Change your life by changing how you speak

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  • čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
  • In this lesson, I will show you how the language we use is a reflection of our deeper psychology. For example, if you are the kind of person who always apologises for your “terrible English”, this is going to hold you back in life. Another example happens when people constantly talk about what they are going to do but in fact, they never do it. I will teach you to be much more aware of the language you use so that you can speak in a more powerful way than ever before. When you speak powerfully, you get what you want. If you speak in a weak way, you will never be taken seriously.
    Test your understanding of this lesson by taking the quiz: www.engvid.com...

Komentáře • 181

  • @kippen64
    @kippen64 Před 4 lety +111

    The more you know, the more you know that you still have to learn.

  • @waldmeister000
    @waldmeister000 Před 4 lety +43

    This is the line where language and sociology/psychology meet. Good for emotional intelligence.

  • @AoyagiAichou
    @AoyagiAichou Před 4 lety +22

    "Do you speak English?" - "I like to pretend I do". Helps that I was born in the UK though.

    • @pauljordan4452
      @pauljordan4452 Před 2 lety +1

      Why the Japanese user name?

    • @AoyagiAichou
      @AoyagiAichou Před 2 lety

      @@pauljordan4452 I used to be a weeb and the name stuck, unfortunately.

  • @timmurphy5541
    @timmurphy5541 Před 4 lety +7

    There is an aggressiveness in modern society which doesn't respect people who have doubt - hence you must avoid "should" and "trying to" and so on. But it's bullshit because nobody really knows or can have 100% confidence in everything. I have this problem all the time because I'm being accurate about my uncertainty and people take that as a lack of determination instead of truthfulness.

    • @AlphaLegionXX
      @AlphaLegionXX Před 4 lety

      I agree, it's all about "selling yourself" nowadays. Sadly, we must interact with humans, and humans don't buy arguments, they buy emotions mainly.

  • @Selene-u3X
    @Selene-u3X Před 4 lety +12

    Thank you so much teacher Jade for great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.."when talking about my English learning.l never realized l was expressing a possible failure! Words are so powerful!l will hereafter say:"l m learning English with pleasure and confidence!"greetings from Italy:)

  • @lucindawinehouse2002
    @lucindawinehouse2002 Před 3 lety +3

    Hi Jade when I was at school I had a teacher who looked exactly like you .
    That is why I like you as a teacher.
    I also find your English lessons really interesting and I enjoy watching your CZcams Channel because it helps my conversation skills get better
    ( This comment is coming from a native English Speaker)

  • @jorgealameda
    @jorgealameda Před 3 lety +2

    Usually, I enjoy your lessons but this time I LOVE IT

  • @JoseMorales-cy5ls
    @JoseMorales-cy5ls Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks for the class, you are a good teacher and besides being very beautiful.

  • @yliasabas6689
    @yliasabas6689 Před 4 lety +1

    Hello thank you so Much Jade! I can say that my English is bad but being aware that my English is much better. It is kind of giving advantage to someone whose English is really bad to make them feel that their English is well.

  • @senzanome7801
    @senzanome7801 Před 3 lety +1

    A friend of mine told me about your videos. I like them, I enjoy them. Thank you very much!

  • @samo3496
    @samo3496 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm in love with your accent

  • @sabrethemoment6799
    @sabrethemoment6799 Před 4 lety +5

    Discovered your channel a couple days ago and I’m hooked to your videos! Thanks for uploading

  • @matthewcunningham2399
    @matthewcunningham2399 Před 4 lety +7

    Jade, you're fantastic. Thank you for a brilliant tutorial 👍

  • @jas0nutub3
    @jas0nutub3 Před 3 lety +3

    Love your teaching style Jade, you inspire me as a language teacher myself

  • @stdnqe
    @stdnqe Před 2 lety +1

    Really like this lesson. Learning English is a psychological game. Life is also like that.

  • @SSMMXII
    @SSMMXII Před 4 lety +3

    Learning psychology and English at once. I love your videos, Jade. Greetings from Romania

  • @professormburatto7172
    @professormburatto7172 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you for this class. I really appreciate your lessons!

  • @brettbirge8246
    @brettbirge8246 Před 4 lety +2

    I have to get up early and go to work. I want to get up early and go to work! Quite a difference. I feel better already!

  • @bluoltremare1762
    @bluoltremare1762 Před 4 lety +14

    I'm trying to...
    "No! Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try." - Yoda.

