Relationships Are Overrated? Bill Burr & Nia REACTION
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It's way better to be single and lonely, than in a relationship and lonely. At least you have your freedom.
That's true but at the same time I hope that person had the balls / means to get out of the bad relationship. You're right that's more sad than being alone....
Umm no... Aids isn't better than cancer. Smh
It is weird to be together, yet somehow alone... Awful feeling... Too much hesitation from both, renders to a void of.... Ugh
Now I'm single and waiting to mingle still.... Go figure
No, it's not better. It just leads to unplanned childlessness. The biological clock is ticking while you'all keep selling this misguided nonsense. You don't just find a relationship you build one with a non-perfect partner.
I agree you I do
Bill and Nia “women have no game” is SO FUNNY.
I have news for nia. Everyone dies alone unless your in a plane crash.
Hahahhaa yoooo chill
He got a point.
Bill and I are so similar it's insane... I guess those articles you see about divorce having quite the psychological effects on children are true.( In my case). Also relationships are truly overrated and people need to chill and plan out their lives a bit more before jumping into it.
I love Nia's reaction & responses.
Im shocked at how quick she got that chappelle reference.
He's my favorite comedian lol
@@BigDaddyMoMo1 who can argue. Btw I'd like to recommend "nia makes bill burr take an ADHD test" its hilarious. Love from 🇨🇦
Your persona is such a breath of fresh air... Respect!
Good reaction Big Dirty! Bill and Nia are great together. And your points about relationships were very perceptive.
You are 100% correct momo, I also spent a few years figuring myself out, so I would stop picking women that were opposite of what I wanted. Turns out, I was very broken for a number of reasons, few of them were from women I had dated previously. I didn't even understand how to correctly identify emotions, and once I did, I see the same issue in most people.
What do you mean by "correctly identify emotions"?
I'm so glad you got into bill burr
You can't cancel a ginger. They are born cancelled.
I could listen to you say superior all day...lol😂
I decided to go single about 6 years ago and it's been awesome and really see no reason to be in a romantic relationship in the future. Putting my energy into me and my growth and development instead of wasting it on some Laaaaaaaydeez has lead to many good experiences and outcomes. Also single does not mean lonely, you only feel lonely if you are unable to handle being alone with your own thoughts.
Most of the time single does mean lonely. Especially for men.
@@silenttitan416 - For you maybe!
@@larey12 not just me, most men want a companion. Just most will never say anything about it .
I agree with you. I know people who need to be in a relationship and then they end up bad relationships. I think they probably aren’t happy with themselves and are looking for validation from someone.
I agree with you. Why do we make the choices we make? Causes, and conditions.
I mean it's very interesting and telling how literally ALL of the blame is being put on the guy that wrote in. Saying "all men are scum" after a girl gets scorned is fine. Let a dude say it and it suddenly becomes stereotyping, generalizing and bad. Just saying..
nobody said that was fine. Where did you hear that?
I have never heard when a woman say that anyone says it fine my guy what is wrong with you are you like this dude did a girl hurt your feefee
Your a great way to start my day 😍.
Love ya Robaaaaht!
The thing about attracting wrong type of person and dating only those type might come also from specific self-conditioning - we tend to generalize and adapt to our environment - if we see all men or women around us or in relation with us acting specific way, we assume (subconsciously, but also at conscious level to some degree) that it's normal and we shouldn't expect anything else. That's why so many ppl stick to all kinds of vicious circles. And that's the "calling for help" BB is talking about (or at least part of it). As for relationships, I thinks they rank like this: being with someone happy > being alone > being with someone unhappy. In 1st case you share happy moments, you can talk about them, you can rely on each other etc. When you're single, you can invest in your hobbies, discover yourself, have more time to work over yourself and freedom to decide about everything. In 3rd case, you lose most of advantages of 1st and 2nd case in exchange for maybe cheaper life, some stability and sex. There is much more to all that, but I don't want to write dissertation about that. :)
I love your laugh lol
I think one of the greatest reason why many relationships suck is because one or both individuals have never talked about why they want to be in a relationship(or hell even thought about a reason.) If one person is just looking for some casual romance and sex and the other is looking for someone whom may become a spouse then the relationship is going to crash and burn.
