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“People would rather hear comforting lies than the harsh truth” ~Rino. What a poet
Rino 💀
that’s a famous line already 🤦♂️ also it’s rhino
in other words "ignorance is bliss" been around for centuries
That's actually a very common quote lol
I’m the fucking opposite lmao
as a girl, this doesn’t even make me mad. 😭 shawties need to stop being delusional. ts even annoys me
I'm a girl and I completely agree also
Exactly this is all facts
i hope you get out of this “im not like other girls” faze 😭
Did you get picked?
@@chaeryeong991 Just say you're delusional. Some people like to live in reality...
This is soooo sad…and explains the high rates of depression among young people. You are too focussed on beauty and perfection and miss out on what is real and valuable.
exactly finally somebody speaking ACTUAL facts
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Based individual in a room of terminally online people looking for validation from random strangers.
Been that way since the dawn of time. Get over it.
@@chrislee7132 by the looks of your photo, you had to get over it didn’t you?
real confidence = accepting your unattractive and still having self love, not deluding yourself with narcassistic hollow inflated self-esteem
but whats attractive? button noses full lips 20inch waist?
wow... so true! this is how I feel. I love myself and am happy with who I am but if I can better myself in a healthy and natural way then I'm always wanting to do that. I think I have SO much room for improvement. I'm not cocky at all but I have always been confident.
I just don't understand how you can claim to be confident in the way you look and then rate yourself a 3. "Yes I think I am beautiful in my own ways however Im going to give myself an ugly/10"
YES I AGREE. It doesn't matter if others don't think you're lets say a 10, if you think you're a 10 that means you're confident in yourself. No one who hates how they look is going to rate themselves a 10 unless theyre truly content with how they look.@@samanthadavidson239
@@samanthadavidson239 I think its about developing a sense of internal and intrinsic self worth that doesn't hinge on a single dimension that is externally validated such as appearances. That's what true confidence is, because your deriving your value from something deeper and being content with that. And that's my take on it I guess.
As a girl, I agree with this 100% So many women are delusional, there's no other way to describe it.
I used to be overweight, dressed terribly, and didn't care about my appearance, yet all of my female friends would hype me up and tell me I was "stunning" and "bad asf". I knew damn well they were lying.
It always frustrated me because what if I actually started to think I was stunning? I would've made a fool of myself by going around acting like I'm a 10 when I was lucky if I was considered a 4.
I'm glad I decided to get in shape and actually put in effort but that whole "women support women" is more like "women lying to women" and it's doing more harm than good. I would have never put in any effort to better myself if it wasn't for the few honest people who told me truthfully that I was not attractive. Hard pill to swallow but it helped me a lot more than all those people who lied to me to avoid hurting my feelings.
This level of self-awareness and humbleness makes you more attractive in my opinion.
It’s amazing how many people lack this kind of self awareness. I applaud you.
Proud of you 👍
Ngl, this screams maturity, which also screams wifey 👀. Still, I respect woman like you a lot, don't be afraid of going against the current, there's no need to fit in. "Those that care don't matter, and those who matter don't care."
proud of you
As a woman I happily watch all your videos and I’m open to both opinions on things. I enjoy seeing how you guys think, it’s honestly intriguing and deep.
Do you agree with the video tho ?
@@MedAb8 that's the real question lmaoo
@@MedAb8 Yes, I do.
same tbh
So you agree that a woman is ugly as soon as she’s 30? Pick me. You agree that the average 19 year old girls would date a creepy 40 year old man cause he has money? 🤣 That men sperm does not age despite research proving otherwise that their sperm degrades after 35. They not gonna pick you! Based on your avatar, you should not be supporting this black pill ideology cause one of the main points is that all black women are ugly!!! All their focus is on white women hence their cut off age for attractiveness at 24 and 30 😂
As a girl, a lot of these points are hard truths. At the same time though, it's important not to get lost in the world of attractiveness and ranking people. There's so much more to life. Go play outside or something.
Pick me, choose me, love me
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I think that believing your a 10 due to your accomplishments is a wonderful form of confidence.
that does not make you a 10 to men lol
In your dream
Works for men because confidence is everything in a man but not for women … we don’t care what you do, accomplished, etc we just want love and loyalty …
agreed! people can hype themselves up as long as you are not putting anyone else down :)
loving yourself and not living insecurely is one thing, being self involved, self centered, and egoistic is a whole different story.
Facts bro. U need love and confidence for yourself to improve yourself. Being delusional and shit won't help
its weird tho its like the media tells us girls to think this way.
Yeah...idk. Just live and let live I guess. What can u do
@@BeachyBIRDSSSS no that’s not what i mean it’s good to think your pretty but you shouldn’t be mean or bratty about it lol sorry
"think ur invincible know that ur not" (in this context it's about beauty)
LMAOOOO I’m a female and this is mad funny to me. There’s a lot of unattractive women who have a very large ego, and they inspire me to be as confident as them one day🤞🏾
They inspire you 😂😂😂
🤣🤣Most funny girl
That last bit is the truth lol
W shawty
Girl yes!!! 😆 It’s crazy the amount of unattractive women legit think they are gods gift I’ve said multiple times over the years that I wish I had that kind of confidence.
