Finding myself again after marriage | NEW WIFE DIARIES

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
  • Since getting married, I hadn't really felt like I was in my own home yet. In this vlog, I do so many things to make my new home 'mine'. Come along with me as we get so many things done, from setting up my own personal work space, to getting new furniture that is more my style, and so much more.
    Enjoy!
    xx Mutombo.
    ♡ P A R Y S : / @parysbatonda
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    ♡ M O R E A B O U T M E :
    • I am Cameroonian
    • Location: Douala, Cameroon
    • Camera: iPhone 11, Sony ZV-1
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    • Current subscriber count: 10,880
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    ♡ C H A P T E R S
    0:00 Preview
    0:24 Mini chat
    2:45 Cafe work day w/ Parys
    5:46 Life's little graces
    6:49 My new workspace
    13:06 More shopping for my desk
    17:13 Desk tour
    22:46 Furniture shopping for my home
    24:42 Little treat
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    ♡ T O P I C S I N T H I S V I D E O :
    #marriedlife #newwifediaries #weekinthelife life in africa, life in cameroon, newly wed vlog, desk tour, desk setup, productive vlog

Komentáře • 122

  • @randommatim
    @randommatim Před 6 dny

    The R150for appes is something I never couldve been prepared for!
    the "speak in English" took me out!
    the desk set up looks good!
    you may have to re-upholster the head rest for the chair!
    and I cannot believe you'd rather wash pots than use a microwave!

  • @esthergrace6466
    @esthergrace6466 Před 13 dny

    The office space turned out nice! Looks like it will motivate productivity or at least more relaxed mood when you’re at work! Also the black couches brought new life to your living room! 👌🏾

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 8 dny

      Awww thank you Es ❤❤. Having a dedicated workspace is definitely a game changer! Yes, I love the black couches! Early review though: they are super uncomfortable to lay on 😂😂😂. That's fine because we don't need people spending the night on the couches hahaha

    • @esthergrace6466
      @esthergrace6466 Před 8 dny

      @@mutomboinprogress 😂😂😂😂😂. Ya, I used to have leather chairs years ago but disliked them for that reason. It was sticky when you sat on it for a long time. Not as fun to lounge on. But you’re right, it might keep the couch potatoes away! 😂😂😂

  • @zainabtheyoutuber
    @zainabtheyoutuber Před 21 dnem

    I’d pick purple and yellow for the lights!!! If I had a content creator buddy to work with I’d do better lol love it for you!!! Also, I love how Wife you is making the space look like home!!! … enjoyed seeing you take time to reply the comments!!!

  • @itssafespace
    @itssafespace Před 18 dny

    Oh my goodness, I am in love with your office setup, in love. The strip light LED how long is it in meters, I don't know if you mentioned it, I was so on love I didn't notice

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 18 dny +1

      the strip lights are 5m long. Hahaha I didn't mention it so don't worry. Thank you so much! I'm happy you love the setup.

  • @pilarw8745
    @pilarw8745 Před 21 dnem

    Oh! Yo tambien tengo problemas con el chocolate!😋
    Para poder trabajar son necesarias buenas herramientas y buena organización. Tu rincón ha quedado estupendo. Me alegra verte de nuevo. Abrazos.🤗

  • @kellyprideche8193
    @kellyprideche8193 Před 13 dny

    There is a place at Sable Bonamoussadi just after Hotel Mboa. I think they can fix your leather.

  • @sinkamanede1473
    @sinkamanede1473 Před 21 dnem +1

    love how your transforming the house and can't wait to see a house tour video😊😊

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem

      Awww thank you girl!
      Ahh my house tour days are over. It made me so uncomfortable when a friend came to my apartment for the first time (my previous apartment with my sister) and instantly knew where everything was. 😅 I also need to be more considerate of the other people I live with who did not choose to share their lives online 🤗.
      Don’t worry though, will keep bringing you along on little home transformations here and there

  • @mireillew8271
    @mireillew8271 Před 22 dny +3

    For someone who does a lot of editing, you should have two screens in addition to your laptop. Screens are to be independent as It will you to have more space and to easily toggle from one screen to another and to easily do your work.

