Josh confronts Sebas + What NOT to do at restaurants
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I just admire Josh for how he articulates his emotions and how he creates boundaries in his relationship with Sebas. His emotional maturity is just top notch 👌 I have two sons and I need them to be exactly like Josh ❤️
Same ❤
I second that
Let’s pray for our boys 💙
Josh, I can’t tell you how much I admire your vulnerability and honesty.
I truly feel like you help men who don’t naturally have those tendencies to think deeper or outside the box. Any man/woman that you consider a friend is truly blessed 🫶🏻
Facts on facts on facts!
Sebas is really bothered about Josh’s feelings about what happened a year ago-I think that threw him off but I am glad he kept apologizing because I put myself in Josh’s shoes and I would be hurt that I am calling someone I care about to help out and they disregard what I am saying and how I am feeling. So glad this was Josh opportunity to speak about it.
Josh is a sweetheart , no one can make me hate him lol. for some reason. Something about him I like. Ppl don’t like confrontational emotional ppl. But feelings are valid. I think he needed to get it off his chest for sure. He loves Sebas. But I’m glad Josh is not the type of friend to not tell his friends their truths.
What time stamp did he say this ?
@@Ls3Papi_C1 the stamp of the start of the convo starts at 56:54
When I thought I couldn’t love Josh even more…his emotional capacity and being able to articulate how he feels and being able to hold Sebas accountable for hurting him is amazing 🤌🏽 well done Josh and Sebas yall are the epítome of great men and seeing that men like you exist. Kudos 👏🏽
I admire to speak about my feelings like Josh does , when someone hurts my feelings 😭 he explains everything so well and so claim yet gets to the point ‼️🫶🏽
Do u think Josh supports lgbtq community.
sebas should fill his tank for a whole year as an apology 🤣🤣🤣💀
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Right! Even I would’ve ran to help him shidddd 😂
@@melnamag no but fr 🏃🏻♀️🤣
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Wait I needed that clarification from Sebas because I totally thought Josh meant dropping 20 flavors today lmao
Same. 😅😅
Same!!! Because he said that VERBATIM lol justice for Sebas😭😭😭😭😭
YESSSS
Sameeee😂😂
That’s what I said I was like damn let me go check them out 😂
You can tell josh thought about the way sebas hurt him right away when the question was ask and tried playing it off. But props to him for talking about it.
Yes he was reasoning with himself whether he wanted to share his experience or not
THIS IS THE BEST EPISODE YET!!! you guys are the definition of a healthy friendship and not letting the toxicity get the best of y'all.
You could tell Sebas felt horrible for hurting Josh, he will never let Josh down after this. I love that you guys had this difficult conversation because it caused self awareness and growth. ❤
Absolutely 🥺 and I feel like this conversation and many others, like it, will only strengthen their friendship 😊
I feel like Josh was raised to be emotionally aware by his mom. I love that you told Sebas that you wish he was there for you. I feel like Josh shows us that really appreciates the principles of things. I don’t think Sebas was trying to be a dick.. love to you both but Sebas notice that even when that doesn’t come to mind. Overalll I love Both of you guys
I agree, I don’t think Sebas was trying to be a dick it’s just something he wasn’t aware of or didn’t come to mind
Josh is such a sweetheart 🥹 his mother raised him well ❤️ he is so considerate and kind. It’s beautiful to see 🥰
I’m glad it’s only u two this time 😊
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Yeeees i missed them🥹
Me too I like them alone ❤
@@idaliihernandesss924 yess same
Same 😊
I really resonated w. sebas he doesn't like asking for help. Which is sometimes a bad thing we really do not know how to ask for support or assistance. So when others ask we assume they can find a solution immediately bc thats how we process things. Its great to hear friends be honest with one another bc we learn how to show up for ourselves and others. Great episode. Josh's & Sebas' emotional intelligence is unmatched 💜
Absolutely agree ❤
So true!! He was probably raised with a father who taught him to figure it out lol
Growing up I had to get and do everything on my own and I’m exactly the same way. Asking for help is my last resort.
