my past and how things came to be - winter in a little house

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    I thought I’d share a bit about my former lifestyle, and how being true to myself helped me make peace with moving and starting a new life and job. I’m starting to divide my videos up, adding a more casual conversation section at the end of each, let me know what you think! It’s getting chilly over here, winter is coming and as the dark settles in I have become reflective on my past, and how accepting who I am has led me to seek a quieter life more in alignment with my personality. Plus I wanted to try out my pasta maker and decorate for winter! Whether you are celebrating a holiday this season or not, I am wishing you a lovely December full of joy and peace ❤️
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  • @TheCottageFairy
    @TheCottageFairy  Před 2 lety +657

    BTS @ 7:56. I’m officially a quarter of a century! Hoping for several more ☺️ I thought I’d share a bit about my former lifestyle, and how being true to myself helped me make peace with my personality and embrace a new rhythm. My life has changed so much since I was 18. I’m starting to divide my videos up, adding a more casual conversation section at the end of each, let me know what you think!!!
    The liquid recipe I made is Orange Jelly 🤍 links in description

    • @meyhuorphone1199
      @meyhuorphone1199 Před 2 lety +2

      Hi😚Me 🇰🇭😘🌈🥰💕

    • @younis9545
      @younis9545 Před 2 lety +1

      I loved that. I mean when you said I am officially a quarter of a century old. Watching the vlog. 😍🤩

    • @mariarosaleon6708
      @mariarosaleon6708 Před 2 lety +6

      Happy belated birthday dear friend ♥️🎂🎊🎉💐🎶🙏♥️
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience with me. I wish this new year is the best year yet.

    • @larissaalmeida9602
      @larissaalmeida9602 Před 2 lety +3

      😍😍🤗❤️💮🌹
      Muita paz você transmite...

    • @larissaalmeida9602
      @larissaalmeida9602 Před 2 lety +1

      Gostaria muito que se fosse possível,
      Legendas em português nos seus vídeos...❤️😊💐
      Mas Amo demais cada um..
      Fico sempre na expectativa por mais um vídeo...
      Deus te abençoe..

  • @boomerchop
    @boomerchop Před 2 lety +1221

    I have 40 years on you. You may be only 25, but you are wise beyond your years. Beautiful video, beautiful food, and a lovely life. Thank you for sharing and yes, do please continue your two-part video format. I enjoy our quiet chats.

    • @stacypruett1588
      @stacypruett1588 Před 2 lety +2

      ♥️🙏

    • @almalopez3959
      @almalopez3959 Před 2 lety

      🙏♥️

    • @debmadden4157
      @debmadden4157 Před 2 lety +21

      @Paul Webb. Very well said. I agree with you. What I'd do 41 yrs ago with the wisdom Paola has.

    • @ramyavanmaele9643
      @ramyavanmaele9643 Před 2 lety +5

      @@debmadden4157 yes I agree

    • @dodiekoehler5256
      @dodiekoehler5256 Před 2 lety +15

      Yes I really enjoy these two part videos. You are so blessed to be figuring out all this life stuff at such a young age. It's taken me much longer. 😊❤🎄❤

  • @jamesgardner8986
    @jamesgardner8986 Před 2 lety +630

    Who else is tucking into their weekly therapy session with Paola?
    Happiest of Birthdays to you :)

    • @marandamurphy
      @marandamurphy Před 2 lety +8

      I thought it was just me that considers this therapy. You are hilarious @jamesgardner.

    • @samarneson9475
      @samarneson9475 Před 2 lety +3

      Always! ❄️

    • @deborahjudyboucher1072
      @deborahjudyboucher1072 Před 2 lety +7

      I look forward to her peaceful voice every week.

    • @fairytalesoffink
      @fairytalesoffink Před 2 lety +3

      Amen. Lol 🙌✨💗🙏

    • @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT
      @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT Před 2 lety +8

      Paola provides a weekly oasis of calming insight and loveliness to help us weather the storm of a chaotic world. She is the best thing I have ever discovered on CZcams by far!

  • @GILady86
    @GILady86 Před 2 lety +64

    Boy, I thought I was the only over 50 years old enjoying this young ladies videos. I am happy to see I am not the only one. This woman is fantastic. Thanks for your videos, Paola.

    • @powerofloveism
      @powerofloveism Před rokem +1

      I will be 55 next week and I am watching, glad to know I am not thee only woman who does not take kindly to driving in the winter. I am just so nervous , I live in Northern Ont. gets dark at 4:30 pm going into winter , another reason I am more comfortable near home. I had a job for six years just across the hwy and down another back road , it was a good job and close to home. Unfortunately having a Brain Tumor got me fired and so I have been staying house bound and taking a college course and actually just wrote my final exam. My goal was to write my final exam before my 55th birthday so I have at least reached that goal. I know getting used to the cold, the snow and harsh conditions are not easy and even compounded when you move to a new location and do not know anyone

  • @dianeshiffer364
    @dianeshiffer364 Před 2 lety +402

    I want to let you know that you have made a new friend! My daughter Millen (who is close to your age!) has Down syndrome and so appreciates your kind gentle demeanor and the slow quiet way in which you move through your tasks. Coincidentally we are making noodles to add to our soup this evening and it was fun for both of us watch your method. Please know that you are very loved and your work is so appreciated.

