HARDY - Wait In The Truck (ft. Lainey Wilson) | THERAPIST REACTS
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In this video, Psychotherapist Tom Stevens REACTS to HARDY - Wait In The Truck (ft. Lainey Wilson) FOR THE FIRST TIME!
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Problem with just calling the cops is that abuser would retaliate. She would be dead. They both knew this, and he made the choice to free her even if it cost him HIS freedom.
God only knows how many times the cops were called.... he gave up his freedom so she could have hers.... selfless act indeed.
If there was a video that needed a "before story" this is it
My best friend got beaten by husband. The cops were called. 3 days dead. I just this 👼 had been there for her😢
Does anyone get that he was going somewhere ( maybe his home, maybe someone at home waiting for him,a family maybe,kids? ) He is a man that every woman wants to protect her not beat her and so he spends a lifetime in prison to protect a person male or female from abuse that kills, and he is shund !!! So sad and wrong!! What is wrong with this world, stand up and be heard!!!
@@jerryfernandis6591 He murdered the guy! He belongs in jail period! There are any number of things he SHOULD have done before taking revenge on someone, we live in a civilization and you have to abide by the rules set by the majority and MURDER is against the law everywhere!
Sure is. The only thing is, it’s between him and his decision to do what he felt was right, and God. In the end that’s who he will be answering to. It’s murder, but if I found out someone was doing this to my daughter I’m afraid that I would do the same.
Thank you from a Survivor . I was saved by a good man , Forty yrs ago , I'm still with him .😊
Im DV survivor and my elderly father lived right down from me and he was a crack shot. I chose not to tell him my situation because if i had told him, i would have been waiting in his truck. I got myself free on my own and my father lived to be 93. RIP Daddy. ❤
They won an award for this song... his gift to her...he couldn't give to her "there" in the interview I watched and they said did you buy her a handgun...and he grinned.. Hardy bought her a Judge.... I love that! Perfect gift for a farmgirl...I know her roots. I'm a so happy she's made it in country music. It's all she's ever wanted.❤
The difference is This Guy waits for his punishment, Earl's killers didn’t stand up. This man knows what he did was sending him away. He isn't looking for human forgiveness...
I always notice their legs at the end. Her pants start to separate at the ankles; saying he took her shackles so she could finally be free! Hardy is a great guy and he writes some very amazing songs (even for many other artists) he won’t write or sing what he doesn’t feel is right. And I for one LOVE THAT! I’ve been on the side of the bruised and broken…it sucks. So this one hit me hard the first time I heard it. Every person that’s been in that spot dreams of a hero. And no “protection order” will work. 🙏🙏
Here in the south, if your better half tells you to " wait in the truck ", somethings about to happen. 👀👀👀😳
Same in the North.
I live in California, but my parents were from the South & I had a lot of relatives still living there. I definitely knew what "wait in the truck" meant, too!
He did it, knowing full well that he had nothing to gain from his actions and everything to lose. But he never gave his well-being a second thought. He just did what his conscience & character dictated with no hesitation at all. And her life is better as a result.
These are the kind of people that, when presented with certain situations, like some soldiers in combat. They simply react as their nature dictates and completely disregard the consequences to themselves. Some Medal of Honor-winning soldiers have done precisely what this guy did-like MV TSgt John A. Chapman, ON March 4, 2002, who was awarded two medals of honor posthumously.
In my humble opinion, this guy should not have spent even one day in jail. He just did what society and law enforcement all too often fail to do. He took out the garbage permanently.
That guy had not only beaten this girl horribly and repeatedly but also threw her out into the rain. He was already working on another one when this girl’s savior busted through his door. So, this girl’s selfless savior inadvertently saved two women from this horrible fate.
When the system, when society fails to protect those weakest among us it is left to rough men standing outside the rule of law to do what is necessary to preserve the peace, protect the innocent, and return civility. Some call this "vigilante justice" but for some the vigilante is the only hope to obtain justice.