Do you guys understand that this is a trauma response and not the healthiest way to cope... I hope y'all, including Sebas can open up to the idea of receiving help :' )
Agree!!
Josh, you should add a sampler pack of salud to your site! One bag with one packet of each flavor so we can try them all and choose our favorite ❤️
That’s a good idea!
This podcast felt like a much needed therapy session. Between the two. We appreciate your vulnerability. Joshy is highly intuned with his emotions! He’s definitely raised by a WOMEN
Joshy in his feelings that why it was cute
He was raised by a boss a QUEEN! El otro pues ya vez como es su mamá ahora mira al hijo 😮💨 she got comfy and now he is living comfy thanks to Karen the apple don’t fall to far from the tree. And Josh mom is A BOSS & you see the difference.. he is a BOSS himself
Josh I admire your courage to tell Sebas how he made you feel that time, I’ve know people like that and it’s so disappointing. Your feelings are valid Josh ❤️
Know your worth Josh. Josh makes this podcast, he’s well rounded, well spoken, can articulate himself, funny but not mamon, a true Capricorn
Josh putting the headphones over his eyes 💀 iykyk
LMAOOOO 😭😭😭 fr
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I was waiting for Sebas to say, “you say pendejadas all day does that make you a pendejo?!” lol all fun and game.
Bruhhh i would’ve died hahahaha
Lmaooo😂
I thought the same thing! 🤣
As a Capricorn I love when Josh expresses himself like he did with the gas story 😅 it makes me know I’m not alone for feeling so deeply and realizing maybe not everyone will come to bat for us like we would them.
Yes I’m a Capricorn as well. When I need someone in a bad time(which I don’t ask for help often) I expect the ppl I care about a lot to be there for me. I’ve felt like Josh before when ppl hurt me in that way n in that moment I take it real personal. But once I’m calm n think logical I just assume ppl just don’t see me that way sometimes or at that moment they didn’t know I truly needed them. But best believe if someone needs me I am there for them.
Capricorns reunite 😆 no but really it's almost like the bare minimum yknow!? To expect a so called best friend to be there for you at least to some capacity when they reach out for help. I like how Josh thinks.
I'm a capricorn and I used to think the same til no one will come for me now I don't depend on anyone at all for my emotions or needs.... now I feel alone but happy
As a therapist, I immediately noticed Sebas’ apology including how he would react in this situation. So glad Josh gently told him that’s not the best approach to take during an apology and can come off dismissive, even though I’m sure that wasn’t Sebas’ intention. Love this podcast so much!
Glad for Josh ❤❤❤letting it out. That is a legitimate thing to be hurt about because you guys seem so close as friends. Glad Sebas apologized and acknowledged.
Looked like he really needed to let that out lol😂
You both are so adorable, you discussed the gas thing like three times. You guys have actual love for each other.
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lol I too thought Josh meant he was dropping 20 more flavors, not the 20th flavor
Same, I was like woah what? Not Josh just casually dropping 20 new flavors 😂
YES I AGREE
AGREE 😂 joshhh pídele perdón a sebas jajaja
Samee
Hahaha same!! Sebas, you weren't the only one confused
Sebas, I definitely thought the same way as you when Josh said that 20 flavors were going to drop today 😂 I was like damn ok, go big or go home.
Me too 😂 he said “20 more” I was like wtfff😅
I want confused too 😂 thanks for the clarification sebas 😂❤
Same!!!
Lmao me too
Josh emotional intelligence is seriously the best.
I had to take an emotional intelligence assessment for school yesterday and I was thinking the exact same thing 😂
You can tell Josh was careful about how he approached that question because he didn’t want to make Sebas look bad or make him upset. I think Josh is far more emotionally intelligent than I realized and it’s a lesson to be learned on Sebas part. Be there for your friends like they are there for you and don’t take them for granted.
