Rives: The Museum of Four in the Morning

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  • čas přidán 15. 05. 2014
  • Beware: Rives has a contagious obsession with 4 a.m. At TED2007, the poet shared what was then a minor fixation with a time that kept popping up everywhere. But after the talk, emails starting pouring in with obscure, hilarious references-from the cover of "Crochet Today!" magazine to twin mentions in "The Flintstones" and "The Jetsons." A lyrical peek into his Museum of Four in the Morning, which overflows with treasures.
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Komentáře • 348

  • @dmboutdoors4430
    @dmboutdoors4430 Před 2 lety +61

    I’ve watched this TED talk so many times. It always impresses me. I’ve shared it with so many friends and loved ones and never gotten back the same sense of awe it sparks in me.

    • @H3110NU
      @H3110NU Před rokem

      The comment section shall provide… I always love this video every time I watch it.

    • @monicasantos2216
      @monicasantos2216 Před rokem +1

      I feel that too. i've returned to it so many times.

    • @JaniceGlimmer
      @JaniceGlimmer Před rokem +1

      SAME!!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @martafelis7851
      @martafelis7851 Před rokem +1

      Same here :)

    • @Mrnarutofan28
      @Mrnarutofan28 Před 10 měsíci +2

      I feel this exact pain my friend, this is my most watched ted talk of all time. Just finished rewatching it yet again 😅

  • @oybeutu
    @oybeutu Před 8 lety +118

    4am is the earliest possible time of the morning that still feels like morning. 3am is more like very late night.

  • @assassin7707
    @assassin7707 Před 10 lety +84

    Now that's what I call a love story! Lost love, with love poems, with a poem that comes back later in life, a journey to find the source. Lost love telling him about the mix tape, rediscovering the original poem! Omg, what?! Could not be more real.

  • @evanleaman6248
    @evanleaman6248 Před 7 lety +184

    Every time I am awake at 4 in the morning, I look up this Ted Talk. It's become a tradition of mine

    • @H3110NU
      @H3110NU Před 7 lety

      Evan Leaman me too!

    • @Caperhere
      @Caperhere Před 6 lety +1

      Evan Leaman ....me too. May 01,2018

    • @Caperhere
      @Caperhere Před 5 lety +1

      ....and 4 in the morning.27 June/19

    • @bharris591
      @bharris591 Před 3 lety

      I work till 4am everyday.i still think of this talk and come back to it

    • @H3110NU
      @H3110NU Před 2 lety +2

      4 years later at 4am….

  • @aresinnet
    @aresinnet Před 10 lety +27

    I'm really happy that Rives is on here again. His 4am talk is one of my favorite TED talks of all time.

  • @HamzaSayedAli
    @HamzaSayedAli Před 10 lety +79

    I'm legitimately jealous. L.D. is so very clever and the fact that Rives was stuck on this for 7 years is just-- I can't even. So good.

  • @Luuu261296
    @Luuu261296 Před rokem +10

    I've been coming back to this video every once in a while since it was originally uploaded here and I'm always amazed at this story. Truly makes me marvel at how magical and brilliant the smallest things in life can be.

  • @Raythe
    @Raythe Před 5 lety +20

    the greatest "its on the tip of my tongue but i can't quite put my finger on it" moment IN ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY.

  • @smokeandquills
    @smokeandquills Před 7 lety +30

    lol, just randomly clicked on this Ted and glanced up at my clock and it's 4am on the dot. Oh dear XD

  • @nay_codes
    @nay_codes Před 4 lety +40

    "...I realize this is just the kind of extravagance I took for granted, even when I was extravagant..."
    why did these words punch me in the gut

    • @MCAndyT
      @MCAndyT Před 4 lety +1

      "good for him!"

    • @tarasierralee
      @tarasierralee Před 2 lety

      My favorite line. In fact, I just came to watch this for the umpteenth time to find that very line.

  • @lilliehayes7750
    @lilliehayes7750 Před 4 lety +12

    2020 and its still my favorite Ted talk ever

  • @AGoodVibe
    @AGoodVibe Před 2 lety +4

    Rives is an under-appreciated talent. I love his seamless transition to a more poetry-laced prose toward the end. Absolutely masterful

  • @firepants20
    @firepants20 Před 10 lety +62

    This should be a movie. :o

    • @Caperhere
      @Caperhere Před 4 lety

      Firepants20 Maybe, but I think it’s perfect.

