How Do You Feed A Family Of 16? | Britain's Biggest Families | Part 1 | Origin
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How much does is cost to feed a family of 16?? And what does it take to prepare that amount of food, every day? In this episode, we see what meal time is like for the UK’s supersize families; the Radfords with 16 children and the Salim’s with 11 children. We also see the other challenges these big families face every day and how they deal with them.
The Radfords have 16 kids and their eldest, who still lives with them, has a child of her own. Having 19 under the one roof can make things a bit crowded, but Sue and Noel wouldn’t have it any other way and have plans to add even more kids to the litter. Sue and Noel met when they were 8 and became sweethearts at 13, having their first child at 14.
Unlike most young couples, having a baby brought these childhood sweethearts closer together and they have mastered managing a budget, immense amounts of chores and raising 16 kids by themselves. But with a christening for 11 to organize and pay for, will their iron clad teamwork and thinning wallets stand up to the test?
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"Mohammad was 32 and Noreen was 16 when their marriage was arranged by her grandfather in Pakistan" Says it all doesn't it? She was nothing more than a baby factory for him. A child having children.
Creepy af
He's so gross
if it was her choice it was her choice but her being forced is a different story. and what are you implying when you said says it all?
@@SC-mw9vr She was a 16 year old child married off to a 32 year old man. I doubt there was choice in there for her. As for "says it all" it means that he just wanted a baby factory to fulfill his dream of having children so he could have the tribe of playmates he wanted as a kid and never got(says it in the show) He doesn't respect her. You can clearly see that. She is in tears and he just laughs at her, and says he wants more kids.
@@SC-mw9vr Yes he is a bad example, but of course he doesn't represent anyone but himself. Have a good day
The second mother seems so depressed. She was forced to get married to a man who is obsessed with having children he can’t afford. I can hear the pain through her voice. That poor woman wishes to be free but it will never happen. 😢
Brenda Az yes... I really feel for her.. married to a tyrant pretending to be a clown ... with no job or prospects. I don’t think he has 7 degrees... he seems like a fraud to me. And he is twice her age... Poor gal...
Sadly she can never be free. She will be killed by her own family, if she tried to run away. Honor killing is still relevant in Muslim religion/countries. Look it up.
And the husband is showing no ounce of support for her and their family..
He's setting such a bad example for his kids..
And she was 16, and he 32!!!!! Poor lady.
My heart breaks for the children in the second family. If the father bothered to work at any job, even a job that isn’t teaching their lives could be so much better. My heart goes out to the wife too. She was airing her frustrations and crying because she’s so upset and the husband didn’t care at all.
His benefits are more than he’d make at just any job.
She seemed on the verge of tears in every shot she was in, it’s heartbreaking to see her under all that stress
she was married when she was 16. a kid who has zero experience in life.. ı am not surprised that he is living with benefits. he says they want more child and don't care about money but ı am %100 sure he never asked his wife's opinion about the matter... a terrible human being
Well there is a word called no.
10:51 Noreen looks like she’s gonna cry watching that video. She probably realized what a baby she was at 16. I mean her 19 yo daughter and 21 yo son are still living with her
@Kayla Bayla just curious… was it arranged?
@@cdc2317 yes, she looks miserable.
Well it’s a non-western tradition for kids to live at home after 18
"It's difficult" "it's expensive" " people with 2 kids have it easy"... Who exactly is forcing these couples to have so many kids???
They said difficult, not bad.
@@Hspark1 and I am just repeating what they said, but just so you know, the rate with which the population is growing, it is bad... and if it's kids they want, why is adoption not an option??
@@srijasingh6533 my point is difficult does not mean bad. And they probably aren't able to adopt because of their family size. International adoption is very costly and almost impossible in some countries because of their requirements.
@@Hspark1 and I didn't use the word "bad", though personally I do believe it's irresponsible of them to have so many kids, especially if it means they are going to be financially stretched soooo thin and ultimately the children don't get the opportunity to be their best selves.
@@srijasingh6533 No, I know you didn't use the word bad, but often people equate the word difficult with bad. I think perhaps you don't have a lot of experience with large families. I'm sure there are large families with difficult situations, but by and large, most children in large families are happy and thankful for their many siblings, especially when they get older.
The second family’s mom is chained to a man that can’t provide. She’s not a baby maker, she’s a person with feelings & needs.
Yes and she’s in the UK where she can easily get her tubes tubes no questions asked
Real Talk
So true
@@liorasitelman1856 if that’s not her religious belief then she won’t get her tubes tied, guess what that’s her own personal choice! She shouldn’t be judged either! It’s HER reproductive system! Why are u making a statement like it’s her fault? It takes two to have children! Her husband is fully capable of working and providing for his children! This woman was forced into an arranged marriage at 16 years old to a 32 year old man! She is stuck with this trifling man! Your western mindset is not the standard for other cultures and nationalities! 🤷🏾♀️
@@armyvetgrl2731 someone else’s reproductive rights end when my taxes are being infringed upon
"Let go of me." My heart breaks for this woman. She did not choose this husband nor that life. OMG, she is so depressed.
"A doctor of philosophy selling chocolates" is honest work, and far better than a guy taking check after check of money he didn't earn. Wow, guy #2 needs a reality check. His family deserves more.