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny +2

      I don't mind having 10 screens haha. We used to work with multiple screens at my first job. Forgot how convenient it was.

  • @NdinaNehemia
    @NdinaNehemia Před 22 dny

    The chairs are so beautiful and spacious. I love how you are transforming the bachelor pad one episode at a time😅

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny

      Thanks Ndina 💕💕. Hahaha this transformation is no easy task. I'm happy to share the process though. xx

  • @minamiextra
    @minamiextra Před 20 dny

    Your work station turned out great 👍🏽 and the lED lights elevated the desk even more

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 8 dny

      Thanks so much girl! Yes those LEDs are definitely a game changer!!

  • @user-ji1bx3wk4h
    @user-ji1bx3wk4h Před 20 dny

    We love you in South Africa Mutombo, smiles when you mention SA or convert your currency to ZAR 🙂

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 20 dny

      🥹🥹🥹 honestly I miss South Africa so much ❤️❤️

  • @tinakelly6785
    @tinakelly6785 Před 22 dny

    12:38 Oh wow! The difference the LED lights make on that desk! I love it!!!!
    It was a brilliant idea to put them at the back of the desk. It just lights up the space and gives it this inviting look, like "come work" . Lovely!
    I think I'll pick the white and Orange lights for the day and the blue/purple ones for night-time

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny

      Omgggg I said before we are kindred spirits! I'm literally sitting at the desk right now, going through the comments on this video and guess what colour is behind the desk! Purple! 3:45 a.m.

  • @RadicallyRose
    @RadicallyRose Před 21 dnem

    I enjoyed the vlog! The cake looked delish!!!how kind of the lady

  • @sinkamanede1473
    @sinkamanede1473 Před 21 dnem

    I recently started following Pary's after i saw an interview with you on her page,love the collabs👍

  • @caraepetuire
    @caraepetuire Před 21 dnem +1

    You are looking so good and glowing mennnnn always watching your videos from start to end

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem +1

      Awww Thank you so much!!

    • @caraepetuire
      @caraepetuire Před 21 dnem

      @@mutomboinprogress you are welcome I like watching your videos each time you post

  • @mercydaray
    @mercydaray Před 21 dnem

    The black couch really complements the rest of the sitting room, good job 👍😃

  • @tinakelly6785
    @tinakelly6785 Před 22 dny

    Awwww! your mood seemed uplifted while you were in Parys' company. Love that for you!😊❤

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny +1

      Yeah, she's great company! And every time she sees me, she gets on my case that I need to be consistent and expand to the other social media platforms. She doesn't let me slack 👌🏽👌🏽

  • @audreyghotick1851
    @audreyghotick1851 Před 19 dny

    Actually really happy to see parys in your video because I discovered your channel from one of have videos ☺️

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 19 dny

      Awww thank you Audrey ❤️❤️. And thanks to Parys too ☺️☺️. I hope you enjoyed this one!

  • @mankymanks686
    @mankymanks686 Před 12 dny

    Lovely! Please where did you get the led lights from? I am obsessed with lol.

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 8 dny

      Thank you Manks. Any quincaillerie which also sells bulbs will likely have it. I’ve seen these LEDs around. But specifically for me, I got mine from one of those light shops around Carrefour Macon Bonamoussadi. When you look into the shop, you see lights, bulbs, locks & canons, light fixtures… that sort of thing.

  • @tinakelly6785
    @tinakelly6785 Před 22 dny +1

    It has been a while since we got a lengthy vlog. Thank youuuuu, I enjoyed watching every second ❤

  • @burnneymirella
    @burnneymirella Před 20 dny

    I like the transformation ❤

  • @LawnasJourney
    @LawnasJourney Před 16 dny

    Ohhh
    I miss goodies shawarma 😢
    I lived around so every week I’ll get one.

