15 Reasons You are Behind in Life
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- čas přidán 16. 07. 2024
- Sometimes you’re behind in life for reasons that were initially out of your control. Here are 15 Reasons You are Behind in Life.
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00:00 - Intro
00:37 - You had a harder start than most people
01:18 - You’ve faced discrimination
02:07 - You had no idea where you were going
02:55 - You took a crappy job and now you feel stuck
03:30 - You’re surrounded by the wrong people
04:12 - You’ve never learned to be financially literate
05:10 - You initially didn’t want to follow the traditional life path (but now you do)
05:51 - You live your life in a daydream
06:39 - You don’t take action for the things you want to change
07:19 - You’re lazy
07:55 - You spend too much time working
08:24 - You don’t like change
08:59 - You don’t communicate well
09:36 - You hold on to negativity
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What is the app @4:34? I could definitely benefit from it but I can't see the name of it.
I'm only behind financially. No family yet but I'm alright so far. I had parents who didnt care about me (I'm the 3rd/4 kid). They set my two older siblings and younger sibling up with the starter kit (car and phone). I had to do everything on my own. I had to sell cannabis to get ahead dealing with the good and bad that came with it. I did surround my self with the wrong people, for example being around people who didnt know about crypto. After that a few more people who talked like they wanted something but did nothing. Now in my 30s, moving up in my career choice and getting assets together. I did make some dumb financial moves trying to gain more but I'm in a position to make it all back with my job and ebay store. Good luck out there. Listen to this video like a religion l, especially if you're in your 20s. Take it from me. Avoid the morons and cool kids. Stick to the people who have knowledge and want to be something.
I think sometimes we think that we are discriminated against but we are not, and it is not a good idea to have a victim mentality. If you suspect you are being discriminated against, work harder, change jobs, and excel at what you do and the discrimination will disappear. I think discrimination is used as an excuse for our own failures.
Exactly! Use it as motivation to prove them wrong. Refuse to be a victim. Be a victor.
I really needed this video, I was beating myself up, pressuring to get business going, I don't even think money is the answer but a temporary Matrix, and despite all that I had a discriminating situation, that was holding me back, I watch a lot of Alux videos, and this video made me feel better because I am where I just need to be now, and I'm not really bad at life. Thanks, Alux!
Both my parents were very dysfunctional. An aunt once told me, when I was an adult, that "you were born with two strikes against you." That explained a lot.
Your videos are truly well-crafted, and each time you explain even complex topics in a very straightforward manner. I hope to achieve the same in my videos. Thanks for the inspiration!
Everything in this episode is soo well thought out hard truths yes but it’s something to hear no matter if your falling behind or successful in one area but lacking in another this channel is a masterclass in it self ALUX 🤗😊
What keeps a person behind is unwillingness to leave the current comfort zone. It is often necessary to move out of it for a while before you get into a new one.
I worked so hard but my parents are disabled they pull me down. I want a house but I have to pay theirs $2500 a month
I have 150k saved but I fear my future since they are dependent on me
I can’t even date 😅 cuz I have a small Willy and I’m black 😢 I tried to wash it off when I was called Nigah 😢
@@backseateats9513 no one believes you are serious.
@@pauljensen4773 what do you do you mean. I’m telling the truth
Always coming in Clutch! They speak exactly to my life each time.. Going to ask for help 🙂
16. Living in the past.......whether that be a success or a failure.......anyone can get lucky and be a success one time but the truly great people do it again over and over.....if it's a failure that's holding you back then you need to let it go and allow yourself to learn from it,move on and grow as a person
Lack of experience has kept me behind a bit. Most jobs won’t consider you without experience, but you can’t get experience if you’re not hired
Everything is related in my life, thank you Alux for a new perspective about life
Embrace changes , thanks Alux for the motivational videos👍
#9
"You dont take action for the things you want to change "
This hit me really hard because I have been planning on quiting porn and masturbation for the past 13yrs , but no action taken. I am comming out this time.
#16. Don't believe what others say if they are put downs, if they are derogatory comments, or if they belittle you. We live in a competitive world , and others will try to place you beneath them because they themselves have big egos. I was told that I was less than average in martial arts . But in competition , I have won matches against opponents over 6 feet tall. I myself am 5 ' 8 ".
How? Tall people are stronger and faster aren't you scared 🥶 of them? Don't they look intimidating? They can fight too.
