Why Women Don't Want You When You're Struggling - Men Need To Hear This

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Komentáře • 151

  • @jamesschmidlin789
    @jamesschmidlin789 Před měsícem +90

    *WHO GIVES FUCK- IF THEY DON'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU THEN THEY'RE NOT WORTH BEING WITH YOU NOW*

  • @GypsyKing999
    @GypsyKing999 Před měsícem +77

    When YOU elevate HER, she thinks she is better than YOU. DON'T play yourselves

    • @4669Mikehines
      @4669Mikehines Před měsícem +12

      i agree on this one . i dont fall for it at all. i had a female get mad and leave becasue i didnt wine and dine and trick all my money. it was just sex and za za in the air . I understood the assignment

    • @a1pha_star
      @a1pha_star Před měsícem +3

      Well said!

  • @TheShospitali
    @TheShospitali Před měsícem +42

    Sometimes I don't even care what women want anymore. Who cares about jumping through all those hoops to please one. A man nowadays has to work several times harder than his poor old grandfather did for a woman thats twenty times less than his grandmother was or ever will be!

    • @stormchaser419
      @stormchaser419 Před měsícem +5

      Indeed. This is truth

    • @cursed5359
      @cursed5359 Před měsícem +1

      Go see a professional, cut out the bullshit yk you pay either way so why not save the time and effort and just take a vacation somewhere

    • @MBryy
      @MBryy Před měsícem +2

      You mean a million times worse*

    • @RobertCarter-vg4pk
      @RobertCarter-vg4pk Před měsícem

      @@cursed5359shut up

    • @user-qo1us9oc7g
      @user-qo1us9oc7g Před měsícem

      Men back then worked hard and usually got a virgin

  • @mastermindrational1907
    @mastermindrational1907 Před měsícem +54

    There was a study done on what women want. It concluded they want EVERYTHING. Good luck, gentlemen. I will be grinding towards my goals, with or without a woman.

    • @DeadMeat-7
      @DeadMeat-7 Před měsícem +5

      That's it 💯

    • @Hydroy
      @Hydroy Před měsícem +4

      Lol

    • @aronrosas4191
      @aronrosas4191 Před měsícem +7

      Everything is not enough.

    • @Healthytruth
      @Healthytruth Před měsícem

      Population control is real and they k kw how to play women in their nature . A real one will see this fake designed reality and see money has nothing to do with anything

    • @Relentless.assault
      @Relentless.assault Před měsícem +4

      The world is not enough

  • @kaiseri.4641
    @kaiseri.4641 Před měsícem +56

    My Grandfather wasn't a super successful millionaire, but he married for my Grandmother, who was 10/10 with 0 body count.
    Now I should work 10 times more to get a 5/10 with 10+ bod y count.......

    • @bobgreenfield9158
      @bobgreenfield9158 Před měsícem +1

      Why not a CornStar with hundreds in the body count?

    • @abudakuba4527
      @abudakuba4527 Před měsícem +7

      it´s called feminism

    • @MWALevi
      @MWALevi Před měsícem +6

      It's called Hoeflation

    • @bloodsweatntearswarrior223
      @bloodsweatntearswarrior223 Před měsícem +2

      Work 10x harder on yourself not for someone or something that has 10x the incentive not to work with/for you

  • @user-ic5ku2jk6j
    @user-ic5ku2jk6j Před měsícem +28

    This is exactly why settling with one once you get things going for yourself is questionable. Love is clearly conditional for the most part with them.

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 Před měsícem +3

      Sad, but true.

    • @colc8535
      @colc8535 Před měsícem +5

      It’s an all an entrapment to weaken and make men powerless and be at the mercy of a woman

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 Před měsícem +17

    Better to be alone than be in bad company. Better to be in good company than to be alone.
    You ARE the company you KEEP.

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 Před měsícem +27

    Life is DIFFICULT. But life isn't BAD. If you think life is BAD because life is DIFFICULT, life will NEVER be good.

    • @k1ndr3dspirits
      @k1ndr3dspirits Před měsícem +2

      @@jonkas4542 Well said. This hit home with me. 💯

  • @patrickrobinson545
    @patrickrobinson545 Před měsícem +16

    Don't care when im struggling, So what women want i could cate less!

  • @johnyeager8667
    @johnyeager8667 Před měsícem +23

    I've been in 4 or 5 relationships.My whole life and I'm 60 years old.One was a marriage and they all did the same shit pretty much

  • @kludgedude
    @kludgedude Před měsícem +10

    As a man you’re on your own

  • @sq9779
    @sq9779 Před měsícem +7

    Who cares what they want, you shouldn’t be caring at all lol.