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 8 dny +1

      Omgggg 🙈🤭😍 I can imagine! I live far from there so I only get it when I go to that area 🥹🥹

  • @Chisaramsteven
    @Chisaramsteven Před 17 dny

    i just watched your 11 months video of quitting your job. all i can say is that you just got a new subcriber .

  • @eddiyonce8159
    @eddiyonce8159 Před 21 dnem +3

    That’s kind of the lady for the cake 🍰

  • @mercydaray
    @mercydaray Před 21 dnem

    I love your office table👍😃
    I bought an led light sometime last year, mama, 1 month later, it completely got bad as in ,no remedy, cry do me😢

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 20 dny

      Wehhh, meanwhile this one has been going strong except for the glue.

  • @juliangufor579
    @juliangufor579 Před 22 dny

    Just got the alert!!! Yay!

  • @KimpossibLe1989
    @KimpossibLe1989 Před 21 dnem

    Oh I will definitely put my leds on my table too. Omg today today na today

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 20 dny

      Yassssss! Let me know how it goes pls

    • @KimpossibLe1989
      @KimpossibLe1989 Před 20 dny

      @@mutomboinprogress I love it. I choose personally to let the blue light. It will give me more vibes to work on this desk

  • @NoelasDiary
    @NoelasDiary Před 21 dnem

    Wow the cake looks beautiful

  • @tinakelly6785
    @tinakelly6785 Před 22 dny

    6:40 Aren't you like the luckiest girl ever? Those cakes look yummyyyy
    By the way thank you for introducing to us another lovely space/cafe (like you did with Terrific Cafe). After your recommendation, I went to Terrific a few times (actually, a little over a few times, hihi😅) and I loved it! Very cosy spot to get some work done.

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny

      In the words of Mme Nicki Minaj, "No, I'm not lucky. I'm blessed". Hahaha
      Awww happy to hear my recommendations go a long way. Maybe we'll bump into each other in one of these places. xx

  • @commytando
    @commytando Před 21 dnem

    Beautiful couch👌🏿🥰

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 20 dny

      Thank you Commy! I was honestly happy with that purchase 🤗

  • @Morgan00111
    @Morgan00111 Před 22 dny

    1.54am
    i waited 4 ur post on Sunday
    glad its here now
    Edit: yay!! longer vloggggg

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny

      Hahaha are you not sleeping, Morgs? Glad you're here to watch though! 😉
      Yes, this was supposed to go up on Sunday but better late than never! xx

    • @Morgan00111
      @Morgan00111 Před 21 dnem

      😂😂 no sleep for the wicked 😂😂​@@mutomboinprogress

  • @user-sj6ck2bm8y
    @user-sj6ck2bm8y Před 21 dnem

  • @NoelasDiary
    @NoelasDiary Před 21 dnem

    Wow this is so great i wish i had someone here in Ngaoundere to work with. It's hard😢

  • @tinakelly6785
    @tinakelly6785 Před 22 dny

    When you spoke about the roads thing, I felt so seen! We who live in the suburbs of Douala (Bonaberi) are going through it!😭
    What am I even saying? It's not just us, a good number of people are already complaining about the havoc the rains are already causing. And you know what's funny? The rains just started. We aren't even in the heart of the rainy season yet. I'm sure when we're there, the likes of us will have to take along swimsuits, ready to swim every time we'll want to leave home🤣
    Anyways, it is well! God will help us!😢

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny

      I hate leaving home these days. But what will we do. Gotta make do with what the gof'men has provided.
      I appreciate how the rains have cooled the city down a bit but I am definitely not looking forward to the real rains. We go dey alright my dear!
      On another note, I thought you were in the South West. Did you move recently?