As a woman over 50, I AGREE 100% WITH WHAT IS BEING STATED HERE!!! I HAVE ALWAYS TOLD PEOPLE TO NOT HYPE THEIR KIDS TO BELIEVING THEY WERE SOMETHING THEY WERE NOT. IT IS OK BEING AVERAGE...WHEN WE FEED OUR KIDS TO THINK THEY ARE SOMETHING THEY ARE NOT REALLY FUCKS THEM OVER ONCE THEY GO OUT INTO SOCIETY AND GET THE TRUTH HANDED TO THEM WITH NO FUCKS GIVEN!!!
You are a girl, not a woman. You won't be ever a true woman. Puck me
Please take your laptop in to repair the Caps lock key.
😂😂@@riproar11
Its true i don’t think my parents have ever told me I’m special once. but to instead work hard for myself and get educated and have a better future for myself and be the best me. Thx Mom & Dad ❤
@@riproar11Bro doesnt understand someone’s enthusiasm 😂
Videos like yours are like a window into a dystopian world that I am glad I have no part of. This normie social media focused online dating scene makes me very relieved to have been young in the Philly/NYC goth scene of the 90s/00s. It was such a different scenario from what people like you, the video creator (and most creators of similar content,) and the woman in the video experience and I'd be just as jaded if I had to go through the same things. My heart goes out to you all.
Believe me. In the 60s, 70s, and early 80s things were different. It truly was a very different world. I feel sorry for you young guys.
as a girl who loves your channel because you’re genuine, i agree with this video 🤷♀️ it’s just the straight up non sugar coated truth and not everyone can handle it
So true lol, girls that can't handle it will call you a "Pick Me"
@@55CINCO55 thats so true theyll think youre trynna just be a pick me by agreeing to men deadass
The best thing I ever did Is come to terms with the fact that I'm not hot and that's okay. I found a husband who thinks I'm attractive and if it's just one man on this earth to find me Cute I'm okay with that
@@katielee7364 The fact you came to terms with it makes you that much hotter.
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Rhino: "There's probably not any girls watching this!"
100+ Girls: "As a girl......."
AS A FEEMMAALLEEEE!!!
IM DIFFERENT!!!111!
@@thegogglesfam352 good fu#king goooood
i mean 100 isnt a lot lol
Isn't the question itself dumb. Rating someone looks is something you did as 12 year old. To continue doing this when you are an adult is childish
I am 37 now, and I figured most of this out over a decade ago. I remember when going on a date or meeting someone meant you actually had to have a conversation. Now, it's boiled down to swipe left or right depending on how the person looks. I have stepped in mud puddles that were a lot less shallow than the dating world has become.
As a man who has been single for 17 years, I think I can be brutally honest here. To all the guys out there who are "simps" have some self-respect, there's more to life than the opposite sex. Take all the money, time, and energy you spend making a fool of yourself, allowing yourself to be used, and mistreated and use it to improve your life. I certainly have no clue what women really want in a relationship, but it's probably not a pushover, yes man who has no worth while skills or talent because all his time has been wasted pining after something that really isn't worth much. If there's one thing being single all these years has taunt me it's that the amount of time you have to accomplish things, self reflect, learn and generally improve your situation is a massive advantage that married people or people raising children don't have so don't waste it!
Sometimes you just gotta know when you ugly and there aint nothing wrong with that
Fact
I'm ugly and I'm proud
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or just love yourself without being a bitch 💀
@@khadidja02 atleast you're being honest with yourself baby
I've seen even the ugliest of people find love so there's someone for everyone especially when you stop trying so hard
I am a girl, and let me just say this is so true!! Everyone says that “we are all beautiful and we are all on the same level” but they need to shut up because they’re not. 🤷🏾♀🤷🏾♀🤷♂
gen z is evolving backwards rn. you're 09 or below ffs.
@@mice4486 lowkey like aint no way were trying to convince people to have lower self confidence lmao
@@pxsoul888 ain’t no one telling you to have low self esteem but be realistic and don’t go around saying I’m a 10 out of 10 when you know your not or scream I’m perfect I deserve the whole world without even working hard for it, is just ego and narcissistic behaviour
It's good to know they're people who can accept that they're ugly.
@@chimchim-tata9181 i agree with you, but ur just adding random things to their comments, lol
Scoring people like they’re entries in a livestock judging contest at the county fair… Nobody with so much as a scintilla of self esteem buys into this. Kudos for shining the light on the BS!
What actually annoys me about this kind of thing is the fact that we have built a culture around ''ranking people'' and even women seem to validate it. We aren't considered objects anymore, and yet we rate ourselves like we are. It's kind of bizarre when you think about it.
Women naturally are high in fear and given the opportunity lead society to a negative darker place.
I don't think men go around with a checklist, scratching off the numbers, checking the boxes yes or no. It is just a mental compilation of things we find endearing all lumped together. That rating shit is for females.
exactly... The whole video i was thinking "is it really necessary tho?".. Like, they think they are beautiful, let them! They are the ones that brush their hair everyday, puts food in their mouth, comfort themselves when they cry! They deserve to think they are beauty, even if some idiot "UHM AKSHUALY YOU'RE OBSHECTIFLY A 1!".. Who cares bro? Is it really that big of a problem that a woman you would "RATE a 1" thinks she is a 1? That's just a sad way to live life.