    • @sharonerb9236
      @sharonerb9236 Před 2 lety +5

      💗💕💗💕💗💕💗💕💗

    • @goodshepherd3438
      @goodshepherd3438 Před 2 lety +11

      @Diane Shiffer
      God blessed your precious daughter.
      My name is also Diane
      I am 77years old from Canada 🇨🇦❤

    • @amandaclaudetteg
      @amandaclaudetteg Před 2 lety +3

      Diane, are you on tik tok?? If so, your videos are so calming. Makes so much sense you watch Paola as well 💗

    • @lizmcauley7169
      @lizmcauley7169 Před 2 lety +4

      So nice to read this. My sister has Downs Syndrome, I miss her so much ❤

    • @dianeshiffer364
      @dianeshiffer364 Před 2 lety +8

      @@amandaclaudetteg Yes! I am @YourChubbyVintageNana! I’m so charmed that you watch my videos honey. Thank you 😘

  • @wellamarie5600
    @wellamarie5600 Před 2 lety +334

    Hi Paola! In response to your question to viewers regarding your new video breakdown: I really enjoy how you are currently breaking down your videos with a more cinematic experience in the beginning and the talking portion at the end. However, do whatever feels best to you! I find that when we do what feels most authentic to us, we shine most brightly and our environment can feel that. Thanks for sharing little bits of magic with us every week! It's both inspirational and much appreciated!

    • @MyBestLife1
      @MyBestLife1 Před 2 lety +12

      Just wanted to cosign this perfectly worded comment! I agree with you 💯%

    • @riannatripp6594
      @riannatripp6594 Před 2 lety +3

      Ditto

    • @chatswithdonna6030
      @chatswithdonna6030 Před 2 lety +3

      This. I've loved everything you've done so trust your instincts and do what feels right at the time. We will follow you wherever you take us. :-) Happy birthday!

    • @AwkwardBirb
      @AwkwardBirb Před 2 lety +11

      Same! The first part feels like going for a walk with a friend and the second like sitting down for a chat with them. ❤️

    • @jenenemathews8770
      @jenenemathews8770 Před 2 lety +4

      Agreed!

  • @tammyroyal7547
    @tammyroyal7547 Před 2 lety +247

    Here's some wisdom from a 50 year old. Definitely take care of your health because before you know it time creeps up on you & you're middle aged. What choices you make now will greatly impact your life later. Also, enjoy your life because it goes by so quickly & better to live with memories than regret. Love your videos the way you're doing them now. I enjoy our visits so much ❤️☺️🐶

    • @Paul020
      @Paul020 Před 2 lety +5

      This is very true. It would take a great deal of maturity to grasp in ones 20's.

    • @SusanChristmas
      @SusanChristmas Před 2 lety +20

      I remember my dad telling me and my friends who were in our late teens how quickly we would be middle aged and that we would have no idea where all that time went we laughed at the thought we could ever be so old but that is exactly what happened

    • @maybee...
      @maybee... Před 2 lety +1

      Someone once said to me that life is short, I wonder how he got so wise, he was 2 years older than me, I was 21 at the time.

    • @KP-ej7gc
      @KP-ej7gc Před 2 lety

      @@maybee... that’s deep man

  • @anthonyskrobul3726
    @anthonyskrobul3726 Před 2 lety +35

    I'm 70 years old, and I like to think I have gained some wisdom from age. You are wise beyond your years. I think living close to nature helps nurture wisdom. I love the two-part video format. Thank you for sharing your charming life with us. I pre-ordered your book, and I look forward to reading it.

  • @irisheyes8433
    @irisheyes8433 Před 2 lety +4

    I bought a tree in a pot which I will plant after Christmas. This is my plan from now on, every year, instead of cutting a tree for Christmas, I will be planting one

  • @jennifers1977
    @jennifers1977 Před 2 lety +122

    I believe the same that everyone is special and no one is more so than another. I try to explain this to my little 9 yr old daughter hoping she believes it as well.

  • @kiyanania
    @kiyanania Před 2 lety +268

    I appreciate your authenticity and vulnerability in these videos. As someone who is sensitive or at least I’ve been told, which I don’t mind, I love that part of me. I feel deeply every emotion. I can drown or float in my own tears, I can feel alive or burn in my own anger. I love love. I love the feeling of love. I love loving on living creatures. Where I live I always felt out of place with people due to their life styles that didn’t resonate with me. It’s nice to know I am not alone in feeling, alone and indifferent.

    • @whoisrune
      @whoisrune Před 2 lety +5

      This resonates with me! Sending you alot of love♡♡♡

    • @kiyanania
      @kiyanania Před 2 lety +2

      @@whoisrune Aw thank you, same to you beautiful 🤍

    • @arnicepernice8656
      @arnicepernice8656 Před 2 lety +6

      You have a way with words😊

    • @margietucker1719
      @margietucker1719 Před 2 lety +5

      When I read your comment kiyana--I could really relate to your words. Sometimes I feel such a deep love for all the living creatures, I wish I could just enfold them all into a circle of protection and keep them safe. I too...am out of place with most people...as their lifestyles don't resonate with me either. This has always been true, throughout my life. It is always a joy to find others who are like-minded.

