware
Women should do dawah to women and men should do dawah to men
A woman displaying her face and voice on a social media platform is not Islamic even if she is teaching Islam. Even Aisha (RA), may Allah be pleased with her, used to tell Hadiths, used to give Islamic teachings but she never used to display her face and voice in public.
Some may argue that women if fully covered can talk publicly. But my dear Muslim brothers and sisters, that is only when it becomes absolutely necessary, and this is not a necessity because there are already enough men to give dawah.
And recently Sheikh Assem Al hakeem spoke about this.
Back home my kaptan also desperately inviting n-league,q-league,p-league & every other possible league to please join hands against oppressors.
when wronged by others; people say, it’s okay, nothing to worry about, it’s normal, it happens. It’s our fault if they have wronged us.
When take stand ; they say,Oh, it’s wrong, nobody do so. You have to accept it. Things will get better by themselves. You have nothing to do, just serve the wrong doer and obey..
Salam Sistr, i hope you read it and take it as a constructive criticism. I am a member of MCMC Community. Since i had realized your last name, i have watched and listened few of your lectures in social media and when you recently came to MCMC i noticed that you are very humble like a married muslim woman and not like some of our scholars so arrogant. Here i just wanted to let you have a few things in mind to think about it. When you plan an event and naming it anything other than Islamic names and if it is not in opposition to islam, it is okay and halal to make mone. Using a Masjid’s space and account i hope that you have been paying for that Masjid. It has been interesting for me since i begun knowing your last name Mughahid and in the same time knowing your books’ title “Love”, “reclaim your heart”, “ “ mistake in romantic love” and healthy way of loving and unhealth way of loving …” that is right a book should not be judge by its cover but a title can tell a lot about a book & story. All these terms and titles are being practically used by non-muslims in their daily life and that is also well understood by most of single YMs, so mentioning these titles and products with these kind of titles in a Islamic gathering which includes so many YMs and selling them to YMs in a Masjid without confirming with an Amam might be not much helpful. ”
Rather am am is so frustrated he can do anything without any prior notice.
Stopped
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Don't hide yourself behind HOLY BOOK come outside or i am about to knock you out,this is your last chance.