    • @suaptoest
      @suaptoest Před 4 lety +3

      Thanks! I try to keep that in my mind.

    • @senzanome7801
      @senzanome7801 Před 3 lety +1

      The Force is strong with you!

  • @Waseem9919
    @Waseem9919 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you so much for this lesson , we need more lessons like this one in order to better understand the language and be able to express exactly what we want to say

  • @Nicolas-ht4iv
    @Nicolas-ht4iv Před 4 lety

    this is actually really helpful because i'm a master procrastinator and i find these tips actually help me propel forward , tks Jade

  • @adamsjordan3293
    @adamsjordan3293 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much Jade💕

  • @gatronix754
    @gatronix754 Před 4 lety +2

    Great teacher!!! Thanks greetings from Argentina!

  • @doppiorizzonte
    @doppiorizzonte Před 3 lety +1

    thank you so much Jade, I love your mood :-D

  • @sitmengchue4077
    @sitmengchue4077 Před 4 lety

    Timely reminder! Power to me! THANK YOU.

  • @mohammadzamanbasirheravi6471

    My amazing teacher
    Thank you🙏🙏

  • @JonBilbaoMallona
    @JonBilbaoMallona Před 3 lety

    What I love about your videos is that you dont only teach the languaje, but also the meaning of live in English, wich I find it realy cool to know

  • @mimimonbebe9077
    @mimimonbebe9077 Před 4 lety +6

    This video is really good! It helps you with your self esteem too 😭👌🏻

  • @pauljordan4452
    @pauljordan4452 Před 2 lety

    You're a great teacher, Jade. One thing: speak a bit more quietly.

  • @patoninje8988
    @patoninje8988 Před 3 lety +1

    You have very interesting lesson jade!

  • @abdulmalikalgodban6041
    @abdulmalikalgodban6041 Před 3 měsíci

    Hallo Jade, you and your lesson deserve 100 % degrees.

  • @ckrysyj7919
    @ckrysyj7919 Před 3 lety

    People here in my country prefer to use “trying to “ “hope” “might” etc. they consider these as modest ... And they even think speaking too directly to show your desire is kind of impolite ... those who are just normally confident would be considered as people who like to brag themselves . So it’s so hard to be confident for a lot of people in this environment , also hard to express normally like The positive paradigms in your video , they’re the reasons why the words first come to my mind is “ I’m trying to “ instead of “I can do /am doing” ... and it’s easy to have insecurity when someone tells you that he or she didn’t do well in that exam and then they‘ll get 90+ /100 🙃 . Really hope there’s more honesty . ( see “hope” QwQ )I will change my own problems , I want to heal my insecurity !!! What a culture shock lol

  • @poliglota1175
    @poliglota1175 Před 3 lety +1

    I adore your classes. You look amazing

  • @officialdevidchiran
    @officialdevidchiran Před 2 lety

    Thank you indeed.

  • @josesanchezpalacios8991
    @josesanchezpalacios8991 Před 4 lety +8

    I haven’t seen them all, but, this is perhaps one of the most interesting of your videos so far, on my humble opinion. 😊

  • @puncicatore
    @puncicatore Před 4 lety +1

    I wish you a lot of smiles!

  • @katerynavolkova-shapovalen995

    Just wonderful! Thanks for this lesson

  • @thinkdaily5140
    @thinkdaily5140 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you mam!🌈

  • @webernorbertgermany
    @webernorbertgermany Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much. Your lessons are very helpful.

  • @alejandrol830
    @alejandrol830 Před 4 lety +1

    great life lesson!. thank you. You are a pretty and intelligence girl

  • @meharnosh
    @meharnosh Před 4 lety +1

    Jade you have explained it nicely:)

  • @bluray7877
    @bluray7877 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks for your videos

  • @brd8764
    @brd8764 Před 3 lety

    We can suggest life skills to those who are willing to learn or are open to ideas unless we need to appear and sound out of place.
    Learning is about liking to live life unless it is about wanting to live life. Liking is experiencing life and wanting is feeling life. Loving is living life and indulging is loving life.

