So let me ask this odd question. If they remove her clitoris and mostof her vagina, but she still could have children that means she still would be having her period. Im assuming in vitro is the only way to get her pregnant, however what about first her g spit, is enough of her vaginal left to leave it intact? I know my gspot is all the way to the edge of my cervix and I know some women find that hitting cervix uncomfortable, however I am able to orgasm with no clitorial stimulation, second we do sex change operations all the time, now I know they use some of the penis to make a vagina that has to be constantly dialated to keep from closing. Is there anyway a donor organ could be used to restructure her vagina? Lastly if she was to decide to have this surgery what about well, anal innercourse if it was only her concern for him. There are actually ways to stimulate the gspot backwards if you learn your partner 's body. I just don't see how this could be so black and white with no options brought to the table but dread .
As someone who has tried many things out I agree with you, there should be other options for stimulation and pleasure, especially if you truly trust your partner
Because this is a series and they want unnecessary drama, showing hard choices gets more views so they conveniently leave some things out...we really shouldn't be taking it so seriously
Personally, i wouldnt have it either. Its not about him. She's entitled to her pleasure and if she doesnt want to give it up, they shouldn't blame him.
Well considering the drastic direction the show took in terms of themes this was very much in line with their hypocrisy I also didn't like the episode with the way the writers just twisted it to lay blame on the man
Yes...and the other fact is...for them as a doctor to say that she can still have children and make it seem as if it matters more is so degrading... She is not a breeding maschine afterall. Does her existence only mean to bear her fiancee's children or what?
HEAR ME OUT, there's a "but" after paragraph 1 He should at least re-inforce to her that he won't be angry or disappointed or anything like that if she does take it. BUT just from what he says, it sounds like he did. So in the end, the doctor is just making a dumb assumption that, I hate to tell y'all, is STILL misogynistic. She's assuming that the girl COULDN'T possibly want the choice of keeping her hability to have sex and pleasure. Shes taking all bodily autonomy from the girl like she could only pick the surgery, and any other idea is external.
Notice that the first person she looked at was the husband or boyfriend so he could have reassured her that they can work it out but it would be upto her to decide then I would say he was respecting her autonomy but here she might be making such a decision from fear of their relationship going south and not considering her health...under sucha reassurance if opts out of surgery then the doctor would not have made the comment in the first place
@@athirav7338the thing is they can figure it out surely at least for HIS pleasure, so it's not actually a concern. Problem is with HER pleasure, so it's for her to decide.
@@Tired_Night_Owl_in_the_Woods exactly... The one who will suffer more is not him but her. His sexual life is not gonna be compromised except that he might feel bad for her out of concern and love, because she can still basically, sexually "serve" him and let him enjoying his sex life, she is just the party who will not be able to enjoy it anymore forever. There are many creative ways to please a man, as well as to please a woman of course...but in their case...the lady will never be the one who is going to be pleased, the husband can still be pleased though, so the doctor was just BS-ing them. It's her decision to make, if she thinks sex is important for her. By talking to them this way is the same like telling them the existence of this lady after the surgery is only to be his bed warmer and breeding maschine, because apparently her feeling doesn't matter. Guilt tripping him is really not acceptable at all. Especially because it just doesn't make sense even from medical POV.
Comes across as the women not wanting to have sex and only thinking about the fiancée. It's kinda sexist to make it about the guy and not accepting that the women chooses to risk it
That doctor is way out of line , it's the patient's choice to not have surgery . Yeesh if I heard a doctor speak like that I would demand a different doctor , and I would want that doctor re-trained on the way she speaks to patients and their partners
Why are they blaming the guy.. because if he truly cared about her he would have jumped in with all the other ways they could have intimacy and that he’d rather have her than have inter course But go ahead and keep thinking he’s just showing support for her decision.
If I was in that room, I would feel the way the doctors did. The way she looked at him, was a sure bet to her putting him first. She knew he wouldn’t stay around without sex (especially as young as they are) and was scared of losing him. She’d risk her life to keep him. He didn’t reassure her that he’d still be there if she had the surgery and that tells you everything right there. Come on people, read between the lines. People are up here saying she doesn’t want to lose pleasure herself.. I’m pretty sure with tumors that are sending her to the hospital because she had sex means sex was not joyful.