    • @kiyanania
      @kiyanania Před 2 lety +6

      @@margietucker1719 aww, I don’t comment much on here or on channels much, because I don’t want to cause discord or uncomfort for others with my opinion. But I’m so happy it brought you a sense of familiarity. We are here. 🤍

  • @DianaKayUSA
    @DianaKayUSA Před rokem +14

    I took a mental health day today. I baked, cooked our fav dinner, crafted, sewed, and stumbled upon you, TheCottageFairy. Wow! I’m hooked.

  • @shepherdessofskymeadow
    @shepherdessofskymeadow Před 2 lety +182

    It honestly blows my mind that you only just turned 25. You are wise beyond your years! Wishing you all the best in this next year and many more to come. Thank you for sharing your gifts with the world. 💛

  • @kcorn04
    @kcorn04 Před 2 lety +147

    Ready for my weekly fix! Going through a lot of anxiety right now and I always look forward to beautiful and calm videos. They are a wonderful reminder to just focus on the important things in life 😊

  • @rosemarywilliams9969
    @rosemarywilliams9969 Před 2 lety +130

    At 25 I was at my high point in life. Trying so hard to be the perfect wife the perfect student and the perfect carrier woman. I paid attention to what everyone around me I admired said I should do, that I lost myself. Being a people pleaser is like leaving a kettle running and forgetting all about it. Trying to acquire the highest wealth while being a housewife was all too much before I snapped and everything came crashing down. 😔It took a long time to come to terms with myself and get back to my personal relationship with God. Now that I'm 36, I spend more time reminding myself of the person I am and not care about what phase in life people think I should be in. I know myself more am closer to my values and a lot less stressed and no longer needing medication to live my best life. I would tell anyone younger now to just be you and don't live by other people's expectations no matter how well they mean.
    🤗HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU FAIRY LADY.

    • @liz_21
      @liz_21 Před 2 lety +3

      Loved your thoughts 🤍

    • @Amiraa255
      @Amiraa255 Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks for sharing your tough experience...you are great until right now to hold of all. And i wish you have a good life always and be happy..

    • @chloemartel9927
      @chloemartel9927 Před 2 lety +9

      @Rosemary Williams, you found your true identity. It is who we are in our relationship with Christ. Until we find that we are lost.

    • @snowwhite2146
      @snowwhite2146 Před 2 lety +5

      Exactly! Don't follow the crowd! Be individual YOU.

  • @jonkoepnick3012
    @jonkoepnick3012 Před 2 lety +82

    It's ironic to me that you thought you were not interesting enough just being you. As you are being yourself now, you are infinitely more interesting than people who just go to clubs. You're videos are beautifully done and your lifestyle is so intriguing. Good for you. All the best.

  • @lizbruso334
    @lizbruso334 Před 2 lety +30

    I can’t help but feel that I stumbled upon your videos by divine intervention of some sort. I’ve been feeling lost and sad lately and going through some major life changes this past year and your videos and content are extremely comforting for me. I’m trying to change….and work on myself. Trying to figure out life on life’s terms now that things have changed a lot for me at the age of 40. Thank you so much. 💫💕

  • @brightpurpleviking
    @brightpurpleviking Před 2 lety +56

    I wish I had lived like this in my 20s. But it’s never too late to begin today 💜

  • @HowCaseySeesIt
    @HowCaseySeesIt Před 2 lety +137

    No judgment to anyone who likes clubbing and partying, but I never liked it either. It made me feel like such an outcast in college for not liking it and it became isolating. I’m 29 now and it’s better, but I still struggle with it sometimes. I appreciate you talking about it.

  • @gerryannn
    @gerryannn Před rokem +32

    So calm, relaxing, and very comforting. I love listening to your voice :>

  • @chippychick6261
    @chippychick6261 Před 2 lety +103

    I was mesmerized with the care you took to prepare the pasta. Not just food but art. 💛

  • @LeftTenantCaprice
    @LeftTenantCaprice Před 2 lety +14

    You are much wiser than I would expect from someone so young. This is a lesson in humility. You can learn from anyone.

  • @RobynG70
    @RobynG70 Před 2 lety +116

    Youre a very beautiful young woman with the eye and heart of an artist... Im enjoying getting to know you a little more in the new style of video. Im quite a bit older than you (51) and listening to you lets me know as long as we have young people like you out there, we're all going to be okay. Happy birthday!! 🍨🧁🍭🍰🎂🍾🥂

    • @Eloisa-LissyRChi
      @Eloisa-LissyRChi Před rokem

      Yees she has an artistic eye, how she focus her camera

  • @janshifferd972
    @janshifferd972 Před 2 lety +15

    I am 70 now! My head says I am 25! I was in Greece on my 25th Birthday having a wonderful meal gazing at the Mediterranean Sea! Seems a life time ago! Enjoy every year because they fly by! Keep your videos just as they are!

  • @nennepanrikefairytaleart4773

    Your message is so healing...
    We are limitless beings. We do not have to define everything inside us.
    I recognize what you are saying so much, the feeling of not belonging in high-sounding parties.
    Thank you for sharing your life so openly, allowing us to learn from you ...
    Watching your videos for me is like an inner cup of hot chocolate. With that I mean a room of peace for introverts, like me who think the world is moving much too fast and it is ever so important to learn how to slow everything down inside of us.
    A late happy birthday and take care!!