  • @user-ph5dk9ms5t
    @user-ph5dk9ms5t Před měsícem +12

    So when you stumble and fall while being married, they'll dump you as well.

  • @tacohitman4003
    @tacohitman4003 Před měsícem +23

    Security. Easy answer. Men who are struggling can’t provide that.

    • @shamimanohar
      @shamimanohar Před měsícem

      Women are hypocrites. They want security, but they also want the thrill of losing it. That's why they say they want nice guys, but lose control and get excited by bad guys.

    • @yt-user03561
      @yt-user03561 Před měsícem +9

      And if a woman already has that security by herself, why would she need more from a man? Greed.

    • @Healthytruth
      @Healthytruth Před měsícem +1

      When a woman has money she thinks she is better than you .

    • @tylerk140
      @tylerk140 Před měsícem

      ​@@Healthytruthfacts or college degree

  • @BrenSoleo
    @BrenSoleo Před měsícem +5

    Being hard on people you care about is good

  • @user-xs5so5rz6r
    @user-xs5so5rz6r Před měsícem +11

    I don't want them wen I got bag either

  • @deanthomas983
    @deanthomas983 Před měsícem +4

    Rest if you must but NEVER under any circumstances quit. NEVER!!

  • @johnyeager8667
    @johnyeager8667 Před měsícem +11

    They make you stumble and fall for their bullshit and then blame you for it

  • @kennv7566
    @kennv7566 Před měsícem +8

    Women wait at the finish line to pick the winner.

    • @omars365moments
      @omars365moments Před měsícem

      which is why you need to lay low and put the work in

  • @devilsadvocacy
    @devilsadvocacy Před měsícem +2

    They didn't want me when I was on my grind. Now that I'm in my prime, why should I want any of the ones who thought I wasn't good enough?

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 Před měsícem +5

    At 21, I suddenly lost my ability to walk, talk and eat with a fork. Took years before I could read an entire page and understand it in reasonable time. Dating?!? Pfft...
    Now I'm 52 and making really good coin. Traveling in my own lane and at my own pace.
    My emptiness has given me freedom to explore this planet. I'm lucky.

  • @kellileaneriley4263
    @kellileaneriley4263 Před měsícem +11

    I don't care to work so we dont struggle but holy hell. Did yall know if you pay bills first, everything else is just extra money?? To save or FVCK off?? Nobody wants to raise a grown man or woman... And usually if you are struggling, you are going to be stressed and fighting with each other for no reason other than struggling.... If you try to tell someone hey your bad habits are becoming an issue or financial burden, you are just trying to change the person and if you leave, oh my god you abandon me when i needed you the most... It gets old really fast and whats a good solution?? Im all ears

  • @Nick84525
    @Nick84525 Před měsícem +3

    I do everything alone and when i am out and about work gym beach grocery store etc i ignore women i refuse to have anything to do with a woman with nose rings tattoos and colored hair.

  • @connorfortier2699
    @connorfortier2699 Před měsícem +5

    Eagles fly alone.

  • @MrHDProd
    @MrHDProd Před měsícem +7

    It’s all about attraction. If you look like Jeremy Meeks you can do no wrong and woman will do everything for you. If you not a Chad/Tyrone it’s over for you I’m sorry 😞

    • @ShavonR-il6yz
      @ShavonR-il6yz Před měsícem +1

      That's not always true even if your good looking eventually she still wants the provider the guy with security too take care of her a man's looks don't go ass far ass a woman looks rich men marry hot women everyday how many rich women marry broke good-looking men I'll wait because it doesn't happen and if so it's extremely rare ASF 😢

  • @elijahmonmn9249
    @elijahmonmn9249 Před měsícem +2

    Hey brothers, I got a decent lady now. She reciprocates what I put out. That’s all I’ve ever wanted out of a woman, and she ain’t too bad. You gotta find, and love yourself first and foremost! I am still working out, running, hanging out with my family, working, and doing what I want. Become the man you are meant to be by making decisions. If you don’t wake up, then you won’t see what could be. “We suffer more in imagination than in reality.” ~ Seneca

    • @Green89_
      @Green89_ Před 28 dny

      Are you paying for everything

  • @jimherring7315
    @jimherring7315 Před měsícem +1

    I had to let toxic family and toxic friends go as well. And been focusing on my self building myself up! They drained my energy with lies and manipulation and disrespectful behaviors. Such trashy people. Had to let them go! They always downplayed any achievements I have done. Always hating.