  • @mwat56
    @mwat56 Před 4 lety +1

    Good points!
    And I love your dancing! 😉

  • @alijawad9042
    @alijawad9042 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow jade best teacher English I love you so much 😘😘😘

  • @fabiolahernandez1114
    @fabiolahernandez1114 Před 3 lety

    I understand why it's better to say things in a psycological positiviness, just not to block your action. But sometimes is also beneficial express what you think about your behaivior: I should... I have to... I wish... I think it's more natural, first you express this feeling, then you find how to do that, and of course it will be correctly say it as: Yes! I can speak english :)

  • @vadimmelnikov7809
    @vadimmelnikov7809 Před 4 lety +1

    Great lesson. thanks a lot, Jade!

  • @hifsakhan5672
    @hifsakhan5672 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm enjoying to learn everything it makes me more excited I want laern war/psychology/work life and psychology please and also customer service

  • @caulazaro
    @caulazaro Před 4 lety +1

    This class was very important to whole life.
    Thank you so much, Jade ♥️
    One more subscribed in your channel

  • @bincao6341
    @bincao6341 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @rodrigolourenco1968
    @rodrigolourenco1968 Před 3 lety +1

    - "Who said it? Your mom?!"
    - Nah, my wife...

  • @waha6651
    @waha6651 Před 4 lety +1

    Happy to see you again my teacher 🥰😍

  • @naikrovek
    @naikrovek Před 4 lety +3

    as a native english speaker, I'm here to watch Jade. i can say definitively that this woman has the most beautiful eyes that I think I've ever seen.

  • @CanisDei
    @CanisDei Před 3 lety +1

    01:36 was the best. Haha! Really enjoyed the way you explained. Thank you!

  • @faroukkhalid2102
    @faroukkhalid2102 Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much teacher, Jade, for a great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.." when talking about my English learning.

  • @DarkBlack-ep4sp
    @DarkBlack-ep4sp Před 4 lety +1

    Could you please answer my question?
    Are these two sentences correct?
    1- This long winter will be end soon.
    2- Will this long winter be end soon.
    I hope you answer my question.
    Thank you

  • @franciscoquezada4323
    @franciscoquezada4323 Před rokem +1

    Hello I Love your english lesson.

  • @abidarach
    @abidarach Před 4 lety +1

    Interesting video. Thanks for your effort.

  • @beatris2210
    @beatris2210 Před 4 lety +1

    That's a really nice video, you were funny speaking such a true! I find so cool when people are funny being serious. I am in the 'my English isn't good team'. Thanks a lot.

  • @ZeeshanAli-iz1ec
    @ZeeshanAli-iz1ec Před 4 lety

    Today I learned how to use have to. Great information

  • @AHMEDAYASIN
    @AHMEDAYASIN Před 4 lety

    Yah, I agree that many people we meet pretend that they speak English well but actually they're not as good as they think they are.

  • @w0nerx
    @w0nerx Před 4 lety +1

    I think when someone is going to use the " I am doing that or I am already not going to do that " and fail, he/she is gonna go into negative circles

    • @w0nerx
      @w0nerx Před 4 lety

      think about how u think or your ways of thinking

  • @timirelle
    @timirelle Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much

  • @leonildoscofield5260
    @leonildoscofield5260 Před 4 lety

    I really appreciate your lessons at all. I hope one day i could be video calling to take a lot of doubts that i have. Keep teaching us. See you

  • @enriquegranados5179
    @enriquegranados5179 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you, miss Jade.

    • @whukriede
      @whukriede Před 4 lety +1

      Better say "thank you, Jade". We don't address people by their profession.

    • @enriquegranados5179
      @enriquegranados5179 Před 4 lety

      @@whukriede Alright, I corrected already.
      Thank you.

  • @eduardocajias5626
    @eduardocajias5626 Před 3 lety +1

    You are an interesting sassenach girl. NO doubt!
    Thank you!

  • @saeedsadeghi2878
    @saeedsadeghi2878 Před 3 lety +1

    huge lessons, tnx

  • @aleksiejporiadnyj9059
    @aleksiejporiadnyj9059 Před 4 lety +1

    I like the video, thank you, Jade. Have a nice time.

  • @pablomorales4344
    @pablomorales4344 Před 3 lety

    Excellent Jade!

  • @ceuny
    @ceuny Před 4 lety

    Thanks Jade

  • @pavelk7085
    @pavelk7085 Před 4 lety

    Jade thank you, hope to see more videos with planations of language subtleties

  • @aizacl4253
    @aizacl4253 Před 4 lety

    I'm so thankful i fhnd your videos. Thank you!

