@jessj2530 but they shouldn't and that Is what's wrong with this generation. Dating is fun but for marriage or else ur just a hoe who has failed relationships
maybe the problem isn't even the bf, is the trauma wmxmwsmwm some people just had bad experiences in the past and need reassurance that the man is being loyal this time (not my case, but i can imagine)
Don’t do this. Just break up. I use to do stuff like this and it’s so damaging for yourself. JUST LEAVE HIM IF YOU FEEL THE NEED TO DO THIS. If you search hard enough you will always find something to piss you off. That’s coming from a girl who has been through it.
For anyone that doesn’t trust their partner n has to go through their phone please don’t listen to this advice literally break up with them. You deserve better. ++ or vice versa … everyone deserves to feel happy and secure in a relationship, wishing all yall the best ! 💛
@@treasureeilynperiod, exactly. You don’t need proof in a phone there’s such thing as intuition and behavior changes or just simply not trusting them in the first place
Imagine breaking up over a "gut feeling" when your partner didn't do anything... either you trust your partner, or you don't. If you don't, break up with them because you are going to overthink this way too much. If you do trust your partner, don't listen to the advice of a random stranger on the internet. Hell, don't even listen to me.
As someone who never did anything wrong or suspicious, and constantly had my phone searched behind my back by my ex bf. Don't do this. If you're concerned, try to talk with them and if they don't want any part of the conversation or don't reassure you, then think about the break up. Don't go through someone's phone, because if they're genuinely not doing anything wrong, it's so damaging and hurtful. Sharing because you're not alone ❤
Thank youuu. Seeing things like this and the response is so concerning. Why are we encouraging this? Just.. don’t go through someone’s phone. Ask yourself why you feel the need to, and address that.
I’m glad you showed this response because people be having built up trauma and pass on to every relationship if a person is like that you shouldn’t be in a relationship health yourself then try dating. I’m glad you shared this people need to see and understand this side too.
If u don’t trust him, talk to him why that thought came in your mind, listen to his point of view, if u are still not satisfied, you breakup because that ain’t the guy you’ll marry.
If you don't trust them, break up. Their either untrustworthy or you have trust issues, either way it should never result in going behind their back like this
crazy tip but you can see what apps they use the most by their screentime, search bar on home screen incase they hide the app, and on insta on settings you can see what posts they like and comments theyve wrote, stay crazy ♥️
Hey younger folks, I’d like to give you some advice. I had a pretty untrustworthy and shitty ex myself. My first advice is to not do this unless you suspect something really awful- like your partner is talking to underage people, etc. You don’t want to stoop to making yourself untrustworthy, because this in of itself is a violation of trust. Stay with me! I’m not done! If someone makes you feel like this, like they cannot be trusted at all, you cannot feel secure no matter how much you work on yourself to be sure it’s not you just feeling insecure -- if it’s safe to- please walk away because trying to “catch them” in the act is really disrespectful to yourself. You deserve someone that makes you feel secure, someone you don’t have to beg for attention and safety from. Please don’t tolerate this because you think he’s “out of your league” and you need to stay. He will stay a lonely mfer until he works to change!
Fr tho, I never know that there was a place you could see all the deleted things you sent. I thought once I deleted it in the messages it was gone. But I’m so thankful I saw this before my parents, lol
Lack of trust comes from lack of self love. Once you start to love yourself more and more you stop caring if they might cheat because you know your worth and don't feel the need to prove it to anyone either
lol i double delete my msgs so my parents dont see some of the texts to my friends-- Cuz sometimes I rant about family problems to them and my parents would be pissed if they knew i did.
Folks think like this and then wonder why people innocent of cheating don’t want to be with them🤦♀️ stop punishing folks for something they didn’t do to you in the first place. If your trust issues go that deep, heal first and then seek out a partner.
Yes! Best advice! I used to be like this and ruined every relationship I had. Once you get to the point of invading someone else's privacy, it's already over.