He acts like he’s above any job. Any job, as long as it’s honest work, is honorable. To provide for your family is honorable. He should be ashamed of himself.
He also needs to stop yelling
Seems to me he’d be brilliant caring for other people’s children. It’s honest work, very much on demand, and might satisfy his desire for more children.
Mohammed is so blissfully oblivious. His wife is completely overwhelmed, literally says she’s broken inside through tears, and he barely bats an eye. All he cares about is having her churn out more kids to feed his greed. If he was truly grateful for his wife and his children like he says he is, then he would humble himself and provide for them by any means necessary.
PERIOD
Exactly!!!!!
He was an only child, muslim, Pakistani and 11, the 16 children of the Baker seem better off.
Nadia Shireen Siddiqi ya bc he works and disciplines his kids and doesn’t live in squalor.
completely agree!
my ovaries just locked themselves and threw away the key.
Lmao
Menopause is a relief.
@@mirageseekr can't wait.
Dead😂😂
@@ozzy3669 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Noreen’s older kids gotta step in and protect their mommy when they grow older and leave home
Hes not doing anything bad to her. Hes just not getting a job and making their lives better. Just bc hes muslim and older dont mean he hurts her. Its actually haram and not allowed to not fulfill any of your wives rights upon you (make sure she has a home of her own, food that she ants, things that she need, etc. )
@@jennahrashed3819 yes but she was literally 16 when she married him and he was way older she had no choice also she just seems unhappy but the husband just wants a bigger family it’s annoying and sometimes sad
@@jennahrashed3819 Nobody mentioned muslims. . And ofc that much age gap is tough on women especially in an arrange marriage set up. .where she is forced to push a baby out to an unemployed man child
"it all boils down to just... Jealousy."
Absolutely no one is jealous of your situation, sir, but, keep believing that...
Did Mohammed really say, " Many times I've thought about walking away, and having a free easy life?" But in the next breath express he wants more children??This guy is ridiculous. How do you have so much education? So many children, but NO JOB??? Your wife is expressing her concerns and you still stay jobless???
A total douchebag...wants the sex but doesn't want the resonsibility of raising kids
H
Narcissism
American news would have a field day with him
Read Dogulas Murray's book. "The strange death of Europe " it explains everything. Btw, I'm an immigrant but I despise these looters who don't work collect benefits and hate the country support their need.
The second mother was forced to get married when she herself was a child, forced to have 10 children and suffer, and her 'husband' is a completely selfish failure. I feel so bad for her, she never even got a choice. I hope her older children look out for her and help give her a good life.
Her older children should go out and get jobs.
He is fked... and then living off the benny to that extent when they are not even from the uk.. i hope they get deported and she can be saved
@@bonnieparkertheoutlaw7353 its not the kids faults that their father is a deadbeat. its their parents job to provide for them, not the other way around.
@@benw3864 the eldest is 20 lol
@@OsirusIrdia excuse me??? He doesn’t beat het enough?? You’re mad.
The Radfords are amazing , they now have 22 kids, 5 grandchildren and are one huge and loving family . A family to admire ! I enjoy watching their videos . Omg , how can the second family possibly live in that mess ? I’d have a nervous breakdown ! Despite his degrees Dad, doesn’t seem to be enthusiastic about finding a job, he is about more kids though !
If your on benefits, you just need to stop!
Are they on CZcams?
@@kandydewey1286yes, search "the radford family"
How the first family husband still wanted to treat his wife for just the two of them is so amazing. Husbands who sees their wife's hardwork and struggles and still want to make them special are total gem
The second man doesn't realize all the stuff he's putting his kids and wife through. He seems very selfish and rather ignorant
NB7281 or put simply he’s a lazy thoughtless bludger
Hes smart but no common sense
It’s like she has an extra child...
Who does not putting their penis into a warm wet place. That does not give you the right to over breed, especially when famine, drought and constant war is what humans rely on to get what they need. These people from Europe stole this land and killed millions so they could breed like rabbits.
I do not know you, but I admire you for your common sense and intellect.
Mohammed needs to listen & respect his wife. He needs to listen to her. She's clearly expressing that she's stressed, heart broken & hates relying on benefits cause she wants the best for her children & to be in a bigger home for her family, yet, hes seeing it as a joke. I feel so sorry for her.
Can't agree more
Abuse. She should approach the Islamic judicial council
@@esreen i am muslim and my husband behaves exactly like that man. What is this islamic juridical council and what do they do? Maybe they can put some sense into him.
I think we should Google it as I myself don’t know about it
He is treating his poor wife so badly. And as a grown man, he should have felt ashamed to marry a child. He needs to get off his butt and get a job, and start helping his wife with the children. It's not fair for her or the children to not have him making an attempt to provide and take care of them. At his age and lack of concern for what his wife is going through, he needs to be neutered.
I feel so bad for the second lady. The husbands all like, “I do what it says in the Bible. Go forth and multiply.” Dude, that doesn’t mean making your wife a baby making machine. Her parents sure did pick the wrong man for her. He also needs to get a job if wants to have a big family. Plus he wants to expand his family and he barely can take care of the family he has now.
Right? The Qur'an mandates that the husband provides, and that the wife has a right to her money. None of that is happening here.
