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  • čas přidán 21. 07. 2024
  • 00:00 1st sotry:
    AITA for telling my wife that my son is not a replacement for our dead baby (u/ThrowRAfatherofissue in r/AITA)
    06:58 2nd story:
    AITA for getting mad at my dad after he said “I love you” to his new child? (u/Traditional_Goal_240 in r/AmITheAsshole)
    12:21 3rd story:
    AITAH for leaving in the middle of a girl’s trip in Europe (AITAH for leaving in the middle of a girl’s trip in Europe)
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  • @1Harpdude
    @1Harpdude Před měsícem +6

    My dad was never affectionate and never ever said "I love you." In fact, on his deathbed, I told him "I love you, Dad." He could only say, "I know that."😢

  • @claireadams6214
    @claireadams6214 Před měsícem +37

    The only time I remember my mother say "I love you" was when she said "I love you but I don't like you" and that's just the tip of the iceberg

    • @OfficialREVENGEMusic
      @OfficialREVENGEMusic Před měsícem

      I always hated that. I love you but I don't like you? Bitch, stop the cap. You have to like someone first before you love them. You can have like without Love, but you can't have love without like.

    • @coolbeans194
      @coolbeans194 Před měsícem +7

      I'm sorry. I hope there are others in your life that love you unconditionally.

    • @inacook2285
      @inacook2285 Před měsícem

      ​@@coolbeans194❤

    • @SpencerMckenithWilliams
      @SpencerMckenithWilliams Před měsícem +2

      ​@@coolbeans194she is. No doubt, the real question is are they invisible to her?

  • @jorijoestar4998
    @jorijoestar4998 Před měsícem +23

    S3 always trust your intuition if you feel unsafe.

  • @ARcinder
    @ARcinder Před měsícem +15

    Story 3.
    Nah, your friends are dumb.
    My rule of thumb is if your willing to get drunk and risk your life then you do you.
    I'm not going to risk my life because you lack self preservation.

  • @Arkryal
    @Arkryal Před měsícem +28

    Story #3 - OP did a great job.
    If you're not comfortable with a situation, get out of it. People need to have a little situational awareness.
    I say this as a man who has made the same mistake the bride and her friends were making, and down-playing danger. I'm a big guy, so I don't worry about my safety in that sense. Any "Bad Guys" out there are going to leave me alone. They obviously have no sexual interest in me, if they wanted to rob me, there are many easier targets. Those people are more scared of me than I am of them, lol. Not to claim I'm some sort of bad-ass, I'm not, I haven't earned that title, lol. I don't need to be because nobody would ever test that theory anyway.
    But the same isn't true for a lot of people, and women especially. I had to learn how to think in those terms, which takes deliberate, conscious effort on my part. If a girl says "Hey, I'm on my way home, gonna grab some take-out, what do you want?" In my mind, the options are limitless, whatever is on the way between where she is and home. I have to remember the Chinese place is in a really bad neighborhood, and the Greek restaurant requires street parking around the corner from the main road, so those are bad options for her. If it were me, I wouldn't think twice about either of them. It wouldn't even cross my mind.
    It's not always easy to understand other people's anxiety over a situation, even if there is a rational reason for it. I can logically connect the dots on this, but the dots don't connect themselves, lol. It's something of which I've needed to force myself to become more aware. It takes effort and forethought, and the ability to at least attempt to empathize with circumstances beyond my own personal experience. And I don't always get it right, I just try and make an effort.
    So from where I stand, I think it's really cool that OP is comfortable voicing those concerns instead of just going along with something that makes her uncomfortable. I'm sure her boyfriend is relieved that she is able to do that and take action instead of just going along with everyone else. It took considerably more courage for her to look her friends in the eye and tell them "No" than it would have to blindly follow them. against her better judgement. I think OP's friends could learn a lot from her example.

  • @RepellentJeff
    @RepellentJeff Před měsícem +14

    Getting some serious “Taken” vibes in story 3. 😨

  • @kirby-luvr
    @kirby-luvr Před měsícem +4

    S1- OP was abusive to his first gf and now hes mad that she didnt keep him in her sons life? Smh

  • @classicrockkid345
    @classicrockkid345 Před měsícem +23

    The dad in the first story is so gull of shit. "You are loved" is so fucking generic it sounds like it came from a youtuber apology. If you wanted your kids to know their mother loved them, say "I'll always love you, and your mom will too." Dad is just playcating OP because OP confronted him.

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 Před měsícem +6

      Dad was representing OP's Mom and himself by saying that. OP's Dad raised him from a baby. By saying I'll always love you and so will your Mom, just continuously shoves the missing Mom in OP's face. OP's got a really good Dad. I personally don't agree with OP telling his Dad to just say " I love you." Dad's way was very special. It was specifically for OP and his older brother.

    • @tsunadejr
      @tsunadejr Před měsícem +3

      @@lindah3803 but then why not say “we love you?” It honestly could be subconsciously taken as saying “someone loves you…. Just not me tbh” but with the other child he is just like “I love you.” It’s just a little infuriating because it’s not what he did with his other child. I can understand why op feels a bit slighted, and not really that loved. I think it’s good that he’s telling his father that he no longer needs to speak for his mother, and to just tell him “I love you” instead.

    • @mizal321
      @mizal321 Před měsícem +2

      ​@lindah3803 so I'm assuming him being a great loving father was all non existent because he didn't say I love you it sounds spoiled all these kids out here wanting love and he's complaining about the way he's loved

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 Před měsícem +1

      @@tsunadejr Saying "We love you." Would bring on the same problems. The kids would want to know who is "we". Yes, Mom is back in the picture. How long was she gone. Dad did his best to raise the kids by himself. He told his kids that he loves them and that their Mom loves them. There are very few men who would do that. He deserves respect for that.

    • @lindah3803
      @lindah3803 Před měsícem

      @@mizal321 Confused. I have been defending OP's Dad, not OP.

  • @adamb4639
    @adamb4639 Před měsícem +15

    Story#3 had op not left I think things would of been much worse. As it is her being gone means there would be a witness outside of the mens control.

  • @cassandrapettiford6030
    @cassandrapettiford6030 Před měsícem +1

    I never heard my dad say I love you to me my siblings or my mom, hell my mom barely said it but she did, I tell my kids I love you every time I leave the house just incase I don't make it back...they know I love them...I say it and show it...

  • @grubbysteve
    @grubbysteve Před měsícem +5

    My dad has so much pride he doesn’t tell my mom he loves her and us too . Now he wonders why me and my brother have such contempt towards him

  • @marthajackson1388
    @marthajackson1388 Před měsícem +2

    The bride to be cheated and because the rest refused to participate she is backtracking and acting like nothing happened.

  • @douglasluiz2225
    @douglasluiz2225 Před měsícem +3

    Story 2 ewwwww

  • @inacook2285
    @inacook2285 Před měsícem

    S1- I REALLY like Janika!❤

  • @user-hr5pc3rt2n
    @user-hr5pc3rt2n Před měsícem +4

    Some holes in this story.Where did Aryan come from? His mother is dead, but who is she? How old is Aryan?

    • @Kris-wo4pj
      @Kris-wo4pj Před měsícem +7

      All of that was explained dude.

    • @shuichisaiharasimp
      @shuichisaiharasimp Před měsícem +3

      Aryan is 15 years old, he is the son of OP's ex girlfriend (whom he abused), after she died of cancer, his grandparents couldn't support him so they sent him to the dad (OP)