Hey it’s Teagan I’ve been going through a lot lately me and my mom and dad don’t really have a strong connection and to be honest it’s hard but I look up to you and I listen to songs and they’re so uplifting in I just want say thank you
obviously if the trust isn't there you break up whether your suspicions are true or not but you should also check to know the level of therapy you need. it's the difference between therapy to choose better people so you do trust the next guy or therapy so you aren't seeing bad in people that is not there at all and it's all in your head
this might just be me thinking about a situation like this more than I should be but… what if your partner who you believe is cheating on you deletes the messages and then permanently deletes them? 😭💀
If they aren’t trustworthy so you are looking through their phone then either you found out they were untrustworthy but they found out you’re untrustworthy or you found that they were trustworthy and now they think you’re untrustworthy. No matter what you shouldn’t go through peoples things
this is much needed bc last Friday my best friend found out her bf had been texting other girls and he has cheated in the past with his ex and so she just recently confronted him abt it but long story short she did the same thing and recovered the messages and they are still together
i love you mckenzie you were my favorite on the show and you were always so pretty when you were growing up and just DOWN RIGHT GORGEOUS NOW!!! ❤ily so much and thank you for this hack!
snooping around doesn't fix a lack of trust, it only makes you more paranoid. just be straight up and ask them because going through their phone will only make both of you not trust eachother
True true but... you can also take that option out and he could have them deleted forever once he deletes them once. You can literally get rid of the trash folder for good. At least on the Samsung you can. I'd recommend checking the blocked messages?
Or, if you want to look at their messages, don’t. If you want real trust u have to have full faith and belief in them which is obviously easier said than done but continuing to look through messages and go through their stuff not only invades their privacy but makes genuinely trusting them harder.
If they aren't trustworthy, don't be with them. Simple.
🙌🙌🙌 they’re practically giving you a warning to get out of there!
@@jjvmxsThey really are, if your relationship isn't built on trust, then everything else has an unstable foundation.
Right I'd rather be single so women stop stay single
@@user-kq3qm7mc1n Exactly, one way or another, you'll probably end up at the same place you started. It's better to save yourself the hurt. 🙏🏻
Fr
For the girls that DONT trust their boyfriends.
Break up, remember dating is just a step before marriage be wise.
Not everyone wants marriage. Some people just date for fun. But yes, the rest of your point stands.
@jessj2530 but they shouldn't and that Is what's wrong with this generation. Dating is fun but for marriage or else ur just a hoe who has failed relationships
maybe the problem isn't even the bf, is the trauma wmxmwsmwm some people just had bad experiences in the past and need reassurance that the man is being loyal this time (not my case, but i can imagine)
Sometimes not all get married
@@Username0467which is wrong. That’s playing with someone’s feelings
the be careful at the end is so real😭🤣
2.9K likes and no comment💀
Literally how I found out my ex man was trying to have sex w a girl he used to hu w. Still got denied though 🫡😮💨
@@juliadio6716💀
Don’t do this. Just break up. I use to do stuff like this and it’s so damaging for yourself. JUST LEAVE HIM IF YOU FEEL THE NEED TO DO THIS. If you search hard enough you will always find something to piss you off. That’s coming from a girl who has been through it.
no? even if u have no reason, trust issues are real. so what? why not just look
For anyone that doesn’t trust their partner n has to go through their phone please don’t listen to this advice literally break up with them. You deserve better. ++ or vice versa … everyone deserves to feel happy and secure in a relationship, wishing all yall the best ! 💛
@Bibble_aldcno, you don't. If you don't trust your partner, it's already broken
Lol you are the problem
@@treasureeilynperiod, exactly. You don’t need proof in a phone there’s such thing as intuition and behavior changes or just simply not trusting them in the first place
@@alexblazquez2277nah the problem is the person already not trusting their partner
Imagine breaking up over a "gut feeling" when your partner didn't do anything... either you trust your partner, or you don't. If you don't, break up with them because you are going to overthink this way too much. If you do trust your partner, don't listen to the advice of a random stranger on the internet. Hell, don't even listen to me.
the tip is to break up with them. Either they’re shady liars, which you don’t deserve. Or you’re being crazy, which they don’t deserve.
LOL This
The little kenzie still there...I remembered that "tutorial "she did when little lol
Wdym?
Was it that lil makeup tutorial
imma do this to my single ass😭😭😭😭
Same babes
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣I feel you!
same 💀
As someone who never did anything wrong or suspicious, and constantly had my phone searched behind my back by my ex bf. Don't do this. If you're concerned, try to talk with them and if they don't want any part of the conversation or don't reassure you, then think about the break up. Don't go through someone's phone, because if they're genuinely not doing anything wrong, it's so damaging and hurtful.
Sharing because you're not alone ❤
Thank youuu. Seeing things like this and the response is so concerning. Why are we encouraging this? Just.. don’t go through someone’s phone. Ask yourself why you feel the need to, and address that.
I’m glad you showed this response because people be having built up trauma and pass on to every relationship if a person is like that you shouldn’t be in a relationship health yourself then try dating. I’m glad you shared this people need to see and understand this side too.
If u don’t trust him, talk to him why that thought came in your mind, listen to his point of view, if u are still not satisfied, you breakup because that ain’t the guy you’ll marry.