@@Lightningslick I don't think "females" go around with a checklist, scratching off the numbers, checking the boxes yes or no either. Everyone has something they're attracted to, and there are pretty universal "checkboxes" that everyone seems to be interested in, but that's all.
Copium is out of control - appearance and its assessment are completely objective and completely measurable.
Anyone who denies this is about hit the wall
This is just a theory of mine… I think many women go out of their way to hype up other women and themselves in an obscene way at times in order to compensate for the negativity they encounter in the world. When basic consumer culture, especially beauty culture markets directly towards you and tells you that you need to look a certain way in order to be viewed as attractive, you can often take this weight on your shoulders to conform. It could very well be a subconscious thing we do and because women can often relate to each other, they compliment each other incessantly to combat the weight of negativity and insecurities they face.
while that sounds nice
it also will set them up for dissapointment
i had a friend who was ugly as a mf and we always told him he is fine and it will workout in the end
he literally was down SO BADDDD that he wanted to get plastic surgery of all types of shit we convinced him not to
and told him he can get something good at the end he just needs to play his cards right when he got dissapointed he blamed us for lying to him and all that and just did the surgery anyways
what i am trying to say i guess is....lying to them is not helping them it will make it worse at the end
Never thought of it through this perspective. I think that, like almost everything in the world, we need to look for the balance for things to work in the most efficient way. But unfortunately industries and enterprises won’t think like that, beauty industry mainly included, they just wanna make profit and I see the impact that can have on how young girls look at themselves and each other (since guys generally don’t care much about that). Thank u for pointing it out, it’s a healthy counterpoint to the video, opens up a good debate.
Interesting take.
@@unnotoriousgus5361 guys would care more about other stuff like height, money income etc
lol we face equal scrutiny(i could make an argument that men face more; and im sure you could make an argument that women face more but we can digress). With that being said, both of us for sure face some sort of scrutiny but the fact is we're just built different. Girl sees friend getting fat: makes indirect comments, indirect suggestions, reassures her "beauty" and so on and so forth. Man sees friend getting fat: "damn bro you fat asf"
As a women I fully agree with y’all. Every time you see a fairly good looking girl on tiktok or Instagram all these simps are in the comments asking for their @. It gives them validation and it high key makes them delusional and act entitled.
If that happened to me I would think they troll or play games cause there's nothing in this world that will up bring my low self esteem and make me think I'm more than a 4
You are correct
I almost fully agree however many woman date fatter older men and there are a lot of movies where the average men gets a beautiful girl
@@HristinaNicole You underestimate simps on the internet. They make 4’s think they’re 10’s.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809that's the point lol
I'm an old broad and watching your show for the first time. I think you guys nailed it. Fortunately, humans are weird and you never know what does it for us. You may think you know what you want and suddenly you'll find yourself head over heels for someone nothing like what you thought you wanted. So, in closing may life always surprise you.
He is so delusional
Oh man idk how to feel about this video, but as a bisexual woman: man some of the guys wheat was calling chads really weren't in terms of looks and honestly some of his takes really need a woman's perspective too because while men will tend to focus more on bodies women tend to focus more on the faces. Plus in the end attraction can only do so much, if you're an asshole but a 10 sure you'll be able to have any relationship you want but actually maintaining it will not go well for you until you fix that issue. and for some people they never learn that lesson and the cycle continues.
I’m a girl and I agree w most of this except for the “ guys /simps approaching you make is you feel like you’re a 10” y’all think I feel good when the “ ugly fat creep guy” approaches me 💀 it breaks down my self confidence
Same 😂😂😂
No yeah, that’s actually one of the ways I knew I’m average looking (at best).
@@summero-my5in that’s not true. Most good looking men aren’t going to go up and cold approach girls because they don’t need to, girls come to them, and also they have more pride to lose. Unattractive men know they have to try to shoot their shot
in all honesty....a lot of fat creepy mofos be on cute girls shit too....that don't mean much most people are not self aware of how good or bad they look some of them might think they a 8 even tho they a 3
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What we’ve lost as a society is that no matter what or who you are in life there’s always room for improvement. Nobody is a perfect 10
I agree but have u seen jenna ortega
@@viviverse5768 noice
@@viviverse5768 she isn't a 10
@@viviverse5768 fuckin overrated 😂
It's called the will to live. You should always be improving and/or improving your surroundings and then enjoying the fruits of that labor.
Unfortunately as we get older that will subsides.
I recently have 20 years old, and sometimes feel scared to grow older because society paint for women that your beauty is limited and as soon as you age 25-30 your not younger enough neither beautiful is like you have almost no value when you age. And it's really sad
I feel more sad for the unattractive guys out there that are literally invisible to society, not women who had their fun and have to give it up. Foh
@@NoRockinMansLand another man who has to always bring down a woman. do u not think unattractive women are invisible as well? of course you don't, because most men don't even care to realize they exist or think of them as even human
@@NoRockinMansLand they haven't had their fun they get approached by much older and creepy men constantly for being young and especially if they have a good figure especially if they have bigger boobs or butts and honest the attention isn't really wanted I don't know who really thinks it's fun to primarily be valued by your attractiveness and age and have these people pay no mind to any other qualities like job, personality,or skills and perpetuate the idea that your only value is as a sec object and not a person
@@carebear3275 they certainly don't mind the attention, perks, and freebies that go hand and hand with it
@@carebear3275your issue is thinking men think like women. Your job or career or anything things don't matter to men. As long as you look beautiful and are respectful. When you understand that then you will understand men. Stop using female logic on men logic
"Young-looking". There are a bunch of older women who look very young that are either married or are in stable relationships with younger men. So, I figured that it's not about age per sé but rather about the trait of being "young-looking" - age be damned.