10:30 Knowing what you want out of a friendship before stepping into a relationship is prob really good. And for some reason people don't give relationships time. If there is physical attraction between two. Great. That's where you start. Then its about exploring and doing things that are exciting. Having fun together and sharing great moments together.
Instead, I think a lot of people dont know what they want (men and female), are not interested in what the other person wants or to dumb to understand(I feel this is almost always the case when I hear men complain about their wife/girlfriend) and they don't want to put in the effort to keep working on themselves and their relationship. To me its no surprise that 50% of marriage fails. Because a lot of people just are not that adventurous or active. And it's easy for someone to say after 5 years of the same complaints: you know, I'm better off without this shit. It's not gonna change so why do I bother: give me my freedom back.
What a thoughtful and mature comment. I appreciate you.
@@BigDaddyMoMo1 awh thank you ;)
relationships will only work if both sides have the same views of love in their heart
I don't think BidDaddy understands... every man has been through the same shit this dude has. The difference between him and a "mature" guy is just in how he dealt with it internally. This dude is just angry and perplexed at some finer points of normal female behavior. Which are often infuriating and perplexing to young men. Hopefully he doesn't hurt someone (or himself) before he "matures". It a bit sad for me Nia is so clueless she dismisses him as a complete nut-job without a second thought.
They are a perfect match , lol !
Mia is so damage in soo many levels..poor old lady 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol I’m a Bostonian and I’m like “why does she have a jersey accent”. In Boston we don’t say both names. We only have a pet name based on the first or a dharacter trait based off something funny you did while you were drunk
If people give out the vibe that relationships are overrated, you will attract casual people with the same vibe.. so if one fall in love with the other, that person will sabotage or break your heart down the road🤣🤣 to wrongs don't make a right.
That back photo looks like Slaiman and Kate
Ali siddiq mexicans got on boots is a great story by a great story teller
I've been single for a long time and i've been hurt a lot, but if I don't heal my wounds, I'll go bleed on someone who did't hurt me. You need to love yourself and you need to know how to make the other person love him/herself more.
First thing is there's no such thing as unconditional love outside of the love of a parent to a child. From a man's point of view, you are only loved under the condition that you provide something. That's just the way it is. It's not a complaint. It's just the facts. Most people dating or in relationships expect perfection from their partner while looking for their partner to overlook their imperfections.
React to Ali siddiq "Mexicans got on boots"😂
think the bit is called "prison riot".
You're from greater NY metropolitan area aren't you?
Women take Bill Personally, thats because the shoe fits . They all are this way !!
I believe the guy forgot one key thing. People are social creatures who make relationships with other people, places, and things. We make relationships with complete strangers in our mind at times. We feel sad when something close to us is disheartened, destroyed, or hurt in some way. Guys may have more relationships with guys as that is what we do. Women are the same. All our relationships are very from complex to simple. Nothing is a one size fits all style of relationship. One thing for sure you hold friends and family (wither blood family, found family, or fuzzy butt family) close. You find those you can sink with. The universe has this magical way of sending what we are looking for. Sometimes, we keep getting the same caliber of person over and over. Does this seems to be what we are meant to be around?
No, we may get these people over and over just for the universe to point a big finger at us in order for it to jackhammer in this one simple point. The point is "This type of person is not good for you. Wake up and remove them from your life." As we all can be stubborn... we all may not initially hear it. Some may never hear it. Others are smart enough to listen possibly the second time and be like, "NOPE! Not doing this again."
As we are social creatures, we do this over and over. We start allowing this into our hearts and it flows through our romantic relationships. We start letting this effect our hearts and we go through the same type of person we fill attracted to. We deeply know the warning signs but we ignore them. We realized falling in love feel amazing. We cling to what feels amazing to ignore the pain and discomfort of the day to day or the past. We aren't perfect, but yet we keep doing this.. like that old broken record still revolving on the turntable. We have gotten use to the scratches, distortions, and even silence to find the twisted beauty in it. Finally, that record that is our most cherished relationship (at that time) and it breaks. The shards rip into our hearts and minds. We do not know how to remove the pain... so we write, sing, paint, insert something here that is constructive...or do something drastic and possibly destructive. With romantic relationships, this stings the worst. Then we may release an article, "Relationships are like overrated" becuase we simply refused to listen and ignore that type of person.