  • @johnyeager8667
    @johnyeager8667 Před měsícem +9

    Women are the one who wants that are making a struggle.So why do we wanna put any effort towards a hundred percent of ourselves

  • @bezoznaught5261
    @bezoznaught5261 Před měsícem +2

    F em', life is a struggle and they'll feel it after 30 and understand when it's too late.

  • @johnmoran7996
    @johnmoran7996 Před měsícem +2

    I'll say this again!same deal here.personally,I like it that way.staying single and focusing on myself.😊👍🏻

  • @blazebradley4276
    @blazebradley4276 Před měsícem +10

    The world needs strong men. Not men who constantly need to fit in or complain about silly things 24/7. We are suppose build ourselves properly, and overcome challenges that may come our way. If you’re afraid to become better, you already lost the battle.

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies Před měsícem +5

      Forgive me Sir but aren't you sitting here and complaining?

    • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
      @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Před měsícem +3

      I’m 42 ran 10.6 miles in the dead middle of the day today in 95 degree heat, running hills. Felt good I’ll go farther soon.

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies Před měsícem +1

      @@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Have you ever considered swimming or a less impactful form of training? Aren't you worried about not being able to walk when you get old from the repeated impact? I'd suggest cycling but it's way too dangerous on the streets.

    • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
      @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Před měsícem

      @@SnakesandDoggies I’ve thought about it but running is harder more of a mental challenge plus I like nature. Sitting on a bike in the gym is boring.

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies Před měsícem

      @@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Ride the trails on the bike, you can cover 20 miles, see more cool stuff, if there is anything where you are, just don't get too crazy and take a header cause high speed injuries suck real bad too. Even a super low speed crash could take someone out if their head hits the concrete. A guy over here 80+ years old got hit at 12 -15mph and he didn't make it. Either way good for you man! The hottest and most fit girls I've seen have been runners. Some are pure muscle but sooooooo hot. With the ponytails bouncing as well half the time. The outfits too... 😋

  • @blazebradley4276
    @blazebradley4276 Před měsícem +12

    Well said man. All men need to hear this. 💯🔥

  • @doctorgames101b
    @doctorgames101b Před měsícem +1

    Perseverance is key to success and victory. No rewards are not place on your lap while being idle and lazy. Right on, Joel.

  • @t-bonev5637
    @t-bonev5637 Před měsícem +3

    There's no problem having a small group of friends, however it's not ok to disregard the rest of the world imo. I choose to stay cordial and humble. Every once in a while it's good to bs with the troops, let them know and remind myself I'm human too. Even though I and someone else can't be close friends, there's nothing wrong with putting forth a little effort to communicate that at the very least I'm not trying to be hostile toward them. It is rare that a leader will never come across someone they don't agree with on many things of life. I think it's how you handle yourself in those times that have a big impact on how you turn out.

  • @AerisVera7
    @AerisVera7 Před měsícem +1

    Should be titled 'Why everyone doesn't want you when you're struggling..." That's suitable though because the harder the come up the greater the rise.

  • @bloodsweatntearswarrior223
    @bloodsweatntearswarrior223 Před měsícem +1

    Young man you are ahead of your time…ontop of your game and wise amongst most of your generation. AT 18??! Forget about it young blood 💪🏾💪🏾🔥 keep up the message…Patience is key, being hard on yourself now WILL make it easier in the near future. Be tough, build and hold your own. Multi layer yourself with knowledge, will, discipline, self confidence and patience, you will be able to open doors to quality relationships, adapt and survive anytime that arises. Stay humble and blessed

  • @Hunnidproof888
    @Hunnidproof888 Před měsícem +3

    I resonate with you on many levels dawg. I was going through it and was seeing some girl and the dynamic just felt so off on my masculine energy.
    Had to cut it short and get my shii together. She was a great woman but I rather it be this way tbh.
    I can tell you’ve actually gone through life based on the advice you give. I be giving similar advice to those that deserve it around me.

  • @Babs42
    @Babs42 Před měsícem +1

    This is why men need to lift each other up, women do not get the struggles. They will never understand. They're great for being there for their children but you need a mentor that is a MAN for support IMHO. You want a wife eventually and not a mother.

  • @SamuelSurbrook98
    @SamuelSurbrook98 Před měsícem +1

    Every man 🧍‍♂️ is in a dilemma as far as an individual. You are going to have to fight through some of the challenges that come along with being the best. Things happen and you are going to have to push through regardless.