Nope,it's about age. I don't know any relationships where women is 5 plus years older than a guy
@magdam8290 how many people do you know? All of them? Doubtful.
@@approximateknowledge5577 i know a few relationships where women is older 1-4 years if that counts. But no one with larger age gap
I agree with the point about the acceptance of unattractiveness. You see much more overweight _female_ models and and not a lot of male models (on Instagram). There is also a problem with this "independent woman" thing. As an adult, you are supposed to be an independent person who can support themselves.
As a girl watching this video, this is actually eye-opening and it totally makes sense. Thank you for approaching this subject !
Girls like you ☕️☕️☕️☕️
@@adinanita9313 men who get mad when girls feel like 10s☕☕☕
@@lilaross-cz8zr the boy who created the video and his supporters ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️
One thing I have to note that Wheat Waffles misses, is that yes looks will get you in the door, but it’s your personality and charisma, and how you treat her and make her feel that will keep her long-term. As a guy I don’t care if a girl is a nine out of 10, as attractive as Mila Kuhnis in a prime or something, if she has a terrible foul personality I’m not sticking around.
nah if he looses his looks hes 100% loosing her like if he got into a bad accident
@@NobleGrant-yh1yc you’d be surprised there’s plenty of conventionally unattractive men that are with baddies.
This doesn't upset me , it would have when I was younger because I had issues with self-esteem. I think there's a difference between loving yourself and seeing your own value and being overly cocky and delusional. The one thing I will say with the whole comment, " every woman is beautiful in her own way" I truthfully agree with that. That's not saying everyone will find her beautiful and find her the perfect ten. How I take it is that everyone has a type and what they're attracted too. What I find attractive may be different than what you find attractive. They are attractive to me. Even if we don't share the same view point. It doesn't change the fact that I personally find them attractive. I have met people who said " I was the most gorgeous woman they have ever met" both men and women and I have always had people who didn't find me attractive and to them I wasn't. It's different for everyone. So that's what I think that comment meant. Not that everyone on earth finds that person to be a perfect ten. If that makes sense. That's just how I look at it. I don't think there's anything wrong with loving yourself and being confident in how you look. Also, in some circumstances not all, that confidence is what makes a difference. I've known men and women who by society standards weren't all that but they loved themselves and were confident and they got that by society standards attractive person. I will not lie, there have been men who straight out the gate I was not initially attracted to but they had the confidence and made me laugh and we had things in common, which made me look at those men differently. Made them more attractive to me. Different strokes for different folks.
Respect
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Disrespect. Pick me, choose me, love me
I doubt if any sane man is looking for a perfect 10.
Nobody is a 10 regardless of gender
Because nothing is perfect!
Also, a 10 for you may be a 5 for me. We all see beauty differently.
@@oliviasimone9223 You look like a 10 tbf
The scale realistially should be 5/5 for looks.And only including personality,dressing,they should be rated at scale of 10/10
@@SamsungS23Ultrthat’s not her 😂
@@SamsungS23Ultr it’s not me, it’s Marilyn Monroe 😅
I Agree 1000%. But Some People "Mistake" Being Honest With Being Disrespectful. There's A Clear Distinction. As Said Before I Agree With Y'all 1000%
I've only ever been asked out by simps until recently, and it actually played a hand in me thinking I was unattractive. I thought, "these are the guys I attract? What does that say about me?"
It's true that when an objectively attractive person is interested in you, it boosts your ego. When an actual hot guy wanted my number, it felt pretty good.
Your point makes no sense.
@@ballyon5491 simps accept any woman who is 4 or more, there are some more specific simps who only go for 10s and 9s but the former is more common
finding a date is easier for women, but that's is because some men have no standards
Maybe you are looking down on the ordinary guys. Maybe one of those guys you call simp could be a great partner for you... I understand your thinking, when I was young I though same way - I believed boys who were interested in me are somehow inferior and I always wanted a TEN man. The problem was usually those 'top men' weren't interested in me..... It took me years to realize the men who were interested in me had good characters, and now they live in happy marriages, while the topmen I wanted were narcissistic and egocentric and went from one woman to another....
I am guessing your average. Pretty sure not every hot guy is going for you.
All I gotta say is that confidence is key, just don’t get full of yourself
i'm a girl and most of this is totally fair, so many of my friends would get mad at this video right away without even stopping to hear or listen to the argument or the facts (and that attitude goes exaclty with what is described in the video...)
Who let you out of the kitchen??
As a woman, seeing you guys laugh at 10:39 made me laugh
“As a woman” … 🤨 sure user-mw7in3lo8d
I wasn’t aware that’s what my username showed?
@@noor_xxviiit is what it shows
@@BlueberrySummertimestop hating, I’ve seen you on multiple comment threads just hating on ppl, go do something useful
@@noor_xxvii it doesn’t it says ‘noor’ idk what they’re talking abt
As a Muslim, it's so fascinating to see how men and women are valued in Western culture. Because as Muslims we don't have a hookup culture, so how we value ourselves is different. Whilst in the video you guys said looks are basically what a woman's value is based on, as a Muslim a woman's beauty is covered somewhat with things like scarves and face vailes. Also, it is much more common in our cultures and religion to get arranged marriages, so we don't have to worry so much about will this guy commit ect
The DV stats are also fascinating but hey, it's not just muslims in all fairness.