WXACTLY!!its not worth it to be in a relationship where there is no trust
Best advice in this comment section fr
@@lillianlibera9560 lmaooo nah istg this is what I'd do☠
If you don't trust them, break up. Their either untrustworthy or you have trust issues, either way it should never result in going behind their back like this
If you feel you need to take it this far, you shouldn’t be in that relationship 💪🏽 Don’t Be Weak
The fact that her famous laugh still comes along with her everywhere 😂❤
omg the hoodie is literally so cute
Right!?! The only thing I noticed in this video 😂
i found it! its from sweetness studios
@@lielie6 thxxx!
npp @@ellieee15
@@lielie6thank you sooo so much I was looking everywhere
Her sweatshirt is the cutest
You are so pretty Kenzie! You don’t know how much I look up to you you’re an amazing person and just keep doing what you’re doing!❤️
crazy tip but you can see what apps they use the most by their screentime, search bar on home screen incase they hide the app, and on insta on settings you can see what posts they like and comments theyve wrote, stay crazy ♥️
uh... mentally unstable.
If you don’t trust your partner, then break up. Going thru someone’s personal stuff is incredibly disrespectful, just cause you had a ‘feeling’
Nah they are right, everyone keeps saying you should leave instead of check, like not, I'ma show you I know, make you look dumb ASF and then leave
Hey younger folks, I’d like to give you some advice. I had a pretty untrustworthy and shitty ex myself.
My first advice is to not do this unless you suspect something really awful- like your partner is talking to underage people, etc.
You don’t want to stoop to making yourself untrustworthy, because this in of itself is a violation of trust. Stay with me! I’m not done!
If someone makes you feel like this, like they cannot be trusted at all, you cannot feel secure no matter how much you work on yourself to be sure it’s not you just feeling insecure -- if it’s safe to- please walk away because trying to “catch them” in the act is really disrespectful to yourself. You deserve someone that makes you feel secure, someone you don’t have to beg for attention and safety from. Please don’t tolerate this because you think he’s “out of your league” and you need to stay. He will stay a lonely mfer until he works to change!
All fun in games till my mom sees this😂😂😂
She’s so prettyyyy
I found a whooollleeeee side chick 😭😭 thank you
Oh baby are you okay? damn that’s extreme 😢
Omg
Two thing 1: tysm!!!!! And 2: I was just re-watching dance mom's and I stopped at the part where u cried saying "no Nia" when Nia forgot her dance
Kenzie, you inspire me to never give up and push through when I need too. love you❤️❤️❤️
We need this in WhatsApp as well lol
For all the girls who don’t trust there boyfriend break up with them trust is everything
Don’t worry, Kenzie, I can never cheat on you. 💕‼️
GIRL THAT JUST SAVED MY SOUL. Thank GOD I saw this before my mom fr 💀😭
Fr tho, I never know that there was a place you could see all the deleted things you sent. I thought once I deleted it in the messages it was gone. But I’m so thankful I saw this before my parents, lol
AHHH I LOVE YOU
Wow I never knew this😂 thanks Kenzie!
it dosent work on my samsung
Lack of trust comes from lack of self love. Once you start to love yourself more and more you stop caring if they might cheat because you know your worth and don't feel the need to prove it to anyone either
No 😂 lack of trust comes from being fucking lied to, used, manipulated, fucked over and tricked.
McKenzie, you are so pretty
lol i double delete my msgs so my parents dont see some of the texts to my friends-- Cuz sometimes I rant about family problems to them and my parents would be pissed if they knew i did.
Aw I thought he looked familiar 😢❤❤
The fact that I have watched Kenzie since day one of dance moms SHE IS GROWING SO FAST 😢❤
For someone who is so curious and worried about loyalty there's an awul lot to hide
Folks think like this and then wonder why people innocent of cheating don’t want to be with them🤦♀️ stop punishing folks for something they didn’t do to you in the first place. If your trust issues go that deep, heal first and then seek out a partner.
heal yourself before you cheat on other people.
Yes! Best advice! I used to be like this and ruined every relationship I had. Once you get to the point of invading someone else's privacy, it's already over.
i genuinely thought everyone knew this
Same😂
LOVE U KENZIE U ARE SOO PRETTY
if you don’t trust your boyfriends, girlfriends, partners, whomever.. break up with them!! trust is essential in a relationship
Thanks !!
Hi libby!
@@ALDC_LALALAND hiiii!!
THIS STORY TRAUMATIZED ME FOR REAL 😟
Does anyone else just love Kenzie?
Your my favorite ❤
If youre looking through their phone... just break up. Its over.