@blacklyfe5543 they may be stronger , but they are not always faster. When I was a kid, I was picked on . So i have a lot of drive , energy , and well anger as well. These factors motivate me . Mike Tyson himself was picked on when he was young. I have heard , that is why he is so great. He enjoys beating up opponents bigger than him. Don't take me wrong. I am not saying I am equal to mike Tyson.
@sl5714 being tall, this day and age means you're more dominant than someone that is shorter than you. Back in the days if you wanted to compete for a woman you had to fight against someone bigger than you for territory. Be tall was seen as a threat and a status symbol nowadays being tall doesn't really mean anything because most tall people can't fight. Most people in general can not box or compete in a combat sport. Being tall has its pros and cons as a man women will be attracted to men who are taller than them because it gives them better security that I can agree. I wish I was 6'2 or 6'3 I would probably be one of the biggest threats against other people not just in sports but in dating as well.
This is all I needed right now thank you Alux
Alux is THE BEST motivator! With their inspirational words and guidance, I've transformed my life. I've overcome obstacles, set ambitious goals, and achieved things I never thought possible. I've even started my own CZcams channel to share my investment strategies and motivational journey. Thanks, Alux, for being my source of motivation!
I worked so hard but my parents are disabled they pull me down. I want a house but I have to pay theirs $2500 a month
I have 150k saved but I fear my future since they are dependent on me
I can’t even date 😅 cuz I have a small Willy and I’m black 😢 I tried to wash it off when I was called Nigah 😢😢😢😢😢
I use lights and aromatherapy every morning, gratitude list(audio) that I saved on my phone, while I spend a few minutes hugging and kissing my dogs...
Long term illness puts you behind as well. I grew up in foster care due to my mother being ill, and an absent father. Thankfully I am wealthy, even though my income has never been great as a result.
Incredible. I feel that what has held me back is yielding to accommodate the needs of others and sabotaging my own. This has led to doing incredible things and getting little to no benefit.
Ok! After recognising it, what the next steps are?
I definitely need to not be so prideful and continue to put one foot in front of the other!
Great video
may you be encouraged ❤
Take some time jumping roads. Do it as few times as possible. Very expensive.
When you do finally build it in the right (mobility) spot, do it with disrespect in mind as a lot of people will be offended.
ohhh right the sound is back in the background..I LOVE IT SO MUCH
Behind who? Why would any of that matter? Avoid comparisons. Be your own person. You are the author of yourself.
Something needs to change. Thanks for this video
I worked so hard but my parents are disabled they pull me down. I want a house but I have to pay theirs $2500 a month
I have 150k saved but I fear my future since they are dependent on me
I can’t even date 😅 cuz I have a small Willy and I’m black 😢 I tried to wash it off when I was called Nigah 😢
This is where I am at now, in a crappy job and surrounded by people who are there and will never leave, damn I feel stuck.😮
Great video as always.
I believe maybe what you left out was.
Being offended by everything holds you back, mentally and physically.
Being mad at other people's success.
Making up excuses or trying to make light of others success. What do I mean? 👇
Have you ever heard of people like this?
A girl sees another girl doing well and says "I would be rich too if I had a Sugar Daddy" ( Making up a story to make themselves feel comfortable in their mediocrity)
They don't want to work as hard as the other person, so they make up a story and tell themselves they are not rich because they are not satanists, gold diggers, have rich parents or whatever else they make up about the other person.
narrator says those who do not watch 15 videos in alux channel daily are behind in life
I used to listen to people who where no better then I was. They seemed confident, which made me insecure. Turned out they where more insecrure and lacked more of knowledge then I thaught.
The most devastating that was left out is adults sexaul abusing you when you are a child, and when others adults know and nothing is done. How many years have been STOLEN AND INASENCE GONE. Some people's injoyment at the expense of a child, and then his marriage is destroyed later in life, and his kids don't have a father to protect them. Because he never has been able to put his life together.
All the things I have been able to do can never replace the loss.
Thank God there's a Heaven after he'll on earth.
One thing that held me back - didn’t let go of goals soon enough, kept over-investing in them because I couldn’t accept failure. It would have been healthier to just accept and move on.
Thanks so much for sharing.
One of the Thing that Kept me behind in life.
Is believing Folks will be the one help me to achieve my dream without my Skill and experience on it.