Muslim men do though.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, someone, man or woman could be a 5 on the SMV, but a 10 to their partner, that doesn't then make them a 10 on SMV because one person thinks they are a 10 to them. I am a 6-7 maybe, and I have had 9's obsessed with me and 6's totally ignore me, I don't let it delude me into thinking perception of another human changes my SMV rating.
True! Also, in my opinion, you're more like a 8-9 to me.
Completely incorrect usage and understanding of the looksscale, dunning-kruger affect, and beauty is only subjective once you are at the top
I am a woman currently attending college and I have been watching you guys since middle school. I never felt the need to bash you guys for any of your takes or statements. I thoroughly enjoy hearing your takes on the things you decide to talk about whether I agree or disagree. I think it is important not just as a woman but as an individual to be open minded. You guys are very intelligent and I enjoy listening to your conversations and REAL takes rather than sugar coating or giving a public pleasing opinion. I appreciate how real you guys are and love watching you. It is not like your bashing or attempting to persuade other people on your ideals and takes you just give the real view of society and other aspects as individuals in society yourself. I choose to watch people on social media platforms who give their true and honest takes whether they might be deemed as bad or good to listen in to all sides of the same conversation. I will never stop enjoying watching y'all. ❤
This has gotta me one of my favorite videos from you guys. Very raw and authentic. And y’all said a lot if things that I have always thought about but never knew how to express. 💪🏿💯 Keep it up
As a girl who used to be obese, I lost a ton of weight and basically “glew up”
I will agree I was delusional
We know.
@@Scorpy666😂😂
And you still are delusional
@@Scorpy666 we don't care. Bye
@@adinanita9313 weehmen power 💪
Beauty is in the Eyes of the beholder. Attraction is not linear. I know great looking guys that love a non traditional "10" . And who you hook up with also has to do with your circle, location and income level. I do agree social media for women is warped and has really damaged society in general. Cheers
I absolutely love this duo and the sensitive topics they react to. Thank you Noah and Rhino for the awesome content!
Yeah I refuse to use dating apps as a woman because I’m socially anxious and can only focus on one person at a time. I can’t handle getting spammed by all the random guys who swipe right on everyone. And I’m not going to go through the tedious process of figuring out which of them actually like me or are desperate. It’s way too complicated compared to talking to someone in real life. Plus the idea of meeting a stranger from an app absolutely terrifies me. I’ve seen catfish.
Your problem is a mans dream 💀
That’s gon change after you graduate highschool…
@@LoverIsaDayy Nah. Especially not if she has good friends.
@@anomaly9156 all her friends will encourage her to become a city girl, tf you mean 😂😭 During college is when most girls get wild so I’m assuming this girl is still in hs
Let me give you some real insight as a guy: they're all trying to f¥ck. May not sound nice but it's a fact. Hook up culture rules tinder, the guys that get most of the women are just hooking up. Women that go on tinder to find long term relationships are gonna be in for a rude awakening
I agree I live with 5 brothers and can understand the struggle of men i feel for y'all. y'all truly gods gift fr respect.
as a girl i honestly see this all as facts like im not a 10 and i do be thinking that i can bag chads but im taking notes tbh because i know we can be somewhat naive
Women can bag chads with one leg and one arm. Its takes no effort for women lmao
Your a woman you should be “ bagging “ anything thats the problem yall want to be dudes so bad
@@gurindersingh5852 Bag as in MARRIAGE which most chads either A: Already is married or B Will never do because they know they are 666 men that has it all in desirability, so they just smash everywhere pumping and dumping these naive women, who treat the rest of us 80% men like crap.
It seems women have no clue on this. There are average women that can "bag" chads, that's not how you determine attractiveness. You can't use the metric used for men on women because it would be skewed. Women's attractiveness is based on whether a chad wants to COMMIT to her and not whether he wants her (because he wants one thing and u know it)
You're a good 4.
Most underrated channel on CZcams.
who Wheat Waffles?
No cap
Ong
The only thing i don't like about him is that he rates so many faces wrong.I saw him rating an 8/10 girl as becky while 6/10 girl as stacy,8/10 guy as average while 6/10 guy as chad
This seems generational to me. Women in my generation (born in the 60s and 70s) were and are hypercritical of ourselves. The few who did think of themselves as a "10" would rather die than say so. Younger generations are very different. In some ways, it can be cringey, but on the other hand, I envy their confidence.
Omg so true!!!
It's not confidence. It's literally delusion. There is a difference.
Deliberately lying isnt "confidence" thats the entire point of the video, it was reiterated over and over and you still missed it.
My anxious butt never believes the hype my friends tell me 😅 especially when I gained weight and going through this “second puberty”. I actually hate attention on me. When it’s my birthday, I secretly hope people forget just so I’m not bombarded with text or messages. It could just be my own insecurities, but I can understand just getting all these compliments or validation from friends or random people on the internet can inflate one’s ego. But, I wonder if they’re just very confident or is it delusional?