OMGG I LOVE THIS GURL
U ARE SO PRETTYYYYYY
The end got me laughing “have fun. Be careful” LOL 😂
Hey it’s Teagan I’ve been going through a lot lately me and my mom and dad don’t really have a strong connection and to be honest it’s hard but I look up to you and I listen to songs and they’re so uplifting in I just want say thank you
obviously if the trust isn't there you break up whether your suspicions are true or not but you should also check to know the level of therapy you need. it's the difference between therapy to choose better people so you do trust the next guy or therapy so you aren't seeing bad in people that is not there at all and it's all in your head
Is it just me but the fist time I saw this short I knew the face but then then this time I only just noticed it was Kenzie from dance moms lol 😂
Gurlll you hoodie is soo cute
Mackenzie is so nice and her smile is so cute
I love your jumper ❤❤❤❤
of topic but her hoody is so cute!
Kenzieeeeee so pretty
As someone who used to be suspicious of their man.... just leave him. You already know and you're only hurting yourself by going through his stuff
Hi Kenzie! Your one of my favorite dancers💕
I love your hoodieeeee❤❤❤
Thought she finna show us how to recover the ones that were already deleted from the deleted area 😭🤣
Awww the m m & m group chat 😊
I do this with my bestie because she always deletes the texts with her crush and I like snooping😂
Why do i feel like im getting "the talk"
Omggg i love youuuu❤❤❤
this might just be me thinking about a situation like this more than I should be but… what if your partner who you believe is cheating on you deletes the messages and then permanently deletes them? 😭💀
THANK YOU KENZIE, YOU’RE A LIFESAVER!!
As a girl who watches dance moms, idk how it took me a whole 5 seconds to realize that this is Mackenzie zeigler. But she so pretty and talented!!
okay but that hoodie is so pretty
omggg girl anytime i look at you just always remember the sweet little girl on dance moms your such a strong beautiful girl❤❤
So pretty! But yea I already knew that!❤
❤❤
She reminds me of Love from the show You
YOURE SO PRETTYYYYY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
me looking at the hoodie the entire time
If they aren’t trustworthy so you are looking through their phone then either you found out they were untrustworthy but they found out you’re untrustworthy or you found that they were trustworthy and now they think you’re untrustworthy. No matter what you shouldn’t go through peoples things
This is why she always gets dumped.
this is much needed bc last Friday my best friend found out her bf had been texting other girls and he has cheated in the past with his ex and so she just recently confronted him abt it but long story short she did the same thing and recovered the messages and they are still together
He is not worth it
your so funny i would kill to have a humor lik yours
for me, i found out the old fashion way.. girlypops clothes were shoved in our bedroom dresser along with love letters lol!
Omg you are so iconic and beautiful. I live for your music and videos.
"If you don't trust them break up" look, sometimes we need proof to validate our feelings that something is off.
Omg u look amazing I also loved when u were on dance moms
Love your sweatshirt
A relationship is built off of trust and respect if you don't have atleast one you don't have a relationship
You were always my favorite but truth me told if I go through a phone I already know we’re over !
Why do I get the feeling an unreleased song is coming from this.
It’s all fun and games until you don’t know what messages they deleted and get caught 😂
Kenzie is so cute oml
You still have your smile from when you were like 6❤
i love you mckenzie you were my favorite on the show and you were always so pretty when you were growing up and just DOWN RIGHT GORGEOUS NOW!!! ❤ily so much and thank you for this hack!
I love your hoodie so much where is it from?
snooping around doesn't fix a lack of trust, it only makes you more paranoid. just be straight up and ask them because going through their phone will only make both of you not trust eachother
True true but... you can also take that option out and he could have them deleted forever once he deletes them once. You can literally get rid of the trash folder for good. At least on the Samsung you can. I'd recommend checking the blocked messages?
Yeah I’m not doing all that. If I’m suspicious enough of you to consider this I don’t want it anymore. 😂
Or, if you want to look at their messages, don’t. If you want real trust u have to have full faith and belief in them which is obviously easier said than done but continuing to look through messages and go through their stuff not only invades their privacy but makes genuinely trusting them harder.
Your sweatshirts so cute😊
Kenzie you are amazing
Where did you get that hoodie it’s so adorable
Awe this is what child stars grow up to be, inspirational.
Or, you can leave since you aren't married.
Omg Kenzie where did you get that sweatshirt it’s so cute!!
The only tip you need is to not be in a committed relationship with someone you cannot trust. Period.
Hey Kenzie your so pretty nd I’m following u on BeReal, real people ❤️❤️❤️