  • @joannekempf3350
    @joannekempf3350 Před 2 lety +38

    Socks! I love getting socks! Looking back to when I was 25 I was still quite a child. While I had just gotten married, I was very much looking at marriage and life with an unrealistic romantic mindset. I had lost my mom two years before and I think I was looking for something to replace the secure feeling I lost when she died. Although the marriage lasted 29 years I don’t feel I truly grew up until I reached the 1/2-century mark. Life is such an interesting journey. Thank you for sharing little snippets of yours.

    • @delightfullydotty7130
      @delightfullydotty7130 Před 2 lety +3

      Me too….I’m 49 and haven’t been an adult for long🙂

    • @michellejarvis7878
      @michellejarvis7878 Před 2 lety +6

      Me three...grief and loss can really stunt growth, as it did in my case. Fortunately I'm a new adult on her way to being happy and well...at 56 years.

  • @ICExcellenceT2
    @ICExcellenceT2 Před 2 lety +109

    The story about you following your friends to outings spoke to my soul. I've wrestled with my identity during my college years and even occasionally in the present, eventually feeling like I didn't have one at all if I didn't take interest in what the people around me did. Following your videos, you embody an entire personality that many would admire and seek for themselves. Your testimony invites others to trust who they are and pursue whatever interests truly appeal to them. Thank you for sharing, and happy belated!

    • @marialyshoj8963
      @marialyshoj8963 Před 2 lety +1

      Thankyou for this beautiful comment! I just came across a book about "HSP" highly sensitive personality, or something similar. I could really recognise myself - and others around me - in that. Have you heard about that? It's always comforting to realise that one is not alone... Lots of love!

  • @ritaking8827
    @ritaking8827 Před 2 lety +5

    I turned 54 in November. I can tell you, that you never stop wondering where you are in life, or where your going. You never stop looking ahead, and looking back. You never should. This is how we grow, and learn. How boring life would be if we did stop... and I got socks for my birthday also. BIG FUZZY ONES! Getting old is beautiful. Happy Birthday.

  • @KeshLife
    @KeshLife Před 2 lety +65

    Your content inspires me a lot for a simplistic life! To value what nature gifts is with and to stay grounded. Mostly your videos really calms me down! Keep up your splendid work! 🌿🌾🙏🏻✨

    • @TheCottageFairy
      @TheCottageFairy  Před 2 lety +5

      I’m so glad they are calming! Thank you and hope you have a lovely day ❤️

  • @colleenkeegan8113
    @colleenkeegan8113 Před 2 lety +58

    Happy birthday 😊 I have a December baby on her way. She's due on the 19th and her name will be Chloé. Her nursery theme are wild flowers and I have some of your artwork hanging up for her. It really ties in the theme. Thank you for always grounding me with your videos. ❤

    • @nicolaj3294
      @nicolaj3294 Před 2 lety +3

      How lovely, good luck for the birth and Happy Birthday to Chloe

    • @LittleKikuyu
      @LittleKikuyu Před 2 lety +3

      Best wishes from Germany for you and your baby girl ❤️

  • @charisamartin2152
    @charisamartin2152 Před 2 lety +8

    We have similar personalities...I am energized by time alone, while some are energized by time with people. Glad you found out what nourishes you best! ♥️

    • @sheiladyck4768
      @sheiladyck4768 Před 2 lety +1

      Oh wow - you took the words right out of my mouth!!!

  • @sopeace9968
    @sopeace9968 Před 2 lety +41

    Happy belated birthday, dear Paola! You are really one of the "old souls". You don't appear like a 25year old to me and I am just impressed on how wise and calm you always behave, not missing out on some bits of humor. I am thankful for all of us out here that you exist and share your beautiful thoughts and art with us :)
    In the last part of your video, your eyes are shining in the exact same color as your sweater. It is just beautiful on how you always look so harmonious, just like a beautiful piece of art (:

  • @brookebrammer6622
    @brookebrammer6622 Před 2 lety +44

    Hello! I clicked as fast as I could once I saw you posted. I love your content so much! It is so comforting and chill. Perfect to watch when it’s raining outside and you’re all cozy in a blanket❤️

  • @bibs1310
    @bibs1310 Před 2 lety +66

    i've been having problems with anxiety this end of the year because of school, and watching your videos helps me a lot, so thank you

    • @unlockyoursoulmemory4199
      @unlockyoursoulmemory4199 Před 2 lety +5

      lots of love to you, thank you for being here earth angel... and whenever you sense anxiety could come in, go into body sensations, go into grounding, touching the floor with your bare feet and simply sensing... there are ways out of this, it just might need some time

  • @athinaforouli
    @athinaforouli Před 2 lety +14

    I find it very interesting to learn how a young person feels,reacts,makes choices at such a young age. I was just existing at that age and imitating!

  • @elsamere
    @elsamere Před 2 lety +24

    Happy Birthday, Paola! It’s hard to believe you are only 25; you are wise beyond your years. I think you may be a very old soul. A good soul. 🧡

  • @thehomemakersblog23
    @thehomemakersblog23 Před 2 lety +23

    I love how truly authentic you are. You don't follow trends or do things because other people do, you do what makes you happy and it inspires me to do that same! Thank you for another wonderful video 💗
    Ps - the green cardigan you have on is beautiful and suits you so well!