He gave up his freedom for hers ❤
We need more guys in this world like that! I was abused as a child growing up. I got married at 17 to get away from it and because the guy I went on three dates with shot him self when I broke up with him. I felt guilty about that and married him. He mentally, physically, and sexually abused me for 17 years!!! He threatened to kill me and my family if I tried to leave. I finally got up the nerve to leave when he called me at work and told me he was going to kill me when I got home. I heard agentle voice in my head saying, it’s time to leave. I went to the Sheriff’s Department, and they got me into the SAFE program. I got a restraining order and he was told to get his belongings out of our trailer and leave. He did, but also did a lot of damage too. After about 6 months of continued harassment, I again got enough courage. I learned how to use firearms when I was 6.. I hunted and he knew when I called HIM and said, you follow me one more time on my way home from work (30 miles), I’ll be waiting , stopped around a curve, and one of us is going to die. I don’t care if it’s you or me. But I’m done with this. He knew I carried a 44 magnum pistol. I never ever had a problem with him again! I would have killed him stopped around that curve (or he would have killed me). But I was already dead anyway, so it didn’t matter at the time. My Angel was that voice I heard years ago, God, telling me to leave!
Judge under a seat.
44 Magnum
She is still waiting in the truck !
I’m so proud he’s from Mississippi. Incredible voice.
i love this song so much my dad was recently arrested and im 15 and i wont be able to go out to dinner and catch up with him whenever we want till im 25 years old and my little brother is 6 rn he wont be able to do that either till hes 16 and its really hard man but this song has helped me laugh cry and in the long run helped me accept what happened and forgive his mistakes but its been harder on my mom having to care for 5 kids on one income its hard and im proud of her and how she is strong and a role model for the whole family. im glad you are now reacting to it i love your videos so much they always cheer me up and make me happy no matter what love you man and keep up the good work edit: ive been crying this whole reaction man
I wish more people like him existed. I'm a survivor of domestic violence and I still fight the hateful words and memories. It's been over 20 years and I finally found someone to trust again. But the memories will never leave...I could not have children due the torture I endured
Sorry tou went then that I am a survivor as well this video is amazing
@@robinseals8345 the way I look at it now...I wouldn't change a thing...my past is what makes me me and I love who I am today 😊 I try to find the positive in everything now
So, you WISH that more people in our society were MURDERERS?? Make no mistake about it, what the guy did was commit murder and you think THAT is a good thing? The RIGHT THING to do would be to help the woman on the side of the road and take her to a hospital and the police, NOT break into the guy's home and murder him. Perhaps if we teach our kids RIGHT from WRONG then we won't need to advocate murder on the internet.
@@williamhalejr.4289 not murderers but even in the Bible it says there is a time to kill ... Not murder. That attitude where a man believes he OWNS a woman and can beat her into submission because he is a male ...not a man though real men know better...that value, morale whatever you call it DOES NOT BELONG IN A SOCIETY period...he should never be able to pass that sexist attitude down. It needs to stop. As a woman I'm prey to those who think I'm lesser than him and only here to obey him just because I'm woman. A true man has no issue standing up for someone getting abused: child, female, male or even animals. I guess you agree with abuse....because a woman may not have family to help them....I didn't and because of the abuse I couldn't have children because the 12 gauge shotgun my husband raped me with caused too damage ... And during that time (early 90s) no woman shelter, no laws (or law enforcement didn't force the 1 or 2 that they did have) it was still considered a family issue. So yes during that time I would have loved meeting a true man that would have done this.... because I felt like I didn't matter at all and got hit daily just because I cooked his steak wrong or I said no because he was too drunk. I had no where to go.
@@williamhalejr.4289 I hope you never have daughters that are victims of Domestic abuse, because it sounds like you would not do anything.
Here are a couple more country that you might have an opinion on: Concrete Angel - Martina McBride, Alyssa Lies by Jason Michael Carroll, and just because I would like to hear you reaction to this one is Stay by Sugarland.
Here's one for you by Struggle Jennings and his daughter....A Cry for Help
Alyssa Lies makes me cry every time, since the first time I heard it. My ex had an abusive father and every time I hear it I think of her.
I love this song so much!!!!
She says im not sure if he is an angel. I am. He was an avenging angel.
Hey Tom, Chris Stapleton Fire Away would be a great and deep one for you to dissect. It is hard hitting MenTal Health stuff
Wish I would had someone like that to help me went through this for 4 years all most beat me to death
I think everyone wherever they’re from understands what wait in the truck means
Yes, she's still waiting in his truck.
Omg hardy is a good singer this song hit home😢
Take it from a Domestic Violence survivor this song hits different when you had to run on your own, when the law doesn't defend you. I wear full dentures because of the abuse, for 23 years I've hidden in plain sight because he still stalks me. He's got a felony record in at least 3 states, is a registered sex offender in two of those states and is still free. He gets out every time, always tends to find me, when you've hat to be the only one to protect yourself this song hits a hole lot different. Now I would never condone Murder but now a days women don't let men protect them and men rarely offer protection either. I'm blessed I found a man who for 18 years now has provided, protected and loved me no matter what, he's paid the price for what my ex did. He's dealt with the PTSD, the night terrors and the fears. He's the one who over the last 15 years rebuilt my smile, both physically and mentally. He taught me to shoot a pistol, made sure I'm proficient in several types and that I have them at the ready. I can honestly say if my ex shows up again, he won't like the reaction he gets from us.