Josh’s toes throwing up gang signs cuz he don’t wanna buy the right size shoes 💀😂
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La Plática needs Jenny on the show ❤
Lmaoooooo
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have jenny on la platica 🫶🏼
I genuinely wish to find a man like Josh .. he truly has a big heart life has a beautiful way of molding us into the truest versions of ourselves. Having expectations is hard, life is easier when u don’t have any. Great podcast guys ❤
I love how Josh is teaching him with so much love and patience. This conversation is huge for not just friends, but relationships that go through the submissive behavior. You didn’t put him down in anyway. I loved this conversation.
I really hope you guys never end La Platica. Highly look forward to it every week.
props to Sebas for apologizing, it was very sincere. And also to Josh for explaining how it made him felt.
1:03:36
Can we take time to acknowledge and highlight how vulnerable and open these two men are!!! Like I loved you both already but this question, this honesty, the vulnerability and receptiveness from both side is amazing. We don’t talk about this enough. Yes we have expectations but we as humans also want to be cared and loved for. So the fact that Josh willingly brought this up 👏🏼 👏🏼
Maybe each podcast you guys should pick a card and answer it towards the end. End the podcast with love and positivity and bringing awareness to truly understanding how people feel about our actions! You guys are amazing each podcast is different but brings so much value to our community!!!
La Plática IS THE #1 PODCAST!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉✨✨✨💥💥💥💥💕💕💕💕
Josh is seriously so mature!!! I love how he calls out sebas on how he reacted to him telling how he hurt him.
Dang Sebas… you not being there for Josh and not giving a “reason” is CRAZY. And to add to it… you mocked him running out of gas 😭
Team sebas lol
@@JF-go1kz😬
A reason from a year ago??? He apologized over and over to him and acknowledged lol
@@adahlyvelazquez3964 Nooo, Sebas asked Josh if he stated a reason AT THAT TIME and Josh said no you didn’t say anything.
@@adahlyvelazquez3964 we know it was a year ago but it shows the type of person 😭 he was a mile away cmn girl 😂😂 hopefully he learns and becomes better for his close friends
Sebas was on to something when he picked Monday Mornings to post! Just starting my work week in Chicago 🥴 not exactly ready and then I remembered, “Mondays don’t suck”. Thanks guys!
Sometimes I have a hard time connecting with Sebas pov. I loved that today he owned up to the hurt he caused Josh. Even if it’s not something he would ever consider an issue he knew it meant something to Josh. A true man knows how to take accountability and I love that Sebas let Josh know how much he mattered to him. This is how a healthy friendship handles difficult conversations.
PS as someone who is always running late, having something happen after it’s caused an inconvenience for the person waiting on you, can raise my anxiety to another level. Josh was likely feeling those emotions, plus the no help.. Eesh.
Glad they talked it through.
Sebas response to hurting Josh was such a Gemini response 😭 I know because my whole fam is Gemini and this is exactly how they apologize to me 😭
Right but I like how Josh called him out on it
As a Gemini my self so true 😂 LOL
LMFAO not Josh placing his headset like dude on last video. I love the vibe of just you two 🫶🏻 Mondays don’t suck anymore!
I liked this episode because it felt real. Although there were still jokes it was a deeper episode than most. Josh shared an experience during their friendship that hurt him which shows it’s not always rainbows and butterflies how it seems on social media sometimes. Everyone and every type of relationship goes through things. It’s about how you handle it and carry yourself that matters at the end. Enjoyed this one 👏🏼
Josh can you PLEASE talk about how your mom raised such an emotionally mature, expressive, kind person?! Just want to make sure my kids ends up the same 🤣💕
My goodness, these two men, having this type of conversation, in our community is so healing. Please continue show this level of love because I know that by having conversations like this began a wave for us as latino men to become better and whole. Thank to you both and may life continue to bless you.
that’s so shitttyyy for a friend to call you for help and you not show up for them and then sit there and tell them it was because you wouldn’t have asked for help, the principle is he needed your help and you didn’t show up. I would definitely feel a way about that too.