  • @jimherring7315
    @jimherring7315 Před měsícem +1

    Your videos are inspiring Terry!

  • @gardenswell
    @gardenswell Před měsícem

    thank you, it's important to stay positive

  • @thomaswalton7554
    @thomaswalton7554 Před měsícem +2

    Good weather only.

  • @Deron8564
    @Deron8564 Před měsícem +1

    Needed to hear this

  • @andrewgordon4782
    @andrewgordon4782 Před 19 dny

    Its the Darkness we all have to fight through the darkness (the Devils work Depression anxiety lust and Drugs and so on) we fight through the darkness to find the light its a Constant battle!

  • @arcmov24
    @arcmov24 Před měsícem +3

    Men should focus on these things to be better not necessarily to attain a women

  • @ben.scanlan
    @ben.scanlan Před měsícem +1

    This one was fire

  • @Uknown291
    @Uknown291 Před měsícem +12

    i never cared about women...

  • @NIEMILYFACET1980
    @NIEMILYFACET1980 Před měsícem

    Good video bro 👌👍

  • @cj_divine11
    @cj_divine11 Před měsícem +6

    I'm too focused on making music and art. My producer taysty beats thinks I'm fire 🔥

  • @jsstapia4
    @jsstapia4 Před měsícem

    Real fam 💯

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome Před měsícem

    They need to be committed and make women feel safe. Be real not use women and threaten them, they have to be realistic out here. Even if the guy is hot that doesn’t mean much it’s not a game to be cruel with women or anyone. Respect people. And avoid bad friend or family groups that don’t support your relationship

  • @JonasTF24
    @JonasTF24 Před měsícem +1

    Because it's been programmed into them - and us - by like a millenia of harsh conditions:
    Women's "selfishness" = infant survival
    Us men have to adapt to the times, but SO DO THEY: And if that means them self-correcting their toxic excess self-interest (selfishness) to be worthy of love, then so be it

  • @WalkingMeatSuit1925
    @WalkingMeatSuit1925 Před měsícem +1

    Its clearly this simple if you didn't want me within my struggles I have every right, as well as all of the power and authority to decline your invitations upon my come-ups and you women will feel that sting within the long-run when all you're left with are with MEN you're not even remotely attracted to I.E pump and dumpers, or fake nice and fake good guys that are putting on nothing but a facade in the attempt to be someone they're really not knowing this world is collapsing without me is my reward along with blessing its a given I'll go by my own opinions, my own thought's, validations, and approvals while the world can drown within theirs

  • @ChaViElNuevo
    @ChaViElNuevo Před měsícem

    This real 🫡💯

  • @601marcusable
    @601marcusable Před 12 hodinami

    Amen bro stay single

  • @JesusUCSB
    @JesusUCSB Před měsícem +5

    Can you make a video for Veterans and PTSD Anxiety… Too many of us are hurting. God bless

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies Před měsícem

      Vitamin D man. You gotta get lots of vitamin d. It reduces sue you know WHAT rates by astronomical numbers just vitamin d alone. Sunshine, but usually sun is not enough cause most folks are not out long enough.
      Full spectrum gummy bears, start with a 5mg dose so you don't trip out and go to 10 or 20 after. They take half hour to kick in. Always critical to take less and work your way up. Don't mix with alcohol. Unless you're prone to psychotic episodes then don't eat any.

  • @user-xs5so5rz6r
    @user-xs5so5rz6r Před měsícem

    DONT WANT ME , I JUST WANT OUT THIS SITUATION

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd Před měsícem +7

    Thank you for the video Terry ❤

  • @user-gj2wn1eh1n
    @user-gj2wn1eh1n Před měsícem +1

    Eve was made from Adam . Not Adam from Eve. God made man from the dust of the ground breathe the breath of life into him and he became a living soul.

  • @heatmecoolme
    @heatmecoolme Před měsícem +4

    Where’s this guys woman?
    He claims women are just waiting for the right man.
    NO THEY ARE NOT!
    Why does he make 2 videos a day?
    Cause women don’t want him either.
    Work on taking care of yourself.
    Be selfish like women are being.

  • @DavidHunter-ob6so
    @DavidHunter-ob6so Před měsícem +1

    They want your ATM . . . and perhaps your soul ?