Parents can truly be remarkable. I have no idea how they do it. I’m still in awe when I hear the stories of my grandma. She had 7 kids. When my grandfather wasn’t working, he was out drinking. So she was pretty much left to care, bathe, and feed all 7 children. 3 of them being tall muscular athlethic boys with bottomless pits for a stomach. She managed to care for each one during the day and THEN worked night shift cleaning a local hospital and at one point, volunteered to care for 2 elderly in-laws that use to hate her just because they thought she wasn’t good enough for their son. And in her older age, she raised and cared for 3 grandchildren (while still working night shift) all the way up until the day she died. No clue how that superwoman did it. But I’ve never been, nor will I ever be more proud of anyone in my life. I miss her so much.
Wow what an amazing woman. I admire her without ever meeting her.
RIP beautiful soul 🙏❤️
My grandma on my dads side had 13☠️☠️☠️☠️
They certainly don't make them like that anymore. A truly amazing woman!!!
Theres no way in hell imma bring a child into this world if I'm not financially stable
this pretty much sums up the current millenial situation, as boomers had kids at 17 millenials are waiting till 3o. they have no money or house
You are the complete opposite of Filipino couples.
Income: $200 a month
Children: 8
Maybe that may never happen in current climate
Thank you so fucking much . I don’t understand why people don’t get that .
Well some people don’t have choice and they have to keep the baby
I'm a progressive and all for supporting families with children (to an extent). BUT, if you've got 11 children and living off government benefits, another child should be the LAST thing on your mind.
Its unfair to the system.
Well, poor people have less access to birth control so.....although this case is different.... it's not always their fault.
@@Supiel If you watch the story you will see that the father isn't even trying to get a job or put his degrees to good use. He is deliberately trying to have more and more children because he knows he will get government benefits.
@@darrenhcook I literally said this case is different. I just don't believe you can blame poor people for having a lot of kids, especially when they don't have access to abortion, or good sex education, or birth control ect. Its obvious that this dude was shitty, but we only know this because we saw the video. Hopefully when you see other poor families with multiple kids, you don't pass the same judgment. [Like I said, this case is different] but if ppl have 11 kids and are living off government benefits, it doesn't always mean they have those kids because they want more money.
@@Supiel Well, you don't need a pill to not have babies. The man could pull out just in time... Many people do it. But some men are just selfish. Also, condoms are not expensive either. And if they don't know how sex and making babies work as you are trying to persuade us, well shame on educational institutions in the UK... or they are just stupid and irresponsible, I bet this is the truth here.
The Mom looks good for having 16 kids and one grand baby...they look young still. I don’t know how they can handle so much stress with so many kids such a big family..? Wow they are amazing parents!!! 💕
Hello how are you doing👋👋👋
She had the first one at 14, and I think they said she was 37.
The way those kids were acting in IKEA 😱👀
How is it that Mohamed has 7 college degrees and a doctorate and hasn't found work in 7 years? Could he not, at least, be a teacher??
He may be overqualified 😔so sad
Thandeka Mthethwa He could still get a job and provide something for his family.
He could do something. His wife suggested that he drive a cab or get a job in the shops and he shut her right down. He stated that a man with degrees couldn't be doing something like selling chocolates or something.
He chooses not to work. He would get extra benefits for studying. He just wants to live on benefits.
DeeVaBae Chronicles it has nothing to do with racism. There are plenty of high paid people of Indian decent in the UK. Around the world, you will find highly educated Indian doctors etc. This man chooses not to work.
I feel so bad for Noreen. Their house is a mess and she’s noticeably depressed even around family and friends. You noticed he spoke for them the entire time? Her husband is very irresponsible & thinks having kids is like shopping at the mall
My heart hurts for her dude
Really i told mines this is the last we have 6 it can't get too ur body ur mine but some men don't really care bout that
I’m exhausted with 2boys , it’s a blessing but more kids are more work, idk if any of the Pakistani wife family help around the house the other big family houses were much neater
Yeah, it seems like this is all fun and games to him 😵💫
I know she's miserable, she reminds me of my mother
I think Mouhammed just doesn't want to work. His wife said it herself-he has seven degrees but no job.
That's probably why he has so many degrees
Why work when you can get redistribute money from other workers taxes?
Felt so sorry for the second family especially the mother I don’t think people understand what really occurs during arranged marriages. My best friend was taken on a trip to Pakistan when she arrived she was taken to buy a new dress for a party which she didn’t know was that the party was her engagement party she was walked in and fat was told that there were three men sitting on a couch and that she was going to choose one of them and get married now she got to pick which man she was going to be married to that day. One of them was an educated another one simply wanted away to the US and pick a number 3 actually was a college graduate. She picked number three. She was forced to sign papers in a language she couldn’t read it was basically considered married. I’ll never forget that phone call from the party of her crying on the phone she could not believe what it happened to her she’s disabled and her parents thought they getting rid of her as in getting married would fix the problem.