Not Josh being emotional & calling Sebas out.
the Mandarin flavor launch of Salud is getting Josh in his feelings!
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I’ll be honest Josh when you said “we got 20 dropping” I DID think 20 more flavors 😂😂😂
As a kindergarten teacher I’m embarrassed to say I didn’t know hibernating animals woke up to use the bathroom either 😭🫣😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Now you can tell the kids in your class 😂
I needed the clarification from Sebas bc Josh made no sense when he said he was dropping 20 new flavors. So thank you Sebas 🎉
Now this is the kind of episode I love! Emotional intelligence is beautiful ❤️
I gotta say, the way you two held space for another was so powerful to watch. I love that we get a glimpse at how your dynamic is evolving.
UNPOPULAR OPINION: Bc everyone only sees Josh as amazing in expressing his emotions BUT Sebas should not apologize for being who he is & Josh could have communicated more clearly to Sebas what exactly he needed him to do. It sounds like Josh didn’t want to beg & Sebas didn’t think it was a big deal. Josh is not seeing Sebas’s trauma response (when he clearly mentions he’s been through a lot) & Josh not being able to see that he didn’t do it out of spite it’s how he was raised to be (figure it out yourself vibes) so you can understand WHY he brushed off that moment.
I would hate for Sebas to second guess himself bc everyone in the comments applaud Josh for being vulnerable but they both are & no one’s feelings are wrong here. They both could have apologized to each other when you look at it from the other point of view.
Definitely proud of you guys for having the conversation though 👏 this is REAL TALK
Perfectly stated. This comment is spot on. ☺️
Love this!
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FACTS 💯 all these bitches just slobbering over Josh .. don’t get me wrong he is fine but that don’t mean to act like dummies . Sebas is the one who is actually smarter bc he made this podcast and is walking on eggshells as to not offend anyone when in reality he could easily move on to bigger podcasts topics rather than celebrities
“El chiste es caer mal”
Well sebas you definitely delivered in this episode 😂
I’m definitely Josh in most situations when it comes to doing stuff for others/expectations. Trying to stop expecting others to do the same for you as you would for them is really hard. & taking everything so personal. Loved that conversation!
😢😢 same … I always help others and think I have good karma and it sucks when people let you down
i can’t be the only one waiting for the louie & addy pod !!! 🫶🏻 2 iconic duos & for them to start doing their little “mahhhboiii” at the end 😢
I was todays years old when I found out that bears DONT JUSTTT sleep during hibernation LMAO
Me too, I was like they don’t? 🤨 lol
@@veronicagarza83 right????
Lmao same
Because they don't. I dont know where Josh got that info but it's not true. They don't eat or drink and their kidneys shut down so they don't need to use the bathroom.
We’re all traumatized from OT 💀😂
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😂 Mexican OT aight. Next time I get a set of headsets they're going on like sun glasses for sure 😅 LMAO
I'm from Salt Lake City, Utah the most Caucasian, Mormon ran place and I enjoyed the Mexican OT interview. Some of you folk are way too soft talking about "traumatized"lol 😂
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I was confused I understood 20 flavors not the 20th flavor
I just want to say how AWESOME (All caps) it is to hear Joshy speak in the manner that he does! Josh you are very enlightened you speak very well and you put your pride aside, You don’t ever care how Men are “suppose” to feel or what they should say, you are comfortable in your own skin and it is so REFRESHING. If more men acted that way it would be great❤ I love you both and it sucks that boys Are forced at a young age to hold back because men are very sensitive as well as women and it’s not a bad thing. Thanks 🙏 for my Favorite Podcast Guys 🎉❤
Sorry Josh, Sebas is right. Any activities you do on your recreational time, is considered a hobby Lmaoo I was dying when he said you saying pendejas all day doesn’t make you a podcaster 💀
Absolutely 👍
@josh … I would’ve dropped whatever I had going on and took a flight from the east coast to the west coast to help you with gas .. paid for it myself and flew back home . The humble and caring person you are genuinely generates even through the tv screen … I remember when I saw you at the airport and I felt NOTHING but comfortable to just yell out JOSHUA LEYVA at 430 am and you stopped without hesitation , smiling and said hi ! We love you out here KING ❤
Awwww Sebas feels really bad, but we see he didn't realize. Glad that you and Josh are best bro's!!!