I see dating is now being influenced by social media and idealistic thinking. I think it’s just best to date anyone with intention.
Love how you all tried your best to explain this and state your point the in the most lighthearted way 😭
As a girl who totally wouldn’t be bothered by just blunt opinions on this topic, it’s always fun to think about how stuff would go if they actually were blunt and honest.
Edit: If there's one thing I learned from this video, if a high-value man smashing you helps you determine whether *you're* attractive or not, you probably aren't attractive.
I used to hear plenty of over weight men say they wouldn’t or couldn’t date a women their size and I couldn’t understand it
yeah. but if u check statistics its the other way around
Theses guys gave me goosebumps because most of other famous content creators will leave their logic for money. kudos to both of you for staying like a real man.
54yr old white woman here in deep south i been on a dating site ,full of predators,who have sick and fetishes,they dont read the bio 100 texes later they waste our time bc they arent there for a committed relationship, not to find a wife to protect and provide for,im fine,and i have been traumatized over and over,they have zero intention of taking on no date,wanting me go to a motel first meeting ,standing me up,see i got ran over in Sept last year, wheelchair, crushed body waist down,and they text sick stuff not normal 2things you know...i got at least40-50liking me all time,its exhausting vetting that many suitors a week!!!they wanna call without a heads up ot asking first time,they answer with one word,one sentence question,they have zero interests in me,family,hobbies,nothing😢😢😢😢😢😢
I just clicked on to say that,and that book was okish 59 shades the movie I haven't saw and zero interest bc I know they ain't kept it real,lame,now if Rob zombie directed it like he did the devils reject movie,it'd be on point I'd watch!!check it out you'll agree,that movies lame,before accident I'd been into BDSM3years,so I know,dude liked to whip his wife's butt,like beat...weird 3books first 2good last corny
Madam, you have to adapt criteria, you are >50
truth i also feel like everyone gets offended when they get rated like a 5 and i feel like yes, everyones scale is different but idk i feel like 5 is just average but everyone gets it mixed up and thinks 5 is fucking terrible
Exactly, I told a girl she’s a 6, and she got pissed off but a 6 is above average
Physical beauty is a bellcurve MOST people are like 4-6 its rare to find someone very ugly or very attractive.
@@futurestar2356 I used to think white girls are most attractive but then i found so many of them on omegle without makeup and felt like i was scammed and told lies
@@andergarcia4953 exactly. People think it is evenly distributed when it isn't
As a girl, I think it’s so useful to analyze these dating truths. It’s simply a way to learn more about human nature.
False girl
While it’s interesting indeed the issue is that his videos are filled with mistakes from flash reading and interpreting research (not disagree with this particular video almost 99% of what said here is true)
But I watch his channel in regular basis
@@GreatTaiwan not even 0,001% isn't true
They are all opinions. Do not think its truth until you have heard all sides.
Ps just because someone will say "it's the truth bra" its not necessarily true either 🤣
so do you think woman should stop looking for love after 45 or do you think after 45 women should just date differently ?
You ask 20 something guys for advice on that?
Y’all teaching us that disagreement and respect can exist in the same place. And I appreciate that so much!Great video!
As a woman I think this is a good video for breaking things down but I also think that just because you aren’t prefect doesn’t mean you’re not attractive and being different is not bad but having a huge ego is not good at all but there is a difference between ego and confidence so ya that’s all I had to say
As a girl, you are masochistic.
At the end of the day, we are all going to grow old, looks will fade and we will pass on and go to whatever realm there is after that, don't let the opinions of others and their cold hard truths, and societal opinions dictate your worth, happiness, and confidence. All decent human beings are deserving of love, and respect, regardless of our looks or any societal rules we have to supposedly uphold to be considered good enough. Improve your life and live it to the fullest.
I agree with basically everything you said, but nobody is entitled to or deserving of anything in life.
What a naive and I logically comment lol
No one deserves anything... Very naive
They also said that this isn't about their worth as a human bean...they're only talking about their value in the dating market.
@@BadiNaInsafiHaiRey besides human rights
As a girl, I 100% agree with this video. So many delusional people out there, honestly. A largeee portion of them treat guys really badly too because of how high their ego is. Disappointing
Something is wrong with you, pick me girls won't be ever women. Cry more, motherless girls
A lot of these things can apply to men also? There are men who think there a 10 and there are women that think there a 10 for these same reasons
I completely agree with you guys, I'm a woman and am so sick of this me me me mindset so many women have now-days. being promiscuous and so full of themselves. I honestly think I'm average, pretty but also just average and I wish more people were honest with themselves
Honestly, every girl I found to be extremely attractive has never felt the same for me. I'm 28. I just accepted that it must be because I'm just not attractive, despite being told otherwise. I feel like there are a lot of relationships where one person is way more attractive than the other and when you ask around, people criticize you for not dating EXACTLY what you want but getting exactly what you want just isn't realistic to me. It's all just so depressing tbh... I have someone who's loyal to me, let's me express myself, kind to me, does anything for me, and listens to my wants and needs. I've grown to be happy with what I have.
Wow,, that's damning with faint praise. "I settled for an ugly girl, she's ok I guess, she runs around after me and lets me dominate and caters to me, and I can't get anyone else, so..." is basically what you said. Hope the poor woman leaves you when you least expect it.