Yeah i can see why the doctors would think that, me personally i would immediately get the surgery, but thankfully the bf also doesn't seem to be forcing her?
I don't understand why everyone blames tha doctor , every doctor wants to save their patient , is intimacy the only way to show love .ofcourse not.If he really loves her, he could shows his love through every kind of gestures and honesty it is not backing up the girl's idea.what if she is afraid that if she agreed to do surgery and the boyfriend left him..come on think in different perspective.
The doctor is rude to yall, because shes RIGHT. And the truth hurts, especially when it's said harshly, but either way, if its said nicely or rudely, it will always be the truth either way. Grow up or cry about it.
mehh there are a LOT of other things you can do to enjoy your life other than sex! I would have the surgery if it comes down to it. But that's just me personally. Sex is overrated 😅😅
It definitely can be but if you find the right person it can literally complete you, although I know my husband and soulmate would still love me even if we couldn’t make our deeply intimate passionate love. I also now sex isn’t the same for everyone lol. I wasn’t worried about it until I met him.
Well, I weigh in on the other side: He is forgetting his part of the non- surgery harming him, as well as her. Now tell me how she could Become pregnant if she can't have intercourse!
All the garbage men in this comment section is proving the point. He would rather have sex than tell her that she needs to do the surgery to save her life.
Wen have hpv and then you can get cancer in vagina and clitoris etc. I wut to dou not let operate.becaus wen cut lips and clitoris it stil can come back wath meens 30% to servive at end they take the lymph gone so get big legs painfull legs and no life!
Wait, wasn't there an episode where they saved a patient's clitoral nerves so that she could have choice in pleasure in the future or was that a different show? The patient is saying she wants to keep her ability to have pleasure, this feels weird putting all the want for s*x on the man.
The lady dr was bang out of order it’s the woman’s body so it’s her choice her the fiancé is being supportive of her choice like no 1can force her to have surgery I would love to see that lady dr been fully punished for bullying and trying to push the girl into something she doesn’t want to do end of the day it’s the lady choice not to have surgery
Why is this show pretending sexual pleasure is only what men want???? Women can prioritize that over having children ESPECIALLY if its not even in their plans.
This Doctor is disgusting as she crossed the lines of the patient's decision constantly instead of understanding it's non of her business! The patient made the choice so back of & respect it!!!
So let me ask this odd question. If they remove her clitoris and mostof her vagina, but she still could have children that means she still would be having her period. Im assuming in vitro is the only way to get her pregnant, however what about first her g spit, is enough of her vaginal left to leave it intact? I know my gspot is all the way to the edge of my cervix and I know some women find that hitting cervix uncomfortable, however I am able to orgasm with no clitorial stimulation, second we do sex change operations all the time, now I know they use some of the penis to make a vagina that has to be constantly dialated to keep from closing. Is there anyway a donor organ could be used to restructure her vagina? Lastly if she was to decide to have this surgery what about well, anal innercourse if it was only her concern for him. There are actually ways to stimulate the gspot backwards if you learn your partner 's body. I just don't see how this could be so black and white with no options brought to the table but dread .
Uhm... I don't mean to sound rude and condescending, but implantation is a procedure that exists.
As someone who has tried many things out I agree with you, there should be other options for stimulation and pleasure, especially if you truly trust your partner
Because this is a series and they want unnecessary drama, showing hard choices gets more views so they conveniently leave some things out...we really shouldn't be taking it so seriously
If they remove clitoris the stimulation of g spot backwards won't matter, nothing to stimulate.
@@LJBSullivandepends what part will be deleted. Clitorus is a rather spread organ🤔
Personally, i wouldnt have it either. Its not about him. She's entitled to her pleasure and if she doesnt want to give it up, they shouldn't blame him.