56:43 Completely 100000% understand Josh when he explained how he was hurt when Sebas didn't show up for him. I've noticed that ppl that are like Sebas (don't ask for help; get it done w/o assistance from loved ones or anyone for that matter) they tend to expect the same from everyone else, which includes their loved ones. The thing is that it's really special to FEEL that your loved ones are there for you & show up for you no matter what, even when you don't necessarily ask them for help. They're like your pack! For example, if a random person that you don't really even know shows up for you more than the person you called to ask for help (& you noticed hesitation) 😬🥴 that would really feel messed up. I hope Josh understands that his feelings are very much valid & no he isn't being emotional.
I don’t think Sebas reaction was off. If anything I think he felt bad and was trying to think back to that moment. From his body language you can tell he felt bad. He’s the type of guy that will try to find a way to make it right.
i need josh to give a ted talk on how to be emotionally intelligent
58:34 Josh … not just because it’s you but honestly I’d help you no questions asked .. I have always helped my friends family no matter what … shit happens, don’t make excuses … well said Josh explaining your emotions 💙
1:06:05 That line Josh quoted was from the movie called The Town starting Ben Affleck and Jeremy Renner. Such a dope movie
This is what real friendship looks like. Mistakes happen and they are discussed and move on without animosity. I love this episode so much
Josh is sooo emotionally aware, it’s so impressive ❤
an excellent example of a healthy and mature friendship. love you guys!
Love that you guys are releasing episodes earlier
I get to listen on my way to work now 🥰
Can we get a show with just josh
This feels like couples therapy 😂 this is very insightful … and respectfully Josh you’re setting the bar HIGH🙌🏽
I appreciate these episodes and you guys willing to get vulnerable. I agree with Sebas, if you feel the relationship is held to a certain standard, you're allowed to feel hurt when the other person acts in a way that isn't aligning with how you perceive the relationship.
Ps I love the one on one episodes. But ever since Josh mentioned Cody, I want an episode with Cody Ko!
I love Josh for being so open and honest ♥️♥️
Josh is emotionally intelligent but sebas takes accountability ❤ I can relate to Sebas, idk if it’s cus I’m the eldest and I’ve always had to figure it out and I know it would have been my responsibility for getting myself in that situation but I would have been more clear and communicated that I needed help
Ay josh he said “ that Mexican joshy “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Josh I like how you own your emotions and validate them. I love how you communicate. Expressing your emotions make you a top tier man.
josh is low-key a feet guy 🤣 the sweetfeet got me
At this point its high key 😅
@@karinamartinez9937 😂😂
The story about how Sebas hurt Josh reminded me of how my ex treated me in a similar situation . My ex said the same thing ,if i were you this is what would of happened... and it was one of the events that made me realize that he wasn't the one.. but the nice thing about Josh and Sebas talking is that Sebas actually owned up to his thought process and apologized.. this was a good podcast 😊
I LOVEEEEEEEEEEE y’all’s honesty and vulnerability!!! Cheers to growth and maturity and healthy friendships!! The world needs more of y’all!! ❤
I will add, even if for some reason I couldn't be much of help I'd still show up for my friend to keep them company & try to figure something out together -- especially if I'm only a few blocks away from them. It's really not that hard to be there for someone that you truly care about & it def wouldn't feel like a burden either. It's a valid "expectation." I'm with Josh on this one. But I will say, I know ppl that are like Sebas & I could understand how it may be challenging for them to ask for help. I appreciate Sebas for taking accountability & this probably helped him look inward as to why it takes a lot for him to ask for help.