  • @aqeelafzal7687
    @aqeelafzal7687 Před 3 lety

    Thanks Maam, its really helpful.

  • @alvarocr8
    @alvarocr8 Před 2 lety

    Hi, Jade. Excellent videos. Very nice. You explain really well. I like that you speak in English and add subtitles. 👍

  • @navneetnautiyal4944
    @navneetnautiyal4944 Před 4 lety

    I missed you Jade.. ☹️

  • @meenki347
    @meenki347 Před 3 lety

    Jade, don't be so hard on yourself. Though your London accent is so strong, I can understand 80% of it. 😄🇬🇧

  • @vongoh2342
    @vongoh2342 Před 4 lety

    thank you

  • @czamman
    @czamman Před 4 lety +1

    Has anyone mapped out the dialects of the United States with the European influences? For example the Irish and English from the northeast down to the southern states? German and Polish around the Great Lakes, Scandinavia in Minnesota. I find bits and pieces I just wonder if any one studied this. A map would definitely help.
    Thank you for getting the mind going 😊

  • @ridwanfarah3262
    @ridwanfarah3262 Před 4 lety

    Thanks jade i like your accent i wish i could do.

  • @3g826
    @3g826 Před 4 lety

    Good effort from you teacher
    really i enjoy the lesson very much

  • @xoavital128
    @xoavital128 Před rokem +1

    awesome

  • @SaifulIslam-ov7oc
    @SaifulIslam-ov7oc Před 4 lety

    Thanks dear

  • @mostafahassan5021
    @mostafahassan5021 Před 4 lety

    An amazing episode.

  • @leylishoja4623
    @leylishoja4623 Před 2 lety

    Really useful👍

  • @ismayilarifoglu6226
    @ismayilarifoglu6226 Před 3 lety

    "I am sinking of starting rowing again". Have had a problem to pronounce (th) for many years. Since then, I have improved good deal.

    • @pauljordan4452
      @pauljordan4452 Před 2 lety

      Don't worry about it.

    • @erdr4043
      @erdr4043 Před 2 lety

      Funny! It guess it made you sound as an Indian.

  • @imuselessfellow
    @imuselessfellow Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am from India ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alpaslanilkman3122
    @alpaslanilkman3122 Před 3 lety

    Can you please make an up-date video?About any subject ?

  • @cristianestebanochoapinzon5292

    I will continue enjoying your videos, Madam!

  • @idoykc4585
    @idoykc4585 Před 4 lety +1

    Authentically, your lesson makes me study learning English but just now, not tomorrow 😀...
    (Can you correct my mistake if there is in the sentence)

    • @whukriede
      @whukriede Před 4 lety

      Actually, your lesson makes me learn English just now, but not tomorrow. (Don't say "study learning".)

  • @stvanus
    @stvanus Před 4 lety +1

    Hi Jade! What has happened with Ur eyes in this vid? What sort of magic You've managed to witch as they are so green and bright? Just magnetically beautiful eyes as immaculate as You entirely are!!!!

  • @charlesvanderhoog7056
    @charlesvanderhoog7056 Před 3 lety

    In the beginning of your video, you demonstrate people who are on a certain point on the Dunning-Kruger Effect curve. Google it, click Images, and be amazed in case you don't know that curve.

  • @icodeHM
    @icodeHM Před 4 lety

    thankyou very much.

  • @aparecidoferreiravais321

    Hi Jade thanks for your video
    Have a great weekend my beautiful teacher 😉🇧🇷

  • @aritzlizarragaolascoaga6254

    When do you use the infinite & when the gerund? That's confusing.

  • @montage-fire
    @montage-fire Před 3 lety

    perfect+++++++++++++++++++thak u so much

  • @saeidmixfa9717
    @saeidmixfa9717 Před 4 lety

    best of luck to you

  • @aram5642
    @aram5642 Před 4 lety

    Hope you're doing well, Jade! Crazy times.

  • @oldisgold9512
    @oldisgold9512 Před 4 lety

    Could you post a video teaching difference between whilst and while?

  • @marco3083
    @marco3083 Před 4 lety

    Your voice is special

  • @w0nerx
    @w0nerx Před 4 lety

    when you feel for example wanna go to the bathroom and say: I have to go ...
    it's like you're separating your body with your soul cause your body 'wants' the bathroom but you (soul) say I have to go...
    this is actually really deep