Very good comment. I know how do you feel, I felt same when I was young - the guys I was interested in didn't pay me much attention and vice versa. Now as an older woman I know those 'so-called less attractive' guys haven't had real flaws, to be honest my thinking (wanting a very good looking guy) was the problem. People should focus rather on the inner qualities and how the other one makes you feel on the long run, instead of judging others purely by looks.
@@pendafen7405what's wrong with it? Women settle for average dudes once the good looking dudes dont give them Committment.
@@ricorodriguez8141 the most concerning part is that he treats her like a slave and a lesser human, not so much her looks (though it's sad he literally sees her as ugly).
@@pendafen7405 I highly doubt that. Even women who date oofy doofies so that too. These people are a minority.
As a woman myself I think a lot of girls forget that just because you’re not conventionally attractive, don’t get hundreds of likes on selfies, or the most attractive men showing interest in you doesn’t mean you’re not attractive as a whole. Just means according to society expectations/beauty industry’s pressure they won’t think you’re “attractive.” Also don’t forget America makes trillions of dollars off of women wanting to “fit” these standards. FOCUS ON INNER BEAUTY!!
Great review. The breakdown is incredible. 💯
One of the best CZcams channels always speaking facts
npc comment (I completely agree though)
I am female and personally just think most men and women are delusional and have poor results because they choose relationships based on frivolous characteristics. If you are a man seeking a baddie and that is all you care about fine but don’t don’t get mad when she cheats or takes your money and leaves. Similarly if you are a woman and only want a man for his money then don’t get mad when he spends on you till he has hit the cheeks and then bounces. The physical attraction is necessary for the initial encounter but long term relationships should be based on more.
Most Men do not have the power to chase baddies. Average guys always stay in their lane.
@@ricorodriguez8141 masculine "baddies" - sucks
As a girl I agree! But I feel like everyone should be confident in themselves but not have a huge ego abt it 🤷🏽♀️
it's a complete double standard. Women can say that the fact they are funny, go to school, are stable financially etc makes them a 10 but if someone was to flip the script that guy would be shut down within the first ten seconds
As someone that grew up watching these guys; I appreciate that they have taught me that you can both disagree and respect someone.
I’m a girl and I’m watching your video right now and y’all are just preaching facts out here
Which facts?
You guys are SO RIGHT!!! Love this!
In Maryland your low-key becoming a hometown hero
As a young woman myself, its crazy to me people can be on this level of delusion and they're not self aware😭. It's ok to be confident but when you're just being loud and wrong you're embarrassing all women and my fav trio has to call them out
Confident women drop in ratings.
Men prefer shy, modest women.
@@Scorpy666 If you can’t stand with a confidant woman then you aren’t really a confidant man, but instead a boy who is using his woman’s natural shyness to make the boy artificially seem more dominant than he really is.
I am a 4 and I own it😂
@@Scorpy666 who cares what men want? confidant women dont droup in ratings as what men want is not the center of the world. women dont care if you prefer shy or modest women. they can just find a man who dosnt witch they esaily do. women get long nail, heavly make up, loud even tho men dont like.
@@di3486 imagen admitting to be ugly. honeslty, your probally much higher than you rate yourself. but your being a pick me to appel to men
“Moral . Of. The. Story. Subscribe now for FACTS” lmaoooo RHINO IS HILARIOUS. Love to see your videos, it’s definitely enlightening and inspiring, entertaining. ❤ love that quite rhino said “people rather hear comforting lies than harsh truths”
That was such a great vid. Keep up the great work!! Don’t be worried to get cancelled bruh😂 we all know deep down that wheat is a genius
Yo.. Y'all was speaking facts!! 💯 When Noah said "What basketball or football coach is not yelling at their players?!" I felt that!!!!.. To this DAY, I keep hearing my HS coach say: "The only 'E' word I want to hear from you is.. "EXECUTE".. NO EXCUSES!!" 💯🥶 (Watching the defense or Learn my offense)
To this day.. I stay hustling & working!! Lmao 😆😂
You guys always come in clutch with reactions to the realest sh*t.
Keep on spreading awareness 🙏🏼
I think it's as simple as cope. Saying she's a 10 when she's a solid 4, is an attempt to self soothe. She knows her situation is grim. It just makes life bearable for her.
Now see if I come out saying I agree with all of this ppl are gonna call me a ‘pick me’ and that’s the problem with our generation, the fact that we’ll go to all lengths to criticize anyone who won’t feed into their delusions , never ending cycle.
As a woman, I see the word “feminism” thrown around a lot in this video, often portrayed in a negative light. I see many of the points made in this video, but modernized feminism-the ostracized, social media viewpoint of the term-is used when women r uplifting each other’s physical images, and that all girls r a 10. People seemed to have ran with this term too much, and it’s shone in such a negative light to young adult men. Feminism is historically just the advocation for the rights of women, something that is still not achieved yet today. Many countries still lack equal rights, and equal opportunities for women. Feminism is so much bigger than “she’s a 10! She’s gorgeous!”, it’s making sure women have equal pay, an ability to vote, and access to jobs in government just like men.
The times have changed. That's actual meaning of feminism right now
Women have equal pay, the right to vote and access to jobs in every western country…
Crazy that this is the first video I have seen on this channel and the card suits you have in the background on your wall are exactly the same as my forearm tattoo, same order and everything, which is quite rare seeing that its a fairly commonly used set of symbols but in the exact same order is an awesome coincidence. This video was hilariously intetresting!!