While there are some good points that we all can agree on, there is more vile hatefulness woven into the words. It is designed to push buttons especially with the fairer sex. Women more so than men have been brought up to rely on relationships ever since the dawn of time. It is apart of the 300 million year old programming we simply can not turn off without great effort. Some get it turned off by force others may never have it turned on. With it turned off or never turned on... we get some of the worst sort of people mankind has known. Many have forgotten, we survived through the trials of the planet becuase of our differences between male and female, regardless if it is out physical, mental, or emotional dimorphism.
After all this time... all these millions of years. We should still be try to be social, find happiness, protect one another, inspire the younger generations, and most of all... keep on living. Because as we seen from the article, when you are dead on the inside... you can be very hateful and be poison to those around us and especially to ourselves. You won't grow becuase you will always compare the next to thing to the thing that failed you. To me, that is a very sad existence.
Nia proving the guy is right😂
Best line on this I've heared: "If you take the same set of unexamined presuppositions to every relationship the same fate will play out". In other words if you think of women in a oneside cardboard kind of way. Then a woman is gonna react the same way every time to whatever the heck you are expecting from her or projection onto her.
But if you take a step back and listen and grow as a person then you are both going to be able to relate to each other on so many more levels. If you don't move beyond your own bullshit-game you are never going to see the potential of what you could achieve with someone: best advice imo.
Billy long nuts 😂🤣😂🤣
Bill and Nia dated for like 15 years, I think. It wasn't specifically a comparison when she talked about marriage
The guys right
If it smacks you in a face it's not a healthy relationship.
13:46 .....what does that mean?...weed brownies?
Most woman have absolutely no ideia of what women are capable of doing to their significant other.
Why do women always play the “you’ll die alone” card. Everyone dies alone and there is nothing to stop the other person from taking off anyway.
"it's the brown coming out you guys! it's screwing up my english!" ha ha ha [hits subscribe button]
Momo is a cool, down to earth, caramel coated angel 😉
edit: when you're brown, you're the best... around!
Look... life already told me that thing.... that we can have those things with friends etc etc. But its not true. We all need that time where we need to be alone, so we can heal, learn, but most important to live with yourself, by yourself There's much more to say about this, but its not that easy and simple...
Can’t fight nature, kid.
Not fighting nature. I love trees. I'd never
Nia rocks lol love you
I'm married and in a pretty good marriage and I agree with 95% of what the guy said. Honestly men only get married for 2 reasons. 1 is to have a family. 2. Sexual exclusivity.
i miss being married; i just wish i had missed it BEFORE i fucked it up
Single and an old white man and I love it, there's a price to pay on either side of the coin so it's what you prefer. I came to the conclusion I'm to selfish to share space time and feelings with someone equally gave it a shot a few times not for me, and don't hate women but there emotions are no fun for me, whew. 😊
This dude has been hurt or is hurting for a long time, he's angry and confused and lashing out. Nia is just as problematic for dismissing him and referring to him as an asshole instead of what he really is, a lost and tortured soul who needs guidance. Finding somebody who is truly compatible is extremely difficult and even then making the relationship work takes a lot, so people are going to have frustrations along the way and come to some unhealthy conclusions sometimes. I believe you should focus on being happy and content with yourself and by yourself first, before seeking out a relationship. Sort yourself out, conquer your issues, and be content with and find your own self. I disagree with the notion that being single is lonely and you're missing out on something by choosing this path. For some people this is preferred, and there isn't anything wrong with them and you shouldn't pity them either. I could continue to rant about the pros of being single and the cons of having a partner but I'll end this by saying; you should take life as it comes at you and try to make the best out of your situation. Constantly seek to improve yourself and never force something that feels unnatural. For some this might mean not having a partner.
He is right in some points, but he is to anger to women, he is generalizing ,not all women are the same but in his world it is, and you are absolutely right, he should realize that he has some responsibility of the type of women he's attracting
enjoy dying alone ? love my freedom !
no,he's right. you're being gibberish coz you know he's right 🤣🤣
i mean Bill,not the guy,bah!
Maybe it's not a case of only attracting a certain type of person and it's a situation where those type of people are the only ones around. Everyone's worldview is built of their own experience and if the only available people are exactly as he describes then of course in his mind ALL women are like that cause that's what his real world life experience has taught him to be 100% correct. Same goes for the opposite, if the only people you've ever met and know are all wonderful lovely people then that's what you think other people are and horrible nasty people only exist on tv as that's the only place you've ever seen them.
