Love and heartbreak in the new India | Dr. Shyam Bhat | TEDxSIULavale

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  • čas přidán 29. 03. 2016
  • Love is one of the most beautiful experience in one's life. Over the years, the feeling of heartbreaks has intensified because the way the newer generation has felt the relationships is totally different from the earlier generations.
    Dr Shyam K Bhat MD is a Psychiatrist, Integrative Medicine specialist, and writer.
    He has postgraduate training and American Board certifications in two, usually disparate specialties Psychiatry (American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology) and Internal Medicine (American Board of Internal Medicine). He is also board certified in Psychosomatic Medicine (ABPN subspeciality), the study of conditions at the interface of body and mind. Dr Bhat combines these qualifications with a deep study and understanding of eastern philosophy and healing practices.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 247

  • @ChandanKumar-tz1do
    @ChandanKumar-tz1do Před 4 lety +4

    only a heartbroken psychiatrist can explain like this
    just amazing !!!

  • @chinmaylovekar
    @chinmaylovekar Před 5 lety +7

    Having gone through the break up stage is one of the best things that has probably happened to me. I am a really good new me. How? It made me think more about the approval from myself than from other people in a very rational way. I remember a saying- Love thyself before loving anyone else. 100% legit

  • @madhursurve6363
    @madhursurve6363 Před 5 lety +9

    This person is straight to the point. This is one of the most articulated speech about love and heartbreak ever. He is not impressing the audience, he is not smiling before audience laughs, he is just popping out sentences from the bottom of his heart of the experiences he's had. Being so intelligent and certified in so many fields, strange but very helpful of him to talk about love and heartbreaks in such a lucid manner. Very very grateful to this.

  • @RamanVirk504
    @RamanVirk504 Před 5 lety +19

    Love is beautiful...but if you have a heartbreak and recover from it in a positive way that feeling is just wonderful... because it's then that you realise that your love can't be so selfish to be confined to one single person rather you are capable of loving the humanity as a whole and you being a segment of Universe are eternal😃

  • @annfrank9440
    @annfrank9440 Před 6 lety +88

    Brilliant one !! Never saw someone describing heartbreak so scientifically ..Thank you soo much sir .

    • @chandandas7135
      @chandandas7135 Před 5 lety +2

      ann frank i m your big fan.. 😃
      i read your dairy 😃

    • @chkapoor
      @chkapoor Před 5 lety

      @Sajal Jeet 😂😂

  • @etherealecstasy
    @etherealecstasy Před 4 lety +4

    The first video I watched after my breakup and I'm still sitting in a pool of tears but that's okay.

  • @lets_bekind
    @lets_bekind Před 5 lety +5

    what a simple and genuine person he is, came here by bicycle

  • @sanjaycomedy
    @sanjaycomedy Před 7 lety +82

    Shyam broke my heart once, and then helped me heal it.

  • @rakibhasan0152
    @rakibhasan0152 Před 5 lety +151

    Bollywood is the training school of getting heartbreak.

  • @test-tu4xv
    @test-tu4xv Před 7 lety +121

    His explanations are very mature

  • @mitthughosh2058
    @mitthughosh2058 Před 5 měsíci

    He has explained it beautifully with scientifically and spiritually. Thank you sir🙏

  • @aquadir2830
    @aquadir2830 Před 5 lety +4

    I love Dr Shyaam. I keep listening him since 2012 from radio indigo..

  • @shubhammathur1614
    @shubhammathur1614 Před 5 lety +5

    This is probably one of the best Ted talk I've ever seen.

  • @swatisucharita3514
    @swatisucharita3514 Před 7 lety +39

    We don't want to carry our wounds from one relationship to another.😊

  • @sheiljasingh6079
    @sheiljasingh6079 Před 5 lety +7

    Yes I was heartbroken nearly twice in a year by the same boy 😭I don't know how I got cheated .Don't let emotions control ur mind .Just think rationally nd move on .Don't rely on karma let success answer the questions.

  • @ariemulchand
    @ariemulchand Před rokem

    I love how you mentioned Lord Krishna . Thanks.

  • @namrtarawat8265
    @namrtarawat8265 Před 7 lety +12

    Forgiveness and acceptance is the key to build long lasting sustainable relationships.. Real relationships are built on willingness and unconditional love, making the most logical choices in life, can never reflect true love...

  • @omprakashkharwar8215
    @omprakashkharwar8215 Před 6 lety +46

    Woowww..Lines..Did anybody notice ?
    For those of us who have not had a heartbroken, we know.. that perhap we missed out one of the most epic human experience ever..☺️😊👌
    Only those can understand who literally went through..☺️😊

  • @iiamrohit
    @iiamrohit Před 6 lety +4

    Existential loneliness. His words are powerful. Thank you sir.

  • @hyperloke
    @hyperloke Před 6 lety +6

    What a speech! Very eloquent. I learnt a lot from this short yet instructive speech on heartbreaks. Who would've thought we Indians are more susceptible to heartbreaks eh! That said, keep loving my friends.