You don't learn early what truly motivates you.
I feel behind in life. I live in an apartment. But I know I have the mindset become successful and a billionaire. I honestly think sometimes I'm delusional. But you have to have a little bit of delusion to become successful, right?
Another great video ALUX.
Alux Lady been talking to me for 11minutes, 36seconds.
Thank you Alux
1:26 POLITICAL VIEWS!!!!
Thanks.
Fire, identity theft,divorce, domestic violence as u see people as being being behind she sees it as survive domestic abuse from her x,as in sociopaths get way ahead cas there criminals,she does things honestly not by criminals getting ahead,most criminals get way far ahead when you end up in jail
I admire every girl I meet and I see this is making me lag behind. I need help please
😂😂😂😅
Thanks for great advice
Thanks !!!
where OURS BONUS ?
10:12: That Canadian Slang hit home on this one, Eh.... 😂😏
Interesting narratives
Thanks A Million. Great Video made. I got Great Knowledge and it will help me.
Well said Alux. If your parents don’t teach you about money or mental health you best believe they had a low quality of life and you will too.
Having the wrong perspective: working hard but not smart. Believing, I should help others before I had a solid foundation in my life.
I AGREE WITH NO 13, ITS DIFICULTY TO CHANGE
Not a fast learner and having trouble ith remembering the first day if it still the same number
Yes, asking for help is a gut puncher.
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Someone burning your house down doesn't help,my gf doesn't believe the hot water heater exploded there were people stalking her,she's not behind as in getting by or barely getting by.i say her identity theft put her behind by 15 years
I would like to know 15 things about Chat GPT.
Could @Alux
Cover how virtual layoffs became The New Normalm
Very good advice
Great Mentor
Just something I'm working on
I worked so hard but my parents are disabled they pull me down. I want a house but I have to pay theirs $2500 a month
I have 150k saved but I fear my future since they are dependent on me
I can’t even date 😅 cuz I have a small Willy and I’m black 😢 I tried to wash it off when I was called Nigah 😢😢😢😢
All 15. And still stuck😢
Is being diagnosed with autism and a learning disability in sequential processing disorder counts?
Sociopaths get ahead a little while then they end up in jail, criminals work fast I notice
1,3,5,6,8,11,13,14,15
In a two year old unit I believe she believes it's arson she didn't have renters insurance,sometimes sabbatoge is done by a hater but it all catches up with the evil does in the end, return to sender
I feel behind in life in my 20s
❤ ishould ask others for advice ..
Anupama ❤
Listening too much to other people and not giving yourself and your choices first preference.
Gotta start somewhere
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Q.O.T.D: Not analyzing past mistakes and successes...
100%
COMPLAINING AND MAKING LITTLE EFFORT
You are never behind in life.... You are exactly where God wants you! Just keep believing!
Not being able to say NO
I kept myself behind
Your location to me have a big part to play too
Not taking advantage of opportunities
Family
Abject poverty keep me way behind.
Not having a back up plan. Jobs end. Age causes early retirement. So what will you do if your world crashes? Where will you go? Doing what?
By Not loving myself and not taking my things seriously I wasted a lot of time
U calling her behind or slow isn't accurate she rather be poor than earn a dime dishonesty it's called being ethical
Great Great Great
See you at the Top
First comment
Take care of your Parents
I get more money to be poor. I would need to jump straight to 2 million to replace what I get for free on Disability.
Second comment
I was bullied at school and elsewhere.I'm not behind in life but I think it's unfair to talk about discrimination and to always think about race and gender.
Some people just don't fit in, although there's nothing wrong with them.They're just not one of the cool kids.
excessive masturbation will put you behind , it take away your motivation, could make you brainless ...take care of your health and stop chasing women
I can relate. I want out .
Procrastination
Wrong people for me🤦🏾♂️
LiFe, Litium+Ferum
Discrimination
God is a Dj. Mohammad is the king of the Dancefloor. 🎉
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first comment😂❤
I’m behind due to a lazy husband not working nor have motivation to do anything.
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I worked so hard but my parents are disabled they pull me down. I want a house but I have to pay theirs $2500 a month
I have 150k saved but I fear my future since they are dependent on me
I can’t even date 😅 cuz I have a small Willy and I’m black 😢 I tried to wash it off when I was called Nigah 😢