If that wasn’t bad enough when she came back to the US with her new husband although technically they weren’t married in the US he basically drained her account. With the American wedding was being handled he was told to babysit a baby for about an hour when they came back they found the infant laying on the floor where they asked him why he had simply lay the baby on the floor and he said I don’t take care of babies that’s woman’s work. The day came for the wedding my friend cried and cried and cried at one point she refused to marry him in America she was slapped so hard that she fell onto the bed the next time I saw her she was obviously drugged she could even keep her eyes open and it was helped down the aisle by her parents. The grooms mother getting angry because she was basically asleep on the couch that they were doing photos she quickly became pregnant and when her new husband found out the baby was a girl he wanted nothing to do with it he wouldn’t buy her maternity clothes and didn’t even show up for the birth the nurses basically had to pin him when he finally did show up to get a car seat after that happened she was dropped off at her family‘s house because he didn’t want to deal with his new baby and wife she luckily was able to get a divorce after that she did cancel his visa although he begged her and offered to pay her money he later paid another person but I can’t imagine what she went through although she did end up with a beautiful daughter but it was your nightmare for her.
I can pretty much guarantee that this poor woman never actually had any say as to what was happening in our marriage I feel very sorry for her.
Oh my God that’s horrible 😞
Thank you for educating us. I feel for your friend and the mother of 10 kids who was forced to marry a man at 16.
Please long messages like these are not important, Just go straight to the point.
@@beholdtheman3161 don't tell me you read the whole thing bro. Or at least tried to read the whole things cause that's dumb. I read half of it like the 1st paragraph & I understood what happened (I skipped some parts so I didn't really read the WHOLE paragraph). Cope.
@@sokawai5 Nah bro, I didn't even look at it. Such messages are a waste of time.
"I realized we need to spend more time together as a couple." YOU HAVE 16 KIDS!!! I think you should stay away from each other!
Mandy St. Onge 😂 I was thinking the same!
I cry 🤣🤣
only married couple understand.. they might have time for sex but they dont have time to go out dating or holiday or honeymoon...
Lmao! 😂😂😂
They now have 20 kids! Or is it 21?
Mohammed needs therapy. He's using children a replacement for whatever love he's looking for. HIS own child even said as much. Tsk. Its a shame.
One thing I can optimistically hope for is that all of these children he's made have the potential to touch others' lives in beautiful and positive ways.
The second mother was arranged to marry a successful man in education at 32 but slowly watched his ambition dissipate in the real world.. I can see there is lots of love in that home but they do deserve more coming from him.
Lots of respect for the first family. As for the 2nd family...I feel for his wife. The man needs to ground himself in reality.
The teamwork of the first couple is AMAZING. They’re good at being parents because they know their responsibilities. Mad respect.
True but she said she wants more kids
Hmmmm it's made not mad..
They're actually geniuses. 👌
I agree. I love their interactions and how they work together. I applaud this couple and give them a lot of credit.
@@jasminesanders7737 9
It pains me to see the wife of the 2nd family... A victim of an arranged marriage while still underage & now is suffering from financial + emotional abuse from her greedy, selfish, pompous husband.
I hope she gets the courage divorces him & break free.
what do you mean by victim ...arranged married is not a prison or something, their marriege still have the same rights as love marriege no difference .
@@sabajahanzeb7115 But the husband doesn't respect the wife at all. She said she's unhappy and doesn't want more children but yet he still insists. He just sees her as a baby making machine. Plus, she was child, only 16 years old, when she was forced to marry him. "Arranged marriage" is just trash.
Me to
@@juliaj7939 Fair arranged marriage can work but a woman should never be married against her will and this is the problem with culture and traditions specially when they are being dictated by man.
There is a big difference between arranged and forced marriages
Imagine the Corona lockdowns with such large families. Especially the second one, since they live on benefits and thus smaller. Enough to drive anyone crazy.
The 21 yr old from the second family should really be working and studying so he can become independent and leave the household.
No he will not leave becoz he is a male. Only females will as they will get married max by 21 or 22.
I don't even want one child, let alone 16. But I have to admit, the Radfords all seem well loved, well fed, well organized and well clothed.
I dont want either ... but no one understands . @Lauren
Julie Sprik they have a utube channel called the radfords
It's great to have at least 3 kids, and at least this way you'd have someone to take care of you when ur older
Tv pays well
Julie Sprik They actually have a yt channel!!
Who else is stressed just by watching this video?😅
Me.
This is beyond crazy
Julian Inox that second family! Lawd!
🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
Omg the house so crowded and dirty😜
They come back with a baby atleast once a year 😂 the parents of 16 children are lovely and the kids are too, how amazing 👏
I can’t think of anything more depressing than an arranged marriage. I’d rather gouge my eyeballs out with a claw hammer. It’s daunting enough just finding someone who shares ur feelings as well as values / overall outlook on life. The idea of tying urself to an absolute stranger someone else chooses for u is just morbid.
For real tho...
Not all arranged marriages are like this.. i think you’re talking about forced marriages
The 1st parents are Rock stars. They are a team. If you’re going to have a large family that’s the way to do it.
Yes. Finally, someone who doesn´t hate on them!
They have more videos and are up to 19 kids now. They are truly amazing hard working people who love their kids.
And I’m sorry but considering the second family they’re house is pretty clean. I don’t understand how both the mother and father don’t work and their house looks like that
@@epicosity84 what's their youtube/instagram, do you know?
