Minimalist Mistakes I Made | I WISH I KNEW THESE SOONER
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2023
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Today I'm sharing 9 things I'd encourage you to avoid as you pursue minimalism. These really helped me!
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"Eliminating an object that you don’t use from your space is no more wasteful than not using an object that is in your space." - A little gem right there... thank you for your wonderful videos as always... you often have so many new ideas or views that really is worth sharing and I´m so glad you do this through your videos :) XX
Aw! :)
I had to eliminate this mindset that giving things away for free is somehow my loss. Giving things away is how I gain back control in my life and it's also rewarding to know that it will be a gift to someone else.
I had not ever considered the concept of minimalism as a goal for myself, as I am just trying to stay afloat, amidst years of accumulation. I'm constantly battling fatigue and discouragement, mostly stemming from chronic illness, but determined to keep moving forward. I just had to stop, in the midst of kitchen de-cluttering, and let you know how thankful I am to have discovered your channel. I appreciate the reminder that life has so much more to offer than managing "stuff". I'm attempting to change my focus to the possibilities, rather than the drudge of the process. Your kind words, and gentle way of speaking are like having a friend alongside. I always smile when your closing words come around. I believe that you genuinely hope that we all "have a good rest of our day" : ) And I am genuinely thankful for you.
Amen to that 😊
Thank you! This comment means so much, because it really resonates-there have been so many times I feel like I’m so far off of where I want to be and a lot of that is related to my own fatigue due to chronic illness. This comment makes me feel so much less alone and like I do have a friend out there who’s in it with me! Thanks for the kind words. You got this. :)
Stop the incoming flow ✋ This is key
It is! For everyone who is struggeling with this: Start with yourself. Don't blame your in-laws for giving you unwanted gifts, really take a look on your own habits instead. What are you buying? Which free gifts do you collect?
I declutter every 3-4 months. It's what I need for maintenance. Sure, I usually get some unwanted gifts for Christmas or for my birthday. But they are not a big deal. The stuff I receive at those occasions and don't want or need in my life leaves my home within a week. The people who gave me the stuff meant well and it's not a lot of stuff. I had to work on what I bring into my home myself to reduce the incoming flow.
Might be a different situation if you have kids though.
Decluttering is such a long journey.
I did declutter two full shampoo bottles, 5 pieces of clothing and one pair of shoes today. I gave them to my colleagues at work. Hopefully I'll be closer to my personal goal by the end of 2023.
Amazing! It definitely takes time--I'm with ya!
Your comment really made me smiling❤
The "Collection control" and intake awareness is a constant battle. T❤he process of decluttering reminds me that if I bring something in I'll have to get rid of something else to avoid piling up again. This video is so helpful. ❤
So glad it finally someone touched on the topic of decluttering versus minimalism. And if you're always having to declutter, you're probably not minimizing what you bring into your home and what you're getting rid of out of your home so glad you touched on that❤
Your home should be featured in Architectural Digest Magazine. It’s so lovely!
Your #9 point was definitely the most important. My problem is people keep giving me stuff that I don’t necessarily need or want.
Totally agree!
For me, I need to focus on the real reality of why I am accumulating stuff. That is why I enjoy your videos. They remind me of truth and help to motivate me. Thank you!
You have shared so many nuggets that other minimalist youtubers leave out. This video was extremely helpful to me...especially if I'm "coaching" others as they try to minimize. I'm not a professional but I like to help out friends.
I keep thinking I can never be a minimalist but that's because I tend to hoard things. I do declutter but I am always collecting more things especially books. It's the aquiring that I need to work on.
Number 8 is great. Saying no so you can say yes to everything that is important to you. Let the yes be what guides you, just like the decluttering method where you select what you want to keep.
I wonder if this has something to do with the silent to do list (I would love to see a video from you on this topic btw). Surrounding yourself with things that you fullheartly say yes to surely creates a very special environment to flourish in.
I have been doing this minimalism thing for nearly ten years but I have never thought about it this way. Really thought provoking!
Thanks so much! And interesting points -- I completely agree!
Minimalism for me is having things that i love and use,also those that you only use 2 a year,if i love it,I'll keep it
Wow, this really resonates with me and inspires me to not give up on the changes I want to make in my life. I’m always struggling with discouragement because I feel like I’m just spinning my wheels. I’m going to listen to this on repeat. Thank you!
You never fail to bring fresh thoughts and ideas to this lifestyle we are all striving for…
Thanks Elin!
Greetings from Winnipeg, Canada
Thank you! Love to hear that I have some Canadians here! :)
Also enjoying your videos.
Greetings from New Zealand 🇳🇿
you have beautiful skin ❤❤
Can you make a video about your skincare/diet? That would be so helpful!
Liking your tips very much. Decluttering has been my lifelong goal and although I have done a lot, I still have too much and don’t want to have people over due to embarrassment.
Good video, and thanks for minimizing the background sound
Thank you for your ideas and suggestions for decluttering.
great video elin! thanks!!
Thanks for this, great advice, appreciate it.
this was a really helpful video.
Amazing advice as always!! You are killing it lady 💪🏻 look forward to your videos, perspective, and tips ❤❤
such good advices 😍
thanks for sharing 🎀
Another great video! Your points really made me think. Merci de Montreal ❤❤
Thank you.
Great points! A fresh look at the topic!
Thank you!
These are some great tips even for those of us that have been minimalist for awhile. Thank you again for your perspective.
Thank you so much!
The messy rooms, the unmade beds, those are things that should be addressed - if they are a source of discomfort. What I dont understand is : why is being a minimalist supposed to be the answer? Just make the bed!
I love your leather chair and footrest. Could you tell me it's details. I'm looking for a great reading chair 😊
Thanks! It’s from West Elm! A few years ago
Thanks also for deleting the negative comment from the ignorant viewer - was just responding to her 🤣 Some people just love spreading negativity. If you don’t have something nice to say, you should probably just shut your mouth :) Karma is real 😊
Actually what you said , our prophet Mohammad peace be upon him taught us this exact phrase” if you truly believe in Allah and judgement day say something nice or say nothing at all” !! Can you believe it ? 15 centuries ago !
Haha thanks! I actually didn’t delete it… they must have, but I’m definitely cool with that! Haha :) thanks for the support
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smart 🍪
Do you have a connection to Sweden? I noticed your poster with "Julita" in previous video 😊
Part of my family is Swedish and I still have family there! Love Sweden!!
@@ElinLesser Lovely. Thanks for your answer and your inspiring videos 🥰
Not so sure if people are addressing the WHY behind the clutter.
Do you work outside your home?
She’s a psychologist…..
What about jobs you don't like
You might have more money in the bank.
This has been the best and most practical help with minimalist living. It differs for everyone and the true reality tips are so spot on. Thank you for this