Gender Roles, Apostasy and Modern Issues - A Conversation with Dr. Yasir Qadhi and Dr. Hatem el Haj
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00:00:00 Intro
00:01:16 Summary of certain principles every student should be aware of
00:08:43 What is the boundary of Islam that shouldn't be changed?
00:10:19 Who gets to decide?
00:11:08 Hudud of Apostasy laws
00:11:24 How to gradually roll out Shariah in the land?
00:16:26 So gradualism would not be considered Kufr?
00:19:42 Islamist party in control's counter argument to gradually implementing Shariah
00:26:03 The issue of Apostasy and Blasphemy
00:34:57 Is this reforming Islam?
00:36:44 Does Islam have specific gender roles?
00:38:27 Main roles of man vs woman in Islam?
00:43:44 Can women have careers?
00:47:38 "His money is his and yours and your money is your money"
00:51:19 Obedience to the Husband
00:57:49 Divorce and delayed dowry
01:04:32 Segregation and Interactions of Genders in the West
01:11:58 Gender mixing at Muslim conventions and conferences
01:16:25 Summary and Conclusion
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I have watched lectures of Yasir Qadhi from early 2000's to this day , he has evolved and matured in his knowledge, he is definitely not a sellout , he is just balancing and his utmost priority is nobody should ever leave islam
You both are people whom I most look up to in matters of ilm, please keep these conversations going!
What a fascinating conversation. Amazing to hear two real scholars discuss very difficult issues in respectful and comprehensive manner.
I’m so tired of the muslims influencers building their entire personas around “owning” other Muslims or trying to show off how much more tough they are than others.
I hope Shaykh Yasir makes these podcasts regular with a variety of guests coming on. I love when scholars of different schools interact and we get to see that they actually respect one another despite their differences.
Would love to see Hamza Yusuf or Shaykh Husain Abdul Sattar on here and to have discussions about tassawuf.
Mashallah We need to have more of these conversations.
Eagerly waiting for this topic
Sometimes I can only laugh at the situation we Muslims get ourselves in. We migrated to non Muslim countries and then scratching our heads on how to reconcile ours and their cultures/laws. It's a case of pursuing economic goals first then figure out how to follow Islam after. Pretty messy situation!
Great point I will like to add this doesn’t need to be the case, we can make Hijra and live even better lives in terms of dunya (great homes, many accommodations, being wealthy) plus Akhira,
This is human. People go where life takes them. The basics of islam should already be in your pocket. Islam is easy people make it hard
Right now I can only laugh while reading your comment and wonder how can a person think in such a manner in this new technologically linked world. Due to cultural, economic, geopolitical globalisation, Issues faced by a Muslim in america and other in Saudia are converging and it's only a matter of time that Muslims in the latter place would have to figure out same questions.Its not a futile exercise,atleast not nowadays. And yess, when I say Muslim, I do not just mean salafis/Arabs in their comfy bubbles enabling them to practice deen (may Allah preserve their practice) without much deterrence from outside world, I mean an average struggling Muslim youth in Indonesia, India or west
@@whathappenedmanirrelevant to the point
Yep.
Ettequte, adab, dressing contribute to acts if worship. Some people can be encouraged to strengthen their imaan through prayer while others it can be through dressing. All are equally important. It is not right for religious leaders to put dressing and ettequete in the back seat to focus on prayers only. The very act of properly dressing and interacting as a Muslim can be a catalyst to encourage more prayer.
Macha’Allah, very fruitful discussion!
I see so many times in North America women abusing law of the land and taking kids and 50% of husbands assets when during divorce. Which is totally haram, a major sin and makes that woman a zalim. She should be scared of the day of judgement. I hope imams address this issue and tell the Muslim women how big of a sin they are committing
If women had worked and contributed to that household she has every right to 50 percent of savings.
Shariah civil law is a man made law that is why it was subject to change depending on the condition many low information Muslims confuse with the general Islamic principles with the civil law.
thats not haram
Where does it say that Islamically? This line of thought has not been present in Islamic Scholarship. Using your logic, doesn't the man's mother and father deserve to have even more right to his savings??? They birthed, fed, clothed him and taught him all he knows.
Of course its haram, what he means is if she didnt not contribute financially at all, the man brings in all the money to the marriage and during the marriage and after a few years she rips him for 50% of all his worth
❤❤❤❤ It helps a lot to learn that basic terms need to be defined in layman's terms. ❤❤❤
When a women files for divorce in US courts and the man has not divorced her is she still entitled to 50 percent of his assets
I love these discussions so much. I wish i can make everyone i know listen to them lol. They really make u think
Walaikumusalaam
Wa rahmatullahi
Wa barakahatuhu
Alhumdulillah for this very informative discussion. Thank you sooo much for discussing the conflicts and injustices that occur between working couples as well as when a woman is in the role of a homemaker and difficult situations that arise. I greatly appreciate that you are discussing how best to implement gender interactions while following Allah (swt)’s teachings of lowering gaze, hijab etc,. Pleeease share and have future detailed discussions on these topics as it will benefit the Ummah in sha Allah.