  • @lovesowls
    @lovesowls Před 10 lety +39

    That was probably the best story I have ever heard. ever.

  • @kimcarlton1
    @kimcarlton1 Před 8 lety +9

    I loved this! I reminds me of many talks that I've had with my daughter where the nonsensical melds with the coincidental and becomes pure, organic entertainment.

  • @anne-mareegray8762
    @anne-mareegray8762 Před 10 lety +4

    I love how memories work sometimes. How cute that the first time the phrase imprinted on his memory was from a romantic mix-tape made decades ago and referencing that very poem.

  • @trefod
    @trefod Před 10 lety +77

    This is what meticulously self induced insanity looks like.

  • @mikahpaul2298
    @mikahpaul2298 Před rokem +1

    This man is the most brilliant poet i have ever seen. I love his piece

  • @jersyflame8952
    @jersyflame8952 Před 10 lety +5

    that mix tape... the idea... wish I had thought of it. sooo cool. what a treasure.

  • @BesoGvenetadze
    @BesoGvenetadze Před 7 lety +7

    This must be the most beautiful story ever told.

  • @nakanakanaka1150
    @nakanakanaka1150 Před 10 lety +59

    I think my head is about to explode.

  • @kyuteepy3205
    @kyuteepy3205 Před 8 lety +18

    Brilliant. Makes me smile every time. Thank you, Rives.

  • @NWRefund
    @NWRefund Před 10 lety +17

    I've watched a lot of TED talks, but this is the first time I've ever favorited one. I hope she's single, and I hope they get together. That would be an incredible footnote to his early morning journey.

  • @kriorge
    @kriorge Před 2 lety +1

    Nearly eight years later and this is still my favorite TED Talk.

  • @LTS217
    @LTS217 Před 4 lety +2

    I just watched this for the fourth time. I am captivated by it. It reaches a place deep within me with such amazing ease and totality.

  • @whereeveritgoes
    @whereeveritgoes Před 10 lety +11

    Wow! It's like watching a novel. Great ending!

  • @mansee6023
    @mansee6023 Před 3 měsíci

    Rives is just such an amazing storyteller! I keep coming back to this:)

  • @SouthernBoulder
    @SouthernBoulder Před 8 lety +3

    Rives's talks are some of my favourite TED talks

  • @marcodipietro813
    @marcodipietro813 Před 5 lety +1

    Peace Like A River. Such an underrated tune.

  • @peterjeong
    @peterjeong Před 10 lety +3

    Wow. I really enjoyed his journey, to realize that in the end of the video... I feel 4 him, but at the same time it was such a beautiful journey. Where is this residual ~ stained emotion taking him... To somewhere in yesterday.

  • @blossomgonzales7410
    @blossomgonzales7410 Před 10 lety +2

    This is so far the most beautiful talk on TED. 💗

  • @tombarker1232
    @tombarker1232 Před 4 lety +2

    Still one of the best stories I've ever watched.

  • @Kamielus
    @Kamielus Před 4 lety +2

    This is the video I go to when I can't sleep at night.
    This is just the kind of extravagance I took for granted, even when I was extravagant.

  • @AimeeTheGreat
    @AimeeTheGreat Před rokem

    This gets me every time. Chills. And a beautiful answer response to 4 in the morning.

  • @SnarkNSass
    @SnarkNSass Před 5 lety

    One of the first TED talks I ever saw. Along with how to tie your shoes... LOVE TED

  • @smolsand
    @smolsand Před 4 lety +20

    4 o' clock in the morning reminds me of this quote from a musicians book:
    “There is a phenomenon that occurs in the minds of many manic depressives when entering into either a manic or a depressive state that nobody claims to understand, but that bipolar's from the far corners of the world can attest to: the consistent waking up at four o’clock in the morning. And when I say at four o’clock, I mean four o’clock on the fucking dot. How many times have I given myself chills, waking up yet again after only two hours of sleep and looking over at the blinking red of a digital alarm clock only to see that number staring back at me? I’ve lost count. And the thing is, you don’t just wake up. You wake up with your mind racing, music churning over and over inside your head, the internal noise, words, pictures, absolutely unbearable, and it is absolutely impossible to go back to sleep.”
    ― Emilie Autumn, The Asylum for Wayward Victorian Girls

  • @TheSeaDaughter
    @TheSeaDaughter Před 10 lety

    Still remember that talk! One of my faves

  • @dvslawyer1950
    @dvslawyer1950 Před 9 lety +2

    A great story and an even better storyteller.Make sure that you listen to the entire speech. It is "unfreakin canny".