@@myrabbitispink no I dont know I've seen them on different unrelated videos.
If you can barely give your children what they need now why in the world would you continue to keep having kids makes no sense to me🙄🤦🏻♀️
I dont understand it either if you can be able to have a big family and want go for it but if you cant dont do it my parents had to go bankrupt years ago and there's only three of us know we are way better and bought a house in a very quiet area
Samantha Garcia some people really like big families. Or maybe it was unplanned. Having 16 plus kids is quiet common in places that don’t believe in contraception. And if you are traditional, sometimes people believe the more kids the better so they have choices on the children to take care of them when you’re old.
It’s breeding and absolutely terrible to expect the rest of us pay for their "pleasure". Go get a job, than you might be preoccupied with something useful instead of using public money!
I cannot judge others..it really os not my place. I will say...i had one child..then one more so she wouldnt be lonely and because i had more love to give. Then we stopped because we wanted to give them a quality childhood. Financially we wanted them to be better off than we were when we grew up.
Its like doing drugs. You know its bad for you but you cant stop just that easily
May god help the second family and may the wife’s dreams come true! Ameen.
She needs a miracle, poor woman.
I feel sorry for the second family. The first one decided to have them and they work and can afford it but living on benefits, being a babymaking machine is depressing. A colleague of mine is from Lebanon and his wife is 15 years younger and constantly pregnant. It makes me sad that she doesn't have a say in it or a life on her own.
OMg The father of 16 looks happy and work every minute for his children and still manage to make his wife smile and happy...i think he got 16 balls no comment for the 2nd family
This was taped long ago she now has 20 plus children
True , he’s amazing and his wife happy..not like that second dad..lazy ass
Jean Mariano You do not see all of their problems. Quality time with each child is non-existent as shown in the video. These parents should have their heads examined. Smh.
@@fauxmanchu8094 but if you could see how they spend money for foods we could see that the father really work hard to let his kids eat and eat and eat as the mother said
that second dad seems so oblivious he thinks that the whole family is happy but his wife looks like she’s about to crack from the pressure
Violet G, he’s so immature, I get anxiety.
My goodness the mother is so beautiful. The patience they must have with all those kids, hats off
What I'm wondering is "do they know their kids?" With so many, how do you spend time with each of them, grow a bond with them, have them not feel like they're just one more but are loved for who they are?
The second husband makes me sick. He is a lazy self centered man. He should be willing to work any and all jobs to support them. I would leave any man who was like that.
His voice though....I can't
Catherine Gee agreed but in there culture they are not suppose to divorce and the husband is the leader
Agreed.. he is so useless. If you're not going to go get a job, at least clean the house
@@TheTeamcullen7 Not arguing with you, but thats so stupid. He clearly isn't thinking of the children he has now and all of their quality of life. Poor wife.
Mika Contreras yeah dumb patriarchy
The baker dad is hardworking and a good dad
Yes
So is his wife. I can't believe she still irons lol. Two hard workers who are frugal and on the same page. They do better than most parents no matter how many kids they have
I agree.
Completely! I love that family, they are the hardest working and best parents I’ve ever seen! I have so much respect for them ❤️
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The second family in IKEA is exactly why me and my 4 siblings would get treats at the end of the meal in every restaurants we went to. We were just so quiet and calm that servers & owners always got from "omg noooo" to "your kids are so nice!" XD
I feel bad for the second family, especially the wife. She looks so so sad and uncomfortable.
Noreen is just this reaIIy sweet person who never reaIIy got the chance to expIore freedom. I can't imagine being married at such a young age to such an oIder man.
Mahrukh Farooq/April 5th, 2021: Why didn't he choose a wife aged 25 or 30??????
@@charlottebonnie5320 because he's a jerk
@@mahrukhfarooq and because it was a forced Marriage 😔I feel so bad for her she deserves better
@@ash8731 yeah she never had a chance to choose love 😔 now she's not happy an overwhelmed living poor
@@Jesussavedme exactly she could’ve chosen someone she actually loved and wanted to marry and maybe have kids if she wanted them and she could’ve been at least humble but sadly she couldn’t 😔
My heart broke when the second wife started to cry and talked about her dreams, broken heart, and her children’s future. No one should be pressured to have a ton of kids and live a life they didn’t agree to because of their husbands dream. That’s why arrange marriages are a crap shoot. People’s aspirations and dreams don’t exactly match up, and one partners dream tend to dominate at the expense of the other
It's so sad.
He was 32 and she was 16. I'm pretty sure she didn't even want to get married.
I got two children and I feel like I'm gunna go crazy sometimes.
I feel for her.
Plus he's doesn't work. He wants all these children but can't afford them.
I agree, it’s very sad, but not all arranged marriages are like this. I think you mean forced marriages
The first family is so calm and organized despite having 16kids.. the second family gives me headache
I think the difference in these two families is that first family both parents actually wants more kids.. the second only dad wants
Hello how are you doing 👋👋😀☺️☺️👋
I love how the Radford kids are so honest and outspoken🙂. The parents need to stop! You cant spend time and give much needed attention to so many kids!