...come from a Judge under a seat. Man, what a line.
Shout out to my hero back in the day. Thank you. Art ❤
Idk if ur done fire away by Chris Stapleton but it’s definitely a song for a psychotherapist.
If you are a therapist, you’d have a hayday with Linkin Park..
That stranger did more for her that my parents ever did for me.
I love this song. I don't think any 2 singers could've done better than this.
There's only 2 reasons to tell someone to "just wait in the truck": 1) it's basically "you don't need to see this, but it has to be done" and 2) the person is a total embarrassment that you can't take anywhere because they'll make a fool of themselves.
I'm 60yrs old I'm a survivor of physical and sexual abuse and my x went as far as to hire a man to kill me i was on life support for weeks and in a coma for months but by the Grace of God I servied it even though I've had to have 2 brain surgeries and the loss of my memories, its been 31 years ago and I'm still having health problems but I have regained 80% of my memories back, the justice system does not work,I begged for help and all they would do is put a tpo on him,well that piece of paper don't stop a bullet and if you have them locked up they just get out, then he's coming back and it's twice as bad, until they kill you are in my case hire someone to do it for you, people say why didn't you leave well when you're locked in a room and guarded it's hard,and everytime I did escape he'd find me and things go worse,I thank God every morning when I open my eye's for another day , Thank You Sir for your reaction hope you have a blessed day 🙏🏻 sending love from Lafayette Georgia 🍑
I love the double meaning of Judge when she said judge under the seat pretty sure she might’ve been talking about a Taurus judge it’s a five shot revolver
When I was a kid 71yrs ago the law was right and wrong no in between
Same truck
This song still gives me goose bumps!
HARDY is awesome you should check out "give heaven some hell "
Like the way you think...62 year old former marine from south carolina
Yes she is driving his truck
He sacrificed his freedom for hers, and she's still waiting in his truck after 5 years. Her only security.
I have watched many reactions to this video, and I have noticed that many men have the same reaction…”this wasn’t even about her, it was about his momma. He watched his momma get beat when he was too young to do anything about it. So this time he’s doing something about it.”
Didn’t have the background on that, thanks👍
❤ great reaction!
The pistol he uses is a Taurus Judge 420 I think
"Oh, man, this looks serious..." Understatement of the year, there.
I have a daughter and this 100% accurate
I know of 4 generations of domestic violence in my family and it actually started my great grandmother. Great grandpa was a big man but he would never raise his hand on her but it wasn’t uncommon for him to go to work with a cut from a wire or any other type of weapon she could get hold of. Her grandchildren just referred to her as the bitch. My generation is trying to put an end to the cycle
To help raise awareness regarding DV, Beth Hart's song "Caught Out in the Rain" (Live at The Royal Albert Hall in 2018), offers another perspective. For more soulful and emtional music check out Beth Hart:
"Am I the One" live at The Paradiso (2004) and
"I'd Rather Go Blind" with Joe Bonamassa live in Amsterdam.
The Beth Hart rabbit hole is filled with so much talent from so many highly talented musicians. Thank you for your candor and enthusiasm!
I'm a dv survivor. Always looking over my shoulder. After I left him. And he broke into my apartment. And beat me for leaving. Always wished someone would help
Thank you for sharing, so sorry to hear this and glad your here to tell the story🙏
You should take a listen to Delaney Jane's Dirty Pretty Things album, there is a lot to cover there, and she is so talented. Keep up the cool vids!
Yes she is still waiting in the truck.
It's his truck. She's still waiting, and will be waiting quite awhile longer. This got me thinking.... There are several senses of the word 'predation' and I believe we as a society need to take another look at one of those less-used senses of that word. Domestic violence is, IMHO, a form of predation. As are many if not all other violent crimes. We need to draw a clear line between that sense of predation aimed at fellow humans [or their pets] and self-protection, and we need to treat all such 'predation' as VERY SERIOUS crimes [they are], and as warnings for the future of where a life resorting to violence (for anything other than self-protection from imminent bodily harm) TENDS to lead, given human nature.