  • @Koribaby1
    @Koribaby1 Před 4 lety +1

    I got emotional about his old flame referencing the mixtape and him keeping it and going back to it. Sweet. Tender.

  • @carlossolis9824
    @carlossolis9824 Před 6 lety +1

    It was all the ripples of a Love that never went away. How amazing. Really felt the ending.

  • @laplandJJ
    @laplandJJ Před 10 lety +2

    Wow, the way things connect--not by coincidence but somehow by fate. This is pretty awesome!~

  • @tangrtag1806
    @tangrtag1806 Před 6 lety +1

    This is my favorite ted talk. I remember watching this while studying english 3 years ago.

    • @wailincaelan
      @wailincaelan Před 4 měsíci

      I had a college professor share this with my English class when it was released. I always revisit it every couple of years. My favorite as well

  • @jessiegeorge2108
    @jessiegeorge2108 Před 9 lety

    4 in the morning popped up in the comic section today. Brought me right back to this beautiful video. :)

  • @lupin7559
    @lupin7559 Před 10 lety +19

    *shoves half open Great Gatsby novel off side of desk*

    • @abdallahmanasrah2317
      @abdallahmanasrah2317 Před 4 lety +1

      4 years ago I liked you comment, still feeling for you to this day

    • @abdallahmanasrah2317
      @abdallahmanasrah2317 Před rokem +1

      Yup, still feeling for you fox

    • @lupin7559
      @lupin7559 Před rokem

      @@abdallahmanasrah2317 Thanks for reminding me of this epic spoiler! Great TED Talk - I just watched it again - but I was honestly reading The Great Gatsby for the first time and didn’t know what I was in for before he said that haha. 😆

  • @GlendaClemens
    @GlendaClemens Před 10 lety +1

    Beautiful! I loved every moment of this talk. The four-in-the-morning serendipity and romance is everything we all dream about.

  • @ShariOliver
    @ShariOliver Před 10 lety +1

    Really the amazing-ness of this is the end. That human connection that personal detail is what makes us relate and connect with others. Great Great Great!

  • @fforflower8636
    @fforflower8636 Před rokem

    Synchronicities. Love it.

  • @MickeyMMT
    @MickeyMMT Před 10 lety

    This us just the kind of extravagance that I took for granted, even when I was extravagant. What an amazing journey.

  • @14keti14
    @14keti14 Před 10 lety

    I just watched this at 4 am because i couldnt sleep and am subscribed to TED talks channel ( didnt look anything up, just scrolled through suggestions) :)

  • @ramon5hms5
    @ramon5hms5 Před 9 lety +6

    Is it a coincidence that I'm watching this at four in the morning?

  • @moondive4ever
    @moondive4ever Před 4 lety

    Floored. Thank you. Thank you,

  • @lindersi
    @lindersi Před 10 lety

    what a great story! My personal note to this is, that i just today woke up at four o´clock in the morning and couldnt sleep and now i find this in my YT subs.

  • @ThomasFullSpeed
    @ThomasFullSpeed Před 10 lety

    Wow, I am in awe. Great facial expression during the talk. Watched it twice in a row.

  • @Tikz24
    @Tikz24 Před 10 lety +2

    Now that is how you tell a story and boy, what a story it was! :O Just wonderful really.

  • @sammie1633
    @sammie1633 Před 4 lety +4

    I just watched a 14-minute video about a man's obsession with an hour.
    What has quarantine done to me

  • @obychem3472
    @obychem3472 Před 10 lety +3

    It made my brain happy. TY

  • @MrEfra79
    @MrEfra79 Před 10 lety +1

    One of the best speaches that I have heard, the world is sea of coincidences

  • @LSTUARDI13
    @LSTUARDI13 Před 10 lety

    loved this! Thank you for following the path!