They had 6 more after this
Those kids may not have a lot of one on one time with their parents but they have a loving family.
my anxiety has anxiety seeing the Salim home and the pure feeling of being overwhelmed on the moms face. She’s surrounded but looks so alone
Every pregnancy/birth/breastfeeding a woman carries out is really rough on the body!!! A woman should have the right to say when she is finished with her child birthing years, with no pressure or guilt.
@@uscgal04 no. It's not a decision for couples to make. The man can suggest, but the woman gets the absolute, final word on the matter. With no fear of judgement. It's her body that had to do the hard, dangerous work. No one else has a say in the matter but her.
34 weeks with baby #4 and my body feels like it is going to break! I don't know how these women manage to do it without major medical issues!
@@ZacandSophie Some women's bodies are just good at giving birth, others aren't. It depends on the person.
I assume her body is just used to it by now tbh
@@ZacandSophie ikr? Pregnant 19 weeks now with no.3 and I don't want more kids anyway, but I realize my body couldn't stand another pregnancy. This is the first time I really have some medical issues and here we are with these families and their 16 kids 💁♀️🙄
In the second family, the poor mother had an arranged marriage at 16 years old to a 32 year old crusty old man. I can't even image living in her life and having to take care of so many kids (the amount of anxiety and unhappiness must be terrible to go through).
Normally I hate the large families I feel the kids are neglected to an extent. But the first family was wonderful. They looked very loving, organized, clean.
"God will do it."
"God gave you hands and feet - go do something"
FINALLY THANK YOU
And then he says: "What, a doctor of philosophy working in a shop"? This is like the worst attitude ever :/
The first family with 16 kids she got the real man, a responsible dad. And you can see him preparing the lunch boxes gasshhh 😻
That's how the magic keeps happening...
They have 20 kids now
@@khamisajok7070 I believe it's actually gone up to 22 kids recently
@@notacanadian278 wow
These are the families that should ve extreme couponing
I love “The Radfords”...they are such a sweet couple and have a beautiful family. GOD Bless them all!✝️🕊❤️
This is legitimately the definition of blasphemy. God doesn't condemn you to have an army of children whom you can barely recognize let alone teach, he says raise your children with love and dignity. (Timothy 3:4-5)
As a woman who struggles to get pregnant we are forever grateful and blessed to have one child ❤️
This guy says he sometimes wants to run away to a free life...your wife married you when she was 16!! You had 31 years of a free life! Respect your wife! Shame on you for wanting more..so you love kids? Love the ones you have!!
He only sees his wife as a baby factory. He needs to feel labor pain himself so he'll know what it feels like to give birth.
@@rjsils3842 thing is he's so crazy if could he'd probably impregnate himself as well lol
@@ThahnG413 Your coment made my day lol
@@ThahnG413 I mean, my wife brought me to a clinic that made me feel labor pain. Now, even if she still wants to have more babies, I refused since I felt bad for the pain she has to go though just to give birth.
@@rjsils3842 oh Jesus now she's gonna want to adopt instead 😂 choose wisely my friend
"He has a bank".
"Yeah, but you need money to put in the bank duhh".
that was so funny.
That is exactly how siblings behave. XD
She said bank card
Aww the shot of their darling little socks hanging on the clothesline is so adorable!
The fact that Noe and his wife have been together since they were 14 and 16 is just amazing!🥰
Enjoyed the hardworking first couple so much. The second family made my head hurt. Everything about them was pure chaos, from the hoarder house to the screaming kids. That poor mom. Her life is sad.
What amazes me is the fact that they will apply for money help for the kids, but she is clearly depressed. Why the agency that help them with money, does not help this woman with psychological help? It is beyond me, she looks miserable.
"I've got a degree in Philosophy and you want me to sell chocolates?" Sir, I don't think you have the right to choose what job you should have considering the number of mouths you have to feed. There are successful people who have a degree somewhere far from their current job but they are more than financially stable. I believe that opportunities out there could lead you again to the profession that you love but first, you must do the role of a parent to your kids. Realistically speaking, the emotional support that you are providing for your kids is not enough for them. They need decent housing, proper education, and good environment for them to develop. If you want an easy life, then the number of your kids should not be like that.
Actually he could make a lot money being a chocolatier.
Same crap in France: "I spent 5 years getting an electrical engineering degree on the state dime... it's EVERYONE ELSE"S fault that I'm too stupid to get one of the 15 electrical engineering jobs available this year! So I'm going to live off the dole... no way am I going to stack cans in a warehouse for minimum wage!... The world owes me a living!"
@@tararasque932 same like in malaysia. some graduates whine when some employers comment about their attitude and attire during job interview - we go into university to study, not to learn how to talk and wear clothes. when they dont get the job - 'those who get job have cables. we don't know anyone so we don't get the job' or 'we studied hard in the university and you want us to work in a shop/factory/etc?'
He is crazy
@@tararasque932 i understand where you are coming from as long as you dont have kids or an responsibility to others.If thats not the case you might need to start sorting out your prioirities
Just love Noel and Sue. Tohave this many children and still be smiling, happy and positive, they were obviously cut out for this lifestyle because not all of us are!
Team work is amazing for couples. I'm impressed by the way they handle their family. Love them so much.
Ugh.... That second family makes me sick. He's lazy, she's depressed and their house is disgusting squawler. They need to stop.