  • @gl4621
    @gl4621 Před 2 lety +19

    I totally agree regarding your compassion for the trees. It actually saddens me to see trees being cut down for people to enjoy for a few weeks, then throwing them away not considering the years it took for them to grow. After reading The Overstory, it really made me think about trees in a whole different light! I won't ever look at trees again. I highly recommend the book.

  • @sheamaloney5527
    @sheamaloney5527 Před 2 lety +14

    I am saying a prayer for you as you journey into your next quarter century! Thank you for everything you share with us all. You are a huge comfort. May God bless you abundantly and always!

  • @sweetstufff
    @sweetstufff Před 2 lety +1

    I love your videos. I prefer your usual videos with your usual content with voiceover while showing us your lifestyle. It feels like watching a magical fairytale.

  • @littlelucieb7633
    @littlelucieb7633 Před 2 lety +56

    Happy belated birthday Paola 🎂🎉 I can 100% relate to everything you said today and I am so grateful to grow into the person I am now 🥰 It's been a long process and there's still a plenty of room for improvement but I think it's a blessing for people to learn their worth and to be happy with who they are ❤️ And I LOVE practical presents 😁😁 Have a lovely day 💖

  • @lakemichigan6598
    @lakemichigan6598 Před 2 lety +31

    I really enjoy watching you create something artistic &/or edible. The beauty & the care you put into everything you do is impressive. And dogs will be dogs. They are such chow hounds there's little you can do to squelch their naturally incandescent desire for food - but I must say in their defense, I've never been married to anyone jumping up & down happier to see me walk in the door than my dog.

    • @hollyjohnson9688
      @hollyjohnson9688 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes my little dog Bella is a light in my life! I get what you said!

  • @rozaliaslaboiu7810
    @rozaliaslaboiu7810 Před 2 lety +1

    I could stay here for hours ... and hours. Your inside world is BEAUTIFUL, MAGIC, PURE... You could be a writer, a teacher and for sure a therapist, artist,...
    Your Creativity and Beauty are unlimited....

  • @karaleemanning27
    @karaleemanning27 Před rokem +5

    I love your creativity and how you look at life. I enjoy the first half and then your conversation afterwards.

  • @anastasiawalter2390
    @anastasiawalter2390 Před 2 lety +13

    Hi Paola. I will soon turn 50 and I still don’t know what I want to do when I grow up. Ha ha. Finding ones purpose in life can sometimes be hard. I love all the cooking you do. All those jams, pies & pasta look amazing!

  • @fariaahamed
    @fariaahamed Před 2 lety +25

    I love your videos. They are so calming.Keep making these videos and never stop!

  • @OriginalAcefanatic
    @OriginalAcefanatic Před 2 lety +8

    It’s not just you. I am the type who loves useful, practical gifts.

  • @teresanewman4656
    @teresanewman4656 Před 2 lety +8

    Stumbled across your channel.WHATTTT???? So calming, so beautiful. I am hooked.

  • @zerinewahid7576
    @zerinewahid7576 Před 2 lety +16

    Love the piano in the background. It's so uplifting, so typical of this season. Your reflections and the music make it sound and look so magical.

  • @mariettehamel12358
    @mariettehamel12358 Před 2 lety +57

    Just a suggestion: in winter, some people that are sensitive (like me) have to have a humidifier because to much dryness irritates the throat and make us cough! Do you have enough humidity in your house (minimum 35, ideal 45 or more)
    PS... I do like your format, half content and half you talking 💖

    • @meganolivia403
      @meganolivia403 Před 2 lety +1

      This!! I had a humidifier but it broke and now use a glass pot on the stove to bring steam & humidity into the house! 💦

    • @ldyshallott
      @ldyshallott Před 2 lety +1

      When I lived where we got winter (moved to Florida) I simmered a large kettle with water & orange peels, cinnamon sticks & bay leaves and other smelly good things ❤️ here I just run a dehumidifier.

  • @hrdemaio
    @hrdemaio Před rokem +7

    Wow I really needed this video. I’ve watched a few in a row now and I feel each one is telling me what I need to know. I’m 38 years old and I feel so behind in pursuing my dreams. I’ve followed you for awhile now and I compare myself to you (I’m human). I always thought that you have always lived this way and it felt difficult for me to achieve. I also pushed myself to live a different life.. clubs, drinking, being overly social. It was the opposite of who I was and still am. I always wished I was home reading a book but I pushed myself to do what everyone else was doing to belong. This video gave me a realization - I can achieve a simple life, a quiet life, away from the city. It is not wrong to want to be alone or near a few special people and to desire slowness, quiet, solitude. I will get there!

    • @Godismystrength555
      @Godismystrength555 Před 8 měsíci

      Im the same age and the Lord Jesus taught me that im not following paths of peace ; seek peace and pursue it .... i cried and im now inspired and want to be true to myself or who God made me to be

  • @amishgirl1000
    @amishgirl1000 Před rokem

    It’s lovely to meet a young person who has lots of skills like canning and making pasta and wreaths.
    Many young people I meet today just seem to spend all of their time glued to a screen.

  • @Letters-from-carmen
    @Letters-from-carmen Před 2 lety +6

    Practical gifts are the best! As a kid, I didn’t love getting socks. But as an adult, I love getting socks! :)

  • @JeriLandersofHopalongHollow

    Socks are one of the best gifts, especially in a cold climate or a cold house, like mine. I never had a dog eat through my clothing, but I did have mice eat through an art satchel because there was a package of chewing gum in the side pocket. They enjoyed several chunks of my art prints as well.
    Your hair looks marvelous in the braided bun, I must do that. And a very happy belated Birthday to you!