  • @imprathamesh_
    @imprathamesh_ Před rokem

    6 years later this still is a masterpiece

  • @manwani2
    @manwani2 Před 7 lety +5

    amazingly described..

  • @zaphodbeeblebrox3494
    @zaphodbeeblebrox3494 Před 3 lety +1

    After watching this video ..I only can think about the dialogue from the movie Rockstar.. टूटे दिल से संगीत निकलता है...Too good..haha

  • @nishazahrazaidi8078
    @nishazahrazaidi8078 Před 6 lety +2

    U kill it ....have no word to explain the maturity of your words...

  • @snehaldeshpande3512
    @snehaldeshpande3512 Před 5 lety +4

    It is a good speech. And I am gone through all this. Heartbroken is such a sad thing. But making better person is good thing .

  • @TusharSharmatushar13992
    @TusharSharmatushar13992 Před 7 lety +6

    Amazingly said and i must say I'm impressed with the explanation part.

  • @poonamsbedre3539
    @poonamsbedre3539 Před 6 lety +2

    Everything explained so beautifully that too in a scientific way ofcourse!👍💯

  • @melwin94
    @melwin94 Před 7 lety +4

    very rightly sad..totally agree with him..

  • @nehadas2983
    @nehadas2983 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you sir for ur wonderful speech.

  • @fatimahussain9531
    @fatimahussain9531 Před 5 lety

    Thanks for coming on Ted your amazing.

  • @anjanag5396
    @anjanag5396 Před 6 lety

    one of the best talks I had heard

  • @jfs2113
    @jfs2113 Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks for your factful speech...Enjoyed a lot.

  • @RaviJhag
    @RaviJhag Před 6 lety

    this guy just amazingly explained & the last thing about "Forgiveness" this one is mind blowing

  • @pragyadhungel7932
    @pragyadhungel7932 Před 6 lety +1

    Love.. Is a beautiful feeling ❤️what gives us a positive anergy 🥂

  • @parikramasachan3090
    @parikramasachan3090 Před 6 lety

    Its amazing.. You chose to deal with this problem is appreciated..

  • @shardasinsinwar5585
    @shardasinsinwar5585 Před 6 lety +1

    Wow....its amazing sir...thanks for sharing ur experience😊

  • @SR-eb3ej
    @SR-eb3ej Před 5 lety +1

    Very nicely elaborated with scientific basis.

  • @anmolnathani4386
    @anmolnathani4386 Před 6 lety

    Thanks for dis amazing video...its beautiful

  • @sipranayak8563
    @sipranayak8563 Před 4 lety +1

    Best talk on heartbreak❤

  • @ShekhaDDas
    @ShekhaDDas Před 6 lety +9

    what all he said is exactly what happens to most of us.

  • @akankshya2022
    @akankshya2022 Před 5 lety

    Loved it! Thanks Sir!

  • @asiayalrodrigues2109
    @asiayalrodrigues2109 Před 6 lety

    He spoke so well!!

  • @sateeshsangamalla8826
    @sateeshsangamalla8826 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you so much sir...

  • @krishnaca65
    @krishnaca65 Před 7 lety +2

    nice talk Dr shyam..

  • @umaimanoor6654
    @umaimanoor6654 Před 5 lety +1

    One of the best video on this topic loved it❤

  • @sauravkamalmedhi6008
    @sauravkamalmedhi6008 Před 6 lety

    So good.. I liked his lecture very much

  • @shubhamjadhav607
    @shubhamjadhav607 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you so much 😊👍 For this message ☺ now i feel better 😊

  • @AV-qg8gr
    @AV-qg8gr Před 5 lety

    amazing loved it the way he explain everything👍

  • @prajwalgadad
    @prajwalgadad Před 7 lety +2

    loved it!!

  • @m.manishdev4040
    @m.manishdev4040 Před 6 lety

    great words. very satisfying.

  • @adarshp.371
    @adarshp.371 Před 6 lety +1

    Most epic human experience ♡

  • @levishasingla9589
    @levishasingla9589 Před 6 lety +1

    this helped immensely👌. thankyou loads.

  • @manroopsinghnanda44
    @manroopsinghnanda44 Před 5 lety

    A very eloquent speaker

  • @raghavdhamija4330
    @raghavdhamija4330 Před 7 lety +4

    Wow he completely changed my thinking and probably I will now be more positive about my long term relationship which just ended sometime back and leave the wounds behind and approach the bright future with my strengths ✌🏻❤️

  • @vineetameena7684
    @vineetameena7684 Před 6 lety +1

    Wowwww such an amazing point of view..Loved it :')

  • @nathanjones9099
    @nathanjones9099 Před 4 lety

    THis was needed, thank you, so much

  • @debashistalukdar8628
    @debashistalukdar8628 Před 7 lety +1

    incredible presentation and excellent selection of words. Never before this occurred to me that heartbreak could be such a serious issue. It seemed to be more inspired by movies. Thank you for showing us a more constructive perspective towards this issue.

  • @prasathkarupu3287
    @prasathkarupu3287 Před 7 lety +1

    really I loved it

  • @sk.s.isk.s.i1712
    @sk.s.isk.s.i1712 Před 6 lety

    Owsome one.... Really change someones thinking.....