Jazakum Allahu khairun
Barak Allahu Feek, Aameen
As salaam u alaikum
Wa rahmatullahi
Wa barakahatuhu
As far as their discussion about conventions and giving a softer, more gentle variety of Islam since many attendees aren’t very observant. Fair enough, I can understand that logic. But whenever these shaykhs are lecturing at these conventions they should be saying in the same lecture something to the effect “I’m not focusing on the stricter aspects of our religion because I know many of you may be struggling with observance. Use this convention/lecture as a stepping stone, but understand your goal should be to graduate to a more observant, stricter practice of our religion”. Otherwise less observant muslims are going to think Islam is about going to think Islam is about going to a convention every once and awhile, getting my emotions engaged and then going back to normal life once the convention is over.
All these problems will be solved by teaching tawheed the right way. We need to fear Allah the way he deserves to be feared and Allah, with his infinite mercy will help us overcome all the problems in our societies. May Allah guide us to the straight path. Amin
Brilliant discussion- look forward to further episodes
Thank you so much for this fruitful discussion, i learnt new things
Dearest Sheikh, kindly bring other scholars and you be the moderator to discuss on modern issues
where can I find the book by Dr. Hatem el Haj
Jazak Allah kairan Shayookh.
We benefitted from your fruitful discussion. We need more in-depth discussion on men and women rights and duties in marriage. Because the way things are heading, it is becoming more and more unattractive for young men to get married and start a family.
Because young men are entitled.
Allah❤
🤚asalaamulakum
I wish you would have delved deeper in to the issue of alimony. What if the woman filed for divorce against the man? What if the man his divorced the woman due to her being unfaithful?
In the US, depending on your state, adultery can completely bar your spouse from receiving alimony
i think you need to arrange for people that disagree with for discussion
We don't need to advocate for the devil here.
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This is a great discussion. But not for the lay man
Sheikh i please request you to make a video on how to explain to non muslims why we slaughter and sacrifice animals on Bakrid , especially in subcontinent, its becoming more and more of an issue , if you would dedicate an hour then it would be a great favour
What will happen when a women shares the cost along with raising kid and household activities, she should get more than 50 percent ? There is lots of issues in case of divorce. And when the husband does not give mahr.
This is an important question you raise; sadly there are no replies. I hope it is a question that will be addressed by our presenters in future talks - inshaAllah!
I respect yasir qadhi and the knowledge he has, but I feel like he focuses more on the emotional aspects of things when it comes to Allahs rulings, how people would feel which i think is not ideal because I am a psychologist and from a psychological perspective people need to hear the harsh truth at times so that it really is ingrained in them. Jazakullah khair
The popular Salafi method is one that is harsh and over focuses on technicalities. I don't think we need more of that.
tbh, i cant understand dr hatem's accent. I tried so hard to listen but failed to understand a word he said.
more than accent, I think it's because his voice is a bit low. Try using headphones.
also try turning on auto generated captions on
We need to stop treating a Uzbek Hadith book like it's from Allah and abandoning the Quran like is prophesized in the Quran.
how can a govt enforce personal level ibadah on the Muslim citizens like hijab?
no one can enforce any personal level ibadah or any personal level haram.
Hijab is not a personal level ibadah, hijab has been commanded by Allah, obviously we can not force a woman to wear it, but if she chooses not to wear it she is sinful, but from a societal perspective to protect and maintain the purity of society governments can establish the law of enforcing hijab.
Assalaamu alaikum some sins like not wearing hijab affect the entire community, and in this scenario gov can enforce Islamic modesty to protect all of its Muslim citizens
You do know that Zakat is also enforced by a Shariah run government right? Zakat isn't just a personal ibadat like dhikr. It is essential to the wellbeing of all society. Likewise being modest and covering your awrah is essential to society at large, not the individual. Therefore it can absolutely be enforced.
They shouldn't but they can enforce it as a modesty rule in society and it wouldn't differ from world rulings on dress code.
Veiling is not act of worship it’s just tradition.
mic in mouth
The question is simple where in books of sunnah that says a Muslim ruler can levy taxes on alcohol. Please share and make sure it is authentic before sharing
Can have this discussion onces a legitimate Khalifa exist. Atm all rulers follow their respective constitution not shariah
He cited Umar RA saying "let them sell it...but tax them".
The answer was simple and given. If you missed it check 22.11 from the talk. You have also asked for the evidence from two people who are in conversation with each other. They seem to be well aware of the evidence.
In the video, it was said done during Umar time as khalifah
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Which was in regards to the people of the covenant (Dhimmies).
They can keep pigs or gain wealth through alcohol, which can not be collected as Jizya. Hence they sell and pay their Jizya in currency.
This has nothing to do with Muslims and can never be applied to them.
That is the problem of the discussion of these types of people, they talk to confuse and their followers understand half of the half.