Well considering the drastic direction the show took in terms of themes this was very much in line with their hypocrisy I also didn't like the episode with the way the writers just twisted it to lay blame on the man
@@brancorocksi also don't like the fact that other options of intercourse were not considered
@@dnhyp3rx true that's also a good point. But I guess she was losing all her sexual organs so there didn't seem to be many options I guess 🤔🤔
She will die if she doesn't have the surgery ,then she won't feel anything
Yes...and the other fact is...for them as a doctor to say that she can still have children and make it seem as if it matters more is so degrading...
She is not a breeding maschine afterall.
Does her existence only mean to bear her fiancee's children or what?
I support the man respecting it is HER decision and that doctor is way out of line.
Reznick is outta line more often than not. She has a self righteous holier than thou attitude I cannot stand
Why are they trying to make the boyfriend seem like a bad person for not trying to control her body?? It isn't his decision to make
That doctor should be fired immediately. She's crossed a line.
Unless someone will tell the truth, people won’t stop destroying themselves. She is doing the right thing as a doctor.
@Dreaming_Sunny her job is to inform and then STFU. It's not her job to call the boyfriend names. No one asked for her opinion. Fired!!!
Selfish? For backing her decision? 😂😂
She was actually right in that he was doing exactly what she said so
HEAR ME OUT, there's a "but" after paragraph 1
He should at least re-inforce to her that he won't be angry or disappointed or anything like that if she does take it.
BUT just from what he says, it sounds like he did.
So in the end, the doctor is just making a dumb assumption that, I hate to tell y'all, is STILL misogynistic. She's assuming that the girl COULDN'T possibly want the choice of keeping her hability to have sex and pleasure. Shes taking all bodily autonomy from the girl like she could only pick the surgery, and any other idea is external.
Notice that the first person she looked at was the husband or boyfriend so he could have reassured her that they can work it out but it would be upto her to decide then I would say he was respecting her autonomy but here she might be making such a decision from fear of their relationship going south and not considering her health...under sucha reassurance if opts out of surgery then the doctor would not have made the comment in the first place
@@athirav7338the thing is they can figure it out surely at least for HIS pleasure, so it's not actually a concern. Problem is with HER pleasure, so it's for her to decide.
@@Tired_Night_Owl_in_the_Woods exactly... The one who will suffer more is not him but her. His sexual life is not gonna be compromised except that he might feel bad for her out of concern and love, because she can still basically, sexually "serve" him and let him enjoying his sex life, she is just the party who will not be able to enjoy it anymore forever.
There are many creative ways to please a man, as well as to please a woman of course...but in their case...the lady will never be the one who is going to be pleased, the husband can still be pleased though, so the doctor was just BS-ing them.
It's her decision to make, if she thinks sex is important for her.
By talking to them this way is the same like telling them the existence of this lady after the surgery is only to be his bed warmer and breeding maschine, because apparently her feeling doesn't matter.
Guilt tripping him is really not acceptable at all. Especially because it just doesn't make sense even from medical POV.
Comes across as the women not wanting to have sex and only thinking about the fiancée. It's kinda sexist to make it about the guy and not accepting that the women chooses to risk it
That doctor is way out of line , it's the patient's choice to not have surgery . Yeesh if I heard a doctor speak like that I would demand a different doctor , and I would want that doctor re-trained on the way she speaks to patients and their partners
Damn that doctor is bold. Telling him he's risking her life so he can get laid😮
Wow that doctor is rude to the guy. It's not his fault his girl doesn't want the surgery.
Reznick is outta line more often than not. She has a self righteous holier than thou attitude I cannot stand
@@EastAsiaCreativeMediayeah
@@ansariansari3190 people like her are so annoying
@@EastAsiaCreativeMedia don't forget that episode where she didn't hear shaun and then girl hand has to amputated
@@ansariansari3190 I am surprised she did not get her medical license suspended
Why are they blaming the guy.. because if he truly cared about her he would have jumped in with all the other ways they could have intimacy and that he’d rather have her than have inter course
But go ahead and keep thinking he’s just showing support for her decision.
Agreed.