it's just honestly the bare minimum to even ask of a bff
56:45 the time stamp we all came looking for after the tik tok drama 😅😅
Props to Josh for handling the experience he shared about Sebas as well as he did. Honestly if that was me in his situation I’d take it very personally lol
Same. He would not be my friend anymore 😬😬
Aaww my Joshie 🥹🥹 lol
Love how emotionally intelligent he is! He knows how to articulate his emotions so clearly! He’s such an amazing man! 👏🏼 his mom did an amazing job with him
I’m fukinnnnn dead 💀 Sebas” that’s not what your fukin dedos say” they’re are like this 😂😂😂😂
Why can I see Sebas and Karen being those type of people.. they think they’re better than others. Watch Josh’s bday bash, and check out Karen’s face and attitude the whole time… Sebas, cais Gordo.
YUP PERIOD
Si el chiste es caer gordo, ya caíste for not helping Josh with his car 😭😂
Fr😂
This was one of the best episodes!!! Love that Josh expresses his emotions and feelings, and also sebas for validating them! Love y’all ❤
Awww, the giveaway call was so sweet ! She definitely deserved it ! Congrats girl have fun for us all 🎉
Josh is so emotionally intelligent, I’m so impressed, he is what I wish most men were like 😭 listening to him talk the way he does is so healing ❤️🩹🤍
When Sebas asked about his hobbies I was like ummm Cycling??!?! Really Josh! Lmao
Okay little therapy session “I think that disregards how I feel” - purrrr lol meanwhile sebas keeps apologizing
"Sweet feet" took me OUT! Josh wth LOL 🤣
1:13:59 Yes Josh !! My exact thoughts I was wondering why you didn’t say anything when he was making it about himself lol
Yessss, I'm glad he did circle back to that point. 🙌🏼
This is why I only call my dad whenever something happens to me because I know he will always be there even if he’s pissed 😅
Josh gaslights the shit outta sebas 😂
How?
It’s very lighthearted lol! Josh just teases Sebas’ innocence (for example the hobby & 20 flavours thing)
I agree, it’s very subtle!
he kind of confuses sebas when he yells at him or changes the topic quickly..lmao 🤣 poor sebas!!!
I see it!! Low key feels like couples counseling. They love each other but get on each others nerves. 😅
This has to be my favorite episode!
It definitely helped look at life in a different perspective but positive way. You guys showed what a true friendship is & how no one is perfect. I related to so much!
This episode is deff one for the books!
I love this friendship 😊 good on both of you for having open and honest conversations for personal growth 💗
1:13:15 the way Sebas is apologizing to Josh is probably how he also apologizes in his relationship with Karen lol
Damn Josh nailed it, sebas just is a hype beast. Rides whatever wave is current and try’s to make it his. Meanwhile Josh is just low key and himself, more authentic. Nothing wrong with either just Josh keeping it a buck. I can already see Josh is out growing this podcast.
I absolutely loooooved this episode! This is real talk and as a women I learned so much about men which has helped me see men’s perspective and be more understanding. Thank you for this insightful and real raw episode! Amazing!!
Also I love how yall handled the Josh running out of gas situation. 🙌🏻 this is only going to bring yall closer. BFF goals forsure. 🤍
Once or twice is a joke but Sebas hitting on Josh over and over and over is a lot.
Lmaoo I notice that too ..that’s too much 🫣
He secretly loves him n is jealous of him 😅😅😅😅😊
I love Sebas, buuut Josh is better than me, bc the podcast and business partnership would’ve ended that day my business partner left me stranded
Girlll sameee.. I love JOSH! Sebas comes off stuck up y Que se cree mucho. That might not be the case for sure we can’t know. Pero I can’t 😬