    • @TheCottageFairy
      @TheCottageFairy  Před 2 lety +2

      Oh! Haha that is too funny, I have to keep an eye out for those naughty mice too. It is lovely to hear from you Jeri, I’ve been enjoying your videos, take good care ❤️ wishing you the best

    • @sheilaackers3854
      @sheilaackers3854 Před 2 lety

      Two of my favourite people. Happy birthday Paola wishing you many more.

    • @margieinnes4638
      @margieinnes4638 Před 2 lety

      I also wear my socks until they're beyond repair!! Very Happy belated birthday wishes, really enjoy the new format:)

    • @beatrizgarcia6525
      @beatrizgarcia6525 Před 2 lety

      Jeri gusto verte aquí, me llego este video., Linda y bendecida tarde tengas 🙏 🙏 🙏.

  • @rmaharaj2798
    @rmaharaj2798 Před rokem +23

    I'm new here and you have been so comforting and soothing for me. So glad I found you ❤️

    • @csc8697
      @csc8697 Před rokem

      I'm new too, the music, calm voice, beauty, just lovely.

    • @goodstorylover
      @goodstorylover Před rokem

      Same here today

  • @setmylifetomusic
    @setmylifetomusic Před 2 lety +1

    Happy late birthday! I had a friend, that has since passed away, but she would celebrate her birthday the whole month.

  • @lianapalumbo8457
    @lianapalumbo8457 Před 2 lety +41

    I've said it before, you are truely wise beyond your years Paola. Having experienced my own "not fitting into the norm" and then accepting that I don't have to be like others, and we are all equal, I'm finally living a life happy in. Things can always be better and I will always improve and learn, but that's the beauty and excitement of life. Much love Liana xx

  • @lorrainedempsey3320
    @lorrainedempsey3320 Před rokem +5

    Your videos are beautiful, in every way. I think simple times to ourselves, is so nuturing, for any human being. It is good to have private time, for our own thoughts, and needs. Change is important in our lives, and I have always learned to go with it. Love to all.

  • @zigm7420
    @zigm7420 Před 2 lety +27

    I just love the chats - it feels like I’m sitting down with a good friend. Please keep doing that and showing your life in the country, for all of us city-dwellers who dream of a quieter life!

    • @malissahyatt2425
      @malissahyatt2425 Před 8 měsíci

      I'm actually a city soul who craves the noise and bustle.
      But these calm and slow me down when I need to. They're wonderful at bedtime.
      My oasis of calm, sanity and peace in our very scary world now. 🕊️

  • @btsbarbi7351
    @btsbarbi7351 Před 2 lety +5

    Happiest of birthdays my fellow Sagittarian!
    I celebrated my 52nd year by going to five concerts in seven days, BTS, and it was a week long party with 125000 Army, my people! Otherwise, I’m very introverted and at home, as I’m on disability with several chronic pain diseases! This year was a memorable one!

  • @debmadden4157
    @debmadden4157 Před 2 lety +17

    Belated Birthday Blessings to you Paola. Listening to your soothing voice, the music & scenery, I feel as if I am being transported to a different unknown magical gentle era. Paola, do what makes you happiest with your content. You'll always have admires who will follow your blog. Thank you for being you.
    Sending lots of love.

  • @rootsrocksfeathers1975
    @rootsrocksfeathers1975 Před 2 lety +5

    Happy belated birthday, lovely lady. It is amazing how much the world has changed in my 65 years. One of my grandfathers lived to be 100 years old, as well one of my grandmothers was 100 years old when she passed around the year 2000, and she lived through Castro's evil rise to power, lost a son to his firing squads (my father, long story). Just imagine how the world changed during their sojourn on earth. I must decide how I want to spend the time I have left on this earth and it's a more difficult decision in the vastly changed landscape of our society now. I know this much- I want peace and solitude. That is why I am drawn to your videos, though at your age, you could be my granddaughter. I appreciate the effort that goes into making them, so thank you. ~Cynthia, North Georgia mountains

  • @leahforrest5711
    @leahforrest5711 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes, your chats are lovely, too. Please continue.

  • @ginadawn1424
    @ginadawn1424 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for your beautiful, sweet videos!
    I like the new way you are speaking directly at the end.
    Sending love 💕

  • @rebeccabentley2991
    @rebeccabentley2991 Před 2 lety +5

    Happy YOU Day!!!! Being 25 was like waking up with a bright beam of sunshine coming right through the curtains and into my brain! Please enjoy this next chapter of Living enlightened. You make living so much lovlier for me, and Ive been 25 a couple times now! Your art looks so wonderful on my walls, thank you again.

  • @craftyhobbit7623
    @craftyhobbit7623 Před 2 lety +14

    I understand about the socks! Mine have become quite old, dirty and worn out. I've not been going into town since the pandemic started because there are just too many people around and having a medical condition means I have to be careful about crowded spaces right now. They were all pre-pandemic and were old before it started. I usually buy some when I'm out and about but not being able to go has meant I've been stuck with them. I managed to get some new ones, though.
    One of the things I do for winter is to try and stock up on pantry food that lasts a long time, too. You can never be sure when an illness is going to hit so having things that are easy to cook when you can't go out is a good thing. It's been hard this past two - three winters because of what's going on in the world and the pandemic has made it challenging no matter where you live.