    • @tinakelly6785
      @tinakelly6785 Před 22 dny

      @@mutomboinprogress Eheh😂, so you've been thinking I live in the South West? No ohhhhh. Well, maybe I mentioned the SW when I was on internship two years ago🤔. Anyways, I live in Douala with my family. As a matter of fact, I was born in Douala and have lived here for the most part of my life. The first time I really left Douala was when I was leaving for Saint Bede's College Ashing-Kom (North West) in Form 1.

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny

      @@tinakelly6785 wawuuuu, I got it all wrong then. thanks for clearing that up.❤️

  • @itssafespace
    @itssafespace Před 18 dny

    So I have another question, does the LED come in USD form or with a plug, thank you

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 18 dny +1

      It has a plug so I plug it to the mains socket. I think there are USB options but I got the plug.

  • @misst4346
    @misst4346 Před 21 dnem

    🎉🎉❤❤

  • @Dainty-ot1hr
    @Dainty-ot1hr Před 22 dny

    Lovely work space

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny

      Thank you 💕. I'm currently sitting there and replying to your comment 🙈🙈

  • @Rosefanny1912
    @Rosefanny1912 Před 21 dnem

    Oh Parys , cest cool de te voir avec d'autres youtubeurs Camerounais. Grace à toi j'ai découvert Chimex.
    Je suis allée une fois à l'atelier Francine, j'ai vraiment aimé le décor, par contre je ne savais pas qu'ils faisaient des repas chauds

    • @Rosefanny1912
      @Rosefanny1912 Před 21 dnem

      I like the purple color more than the others ❤

    • @Rosefanny1912
      @Rosefanny1912 Před 21 dnem

      The speak in English part 😂😂😂. That's really my motivation to speak English

    • @Rosefanny1912
      @Rosefanny1912 Před 21 dnem

      The entire country is hot. I was in Yaoundé and I feel like I was Still in Douala 😂

    • @Rosefanny1912
      @Rosefanny1912 Před 21 dnem

      Goodies 🥙 😋😋

  • @mireillew8271
    @mireillew8271 Před 22 dny

    The cake looked beautiful and delish🤤. Also what was the name of that cafe/bakery place? What is the name of Parys vlog?

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny +1

      The cake was really good. It's L'Atelier Francine Lenteau in Makepe.
      Parys: czcams.com/channels/l38mMkGsbtitO7Phm3okgg.html

  • @caraepetuire
    @caraepetuire Před 21 dnem

    Wow the cake is beautiful

  • @stephanieasoh
    @stephanieasoh Před 22 dny

    I’m first today!! 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

  • @giseletsadjeu5099
    @giseletsadjeu5099 Před 22 dny

    ❤❤❤

  • @chroniclesofmanu7674
    @chroniclesofmanu7674 Před 21 dnem

    If this footage is from around February the YES! the heat was insane

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem

      Yeahhhh December - March was unbearable 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @itssafespace
    @itssafespace Před 18 dny

    The heat is everywhere, so hot

  • @Just.Phillip
    @Just.Phillip Před 22 dny

    wow u still having Woolworths black bag 10:08

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yessssss!!! Omg you’ve got a good eye - you recognised it 🤝🤝
      Paid cash money for that bag and it has served me well over the years. 👏🏽There’s another white one from Clicks that I use to pack my shoes in my suitcase while travelling. I only threw that one away recently 😂😂. My SA souvenirs are running out. I need to come back 🥹🥹❤️❤️🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @mercydaray
    @mercydaray Před 21 dnem

    I miss editing with a laptop 😢

  • @tinakelly6785
    @tinakelly6785 Před 22 dny

    You were at Ndobo. That's not very far from where I liveeeee🤭
    And by the way Ndobo is IN Bonaberi not after Bonaberi as you stated at 22:51 😂
    Wait did you ride on the side of that tricycle from Bonaberi all the way to home? Wow! Didn't your butt hurt?
    And Ouch!!! Those sofas look absolutely magnificent in your home!😍😍😍