  • @martafelis7851
    @martafelis7851 Před rokem

    My favourite TED Talk.

  • @daisybett7732
    @daisybett7732 Před 5 lety +1

    I just woke up.. and am watching this at 4.05 am...interesting..

  • @omarhaidar5775
    @omarhaidar5775 Před 10 lety +1

    I have no idea what is this all about but the way he tells it cool as heck.

  • @hilmyb
    @hilmyb Před 10 lety +2

    Never made a comment on CZcams before. But this was too cool.
    Don't think any CZcams "poetic" comment
    or reflection on life
    could be as intense as the connection
    Rives just made.

  • @jaclynbludorn3644
    @jaclynbludorn3644 Před 6 lety

    How can a tedtalk be so satisfying

  • @underworldling
    @underworldling Před 10 lety +12

    This would make a better love story than twilight.

    • @IanM0rris
      @IanM0rris Před 10 lety +2

      Ding ding ding! Congratulations, you've won CZcams's most irrelevant comment.

    • @underworldling
      @underworldling Před 10 lety +5

      Ian Morris I see you're new here. Welcome to the internet, where everything that anyone says is irrelevant.

    • @TheErrol5555
      @TheErrol5555 Před 10 lety

      Tyler Poole LOL well put Tyler

    • @starlx_420
      @starlx_420 Před 4 lety

      agreed

  • @MarkLucasProductions
    @MarkLucasProductions Před 10 lety +4

    I'm a romantic. As much as anything else like this has brought me to tearful convulsions this brought me there. Wow.

  • @POLlyy23
    @POLlyy23 Před 10 lety +2

    Rives! One of the reasons i have favorite poets.

  • @OlgaPerezWilchacky
    @OlgaPerezWilchacky Před 10 lety +2

    Interesting way to show how we are all - somehow - connected.
    Clever way to take us from feeling - where is this is going? - to enjoying cool TV clips, - to a romantic place, - to there it is........the "now I get it moment."

  • @willshakeyou
    @willshakeyou Před 9 lety +6

    RIVES!!! Total bro crush right here. lol

  • @HansPauli
    @HansPauli Před 10 lety +1

    I'm watching this at 4.50 in the morning....

  • @charlieclark74
    @charlieclark74 Před 5 lety +4

    Now there’s “4 a.m.” by 2 chainz and and Travis Scott

  • @Grumpini
    @Grumpini Před 10 lety +5

    Yes! I totally forgot about Rives

    • @kakashi76767
      @kakashi76767 Před 10 lety +3

      Me too. And I watched it at 4 pm...

  • @emmanueld.1816
    @emmanueld.1816 Před 3 lety +1

    Favorite talk to this day. 2021 quarantine gang wya?

  • @falcychead8198
    @falcychead8198 Před 10 lety +2

    I'm getting caught-up on my TEDtalks viewing at 6 am, because I woke up at 4 in the morning, as I often do, wishing that I knew a girl who would make me a multidimensionally encrypted mix tape with a Dadaist title in French.

    • @Caperhere
      @Caperhere Před 4 lety

      Falcy Chead You could make one for someone. Maybe even anonymously.

  • @debramorrow872
    @debramorrow872 Před 5 lety

    thought you would get a kick out of this as 4 am is becoming your time!

  • @Martyncuz
    @Martyncuz Před 9 lety +10

    Still one of the best TED talks I've seen :)

  • @itsFlycatcher
    @itsFlycatcher Před 10 lety

    This is.... some serious trivia knowledge-fuel. Not sure what else I can use this knowledge for, but it's fascinating, and I definitely do not feel like I wasted these 14 minutes of my life.
    (Also now I know what sentimental thing I should do for my partner for his birthday. Mixtape of poems. Genius.)

  • @azucarmorena5000
    @azucarmorena5000 Před 10 lety +2

    i remember him from def poetry slam-"Thank you for giving me voice!!!!!"

  • @squirreljester2
    @squirreljester2 Před 10 lety +10

    My wife wakes up at 4am to get ready for work.

    • @melexdy
      @melexdy Před 10 lety +1

      Ehh , its so brutal to wake 4am in the night... leave that warm bed get dressed and leave ur house to go to ur work....

    • @assassin7707
      @assassin7707 Před 10 lety +6

      It's so nice to drive to work at 4am, feels like you're one of a few left on Earth.