Bill is right.
Equating*
Momo put an emphasis on the word duschbag multiple times. She's obviously speaking directly to her ex's LMAO. No bubbles no troubles Momo. Calm down everything gonna be ok. I'm sure they're watching and get the point that they screwed up😂😂😂
Was it obvious? I did not intend that AT ALL 🤣🤣
@@BigDaddyMoMo1I'm spot on 99.9% of the time. You're hilarious. As obvious as the damn sun in the sky😂
I got married in Bali when I was 47 never thought I got married, she took everything I had, which I don't really care about I still have my sanity. She got the house and car. I got a footon as bill says
13 years with my girlfriend. Happy every day ! Of course you remember your first love but when you meet the right one it is different. We are getting married and no way the years will shut that down. Everybody told me "wait after 3 and then 7 month... then it whas 3 and 7 years). Still going on like the first night we met !
first time listening to u, your very funny ! like your point of view from a female perspective
06:10 How do you not attract those type of people exactly? 🤔
Guy's trying to point out the fundamental differences between how men and women view relationships. He's more right than wrong. Nia's knee-jerk reaction does more to prove his point than not, as Bill astutely points out. Sure, he's got issues. But who says he needs to fix that, if he is happy that way. Nia seems to want to prove
that he isn't, and has no right to be. And all because he doesn't see things the way she does. It's precisely the way she attacked his views that has led to his disillusionment. It's that strongarming philosophy of: "You better love me because I'm a woman, or you are forever damned." She said it herself in so many words. Most of the material that feed comedians' sets are more or less tapped from the same vine. Her husband is one of the most egregious.
Nope the French say : "mieux vaut être seul que mal accompagné" " better to be alone than mal accompanied " Take care of you .... yeah sure !! You make my point ... you are alone by choice to work on yourself ... but this man "angry LITTLE man" (that is how you talk about him). Really . You drop the ball .
Wait, do you think anyone gets a say in who us attracted to them? Thats not how attraction works. I can control who I'M attracted to, not who's attracted to me. Thats mind control lol
Do you have a romantic relationship yet. This little man is making big money
Ok dr. Phil
He may not be thinking this way outside this hole hes in. Whatever happened may be rly fresh. Ppl lash out when they are deeply freshly hurt. Give dude some time an his head will straighten out. Hes young an probably loved the wrong person too hard.
please react to Patrice Oneal- Time Ho and Respect the Bicep
i am just the wrong person to ask i feel. my last serious relationship was 2 years ago (went on for about 3 i think). and since then i am good. i rather stay alone. nothing has changed about that so far.
I don't get women searching out abusive males.
I would date bigdaddymomo she is gorgeous.
Awww I'd date you!! You're adorable in that picture 🐧☺️
@@BigDaddyMoMo1 if only i was as cute as that penguin. i would be so lucky.
02:49 She might be trying to be funny, but this is actually true. Check the CDC for "Forced to Penetration" sexual assaults.
do you think the statement, you are attracting those kinds of people? does that apply the other way too? can we say that's who you attract when women complain about men?
Yes
Equivocating
Love goodluck lol your funny a** f^**
Morning sunshine 💋🦄💋🦋🌈🦋💜😎
I dont think relationships are overrated, marriages abit maybe.
But i'm not attracting anyone :(
Never in my life have I seen a woman stick by her man, it's more about status and a overall what a guy brings. Either it'll be emotions or too much emotions.
Women dominate in my family and our whole family is corrupted.
He did not say all women literally said most
MoMo you are too gorgeous
I am like you...single...I checked out about 5=6 years ago...I am all done. Do I want a woman? Sure...but the juice is no longer worth the squeeze lol I would rather remain single, travel the world and be happy.
Welp, first off he is a comedian, and any woman who disagrees with what he says should keep in mind exactly what kind of comedy he does. He is not the sweetness and light kind of comedian. If you are all about womans rights, you need to listen to all of his skits to get the undertone of truth he brings out in all of his material. Also he often says he may be wrong about some of the things he says. So it isn't all about being mature or not. Listening to him makes you realize his style is not only negtive, it has an angry tone to it. Being a comedian is an act, and your objective is to make people laugh or at the very least think outside the box. It is also his personality based on experiances. I can't take any offence at what he says because of the reasons stated above. I know it's not personal and I don't take it as such. As I see it, neither should anyone else.