I was thinking the same thing! Like wtf! He's on benefits and wants more kids! He needs too get a vasectomy or get a dam job!
32yr old weds a 16yr old? I realize different cultures but she was a CHILD!! So very wrong on so many levels.
Teresa Miller yeah she ruined her life I feel so bad
Elxhq Iwsum he * he ruined her life
*-nice-* she too she could’ve said I don’t want no more babies and get a divorce
For the First family: The relationships between and the mom and oldest daughters is so wonderful to see! And the husband and wife! And all the kids, geeze! Just the fact that the kids want to share a room and sleep together, and how the older ones are happy their parents are going out instead of complaining. Just a very nice family. Those parents did a wonderful job raising their kids!
Right! People say they don't get enough attention, but they seem content and are well taken care of
Yes! I really feel like they’re happy, and trully care for the children
They have a CZcams channel and they really are an amazing family, the mum and dad do a wonderful job.
You didn't hear the young girls saying they cant get nice things because there are so many of them and if there was less children they would have better things?
@@fergieingrid2521 did you watch? They have plenty.
The Radfords now theyre 22! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
3:36 I love this woman!! 😂 that showcase of frustration was too good and then her quick "sorry" lmaoo
How can children and family services not be involved with that second family? It blows my mind the filth, nastiness, and unruliness that goes on in that house. The dad is like a big kid himself.
Sadly, FACS don't check every case or family, because, well, they're lazy too. So many children live like this, and only in cases of very extreme abuse, there's intervention.
When I first saw the house i was shocked how nasty it was! It was like an episode of hoarders
Their system in the UK is super over worked. They have loving parents that aren’t on drugs, feed them, and make sure they go to school. The services are only getting involved in the worst of the worst
@@bonnieparkertheoutlaw7353 exactly! I compared it to the first family and their house was organized, clean and when there were droppings on the carpet, their mom would clean it up. Unlike the other family, it's just chaos. The man wants more children and he is so deaf to his wife's plea and blind to her unhappiness. He is forever talking and has not worked in 6 year's. Goodness gracious and he's still wanting more children. Somebody should tell him to get a job!
@@audreydoyle5268 I wouldn't say their lazy but rather it is a broken system that lacks the proper funding, support and structure to properly protect children and families at risk. It is like this in many countries.
She IRONS?! That's the craziest part of this whole show. I haven't ironed in 5 years.
😂
JUST WHAT I WAS THINKING
I still iron 🤷♀️ isnt that a thing anymore 😅
I try to fold straight away but if I don't i just throw the clothes in the dryer problem solved
Samantha Pentz lmfaoooo
It's so cute seeing how young all the radfords are here!
I'm 30 years old pregnant with my first little guy..... and wow this video shows me that life with children is just a blessing ❤ idk how the parents do it, or how i will do it, but God is blessing us with such miracles🩷🩷🩷🩷
I felt bad for Dr. Salim's wife when she said her heart is broken inside.
do you some need help kids feed and your children need helping
Me too
yeah, "dr", my ass. don't care what his magic paper says.
Kristal Bell, he’s a Dr that doesn’t want to work??
Happens when u get forced into marriage as a child with an adult.
When Muhammad's wife said "hat ja" it doesn't mean "stop it" 😂 it acutally means "stay away" . She is frustrated poor thing. I feel for her.
I saw tears in her eyes when she told him that he has burdened her and the kids. So sad to feel this way at him.
Hat ja means yes not stay away
@@trevorandhaleylillis3326 "hat ja" in Hindi means stay away.
@@trevorandhaleylillis3326 wtf. When tf was "hat ja" yes?
Trevorandhaley Lillis it’s “Hat Jao” (Hindi) and it means either “Move away ,Get aside” or “Get lost, Go Away”
I had 5 kids (2 sets of twins) and married a man with 3 kids. Our big beautiful family grew up together. There was a 2 year timeframe when I was a single mom where I got help with foodstamps and child care. I was a hard worker though and now am an engineer and my kids are fairly grown (14, 15, 16, 16, 17, 17, 20 and 20) and we own our own home on 23 acres and a few kids have moved out. I know how 8 kids were, 16 is impossible for me lol
The first family is so full of joy and function in a way I can’t and I
Only had two. God bless them anc they do everything with a smile
How does he have 7 degrees and a PhD in philosophy and he’s living off of benefits ???!!! Ok clearly he’s lazy
It's philosophy lol
He's so lazy, no job with all those degrees, not even a teaching job
@@yippehanako Ph.D. or doctorate of philosophy can be in anything, including engineering, science, accounting or psychology (anything except medicine). I would not be laughing too hard considering a considerable amount of technology around us is developed by scientists/researchers of whom have a Ph.D. But he is not utilizing his degree that is for sure.
He kinda seems that way with how he fights with his wife about employment.... but to give him the benefit of the doubt, I don’t want to judge. He could possibly be overqualified. We once rented out a room to someone who had a PhD and his wife left him because he couldn’t find a job. He couldn’t even apply for McDonalds because he was “too smart” for the job
@@yippehanako you have no idea what you're talking about. sorry.
The Radfords are goals. Like not the 16 kids part but they have home cooked dinners and packed lunches and their children are well behaved, get along with each other, and there is clearly lots of openness, love and trust between parents and children.