  • @HeikeRenee
    @HeikeRenee Před 10 lety +2

    aw, this is incredible

  • @Zeinthar
    @Zeinthar Před 9 lety +3

    Famous Blue Raincoat - Leonard Cohen
    "Its four in the morning, the end of december
    Im writing you now just to see if youre better
    New york is cold, but I like where Im living
    Theres music on clinton street all through the evening."

  • @celerystikz
    @celerystikz Před 7 lety +2

    man so true about the groin injury thing

  • @MerGirl62
    @MerGirl62 Před 5 lety

    Rives never ever disappoints.

  • @MeandYoutoo8
    @MeandYoutoo8 Před 10 lety +5

    Connections ... this reminds us that what we perceive is just a fraction, the tip of the ice burg, of the endlessness that connects us all. We are not alone. When feeling empty ... look again. When meeting someone you have nothing in common with ... look again. When feeling like the whole world is against you ... look again. Separation is a man made cage for the mind. Feeling bad is just not seeing enough of the picture.

  • @MostlyLoveOfMusic
    @MostlyLoveOfMusic Před 10 lety +1

    I was inadvertently watching this at 4am, without even knowing what I was doing!

  • @MyDedededededededede
    @MyDedededededededede Před 2 měsíci

    When I switched from one AD to another AD I was waking up so many nights at 4 a.m, and it wasn't nice.

  • @michellecharlie8649
    @michellecharlie8649 Před 10 lety

    For my language arts class, I have been trying to find examples, to share with my students, where a person leads his audience to an ending, in an interesting way that ties all the ideas together! Well done!!! I love the nonsense!

  • @Seita1223
    @Seita1223 Před 10 lety

    An interesting reflection on how we can find meaning in the odd little things, and connect them to the bigger picture.

  • @sherriking5990
    @sherriking5990 Před 10 lety +1

    This is beautiful.

  • @lv1023
    @lv1023 Před 10 lety +1

    Rives is just way too cool!

  • @bodyofhope
    @bodyofhope Před 5 lety

    What a story!
    Everyone I know who has trouble sleeping wakes up between 3&4 in the morning. When I was very ill, I was at my worst at that time-- clockwork.
    It IS the bewitching hour. Idk what happens to the environment, to the moon, to the oxygen perhaps, or maybe just maybe to the spiritual forces we cannot see but whatever this time brings doesn't have a peaceful or calming effect.

  • @jannoall
    @jannoall Před 10 lety

    Rives, another one for you. Yesterday July 13th, on PBS In the "Endeavour " showing, the Detective says "Just after 4 ".
    I just had to tell you. Enjoyed your youtube very much !

  • @xDarkAnsem
    @xDarkAnsem Před 8 lety +3

    Two days ago when I woke up in the middle of the night for the first time in a while, guess what time it was...

    • @healthyhobo5270
      @healthyhobo5270 Před 8 lety

      Don't know if you'll believe me but I actually woke up from a really good dream the morning before I watched this video at 4😂

    • @solooverland3666
      @solooverland3666 Před 4 lety

      Shenanigans - 5? 🤣🙈

  • @imir8ati
    @imir8ati Před 10 lety

    Nice talk 14 minutes but kinda nice, I have never had someone I could call at 4 in the morning but what I got or settled for was using it as a measuring stick. Love you mom

  • @mcjennis
    @mcjennis Před 10 lety

    Watching this was a compete water of time

  • @teresasilveira9207
    @teresasilveira9207 Před 10 lety +1

    Loved it!

  • @Zc2n5KGvtO
    @Zc2n5KGvtO Před 10 lety +2

    Watching this at 4AM surely won't help me from getting caught in this insanity trap.

  • @StickyLabel7
    @StickyLabel7 Před 10 lety

    I love how something so arbitrary that we would all skip over in our everyday lives suddenly comes to mean so much to one person.

  • @forgottencreation
    @forgottencreation Před 4 lety

    It's 4am and I'm feeling it.

  • @philramsteck3719
    @philramsteck3719 Před 10 lety +1

    so awesome

  • @joanafadista246
    @joanafadista246 Před 2 lety

    Amazing! Love this TED talk, thank you so much for this amazing moment.