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 22 dny +1

      Me I consider Ndobo as Tiko eh. I live on the other side of town, so in my head, it’s soooo farrrrr! 😂😂😂😂
      Look I was hanging on for dear life on that tricycle but I refuse to spend extra on transport when I’m already paying a tricycle to go where I’m going 😂😂😂 #HomeEconomics

  • @nonhlanhlazwane4219
    @nonhlanhlazwane4219 Před 21 dnem

    Apples for R150 zar 😮 why so expensive

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem +1

      We don’t grow apples in Cameroon - we don’t have the climate for it so they are imported, hence more expensive.
      It’s actually my time in South Africa that made me fall in love with those particular Granny Smith apples and those are the expensive ones here 😂😂

    • @nonhlanhlazwane4219
      @nonhlanhlazwane4219 Před 21 dnem

      Ok wow ​@@mutomboinprogress

  • @mercydaray
    @mercydaray Před 21 dnem

    Wait whattt!! 5k for 6 apples?😱😱😱

    • @misst4346
      @misst4346 Před 21 dnem

      Yeah , that’s about how much I pay for apples here and I’m not in Cameroon ! It’s must make it so hard to lead a healthy lifestyle

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem

      Yeahhh, those particular apples (they’re called Granny Smiths) have gotten so expensive! They’re different and crunchier than the other apples we see around (those ones are called Golden Apples).

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem

      @@misst4346 omggg i thought it would be cheaper out there! Wow!

    • @pilarw8745
      @pilarw8745 Před 21 dnem

      Supongo que las manzanas son importadas ¿cual es su procedencia ? ¿Alemania? Es más sano consumir productos Locales.😊

  • @caraepetuire
    @caraepetuire Před 21 dnem

    That's alot of food

  • @umthombHER
    @umthombHER Před 7 dny

    ZAR150 for only 6 apples 🍏???!!! Who pays that extortion price for a fruit that tastes like nothing 😭??

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 7 dny

      🥹 but I love them… 😂😂😂 Hahahaha yeahhh, that’s pretty expensive but apples don’t grow in Cameroon. We don’t have the climate for it so all our apples are imported and tend to be expensive esp those darn green Granny Smiths. 🍏🍏 Same with the yellow and red bell peppers. They don’t grow here, only the green, so they tend to be expensive here.
      I had the same reaction when I saw 1 avocado being sold at PnP for ZAR19… ZAR14 when it was in season. The price was ridiculous for me because here in Cameroon, it usually goes for about 5 - 6 rands. That’s when I understood what was so special about avocado toast coz my friends used to talk about how they would ‘treat themselves’ to an avocado toast for breakfast and I was like, “What do you mean treat?” Hahaha

    • @umthombHER
      @umthombHER Před 7 dny

      @@mutomboinprogress crazy how we take things for granted when we have them in natural abundance! At my higher thinking level, I’m hearing your explanation on the import tax for apples 🍏 but my basic thought process is just like “There is absolutely NO reason on earth why apples 🍏 should be that expensive”! But I suppose for me it’s also because they’re bland and boring and don’t deserve to be pricey for that reason. But I completely get your comparison to avocado 🥑 prices in South Africa. Avocados 🥑 are RIDICULOUSLY expensive in South Africa!

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 7 dny +1

      @@umthombHER what you said about taking things for granted when nature has gifted them to you 💯💯💯💯💯.
      Yeahhh I love these exchanges because we get to learn more and more about each other geographical areas ❤️❤️

    • @umthombHER
      @umthombHER Před 6 dny

      @@mutomboinprogress absolutely!

  • @mercydaray
    @mercydaray Před 21 dnem

    You should get a glue gun in advance 😅

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress  Před 21 dnem

      I have already started putting superglue on the edges 🤣🤣🤣

  • @etekimarie605
    @etekimarie605 Před 21 dnem