You should definitely try voice over work...if I close my eyes you're like 5 different people at least lol
😂😂 I actually used to do that lol
I Only recomend lonley Lifestyle if you are truly allergic agenst People. I cant handle ppl longer then a hour so i safe that hour to my family. Took time for me to cut friends and Work collauge away and im less stressed after doing that. But those say they want that to hide their hurt and needs are dumb. Dont get why they are lying???
Billy overrated himself as a grilled cheese sandwich. He’s more like white toast. 😂😂😂 I can never say those mean/bad words to my lady. I know he doesn’t really mean it, but I just can’t.
I think it's hard to balance what is wrong with you are a person, the people you are choosing to date, the way you are handling those relationships, and what you actually want out of that relationship (being honest with yourself). Like if it's a one night stand be honest with yourself and if you want to make it real do that and express it, but women and men hating each other based on their own baggage is just plain immature. You have tons of single mothers out there and tons of lonely guys (some of whom are fathers). Sounds like you all need to figure it out. Guys need to be more comfortable dating mothers (yea the kid isn't yours and its a burden) and women need to date average men instead of high value men (sweetie if you were a prize you wouldn't be available). I've also seen that women who have a career and make tons of money also end up alone or jaded with men. The issue I have with this is that they think men care how much money they make (some do, but most want to live a purposeful life).
These young women have been lied to that they need a career and that they need freedom from men, but they've only shrunk their dating pool by making more money. Most divorce happens because the women initiates it and often a point of contention is that the man is making less then her, "He isn't ambitious enough". I want women to go out and make money and be free, but also not judge the value of their man by his ability to make money. However If you are going to do that face the consequences of making that bag.
The feminist take bites.
Hello MOMO xoxo 😘 me and you are on the same page I agree with you 💯
Hey Analyn!! Right! I appreciate you xo
@@BigDaddyMoMo1 Weird Question lol but what’s your horoscope?
@@AnalynC1229 not a weird question at all! I'm a Libra! ♎ What about you?
@@BigDaddyMoMo1 nice 😊 I’m a Capricorn ♑️
Nia is muy brutale.
This is so funny. Mia is the only woman in the world that can tame that animal LOL.. "You short side moron" LOLOLOL Love Mia
I understand some of this guy’s frustrations. However, he’s allowing his frustrations to affect his entire worldview. And it’s a very angry and unfair one.
Why is it all women’s? When did it start being women’s? Women is plural already.
this guy sounds like he’s been watching too many “red pill” videos so yeah immature. regarding romantic relationships, they’re not overrated. you might think that because you are focusing too much on failed relationships or have been in one that it seems that way.
that mentality contradicts being close to people that love you and you love because eventually, you become the third wheel. they end up in relationships with families and being happy. when will you form your own family (romantically with children, not substituting with pets and friends)? of course, finding the right one for it. i saw a couple crossing the street, they must’ve been in their mid 80s, but they’re energy seemed like they were in their 20s holding hands and when they crossed, they man turned to the lady with a big smile and kissed her. i saw her their expression and i know they were completely in love. you can’t tell me that is overrated. i’m not in a relationship, but i know that’s what i want and i know that’s worth more than all the treasure in this world. that’s a true story about the elderly couple and it’s my motivation on being on the lookout for the love of my life
Equivocating?
😂😂
Bill tells the truth So get over yourself
life sucks without a compassionate life partner.
everyone is unique. quit trying to figure out women as a group. just figure out 1 woman at a time.
Who the f. made you queen? You are not the monarch of a constitutional monarchy, like Denmark, who can appoint a minister to speak for you. You are the Queen in your kingdom, so you appoint Nia, to speak for you. However, I feel women should not look for a limiting partner like a romantic one because of that fade over time. Women should look for a man, who can carry their worries for them, so they can get a good night's sleep.
@BigDaddyMoMo I think you should try to find love with me. As improbable as it might be. :)
I mean, who wouldn't/couldn't love a person as thoughtful, intelligent, funny and hardworking as you are. So impressive!
Omg you're so sweet 🥹