  • @wtfhappenedtome
    @wtfhappenedtome Před 2 lety +4

    Can I offer some feedback? This feels like 2 separate videos. The beginning put me into a very calm, focused and zen state watching and listening. I wanted this to either continue or end. It was difficult to focus on you talking because I found myself wanting to stay feeling the same way I felt earlier in the video. The visuals, music and your quiet narration are a meditation for me. But when you start talking later I find myself tuning out. If it was a separate video I would really enjoy that more.
    You are incredibly special and talented, and I hope my words are helpful not critical.
    I am recovering from a serious and severe illness. I used to run, walk, bike and hike every day. But eight years ago an illness put me in a wheelchair. After trying many things, I have now found the way back to health. Progress is very slow, but it’s happening. Today I can walk half a mile.
    You have been accompanying me on my journey. I’m so grateful for what you’re putting out here, you have no idea.
    You’ve shared so many things that resonate deeply with me. I’ve had some very similar experiences. If I had resolved them in my 20s instead of shoving them back down inside me and trying to force myself to get on with life, I don’t think I would’ve become so ill. I didn’t know any better. You are wise.

  • @elizabethm3327
    @elizabethm3327 Před rokem

    "...and in celebration, I borrowed an old canoe and went out on the water."
    The beautiful simplicity of this statement. When did our celebrations get so over the top?

  • @Arienhly
    @Arienhly Před 2 lety +8

    Happy belated birthday, dear! I'm glad you figured out which path to choose and are more true to yourself. We're all unique and if we choose to embrace that, we shine our true light in the world.

  • @vimmary
    @vimmary Před 2 lety +8

    It is just the most peaceful and relaxed feeling watching these videos from The Cottage Fairy. I look forward to them so much. Happy birthday lovely lady.

  • @LS-um3zq
    @LS-um3zq Před 2 lety

    For being 25, The Cottage Fairy is remarkably accomplished.

  • @aliahamida9144
    @aliahamida9144 Před 2 lety

    I prefer it when you talk behind the camera, it makes me dream and my imagination wanders to beautiful places

  • @viviannango4730
    @viviannango4730 Před 2 lety +7

    The dog story was so funny! 😆 my dog went digging into my pocket because I had left a Easter egg inside! Happy belated birthday Paola. You are a beautiful soul. I love that you care for nature and animals. Great blessings to you and your family! 💙 💜🎄🐶 🙏 🤲

  • @dianegriffen2756
    @dianegriffen2756 Před 2 lety +3

    Happy birthday. It was my birthday this week too, and at double your age I am still questionning who I am and where I am going. I have learned it is a lifelong journey as we continuously reinvent and challenge ourselves.
    I found the peacefulness and stillness of canoeing around four years ago. I live in a stunning corner of South West England, UK, where getting out into the middle of a lake with beautiful surrounding nature is like living in heaven.
    Your comment about one year all you needed was socks brought back happy memories for me. I had a year exactly the same, and I ended up with so many gorgeous new pairs, as well as a new puppy that year called... Sox. As you get older presents do change from pretty things to practical; now all I desire is time with my son, who is now living too far away and exploring the new experiences for him of living away from home for the first time, new friends and university.
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful insights and life with us; I LOVE your little house. xx

  • @Englishroserebecca
    @Englishroserebecca Před 2 lety +5

    You are so very beautiful, resourceful ,genuine, authentic, what an amazing human being you are.

  • @TheSmartDreamers
    @TheSmartDreamers Před rokem +1

    Hello Paola. I just wanted to thank you because your approach and vision of life has been helping me to get closed to God :) by appreciating and celebrating the tiniest things, by better observing and having a better sense of beauty… So, in a way, you woke me up. ❤

  • @steffifernando8871
    @steffifernando8871 Před 2 lety +13

    Every single time I watch you, it's like an Angel speaking to me ❤️! So lovely, calming and openly shares what you genuinely feel about. Wish you the very best Paola ❤️✨
    Lots of love from Sri Lanka!

  • @svetlana2387
    @svetlana2387 Před 2 lety +24

    Как я рада,что встретила такую красоту! Спасибо!Это было замечательно!!))

    • @lucizane180
      @lucizane180 Před 2 lety

      Она красавица, грубая, открытая, чистая, сияющая с вершины горы.

    • @Roxy00726
      @Roxy00726 Před 2 lety +2

      Сейчас все больше людей с чистой душой уходят из грязной системы жестокого мира в лес, в горы и живут отдельно.

  • @gathercreatelivewithleslie8340

    Being a half century old I would recommend reevaluating who you are and what makes you happy every year. Many people wait too long and then realize they were just going through the motions of life. You're on the right track.

  • @goodshepherd3438
    @goodshepherd3438 Před 2 lety

    You are a beautiful young woman.
    From:a 77years old lady from Canada 🇨🇦
    Will be watching more of your videos.
    I find them very relaxing. ❤

  • @natureisbeautiful9675
    @natureisbeautiful9675 Před 2 lety +8

    Hearing the dog story made me laugh so much because that is exactly how my dogs are, if they smell a treat they will stop at nothing until they get it 😂 Happy to hear you got a new coat and happy belated birthday!