The 'violence' is the problem. The tools used are NOT the problem, at least not when for each violent
'predator' there are thousands of good people who safely, sanely, responsibly, carefully keep, maintain, and occasionally use those same tools for a lifetime without resorting to that other form of 'predation'. It's ACCESS by anyone engaged in that other sense of 'predation' aimed at fellow humans that MUST BE changed. Prior 'predation' (regardless of whether tools were used or not) is what makes it make sense to apply 'Red Tag'.
By choosing that kind of 'predation' the citizen LOSES the right to bear dangerous 'tools' that make them more capable 'predators', and access to protected pools (schools, ex's family's neighborhood, workplaces, etc) of likely future victims.
This neglected sense of 'predation' is at least a GOOD place to START addressing the problem. INTENT matters. Don't punish (nor abrogate the rights of) good people for the acts of bad people. IMHO. ymmv.
I’ve been waiting for you to do this one! Question tho, you have this quote where you say, Sane doesn’t pick insane… what is the full saying if you don’t mind?
Normal people don’t pick crazy people to be with… in other words, when somebody is mentally and emotionally healthy, they are not going to stay with people who are mentally and emotionally dysfunctional. We all have our crazy moments, but the overall picture is that healthier people stay with healthy people and unhealthy people stay with unhealthy people. so when one person says their partner is crazy that’s usually thing something about them as well😊👍
To add to the other comments... he was not a bad man, he was not an evil man... perhaps he grew up in a house of abuse.... as he knew what had happened to her without asking... he was a man who saw a need, saw an evil and acted on that need and evil. He was a man of faith (evidenced by the court scene bridge (Oh Lord have mercy on me was not asked to the court system... it was a plea to God) and visibly evidenced by the cross hanging on his rear view mirror... was his action legal, obviously not based on the trial, was it morally just.... that is up to each individual for you cannot legislate morality... but for every victim of DV, he would be an answered prayer... and for every man... the story forces the question... "what would I do?"
I recently picked up on another aspect of the acting...you can see the transfer of 'weight' from the weight on her as a DV victim... to him, as the reality of what he did sank in looking at the body on the floor... she has her weight lifted as she no longer has to live that life... and the weight of the decision he made settles onto his shoulders, heart and mind.
You have to do Zach Bryan ‘Something In The Orange’ might be the best song I’ve ever heard. You have to react to it!!!
He may be living that song soon
Cops aren't always a safe bet I have been there. I got away from mine. It took me some time but i got away.
If you want to do a good mental health related country song, do Billy Gillman's remake of "One Voice" with Home Free
❤ Happy Wednesday, Tom!😊
u should also listen to Jane Remover!! Frailty album would fit this channel perfectly
Also a Judge is a gun, he had it under his seat
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You should listen to Lil Shine! U'd love it. Jean soaked and Mistakes are amazing songs!!! Keep up the great content
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I’ve walked down the road.
The system failed the young lady the man stepped up and took out the trash and a true man accepts the consequences for their actions
people who don't think violence is the answer need to read a history book... any of them
Free this man
Could you please react to the songs let it all work out, open letter and I feel like dying by lil Wayne.
UR THE GOAT!! FIRST
Are you going to do a reaction to Lil Peep and ILoveMakonnen's album "Diamonds" when it comes out on Friday or atleast the single "November". Also keep up the great work!
The courts DO NOT protect women in these situations, someone has to!!
Unfortunately this is the only way to get away and still have your life. I still deal with the memories and trauma many years later.
And listen to allissa lies.
Calling the cops..dv.. very seldom justice doesnt come.. but her funeral would sure come
He got more time than a pedophile would.
For those not believers, this is very similar to what our Lord Jesus Christ did for us on the cross. He took our punishment so we could be set free.
Tell me this actually happens?
In my opinion he shouldn't have spent one night in jail
Any woman knows what wait in the Truck means
He better be free because thats the biggest load of shit ive ever seen. Only reason i didnt do that was Because my WIFE begged me not tooo. I just moved her 1000 miles and we hve a GREAT life.
You were correct. It is the same truck at the end.
and in a few years she will stop visiting him, get married to some other dude, and he will rot in prison forever. Bad choice, dude. I don't want to come off like victim blaming but to me this situation is not that different than trying to justify beating your kids because your parents beat you. At some point it is your own responsibility to change your situation. now, all that said if i was on this dudes jury i couldn't see myself voting to convict of murder..
As an AV i dont condone killing someone but saving them/ doing what you have to in the middle of no where i say, " be a human and treat people like them." At the same time i know some abuse will never stop so do what you have to, To save that person. Ill chant to free you in the streets.