  • @biswajit10
    @biswajit10 Před 6 lety

    Truly AWESOME one 💔

  • @iampratikk
    @iampratikk Před 5 lety

    Really such a amazing explanation. You have touched this topic so deeply...

  • @deepaliaswal1341
    @deepaliaswal1341 Před 6 lety

    Just amazing.😊

  • @laxmikantbhakre6650
    @laxmikantbhakre6650 Před rokem

    I still remember his Video now we can get his Podcast in Sportify

  • @javed3834
    @javed3834 Před 6 lety +2

    This man is jst genius❤

  • @techhunger_in
    @techhunger_in Před 3 lety

    I needed it...thanks❣️

  • @anant7966
    @anant7966 Před 7 lety +4

    it was awsm sir......
    nice one.....

  • @Anuragjaiswar21
    @Anuragjaiswar21 Před 6 lety +2

    thank u for sharing :)

  • @kunleuing
    @kunleuing Před 5 lety

    wow this kind of a revelation make me believe i am alive. and its not me living in this metaphorical world after all. thanks

  • @speedracerrockstarash5891

    I had taken good advice from u, Good Doc You have taken my Advice in subconscious level to know about Bhagwat Geeta and Meditation ..

  • @SaurabhYadav-hh7fx
    @SaurabhYadav-hh7fx Před 3 lety

    It's been three days since my heartbreak, it feels relaxing after watching this.

  • @bhawnaparjapati3444
    @bhawnaparjapati3444 Před 6 lety

    Sir Thank you for this video

  • @supersaiyan3704
    @supersaiyan3704 Před 8 lety

    Awesome! Well said!

  • @Amd107
    @Amd107 Před 7 lety

    This is amazing

  • @syedzabiulla1004
    @syedzabiulla1004 Před 6 lety +7

    physical relationships are more intense. takes extra effort to heal.

  • @hctabahi7710
    @hctabahi7710 Před 6 lety

    An explanation with scientific reasoning.. ✌

  • @vihaanaverma7287
    @vihaanaverma7287 Před 7 lety

    beautifully spoken

  • @Electrifiedpawn
    @Electrifiedpawn Před 5 lety

    Good one.. he explained scientifically

  • @pottenvasu8697
    @pottenvasu8697 Před 5 lety

    Thank you so much sir

  • @AP00RVA.
    @AP00RVA. Před 6 lety

    Bahu shi tareeke se btaya h bande ne... Superb bossss👌

  • @Anand-ol8rv
    @Anand-ol8rv Před 6 lety

    Great speech

  • @JustMe54328
    @JustMe54328 Před 3 lety

    Well explained doctor!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @VivekSir90
    @VivekSir90 Před 5 lety

    Wonderful great one.... Need more session

  • @anaspirant3
    @anaspirant3 Před 6 lety

    Thanks a lot

  • @supriyasingh8018
    @supriyasingh8018 Před 5 lety +1

    I literally luv his theory first tym I think there is a guy whom talked about love at this stage people talk about depression anxiety heartbreak but I never found someone talk about love or forgiveness he is an amazing guy nd yup we never saw our parents have an heartbreak luv to hear u sir ❤️

  • @subhasishpanda4337
    @subhasishpanda4337 Před 6 lety

    Sir u are just awesome

  • @nmajhi9555
    @nmajhi9555 Před 6 lety

    thanks doctor

  • @aami1172
    @aami1172 Před 5 lety

    To be loved and to love...exactly sir

  • @laxmikanthwacha1185
    @laxmikanthwacha1185 Před 7 lety

    very clear voice

  • @chettah7293
    @chettah7293 Před 5 lety

    Thank you

  • @megha3732
    @megha3732 Před 6 lety

    very nice speech...

  • @bittusumant
    @bittusumant Před 6 lety

    The way he described ...he had issues 👌👌

  • @debapriyamahata4309
    @debapriyamahata4309 Před 6 lety

    This was amazing

  • @NityaNavodayClasses
    @NityaNavodayClasses Před 7 lety +5

    act of forgiveness 11.00😍😍

  • @sopamusafir
    @sopamusafir Před 6 lety

    Thanks sir

  • @zainabkhan2475
    @zainabkhan2475 Před 6 lety

    thank you

  • @adityaanandshahi9889
    @adityaanandshahi9889 Před 5 lety +28

    FORGIVE AND FORGET.
    Neither am I Jesus, nor do I have Alzheimer's !!!
    My way or Highway !!

    • @xz6476
      @xz6476 Před 5 lety +1

      Exactly Buddy

  • @jaydalvadi9090
    @jaydalvadi9090 Před 6 lety

    wowww all the answers i got..

  • @jaymehta2560
    @jaymehta2560 Před 6 lety

    Amazing

  • @shanusns8807
    @shanusns8807 Před 7 lety

    Well said

  • @ajitthakur9944
    @ajitthakur9944 Před 7 lety +23

    Thank you so much
    it actually what I feeling right now
    I wish I will come out from depression ... Thank you