Well although there are some people out there (like that) and I do agree with y’all, how come (hear me out) when people finally get confidence that society tells them to have, and when they finally get it…society downgrades their confidence? What’s the point? You say, you shouldn’t care what people think, yea you a 10. Yet when they try to be confident..it’s (oh not like that…or you’re delusional.) like I just spend years tryna be confident lol. You tell me to be confident, and then when I am…you say don’t be THAT confident…😐y’all need help
as a girl watching this video and the rest of y’all’s videos don’t make me feel any type of away😭 can’t argue w logic
As a woman, they just speaking facts. This same thing is happening to my bsf and she thinks shes a 10 since alot of men are simping over her, causing her ego to boost up and be cocky. Crazy world we live in smh 🤣
tell her they just wanna smash, they dont actually like her
She's naïve. Men lie to women, because of their fragile ego's.
Most women are 5's. That's the avarage.
Show the wheat waffles video to your friend. She may get offended but she needs to hear it.
I really enjoy your work. Subscribed.
I say its not abt the looks it abt the person thats inside that is kind and loving but now days people are so diffrent
Who’s actually getting harmed by someone who is unattractive saying they are a 10. Yes, everyone knows some people are more attractive then others but unattractive people usually have it hard when dating and probably had a hard time in school as people are just brutal, so I think if they think they are a 10 so be it, they aren’t gonna effect the beauty standards since they are still unattractive and they will probably just pull their equal.
It's gonna hurt the women that think too highly of themselves when reality hits them.
That’s not how woman work lol
@@55CINCO55 and so what. Let them be. How does that affect anybody but them.
@@disappointment2657 there are more guys being incels since girls that before all this technology boom would’ve chosen them think they are good enough for them and that resentment can cause certain individuals to do disturb any things like mass shooting like have happened before and who knows what else could happen looking at this issue long term.
@@victormartinez6974 but that is a them problem right? Because if these girls don't think those men are not good enough for them then you can't change their mind. And by trying to make fun of them will actually just push them away if any of these incels ever had a chance. That's what I think.
I think you'll know how attractive you are by the way strangers treat you, both men and women. Despite what this video says, "ugly" girls are not being simped by any man, and are usually shunned by other girls too.
As a girl this doesn’t even make me one bit mad. It’s okay to think of yourself as 5/10 or 6/10 as being average is okay 😭😭😭
Imagine all the 2's thinking they're 10's.
Modern women just lack self reflection.
They can't see they're a 2. They need to be told, and they won't.
Because society protects women's feelings like they're panda's going extinct.
@@Scorpy666 yes it’s all body positivity shit
@@Scorpy666 and men, too. How ugly are they and also they comment women beauty
Other than reducing generalization we should normalize giving sources and not saying “there was a study” or “they did a study” like who??? Thats literally the most important part to show credibility😂😂😂
So she should just be depressed and told shes ugly and nb wants her and be depressed and suicidal? What different are we if we do the things women do to us constantly, been called ugly my whole live and I never want anyone to feel ugly and unwanted it's better to live in LA LA land than in real life. To wrongs dont make a right boys
It’s better to have self confidence with humility, then think of yourself better then anyone
As a non-american, I always find it funny when an american woman say "I have a great personality" as a plus for them as a possible partner. First, how do they know it? What is a great personality? How do you measure it? Did you mother tell you that? How can you have a great personality when you just follow the herd and the current fad?
one thing i noticed in the beginning of the video is that the girls who are ranked as 5's are prettier to me then one of the girls ranked as a 7. so in the end, most people don't have an actual score, they have a range.. beauty is fr in the eye of the beholder
This is definitely an interesting topic. Tbh I think about this often. And sometimes I really want to have somebody give me a brutally honest rating… just so that I can know, but I literally don’t know anyone who would tell me honestly. But I try to be honest with myself when I try to think about how much I’d rate myself.
Also side note: I like that you guys highlighted the difference between sexual market place ‘value’ and just human value; lol seems small but I think it’s important for some ppl to hear.
Your a 7 with that profile
Based on your profile 6.5 to a 7, just to be fair I’m a guy and I rate myself a 5.
@@molemohitsebela9206 appreciate the honest rating!
@@progamer_otaku6542 thanks for the honest rating! I wonder what that number means for me in a practical sense/real world context, but its good to at least know! For todays standards I think it sounds low, but if we are being totally honest, saying that 5 is average, then thats a compliment kind of.
Also just for fun, would you rather be a 5 guy or a 5 girl? Personally, I think its better to be a 5 guy because I think there's more ways you can increase your value to the opposite sex (in terms of attracting a partner). But I might be wrong, what do you think?
@@nataliamalagon2410 now for man that’s a 5 success isn’t just thrown around to every man, there bound to be men who will remain in their position for the rest of their lives, at no fault of their own just the hand they were dealt, you can looks this up yourself throughout history on 40% of the male population have been able to reproduce, that mean 60% of men fall to the waste side, but on the contrast 90% of women were able to reproduce throughout history, so the threshold for men who average is a lot more difficult for women who are average.
as i woman i understand men have standards or preferences i won't be able to fit and that's fine by me id rather die than be in a relationship with some one who doesn't share the same feelings as you do for them