  • @minervabird1967
    @minervabird1967 Před 2 lety +3

    A very happy birthday to a wonderful artist. Thank you for your videos.

  • @cherylwebb8340
    @cherylwebb8340 Před 2 lety +7

    I remember 25 well. (That was 40 years ago!) I was a whole lot like you. It takes awhile for for some of us to admit that we love home, quiet time, and maybe we're not the all important athletic, etc. Your creative ability is amazing! Sweet dreams to you too and have a blessed Christmas 🌟

  • @leesanderson6885
    @leesanderson6885 Před 2 lety

    How amazing that you have at such a young age found your happiness ..so many of us in our middle years ..are now finding that it's living the very simple life now that our families have grown ..relationships have passed on. That living a simple life alone. Is all that we now desire. What you have now is a very very rare treasure in this dark world. There is a way to live a higher level if existence.

  • @robynp8697
    @robynp8697 Před 2 lety +13

    I'm always fascinated by your recipe segment, trying to guess what the combined ingredients will turn out to be! Beautiful video.

  • @siobhankerr9423
    @siobhankerr9423 Před 2 lety +7

    I agree Paola. "... reflecting on who we are and where we are going..." When you get to your 40s, those reflections can come with confidence if your compass continues to seek Truth & Beauty. Though this time can feel precarious for you, it's also very exciting.

  • @MayImperfectDiary
    @MayImperfectDiary Před 2 lety

    Please continue doing talking to us at the end of your video. Your smile is so contagious. I find myself smiling back everytime I see you smile while talking. Happy Belated Birthday. Take care

  • @laurascholz7334
    @laurascholz7334 Před rokem +1

    I would really like the recipes you put in your videos. It would add so much more to what we watch. Thanks, I loved this video.

  • @LifeWithLeMaige
    @LifeWithLeMaige Před 2 lety +16

    I adore ur style of storytelling….it puts me at ease and inspires as well. 🙏🏾

  • @benjaminbrewer2569
    @benjaminbrewer2569 Před 2 lety +8

    I love your format whatever you choose. Your quiet magic still shines through. Happy birthday 🙏

  • @cherylbrecht7328
    @cherylbrecht7328 Před rokem

    You speak to my heart. I so enjoy your sharing your Art, tea time, baking, time with your dog, well being, along with the hard times. Even at my age being a widow I find myself struggling. I enjoy being alone but, sometimes in the need for enter action with people. So please keep making your videos. For you touch many with your soft spoken ways. Thank you for sharing.

  • @irenekotarac1346
    @irenekotarac1346 Před 2 lety

    You are a beautiful soul! Enjoying this life & earth as it was meant to be. Thank you for your beautiful videos.🌻🙏🌻

  • @gplourdes
    @gplourdes Před 2 lety +5

    The Cousin It jacket-modeling moment made me crack a smile from ear to ear. I look forward to your videos. A few minutes of beautiful calm during this season of....not so calm. Gracias. Preciosos videos, Paola. Bendiciones. Y...felicidades a tí y a tu novio!!

  • @gracjanamarszal
    @gracjanamarszal Před 2 lety +3

    When I watch your videos I feel like I’m looking into a mirror. A constant rush of feelings whether positive or negative circulate too often, but a quiet moment with Paola reminds me who I am which brings back the inner peace I’ve been chasing. Thank you for sharing who you are.

  • @roddaman7545
    @roddaman7545 Před rokem

    Wow. I really like the juxtaposition of the narration with other, unrelated homemaking tasks (like linguini-making). It creates a conversational intimacy - like talking with an old friend while preparing a meal together.

  • @eileenconsidine9365
    @eileenconsidine9365 Před 2 lety

    I like to see you face to face and talk so yes please keep doing this🌲☮️💜🐾🐾🙏🏻

  • @NilDreams
    @NilDreams Před 2 lety +3

    Happy Belated Birthday!!!🎂🎁💐
    Most likely what attracted me to your videos was that the more I watched of them the more I felt we were kindred spirits. I definitely was not a party girl during my college years. I loved poetry and writing and most of all basking in nature. I love animals and will stop in the middle of the road to save an iguana, lol. Coming across any road kill hurts my heart. I absolutely love and have always had rabbits. I love when Mr. Dorsey is in your videos. My last one (Pipa) died a year ago and I still miss her. I absolutely love your videos and the stories you tell. Thank you 🙏🏻
    I so look forward to them. ❤️
    Seasons Greetings all the way from Miami (which I’m dying to get out of)
    🎄🎁🎄
    P.S. I forgot to say I also hate to kill trees. Have had the same fake Christmas tree for over 15 years. Still looks great!

  • @anjakathy8559
    @anjakathy8559 Před rokem +3

    I feel the same about trees (and about flowers in general) - I love looking at them in their natural splendour and seeing them alive, as living beings

  • @dannmurray1199
    @dannmurray1199 Před rokem

    Oh to be a quarter of a century old again! If I had it to do it all over again I would definitely concentrate on and enjoy my creative side. I think it's so important. I have become more aware of that in my latter years and I'm enjoying it but I urge the youth to really appreciate nature and celebrate it, protect and honor it. You know so much and your life is just beginning. 🌾🌿🌱🍂🍃🍁

  • @missannettep6796
    @missannettep6796 Před 2 lety +1

    I like this format, the to-do segment and this on camera. Thank you.