I don't even know how you could do it knowing , diong so could kill her..read a lot of comments..yet not one person I read said that..Yeesh
If I was in that room, I would feel the way the doctors did. The way she looked at him, was a sure bet to her putting him first. She knew he wouldn’t stay around without sex (especially as young as they are) and was scared of losing him. She’d risk her life to keep him. He didn’t reassure her that he’d still be there if she had the surgery and that tells you everything right there. Come on people, read between the lines. People are up here saying she doesn’t want to lose pleasure herself.. I’m pretty sure with tumors that are sending her to the hospital because she had sex means sex was not joyful.
Yeah i can see why the doctors would think that, me personally i would immediately get the surgery, but thankfully the bf also doesn't seem to be forcing her?
I don't understand why everyone blames tha doctor , every doctor wants to save their patient , is intimacy the only way to show love .ofcourse not.If he really loves her, he could shows his love through every kind of gestures and honesty it is not backing up the girl's idea.what if she is afraid that if she agreed to do surgery and the boyfriend left him..come on think in different perspective.
Continuity needs upgrade...
How can she not have sex but she can have children does that mean that she can do like IVF or something??
The doctor is rude to yall, because shes RIGHT. And the truth hurts, especially when it's said harshly, but either way, if its said nicely or rudely, it will always be the truth either way. Grow up or cry about it.
Grabe!! doctor na ang nag decide sa pasyente hindi na ginalang yong desisyon na pasyente.
DAMN she said that with no hesitasion
What a horrible situation.
Most men would do the same thing.
mehh there are a LOT of other things you can do to enjoy your life other than sex! I would have the surgery if it comes down to it. But that's just me personally. Sex is overrated 😅😅
It definitely can be but if you find the right person it can literally complete you, although I know my husband and soulmate would still love me even if we couldn’t make our deeply intimate passionate love. I also now sex isn’t the same for everyone lol. I wasn’t worried about it until I met him.
@@anni5385 You can still have sex without a vagina, or a clit. And feel that same closeness. You just would feel a different pleasure.
Well, I weigh in on the other side:
He is forgetting his part of the non- surgery harming him, as well as her.
Now tell me how she could Become pregnant if she can't have intercourse!
Ivf
She would have to be artificially inseminated, I am assuming
Artificial insemination.
Invitro fertilization
or they can just adopt a child.
IVF
Well, i did not see the whole thing but this seems her pleasure is not enough reason and She guilt trips him, to ask her to abandon it.
All the garbage men in this comment section is proving the point. He would rather have sex than tell her that she needs to do the surgery to save her life.
I take that chance if I were here
Wen have hpv and then you can get cancer in vagina and clitoris etc. I wut to dou not let operate.becaus wen cut lips and clitoris it stil can come back wath meens 30% to servive at end they take the lymph gone so get big legs painfull legs and no life!
Impossible 😂 they’d use radiation ☢️ to shrink the tumor so the surgery is smaller
Yeah no, immediately fired. Medical dramas should at least try and make it a bit realistic.
Wait, wasn't there an episode where they saved a patient's clitoral nerves so that she could have choice in pleasure in the future or was that a different show? The patient is saying she wants to keep her ability to have pleasure, this feels weird putting all the want for s*x on the man.
Dixie Sinclair?
This show is ridiculous. 🙄
damn
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God i hate this show sometimes
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The Good Doctor | Season 3 Episode 9 | Incomplete
The lady dr was bang out of order it’s the woman’s body so it’s her choice her the fiancé is being supportive of her choice like no 1can force her to have surgery I would love to see that lady dr been fully punished for bullying and trying to push the girl into something she doesn’t want to do end of the day it’s the lady choice not to have surgery
The doctor is so right.
Why is this show pretending sexual pleasure is only what men want???? Women can prioritize that over having children ESPECIALLY if its not even in their plans.
How will she have kids without y'know
This Doctor is disgusting as she crossed the lines of the patient's decision constantly instead of understanding it's non of her business! The patient made the choice so back of & respect it!!!
It was on the script 🤷♀️
One: that's misleading, she'll still have the backdoor, lots of ways of having pleasure. Two: not his fault, wtf Three: this series sucks so much