You’re so right about that, except for if you’re the type of person who is not opposed to having a huge family 🥰 the radfords are cool as parents
I feel so bad for the second family, and all that bullying :(
All in all...there is alot of love within both families!
37:57 his face says he really loves his job lol
Hearing Mohammed say "I love kids" felt so wrong when you know he was in his 30s and married his wife at 16 years old 😩
I definitely got a nasty vibe just from watching the video! I feel for her and her children. She even called him out and said he has hands and feet he should be working! They wouldn’t last in America that’s for damn sure.
takkatt very well said! Couldn’t agree more
Henrietta Eriksson it was arraigned I don’t he had much of a choice
Henrietta Eriksson, you’re looking at it wrong and from a different culture. Man and woman both don’t have a say in their arranged marriages. 16 is the age of consent. Besides, they most probably got married in South Asia, where it’s common. Don’t accuse an innocent man of something like that. Although lazy and immature, he loves his wife and kids.
takkatt. Tell that to their parents. They clearly said they got married in Pakistan. It’s 100% normal. They clearly love each other. Even if he’s a child and frustrates Mrs salim. The doc isn’t even about their marriage all those years ago. Next.
I am from Pakistan and 16 years old no offense the second family is making me feel uncomfortable 😣
What all is similar and what is different from your own experience? Also these days is it common for arranged marriages to have such a huge age gap?
@@infinite4392 this generation now we actually have a choice its not forced so we can choose if we want to get married
@@infinite4392 not at all.. now new generations are independent and it will be a taboo actually to have 16 children and a family like this mohammad in Pakistan lol..😂
Really mate..I am from Pakistan too & we cannot find any people now a days like this Mohammad he is such a bad example..he is still living in the past like 40 years ago.. 😑
infinite43 eh no my parents are Muslim and I can still date but I am not allowed to have sex until I’m 18 then I can choose things myself
you can see by the state of the saleem home how dysfunctional they are as a couple. she is so lost in depression and overwhelmed with too many children, no support and a husband who does nothing but add to the chaos. there was a reason he was that old and unmarried, and what happened that he can't get hired as a teacher?
I love you all guys....such a beautiful family..hats off to Noel and Sue..love you both❤️😘
The Radfords don't just have children for joy, they are well aware of both financial and emotional needs of the kids and they work hard to give them everything. Good parents, good people, nice family. :)
Agreed
Love thier channel.
I love that family
@Anne Day If you search "The Radford Family" it'll pop up.
Then for what? For what purpose(s) do they want so many kids?
Maybe Mohammad should be a teacher if he loves children so much, put that passion into his work and be paid for it rather than treat his wife like an incubator to essentially produce him his personal classroom.
Oh Well they said that he had a job teaching
Heather Alisa Yeah, but judging by his degree it was at a university not the primary/high school teaching that I believe Oh Well was talking about.
Mr Salim can teach if he wants too. He seems to want a plush university job. There's a need for teachers all over the country.
He doesn't want to teach because he is getting twice the salary a teacher gets, so he would rather enslave other people through taxes to pay for his lifestyle. Like he does with his wife and kids... see the pattern.
I recommend just a whole bunch of rice, beans, eggs, and chicken for a big family.
After watching this, I'm happy and content that I have only 2 children... I couldn't imagine having to raise 16 kids so I tip my hat off to the Radford's... The second family however... I bet the Dad's only saying he wants more because he's not the one suffering through pregnancy, birth etc. If he could ever think about his WIFE'S thoughts and feelings and stepped into her shoes for a minute, maybe he'd change his mind
If the physical burden of pregnancy was on men ,this scenario would not happen, even for one child. I'm sure.
@red x17 I doubt it. The innate nature of the male species is to multiply, NOT to endure the actual burden. Men hit it and quit it. They'd die if they were bloated and couldnt get their rocks off every night of the week😂
@@trynatural23 how do you know
It's science people. Why do you think women outnumber men on the planet?🙄😂🤦🏽♀️
Men are designed to hunt. They were created as the pollinator of the planet to sustain the population. It takes 9 months for 1 woman to bring forth a child. If circumstances allow, twins, triplets, etc. A man can impregnate more than woman at a time. In many cases, HE DOES!🙄
I would argue men are hoes by nature.🤷🏾♀️ it is what it is. All by natural design. And HELL NO a man is NOT going to want to be pregnant! That shit is painful! Men can barely survive the damn flu.😒
@red x17 liberals, Muslims (a Muslim is one who submits their will to the One God. They can be of any race.) and Asians all do multiply. By way OF THE LIBERAL, MUSLIM, AND ASIAN WOMAN! DUH!🙄 the MEN are too busy trying to tell US what to do with our uterus. They not trying to have their own!🙄😒😂
@@berca6420 because I passed the 4th grade. THAT'S how I know🙄😒🙄
Mrs. Saleem is only 37, but she looks like she's 50. She's had a rough time with all those kids.
lostinthelookingglas She doesn’t look 50, she just looks her age.
takkatt I don’t think so.
takkatt P .” B
She looks good for her age!
Agreed I thought she was about 50 also at first sight
So nice watching old videos of the Radford kids
The radfords are a great family. Its super cute to see chloe. She was so young.