  • @fireguy96
    @fireguy96 Před měsícem

    🔥

  • @PaulaMc14
    @PaulaMc14 Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Cleapatras333
    @Cleapatras333 Před měsícem

    thankyou for being on my team I love and miss yall I appreciate everything your doing bro cant wait to come home cuz

  • @vpower3187
    @vpower3187 Před měsícem

    It's like Super Mario. Bowser(Satan) has taken your woman long ago, whether you've met her yet or not, you just need to beat him to get her back.

  • @a1pha_star
    @a1pha_star Před měsícem +1

    Always appreciate your words of wisdom. 🙏

  • @guitawrizt
    @guitawrizt Před měsícem

    Get Oat

  • @RobertCarter-vg4pk
    @RobertCarter-vg4pk Před měsícem

    I don’t know anybody that doesn’t want me

  • @davemojarra2666
    @davemojarra2666 Před měsícem

    Evolutionary psychology, dont take it personally.

  • @RB-jq6gh
    @RB-jq6gh Před měsícem +1

    Outside the commercial rat race..there's no relation..just Hypergamy.

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 Před měsícem +8

    I've heard of cases where a strug- gling man married a woman who helps him climb to the top of his profession, and become rich, respected, and famous. Only for the husband to discard his wife who helped him, for a younger woman. Then, he will battle her in court, to try to keep her from getting any of his money. That is why I think women should probably wait until the man she wants becomes successful on his own. She could work on herself and her own career in the interim. Because working to help your man succeed, only to be discarded for a young, pretty bimbo once he has suc- ceeded....what could be worse than that? I know of the former Betty Broderick case, in which this exact thing happened.

    • @markeverson5849
      @markeverson5849 Před měsícem

      Oh really it happened to a woman! so you make it sound like it'll happen every time. there's scumbags on both sides, but that doesn't mean all ar scumbags and losers.

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia Před měsícem +2

      1. Did she get the money ?
      2. Did she cheat?
      Btw in the Betty Broderick case she literally MURDERED the dude 😂. Probably not the best example to use
      Cheating is wrong either way especially if youre married but theres pluses and minuses whether the woman marries before the mans success or after. If she marries before then shes entitled to something. Whatever the man earns before marriage is his, whatever he earns after is split.
      If a woman gets with a man after he is successful why should she be entitled to anything? She contributed nothing. Unfortunately in the states women are highly predatory and often get away with this

    • @ShameenYakubu
      @ShameenYakubu Před měsícem +2

      I’ve never seen a woman build a man up in modern times.

  • @Healthytruth
    @Healthytruth Před měsícem

    What fight . I’m done with this rat race. I’m out this matrix

  • @JasonScott604
    @JasonScott604 Před měsícem +3

    Women want cash

    • @kennv7566
      @kennv7566 Před měsícem +4

      They want the easy life no hardships.

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn Před měsícem +4

      They want to impress other women with Instagram pics .

  • @punch-in-pete
    @punch-in-pete Před měsícem

    12:13 Look I bet this comment won't get pinned or liked, reply and I'll do absolutely NOTHING.

  • @TroyHanson-ch6nm
    @TroyHanson-ch6nm Před měsícem +2

    That's great news.. So if i don't want a Lady i will show struggle. Thanks for the tip 👍 more cash for me fosho 😄

  • @ROMANS3-25KJV
    @ROMANS3-25KJV Před měsícem +19

    Only Jesus saves from hell. All have sinned (Romans 3:23 KJV). The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).

    • @bobgreenfield9158
      @bobgreenfield9158 Před měsícem

      Think of evolution.
      Adam and Eve didn't exist.
      No original sin.
      Jesus is nothing.

    • @ROMANS3-25KJV
      @ROMANS3-25KJV Před měsícem +3

      @@bobgreenfield9158 evolution is illogical. And Jesus Christ is THE LORD. Get saved before it's too late for you.

    • @luminouseasportsfc
      @luminouseasportsfc Před měsícem

      Get outta here with all this Bible talk

    • @kinfoul
      @kinfoul Před měsícem +1

      Tell Jesus I need to borrow a million dollars

  • @ShavonR-il6yz
    @ShavonR-il6yz Před měsícem +2

    Leave these golddiggers alone they only want you at the finish line when they can use you for money that's the only time they show interest or act nice towards men when they can get something out of you that's not love if she's not with you on the come up she don't deserve you when u at the top even when you get money ghost these 304s ignore them don't give them your energy let the drown

  • @TheGeorgenc40
    @TheGeorgenc40 Před měsícem

    It doesn't make sense for a man to be the 'superior leader' of women who need direction from a man or else they can't be together that's complete BS 🥱